'KOLOBELA MAKAMBU YA MIBALI CONGOLAIS TE' | DIVORCES WITHIN THE COMMUNITY | SEASON 3 - EPISODE 13
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- Solola Bien Real Talk Season 3 Finale.
In this episode the Panellists engage in a very opiniated debate about the divorces within the Congolese community and the different causes of it.
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I love this show
MEN WERE SO MEAN !!
No I think those guys were disrespectful toward gladis
Yesssss
I was so uncomfortable during this episode 😫
Very disrespectful and Christian, the host needs to look into that.
Surtout Randy
They need to remove Randy. He tried to gaslight Gladys. She’s been married to a foreigner but she’s CONGOLESE and has been surrounded by Congolese men all her life. It’s proper trash to try and invalidate her opinion.
.... they all have British passports does that now mean they cannot comment on the politics of Congo??? Let that question sink in. It was trash of Randy to throw that low blow and nobody corrected him, which further shows how the other panellists really see Gladys
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No Gladys needs to chill . This is the problem in this society nowadays there is zero accountability for woman . If I never been with a Congolese woman I have no right to complain about Congolese women. How do you want to voice your opinion on a subject where is only right to talk if you personally Mande the experience .
@@jamalwawou3961 we all know Gladys is married to a Nigerian man yet they still chose her as one of the panelist on this episode, which means they wanted her opinion
Qu'on soit d'accord avec Gladys ou pas, qu'on l'aime ou qu'on ne l'aime pas, ils ont été méchant avec elle aujourd'hui (d'ailleurs c'est toujours ça). En gros, à CHAQUE ÉMISSION, ils essaient de remettre en cause le fait que Gladys soit Congolaises uniquement parce qu'elle s'est marié à un Nigerian. À croire que toute sa vie elle n'a jamais côtoyé de Congolais. Elle avait tout à fait raison de s'énerver, ils ramenaient sa vie personnelle à table pour justifier leur point.
je suis d'Accord avec toi, c'était carrément de l'acharnement and that wasn't right. But je comprends leur ressenti du fait qu'elle n'a jamais été mariée à un congolais et en généralisant elle mettait tous les hommes dans le même panier which is bad. Cependant Gladys avait peu-être été en relation avec un congolais ou connait une personne de sa famille ou un proche ayant vécu des choses et se base sur cela, donc s'Est fait un avis à partir de cela. On ne peut pas la blamer pour ça, c'Est son avis. Ce n'est pas pour rien qu'elle a été sur ce show, elle est mariée à un étranger et peut donner une perspective différente des autres car eux tous semblent être engagés avec des congolais.
Des hypocrites very sad. 🤣🤣🤣
@@munierenkana4513 c'est vrai que aujourd'hui ils ont été un peu dure avec elle, mais c'est justifié comme Randy le disait bien , dans une épisode de la 2eme saison , Gladys disait qu'il y avait aucun avantage d'etre avec un congolais etc.....
The energy was toxic and disrespectful in this show.. especially toward Gladys. “‘Guys, Maturity is also not taking every little thing personal..”
Sis Gladys, we love you over here 💕✌🏾
WELL SAID. THEY WANT PEOPLE TO HEAR THEM BUT THEY DONT WANT TO LET WOMEN SPEAK !!! PLEASE HOST HANDLE YOUR GUESTS !!!
👀🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
VRAIMENT. THEY MUST TALK WITH RESPECT..I AM TEAM " GLADYS"
We need to do better in raising our sons so they know how to respectfully respect women of all backgrounds. Their egos are easily touched and they get into their feelings
Also we need to raise our girls to respect men. Both ways, equality yes I support but now days girls are been raised to act like men. It shouldn’t be conflict between man and a woman, they them both understand their differences.
@@akalkila2769 stop
KUISINE STP
We don't need Fake - Marriage's of Congoliase People anymore it has to stop 👈
TRUE !
Team Gladis 😞😞👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Bo tika Gladys! This was too much!! Quand frère Dede dit du mal sur la femme congolaises personne dit quelque chose mais quand c’est Gladys tout le monde l’attaque! Bo tika ko kotisa ba vie privé eza débat, chacun est libre de dire son opinion!
ladys wana aza faux momi
Gladys aza matata mobali wana amonaka makambu na ndaku
Vraiment
@miguel,Being opinionated doesn't make her matata ,she is very vocal but a lovely person,
Too many opinions and no facts
This show needs to address the disrespect towards the Congolese women. Yall have bashed Gladis for her choice of men, going as far as telling her not to speak about Congolese men as if she's not a Congolese and has no relation or interact with Congolese men on a daily basis. That's pathetic, relationship aren't only sexual or intimate,Francos......
On this very same platform, all these men who 'love ' teur Congolese women say down and watched another man born of a congolese woman , call women , 8ieme bête. Yall need to check your men and learn how to accept different opinions.
@tresor image has and continues to openly disrespect @Gladis 's man because of his nationality and hear says about his people yet doesn't want the same to be said about Congolese men....double standards much ?????
totally agree!!!
Leave Gladys alone you guys. Aza na droit yako express herself! Y’all want her to agree with your ways of seeing things. And why do you always have to bring her personal life into this matter? Being married to a stranger doesn’t give y'all the right to bully her in public. This is so disrespectful of you Congolese men... What a shame! She is actually one of my favorites! So leave her be and stop bringing her personal life whether she is married to a stranger, she still is a Congolese woman and has plenty of rights to talk about the community.
OK but tell Gladys to leave us alone with her stupid comment all the time "mibali ya ba congolais baza ba aventurier"
@@jeanclaudeM100 c'est deborah qui a dit cette phrase et non gladys.
Preach 👏🏾
You are also part of the problem . Zero accountability. Y’all quickly forget how Gladys was bashing Congolese men but nobody said something but now it’s gaslighting because men are holding you woman also accountable.
Why is nobody clashing with Dymund ? Y’all know it but decide to follow somebody who clearly is immature
You know, this last episode is a clear example of why Congolese men & women CANNOT agree to disagree. How can the show be “educational” when all we don’t ever learnt to hold everyone accountable for our toxic behaviour between men and women? I’m a Congolese man, and at this point, I’d rather stay away from this. Eza na bordel wana!
WELL SAID. LES HOMMES N'ONT PAS LAISSER LES FEMMES PARLER. BAZA TOO PROUD. LES HOMMES CONGOLAIS N'AIMENT PAS QUE LES FEMMES LEUR DONNE DES CONSEILS BAZUAKA YANGO ON DIRAIT BO MANQUER BANGO ! PLEASE HOST NEXT TIME BE MORE AUTORITAIRE. KI AUTORITE YA.MOBALI ELOBI TE QUE IL FAUT MOBALI A NIOKOLA MUASI.AVANT MUASI A SE SOUMETTRE IL FAUT MUASI A SE SENTIR AIMER !!!
Je n’ai pas apprécié l’attitude de Randy et Frankos envers Gladys, puisqu’elle n’a jamais été av un congolais elle n’a pas droit d’émettre une opinion sur les hommes congolais, c un faux fuyant car ses positions vs dérange, la majorité de ce qu’elle dit est vrai, les hommes congolais doivent apprendre de leurs erreurs et changer, de même av les femmes congolaises, arrêtons de ramener la vie privé ds le débat, je trouve qu’ils doivent s’excuser, ils étaient trop brutal, on dirait presque du bullying, Gladys tu es forte si c’était moi j’allais finir en larmes 😅 je ne supporte pas les attaques
Je te dis ils font ça à plusieurs reprises ce n’est pas gentil😒😔
Gladys est vraiment forte je ne sais pas où elle trouve la force de répondre moi j'aurais arrêté de travailler avec eux
@@benisha_restore Thank you
@@benisha_restore c une femme forte, moi également j’allais d’abord pleuré et partir 😅
@@gradiskiamvu4812 oui, ils sont très méchants envers elle.
#StopBullyingGladys!!!
@@samuellak5034 Gladys deserves it 😂 #keeponbullyingGladys
Gladis is right y’all laugh when they talk about women but if anyone speaks about Congolese men you guys jump on her. It’s actually true.
They jump on her because they feel targeted. If you cannot take the heat, get out of the kitchen. If one bashes one entire community or gender, someone will do the same to them and they shouldn’t d bitter about it. What goes around, turns around.
Gladys keep it up! They just mad you are telling the true. Team Nigerian man. Seating in my big ass house with 3 lux cars in the garage while drinking my wine with my Nigerian husband. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Saaaaaame 🤣👏🏽
🤣🤣🤣🤣
🔥🔥🔥🔥 okruuuuuu
@@mimikimia4149 tangu randy na frankos bakoloba boloba lisusu makambu ya ba congolais te bo siliki 😂😂😂😂
@@jeanclaudeM100 To Yebi makubu yaba Congolese men. Most of them are the same.
Je ne comprends plus l’émission, ils disent que Gladys ne doit pas donner l’avis sur les hommes congolais, mais pourquoi vous l’inviter dans une émission où vous parlez plus sur les relations amoureuses congolaises ? Et je trouve que Randy ne doit plus être inviter sur le plateau
Vraiment qu’ils arrêter de dire cela pck elle aussi congolaise etre marié à un nigérian et n’est pas avoir une relation avec un congolais ne veux pas dire qu’elle doit pas parler congolais franchement se plie de l’enlève si vous voulez pas qu’elle parle
Woow I'm a proud congolese women married to a nigerian man.. I guess i don't have any say in topics concerning our congolese community 🤔...
@@nicha-ibonzompaki5608 girl please! You still have your right to talk about Congolese. As a matter of fact you never lost the right to talk about Congolese.
@@nicha-ibonzompaki5608 But u are Congolese, we aren’t obliged to marry between us Congolese, we are free to make our choices
Oui il a toujours des propos très mal poli
Y’all need to chill man , give Gladys a rest !! She didn’t deserve all this energy at all
I agree
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I am only 18 years old right now, but when I see the way Randy , Trésor, Frankos and Dede speak to women and speak about women all I want to do is avoid dating a Congolese men in the futurs . Randy behave like a 4 years olds and he is rude, Trésor speak with statistics we don't know where it is coming from and most of the time put woman down without realising , Dede is sexist we are not even going to talk about him and Frankos is the type of person if you don't think like him or you don 't have the same opinion as him, problem. They are allow to speak generally about woman ( basi ya poto basa boye... , basi basa ba little girls ...) but when Woman are speaking on their personal experience it is now a problem . I am really disapointed, we all have seen frère Dede talking trash about Congolese woman but not one of the other men have stop him, you always see Frankos laughing at the back , trésor not saying anything, double Standard for real!! But now the fact that they had so much dirspect for Gladys!!!! I can't stand that right now I am really mad, I hope this is the last time that they talk to her like that and Christian has an host when you see that solola bien is turning to solola mabe, please calm the participant, and Gladys is right the men on this show have multiple time talked trash about Nigerian men, Trésor did it today and this is not okay, don't put other nationality down in order to uplift yours it really not cute.
Edit :
I forgot to had, in every single episode in this shows all the time, when the subject is about men or woman, when something bad or negative happen it is the woman faut , he cheated but it is because she did that ... , 'Na bible elobi basi basa na blood ya mabe or whatever', 'when there is a divorce, 99% of the time it because of the woman'. This shows as so much potential but eza bordel makasi pour le moment.
Edit: Dymun I really like you , you seems like an amazing person with good advice but episode after episode I feel like when she speak, she want men to agree with her and also I did not like the fact that when they were attacking Gladys she did not say anything but on backstage she was saying what they did to Gladys was not cool ?!??@
Etali biso te! c'est ton choix.
You are 18 and it shows that you have a lot of growing up to do, the people on the panel only represent themselves they don't speak for everyone
If you want to avoid Congolese men in the future then by all means do what is right for you, be blessed
WELL SAID. YOU ARE RIGHT ! AND DYMUND BEHAVE MORE AND MORE WITH MAYBE FEAR AND HYPOCRISY. I HOPE NOT. ITS SEEM THAT DYMUND A LINGAKA KO LOBELA MIBALI TE ! GLADYS YOU ARE A TRUE PERSON. TU N'ES PAS HYPOCRITE!
MAYBE DYMUN IS HYPOCRIT ! GLADYS HAS THE RIGHT TO GIVE HER OPINION FOR GOD'S SAKE !!! WELL SAID. PLEASE NEXT TIME THE HOST YOU NEED TO HOLD A WATCH AND GIVE 3MNS TO YOUR GUEST ! MARRIAGE HAVE TI BE BALANCE IN BOTH SIDE !
You Guys Randy and Frankos you attacked Gladys personally !!!! It was very disrespectful !!! I’m disappointed 👎 Deborah if you read this I Love you ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
🙏❤️❤️❤️
This was unfair on Gladys😞FYI she is Congolese and has the right to speak on any topic or issues period
WELL SAID. MEN WERE REALLY DISRESPECTFUL! TRESOR IMAGE 1 NIGERIAN A ESCROKER YO ELOBI TE QUE EZA BA NIGERIANS TOUT !!!
This was truly sad to watch. A bunch of Beta males with small complex syndrome unable to deal with their feelings. One has a napoleonic complex, the other is too emotional & passive aggressive and the last is on some generic ego trip. Mediator also did a poor job of arbitration in this debate....i guess its all for content....mawa.
never thought that id read a comment like this coming from a man. more power to you. you hit the nail on the head!
@Babu katanga you're a beta male like them with comment! mawa pona yo!
@@jeanclaudeM100 🤣
Right papa!
😳😳😳😳😳. Les hommes là vraiment. Des vrais immatures. They need to apologize to Gladys.
YESSS
Need to??? You can't tell them what to do unfortunately you don't have that authority
Gladys 😓❤
C'est de l'acharnement..
Il y a 2 façons d'apprendre sur cette terre soit par sa propre expérience soit par l'expérience des autres.
Ce n'est pas parce qu'elle a pas expérimenté qu'elle n'a plus le droit de parler. De nombreux sujets sont débattus par des gens qui n'ont pas vécu mais qui ont compris par l'expérience des autres ou juste parce que ils ont observé. Ils se sont fait une idée.
C'est de la culture générale et il existe plusieurs réalités et pas qu'une seule.
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Mais mibali pe ebele soki bakomi poto bakomaka mabe.... what I realized with the show every single topics they are always singling women out... even when the questions are being asked for both men and women they always tend to focus on women and forget men... advices needs to be given to both men and women not just women.... I think what the men in the panel’s are doing is not helping men. Because they don’t really have advices for men they always focus on women while the topics were ment to focus on both genders. Most of divorces are also happening because of infidelity Congolese men are not faithful you can forgive them 100 times they will continue to do it. I don’t like this blame women for most of the things that happened in a relationship because men cause lots of problems and they expect women to just keep on having a big heart. Once you take a decision to leave ooooh basi y’a poto baza boye.... that’s why I think really our community needs to focus more on advising men on how to be faithful and respectful towards their women instead of just talking to women.... I don’t really think if a great woman finds a great man who treats her well who’s respectful towards her will just woke up one day and leave the man or ask for divorce. If a woman decides to leave a marriage it is a build up of things
WOW YOU SAID IT GIRL ! THAT'S SO TRUE !!
Bolongola Randy wana pardon. Munoko trop.
😂😂
Munoko mabe randy oyo
Il m’énèrve!!!!
Ba ndeko ba panalistes svp to respecter ba règles ya débat pona ezala instructif: 1. Respect ya modérateur (Christian Bless) na temps ya parole 2. Botika bi ganga ganga ezo tia makelele 3. Pas d’attaque personnelle, ni les qualifications injurieuses comme ( menteur(se), manipulateur(trice) etc...) svp 🙏🏽 reflétons une bonne image tout en restant authentique; if you not agree with someone it’s no the reason to finga him to her. Thanks!
WELL SAID !
I don't always agree with Gladys but the way yall treated her in this episode was disgusting what a bunch of bullies!! Specially Randy is so immature 😩🤢
C'est très intéressant encore une fois, mais je n'apprécie pas du tout qu'on stigmatise Gladis sous prétexte qu'elle ne soit pas avec un congolais, c'est sa vie privée. Et c'est assez marrant parce que si c'est un homme qui est avec une non congolaise, il n'allait pas être autant attaqué comme Gladis l'est, (enfin je pense). D'ailleurs elle a le droit d'exprimer ses opinions comme tout les autres, c'est ça qui équilibre assez bien l'émission je trouve. Ca n'aurait aucun sens si tout le monde pensait de la même manière ! J'ai aimé la nuance que Dymund a fait entre demander et communiquer avec son mari par rapport aux projets et tout et j'ai compris l'importance de cette nuance là, parce quand une femme demande c'est comme si elle était dans une position inférieure à celle de son mari, or les décisions se prennent à 2 pour moi. Deborah hyper calme... C'est dommage qu'on l'a coupe tout le temps.
Gladys a totalement le droit d’être avec qui elle veut le problème c’est qu’elle la saison passé “il n’y a aucun avantage d’être avec un congolais ajoute l’attitude en plus de cela. Elle n’a jamais été avec un congolais de sa vie. C’est sa le problème
@@newgate289 merci!!!!!
VRAIMENT . VOUS AVEZ BIEN DIT !
Gladys 😍 the best!
I’ve noticed that the men only praise the one that co-signs their opinions even if it’s sometimes very toxic. Also Gladis is right that they co-sign the hate against Congolese women cause they rarely ever correct or stop Fr Dede, they always just laugh.
I feel like there is a lot of inconsistencies na maloba ya ba panelists. Deborah was attacked po a generalisaka maloba na ye, mais Tresor a lobi que basi nioso ba botama na esprit y a separation. Bo loba nanu, oyo eza generalisation te? Bo pekisi Gladys a loba pona ba relationships po a bima na ye te na mobali ya Congolais and she can’t possibly have experience. Soki to suivre logique wana, fallait pas Frankos a loba pona liballa to divorce po a bali nanu te? I don’t understand the need to convince women that their opinions are wrong or not valid.
Il y a eu trop d'acharnement contre Gladys, ce n'est pas digne. Ça tournait trop à un problème personnel, respectez vous les gars. #TeamGladys
Vraiment, moi aussi j'ai vu cela. Des hypocrites ha ha ha 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Teams Gladys, Elle est incomprise, une congolaise rejetée par son peuple car mariée avec un nigerien. Beaucoup de congolaises sortis avec des congolais pensent la même chose pourquoi n'aurait elle pas le droit de le dire !!!
Aimons nous même avec nos défauts et avançons ensemble
Vraiment je suis très énervée qu'elle se fasse autant lynché juste parce qu'elle a voulu se marier à un nigerian. Au bout d'un moment elle est humaine elle encaisse aussi
Jte jure ! À chaque fois, ils lui font la réflexion! Qu’est-ce qu’il y a, quel est le problème ?!
@@macy6791 Complexe d'infériorité
@@samuellak5034 Effectivement je pense que si son mari était sur place ce ne serait pas du tout pareil
À croire qu'elle n'a jamais côtoyé d'hommes congolais de sa vie. En gros c'est comme s'il disait: Tu n'es pas marié donc tu ne peux pas donner ton avis sur le mariage (wich they do)
Honestly I agree with Gladys and Deborah , solola bien everyday " basi ya ba congolaise this basi ya ba congolaise that " please can we rest . Can’t remember last time they spoke positively about Congolese women 🙄
À la place de Randy ramenez nous Oscarine to tonton dede... Randy trop bisalela 👌🏽
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He is very arrogant, he makes me uncomfortable 😐
@@Chelaskitchen IL MENERVE!!! J’ALLAIS VRAIMENT LE REMETTRE A SA PLACE
Randy is so immature u don’t need to put your tongue out like that to downgrade someone 🤦🏾♀️ bo longola ye
Vraiment very childish
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Il m’énerve 🙄 très enfantin 😩 il doit vrmt s’améliorer et il est tout le temps entrain de dire je dois ramener je ne sais quoi pour mes oreilles à cause de Gladys m on est où là, il soûle grave
It's was disgusting 😖
THANK YOU
The panel should stop attacking Gladys for marrying a Nigerian.
I can be around drug addicts all my life and I will never have to do drugs to know that doing drugs is bad. I could never eat fumbwa but if I see that every time people eat it they get sick, then I can talk on what I have seen. Gladys is a Congolese women who has brothers, friends, uncles, fathers, etc who may have had bad relationship experiences and from what she has seen, she talks on. Her opinion is not invalid at all. If anything she is giving an outside perspective that is needed in a debate platform like this. Also let’s not attack people personally y’all. It’s not cute.
WELL SAID ! THEY HAVE TO LET GLADYS TALK. AND THEY HAVE TO RESPECT EVRYONE'S OPINION !
Randy's behaviour nearer to the end is the very reason why Congolese boys/ guys will never be held accountable for their behaviour. Don't @me. Merci
Men be accountable for what you are saying . Everything it’s women this women that I’m tired sometimes we don’t even feel encouraged by you guys !
And also stop talking bad about Nigerians all people are not the same.
Thank you dymund 👌🏽let’s respect each other
Christian needs to do a better job at navigating the show. This episode went so left it’s unbelievable. He even fueled the guys bashing Gladis. Now I don’t share her opinion but the topic of this episode was the divorce rate in marriages and you guys ended like this
"Mère à palais" mais jamais personne pour défendre la femme congolaise. C'est dommage
Vreumanttt
I love they way you express yourself Dymond but I also have noticed that your point of views are often very male-oriented. As congolese women and knowing how our culture is, we really have to be careful about the things we say if we want to move our community into a different direction. I am shoked about what you said about cheating cause thats exactly what our mothers and grandmothers have been doing for years and guess what: they STAYED but they also SUFFERED a lot. Basi baya n’a mokili te pona ko se sacrifier pona mibali. Accepting bullshit behavior from a man in fear of losing him is very toxic. The world does not revolve around being able to keep a man.
If that's all you took from her then Eza kk pasi, you women that love to twist things. I don't see her accepting toxic behaviour. You have selective hearing
@Malaika Kayembe why do you think that??
@Malaika Kayembe yup, and I kinda understand why she chose not to. But do you??
@@ngande8130 I want you to watch her responce when Christian asked her: « Soki même mobali azweli yo banda, est-ce que okoki kobengana ye na ndaku? » Her response was very much problematic and toxic giving the fact that we live in a culture of « Kanga motema «. A lot of women are not in happy relationships and are being abused and cheated on multiple times. Putting the blame on a woman who chooses to put a man out of the home for valid reasons is very insensitive to me. Everyone lives a different reality. How can you know how you would react to something you have never experienced...
That is because she is a pick me'st. She has to be that way because most of her followers are Congolese and also to occasionally be published on voice of Congo.
We love you Gladys 💚. Randy you need to grow up. Frankos I am disappointed in the fact you called Gladys a liar what a shame!!! She’s Congolese and she has the right to speak about her community. At least she’s not hypocrite she says her opinions and what she feels like saying. Aza nde misu gaaaa bo tika ye tranquil
Oh my God, I just discovered this UA-cam Channel. I'm from Congo Brazzaville. I do love y'all
You are welcome Darcil...
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We love you too
I can't lie this time I'm on Gladys side
Before watching any episode, I make sure Gladys is there, otherwise I can't watch, Men keep the same energy when dede is talking bad about women. Gladys I loooooooooooove you since day1💓💓💓💓❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Big love❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
C'est à cause du poids de la mentalité congolaise que beaucoup de femmes congolaises souffrent, car la mentalité congolaise place la femme comme responsable de tout et déresponsabilise les hommes en cachant leur fautes et défauts.
Donc quelque part Gladys et Déborah n'ont pas tords sur tout.
C'est aussi cette mentalité congolaise qui règne dans les églises congolaises malheureusement, beaucoup d'hypocrisies, les gens ferme les yeux sur les bêtises et horreur que commettent les faux hommes pasteurs ou chantres .
En ce qui concerne les hommes congolais , ils ne sont pas tous pareils donc il faut pas généraliser mais il ne faut pas non plus fermer les yeux sur ceux qui sont irresponsables, il y en a un paquet il faut pas les cachés. Parcontre les femmes congolaises faites de bon choix arrêtez de vous précipitez par peur d'être seules , il y a des hommes congolais très bien éduqués.
I am disappointed in the host, not knowing how to stop Frankos and Randy bullying Gladys, even with the rest.
Always there to defend your Congolese community , but it starts within these gatherings.
Did you defend Gladys as a CONGOLESE woman?
Randy has to be removed. Thanks.
Gladis we loveeeee you❤️
Le garçon en rose est très impoli
#TEAMGLADIS jusqu’à la fin ! OYÉ ! 👏🏾👏🏾
RANDY is so RUDE and disrespectful .
SERIOUSLY!
VERY
Le gars en rose pardon il faut le dégager, il est très impoli et hautain. Les gars n’arrêtent pas dénigrer les femmes congolaises l’autre avait sorti “muasi azala bête” plein de propos misogynes tenus par ces gars. Trésor a toujours tenu des propos limite xénophobes mais personne n’en parle. C’est juste une attaque personnelle envers Gladys, pourtant elle est congolaise. Être mariée à un nigérian ou juste un étranger ne ne veut pas dire que tu ne fais plus partie de la communauté.
Please congolese:
Respect is not submission
Respect is not agreement.
Respect is not silence .
We need to give people the grace to espress themselves and disagree without other feeling personally attacked. If we dont have that we would NEVER be able to have a conversation.
Congolese man in this panel are not accountable. Is never them that does wrong and therefor condone the evil other man do perpetuating the nonsense some congolese man are up to 😑😑 I can't
I am SORRY. But who is Randy please? Can we remove him? Trésor and Gladys always have opposite opinions but they laugh together. Randy is so arrogant. Please we don’t need this bad energy.
And can you add girl who can talk and defend each other ? No more pick me girl it’s not interested
Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you! Randy really pissed me off with his arrogance
Thank you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Merci
At 18:55 when Frankos brought up the importance of the man owning his own house to avoid being thrown out by the woman - there's nothing wrong with the man having his own before settling down. However, in order to avoid that situation of being kicked out, it's important to love yourself and truly know yourself first, know what love is and how to love someone properly and understand what it takes to make marriage work before you get into a relationship. That way, you'll be able to ensure that you don't overlook red flags and you discern the right person to marry. Tbh, a guy gets kicked out for two reasons - he overlooked the red flags concerning the woman that he married or he did something wrong that gave her the incentive to kick him out. I don't condone that behaviour, however there's always a bigger picture that explains what led to the divorce.
The inferiority complex of Congolese men is tooooooo huge, nazo kamwa penza...! Bo bosana te que ba Nigériens bazalaka ba AFRICAINS neti biso. To lingaka te soki ba mindele bazalaka racist mais biso moko tolingaka ko discriminer batu ya biso moko, surtout ba mibali ya biso. Mawa penza. Work on your inferiority complex!
Vous êtes là pour encourager les betises de Gladys qui a insulté les hommes congolais. Mutu moko aza na complex ya nigerians aza te.
@@jeanclaudeM100 Soki bino bozo kanisa boye, nako ndima ngo, mais jamais nako ndima que surtout ba mibali ya congolais ba finga mutu na niveau ya boye po abali libanda, it's definitely a big inferiority complex. Ti lelo na mona ata Talkshow moko te où ba Nigériens ba kanisaka lokola biso soki basi na bango ba bali libanda.
@@mimikimia4149 Ba attaques envers Gladys nga pe na sepeli na yango te pcq ekomi personel mais Gladys atika bilobela. Nga naza na muana ya metisse na mundele (hollandaise) mais sikoyo naza en couple na congolaise et je suis très heureux pcq même culture mais jamais na finga ba congolaises.
@@jeanclaudeM100 Yango tozo loba: Pona nini bakotisaka ba Nigériens na ba débats à cause de libala naye? Ezo monana que ezo blesser bango quelque part, eza normal te.
Gladis a raison vous l'attaquez personnellement et pensez qu'elle va continuer à sourire c'est méchant, et Francos cache bien son jeu je le vois souvent rire quand on attaque les femmes mais qd c'est les hommes il s'énerve I see you
Grave!!!
Un hypocrite, il ne serait un bon mari à mon avis
Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Frankos
Gladys a le droit de s'exprimer peu importe
qu'elle ait eu de l'expérience avec des congolais ou pas .
la franchement ozo beta mabe
WELL SAID !
The Randy guy is so annoying and completely immature and Frankos was really disappointing. How can you pretend to love Congolese women and bash them off altogether? And how does marrying another national strip you from speaking of your own people? This episode was so personal and intentional, I don’t even know the moral of it in the end.
Let a Congolese man dating outside speak on Congolese women lol
Très bien parlé ! 👌👌👍👍
Dear All,
I would like first all to praise you for having such a good educative television programme and is enlightening the life of many people in one ways to another. Sololá Bien is helping our African community to address some of the issues many people in our are experiencing and continue to raise unprecedented awareness involving bad practices and attitudes that are very detrimental in our community and younger generation. Amongst which have been clearly revealed during this week programme by the way in which some of the panellist spoke and acted during the debates watched almost not only by Congolese but also by many African communities who also speaks and understand Lingala, French and English.
As an African, I have always been proud of the positive values and beliefs in which we all have been brought up and continue to practice in our life, marriage workplace and the legacy we pass on to the next generation. Solola Bien programme is amongst the fruit of this positive change and success of our communities and have always praised many younger generation in our community who are role models. As well as all these leaders and successful men and women in our community who do not make self heard and known in our community unprecendently continue to represent and honour our country and continent in their workplace, family and social circle environment in the positive way they conduct self and live their life with others.
Today, I watched Solola Bien programme but was very disappointed on the attack conducted by the two male panelists against their fellow colleague Gladys. This was a awkward to watch and very shocking to see these forms of insensitivity level of attacks and denigration been carry out by younger men who are reinforcing these poor coercive attitudes, ignorance and behaviour. The two men panellists were absolutely arrogant, puffed-up and bullying If this had been in an office environment both men would have been disciplined or fired. Therefore, contradicted the TV programme good cause and beliefs been advocated which we are all the times been condemning in our society and unceasingly working to eradicate.
We do not want to always been reinforced an idea of having a community where some people can denigrate and talk to others any how without they like been sensitive about others persons feelings. A society where the women often have to be perceived inferior than men.
A society where many do not want to break away from bad traditional values and beliefs that are very detrimental for the younger generation and often would cast others as outsider for marrying a person from another community. Therefore, should not have a words to comments on a particular issues affecting the Congolese Community just because they have not experiencing same marital life experiences is very socking to be aired in such amazing television programme air and view not only by the Congolese community but also to others African and European who are close to us and understand our language. We are now living in a globalised society where interracial marriages are becoming more comment and very valued and respected by many because it make us united and strong. But, to see and hear many others people different views is very disturbing and very poor often make me questioned many issues happing in our family, marriage, country and African community whether many needs to be re-educate about social life, beliefs and values
Please, may this week programme enable the host and panellist to re-assess and evaluate and ensure that such types misconducts and insensitivity does not re-occurred and should be addressed and provide support to those involve with help and assistance they need. So that they will be able to learn and be educated on interpersonal skills, respect, tolerance, professionalism and equality not addressing others as they were 6 years old and referring people from the tribes such as Muluba clearly demonstrate impartiality and unprofessionalism. Because this sort of poor mentalities and lack of empathy clearly demonstrate some of the revolving biggest issues we are all facing and nobody would like their children and relatives or friends been affected by these appalling behaviours will impact upon their mental wellbeing and revolving to an unbroken revolving circle.
Also, it will be great to avoid having on the panel people who do not have knowledge about the topic that will be air in the programme. For instance, there should be at least a person who may be an experts on the topic such as marriage and mental wellbeing, business or politic. It will be useful to have at least a panellist who has a degree in social policy or psychology , politic , business, travel and tourism degree or master level to be able to explain well with evidences that can be backed up with facts and arguments from others panellist. So that it will help provide clarity to the problems debated. Similarly, it will help provide the audience with a clear pictures of how these issues can be addressed and enabled our African community to grow and succeed in every level. In doing so, it will prevent any forms of misconduct and personal attacks such as witnessed during this week programme to re-occur without affecting the audiences who many are also happily married to others from different communities and are good husbands and wives, are very successful within their marriages, careers and have good morals and values based on respect and support. Talked to others with sensitive, respect, tolerance and make sure that they children are raised in a very protective environment and are offered emotional support at all the times to enhanced their growth which we all known many of in our community do not get from their parents due to many social issues circumstances many have endured in their life which amongst includes lack of awareness of parenting and roles and responsibilities to provide consistence emotional support and awareness in many issues will make them become role model and do well in life without having clash of ideas and beliefs which will result in our children to become uncomfortable to be around a toxic environment and people who are not uplifting at all. We want our community to always promote and encourage respect, positivity, unity, love, support to enable one another to fulfilling life and respect.
I hope my advise will be read and taken to consideration
Many thanks
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Randy you taking things personal that is not good, Gladys has the right to give her opinion because everything you guys are saying is not your own experience but what you experience as a human in this world because if it was only personal many of you wouldn't have opinion.
Randy is so rude kmt
Also frankos, tresor and randy had no right to disrespect gladis and dymund sits there not defending her kmt😒
Enough with the insults about nigerian men what is the issue dating/marrying outside of our culture
Let's ask ourselves this question why is there so much divorce in the congolese community cos there's no foundation in the marriage and also no one is putting God first in the centre of it and some congolese couples don't show good examples of the marriage itself how do you expect it to last🤷🏾♀️
Thank you!
Gladys we are together in this! I'm 100% fully congolese with a german man
Its a fact that you can't talk about love expérience with congolese man if you never date thems but Gladys can talk about her community cuz she's congolese
Right
Un épisode très décevant et inutile en terme d’apport intellectuel.
Le comportement de vos panelists envers Gladis est juste inacceptable, ce n’est pas en se montrant plus trash, plus « impolie » qu’une personne qu’on règle ce genre de différents mais au contraire .
Leave her personal life alone, Un débat est un échange d’opinions, il n’y a pas à ramener la vie personnelle des un et des autres sur vos argumentaires c’est très immature et le présentateur de meme on a pas besoin de connaître la nationalité de son mari à toute les sauces de même qu’on ne connaît pas ton statut social à toi et on s’en fou c’est pas le sujet de l’émission. Recentrez-vous !
This episode was straight up disrespectful and misogynistic. I did not enjoy it all. Look at how Congolese men are protected over and over again, while they’re being super sexist. The host was also biased and didn’t stop the others interrupting Gladis. Just let it be if y’all are not ready or mature enough to have these kind of conversations. Why is „man-bashing“ when women speak on their realities, why does it hurt the male panelists sooooo bad when Gladis points out the social issues women in our community are facing but men are allowed to open their mouth just to silence Gladis. Gladis has every right to speak on Congolese men. I absolutely didn’t like at all y’all were pointing her out as the agressor/angry black woman. That was too much. Male ego is one hell of a ****
Ah il y a certains hommes qui sont tellement manipulateurs, qu'ils n'ont aucun respect pona muasi.
Deborah is soo beautiful 😻
Dymund t’a bien parler mais fallait la défendre Gladys sur le plateau devant randy et frankos au lieu de vouloir garder ton image de “maman presidente” 🙄
Soki ekomi ya kanda, ya emotion to ya haine c plii mié to tika pardon 🙌🏾
😅
C'est plus mieux lobi kk
Omg who’s the guy with the peach shirt omg so immature 🙄😂
This is Congolese show guys so I don’t know why you keep bringing up Nigerians. This shows you not happy being Congolese why not just change your nationality to Nigerian.
I really did not enjoy the Gladys bullying! Even if she is not married to Congolese she is allowed to have an opinion on them she is Congolese was raised in a Congolese household and surrounded by Congolese all her life!
#stopbullyingGladys
What is the issue to marry outside your culture?
Gladys oza na raison tangu olobi ke Francos soki bandeko mibali mususu bazoloba mabe pona basi yaba congolais ye asekaka kk avec bcp de pleisir. Botika Gladys avanda naye pardon po la majorite ya mibali yaba Congolais baza ba escro
I would love to see an episode on the acceptance of natural beauty. We all know bleaching and even the acceptance of our natural hair is still a major issue in our community.
Bo tika nanu ko kotisa Dymund na makambu na bino. mama présidente ya parti nini ? Bango nioso baza ba congolese !!!
Moko a bala congolese man, mususu a zwa ba déceptions na ba congolese men and the last one a bala ekolo mususu but in the end of the day ba tikali kk ba congolese women yango ba choose them to join this talk show. Bo tika ko kitisa mwasi po bo tombola mususu. C'est pas bien.
Btw, thank you guys for the season 3. See you the next time ❤️👏🏿
Every episode ba mibali ba za aventurers. I think that's a lack of them addressing a challenging topic. Let's grow the conversation, maybe change the format of how questions are posed, Or answer fan questions. I need more moderation, and less screaming lol.
Solola bien if your show is about a certain topic bring people in that department do statistics ask around. It seems like alot of this panelist are just here so as to defend their own views not talk about real facts that r in the community. Esp the men they are in limbo with alot of their so called "factual" statements
Gladys ❤️
My Nigerian boyfriend watches this then comes and asks me to translate lol please you guys need to put subtitles in English
Por favor
Team gladys today ❤️❤️
J’ai vraiment l’impression que malgré les différents sujets, les hommes en particulier ont du mal à être neutre et donner leur point de vu vis à vis des deux parties (homme et femme). La femme est très souvent attaqué, on dirait que c’est son procès. Ce qui fait qu’ils peuvent avoir des arguments valables mais c’est tellement trop généralisant, inculpant, indexant et toujours envers la gente féminine que je me demande si ses hommes ont été abondonné par leur mère... i don’t understand.
En plus il y a un double standard. Quand frère Dede azo ko loba ba bêtises bango niosso bazo seka, personne lui dit que ça diminue la femme congolaise et au contraire on dit aux femme de ne rien dire, mais c'est l'inverse, il faut voir comment ils s'offusquent.
WoW y’a Tresor oza somo 😂😂 esprit y’a séparation! Ah teehh i do not agree
Gladis ❤️ i like her. She is true in everything she says.
Dymond alingaka soki mibali bazo betela ye maboko hein, very much « pick me vibes ». Are we really going to act like women are throwing men out of homes for fun? Fact is a lot of congolese men in the Diaspora are irresponsible, unfaithful and disrespectful. Just because you think you have a good man doesn’t mean everyone else’s experience is not valid.
Thank youuu👏🏾👏🏾 I am tired of the idea that Congolese women are evil. They fail to realise that a lot of men are very abusive disrepectful etc as you said. They are intimidated at the fact that women are having more rights and are free to speak. That is why when Gladis or Rondel speak they shout over them while they tell Gladis to stop talking when others speak. The men have continously especially Fr Dede bashed us, Congolese women calling us ‘ba ndoki’ but none of the men have ever stood up to defend us so now that Gladis has given you the same energy now she cannot talk about Congolese men, but when you said the same thing about Nigerian men about how they were scammers, you can continue to bash them though you have never dated a Nigerian man.
Sooo pick me !
Duymund is a clout chase elle cherche des followers
lies she has defended women in the past on this show, because she says something or 2 you dont agree on ts pick me vibes. Lol
@@evalarose clout chase oyebi ye hein
Gladys Kanata bisou asilisi bango 😅😅😅😂😂
This was a s***show. The disrespect towards women especially Gladys is too much. The way these men especially Frankos talked to Gladys is absolutely inacceptable. She is a grow woman, someone's wife and someone's mother. What's the purpose of this show again? If y"all can't respect each other's opinion and be mature maybe y'all shouldn't be doing this. SMH
Eiii ba congolese 😂🤣’ solola bien ‘ Mais bozo solola bien te ...always screaming 🤣 anyway love it..am here because of congotoglobal
Iknow right I’m here for my ppl as well but the talk on another mouth talking super louder screaming bozo solola bien te
But I’m proud of all em
NA EPISODE OYO MIBALI BA SOLOLI MABE MAKASSI. BA MANQUER GLADYS MAKASSI !! EZA MAWA !
Team Gladys!! ❤️❤️
Randy brings another vibe into the show which is negative
Christian should’ve brought the panelists back to the main subject man just sat there and entertained it 🙆🏽♀️
J’espère que les panellists et surtout Christian Bless lisent les commentaires parce que la manière dont cet épisode s’est transformé en règlement de compte contre Gladys, c’était insupportable à regarder. Même si on peut ne pas être d’accord avec elle c’est pas une raison pour se comporter comme ça. Il faudrait vraiment que Christian s’efforce de recadrer les gens parce que parfois il joue plus le rôle d’un instigateur que de médiateur.
MOYEN TE. LES HOMMES ONT ETE TRES IMPOLIS. GLADYS AZA MAMA. ATA AZO LOBA NETI BANGO TE ELOBI TE QUE BA LOBELA YE MABE !!!
I believe it’s best that they try theirs to stay on the topic .Because Most of the time they go out of the topic.
Soki gladis aza na droit yakoloba ya mibali yaba congolais te pq babenguisaka ye kasi 🙄🙄
Mibali nionso lelo balobi mape
Sous-titre eza wapi???
y’all need to leave Gladys alone...She is married to an African man... Stop dividing us more.
What the heck??? «tu n’as pas le droit...» ils se prennent pour qui ces hommes???