"There was so much in life that I couldn't control, the one thing I could control was the ability to try again". YES! So glad you did! Thank you so much for sharing your setbacks Rachel. You are such a brave and bold woman! My biggest struggle right know is, that I really want to work in a team with a food stylist, but feel totally uncomfortable by the thought of shooting with someone around me. But I will overcome this one! Thanks for all your encouragement!!!
I can’t believe how similar our journeys are. I too left my job after nearly 30 yrs thinking I could do food/product photography and make it a business. I failed and took a job that I really didn’t love. I didn’t last long in that one. My Mum got very I’ll and was in hospital. My relationship was not great. I then lost that job and my Mum ended up passing away. All these things happened in a matter of 2 weeks. I’m still trying to process all this. I’m still learning about food/product photography. Your video is what I needed to see. That I’m not alone..! So… Thank you for sharing your journey Rachel. Truly inspiring ❤️
I'm on the beggining of this road, on the level "who am I to take pics for money" and thank you for sharing your journey. It means a lot to me to know that it is possible to reach my goals anyway💕
Thank you Rachel for being so authentic and brave to share your journey. This is something I so deeply needed to hear today so thank you. Thank you for showing up even though I am sure it was challenging. Your words has given me the kick in the ass to show up everyday and to not let the self perfectionist part of me bulldoze all the successes I have had in my food photography journey. I am giving you a big hug. This food photography journey can sometimes feel so lonely so thank you for showing us your soul. I feel like it is finally ok to feel a bit lost with my next steps in this business but I am going to show up everyday and keep making steps forward. Much love Crystal
Thank you so much for being here Crystal. I know you share a little about this with me via email. If it's any help, I've been feeling lost for over a year with the challenges 2023 brought. I'm trying to be ok with the fact that it might take me about year before whatever it is that I need finds me. All we can do is keep showing up. Right there with you friend.
Rachel, I have no words to describe how much I admire your tenacity and strength. You are a beautiful soul with so much to give, a true inspiration. As someone who has suffered illness, near fatal accidents and other set backs, it is only now at age 40 that I am trying to make food photography my career. Imposter syndrome is debilitating at times but hearing this is giving me the confidence to at least try. Never doubt yourself again, you are an inspiration to so many. Stay you :)
Rachel, thank you for sharing this. I'm encouraged to keep going. I've had so many set backs...like taking a flight to a publishing meeting only for them to cancel an hour before the meeting! And having to move to another continent (twice!) right when I was getting going. Now trying to get my career going in Asia and I feel like I'm never executing what I envision! But alas, I'm working on it. Thank you to all these comments as well, I love being in this community with all of you. Thanks for bringing us together Rachel.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey.❤ I needed to hear this. I've been in food photography for less than 2 years but have already experienced a roller-coaster of emotions and endless set backs. Hearing your story has definitely encouraged me to not give up and show up for myself even though nobody else believes in me. You are a true inspiration to thousands of people like me, so thank you for letting us in on your journey and guiding us through the tough times. xxx
Thank you so much for sharing your journey. This deeply resonated with me as I've been going through similar things. My business was going well then my husband got a job interstate. I was actually looking forward to building up my business in a new city, but then I became the victim of a home invasion and was diagnosed with PTSD. Then a few weeks later we went into the first COVID lockdown. 2 years later I'm finally ready to start rebuilding my business but have been plagued by so much self doubt and the deep feelings of failure because I might need to get a part time job to support me along the way. That in particular is the thing that I am struggling with the most. I feel like a huge failure. But knowing you, such a wonderfully talented photographer, went through similar things makes me feel like I'm not alone. It's so important that we know we aren't alone on this creative journey. Thank you.
Oh I can so relate to what you are saying - and the teary eyes! Having your own business is not as easy as people think it is. Good on you for having the courage to share your story. I've been doing your composition workshop and was going to message you to say what a wonderful teacher you are, and I love the way you talk to yourself every now and then and make wee jokes. Your style really resonates - it might be because you're an Aussy and I'm a kiwi! Looking forward to completing more of your workshops in the future:)
I resonate with this so much! I’m only in my second year of working out my food photography business and I feel so many times I am holding myself back. I often feel like a failure and just wish these growing pains would be done with by now. I’m afraid to take on clients because I am afraid I won’t ever be good enough or the social situations of it just overwhelm me. But seeing someone else express the challenges they faced and to not give up is really encouraging. So thank you for sharing your story
I’m on year 2 of my journey after multiple office jobs not working out. I set extremely high expectations for myself and when they don’t work out it affects me emotionally and mentally. But listening to you, I realise I’ve worked with a lot of brands I wouldn’t dream of working with. Thank you for sharing Rachel, always a big fan of your work and your courses.
Congratulations on 10 years my love and what a raw and vulnerable share. You were one of my biggest inspirations when I first started and I'm so grateful to have had, at times, a front row seat to the magic you create. And the thing I have admired most about you as a person is the way you keep showing up and stacking wins. You are an amazing teacher and you have helped so many people find their way in this industry. Big love to you and I'll be over here cheering you on for another 10 years and beyond.
Thank you so much for sharing with us your journey, Rachel! I literally watched half of this video with tears in my eyes. What looks easy from a single instagram post is actually hard work behind it. I can’t tell how much I had and sometimes am still having these moments when I start to have doubts “what am I even doing in this business.” But I keep persisting in doing what I love to do no matter how hard it is especially when I see that I’m not alone in this. It lifts me up and keep reminding myself “you got this too!”
Rachel: You are a beautiful and talented soul, who is an inspiration to so many. We are so proud of you for sharing this honest and raw window into your journey, and love you so much!! 🤗
Rachel, thank you for sharing your journey. I actually got emotional here, listening to you. Thank you for the honesty, for the sharing, for all you do. I can actually say your one of my favorite educators, and I have learnt so much with you so far. It´s not been an easy journey here, I was a veterinary surgeon and I decided to follow my heart and here I am, with struggles but keeping on showing every day like you say. And there is joy too, there is love in everything I do, but of course many setbacks, some nos, things we can´t control. I guess this is life, and we grow each day, through sucesses and faliures. You are such a beautiful soul, an inspiration to so many of us, so thank you for keeping it real. Love. Inês from Portugal.
Thank you for posting this Rachel, I really admire your resilience ! You show me that I have to try harder instead of saying to myself that I can't do food photography full time ! I needed this, thanks again !
Thank you for sharing this Rachel, it's such a courageous move, and coming to realise that we are all human and that no matter how much we appear on the outside there is always a struggle beneath. I've been in the creative industry (not all of it photographic) for over 10 years and I still get those feelings of failure. Hearing you talk of your experiences and the barriers overcome just reinforces that feeling of not being alone, but how actually trying again and again is what counts. I remember way back I did some corporate photos for a client (for free even as I was only a designer at the time and mentioned that I had done photography for while now) and one colleague didn't want to have their photos taken which is fine but that's what I was tasked to do. And I remember coming in one day and they hadn't seen me come in but I overheard them say "oh anyone with a camera thinks they're a photographer, where are the lights the make up artists - thats what makes you a professional photographer" - something along those lines but obviously talking about me - so ultimately that feeling of failure came back ever strongly...but I digress - ultimately I want to say thank you for sharing, for your honesty and being an inspiration above all xxxx
Thanks for being brave enough to be transparent with your journey Rachel, it is so appreciated especially when it’s easy to fall into a comparison game and compare your chapter 1 to someone’s 100 or to forget that social media is a highlight reel for the most part. As they say, if it was easy everyone would be doing it. Somethings are easier said than done but your story has so many good reminders for us all! I’m also an Aussie who now calls Vancouver home. Thanks again and I’m a big fan of your work!
Thank you so much Kristy for being here! It wasn't easy to share but I am glad I did as you're totally right. Comparison to someone 10 years in isn't far on someone who is not as far on their journey. And yes, if it was easy, everyone would be doing it - totally agree! I hope you're loving Vancouver X
Rachel, thank you so much for sharing this honest and vulnerable side of your journey! So comforting to hear all of your setbacks, I realise that I’m doing just well, even though I’m struggling really hard, working part-time in retail the 4th year now and just not getting it done. 😩 I want to quit this job so bad, but I’m scared losing the financial security, because I’m on my own. Still building up that courage.
Thank you so much Rachel for sharing your story! I was crying while watching it, because it is exactly like that, and it hit me also not in my best period. When you try your best, do everything you can, and nothing seems to move that is hard to deal with it. I send you hugs!
Thank you for sharing, Rachel. You are such a hard worker and I've always admired your beautiful work and your approachability. I was at that conference that year (I believe it's the one you're alluding to), and I could see you rising in your journey. It's been a long, trying road for me. There have been many times when I've wanted to quit and get a job with a consistent paycheck. This year I've seen a real shift for my business. I know that when I focus on the business part of my photography, I get results. I'm learning to be less fearful and believe in my worth (this, after so many years). I've raised my prices and haven't looked back. I'm getting hired and I believe in myself and my skills. I appreciate all the knowledge that you've shared along this journey we are all in together. Thank you for being so transparent ❤️
This came up in the perfect time… me and my husband just got a HUGE set back where we drop both of our jobs to build our studio inside of a catering company to work everyday for them. After a week, the owner said she wanted to be in all the shootings but was too busy and that we couldn’t go on. Right now we are shattered, going back to do other jobs for the meets end and it tastes like failure 😢 In the back of my mind I hope to see this time in the future as a pivot point that changed everything. Thanks for sharing your experience and help us get through the challenges. You’re my favorite food photographer and I’m really glad you share so much on the educational side!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It can be so hard, when it tastes like failure, but the only thing we can control and trying again (when we are ready). We're in this together so don't give up hope :)
Sending my love and hugs to you, Rachel! What an honest and touching message. I lost my Dad two years ago, and that life event made me lose my mojo. I almost gave up on blogging. But a fire ignited from within, and I know my Dad had something to do with it. My Dad was all about persevering, so I know he sent his angels to get me back on track. As you said, sometimes something bad happens before we realize we need to do all good things again. It's part of life. It's part of growth. Thank you! And here's to us on the path to success! 💕
Thanks for watching Jocelyn and sharing a bit of your story with me. Death really is a big speed bump for creativity. I love that your dad sent his love from wherever he was so you could get back into it again. Hugs back.
"If you feel like things are hard, you are probably on the right path." - Exactly what I needed to hear today! Things have been busy in my personal life that I feel like my creativity is completely drained. After a few baking fails, I sat down wondering if this is the right thing for me. Wondering if what I'm doing is even feasible. But I will keep on showing up for myself. Thank you so much for sharing!
I am sorry to hear things have been tough, I feel like I have been in the same boat lately and things can feel hard. I know that when they do that I am pushing myself and not taking the easy road. So if we want things to happen, I do think we are on the right path. I can also tell you I feel down when I have cooked and styling messes. I give myself some grace and try again later. Thanks for watching Mary-Lou. It means a lot to me X
You are not alone, Rachel! It’s refreshing to see authenticity and braveness in sharing your story. It is also encouraging and it’s a gentle reminder that we also need to look after ourselves and be kind especially during difficult times when nothing is working. I am a passionate home cook, in love with Mediterranean food and discovered food photography last year, when, due to the pandemic, and being furloughed, I created a food blog as my creative outlet. My dad passed away unfortunately last year, and with us travelling between UK and Romania to spend time with him, a change of my job and other things in between I feel that I haven’t fully started my journey yet. I have the drive and passion and I hope that at some point, somehow, I will make things work and transition to a full time blogging, food photography career. You are an inspiration to all of us ❤️🤗
Hi Ioana, I am so sorry for your loss. I can see similarities in our journeys and know that it's never easy during these times. Sending you big hugs. I'm glad to hear you have passion as that will take you far. I hope that one takeaway we can all give each other is that we have to take it one step at a time and sometimes our journeys will be slower than others and that's ok. I am truly appreciative that you share your story with me. Big love X
Rachel, you’re the best! Thank you so much for sharing. Freelancing is such a rollercoaster, and so much of how we react depends on our support systems and mindsets. Thanks for that reminder, and cheers to another 10 years!
Thank you rachel for this honest video! I quit my job 2 years ago after 28 years as a software developer and am about to start my food photography business. The step of sending a first email to clients feels so scary. I know it's wrong thinking, but I often wonder who should book me? I have no experience with artificial light, for example, or with business at all. But then i just try to do a bit more every day, write an email, etc. Knowing your story helps a lot! Keep going, love your blog and your courses. I made a big leap in tethering and developing with your C1M course, it was hard at first, now I find LR so limiting ;). Thanks for that! Send you a lot of love ❤️ Karin, Austria
Thank you for this video and sharing your journey, for being honest and yes I can relate so much. I often feel like a failure as I’m working full time and trying to push my photography business at the same time. Mostly feeling overwhelmed and tired and ready to give up but yet again I keep showing up for me. Thank you once again! We are not alone ❤️
You are beautiful in so many ways!! Thank you for baring your heart and soul and keeping it real. I already adored you but now I adore you even more. I have learned so much from you. Thank you!! I've had to "break up" with one client and it was the hardest thing to do but also the best thing for my business moving forward. Sometimes doing the hard thing hurts for a moment but the results can be positive for a lifetime!
Thank you for sharing. No one has a straight line in life. We all accumulate so much skills and can use them to whatever we want to do in life. Your journey is one of never giving up , keep showing up, nuture yourself. It is a good reminder for all of us to know we're not alone in the ups and down of life. And I know your story will keep inspiring me if I get into a low spot.
Thank you so much for sharing Rachel! I know it must have felt scary for you but it is really inspiring for people like me to keep trying despite the difficulties. I am also moving to a different country at the end of the summer and I am really lost in terms of how I can make my business thrive in a totally different country. I am also excited though to see where this change can take me. Your journey makes me feel I can do it! 💪
Thanks so much for sharing this Rachel. You are absolutely lovely in every way. I love and admire your work. I am brand new to food photography and this spoke directly to my heart.
Oh that part of not good enough, and who are you to charge that much, I say both to my self all the time, even if I gained a little self confidence lately, am still scared of reaching out to clients and say I can do this 🙈 Thank you for sharing Rachel 🙏
Understanding your journey is SO validating! I recognize now that I am hard on myself too and set very high expectations for 'success'. Thank you for reminding me it's not about the destination and to enjoy the journey. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this, Rachel. It resonates with me so much as I feel like I've struggled for so long and I'm not good enough at my own business. It really is helpful to hear there is light at the end of the tunnel even if we can't see it yet.
Those are such wise words! There is always a light (of some kind) at the end of the tunnel, and we often can't see it. Thank you for watching it truly means a lot to me.
I know filming this video was really emotional for you, but thank you for sharing. I resonated with so much of what you said, and appreciated hearing similarities in someone else's journey.
Thank you! It did take was courage but I am really hoping that it is helpful for people. I always find it comforting to know that people go through the same things. So thank you for sharing you feel we have similarities. X
Thank you for sharing this. I actually came here after reading your newsletter because I wanted to let you know that I (and likely all of your followers) appreciate you and the work that you selflessly do.
Thank you SO much for sharing ❤. There couldn’t be a better time for me to watch this. So heartfelt and resonating. I truly hope you never leave photography. Your work is SO inspiring.
I'm so glad that you watched this and it came at a good time. We're in this together friend. Creativity is so up and down, I think with social media the real journey often doesn't get shared.
Thank you so much for sharing your "behind the scenes" journey with us, Rachel. It touched me in many different ways, as I've had many setbacks and have thought about giving up quite a few times. I needed to hear your encouragement words, since you're such an inspiration to me. I guess sometimes it's easy to forget we should keep going.
Thank you Ana! I am so glad you were able to watch it and that it touched you in some way. It easy to forget that times do get tough and we have to keep going in some capacity. I hear you, and I often feel like quitting but these days I try to think of it as 'taking a break' or 'adjusting' my schedule or expectations. Not always easy to do X
This resonated so deeply with me. My goals are taking (a lot) longer than I had hoped. I’ve recently refocused my time and energy and am feeling more excited for the future and enjoying the journey more. Thank you so much for sharing the struggles that are real.
I am so pleased to hear that! I know it can be tough when things take longer and we often wonder if maybe we aren't good enough. I hope in sharing, that we know our path isn't linear. I'm proud that you have refocused and are feeling passionate. That's huge and underrated. Sending you the most wishes to get you back on track.
Your story made me cry…I don’t know if it’s the hard times you endured or the tone of your voice (or a combination of both) but honestly, thank you for doing it and sharing the struggle. So freaking similar to what I’m going through, but my biggest issue is that I’m not taking the time to actually dive into it fully, dedicate myself to learning it because it seems so intimidating. And all the offers I got I did not end up getting because of the same issue, not believing that I can. Let’s see where it takes me but huge thank you for putting this together! ❤
Hi Carolina, thank you so much for watching my story. My aim was to share so we all know we aren't alone. I hear you with the not believing in ourselves. Over the years, I've always tried to ask myself, 'what's the worst that can happen'. That's always helped me through. It does take courage to build confidence. I can tell you that you're doing a great job. This is hard and the fact you're still here trying takes a lot of courage X
Thank you for sharing your very real experiences. I can relate so much and needed to hear this message today as I sit with a case of massive imposter syndrome and almost crippling self doubt. I go back and forth all the time about whether or not pursuing food photography is crazy and/or even worth it, as I work multiple non photography related jobs, doing everything by myself just to make things kind of work.
Thanks for watching Sarah and sharing a bit of what's coming up for you. I'm convinced all of these things are part of the journey and the fact that we all feel it means we shouldn't take it too personally. The only thing we can control is to keep trying and putting on foot in front of the other. I hope this made you feel less alone. We're in the same boat friend. Best of luck to you X
Thanks for sharing ❣ My goal with photography is to capture my family's recipes beautifully, especially since the techniques they use feels more like a dying art. However, in the back of my mind I wonder about going professionally since I love food so so much. There are so many paths to take in life and seeing another's journey is always inspirational, and as well super informative. I think based on my current state, I'm gonna set my expectations lower, just a cookbook on Dominican food (maybe that already feels super high). Someday tho, maybe after I'll set them higher. Thanks again!
Thank you so much for sharing this. I really needed to hear it today. Now I'm reminded that I CAN keep going in my photography, and no, it won't happen overnight, but progress will be made.
Thank you so much Rachel! I've followed and admired your work for a long time, this video is so real and encouraging. One of my setbacks that bothers me is that I got to work with a client I had wanted to for a while, but in the post-production phase communication fizzled out and I don't think I delivered as well as I should have. I'd like to try to continue working with them, but it's been a long time now and reviving that connection feels awkward. Maybe I will in the future, but it won't happen if I don't even show up for myself like you said! Thank you for your transparency and encouragement, here's to 10 more years even better than the past ones!
Thank you Hannah for sharing that with me. I too have had those moment and I often wonder the same times. But as you say, it absolutely won't happen if we don't put ourselves out there. I always take these away as lessons for the future and it's not often there is a full closed-off door. I truly appreciate your support. Thanks for being here X
Thank you so much for sharing this Rachel. I saw you speak at that conference you referenced (Everything Food, right?!) and bought your LR Magic course after that. Your courses have been incredibly helpful and your work is so inspiring. I'm glad you didn't give up! I'm in the process of trying to change my expectations and be kinder to myself, so your words resonated with me. Thanks again and congratulations on 10 years!
Hi Leanne!! Yes, how wonderful we were able to connect there. Expectations and kindness to myself is something I am always working on. I don't always get it right either. I'm so glad you're here and thanks for supporting me. It truly means a lot to me. X
Thank you so much for sharing your story ❤❤ I can't believe how similar some situations and self-thinking are. I am on my second migration and everything is new and it made me lose confidence to work in a new society with a new language. It is really hard for me that I have lost all the positive energy of my previous version. I just try to keep going and not stop completely. I hope to find my inner voice.
You got this! Thank you so much for watching. I created this because our journeys are so similar and I wanted creatives to know we aren't alone. Sending you strength and courage.
Thank you for sharing your journey. It's inspiring that even with all the doubt and set backs you kept going. It just what I needed to hear to following my dream.
You got this! Success I really think comes from the time we put in, the setbacks we overcome and showing up everyday (or every other day) when things are hard. Thanks for watching a being here.
Really loved hearing your story. A lot of what you said resonated with me, especially the setbacks, the uncontrollable life events and the lack of confidence. I moved countries last November and left all my clients back home. It’s been really challenging to start again with no connections in a new city. Some days I can’t get anything done from the anxiety of failing, but I’m trying to show up everyday and work on my business and my skills. I’m hoping that if I keep trying, the universe will reward me for my perseverance. This was really helpful for me and I really appreciate your vulnerability here. It means so much as a fellow photographer to know that it’s not a linear path and that’s okay. It is very difficult to answer people about how my work is going but I’m keeping faith 🤞🏽
That's so wise! It's not always a linear path and I totally feel where you are at with moving countries and starting again. It's daunting and takes time. I try to tell myself to be ok with that. Life can be so uncontrollable as you said, and it's different for each of us. So it's hard when we only see one side. I am glad we could share this moment. Thanks for watching. It truly means the world to me.
Thank you Andrea for being here and supporting me! I think it's important to show a variety of journeys because if it was easy as social media makes it look, then we all would be doing it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for watching.
That was amazing. You are an amazing teacher. Love to watch your videos and online classes. Thanks for sharing I know that took a lot. Keep up the great work. Thanks again
Thank you for sharing - this is wonderful, inspiring and really hits home! I can relate. For 20 + years I had a successful career as a television producer. From the outside, it probably looked effortless. From the inside, it was an incredibly hard journey that required a lot of soul searching every step of the way. Include some truly humiliating moments. For me, anytime I find myself reliving those cringy moments, I force myself to also remember a victory - just to keep the mental scales balanced. Now I'm onto my second career as a creative and I'm so grateful to all those hard lessons that make this leg of the journey feel a little bit less like a crazy-making rollercoaster! And for the record - you are hands down the best photography teacher ever!
Wow thank you Mary for sharing this me. It's so true, just to 'balance the mental scales' is a true victory - so is putting one foot in front of the other. We definitely can take those lessons with us in the future, which is one of the reasons I enjoy getting older. I truly cherish you sharing this with me. We're on all in together. And those incredibly kind words about my teaching 😭 - thank you
You had me at 2 mins in 🥺 Then at 10 mins in it was all over 😭 The emotion I felt watching this and hearing the words 'Let go of your expectations' really hit home. Its what usually stops me from progressing. Im only 1 year into my business and its been so hard already to keep showing up everyday. Thank you for sharing Rachel 💕
Big love to you April! Thanks for being here and watching this with me. I absolutely think the first couple of years are the hardest and it's when people want to quit the most. My expectations have really made me stuck over the years and it's something I am always working on too as it's not easy. X
I sometimes need a reminder! Thank you so much for being here and supporting me. This was hard for me and I sat on it for so long due to my anxiety. Just getting through this without teary eyes was tough haha. Big hugs to you X
I am so pleased that this was the perfect time! Sometimes we just. need to hear it from others. I know it has always helped me and I hoped that it would help others too. Thanks for being here and watching. It means the world to me.
Thanks for sharing your story Rachel! You’re a huge inspiration for so many of us. I sent today my deliverables for my first paid gig, they’re not a small brand, and they approached me. Hello imposter syndrome! It’s exciting and nerve racking 🤦🏼♀️ I’m not sure if I’m ready but I heard someone say that whatever level you’re at, there’s a client that needs you. You’re story was comforting to hear. Thanks again for sharing!
YES!! I truly believe that and congrats! I also get nervous sending off proofs, even 10 years in. I just know whatever comes back, I can work to solve it. I am so glad you're feeling that fear and doing it anyway X Thanks for being here.
Thank you for sharing Rachel! This speaks to our whole community and not enough people talk about both the ups and downs of the industry. Thank you for telling us your story and always being so inspiring.
Thank you SO much Amanda. I can see why they don't because it took me months and months to build up the courage but I figured if I can help someone feeling the same way as me, it's totally worth it. Big hugs to you X
Thank you for sharing, Rachel 🤗🤗🤗 Lovely to hear about your journey and how you managed the setbacks. Being too hard on one’s self is something I definitely resonated with! Love how you mention commitment and just continuing to show up. I often get caught up with progress not happening as fast as I think it should when good things take time!
Thanks for watching Lauren! Life can be full of setbacks and I wouldn't be here today if I let them prevent me from showing up to keep trying. I have to take my own advice sometimes as whenever I am trying new things or pushing to new heights I often feel this way too! X Big hugs to you.
Rachel thank you so much for sharing! I think your honesty and journey will help people who are struggling or just at the beginning of becoming a photographers. We started our career around the same time. I started in 2011 but my first payed project was in 2015. It took me a few years to start believing that I can charge properly for taking pictures of food. I admire you so much and I wish you all the best.
Thanks for watching Olimpia and sharing that with me. It's no easy feat to charge what we are worth and it's been incredible to watch your career grow with mine and you're an absolutely talented photographer. Sending you big hugs X
A hundred times THIS! 🙌 “Just keep showing up” and “be kind to yourself” are going on sticky notes around my desk! Thank you so much for sharing your story. You’re the best! 🥹
I love that Kari!! Let's make sticky notes together. I always need a reminder to be kind to myself. Thanks for being here and watching this. It truly means a lot to me. X
It's amazing the rollercoaster journey you experience trying to run your own business, thanks for sharing your story. It's been truly amazing to have watched you grow over the years to where you are today, you took breaks but you never stopped believing in yourself. Listening to your gut, and taking those steps away are some of the smartest things you can do when it's not going right. I think we can all stand to be a little kinder to ourselves, those failures are definitely inevitable and should be celebrated. After all, how else do we learn? One of our stand out moments for us, was very close friends telling us one night we should shut down Wandercooks, and concentrate on our other business. It was, perhaps, a distraction. It really hit us in the gut, and made us question what we were doing. Fast forward 5 years later and Wandercooks is our one and only business, full time, and we owe everything to that uncomfortable conversation, that made us realise, yes - this is what we want. Thanks again for sharing, looking forward to the 20 year update. ;)
I value our friendship so much you two! I am so glad you reached out and we hit it off. It's amazing how advice (while sometimes well intended) can be so off. And we really have to listen to our passion and give it a red hot go. I've always been inspired by your tenacity and passion and our friendship I think really helped me get through some tough times. Big love and thanks for watching X
"There was so much in life that I couldn't control, the one thing I could control was the ability to try again". YES! So glad you did! Thank you so much for sharing your setbacks Rachel. You are such a brave and bold woman! My biggest struggle right know is, that I really want to work in a team with a food stylist, but feel totally uncomfortable by the thought of shooting with someone around me. But I will overcome this one! Thanks for all your encouragement!!!
I can’t believe how similar our journeys are. I too left my job after nearly 30 yrs thinking I could do food/product photography and make it a business. I failed and took a job that I really didn’t love. I didn’t last long in that one. My Mum got very I’ll and was in hospital. My relationship was not great. I then lost that job and my Mum ended up passing away. All these things happened in a matter of 2 weeks. I’m still trying to process all this. I’m still learning about food/product photography.
Your video is what I needed to see. That I’m not alone..! So… Thank you for sharing your journey Rachel. Truly inspiring ❤️
I'm on the beggining of this road, on the level "who am I to take pics for money" and thank you for sharing your journey. It means a lot to me to know that it is possible to reach my goals anyway💕
Thank you Rachel for being so authentic and brave to share your journey. This is something I so deeply needed to hear today so thank you. Thank you for showing up even though I am sure it was challenging.
Your words has given me the kick in the ass to show up everyday and to not let the self perfectionist part of me bulldoze all the successes I have had in my food photography journey.
I am giving you a big hug. This food photography journey can sometimes feel so lonely so thank you for showing us your soul. I feel like it is finally ok to feel a bit lost with my next steps in this business but I am going to show up everyday and keep making steps forward. Much love Crystal
Thank you so much for being here Crystal. I know you share a little about this with me via email. If it's any help, I've been feeling lost for over a year with the challenges 2023 brought. I'm trying to be ok with the fact that it might take me about year before whatever it is that I need finds me. All we can do is keep showing up. Right there with you friend.
Rachel, I have no words to describe how much I admire your tenacity and strength. You are a beautiful soul with so much to give, a true inspiration. As someone who has suffered illness, near fatal accidents and other set backs, it is only now at age 40 that I am trying to make food photography my career. Imposter syndrome is debilitating at times but hearing this is giving me the confidence to at least try. Never doubt yourself again, you are an inspiration to so many. Stay you :)
Rachel, thank you for sharing this. I'm encouraged to keep going. I've had so many set backs...like taking a flight to a publishing meeting only for them to cancel an hour before the meeting! And having to move to another continent (twice!) right when I was getting going. Now trying to get my career going in Asia and I feel like I'm never executing what I envision! But alas, I'm working on it. Thank you to all these comments as well, I love being in this community with all of you. Thanks for bringing us together Rachel.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey.❤ I needed to hear this. I've been in food photography for less than 2 years but have already experienced a roller-coaster of emotions and endless set backs. Hearing your story has definitely encouraged me to not give up and show up for myself even though nobody else believes in me. You are a true inspiration to thousands of people like me, so thank you for letting us in on your journey and guiding us through the tough times. xxx
Thank you so much for sharing your journey. This deeply resonated with me as I've been going through similar things. My business was going well then my husband got a job interstate. I was actually looking forward to building up my business in a new city, but then I became the victim of a home invasion and was diagnosed with PTSD. Then a few weeks later we went into the first COVID lockdown. 2 years later I'm finally ready to start rebuilding my business but have been plagued by so much self doubt and the deep feelings of failure because I might need to get a part time job to support me along the way. That in particular is the thing that I am struggling with the most. I feel like a huge failure. But knowing you, such a wonderfully talented photographer, went through similar things makes me feel like I'm not alone. It's so important that we know we aren't alone on this creative journey. Thank you.
Oh I can so relate to what you are saying - and the teary eyes! Having your own business is not as easy as people think it is. Good on you for having the courage to share your story. I've been doing your composition workshop and was going to message you to say what a wonderful teacher you are, and I love the way you talk to yourself every now and then and make wee jokes. Your style really resonates - it might be because you're an Aussy and I'm a kiwi! Looking forward to completing more of your workshops in the future:)
In tears! Thanks, Rachel! So glad I’ve been able to follow your journey for so long! Your vulnerability is so refreshing and needed. 🥰
I resonate with this so much! I’m only in my second year of working out my food photography business and I feel so many times I am holding myself back. I often feel like a failure and just wish these growing pains would be done with by now. I’m afraid to take on clients because I am afraid I won’t ever be good enough or the social situations of it just overwhelm me. But seeing someone else express the challenges they faced and to not give up is really encouraging. So thank you for sharing your story
I’m on year 2 of my journey after multiple office jobs not working out. I set extremely high expectations for myself and when they don’t work out it affects me emotionally and mentally. But listening to you, I realise I’ve worked with a lot of brands I wouldn’t dream of working with. Thank you for sharing Rachel, always a big fan of your work and your courses.
Congratulations on 10 years my love and what a raw and vulnerable share. You were one of my biggest inspirations when I first started and I'm so grateful to have had, at times, a front row seat to the magic you create. And the thing I have admired most about you as a person is the way you keep showing up and stacking wins. You are an amazing teacher and you have helped so many people find their way in this industry. Big love to you and I'll be over here cheering you on for another 10 years and beyond.
Thank you so much for sharing with us your journey, Rachel! I literally watched half of this video with tears in my eyes. What looks easy from a single instagram post is actually hard work behind it. I can’t tell how much I had and sometimes am still having these moments when I start to have doubts “what am I even doing in this business.” But I keep persisting in doing what I love to do no matter how hard it is especially when I see that I’m not alone in this. It lifts me up and keep reminding myself “you got this too!”
Rachel: You are a beautiful and talented soul, who is an inspiration to so many. We are so proud of you for sharing this honest and raw window into your journey, and love you so much!! 🤗
Rachel, thank you for sharing your journey. I actually got emotional here, listening to you. Thank you for the honesty, for the sharing, for all you do. I can actually say your one of my favorite educators, and I have learnt so much with you so far. It´s not been an easy journey here, I was a veterinary surgeon and I decided to follow my heart and here I am, with struggles but keeping on showing every day like you say. And there is joy too, there is love in everything I do, but of course many setbacks, some nos, things we can´t control. I guess this is life, and we grow each day, through sucesses and faliures. You are such a beautiful soul, an inspiration to so many of us, so thank you for keeping it real. Love. Inês from Portugal.
Dear Rachel, thank you for sharing your personal story and being so honest! 💙
Thank you for posting this Rachel, I really admire your resilience ! You show me that I have to try harder instead of saying to myself that I can't do food photography full time ! I needed this, thanks again !
Thank you for sharing this Rachel, it's such a courageous move, and coming to realise that we are all human and that no matter how much we appear on the outside there is always a struggle beneath. I've been in the creative industry (not all of it photographic) for over 10 years and I still get those feelings of failure. Hearing you talk of your experiences and the barriers overcome just reinforces that feeling of not being alone, but how actually trying again and again is what counts. I remember way back I did some corporate photos for a client (for free even as I was only a designer at the time and mentioned that I had done photography for while now) and one colleague didn't want to have their photos taken which is fine but that's what I was tasked to do. And I remember coming in one day and they hadn't seen me come in but I overheard them say "oh anyone with a camera thinks they're a photographer, where are the lights the make up artists - thats what makes you a professional photographer" - something along those lines but obviously talking about me - so ultimately that feeling of failure came back ever strongly...but I digress - ultimately I want to say thank you for sharing, for your honesty and being an inspiration above all xxxx
Thanks for being brave enough to be transparent with your journey Rachel, it is so appreciated especially when it’s easy to fall into a comparison game and compare your chapter 1 to someone’s 100 or to forget that social media is a highlight reel for the most part. As they say, if it was easy everyone would be doing it. Somethings are easier said than done but your story has so many good reminders for us all! I’m also an Aussie who now calls Vancouver home. Thanks again and I’m a big fan of your work!
Thank you so much Kristy for being here! It wasn't easy to share but I am glad I did as you're totally right. Comparison to someone 10 years in isn't far on someone who is not as far on their journey. And yes, if it was easy, everyone would be doing it - totally agree! I hope you're loving Vancouver X
Rachel, thank you so much for sharing this honest and vulnerable side of your journey! So comforting to hear all of your setbacks, I realise that I’m doing just well, even though I’m struggling really hard, working part-time in retail the 4th year now and just not getting it done. 😩 I want to quit this job so bad, but I’m scared losing the financial security, because I’m on my own. Still building up that courage.
Thank you so much Rachel for sharing your story! I was crying while watching it, because it is exactly like that, and it hit me also not in my best period. When you try your best, do everything you can, and nothing seems to move that is hard to deal with it. I send you hugs!
Thank you for sharing, Rachel. You are such a hard worker and I've always admired your beautiful work and your approachability. I was at that conference that year (I believe it's the one you're alluding to), and I could see you rising in your journey. It's been a long, trying road for me. There have been many times when I've wanted to quit and get a job with a consistent paycheck. This year I've seen a real shift for my business. I know that when I focus on the business part of my photography, I get results. I'm learning to be less fearful and believe in my worth (this, after so many years). I've raised my prices and haven't looked back. I'm getting hired and I believe in myself and my skills. I appreciate all the knowledge that you've shared along this journey we are all in together. Thank you for being so transparent ❤️
This came up in the perfect time… me and my husband just got a HUGE set back where we drop both of our jobs to build our studio inside of a catering company to work everyday for them. After a week, the owner said she wanted to be in all the shootings but was too busy and that we couldn’t go on.
Right now we are shattered, going back to do other jobs for the meets end and it tastes like failure 😢
In the back of my mind I hope to see this time in the future as a pivot point that changed everything.
Thanks for sharing your experience and help us get through the challenges. You’re my favorite food photographer and I’m really glad you share so much on the educational side!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It can be so hard, when it tastes like failure, but the only thing we can control and trying again (when we are ready). We're in this together so don't give up hope :)
Sending my love and hugs to you, Rachel! What an honest and touching message. I lost my Dad two years ago, and that life event made me lose my mojo. I almost gave up on blogging. But a fire ignited from within, and I know my Dad had something to do with it. My Dad was all about persevering, so I know he sent his angels to get me back on track. As you said, sometimes something bad happens before we realize we need to do all good things again. It's part of life. It's part of growth. Thank you! And here's to us on the path to success! 💕
Thanks for watching Jocelyn and sharing a bit of your story with me. Death really is a big speed bump for creativity. I love that your dad sent his love from wherever he was so you could get back into it again. Hugs back.
"If you feel like things are hard, you are probably on the right path." - Exactly what I needed to hear today! Things have been busy in my personal life that I feel like my creativity is completely drained. After a few baking fails, I sat down wondering if this is the right thing for me. Wondering if what I'm doing is even feasible. But I will keep on showing up for myself. Thank you so much for sharing!
I am sorry to hear things have been tough, I feel like I have been in the same boat lately and things can feel hard. I know that when they do that I am pushing myself and not taking the easy road. So if we want things to happen, I do think we are on the right path. I can also tell you I feel down when I have cooked and styling messes. I give myself some grace and try again later. Thanks for watching Mary-Lou. It means a lot to me X
You are not alone, Rachel! It’s refreshing to see authenticity and braveness in sharing your story. It is also encouraging and it’s a gentle reminder that we also need to look after ourselves and be kind especially during difficult times when nothing is working. I am a passionate home cook, in love with Mediterranean food and discovered food photography last year, when, due to the pandemic, and being furloughed, I created a food blog as my creative outlet. My dad passed away unfortunately last year, and with us travelling between UK and Romania to spend time with him, a change of my job and other things in between I feel that I haven’t fully started my journey yet. I have the drive and passion and I hope that at some point, somehow, I will make things work and transition to a full time blogging, food photography career. You are an inspiration to all of us ❤️🤗
Hi Ioana, I am so sorry for your loss. I can see similarities in our journeys and know that it's never easy during these times. Sending you big hugs. I'm glad to hear you have passion as that will take you far. I hope that one takeaway we can all give each other is that we have to take it one step at a time and sometimes our journeys will be slower than others and that's ok. I am truly appreciative that you share your story with me. Big love X
Rachel, you’re the best! Thank you so much for sharing. Freelancing is such a rollercoaster, and so much of how we react depends on our support systems and mindsets. Thanks for that reminder, and cheers to another 10 years!
Thank you rachel for this honest video! I quit my job 2 years ago after 28 years as a software developer and am about to start my food photography business. The step of sending a first email to clients feels so scary. I know it's wrong thinking, but I often wonder who should book me? I have no experience with artificial light, for example, or with business at all.
But then i just try to do a bit more every day, write an email, etc. Knowing your story helps a lot! Keep going, love your blog and your courses. I made a big leap in tethering and developing with your C1M course, it was hard at first, now I find LR so limiting ;). Thanks for that! Send you a lot of love ❤️ Karin, Austria
Thank you for this video and sharing your journey, for being honest and yes I can relate so much. I often feel like a failure as I’m working full time and trying to push my photography business at the same time. Mostly feeling overwhelmed and tired and ready to give up but yet again I keep showing up for me. Thank you once again! We are not alone ❤️
You are beautiful in so many ways!! Thank you for baring your heart and soul and keeping it real. I already adored you but now I adore you even more. I have learned so much from you. Thank you!! I've had to "break up" with one client and it was the hardest thing to do but also the best thing for my business moving forward. Sometimes doing the hard thing hurts for a moment but the results can be positive for a lifetime!
Thank you for sharing. No one has a straight line in life. We all accumulate so much skills and can use them to whatever we want to do in life. Your journey is one of never giving up , keep showing up, nuture yourself. It is a good reminder for all of us to know we're not alone in the ups and down of life. And I know your story will keep inspiring me if I get into a low spot.
Such beautiful and kind words. Thank you truly for sharing, let's keep moving forward together.
@@Twolovesstudio
This was so vulnerable and relatable! Thank you for sharing your photography journey!
Thank you so much for sharing Rachel! I know it must have felt scary for you but it is really inspiring for people like me to keep trying despite the difficulties. I am also moving to a different country at the end of the summer and I am really lost in terms of how I can make my business thrive in a totally different country. I am also excited though to see where this change can take me. Your journey makes me feel I can do it! 💪
Thanks so much for sharing this Rachel. You are absolutely lovely in every way. I love and admire your work. I am brand new to food photography and this spoke directly to my heart.
Thank you so much for sharing, Rachel. Your story and your work is so inspiring!
Just want to send you love. Thank you for sticking through. I am happy it worked, and it is working
Thank you so much! This means a lot to me. Sending it right back at ya.
Thank you for sharing this Rachel. I appreciate your vulnerability. I can relate to a lot of the self-doubt.
Oh that part of not good enough, and who are you to charge that much, I say both to my self all the time, even if I gained a little self confidence lately, am still scared of reaching out to clients and say I can do this 🙈
Thank you for sharing Rachel 🙏
Understanding your journey is SO validating! I recognize now that I am hard on myself too and set very high expectations for 'success'. Thank you for reminding me it's not about the destination and to enjoy the journey. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this, Rachel. It resonates with me so much as I feel like I've struggled for so long and I'm not good enough at my own business. It really is helpful to hear there is light at the end of the tunnel even if we can't see it yet.
Those are such wise words! There is always a light (of some kind) at the end of the tunnel, and we often can't see it. Thank you for watching it truly means a lot to me.
I know filming this video was really emotional for you, but thank you for sharing. I resonated with so much of what you said, and appreciated hearing similarities in someone else's journey.
Thank you! It did take was courage but I am really hoping that it is helpful for people. I always find it comforting to know that people go through the same things. So thank you for sharing you feel we have similarities. X
Thank you for sharing all these experiences. It certainly encourages me a lot to keep going no matter the setbacks and the time it may take.
Thanks Daniel! I am so glad you got something from it. Thanks for your feedback.
Thank you for sharing this. I actually came here after reading your newsletter because I wanted to let you know that I (and likely all of your followers) appreciate you and the work that you selflessly do.
You are so wonderful. Thank you for the love and support. It honestly means more to me than you could know. Thanks for being here.
Thank you SO much for sharing ❤. There couldn’t be a better time for me to watch this. So heartfelt and resonating. I truly hope you never leave photography. Your work is SO inspiring.
I'm so glad that you watched this and it came at a good time. We're in this together friend. Creativity is so up and down, I think with social media the real journey often doesn't get shared.
Thank you so much for sharing your "behind the scenes" journey with us, Rachel. It touched me in many different ways, as I've had many setbacks and have thought about giving up quite a few times. I needed to hear your encouragement words, since you're such an inspiration to me. I guess sometimes it's easy to forget we should keep going.
Thank you Ana! I am so glad you were able to watch it and that it touched you in some way. It easy to forget that times do get tough and we have to keep going in some capacity. I hear you, and I often feel like quitting but these days I try to think of it as 'taking a break' or 'adjusting' my schedule or expectations. Not always easy to do X
This resonated so deeply with me. My goals are taking (a lot) longer than I had hoped. I’ve recently refocused my time and energy and am feeling more excited for the future and enjoying the journey more. Thank you so much for sharing the struggles that are real.
I am so pleased to hear that! I know it can be tough when things take longer and we often wonder if maybe we aren't good enough. I hope in sharing, that we know our path isn't linear. I'm proud that you have refocused and are feeling passionate. That's huge and underrated. Sending you the most wishes to get you back on track.
Your story made me cry…I don’t know if it’s the hard times you endured or the tone of your voice (or a combination of both) but honestly, thank you for doing it and sharing the struggle. So freaking similar to what I’m going through, but my biggest issue is that I’m not taking the time to actually dive into it fully, dedicate myself to learning it because it seems so intimidating. And all the offers I got I did not end up getting because of the same issue, not believing that I can.
Let’s see where it takes me but huge thank you for putting this together! ❤
Hi Carolina, thank you so much for watching my story. My aim was to share so we all know we aren't alone. I hear you with the not believing in ourselves. Over the years, I've always tried to ask myself, 'what's the worst that can happen'. That's always helped me through. It does take courage to build confidence. I can tell you that you're doing a great job. This is hard and the fact you're still here trying takes a lot of courage X
thank you so much for sharing your journey! you are such an inspiration
warm greetings from Austria ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your very real experiences. I can relate so much and needed to hear this message today as I sit with a case of massive imposter syndrome and almost crippling self doubt. I go back and forth all the time about whether or not pursuing food photography is crazy and/or even worth it, as I work multiple non photography related jobs, doing everything by myself just to make things kind of work.
Thanks for watching Sarah and sharing a bit of what's coming up for you. I'm convinced all of these things are part of the journey and the fact that we all feel it means we shouldn't take it too personally. The only thing we can control is to keep trying and putting on foot in front of the other. I hope this made you feel less alone. We're in the same boat friend. Best of luck to you X
Thanks for sharing ❣ My goal with photography is to capture my family's recipes beautifully, especially since the techniques they use feels more like a dying art. However, in the back of my mind I wonder about going professionally since I love food so so much. There are so many paths to take in life and seeing another's journey is always inspirational, and as well super informative. I think based on my current state, I'm gonna set my expectations lower, just a cookbook on Dominican food (maybe that already feels super high). Someday tho, maybe after I'll set them higher. Thanks again!
Thank you so much for watching and I wish you all the best in whatever path you choose.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I really needed to hear it today. Now I'm reminded that I CAN keep going in my photography, and no, it won't happen overnight, but progress will be made.
You got this! It's so true. They say that 'overnight successes' take 10 years to make. Thanks for watching. We're in this together.
Thank you so much Rachel! I've followed and admired your work for a long time, this video is so real and encouraging. One of my setbacks that bothers me is that I got to work with a client I had wanted to for a while, but in the post-production phase communication fizzled out and I don't think I delivered as well as I should have. I'd like to try to continue working with them, but it's been a long time now and reviving that connection feels awkward. Maybe I will in the future, but it won't happen if I don't even show up for myself like you said! Thank you for your transparency and encouragement, here's to 10 more years even better than the past ones!
Thank you Hannah for sharing that with me. I too have had those moment and I often wonder the same times. But as you say, it absolutely won't happen if we don't put ourselves out there. I always take these away as lessons for the future and it's not often there is a full closed-off door. I truly appreciate your support. Thanks for being here X
Thank you so much for sharing this Rachel. I saw you speak at that conference you referenced (Everything Food, right?!) and bought your LR Magic course after that. Your courses have been incredibly helpful and your work is so inspiring. I'm glad you didn't give up! I'm in the process of trying to change my expectations and be kinder to myself, so your words resonated with me. Thanks again and congratulations on 10 years!
Hi Leanne!! Yes, how wonderful we were able to connect there. Expectations and kindness to myself is something I am always working on. I don't always get it right either. I'm so glad you're here and thanks for supporting me. It truly means a lot to me. X
Thanks for the dose of motivation ♥️♥️
Thank you so much for sharing your story ❤❤
I can't believe how similar some situations and self-thinking are. I am on my second migration and everything is new and it made me lose confidence to work in a new society with a new language. It is really hard for me that I have lost all the positive energy of my previous version. I just try to keep going and not stop completely.
I hope to find my inner voice.
You got this! Thank you so much for watching. I created this because our journeys are so similar and I wanted creatives to know we aren't alone. Sending you strength and courage.
Thank you for sharing your journey. It's inspiring that even with all the doubt and set backs you kept going. It just what I needed to hear to following my dream.
You got this! Success I really think comes from the time we put in, the setbacks we overcome and showing up everyday (or every other day) when things are hard. Thanks for watching a being here.
Really loved hearing your story. A lot of what you said resonated with me, especially the setbacks, the uncontrollable life events and the lack of confidence.
I moved countries last November and left all my clients back home. It’s been really challenging to start again with no connections in a new city. Some days I can’t get anything done from the anxiety of failing, but I’m trying to show up everyday and work on my business and my skills. I’m hoping that if I keep trying, the universe will reward me for my perseverance.
This was really helpful for me and I really appreciate your vulnerability here. It means so much as a fellow photographer to know that it’s not a linear path and that’s okay. It is very difficult to answer people about how my work is going but I’m keeping faith 🤞🏽
That's so wise! It's not always a linear path and I totally feel where you are at with moving countries and starting again. It's daunting and takes time. I try to tell myself to be ok with that. Life can be so uncontrollable as you said, and it's different for each of us. So it's hard when we only see one side. I am glad we could share this moment. Thanks for watching. It truly means the world to me.
Wow Rachel! Thank you so much for sharing your struggles and opening up this discussion. I needed to hear this💙
Thank you Andrea for being here and supporting me! I think it's important to show a variety of journeys because if it was easy as social media makes it look, then we all would be doing it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for watching.
Thank you for sharing this.
That was amazing. You are an amazing teacher. Love to watch your videos and online classes. Thanks for sharing I know that took a lot. Keep up the great work. Thanks again
Thank you so much for watching Nora! X Your support means the world to me.
You’re amazing! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!!
thank you for watching Angela! X
Thanks for sharing your story 🤗 I'm glad you didn't give up because your work is awesome and you're so inspiring ❤️ Wish you all the best 🤗
Me too! Otherwise I would have never met awesome people in the community like you. It truly means the world to me.
Thank you for sharing - this is wonderful, inspiring and really hits home! I can relate. For 20 + years I had a successful career as a television producer. From the outside, it probably looked effortless. From the inside, it was an incredibly hard journey that required a lot of soul searching every step of the way. Include some truly humiliating moments. For me, anytime I find myself reliving those cringy moments, I force myself to also remember a victory - just to keep the mental scales balanced. Now I'm onto my second career as a creative and I'm so grateful to all those hard lessons that make this leg of the journey feel a little bit less like a crazy-making rollercoaster! And for the record - you are hands down the best photography teacher ever!
Wow thank you Mary for sharing this me. It's so true, just to 'balance the mental scales' is a true victory - so is putting one foot in front of the other. We definitely can take those lessons with us in the future, which is one of the reasons I enjoy getting older. I truly cherish you sharing this with me. We're on all in together. And those incredibly kind words about my teaching 😭 - thank you
You had me at 2 mins in 🥺 Then at 10 mins in it was all over 😭 The emotion I felt watching this and hearing the words 'Let go of your expectations' really hit home. Its what usually stops me from progressing. Im only 1 year into my business and its been so hard already to keep showing up everyday. Thank you for sharing Rachel 💕
Big love to you April! Thanks for being here and watching this with me. I absolutely think the first couple of years are the hardest and it's when people want to quit the most. My expectations have really made me stuck over the years and it's something I am always working on too as it's not easy. X
Thank you Rachel! I hope you are aware of how much you helped many of us ❤️
I sometimes need a reminder! Thank you so much for being here and supporting me. This was hard for me and I sat on it for so long due to my anxiety. Just getting through this without teary eyes was tough haha. Big hugs to you X
Thank you for sharing your most vulnerable moments. This video is perfect timing as I am experiencing one of my funks. I appreciate you.
I am so pleased that this was the perfect time! Sometimes we just. need to hear it from others. I know it has always helped me and I hoped that it would help others too. Thanks for being here and watching. It means the world to me.
@@Twolovesstudio Thank you again so very much. I am glad that you kept going and prevailed.
thankssss and hugss
Thanks for sharing your story Rachel! You’re a huge inspiration for so many of us. I sent today my deliverables for my first paid gig, they’re not a small brand, and they approached me. Hello imposter syndrome! It’s exciting and nerve racking 🤦🏼♀️ I’m not sure if I’m ready but I heard someone say that whatever level you’re at, there’s a client that needs you.
You’re story was comforting to hear. Thanks again for sharing!
YES!! I truly believe that and congrats! I also get nervous sending off proofs, even 10 years in. I just know whatever comes back, I can work to solve it. I am so glad you're feeling that fear and doing it anyway X Thanks for being here.
Thank you for sharing Rachel! This speaks to our whole community and not enough people talk about both the ups and downs of the industry. Thank you for telling us your story and always being so inspiring.
Thank you SO much Amanda. I can see why they don't because it took me months and months to build up the courage but I figured if I can help someone feeling the same way as me, it's totally worth it. Big hugs to you X
Thank you for sharing, Rachel 🤗🤗🤗 Lovely to hear about your journey and how you managed the setbacks. Being too hard on one’s self is something I definitely resonated with! Love how you mention commitment and just continuing to show up. I often get caught up with progress not happening as fast as I think it should when good things take time!
Thanks for watching Lauren! Life can be full of setbacks and I wouldn't be here today if I let them prevent me from showing up to keep trying. I have to take my own advice sometimes as whenever I am trying new things or pushing to new heights I often feel this way too! X Big hugs to you.
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So nice of you! Thanks for being here and watching. Means a lot.
Thank you for sharing - you are an inspiration ❤
Thank you for watching Candice. Means so much to me X
Rachel thank you so much for sharing! I think your honesty and journey will help people who are struggling or just at the beginning of becoming a photographers. We started our career around the same time. I started in 2011 but my first payed project was in 2015. It took me a few years to start believing that I can charge properly for taking pictures of food. I admire you so much and I wish you all the best.
Thanks for watching Olimpia and sharing that with me. It's no easy feat to charge what we are worth and it's been incredible to watch your career grow with mine and you're an absolutely talented photographer. Sending you big hugs X
@@Twolovesstudio thank you so much, it means a world to me ❤️
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A hundred times THIS! 🙌 “Just keep showing up” and “be kind to yourself” are going on sticky notes around my desk! Thank you so much for sharing your story. You’re the best! 🥹
I love that Kari!! Let's make sticky notes together. I always need a reminder to be kind to myself. Thanks for being here and watching this. It truly means a lot to me. X
Thanks a lot for this video, Rachel! 🤍
It's amazing the rollercoaster journey you experience trying to run your own business, thanks for sharing your story. It's been truly amazing to have watched you grow over the years to where you are today, you took breaks but you never stopped believing in yourself. Listening to your gut, and taking those steps away are some of the smartest things you can do when it's not going right.
I think we can all stand to be a little kinder to ourselves, those failures are definitely inevitable and should be celebrated. After all, how else do we learn?
One of our stand out moments for us, was very close friends telling us one night we should shut down Wandercooks, and concentrate on our other business. It was, perhaps, a distraction. It really hit us in the gut, and made us question what we were doing. Fast forward 5 years later and Wandercooks is our one and only business, full time, and we owe everything to that uncomfortable conversation, that made us realise, yes - this is what we want.
Thanks again for sharing, looking forward to the 20 year update. ;)
I value our friendship so much you two! I am so glad you reached out and we hit it off. It's amazing how advice (while sometimes well intended) can be so off. And we really have to listen to our passion and give it a red hot go. I've always been inspired by your tenacity and passion and our friendship I think really helped me get through some tough times. Big love and thanks for watching X
@@Twolovesstudio right back at you! So thankful for every single one of our conversations! xxx