I enjoyed this. You have a good tone for interviews - calm and relaxed, unlike a lot of popular street interviewers, it means the guests are happy to answer openly and it is relaxing to watch. I have subscribed.
Hugging in the West isn’t usually practiced with new friends but between people who already know each other, we don’t just run around hugging everyone we meet,
true true, but close friends hug when they see each other, not common in China tho, especially if my female friends they have boyfriend, guys can't hug them for greeting
I am born in Taipei and split time between Silicon Valley in California and Zhuhai. I have plenty of experiences with dating western and asian gals. This interview pretty much aligns with my findings.
As a western guy of 69 I enjoyed your video, I am at present chatting to a 61yr old lady fron Shenzhen and going there in September. We have been communicating for 6 months and it looks serious. Keep up the good work.
@@kaiserchillhelmwell it puts what he's saying into a clearer context. Not everyone has some weird prejudice against older generations. I found his comment interesting and wish him luck!
@@lifequestions5546Your point? Asians in the West who were born and grew up in the West naturally adopts the Western culture. There are some whites who grow up in Asia that adopts Asian culture as well. If you are thinking all of China would adopt Western values and ideologies, that is not the case for most of China.
Definitely. Even as a Chinese far from the western, still residing in Asia. From Singapore, I find the majority of Chinese in Singapore ABSOLUTELY DO NOT align with Chinese from China. Our views are too different.
@@cooliipieWhat is "Western ethnicity"? "American" can be latino, African, and Asian as well. Unless you are referring to NATIVE and Indigenous people of the West. Stop being silly.
Very good interview style helping people speak openly. One request. Could you make the Chinese and English subtitles available in the captions/subtitles? This would really those who want to download the subtitles to learn Chinese. Enjoyed the end. BTW , already subscribed.😊
It's important to have a translator with you especially if you are traveling or in a foreign country. I definitely recommend Immersive translate if that is the case
1:49 As someone who is married to a Chinese woman, I very much agree with what she says here. The cultural difference has been more difficult to handle than I initially expected.And I always considered myself to be someone open to understanding other cultures. And my wife is Taiwanese, so a bit more Westernized than mainland Chinese girls.
In a shopping mall, in Western clothing, talking into a microphone, that will be uploaded via telecommunications, and put on UA-cam. I can't take them seriously
Great video. Although I am a U.S. citizen, I’m not exactly sure what a d-bag is, but I assume it is an arrogant or narcissistic person, like our likely next president.
Red-haired lady is pretty cool. She is strong but not at all toxic or judgemental like modern western women. The best part is how she knows not to judge someone or write them off based off just one quality.🙂
Next time ask girls What’s the first thing they notice in guys? What’s more important - looks or confidence? How many dates before they would kiss a guy?
This is funny! You cannot just ask these girls out front without them having absolutely zero experience with a foreign guy! I’m a good guy, in 10yrs I have never cheated my wife, same with my father and my grandfather
I found this channel difficult to follow the subtitles are too quick and I don’t understand what is being said, maybe you could leave the subtitles on a bit longer next time
You did a good job. Keep up the good work. Do it again. Ask women more personal and private questions about their lives. If they refuse to answer you go on another subject. Humans are the same wherever they go❤
So many western people have stereotypes that Chinese are very very short and nobody is above 5 feet. In order to enlighten them you can also make videos about asking Chinese their height. I don't think Chinese are that short.
Chinese are pretty tall, just came back from Shanghai and I see many 180cm and taller guys. Even the girls seem pretty tall as well, much taller than southeast asians
I feel that it’s the older generations who are more on the short side (on average). The younger generations tend to be taller. Also as mentioned before, the northerners are quite tall on average (speaking as a southerner).
dope interview man u mind adding the subtiltes directly within the youtube platform instead? i'm trying to level up my chinese vocab lol so i can copy n paste the characters n shii
If you really want an honest answer about this, the interview has to be conducted by a foreigner, as in a Western (caucasian) guy. IME, a Chinese girl, will not easily admit to liking foreigners to someone of her own culture, especially with a camera in her face. After 7 years in China's larger cities, I can say that most of them (especially the well-educated ones) like to be with Western guys. Be it for dating, FWB or just ONS.
Respect Chinese opinions. Don't try to discredit them when you get butthurt when you hear they prefer their own kind. And don't say the "educated" ones prefer Western guys. That's BS. The educated ones are the ones who prefer their own kind because they know Western guys are BS.
You should be asking why there is a preponderance of Western men marrying Chinese women but not the other way round. A lot has to do with racism/superiority complex of Western men coupled with hypocrisy. If you look back far enough, the US even passed a law forbidding miscegenation between Chinese men and Western women. This is no longer the case but the sense of superiority still exists.
actually, most of the western women living long term in China are willing to date Chinese men. And Chinese men are also more open to date foreign women. In Shanghai I see many AMWF couple, a lot more than in the past 10 years. In social media AMWF couple are also gaining more popularity.
The Chinese women that he is interviewing would not be able to answer your questions. But to answer your question. It’s mainly due to dating preferences. Most western men are quite fond the idea of dating Asian women and some even have yellow fever. The opposite exists for Asian women as well as some of them either white-washed or prefer dating western men in general. However that is usually not the case with western women. As the majority are just not attracted to Asian men. So naturally, you are going to see way fewer Asian men dating/marrying Western Women.
@@tuppenceworth5485 most are, but there are increasing amount of non slavic western women liking China now and in the near future. Once they see the truth and visited China, many changed their mind about China and Chinese people.
@@turtlesoup8134 We're not talking about Western women liking China. We're talking about why there are more Western men marrying Chinese women than the other way round. As it takes two to tango, Chinese women must be as inviting and willing partners to any relationship but the reverse is not the case. The irony is children of Chinese women and Western men tend to inherit more of the mother's looks while the offsprings of of Western women and Chinese men could easily pass as 100% Caucasian.
@@polevanidr Country origin doesn't really matter because all these nations have been thoroughly influenced by the global American behemoth. Even when they come up with something original, its still American in substance.
@@marko1263So you're saying Kdramas, Japanese dramas, and Chinese dramas which contain an all-Asian cast and can be set in the older eras are inspired by American media? Lmao. You kind of contradicted yourself there when you called them original, but "American in substance" whatever that means. The most American comment I've ever read.
I live close the Dutch boarder and I am often in the Netherlands. The guys are ALL tall there and are often good looking on top of that and I say that as a straight guy, so I think the first lady will change her opinion once she was there. 😅
I am a western male and when it comes to girls who I am attracted to just by their 'looks', I think I would have been helpless if a Chinese girl had ever wanted to date me. There are hardly any Chinese girls I don't find incredibly attractive.
Hanfu traditional clothes are very popular in China. The so-called western clothes you see in the world are not Western clothes anymore. Most people in the world are dressed like that.
@@PRINCEOFCNit's Great! and This leads to my next question, which country do you think would give you a higher success rate dating a Western woman as a Chinese man, between mainland China and Thailand?
That depends on how well they know you. They are much more shy, so wouldn't dare be impolite to someone that don't know well, especially a foreigner, since they generally care about giving foreigners a good impression of Chinese people.
Chinese people feel so distant from me. Questions like "how much should he earn" are very prevalent in this type of videos and people will always have an answer. I'm from Latin America, people here don't care about how much you earn when you're just getting to know each other. It probably has to do with everyone being poor and the thought of having a car or a house is just a dream for most people, so no one really expects it when dating and it's just a nice plus when you find someone who does. Of course, most people value having a partner with a steady job because it means they can take care of themselves, which is an attractive quality, but other than that... we don't really care about money. It IS important, but it's not something that would come up in an interview like this if it was made in here.
Thank you for your share, so from a Chinese perspective. We know there a lot in Latin America countries people are known of the very positive vibe. however, there are many pressures younger generation have to face from the old generation. I think now more people realize the true meaning of life is being happy
A very curious and unexpected difference between this interview and interviews I usually see with Korean and Japanese Women is that pretty much only the first girl said straight up she would prefer a Chinese man to a foreigner, and even her explanation was in line with the tone that the other girls had: more than the ethnicity, they seemed more preoccupied with the knowledge that a potential foreigner suitor had of Chinese culture and customs. A fairly stark difference from the interview channels on Korea and Japan where usually is most of the women saying outright they would not want a foreigner as a partner and the few that do are either very open about having a foreigner fetish.
As a Chinese, I used to think Japanese, Korea, and Chinese women are quite similar, like the mindset, guess I have to do some more research on other country's interviews.
I've come to realize it's not just about having knowledge of the culture, but being able to actually assimilate to the culture. I have been married to a Taiwanese woman for 7 years, and I think I understand the culture pretty well, but I have grown up with a very different culture and values, and I don't necessarily want to do things the way she would like me to. When two people from very different cultures get married, there needs to be a lot of compromise, ideally on both sides, and you can meet somewhere in the middle. It's not easy!
yeah, it feels like being ah house wife for chinese woman is a sin or something. dated one with serious intent, had wedding planned, but she was to frivolous , too many loyalty questions were coming up, didnt want to take care of household. ended up breaking up :( sad.
@@artugert you're the 0.001% lucky one than. getting a woman that can take care of home and is feminine, doesnt splurge on random shit and doesnt mingle with other men, is nearly impossible these days.
The girl from Northern China is correct that girls in the Northern parts, like Shanxi or Harbin city are very different than girls from Shenzhen or Hong Kong. Much more direct and friendly and are less emotional than southern girls. They also tend to be more light skinned, tall, slim and beautiful. However, they have stronger personalities and if you upset them, they will act quite hostile and literally start beating up their boyfriends. I'm not joking, I have been there many times and speak Mandarin so I can understand conversations I'm not supposed to hear.
To be honest, it will be extremely difficult to live your life with westerner. Sometimes you are attracted but you forgot that Westerners are so free in their lives. That's not their fault but their upbringing has belittled the family value or family sanctity. Family betrayal is not something new in the Western culture even sometimes it is a topic of pride for some people. Sex to many different partners and infected by genital diseases are quite rampant. So, I think the best is Westerners just marry their kind and Chinese marry their kind. It will be more suitable. Having said that there are some good inter married that are successful and end well. But to be honest, maybe only 5% out of all the marriages. I have so many friends who are in this category and 95% of them regret to have married off different nationalities due to different cultures and morality.
The truth would piss you off, but also set you free. Not many people have the opportunity to meet other cultures, so I guess only a small percentage amount of people about to have interracial or cross culture marriage. Thanks for sharing
My golf partner is originally hong kong chinese.....i find her funny and uncomplicated.......except when it comes to choosing something ie course to play or game to play, its always "you decide".
Its implied that western men is also the same as European, they group them together, they’re not gonna go thru the trouble to distinguish between the 2 groups. Similarly when people say Indian people they are also talking about pakistani or bangladesh people. Example: i dont want to d@te/have s3x with Indian people. Most likely, u can bet all of the money u have, that person also probably doesnt want to d@te/have s3x with pakistani/bangladesh people as well.
I don't want to date someone, I am western guy happy to swim many kilometers in open waters and pools so it does not matter to travel or culture. We have a lot nice lakes in Canada. I like Asian eyes and accents, that is free and don't ask to have a girlfriend. I only need to spend time learning mandarin. However, I know that Asian women smile to men when men need to run for requirement like a police officer job and have massive lattissimus dorsis muscles.They never gave me a smile before and I was much younger. I hope that can help someone else who needs a woman smile, you need to swim butterfly each day and running with a pace of 3 minutes per kilometer, Asian women like this. I suppose Asian kids must run and swim really fast so it is a need to have parent running fast too. My back is visible in the front of me, much better to date, you know. My back is wider than my thorax, these are my future wings in two years.
@@PRINCEOFCN I don't know taxi driver except if they ride a motorcycle. Please, don't talk to be inside a car, this is so unsuitable transport for a real gentleman. I put my ass on two wheels with more than 1000cc, this summer so nobody will put me inside a car at all cost except in winter.
I would love to date any Chinese women but I wish I could speak Chinese there lot of Chinese Japanese Filipino women live in north America including Korean that Asian people came to North America Canada and USA over 30 thousand years ago before the Spaniards Dutch France British 17th century lived in their own community still no Asian teachers in America teach kids in school mandarin language just Latin like Spanish I would love any Asian women teach me mandarin language we all the same people we not each other enemy only men in government around the world want us to be they don't own the world ocean lands country people who are the government of the world no religion Asian people are humble honorable and polite and friendly ❤❤❤❤❤❤we all children of God Allah Buddha goddess all the same God or goddess created solar system one tiny microorganisms bacteria cell created life in space brother I love your channel ❤❤❤❤thank you be safe stay healthy and don't listen to men in government they jus men and God cannot temp the power of free will spirits people who we all have souls and the devil is 7:39 God too Quran and Bible is written by men not God Buddha Allah ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@fischman26-China 0 seconds ago Going to China later this year, however, not to look for a woman but to hang out with friends. And my wife's family. Gotta get some red envelopes to stuff with money.
I enjoyed this. You have a good tone for interviews - calm and relaxed, unlike a lot of popular street interviewers, it means the guests are happy to answer openly and it is relaxing to watch. I have subscribed.
I love how calm and polite everyone is including you , that is a very welcoming environment to talk
Thank you!
Very good interviews: Included many details. To me, that’s what distinguishes interesting from superficial interviews.
Hugging in the West isn’t usually practiced with new friends but between people who already know each other, we don’t just run around hugging everyone we meet,
true true, but close friends hug when they see each other, not common in China tho, especially if my female friends they have boyfriend, guys can't hug them for greeting
@@PRINCEOFCN unless you want to mess with their boyfriends.
Yea we normally shake hands
I am born in Taipei and split time between Silicon Valley in California and Zhuhai. I have plenty of experiences with dating western and asian gals. This interview pretty much aligns with my findings.
The interviewer did well creating a comfortable atmosphere. Also, the interviewees were quite articulate. Well done!
The girl in the black shirt had a 15 page essay prepared. What a flow
Really thoughtful answers. It's sobering to see how reasonable Eastern cultures can be as opposed to Western.
1:55 "Even for a Chinese guy it's hard to understand Chinese girls as a boyfriend" 😂
when you stop trying you will
it's true in every culture :)
Not worth it
Go to Europe act like Americans European girls can't tell 😂the difference I am native American 😂!
As a western guy of 69 I enjoyed your video, I am at present chatting to a 61yr old lady fron Shenzhen and going there in September. We have been communicating for 6 months and it looks serious. Keep up the good work.
Why do all the oldtimers have the urge to tell everyone how old they are
@@kaiserchillhelm it’s a boomer thing.
@@kaiserchillhelmwell it puts what he's saying into a clearer context. Not everyone has some weird prejudice against older generations. I found his comment interesting and wish him luck!
@@Harry-wb7uv good for you. You should send him a friend request on boomer book then
wow nice, how did you meet? like on which app?
Very interesting, my favorite was the part at the end, where you showed the preparation for the interviews.Very unique and fun to see🙂
love the candid NG scenes at the end 😄
A lot of Chinese/Asians can also be born in the West as well. They would most likely be considered Western culturally
That's how one culture crumbles by adopting the other culture.
@@lifequestions5546Your point? Asians in the West who were born and grew up in the West naturally adopts the Western culture. There are some whites who grow up in Asia that adopts Asian culture as well. If you are thinking all of China would adopt Western values and ideologies, that is not the case for most of China.
Definitely. Even as a Chinese far from the western, still residing in Asia. From Singapore, I find the majority of Chinese in Singapore ABSOLUTELY DO NOT align with Chinese from China. Our views are too different.
Obviously they mean Western ethnicity. Stop trying to complicate things
@@cooliipieWhat is "Western ethnicity"? "American" can be latino, African, and Asian as well. Unless you are referring to NATIVE and Indigenous people of the West. Stop being silly.
thank you for adding the mandarin subtitles, it helps me learn mandarin 🥰🥰💕👍
Very good interview style helping people speak openly. One request. Could you make the Chinese and English subtitles available in the captions/subtitles? This would really those who want to download the subtitles to learn Chinese. Enjoyed the end. BTW , already subscribed.😊
Let me try, thank you
Your English is pretty good. I enjoyed the video.
Thank you! 😃
It's important to have a translator with you especially if you are traveling or in a foreign country. I definitely recommend Immersive translate if that is the case
Good interviewer method. Flows smoothly.
As a western man, I enjoyed this. I also knew you were going to sneak that hug in... lol. Nice interviews.
Always brah 😏boys will always be boys
1:49 As someone who is married to a Chinese woman, I very much agree with what she says here. The cultural difference has been more difficult to handle than I initially expected.And I always considered myself to be someone open to understanding other cultures. And my wife is Taiwanese, so a bit more Westernized than mainland Chinese girls.
Nice to see your personality come out in your interviews. Great interview and then bloopers in the end made it more genuine.
Thr first girl says she more traditional and less western, with her guichi bag and starbucks. Yeah
That's no starbucks bro and also that bag looks fake to me,and also Shandong is indeed a very traditional province
Having Starbucks and Gucci bag does not mean that you can't be traditional. Thats correlation right there
Fake gucci is traditional tho
In a shopping mall, in Western clothing, talking into a microphone, that will be uploaded via telecommunications, and put on UA-cam. I can't take them seriously
Nah, every single chinese girl says that. You gotta learn to take their words with a pinch of salt
I like that you mentioned "don't be a d-bag", it was a successful video, thanks for all your hard work editing!
Next time I would say d-bad as well🫶🏻
Great video. Although I am a U.S. citizen, I’m not exactly sure what a d-bag is, but I assume it is an arrogant or narcissistic person, like our likely next president.
The red hair girl was a catch. She's super fit and willing to split the bill? nice
100/10
Nice interview. Very professional
Red-haired lady is pretty cool. She is strong but not at all toxic or judgemental like modern western women. The best part is how she knows not to judge someone or write them off based off just one quality.🙂
Next time ask girls
What’s the first thing they notice in guys?
What’s more important - looks or confidence?
How many dates before they would kiss a guy?
This is funny! You cannot just ask these girls out front without them having absolutely zero experience with a foreign guy! I’m a good guy, in 10yrs I have never cheated my wife, same with my father and my grandfather
I found this channel difficult to follow the subtitles are too quick and I don’t understand what is being said, maybe you could leave the subtitles on a bit longer next time
will do thank you fir feedback ~
Hey Aiden, when i visit china, I would look for you 👍
ughhh how you do that
@@PRINCEOFCN I will reach out
You did a good job.
Keep up the good work.
Do it again.
Ask women more personal and private questions about their lives.
If they refuse to answer you go on another subject.
Humans are the same wherever they go❤
Give me some questions lol
So many western people have stereotypes that Chinese are very very short and nobody is above 5 feet. In order to enlighten them you can also make videos about asking Chinese their height. I don't think Chinese are that short.
I'm 5'1" 😊
Down south is shorter, northern people are a lot taller
Chinese are pretty tall, just came back from Shanghai and I see many 180cm and taller guys. Even the girls seem pretty tall as well, much taller than southeast asians
@hayabusa1329 Again I'm 5'1" 3 of my sisters are under 5' brother is 5'3" and yes we're Chinese ethnically
I feel that it’s the older generations who are more on the short side (on average). The younger generations tend to be taller. Also as mentioned before, the northerners are quite tall on average (speaking as a southerner).
dope interview man u mind adding the subtiltes directly within the youtube platform instead? i'm trying to level up my chinese vocab lol so i can copy n paste the characters n shii
I would try thank you!
takashii in china😂加油
Loool love his videos
If you really want an honest answer about this, the interview has to be conducted by a foreigner, as in a Western (caucasian) guy. IME, a Chinese girl, will not easily admit to liking foreigners to someone of her own culture, especially with a camera in her face. After 7 years in China's larger cities, I can say that most of them (especially the well-educated ones) like to be with Western guys. Be it for dating, FWB or just ONS.
Respect Chinese opinions. Don't try to discredit them when you get butthurt when you hear they prefer their own kind. And don't say the "educated" ones prefer Western guys. That's BS. The educated ones are the ones who prefer their own kind because they know Western guys are BS.
I bet all their names are Wei Tu Yang
😂😂😂😂😂😂
You should be asking why there is a preponderance of Western men marrying Chinese women but not the other way round. A lot has to do with racism/superiority complex of Western men coupled with hypocrisy. If you look back far enough, the US even passed a law forbidding miscegenation between Chinese men and Western women. This is no longer the case but the sense of superiority still exists.
actually, most of the western women living long term in China are willing to date Chinese men. And Chinese men are also more open to date foreign women. In Shanghai I see many AMWF couple, a lot more than in the past 10 years. In social media AMWF couple are also gaining more popularity.
@@turtlesoup8134 Most of them are East European Slavic women, not Western women.
The Chinese women that he is interviewing would not be able to answer your questions.
But to answer your question. It’s mainly due to dating preferences.
Most western men are quite fond the idea of dating Asian women and some even have yellow fever. The opposite exists for Asian women as well as some of them either white-washed or prefer dating western men in general.
However that is usually not the case with western women. As the majority are just not attracted to Asian men. So naturally, you are going to see way fewer Asian men dating/marrying Western Women.
@@tuppenceworth5485 most are, but there are increasing amount of non slavic western women liking China now and in the near future. Once they see the truth and visited China, many changed their mind about China and Chinese people.
@@turtlesoup8134 We're not talking about Western women liking China. We're talking about why there are more Western men marrying Chinese women than the other way round. As it takes two to tango, Chinese women must be as inviting and willing partners to any relationship but the reverse is not the case. The irony is children of Chinese women and Western men tend to inherit more of the mother's looks while the offsprings of of Western women and Chinese men could easily pass as 100% Caucasian.
Modern women are similar everywhere because they consume the same (American) culture and follow identical trends
Not really, most consumed media in Asia nowadays is Korean or from their native country.
@@polevanidr Country origin doesn't really matter because all these nations have been thoroughly influenced by the global American behemoth. Even when they come up with something original, its still American in substance.
@@marko1263So you're saying Kdramas, Japanese dramas, and Chinese dramas which contain an all-Asian cast and can be set in the older eras are inspired by American media? Lmao. You kind of contradicted yourself there when you called them original, but "American in substance" whatever that means. The most American comment I've ever read.
Correct
15:09 "Next video I'm gonna make is how to learn Mandarin." Where is that video?
Good question, almost forget about it
there's alot of perceptions going on...
reality vs perceptions...
Good job Aiden !
It’s feels nice to explore but home is where we want to be in the end 😅
I live close the Dutch boarder and I am often in the Netherlands. The guys are ALL tall there and are often good looking on top of that and I say that as a straight guy, so I think the first lady will change her opinion once she was there. 😅
Woman in black is very thoughtful and insightful lol
Good creation
I am a western male and when it comes to girls who I am attracted to just by their 'looks', I think I would have been helpless if a Chinese girl had ever wanted to date me. There are hardly any Chinese girls I don't find incredibly attractive.
I wish more westerners were like u, i hate seeing WMAF couples
I spent 2 years in Zhuhai, really love the city
If that's the case, why wearing western clothes? Why are they so ashamed of wearing their own chinese clothing?
Hanfu traditional clothes are very popular in China. The so-called western clothes you see in the world are not Western clothes anymore. Most people in the world are dressed like that.
Important to note that when they hear "foreign", they think "white".
Nice video! I also want to know you Brother Qiu , Do you want to date Western woman?
Of course my friend
@@PRINCEOFCNit's Great! and This leads to my next question, which country do you think would give you a higher success rate dating a Western woman as a Chinese man, between mainland China and Thailand?
There is Asian hate going on in western countries. Good luck with that.
Wow, It’s hard to believe that children born in 2008 can already speak and walk.
My son was born in 2021 and he can speak and walk.
I still think the average Chinese girl is still more polite than average American or Canadian woman.
That depends on how well they know you. They are much more shy, so wouldn't dare be impolite to someone that don't know well, especially a foreigner, since they generally care about giving foreigners a good impression of Chinese people.
@@artugert Most of the attitude ones I have noticed are in Hong Kong and Singapore. Mainland China is still pretty good.
Chinese people feel so distant from me. Questions like "how much should he earn" are very prevalent in this type of videos and people will always have an answer. I'm from Latin America, people here don't care about how much you earn when you're just getting to know each other. It probably has to do with everyone being poor and the thought of having a car or a house is just a dream for most people, so no one really expects it when dating and it's just a nice plus when you find someone who does. Of course, most people value having a partner with a steady job because it means they can take care of themselves, which is an attractive quality, but other than that... we don't really care about money. It IS important, but it's not something that would come up in an interview like this if it was made in here.
Thank you for your share, so from a Chinese perspective. We know there a lot in Latin America countries people are known of the very positive vibe. however, there are many pressures younger generation have to face from the old generation. I think now more people realize the true meaning of life is being happy
Yes, Chinese people's thinking about romance and relationships couldn't be more different from Latin culture!
A very curious and unexpected difference between this interview and interviews I usually see with Korean and Japanese Women is that pretty much only the first girl said straight up she would prefer a Chinese man to a foreigner, and even her explanation was in line with the tone that the other girls had: more than the ethnicity, they seemed more preoccupied with the knowledge that a potential foreigner suitor had of Chinese culture and customs.
A fairly stark difference from the interview channels on Korea and Japan where usually is most of the women saying outright they would not want a foreigner as a partner and the few that do are either very open about having a foreigner fetish.
As a Chinese, I used to think Japanese, Korea, and Chinese women are quite similar, like the mindset, guess I have to do some more research on other country's interviews.
I've come to realize it's not just about having knowledge of the culture, but being able to actually assimilate to the culture. I have been married to a Taiwanese woman for 7 years, and I think I understand the culture pretty well, but I have grown up with a very different culture and values, and I don't necessarily want to do things the way she would like me to. When two people from very different cultures get married, there needs to be a lot of compromise, ideally on both sides, and you can meet somewhere in the middle. It's not easy!
@@artugert taiwanese/chinese, ok!
@@thiago5372 Not sure what your comment is supposed to imply.
lets date through comment section,i'm 180,dark skin lol
Dont deal with them bro.
yeah, it feels like being ah house wife for chinese woman is a sin or something. dated one with serious intent, had wedding planned, but she was to frivolous , too many loyalty questions were coming up, didnt want to take care of household. ended up breaking up :( sad.
Yeah not a keeper, hard to find a good Chinese wife these days, I had horrible dating experience also with Chinese
My wife is Chinese and a house wife.
@@artugert you're the 0.001% lucky one than. getting a woman that can take care of home and is feminine, doesnt splurge on random shit and doesnt mingle with other men, is nearly impossible these days.
@@Asmodeius Well, I wouldn't say she is feminine, but she's at least trying. Haha
到中東感受 祖國的強大。。。。。。
My jaw dropped when she said that
Interesting
It's good to know that Chinese wahmen are no different than Western wahmen. @2:22 says it all.
awesome english
Hi Aiden Qiu do you maybe be in Poland or you have friends from Poland ?
Hey man, I don't have any Polish friends
@@PRINCEOFCN if I have question to you I can send on you email ? if that is not problem
yes sir, also instagram is cool too, it is Aiden_qiuu. Will be happy to hear some advice
@@PRINCEOFCN Hi I send you 1 message on email I want to apologize you becouse I say about my problems about hacking my computer
No Western men for my daughter. Shanghai man is the best
until the divorce
太矮小,还是北方男人好一些
@@Idbhdd上海平均身高是全国前几,毕竟是移民城市,跟南方其他省不一样
The girl from Northern China is correct that girls in the Northern parts, like Shanxi or Harbin city are very different than girls from Shenzhen or Hong Kong. Much more direct and friendly and are less emotional than southern girls. They also tend to be more light skinned, tall, slim and beautiful. However, they have stronger personalities and if you upset them, they will act quite hostile and literally start beating up their boyfriends. I'm not joking, I have been there many times and speak Mandarin so I can understand conversations I'm not supposed to hear.
Totally agree with you, if you like tough girls, go for a northern girl
There are better topics. This is useless and inappropriate.
sure you tell me. what's better topics, I will make it
5.02 very clever girl for her age.
都说的太保守了,我来说实话。大部分女生是会觉得男生付出最多更好,最好女生一辈子不上班在家
第二:有些女生想和国外的玩玩,但是最后还是找国内的接盘
第三:觉得国外的男的比较开放,没有条条框框是因为他们本来就存不住钱,有钱就花,这和我们国家的文化不同。我们是以存钱为目的,把钱用在该用的地方,相反国外的男的很多没有这种思维
Shandong women are open to foreigners
7:43 欸,她跟谁讲话? 你的受访者们都在画外排队吗?😁
哈哈😅不是,是她朋友,你看最后几十秒就知道了
00:15 Wow gorgeous
How many houses you own? .... Most of the world has 1....
To be honest, it will be extremely difficult to live your life with westerner. Sometimes you are attracted but you forgot that Westerners are so free in their lives. That's not their fault but their upbringing has belittled the family value or family sanctity. Family betrayal is not something new in the Western culture even sometimes it is a topic of pride for some people. Sex to many different partners and infected by genital diseases are quite rampant. So, I think the best is Westerners just marry their kind and Chinese marry their kind. It will be more suitable. Having said that there are some good inter married that are successful and end well. But to be honest, maybe only 5% out of all the marriages. I have so many friends who are in this category and 95% of them regret to have married off different nationalities due to different cultures and morality.
The truth would piss you off, but also set you free. Not many people have the opportunity to meet other cultures, so I guess only a small percentage amount of people about to have interracial or cross culture marriage. Thanks for sharing
You obviously haven't been to Japan. As a Christian American I couldn't disagree more with your comment
@@cooliipie Are you saying that a lot of Japanese people marry Westerners and it turns out well?
@@artugert
I know quite a few :)
My golf partner is originally hong kong chinese.....i find her funny and uncomplicated.......except when it comes to choosing something ie course to play or game to play, its always "you decide".
Do you speak Cantonese
I need a Chinese girlfriend. I am in Guangzhou
我是一位富二代所以我可能告诉您们大部分中国美女希望有钱多的男生。我的意思是外国或者中国男生无所谓。🙂
And what about eastern Europe man,why always western man.
Its implied that western men is also the same as European, they group them together, they’re not gonna go thru the trouble to distinguish between the 2 groups.
Similarly when people say Indian people they are also talking about pakistani or bangladesh people.
Example: i dont want to d@te/have s3x with Indian people.
Most likely, u can bet all of the money u have, that person also probably doesnt want to d@te/have s3x with pakistani/bangladesh people as well.
Honestly right now am dating a Chinese woman in Canada she is so sweet I've always wanted to have a Chinese woman in my life 🧬
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4:37 amazing beautifull girls
2:26 what is she laughing at
her friend is behind the camera
They are easy
And ugly
DO CHINESE GUYS WANT TO DATE WESTERN GIRLS
Free Palestine 🇵🇸
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Im Mexican and dated 1 Chinese girl and i enjoyed her. I want to find me another Chinese beautiful girl
I dated a cuban girl before, should had marry her...
chinese girls are the best. I have dated so many chinese girls. Everyone has had at least one chinese girl
I don't want to date someone, I am western guy happy to swim many kilometers in open waters and pools so it does not matter to travel or culture. We have a lot nice lakes in Canada. I like Asian eyes and accents, that is free and don't ask to have a girlfriend. I only need to spend time learning mandarin. However, I know that Asian women smile to men when men need to run for requirement like a police officer job and have massive lattissimus dorsis muscles.They never gave me a smile before and I was much younger. I hope that can help someone else who needs a woman smile, you need to swim butterfly each day and running with a pace of 3 minutes per kilometer, Asian women like this. I suppose Asian kids must run and swim really fast so it is a need to have parent running fast too. My back is visible in the front of me, much better to date, you know. My back is wider than my thorax, these are my future wings in two years.
Your comment is accepted by the taxi driver here in Hainan island, because taxi driver in China some talk shits
@@PRINCEOFCN I don't know taxi driver except if they ride a motorcycle. Please, don't talk to be inside a car, this is so unsuitable transport for a real gentleman. I put my ass on two wheels with more than 1000cc, this summer so nobody will put me inside a car at all cost except in winter.
Can you connect me with a china man for marriage,,,
I want to open a business for that
@@PRINCEOFCN okey that will be cool to make it internationally,,,,
I would love to date any Chinese women but I wish I could speak Chinese there lot of Chinese Japanese Filipino women live in north America including Korean that Asian people came to North America Canada and USA over 30 thousand years ago before the Spaniards Dutch France British 17th century lived in their own community still no Asian teachers in America teach kids in school mandarin language just Latin like Spanish I would love any Asian women teach me mandarin language we all the same people we not each other enemy only men in government around the world want us to be they don't own the world ocean lands country people who are the government of the world no religion Asian people are humble honorable and polite and friendly ❤❤❤❤❤❤we all children of God Allah Buddha goddess all the same God or goddess created solar system one tiny microorganisms bacteria cell created life in space brother I love your channel ❤❤❤❤thank you be safe stay healthy and don't listen to men in government they jus men and God cannot temp the power of free will spirits people who we all have souls and the devil is 7:39 God too Quran and Bible is written by men not God Buddha Allah ❤❤❤❤❤❤
你可以问中国男生结婚需要买房买车付彩礼,外国男生需要吗?😅
这个好,谢谢你!
白的倒贴。黑的免费,中的双倍
外国平时都没这回事。就算是外国华人也少见。尤其是新加坡华人就更少。
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@fischman26-China
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Going to China later this year, however, not to look for a woman but to hang out with friends. And my wife's family. Gotta get some red envelopes to stuff with money.