NO CONTACT with a Narcissist - Five ways you are afraid to block a Toxic Person
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2022
- Let's talk about NO CONTACT with a Narcissist. Here are Five ways you are afraid to block a Toxic Person. Let me know what you think in the comments
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I am scared of the smear campaign but if you not block it will never ends
I used to be afraid of blocking my Ex because I was in denial and second guessing myself about doing so. But rhenni realised that I needed to start thinking of myself and not how he'd feel. 🍒
Yes! Think about yourself…you deserve peace and healing!
After 62 years, if you can't sever them from your life, I've learned the best method is to narc them back. Narcissists will run the other way from another narcissist. But do it intentionally. Bully them into submission, and they'll go away. Yes, it's tough position to be in, but consider it an act of kindness, to yourself. You're worth it.
IM AM SO LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS VIDEO.
I WAS HORRIBLY ABUSED EMOTIONALLY VERBALLY
ABUSED BY A MALIGNANT NARCISSISTS.
IM BEING GIVEN THE SILENT TREATMENT FOR OVER 3 MONTHS IM TERRIFIED
OF BLOCKING MY ABUSER.
NARCISSISTIC ABUSE IS VERY BRUTAL
I was afraid to block mine because if I did, I wouldnt know what was coming, if he would show up because I blocked all other avenues, and what he was saying about me and posting about me as he had started aa social media smear campaign and posting i appropriate pictures of me that I HAD NOT permitted or known he had taken
I guess I'm not afraid to block the narcissist I block my mother my brother it's been a while I know I won't go back on that for sure but I'm having trouble blocking unblocking blocking unblocking my ex or current it's Twisted I need to stay away from him keep him blocked! Thanks for speaking on this!
I did that in the beginning also but now he’s blocked everywhere. I also blocked his family who enable him even though they see who he really is. Find your peace and heal.
Me too. I understand what you mean. I hope you are doing fine now. And you deserve someone that treats you good. You deserve so much better. A big hug for you 🤗
@@QueenBee-fg1iz exacly. Otherwise you keep rumaneting. A big hug for you Queen Bee...🤗
@@annettedevries7559 Thank you! Yes, I am finally at peace and moving forward. Hugs back.
@@QueenBee-fg1iz Glad to hear you,re at peace en moving forward...💪🤗
I was afraid to block her because I was trying to maintain relationships with our mutuals. I figured I could slowly diminish our engagement but while I was slowly doing that, she smeared me and destroyed those mutual relationships anyway. Meanwhile, she was still calling me and acting like we were cool. I realized then that there was no win. I was fighting a losing battle so I have just walked away, blocked her, and let her have it. It hurt for a while, but my life has been so peaceful for the last 7 or 8 months. It has been so nice to not have the constant feeling of my nervous system in duress
Well hello there. Same Sad problem here
Listen up to what he says. Come out of the ashes and know that you were a pawn in someone else’s game. You may not be able to have no contact due to children or your job but do your best to get out.
He can still send a carrier pigeon… ✉️ 🕊️… no but fr what if you have Kids together (he Never showed interest for) … he can contact through social services/ court and claim his right of contact
I listen to you and don’t fake it. I’ve legit blocked everything I possibly could. There are definitely things that are popping up though. I can’t remember every single thing.
I’m finishing up my home renovations and will be selling my home soon. i am considering changing my number as well.
I’m a ghost. As much as possible. I no longer go places we frequented. I don’t go places I might see her parents. And I talk my friends ears off with my concerns. My social circle is amazing
Great video. I was scared to block too for various reasons, mostly professional, but my narc left me with no choice. She continued to hoover me on and off for 4-5 months on different apps/platforms. I changed my phone number as well after she message bombed my phone after 4 weeks of silence. 30+ messages in one day, including some pictures. Could not take anymore BS. I had to take serious action.
Thank you for watching . Good for you taking actions into your own hand, its tough dealing with one, it will be an endless battle. Wishing you the best!
I have been discarded about 1 year ago and my ex narc (covert) completely ghosted and blocked me, even changed his number. About 6 month after all of this I noticed beeing unblocked again on one area of social media. I unblocked him too but nothing happened since then. This is the situation since about 5 month - so what is this? I blocked him now again there, but I feel like he won't even notice and if he will it won't bother him anymore.
I can't block because he would be so upset, angry and totally rage and be so hurt and said he would kill himself... so hard to go NC because of those reasons but my god is it exhausting... he cheated, lied, gaslit me, emotionally abused me, controlled me, isolated me, threw my things away and changed my whole house, made me get facial fillers to 'be attractive for him'... I was so devastated when I finally left but all I am now is angry and exhausted and long to go NC but can't because of those reasons. So exhausting and I just want to heal
He will always use those reasons to keep you in prison.
I hope that you were able to block him by now. I understand and went thru the same things along with physical abuse. However, he was saying those things to still control u and be a part of his life in some way. Unfortunately, he never cared about ur well being and he would’ve moved on the next day if you passed during the relationship. Please, find your worth and care for urself more than u care for him. It takes work, but u can do it. Blocking is the beginning of ur healing.
It’s been 9 months since I blocked my mother even though I still live with her and she complains why I did that meaning it hurts her that I blocked her.i also blocked her golden child.
When I block he shows up at my place.
I have a question, it’s been 11 months for me since I was discarded.. Iv been no contact for at least 4 months. Why is after all this time, for no apparent reason do I wake up out of the blue and miss my ex and feel grieve at the loss as I did when it first happened? Is it connected to the abuse in any way or is it just how I’m made up as a person? Iv had 2 good months being happy and content and for no reason that I can understand I’m down on my knees feeling lost..
You’re trauma bonded 😞 This is a link to another video of his about it.
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Because you,re love was real. It takes time. It,s hard. I,m in the same position as you. 🤗
I feel you. I’m going through the same thing right now. Out of the blue, after 2 months no contact, getting my life back, being healthy and finally starting to feel genuine happiness and BAM wake up missing him. I think we just need to step back and acknowledge this and know it’s okay to miss the person. It was very real to us. Stay strong
@@Bipolishmomma although people say they are not happy with the new supply, well in reality she is and clearly more happy than she was when with i.. or she wouldn’t be with the new supply? They also say narcissists don’t really love but considering Kobe said she loved me more than anyone that also haunts me, I believed her when she told all though by ending it it couldn’t of been true.. there’s no justice really. She’s with someone and I’m still struggling.. :/
@@Bipolishmomma Yep. It,s normal. Whe loved them for Real. Stay strong. Where all in this together...🤗