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  • what HAPPENED to Kris Wu and Big Bang?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 564

  • @zoeunlimited
    @zoeunlimited  3 місяці тому +68

    Who were YOUR biggest celebrity crushes?!!!
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    • @queenestherworld780
      @queenestherworld780 3 місяці тому +5

      Heyy lol i luv ur vids i dont have a celebrity crush u slay zoe

    • @cece8936
      @cece8936 3 місяці тому +9

      Literally anyone from skz and still are

    • @AmIReally_Here
      @AmIReally_Here 3 місяці тому +1

      @@cece8936YESSS✨🥰 hello Stay🫶🏻🫶🏻

    • @DontEvenTryThat
      @DontEvenTryThat 3 місяці тому +4

      I don’t really have a Kpop crush, I just like a group called ateez and my favorite member is Seonghwa

    • @txr4lovesu
      @txr4lovesu 3 місяці тому +3

      I don’t have a celebrity crush :)

  • @irissu02
    @irissu02 3 місяці тому +1658

    I'm sorry but like Seungri did not just have tax evasion but facilitated SAs towards woman with the burning sun so like i'm sorry but he's what hurt big bang the most

    • @ksb3829
      @ksb3829 3 місяці тому +68

      I mean yeah he was the face of the club, but none of his official charges had anything to do with Burning Sun. The Burning Sun CEO didnt get punished at all. And Jung Joon-Young's group chats were completely separate from Burning Sun.
      Too many scandals happening at once and they all kinda got mixed up into one, which was bad journalism at its peak

    • @vrvoid5147
      @vrvoid5147 3 місяці тому +73

      I was gonna say.. >.> why do people keep seemly "forgetting " about that ?? It's really serious FYI everyone o.0

    • @user-lf1vm6vc8s
      @user-lf1vm6vc8s 3 місяці тому +19

      LMFAO.. You just mixed up 3 different cases. IT'S 2024 and you are still confused about the case. How ignorant of you

    • @sjdess
      @sjdess 3 місяці тому

      @@ksb3829 No. Seungri was charged with supplying prostituted women to businessmen & he was active in the group chats where JJY shared r*pe videos. He was directly implicated in everything going on at that club.

    • @Agathe.May...
      @Agathe.May... 3 місяці тому

      Well she is right. Seungri is a bad person and there are text that involved him in the burning sun. Korean justice is a joke, that s why he ga almost nothing.

  • @Weird0Memer
    @Weird0Memer 3 місяці тому +926

    The roasting of Kris an by the news anchor was honestly one of the best parts in this entire video

    • @azenorperesse4830
      @azenorperesse4830 3 місяці тому +64

      He had freestyle before. Now he got the style but not the free . 😂

    • @aysha5488
      @aysha5488 3 місяці тому +20

      I laughed so hard at that part lmaoo

    • @jinnamonroll5684
      @jinnamonroll5684 2 місяці тому +1

      Timestamp pls

    • @lovely_psycho043
      @lovely_psycho043 Місяць тому +5

      That actually went hard, he's kinda crazy for that😂

    • @Hellokitty_391
      @Hellokitty_391 Місяць тому +4

      Bro needs to debut as a hip hop singer 😂

  • @purplepuff6300
    @purplepuff6300 3 місяці тому +668

    Like I love K-pop so much but I would never make it the centre of my life or have an unhealthy, delusional obsession 😂❤

    • @GummyIsNotArtsy
      @GummyIsNotArtsy 3 місяці тому +47

      yea exactly! I just like it as a relaxation! Whenever I'm stressed I can tune in a going seventeen episode get charged up and do my job as usual and go about my day.

    • @shanits123
      @shanits123 3 місяці тому +28

      I like kpop but I'm not obseesed. I like the music. I respect the idols and I know that I don't know them personaly and I'm glad to get to hear their music and seeing them reaching their dreams and the chemistry between them.
      I feel like kpop is a comfortable place to me.
      I know there are a lot of negative things in the industry like in any other thing but it also has a good things. At the end of the day, if you like the music, you can enjoy it.

    • @shanits123
      @shanits123 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Valentina2020_ I'm glad that's how you feel!

    • @oojoyy
      @oojoyy Місяць тому

      same I’ve been a kpop fan since like 2012 and I only have like 4 albums and I’ve went to like 3 concerts 😭

  • @abnd8025
    @abnd8025 3 місяці тому +1098

    I check up on my old Kpop crushes every now and then and I’m at the age where I really want them to be married. They’re in their late 30s/early 40s and I’m wondering why they aren’t married. You gotta find someone special and pass on those beautiful genes, my guy!

    • @U_quintessential.K
      @U_quintessential.K 3 місяці тому +24

      Agreed

    • @icanbeyourstar_690
      @icanbeyourstar_690 3 місяці тому +52

      Plastic surgery lol

    • @U_quintessential.K
      @U_quintessential.K 3 місяці тому +18

      @@icanbeyourstar_690 that's literally unrelated

    • @fictionlover695
      @fictionlover695 3 місяці тому

      Not everyone of them had plastic surgery. Those who did already had beautiful features to begin with. But Korea only considers 99% anime character looks as the TOP prettiest. Basically they are pretty people to begin with, Korea's standards for their idols are SO high they had to take surgery ​@@icanbeyourstar_690

    • @estherrani9838
      @estherrani9838 3 місяці тому

      ​@@icanbeyourstar_690😂😂😂

  • @ellijarvis4031
    @ellijarvis4031 3 місяці тому +623

    omg in middle school, I was OBSESSED with bigbang. especially g-dragon

    • @zoeunlimited
      @zoeunlimited  3 місяці тому +76

      🤝🏼🐉🔥

    • @yunzhu4815
      @yunzhu4815 3 місяці тому +31

      I still listen to their album and I have two kids now😂

    • @TheoneAlice
      @TheoneAlice 3 місяці тому +17

      still love them omg I miss them so much

    • @xx_chan_ibgdgn
      @xx_chan_ibgdgn 3 місяці тому +9

      I came to know about them last year and now gdragon became my most favourite artist of all time I just love that guy sooo much

    • @nathalieelsen7221
      @nathalieelsen7221 3 місяці тому +5

      Samee😂

  • @gwotaku01
    @gwotaku01 3 місяці тому +342

    Don't forget Seungri from Big Bang and the Burning Sun scandal!

    • @user-lf1vm6vc8s
      @user-lf1vm6vc8s 3 місяці тому +3

      Seungri case has nothing to do with the burning sun

    • @gwotaku01
      @gwotaku01 3 місяці тому +1

      He was the owner of the nightclub and the instigator of the group chat@@user-lf1vm6vc8s

    • @amylyparker6143
      @amylyparker6143 3 місяці тому +1

      @@user-lf1vm6vc8sshut up. Criminal defender

    • @LaVanilla19
      @LaVanilla19 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@user-lf1vm6vc8s check it out... you're in for a surprise.

    • @user-vn7vv8uz8f
      @user-vn7vv8uz8f 3 місяці тому

      Yes it does. It was conveniently left out. These people didn't fall out of favor for no reason. @@user-lf1vm6vc8s

  • @glen1742
    @glen1742 3 місяці тому +62

    It's tough being a person of colour and being into kpop. You know their society can be pretty racist to people and is generally pretty conservative. It felt like every dollar or view I gave to kpop it was supporting that as well and the system that makes idols that can be abusive.

    • @strawberrylime33
      @strawberrylime33 26 днів тому +1

      Yeah, it's rough to know I couldn't visit south Korea and feel included.

  • @alisainmagic
    @alisainmagic 3 місяці тому +100

    You have chosen a short-term parasocial relationship model, not a real person, but a persona created by a group of people, although it is correct to call it a choice, at the end of the day, that's all.

  • @slurp4495
    @slurp4495 3 місяці тому +159

    I think when you are going to make a video focusing on certain idols and groups, you should maybe do more research. I myself am not very well informed about the Kris Wu situation, but for Big Bang you left out the biggest reason why they had so much controversy: Seungri didn't just commit tax evasion, he was involved with the Burning Sun, a huge prostitution ring. While it's not clear what he did, THAT was the biggest reason for Big Bangs downfall

    • @HailToTheMeep
      @HailToTheMeep 3 місяці тому +9

      Agreed

    • @speaktruth9989
      @speaktruth9989 3 місяці тому +6

      Agreed

    • @pruitv4
      @pruitv4 3 місяці тому +4

      now try actual facts from official sources and not some problematic channels, he was never even accused of anything involving victims.

    • @pruitv4
      @pruitv4 3 місяці тому +2

      you making up so many false accusation against seungri just shows that you dont care one bit about real victims of actual cases, no prostitution ring exists in his case, he was not involved with burning suns case one bit nor was that club accused for anything related to prostitution either, the biggest reason for bigbangs downfall are dsgsting haters like you.

    • @renaria3160
      @renaria3160 3 місяці тому

      You're disgusting. You're really just outright gaslighting the integrity of us now. shut up@@pruitv4

  • @Yeodoongiiie
    @Yeodoongiiie 3 місяці тому +282

    my crush didn't go anywhere. its alive and well 😍 haha will never break up with shinee 💕💕

    • @zoeunlimited
      @zoeunlimited  3 місяці тому +72

      they're awesome!!

    • @Lady_Kunoichi
      @Lady_Kunoichi 3 місяці тому +4

      Yes! 💎💎💎

    • @jaja11125
      @jaja11125 3 місяці тому +12

      Even after watching this video I can't imagine Taemin hurting a fly 😂

    • @melissaweiss
      @melissaweiss 3 місяці тому +2

      💎💎💎💎💎💯

    • @christinathea5737
      @christinathea5737 2 місяці тому +9

      @@jaja11125 given the severity and gravity of those criminal topics in this industry, id be very careful and wouldnt dare to suggest/claim that - out of all - my idol specifically is an absolute angel.. proves to show the whole point of this rotten entertainment industry

  • @Tomtom12654
    @Tomtom12654 3 місяці тому +72

    Really important topic to discuss. I think K-pop fan culture is a unique and special thing as long as it remains within certain boundaries, and as long as the fans themselves can have a happy and healthy life (and relationships) outside of their interest/passion for K-pop. Like everything in life, it’s all about finding a healthy balance. Thank you for this video. 🙏

  • @ravenknight554
    @ravenknight554 3 місяці тому +102

    Still obsessed with EXO. And chanyeol has been my bais since 2014 🫣

  • @TinaJung0218
    @TinaJung0218 3 місяці тому +19

    I think it happens in real life too when many people fall in love with the imaginary portrait of someone instead of their real self

  • @shanits123
    @shanits123 3 місяці тому +59

    I don't have a celebrity or kpop crush. I just respect the idols and love to hear their music. I also know that I don't know any idol personaly, I'm just a person who can be comfort and get excited and happy by hearing their music.

  • @Itsssrebecca
    @Itsssrebecca 3 місяці тому +157

    Thank you for speaking up about this and i’m an army 💜, supporting the boys as they finish their military service 🙏🏻. Also I notice the members are defending themselves more from fans who cross over their boundaries and try to baby them. I’m glad because they are grown men and not perfect.

    • @shanits123
      @shanits123 3 місяці тому +5

      I agree with you.

    • @thv_rgh
      @thv_rgh 3 місяці тому +2

      I also agree

  • @atinymulti
    @atinymulti 3 місяці тому +31

    my childhood celebrity crush was Fall Out Boy especially Pete ever since 2005 ❤ even to this day I still very much enjoy their music

  • @lur.516
    @lur.516 3 місяці тому +10

    Coming back from school and chilling on your video 🍿🎥📺 is the perfect combo :)

  • @ksl5312
    @ksl5312 3 місяці тому +57

    I'm saying this as a victim of sexual harrasment myself. For me, the issue of sexual abuse and harassment matters the most cuz I have been through it. And it gives the worst pain both physical and mentally, it also very hard to overcome the suffering that we have to go in the process. I don't think in my opinion that the victims of SA get enough justice and it's really tiring. These young girl fans actually don't understand what a SA victim goes through in reality. Also, the fact that they literally drugged and abused those girls while they're not conscious shows a very predatory behaviour and all of those girls were "MINORS". I could also get the fact that these predators want to manipulate the girls. We all know that minors are easily manipulated that's why the laws are being better and keep us safe. Also a lot of SA reports are not informed due to misconduct. Also asian countries, are not a good place for a better for a woman where crimes against women are that much common.

  • @zahrabaig1363
    @zahrabaig1363 3 місяці тому +23

    I became an exol last year... I can't wait for all the members to complete their military enlistment. I thought they were a 9-member group until I dug I little deeper and found out what exo and exol have been through. I will wait for them and will always support them...

  • @AmIReally_Here
    @AmIReally_Here 3 місяці тому +149

    My kpop boy crushes( stray kids) are serving C*NT at the fashion week💅✨ volunteering for UNESCO, donating to animal shelters, loving their friends and families and working hard. I am so proud of them. This doesn’t mean that the fear that someday I will find out they are horrible people isn’t there. I am scared, because they mean a lot to me and they inspire me❤️💓

    • @prmtv
      @prmtv 3 місяці тому +27

      While no one is perfect and we all know they love giving fan service because they enjoy making the fans happy and connecting with us, lol, those boys truly do love and care about their fans. You don't need to worry about them being horrible people. Chan raised them better than that 😂

    • @AmIReally_Here
      @AmIReally_Here 3 місяці тому +8

      @@prmtv EXACTLY THANK YOU! Also, Hi STAY🫶🏻

    • @prmtv
      @prmtv 3 місяці тому +5

      @@AmIReally_Here Hiiiiii 👋 ❤😊

    • @DarkCrimsonCora
      @DarkCrimsonCora 3 місяці тому +10

      Hello Stay! I hope they will have somewhat normal lifes (they can be gay) with family and kids, because the industry is scary/screwed up and most artists just lose themselves.

    • @AmIReally_Here
      @AmIReally_Here 3 місяці тому +5

      @@DarkCrimsonCora Hi Stay🫶🏻 I also wish for them to be happy and healthy and have normal lives 🥹🥹💓

  • @1224thetami
    @1224thetami 3 місяці тому +33

    TVXQ was THE craze of Korea back in the day (even nowadays they and the former members) are like the standard of idols. One of them turned out to have accusations of SA/R toward multiple prostitutes. He was acquitted in court. It was a mess and it broke the heart of fans and it totally shocked Korea. I was a fan of the group, I no longer am a fan since the group splitted in 2009, my bias was (and still is) Xia Junsu, I'm already 34 and I've been a fan of Junsu since I was 17. I'm very proud of my boy(man)

  • @jigglycarollo805
    @jigglycarollo805 3 місяці тому +17

    My childhood celebrity crush was Natalie Portman and now she owns the rival soccer team to the one that I write about. Which, compared to what some others around here have, is pretty great.

  • @Klara.190
    @Klara.190 3 місяці тому +17

    I agre with what you said. It's just true. But kpop taught me one thing. Stand for what you like. I found kpop like in my 12 years and I had big problem that everyone is like ewwww, you like this? So after a long time I lerned that you will accept me or just leave. Just learned that being judged is not bad and others people options doesn't have to take what you like from you ❤️

    • @yoriex3577
      @yoriex3577 3 місяці тому

      Hey kommst du auch aus Deutschland? :)

    • @christinathea5737
      @christinathea5737 2 місяці тому +1

      Not that youre wrong about the message.. but given the severity and gravity of those criminal topics being dealt with in this video.. seems like youre downplaying that or shifting the focal point of this video

    • @Klara.190
      @Klara.190 2 місяці тому

      ​@@yoriex3577no, from czech republic 😄

    • @Klara.190
      @Klara.190 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@christinathea5737sorry if you got it like this, and no, I don't mean it like that. Just saying that it helped me when I was young, I know that bad things are happening, I'm just saying, don't be upset please 😄❤️

  • @christinathea5737
    @christinathea5737 2 місяці тому +5

    its fun and relieving to see in the comments that people actually do grow out of the kpop craze! quicker than i anticipated but also ive never anticipated that

  • @slug3542
    @slug3542 3 місяці тому +11

    After watching this video went to check in on some of my childhood favorites and found out they’re actually doing really well…so that’s good.

  • @ANASTASIAxoxo19
    @ANASTASIAxoxo19 3 місяці тому +22

    As a loyal V.I.P i'mma always love BIGBANG (WITHOUT seungri, never loved him since 2007 even, i just knew he was something negative and my gut feelings were right)
    Gdragon was the one who influenced me the most. He is a lyric genius, hardworking, and paved the way with his Talent and hardwork. Not just some nepo kid, or with looks etc.
    G-dragon is my only hope who would i guess revive the k-pop

  • @Thistrueone
    @Thistrueone 3 місяці тому +6

    I feel like your editing style has improved a lot because now it's not boring to watch, but it is also not too visually stimulating. :)

  • @corry9
    @corry9 3 місяці тому +12

    Girl,in the 7th grade I was crazy about Tyler Posey😂 Then High school hits and I become a huge fan of the boy band PRETTY MUCH. Then i discover Kpop and...yeah, we know how it goes from there😂 It really sucks you in😂😅

  • @fridaalmaraz6381
    @fridaalmaraz6381 3 місяці тому +55

    In the case of T.O.P., the weed smoking happened before his military service, but the accusation emerged while he was in the militarily. And the toll it took on him was insane.
    GD's drug use allegations in 2023 was a case of police overreach, in the same case that drove Lee Sun-kyun to suicide.
    The Still Life comeback has a perfect all-kill despite having zero promotions (and the fact that the members probably never even saw each other while recording). In hindsight, it feels pretty much like a goodbye song.
    And Seungri's "scandal" reduced to a tax evasion case, with no mention of his connections to the Burning Sun trafficking accusation? or even his friendship with the Kakao chatroom group?
    There is a lot of context missing in this video that a tiny bit of research would have provided. "I'm not diving too much into this" is the perfect description. I understand the point Zoe was trying to make but the oversimplification and lack of research detracts from it.
    To wash off the annoyance from this video I'm gonna go watch Daesung's new music video.
    P.S.... was this whole "idol" video just an excuse to match the content to the sponsor?

    • @caitthecat
      @caitthecat 3 місяці тому +8

      Have you actually done the research, though? I'm guessing you haven't. Most people don't actually know the ins and outs of the scandal, so it's good it didn't come up. I believed what everyone else believed until I took a deep dive myself. There was no evidence there was any trafficking at burning sun, but the cops had to satisfy the public and charge the most recognizable of the club owners with something. Turns out though that no judge would sign a warrant for his arrest for trafficking because there was barely any evidence, so sending it to trial would be a waste of the court's time. However, the military court took up charges for lesser crimes, even though there was little evidence for those, as well (they're a notoriously unfair court, but that's a whole other paragraph). It should be obvious by now with the GD and LSK drug investigation that the SK police and justice system bring famous people into an investigation because it improves their precinct's reputation, and once they're brought in, they need to satisfy the public with a show of justice. That's exactly what happened with burning sun. This info is out there and easy to find. There's a SK lawyer on youtube somewhere who breaks it all down.

    • @oqeufh
      @oqeufh 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@caitthecat Exactly, Seungri was being investigated extremely thoroughly for AGES. It's just weird that the court would drag on the investigations for a particular individual this long even after the actual cases he was supposedly involved in closed too, they just kept trying to get something out of him. There has been plenty of instances when the justice system in Korea has been sketchy as heck, just look at the Lee Sun-Kyun case. This system seems like it goes with what the public is accusing rather than with actual proof, which is literally killing their celebrities off. Public's like; okay, now this celebrity is cancelled, for whatever reason, and the justice system will literally not rest until they actually find something against them. It's insane if you think about it, it's like society is basically deciding the fate of these celebrities because a mass majority hates them.

    • @butterflyyyyxxx
      @butterflyyyyxxx 3 місяці тому

      police already said that seungri doesnt have anything to do with burning sun and the guys from the molka gc was friends with half the industry, even so jjy have said that he hasnt been incontact w him for years.

    • @pruitv4
      @pruitv4 3 місяці тому +1

      now try actual facts from official sources and not some problematic channels, he was never even accused of anything involving victims.

    • @i_love_piano6322
      @i_love_piano6322 Місяць тому

      Yeah, right, there was no trafficking, just girls were drugged and r*ped while being unconscious. And VIP-clients of this club were rich and powerful asian men: businessmen, celebrities, government and police workers. Of course Seungri was "poor innocent man", that didn't know what was happening under the roof of HIS club, and his powerful friends didn't help him cover all that shit

  • @ancairinadumitru3306
    @ancairinadumitru3306 3 місяці тому +4

    So once upon a time my kid discovered k-pop, while her friend discovered One Direction. The fans of One Direction were so thrilled when two of the boys moved with their girlfriends at the time, and the youngest fans were already thinking excitedly about the future babies of the two couples. Meanwhile, the k-pop fans... Where an idol just being seen next to someone from the opposite gender counted as "scandal"...

  • @aliyaler9406
    @aliyaler9406 3 місяці тому +50

    Божечки, тема k-pop действительно нескончаема (и меня это радует 😃))
    Если честно, то история с Крисом Ву - это просто жесть. Заставляет задуматься о том, кто такие айдолы на самом деле и как же отличаются их сценические образы от реальной жизни

    • @byDEVITA
      @byDEVITA 3 місяці тому

      Его подставили

    • @tatyanicktheone7387
      @tatyanicktheone7387 3 місяці тому

      А он когда-то сильно отличался на сцене? Высокомерный, резкий, нарцисс. Это всё видно с дебюта было.

    • @aliyaler9406
      @aliyaler9406 3 місяці тому +4

      @@byDEVITAда, продолжайте оправдывать насильников из-за красивой внешности))0)0)0)

    • @aliyaler9406
      @aliyaler9406 3 місяці тому +2

      @@tatyanicktheone7387ну, быть нарциссичным и любоваться собой на сцене не означает быть плохим человеком)
      Правда, не в его случае, как оказалост

    • @i_love_piano6322
      @i_love_piano6322 Місяць тому +1

      Ага, на первый взгляд всё такое милое, а копнешь чуть глубже... Молодых девчонок и мальчишек подкладывают под богатых извращенцев, морят голодом, изматывают до изнеможения. Неудивительно, что у айдолов из СМ вечные походы на тот свет, у УГ скандалы с веществами, а из ДЖУП айдолы бегут, роняя тапки, едва контракт закончится.
      Впрочем, ничего удивительного, вся система изначально строилась на гнилом основании, а одним из строителей был мужик, который любил мальчиков нестандартной любовью.

  • @MIMI-tf9hv
    @MIMI-tf9hv 3 місяці тому +90

    You're foul for putting G-Dragon in the thumbnail with an actual sex offender 💀

    • @wardazia6846
      @wardazia6846 3 місяці тому +6

      Please he was a drug addict and Seungri was very close with all big bang members and knew them for more then 10 years before the burning sun scandal came out. So you would be a fool if you think that the other big bang members had nothing to do with the scandal or did not even know about it when many bigger names such as politicians and higher ups in the Korean judicial system were a part of it.

    • @MIMI-tf9hv
      @MIMI-tf9hv 3 місяці тому +13

      @@wardazia6846 ah yes, guilt by association. A classic! Also a drug addict? Disgusting! What a horrible person that makes him!

    • @POP-nm1ix
      @POP-nm1ix 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@wardazia6846You got any proof for any of ehat you said? Lots allegations but I'm no seeing any links.

    • @xx_chan_ibgdgn
      @xx_chan_ibgdgn 3 місяці тому

      @@wardazia6846 Not sure about him but you definately seems to be pretty high to think he is drug addict when all his test results came negative and yeah he is acquaintance with seungri that doesn't prove anything gd only worked with seungri for the BB outside he didn't give a damn about his business, literally gd wrote song on how seungri had bad frnds also in many interview he openly warned and criticised seungri to not become greedy and ruin grps image.
      And what an ignorant and pathetic person are you to accuse him with these serious allegations without any proof why don't you double check the facts before commenting bs on social media.

    • @xx_chan_ibgdgn
      @xx_chan_ibgdgn 3 місяці тому +1

      @@wardazia6846 Not sure about him but you seem pretty high to think him as a drug addict when all this test results came negative and yeah he is acquaintance with seungri that doesn't prove anything he only worked with him for the BB outside he didn't know what he was doing, gd literally wrote a song on how seungri had bad friends and in countless interviews he openly warned and criticised him for being greedy and not to ruin the grps image.
      What an miserable and pathetic person are you to make these serious allegations on him without any proof why don't you double check your facts before commenting bs in social mdeia

  • @tokioblxes
    @tokioblxes 3 місяці тому +53

    G-Dragon literally did nothing? Why is he next to a sex offender? 🙄

    • @bhaavyabangotra4894
      @bhaavyabangotra4894 3 місяці тому +3

      Drugs

    • @crystalross7943
      @crystalross7943 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@bhaavyabangotra4894 Weed, not a hard drug. But illegal.

    • @tokioblxes
      @tokioblxes 3 місяці тому +8

      @@crystalross7943 are you comparing sexual abuse towards women with smoking weed?

    • @crystalross7943
      @crystalross7943 3 місяці тому

      @@tokioblxes No, the previous comment just had 'drugs' which is a list of things. But it was just weed. Bad but as long as your not operating heavy equipment it's as bad as some of the harder things they could be on. But the netizen have been on a witch hunt with YG artist for a while. They even cancelled Bom for medication she got from her doctor. I was expecting more on Seungri when she brought up Big Bang, he was pimping out prostitutes for money and clout.

    • @parkerisles7256
      @parkerisles7256 3 місяці тому +4

      @@tokioblxes They aren’t comparing the two, just adding context about what substance he was using. Weed is legal/not a big deal in western countries but many asian ones put it on the same level as cocaine/meth. South Korean society is very anti-drugs (especially at the time of the “scandal) even with prescription medicine. They were calling people (idols/celebrities in particular) who took adhd medication, antidepressants, sleep aids etc drug addicts and criminals.

  • @ANASTASIAxoxo19
    @ANASTASIAxoxo19 3 місяці тому +31

    I became a V.I.P around late 2007
    And trust me, i always got negetive vibes from only 1 member that was Seungri. Even the rest of the members " G-dragon/taeyang/top/daesung " dropped hints about senugri and his problematic friends.
    They knew seungri was in fault.
    So i never stanned or even appreciated his singing skills in any songs fr. The rest members really wanted seungri to leave the negetivity and focus on his career. But seungri never understood the members' concern.
    And later, he fuked up
    BIGBANG WAS THE MOST INFLUENTIAL K-POP GROUP TO EVER EXIST IN THE K-POP INDUSTRY TILL NOW.
    its my genuine request to not make an opinion about the other BIGBANG members just because of a rotten piece in the band.

    • @TheoneAlice
      @TheoneAlice 3 місяці тому +4

      omg yeah, we were making fun of him all the time and it's about how weird he is with women. I was not surprised when I first heard the news. He really looked like someone who would have such a character, really. I'm surprised at the people who support him.

    • @xx_chan_ibgdgn
      @xx_chan_ibgdgn 3 місяці тому +2

      Exactly my point I became a BB fan last year so it was easy for me to ignore seungri I really don't care how much if he is involved but one thing is sure he was not at all innocent and it was so evident if we watch their old interviews every member was concerned and they were so sure he would do something like that they tried to warn him many times but that man choose to be greedy and ruined everything he really owes a big fat apology to the grp members.
      And some ppl just declare the whole grp as criminals, and discredit the grp's success which is not at all fair, you just can't blame the innocent ppl who has nothing to do with the case

    • @user-lf1vm6vc8s
      @user-lf1vm6vc8s 3 місяці тому +3

      Claiming to be a VIP who knew nothing about the case. Irony

    • @ANASTASIAxoxo19
      @ANASTASIAxoxo19 3 місяці тому +1

      @@user-lf1vm6vc8s I know about it from A to Z. I guess I must inform you too, cuz you look DELUSIONAL

    • @GoldenWreck
      @GoldenWreck 3 місяці тому +2

      @@user-lf1vm6vc8s Going around trying to convince people they don't know what they're talking about when they clearly do is peak fan obsessed lowlife behaviour.

  • @bibo5817
    @bibo5817 3 місяці тому +4

    Love your videos so much zoe 💕
    My crush was suga form bts, i still love him but when i was younger I was obsessed 😭

  • @Rasanol419
    @Rasanol419 3 місяці тому +18

    Gurl seriously being a new nctzen... Crushing is like a hard thing to get over things.
    Lowkey questioning myself rn

  • @chailatecookies7341
    @chailatecookies7341 3 місяці тому +1

    I loved the news anchor reading Kris 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @axcelzedd
    @axcelzedd 3 місяці тому +6

    For me whenever kpop loses its authenticity and tries to become western is just a turn off

  • @cece8936
    @cece8936 3 місяці тому +1

    Early!! (I think) love your videos!!❤❤

  • @Angela-zq3rl
    @Angela-zq3rl 3 місяці тому +5

    Gdragon is my everything and I love Gdragon I'm so happy he is finally come back 🌼 I love you so much GD oppa

  • @user-is3yn7xr4c
    @user-is3yn7xr4c Місяць тому +2

    I do love Kpop still. I become a Kpopper in 2008. What I love about kpop is not the fans nor people like you. What I love about kpop is the superior quality music videos and heavenly aesthetics' standard and also awesome dances.

  • @verarose1652
    @verarose1652 3 місяці тому +4

    news anchor needs to debut his bars were flamesssss

  • @xx_chan_ibgdgn
    @xx_chan_ibgdgn 3 місяці тому +8

    I came to know about bigbang last year and I can't explain in words how much I love gdragon obsession is an understatement😂 the love and respect I developed for gdragon I never had for any artist

    • @bDwaekkichan
      @bDwaekkichan 2 місяці тому +1

      G dragon hits differently he is a sweet heart ❤️

    • @barbiegirlfashionsta
      @barbiegirlfashionsta 21 день тому

      🥰💖KIM GARAM IS SO PRETTY SHE BECOMES A FAB SOLOIST LIKE SEO SOOJIN AND I WILL BE SO HAPPY🥰💖

    • @xx_chan_ibgdgn
      @xx_chan_ibgdgn 20 днів тому +1

      @@bDwaekkichan exactly that man is a different genre

    • @bDwaekkichan
      @bDwaekkichan 20 днів тому

      @@xx_chan_ibgdgn indeed

  • @Maesworldss
    @Maesworldss 3 місяці тому +3

    Hii! I love watching you're videos!

  • @kookies_lodge525
    @kookies_lodge525 3 місяці тому +1

    me watching this and still loving kpop :) But still, this video was so good, i love your reflections

  • @glen1742
    @glen1742 3 місяці тому +12

    Did she just make a 20 minute video and not mention Seungri's involvement with Burning Sun?

    • @renaria3160
      @renaria3160 3 місяці тому

      I was waiting. I don't know how I saw sum on G Dragon but nothing on Burning sun.

    • @pruitv1
      @pruitv1 3 місяці тому +1

      simply because she uses official sources and like pretty much every koreans know that he wasnt involved with burning suns case.

    • @glen1742
      @glen1742 3 місяці тому +1

      @@pruitv1 if pretty much every Korean thought that way then Seungri would still have a career as a celebrity right now.

    • @pruitv1
      @pruitv1 3 місяці тому +1

      @@glen1742 there are many other issues at play but if you were in sk during that time and even now you can hear in many clubs and bars still play his songs wherever he went not a single person said anything bad about him its just the inetz as always who only use kpop for clout.

    • @glen1742
      @glen1742 3 місяці тому

      @@pruitv1 his music being played at clubs means nothing to me in regards to how the general public views him. If u want to believe that no one has a bad word to say about him then feel free to keep believing that.

  • @rollierollout
    @rollierollout 3 місяці тому +18

    Daesung from Big Bang literally just dropped a new song a few days ago! 🎉❤

  • @Stay_Bangchan_Fearnot_Yunjin
    @Stay_Bangchan_Fearnot_Yunjin 3 місяці тому +1

    You should talk about the burning sun case please

  • @WonderlandAlicexo
    @WonderlandAlicexo 3 місяці тому +4

    U-Kiss and Big Bang were my life, so nostalgic for those days

    • @crystalross7943
      @crystalross7943 3 місяці тому

      Right. U-kiss was my first K-pop group.

  • @yoonglevell2845
    @yoonglevell2845 3 місяці тому +7

    My childhood crush Lionel Messi is still Lionel Messi...
    And bts is in military... Yey!! ✌🏻

  • @ukiyo-e_inyo
    @ukiyo-e_inyo 11 днів тому +1

    My crush is still working he didn't go anywhere or do anything bad. Although I feel bad for them because they just got caught up in another ridiculous scandal.
    Saranghaeyo NCT 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @glassgirll
    @glassgirll 3 місяці тому +40

    4:52 Zoe you're a real one girl 😂🙌 but damn this chinese reporter went wild on Kris 😂👏
    thanks for the video keep going ❤🎉

  • @Cookie4u143
    @Cookie4u143 3 місяці тому +1

    omg your videos are soo good!!

  • @Youknowwho910
    @Youknowwho910 Місяць тому +1

    My real reason is that the quarantine ended and im not a teen anymore lol
    But still sometimes, thinking about kpop makes me excited and happy, eventho im no longer stanning

  • @taherakhan2111
    @taherakhan2111 3 місяці тому +2

    mine are scattered for now :') but I miss the old them and will do... but growing up sure let's u see from a dynamic perspective of how darl this k-pop culture is

  • @wolfkiller2211
    @wolfkiller2211 3 місяці тому +7

    Mine's dead. It's Jonghyun.

    • @chere100
      @chere100 3 місяці тому +4

      Shinee will always be a five member group. 😔

    • @Riyaaaa__621
      @Riyaaaa__621 2 місяці тому +1

      Seriously jonghyun left a void in Shinee

  • @Sushisushi77
    @Sushisushi77 3 місяці тому +8

    Army here, been one for about 8 years now, and its definitely changed.
    I still support them just as much, go around as many concerts as I can.
    I think their enlistment has definitely bought a new vision to the famdom.

  • @georgiannagreene8252
    @georgiannagreene8252 3 місяці тому +5

    When you just asked boy crush I was like, Andrew Keegan, and I learned he started a cult 🤣 And Jonathan Brandis, who committed suicide. 😢

  • @luckydeep2144
    @luckydeep2144 3 місяці тому +8

    Gdragon in the thumbnail is itching my neck!
    He is the least problematic member of big bang!
    Edit- Actually, people think he's problematic because how bold and uncaring he is (in a good way). He never tries to be perfect, always speaks his mind and is extremely talented.
    Kpop has these aces......kyuhyun, beakhyun, suga, mino, changbin and g dragon.

  • @Sztiable
    @Sztiable 3 місяці тому +4

    I still like EXO but I'm not in love with them anymore. Honestly, it made me admire them even more but not as husband material but as artists, the group is so talented, they have good music, their stage presence is awesome and the vocals, bro. I'm so happy that I can enjoy their music and their performances without the jealousy and other toxic stuff. I have my own life, they have their own life, my bias was (is?) Chen and when I found out he got married and has a little kid (now two) I was honestly so happy. Well we are all here for the same MUSIC, and it should stay like that.

  • @KPOP_IN_ENG
    @KPOP_IN_ENG 3 місяці тому +3

    19:29 OMG my comment about GD 😳
    Thank YOU~~~~~~🤧

  • @_just_nemo
    @_just_nemo 3 місяці тому +5

    Earlyy! Love u and keep making great vids

  • @houdabouabdallah7106
    @houdabouabdallah7106 3 місяці тому +2

    Amazing video love it

  • @naeyonii
    @naeyonii 3 місяці тому +2

    I love you zoe!!!❤❤

  • @amnakhuu
    @amnakhuu 2 місяці тому +2

    I stopped following kpop artist. They seem so unreal to me. I do love them but not like a Stan. Now I’ve learned to focus on my life instead of worrying about people who don’t even know me 😂 although I still listen to them in my free time.

  • @sosoprettysama
    @sosoprettysama 3 місяці тому +5

    Yaayy I'm early i really love ur videos ❤❤!!

  • @U_quintessential.K
    @U_quintessential.K 3 місяці тому +26

    Zoe your biggest fan right here!!!!

  • @nevadakostandini8268
    @nevadakostandini8268 2 місяці тому +2

    So I discovered kpop at first with girl groups then went into BTS and boys groups.To be honest ,I was into boy groups at first by their visuals and became obsessed,started to read fanfiction and create scenarios but I just destroyed my mental health.Then some stuff happened in my family which made me Never read fanfictions again.By the time I started hearing kpop boys music rather than focusing on their visuals.Nowadays I heard some theories about how kpop is part of illuminati.I mean some people believe at these and some dont but this made me kinda angry with the idols.Anyways the last months Im living pretty happy and Im not the obssesed kpop girl anymore fortunately.But yeah I just saw thet kpop was too toxic for me most of the time so I did put a limit to myself and Im pretty glad for that.

  • @peachpehx509
    @peachpehx509 3 місяці тому +3

    This is making me feel like shit when I realized I cried my heart out when he left exo…. Like… Girl, don’t waste your tears bruh.

  • @barbiegirlfashionsta
    @barbiegirlfashionsta 21 день тому

    💖😘GARAM IN DA THUMBNAIL IS FAB💖😘

  • @moonchild07613
    @moonchild07613 3 місяці тому

    Daymn when the Wu news broke out I was shocked. It even happened on my bday such bs😂 actually ruined my mood but at the same time i couldn't care abt it anymore😂 but it is interessting to see people talk about this topic

  • @ek7275
    @ek7275 3 місяці тому +2

    Is the editing different or is it me? I'm so confused by the close ups and Sound effects of the hands that I've had to go back and rewatch at least 5 times 😢😢

  • @norubi
    @norubi 2 місяці тому +1

    Could you please talk about the differences about boy crush for girls and girl crush for girls in the fandom?

  • @user-gz7id4fr7v
    @user-gz7id4fr7v 2 місяці тому +2

    is there anyone here who never felt like kris wu was attractive?

  • @saffyesperas2278
    @saffyesperas2278 28 днів тому +1

    I don’t know what happened to Super Junior or Shinee. Are they still making music? It is good that TOP and G-dragon are doing well, I am happy for them and TOP is my bias too.

    • @szilviabarany513
      @szilviabarany513 20 днів тому

      SuJu kinda stopped making music as a group, but didn't disband. The members are still active in the industry.
      And SHINee is doing great, still producing music every year, even during military service they were strong on solos. 🥰 Depending on when you stopped engaging with kpop, you might not know that SHINee lost Jonghyun in 2017, that was a sad time for the group 💎💎💎💎💎

  • @janjirawilliams1172
    @janjirawilliams1172 19 днів тому

    I'm speechless! You did got killer price on those outfits. When I first heard about Kris wu I can't decide whether to delete his songs from my playlist or not.

  • @iCookieChan1
    @iCookieChan1 3 місяці тому +34

    Oof hunties Seungri did so much more than "tax evasion" 😭🥲😬 thank God my boy crush was GD

    • @pruitv4
      @pruitv4 3 місяці тому

      now try actual facts from official sources and not some problematic channels, he was never even accused of anything involving victims.

    • @Hellokitty_391
      @Hellokitty_391 Місяць тому

      ​@@pruitv4how bout u watching rotten mango videos before defending s3xu4l ass4ulter? shame on you seriously.

  • @daniellarowe8326
    @daniellarowe8326 3 місяці тому +2

    i lovvee ur vids

  • @veralazarevic2029
    @veralazarevic2029 3 місяці тому +1

    Bigbang fan from 2015😃 It all started with kdramas, even if there are negative things as being fan there is always way to go in right direction... I'm learning Korean language

  • @peanutbutterontoast
    @peanutbutterontoast 3 місяці тому

    Your beautiful. Oh my.

  • @Theinfamouskiki411
    @Theinfamouskiki411 2 місяці тому +1

    Never understood parasocial relationships. Ive had crushes but not obsession with singers or actors and typically the crush lasted a year or less then on to the next one

  • @AxelMacopelli
    @AxelMacopelli 3 місяці тому +28

    If you're going to talk about Big Bang scandals, you should mention Burning Sun. 😬 People should watch Rotten Mango's episode on it. Seungri is a disgusting human being who definitely deserved more jail time

    • @HailToTheMeep
      @HailToTheMeep 3 місяці тому +5

      Typical 2nd gen stan. Erasing the biggest crimes while highlighting the smallest to fit a personal narrative.

    • @AxelMacopelli
      @AxelMacopelli 3 місяці тому +6

      @HailToTheMeep truly. I find it odd that she mentioned Kris Wu's r*** charges, but decided not to even mention Burning Sun. You can love a group while condemning a former member. But to pretend like it didn't happen leaves a bad taste in my mouth 😐

    • @HailToTheMeep
      @HailToTheMeep 3 місяці тому +1

      @@AxelMacopelli Yep. Watch the possibility of this comment being deleted. Although as a big UA-camr she knows better than to remove “engagement” which always works in favor of the her algorithm.

    • @pruitv4
      @pruitv4 3 місяці тому

      now try actual facts from official sources and not some problematic channels, he was never even accused of anything involving victims it was already confirmed that seungri had nothing to do with burning suns case nor was he ever even accused of any crimes involving victims.

    • @pruitv4
      @pruitv4 3 місяці тому

      alone for bringin up that rotten thing who literally uses reddit as her source for that video and got xpsd for lying already shows that youre just as rotten as her, no other idol is involved in the whole scandal and yet she brought up many names no idol opened a club either and no club was ever accused for some prostitution ring and lets not forget that the actual culprit who hrssed a woman in burning sun is being called a hero by your rotten idol.

  • @KxC-FK6349
    @KxC-FK6349 Місяць тому

    I do fancy Suzy A / Hyuna/ or hell newest one Lisa.... i love your voice, its soothing

  • @Thaliacasanovach-
    @Thaliacasanovach- 3 місяці тому

    Not me waiting for you to comment on Chanyeol at the end ❤😂 and btw he is doing great ❤ big Yoda ❤ #Exol

  • @brownvirtue
    @brownvirtue 14 днів тому

    “Designed by the industry”

  • @Seayouandmethinkoutsidethebox
    @Seayouandmethinkoutsidethebox 3 місяці тому +8

    How she didn't talk about seungri shows how much it was covered up 😢 And if you see this Zoe watch a podcast called rotten mango and listen to the episode called the " burning sun scandal "

  • @onlykpopbl2551
    @onlykpopbl2551 3 місяці тому +2

    Me who loves watching these type of videos but still LOVES KPOP is so f*cking funny .

  • @parkerisles7256
    @parkerisles7256 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m just too old (96) to enjoy 4th gen and later (an influx of 2000s babies), I feel the age gap and a lot of the music is not my taste (there’s a couple songs I like but not many). The industry also feels like it’s being forced down our throats at this point, it takes weeks for me to get rid of unwanted/unsubscribed kpop content if I happen to see a single short. Companies are also making channels and spamming viewers with ads, as opposed to skits/organic content from idols/groups like The Rose. They’re also pushing idols to the forefront of media attention before they’ve had ample performing experience or training; causing extreme backlash and criticism against very young people or minors. They’re setting them up to have short careers imo.

  • @txr4lovesu
    @txr4lovesu 3 місяці тому +2

    7:46 this scandal sounds like the “Rammstein” scandal we had here in Germany last year (I didn’t know them before that scandal (I’m glad)) :)

    • @Alex-fs9vl
      @Alex-fs9vl 3 місяці тому

      Do you live under rock?😅

    • @txr4lovesu
      @txr4lovesu 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Alex-fs9vl noooo 🥹😂😂🫶🏻 I just don’t like German music, especially those kind of music

  • @yafitgoldberg8385
    @yafitgoldberg8385 3 місяці тому +2

    Cameron Boyce was my childhood hero though didn’t know much about him except his movies some inspirational words he said that he was Jewish so when died I felt like I lost a best friend I never wanted to marry him or had a crush lol just wanted to be his friend rip camron

    • @Enhypenlovre
      @Enhypenlovre 2 місяці тому

      OMG!! I know Cameron Boyce too😭 He was someone I deeply admired and respected❤

  • @panananananana
    @panananananana 3 місяці тому +8

    how did you totally miss out the bss...?

  • @marinsiebert
    @marinsiebert 2 місяці тому +2

    "YG is one of the hottest entertainment companies".......I'm sorry what?😭

  • @LilySlade
    @LilySlade 3 місяці тому +1

    Oh man I was a Huge Big Bang fan. T.O.P. For life

  • @mouhitorinoboku9655
    @mouhitorinoboku9655 2 місяці тому +1

    GD was my favorite member of Big Bang, I still get his solo music stuck in my head randomly sometimes. I loved Taemin of SHINee for a long ass time, I think that group was as close as i got to obsession, i can't even listen to their music after what happened to Jonghyun, it affected me that badly even though he wasn't my favorite member-- I even stopped listening to k pop for YEARS because of what happened to him and i'm still angry at how they treat their idols. but honestly i'm not hugely obsessed with any of these groups, especially now, i know a few songs and thats it, i dont really get obsessing to that level with real people as a rule... in the words of Xie Lian from heavenly officials blessing "be careful you don't believe in anyone too much... perfectly crafted illusions often shatter"
    people make mistakes, i dont expect anyone to be flawless, and thus, i consider most of them pretty eye candy and dont go deeper.
    literally Jonhyun's death affected me so badly that i broke down and cried when i turned 28 because i was a year older than he ever got to be, and it hurt to think about, he was so young, he didnt deserve that -honestly tearing up thinking about it- RIP Jonghyun.

  • @hadiashirzai5824
    @hadiashirzai5824 Місяць тому +2

    What should i do i don't want to be fan of anyone anymore bcz i know they cant be mine. at the end it will break my heart plz help me 😢

  • @foxtrotbibi
    @foxtrotbibi 3 місяці тому +1

    bro that reporter was DUNKING on Kris omfg 🤣🤣🤣

  • @szilviabarany513
    @szilviabarany513 20 днів тому

    My 2 main biases were always Onew and Taemin from SHINee.
    They just left their company, but I think they will be fine for the foreseeable future 🥰💎

  • @YourLocalPunkAnarchist
    @YourLocalPunkAnarchist 2 місяці тому

    As an aroace person who never had a crush (and honestly never liked pop or kpop and just found the video and thought it might be interesting, which it was although a bit concerning) I can at least talk about the people whose music or writing or art I enjoyed when I was younger, and I’d say I still like their stuff for the most part.
    I got into the punk scene at a very young age, met a few artists (usually on accident and then I’d be left in stunned confusion as I saw them walking on the stage, I mean like, we talked and had fun, maybe shared a drink or two, but then I see them on stage and my brain takes a few minutes to process it) although not all of them. The ones I did meet were extremely friendly, had some pretty entertaining stories, and were generally very kind to me and others, but I suppose it’s kind of different in a way as a cultural context. I was into anarcho-punk (still am) and there everything tends to be small, not a lot of fans usually, and no separation between the band and the people there listening, and sometimes everything is literally free (but some went for cost value cause y’know, gotta eat somehow), and it’s common to just casually talk to the artist or have a conversation with them at the same level with disregard for the fact that they’re in a band you really like, to just talk to them as a fellow person y’know? Faults and all. I’ll admit though, a lot of them had problems, some were relationship ones although that was much rarer than things like drug problems, otherwise uh… problems with the cops and governments for certain statements and actions. One guy wasn’t that great, constantly drunk or high, and always there for the drama and often starting it, desperate for attention, and he was self conscious about it and had some self hatred (notable in a decent amount of his songs) and I felt bad for him but also slightly disgusted, but I could recognise that the guy needed help, he just wasn’t ready to accept it yet (and he still isn’t and after signing onto a record deal those problems seem to have only gotten worse, self hatred being a much more common theme in his music) but I just hope he can get out of the exploitative loop and actually get the chance to better himself. Another guy was just drunk, kept on stealing from the people he cared about and pushing them away, but that was mostly due to self hatred and also because he was worried that if they got too close he’d either lose them like other friends or he’d hurt them badly, he did manage to get himself out of the self destructive loop though, runs a free of charge rehab facility for others in situations like his when he was younger (broke, homeless and hopelessly addicted), although he has some pretty hysteric reactions whenever drugs or alcohol are a bit too close to him (except thats because in the past he felt like if he didn’t drink he’d probably just off himself, now it’s because he feels like if does he will just relapse and maybe actually do it) which is just a trauma response I suppose. Another guy, well she’s a girl now, pretty happy girl, doesn’t drink as often anymore, and she still makes music and seems pretty happy, and I’m happy for her, even if it sort of fell apart at the start with her wife divorcing her but she’s at least much happier now than she was then. Another guy just turned out to be absolutely terrible but I didn’t know much about him and my dad was the fan of his music, but he was a drug addict and still is, just now widely hated. Another guy wrote about being homeless, he still is, but at least he’s happy I suppose? Another guy had his band fall apart so many times it has been through over 50 members, but he is still friends with most of them except for a few who ended up to be absolutely abhorrent people, but today he continues to be an activist for queer, animal, immigrant, women’s and people of colour’s rights as well as an anarchist, today he’s focusing on wars like whats happening to Palestine, trans rights, and things like climate change, he continues to make music and be homeless by choice (he lives in a van, like the stereotypical hippie van kind). A decent amount though, well, they committed suicide so, definitely not a happy end, especially for those that I actually met and talked to.
    As for why I know this much about them? Still in the punk scene, still listen to the music, I know a few and you check up on old friends normally, and I’m an autistic person who had punk as a hyperfixation when they were younger and honestly still does. (I still love dragons, books, anarchism and bacteria though.)

  • @dry_strawberries
    @dry_strawberries 3 місяці тому +1

    TOP saying he left Big Bang on my birthday is suprising