"If your relationship is about extracting something out of somebody, it does not matter how much you manage, there will be constant trouble. If your relationship was an offering to the person who is next to you right now, then everything would be fantastic".-sadhguru
I agree.. excpect g a return on investment will always get you into your feelings.. do it because your generous not cause your waiting for your return or your payback . That mindset will only bring frustration, disappointment, and hurt feelings. If you can't do that then maybe you should figure out why? And if it's not overcommable then you have to move on. Tell em its not u it's me and move on. But figure it out so next relationship will not be hendered by this way of being or expecting something in return for your kindness . Not everyone is kind.. but everyone one of us is capable of controlling this within ourselves..most of us don't do it though..so we have issues. It's normal .. but doesn't have to be
Surely mutuality becomes an important factor to the health of the relationship & individuals at some point…? Just keeping the thoughts in the middle cuz extremes get pretty ugly.
@@user-iv6iz3jx8h well kinda.. it should be mutual..but if it's not. And your unhappy about it.. and your giving has been exhausted by a taker.. then at that point you have to ask yourself how long can u do it? Or ask the person in question why they never give the same? If you have nothing left to give..well then I think we all know what the answer is. .. if they won't bend. And focusing on their niceness isn't bending them into a nicer person to you .well then break it off. Their has to be mutual giveness in a relationship..and if there is really love here ..you probably wouldn't even be having this issue cause they'd want to give you the same if not more then what your giving them .but.. I stress this. You should never expect it! That only sets u up to get hurt. Do what you want .give what you decide..but if your happiness isn't their concern as you have tryed to create happiness in them with you by your giving. Then stop giving and move on..If they realize what they could not while with you .maybe they might realize it afterwards .hind sight is always 20-20. If you love something .set it free .if it was ment to be they will return.changed.. if it wasn't. Well then your better off..either way you keep your sanity.
@@Caolan-b6r it’s still there but the sharp tip of the knife has slowly morphed into a cold ache when I still often think of her. Roping is still likely, but I’ve decided to postpone until a certain age. Human life is nothing but longing for things you can’t have and the overwhelmingly painful emotions that come with that unsatisfied longing- at least for a lot of us.
"If your relationship is about extracting something out of somebody, it does not matter how much you manage, there will be constant trouble. If your relationship was an offering to the person who is next to you right now, then everything would be fantastic". "Do not underestimate negative relationships. You have a deep bond with those you hate, fear or envy." - Sadhguru
Why would u have a relationship where it will be only offering ? meaningless words. Every interaction is a transaction ... just that we can make it sound altruistic. Even we help others bcoz we feel good about it.
Thank you so ooo much my dear. Tell me.more and more things to get realize that what I am doing. I want my life to keep correct way to get my other work s give any indication it is maybe bitter or sweet . I just want to find out what is the way it want thank u sadhguru jee thank you namashkaram
Give love and act as a friend in a relationship that is on the verge of deterioration and see how it improves. This is an everyday solution to an everyday problem. Sadguru is always helpful to anybody and everybody. The other partner must feel that wanted relationship
Wanna know my secret? Always be true to yourself, don't people please, don't promise what you can't deliver, don't expect the passion to last forever. Prepare to evolve.That about covers it.
Imagine little beams of light hiding in your heart. Invite them to step forward and speak the pieces of truth they are holding for you. Listen to these lights in your heart. Heyoka ♏ Viper ☕🎉 Oasis
To you and everyone reading this, I send love, positive energies and well wishes from Ghana 🇬🇭 west Africa to you and yours. May we all live to our fullest potentials so we can live per our guru’s teachings to enhance our faculties and to better humanity in general. Peace be unto all of us!
Dear sir ,I simply wanted to say thank you for your wisdom, being raised in a western belief system has closed my eyes to many things, I appreciate your insight and your willingness to teach the xyz's as always I will continue to listen and process the information shared . again thank you my friend
OMG...this video came in at such a timely way! No, no, I wasn't about to kill myself of someone but the perspective made me put so complex situation into context. Thank you Sadhguru.
Expectations are the villan in relationships So you may ask if we don't expect anything why do we need to get into relationship, yes if one have enough courage and wisdom to live life alone till he die, it's good to not get enter into any relationship One thing I can tell is Don't expect your partner gonna be a super human who won't disappoint you in any aspect of life, there is no such human being on this planet Everyone have their own of life, so their way of life definitely in something comes opposite to our way of life So accept the few qualities in your partner which may hurt you little Fundamentally select a person who is responsible towards their career and their health and who be kind with others Because they can't hurt others so easily without any proper reasons Don't just by looks and wealth they have
3 things to start doing 👇🏽 1. Developing empathy and understanding 2. Making concrete plans for your goals 3. Act without expectating results Much love from a UA-camr 🤘🏽❤️
@@sfgtvee thank u...im at that point of a relationship that im hurt so badly but in love so madly, i dont know what should be my next steps..im cluelessly running around to justify my thought to forgive the person but unable to convincemyself
Exactly, if only one person has this mindset and the other is without it, There is room for exploitation, and sadhguru says if someone exploits you should you really be with them?
I liked what he said about relationships: When you truly love someone, no compromise is too great. However, when you feel you can no longer make compromises to be with that person, it is time to move away.
I am a Filipina living in Dubai, I've been listening so many of your preach, they are really very helpful and effective for me, God bless you. Looking forward to listen more from you.
I completely believe this, compromise is like a street that goes both ways. If both individuals do not compromise or if only one individual compromises- there will be an accident. The accident in this case is a fail relationship. Like the song goes it takes 2. If the relationship, becomes obscene best to go. There nothing more important than peace. Even police will arrest someone if they are disturbing the peace. In a relationship there needs to be peace in order to function properly.
I pray that whoever reads this and is going through a difficult time, don't give up, good things are coming for you, you will achieve your dreams in this lifetime.
Don't now after how many decades or centuries after will this world get such a legend with an unfathomable vision . Feel blessed to be here to hear such eye opening discourses.
Agreed ! Most problems come from a conditional love.. which isn't love at all . Be honest with yourself and realize this if you think your in a bad relationship.. it may be because you haven't realized this yet.. Love has no condition.
To sustain a relationship ..have to look beyond pleasure and attraction Then it should not aim at extracting happiness from other ....rather sharing your happiness .. Thanks sadguru
Have been writing something on this topic recently.🤔 Glad this video came at par with my thoughts. I Never thought that relationships are body based only. Though I used to be physical while expressing most of my emotions but that has reduced over time, and I realised its their mind that attracts me the most, it's the way they think and work, and because of this I connect more, may it be my friends, my brother's, my lovers 😅😂. I just wish some people didn't leave and also thought the same way.😅🤞
Relationships - be it love, friendship, or whatever - thrive on mutual respect, mutual trust, reciprocity, and fellow - feeling ! When that trust is lost, everything is lost !
It's a stark reality ! Truth hurts and hurts very deep, indeed ! How right was the great Swami Vivekanandji in his assessment in saying - "Truth can be said in thousand different ways ; yet each one can be true !"
Irrespective of your relationship statues,try be the best woman you can be both financial and otherwise.... I am 42 years old single mum living in California I'm hoping to retire at 50 if things keep going well for me. Bought my first house last month and I can't be more proud than I am right now. I am so glad I made good decisions about my finances that changed me forever.
Sadhguru,,,your words are like nectar. You can turn a foolish into a wise person. We shall all succeed in our paths if we follow you from the heart. Thank you so much for being with us!
Well, that was very straight forward and I would so want this video to reach each and every person thinking of killing themselves or someone else that in next day newspaper it should come a person changed his/her mind after watching Sadhguru's video 😂😂😂. This would be the best headline to read.
I have already seen many loves fail! Can you leave someone that you love to someone else who can take care of here or He very well than you? There comes love as solution! If really you love her or he, you have to break for her or his happiness!
@@chandangautam293 failing of love doesn’t equate to breakin up or leavin the person you love to another who could take better care…u could still love them and not be together at the same time, it isn’t love failin here, it’s still there so yeah it holds true. It only ever truly fails if wasn’t love altogether in the first place. Failin here means realising tat ur feelings weren’t what u wanted or named them to be but somethin else:))
I can’t forget her. No matter what. I will be sad until the last minute of this boring life. Nothing is worthy without her. There is no light, joy or point. Nothing really matters. Im just in autopilot. Lets see how long I can keep dragging my feet in this world. I love you mamita.
Appa. 🙏🙏🙏🙏 😊appa got relief for the soar throt,,, You communicate when ever i feel like,,talk to you,,, 😇 appa you are looking like parijataa flower,,,☺
Sadhguru i love you so much. i was recently in a state where i wanted to end my life, not over a sexual relationship, but just over my mindset at the time, i failed to see much point in my life an thought 12 years isnt so long, ill come back and sort it. i did try, but fairly unsuccesfully, a little bit here or there it comes back again yeno but what you said about just wait itll come eventually, man that hit me hard ahahaha all i could do was laugh and laugh. peace always onto you friend
"Can anyone please answer my question? I agree that love is all about giving, but as a normal human being, I also have some expectations, right? My partner is unable to fulfill them, but someone else can. I am afraid of this detachment from my partner because it might lead to losing them. I am really afraid of this." by this fear am tired to attach deeply with my partner but it hurts me and partner too
My life has changed because of you.. 🙏
"if you can't bend, you have to break" I love this line.. It makes so much sense 👌
"Break.. isn't it".....not "break it" 😊
Yes❤️
“Scale up your love! Why only love one person when you can fall in love with the whole universe.” - *SADHGURU* ✴️💜⭐️
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"If your relationship is about extracting something out of somebody, it does not matter how much you manage, there will be constant trouble. If your relationship was an offering to the person who is next to you right now, then everything would be fantastic".-sadhguru
I agree.. excpect g a return on investment will always get you into your feelings.. do it because your generous not cause your waiting for your return or your payback . That mindset will only bring frustration, disappointment, and hurt feelings. If you can't do that then maybe you should figure out why? And if it's not overcommable then you have to move on. Tell em its not u it's me and move on. But figure it out so next relationship will not be hendered by this way of being or expecting something in return for your kindness . Not everyone is kind.. but everyone one of us is capable of controlling this within ourselves..most of us don't do it though..so we have issues. It's normal .. but doesn't have to be
To some extent like do not expect instead you give. Right?
Surely mutuality becomes an important factor to the health of the relationship & individuals at some point…? Just keeping the thoughts in the middle cuz extremes get pretty ugly.
@@user-iv6iz3jx8h well kinda.. it should be mutual..but if it's not. And your unhappy about it.. and your giving has been exhausted by a taker.. then at that point you have to ask yourself how long can u do it? Or ask the person in question why they never give the same? If you have nothing left to give..well then I think we all know what the answer is. .. if they won't bend. And focusing on their niceness isn't bending them into a nicer person to you .well then break it off. Their has to be mutual giveness in a relationship..and if there is really love here ..you probably wouldn't even be having this issue cause they'd want to give you the same if not more then what your giving them .but.. I stress this. You should never expect it! That only sets u up to get hurt. Do what you want .give what you decide..but if your happiness isn't their concern as you have tryed to create happiness in them with you by your giving. Then stop giving and move on..If they realize what they could not while with you .maybe they might realize it afterwards .hind sight is always 20-20. If you love something .set it free .if it was ment to be they will return.changed.. if it wasn't. Well then your better off..either way you keep your sanity.
If you keep giving, it could turn into exploitation
"Do not underestimate negative relationships. You have a deep bond with those you hate, fear or envy." - Sadhguru 🙏❤️🙏
What about Narcissist People
@@shreehari2681 clear your mind then rewatch the video from around 10:11 until the end. your question about narcissists should be answered by then.
Hi, do you happen to know which video he says this quote in, I would be interested to hear it. Thank you xx
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"All relationship is a reflection of your relationship with yourself."
- Deepak chopra
Agreed.. I live Deepak Chopra and am a member of his.. and Sadhguru. They have changed my whole view on life. Live and Gratitude to you all.💗
I'm Not Getting interest in Marriage
or - Love
- Friend
Anything
🤯🤯
@@shreehari2681 then it is very sad
@@shreehari2681
So what would be your basic interest in Life?
To all reading this stay strong, stay positive, good things are coming your way!
Same is ment for you..
😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌🌹
Love all being in the creation & love yourself...your path will be filled with Good things..😍🤩👌
"No relationship is absolut - it is always variable. You have to conduct it well on a daily basis." - Sashguru ❤️🙏❤️
I don’t see any other way to stop the endless pain I feel without her
Did it ever get better, I'm 10 months in and struggling to see any reason to live whilst she's out enjoying life as if I never existed
@@Caolan-b6r it’s still there but the sharp tip of the knife has slowly morphed into a cold ache when I still often think of her. Roping is still likely, but I’ve decided to postpone until a certain age. Human life is nothing but longing for things you can’t have and the overwhelmingly painful emotions that come with that unsatisfied longing- at least for a lot of us.
"If your relationship is about extracting something out of somebody, it does not matter how much you manage, there will be constant trouble. If your relationship was an offering to the person who is next to you right now, then everything would be fantastic". "Do not underestimate negative relationships. You have a deep bond with those you hate, fear or envy." - Sadhguru
Why would u have a relationship where it will be only offering ? meaningless words. Every interaction is a transaction ... just that we can make it sound altruistic. Even we help others bcoz we feel good about it.
Thank you so ooo much my dear. Tell me.more and more things to get realize that what I am doing. I want my life to keep correct way to get my other work s give any indication it is maybe bitter or sweet . I just want to find out what is the way it want thank u sadhguru jee thank you namashkaram
It's soo..profound..no matter in what shape and size you are..people will get bored of you..my mind is blown...
We're in a relationship ❤️(everyone reading this we're)
Give love and act as a friend in a relationship that is on the verge of deterioration and see how it improves. This is an everyday solution to an everyday problem. Sadguru is always helpful to anybody and everybody. The other partner must feel that wanted relationship
Wanna know my secret? Always be true to yourself, don't people please, don't promise what you can't deliver, don't expect the passion to last forever. Prepare to evolve.That about covers it.
I'm Not Getting interest in Marriage
or - Love
- Friend
Anything
Amazing!!
Answer to your questions comes in many different ways when you are searching for it.
Imagine little beams of light hiding in your heart. Invite them to step forward and speak the pieces of truth they are holding for you. Listen to these lights in your heart. Heyoka ♏ Viper ☕🎉 Oasis
During this Satsang on 2016 I met Sadhguru first time in my life live 🙏😊 and then into Hatha teacher training 😊🙏
Great !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To you and everyone reading this, I send love, positive energies and well wishes from Ghana 🇬🇭 west Africa to you and yours.
May we all live to our fullest potentials so we can live per our guru’s teachings to enhance our faculties and to better humanity in general.
Peace be unto all of us!
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Love from India❤
Thx and love from No.California USA 🙏🏽🦋
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You have to love yourself. You can’t depend on others to love you or make you happy
Exactly thank you
You cant love yourself. This is called narcissism. Even narcissists don't truely love themselves. In fact, they hate themselves.
Wt sadhguru said about relationship was 💯 percent correct don’t keep relationship with body keep a relationship with persons hearts😍😍😍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
And aslo don't get married 😂
Ek ne kahi dushre ne mani, Guru Nanak ne kahi dono gyani...😍🤩
Student and youth must fallow Sadhguru 🙏🙏
Dear sir ,I simply wanted to say thank you for your wisdom, being raised in a western belief system has closed my eyes to many things, I appreciate your insight and your willingness to teach the xyz's as always I will continue to listen and process the information shared . again thank you my friend
A strong feeling of affection and concern toward another person is *RELATIONSHIP*
OMG...this video came in at such a timely way! No, no, I wasn't about to kill myself of someone but the perspective made me put so complex situation into context. Thank you Sadhguru.
Wisdom, clarity and intelligence!! Brilliant answer :)
Do best,don't adjust,spread peace and keep smile every day this things everyone learn
Expectations are the villan in relationships
So you may ask if we don't expect anything why do we need to get into relationship, yes if one have enough courage and wisdom to live life alone till he die, it's good to not get enter into any relationship
One thing I can tell is
Don't expect your partner gonna be a super human who won't disappoint you in any aspect of life, there is no such human being on this planet
Everyone have their own of life, so their way of life definitely in something comes opposite to our way of life
So accept the few qualities in your partner which may hurt you little
Fundamentally select a person who is responsible towards their career and their health and who be kind with others
Because they can't hurt others so easily without any proper reasons
Don't just by looks and wealth they have
3 things to start doing 👇🏽
1. Developing empathy and understanding
2. Making concrete plans for your goals
3. Act without expectating results
Much love from a UA-camr 🤘🏽❤️
O Sadhguru! You opened my eyes.🙏🏻
Glad that I got an opportunity to watch this video today!❤
What a kind, beautiful man❤️❤️❤️
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This is what I was waiting for the ages 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thank You Sadhguru 🙏🏻
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"The idea of marriage is to multiply the joy. Multiplying misery is a crime against Humanity." - Sashguru 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Who is Sashguru my freind😊😆🤣😂
What is there in the name? We must concentrate on the quote. 😊
“If you want your relationship to work, constantly remind yourself that the other is more significant than you.” -SADHGURU🧡🙏🏽💟
Good advise sir !
When you love the person so bad but he hurts you so bad, should i remind myself this and crush my self dignity and carryon with the relationship?
Not so. It don't work that way
@@sfgtvee thank u...im at that point of a relationship that im hurt so badly but in love so madly, i dont know what should be my next steps..im cluelessly running around to justify my thought to forgive the person but unable to convincemyself
Prema, if these words are followed by both of you, it will work. Otherwise, no.
Don't lose ur self respect. He can't bend. So, break it
"If you want your relationship to work, constantly remind yourself that the other is more significant than you." - Sadhguru 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Good advise sir !
His advice works great if everyone in the relationship has the same mindset.
Exactly, if only one person has this mindset and the other is without it, There is room for exploitation, and sadhguru says if someone exploits you should you really be with them?
These videos are so calming and informative! Thank you!
This video saved my life the other night...😢 Things are still bad but I'm gonna wait, & keep listening to Sadhguru.
💜💚🖤💙 Thank you.
I liked what he said about relationships: When you truly love someone, no compromise is too great. However, when you feel you can no longer make compromises to be with that person, it is time to move away.
That's basically saying you don't love them anymore, which to means you never reallh loved them to begin with
I am a Filipina living in Dubai, I've been listening so many of your preach, they are really very helpful and effective for me, God bless you. Looking forward to listen more from you.
I completely believe this, compromise is like a street that goes both ways. If both individuals do not compromise or if only one individual compromises- there will be an accident. The accident in this case is a fail relationship. Like the song goes it takes 2.
If the relationship, becomes obscene best to go. There nothing more important than peace. Even police will arrest someone if they are disturbing the peace. In a relationship there needs to be peace in order to function properly.
Very nice sadhguru! I m feeling peace after listening this. It's better to move away from painful relationship.
I pray that whoever reads this and is going through a difficult time, don't give up, good things are coming for you, you will achieve your dreams in this lifetime.
I had my dream life but ruined it. Please pray that my boyfriend wants me back and forgives me for fighting too much
@@Olivia-bs5wjdid he ever come back, I'm the same, 10 months later and I'm still completely broken and can't see a reason to go on
For any relationship one needs lot of patience acceptance .🙏
Don't now after how many decades or centuries after will this world get such a legend with an unfathomable vision . Feel blessed to be here to hear such eye opening discourses.
Jai Sadhguru 🙏🏻🕉️❤️🇮🇳! A relationship with each other's spiritual essence without masks 🎭 and without the focus on physicality.
Love and Blessings to All good relationships.. Unconditional Love and gratitude is key ✨💓🙏🏻
Agreed ! Most problems come from a conditional love.. which isn't love at all . Be honest with yourself and realize this if you think your in a bad relationship.. it may be because you haven't realized this yet.. Love has no condition.
@@sfgtvee perfect 💓 Blessings ✨✨✨🙏🏻
@@siderealphil2533 blessings to you as well
To sustain a relationship ..have to look beyond pleasure and attraction
Then it should not aim at extracting happiness from other ....rather sharing your happiness
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Thanks sadguru
How To change Narcissist
We should learn to love ourselves and understand ourselves
Such a beautifully compassionate human being
Have been writing something on this topic recently.🤔 Glad this video came at par with my thoughts. I Never thought that relationships are body based only. Though I used to be physical while expressing most of my emotions but that has reduced over time, and I realised its their mind that attracts me the most, it's the way they think and work, and because of this I connect more, may it be my friends, my brother's, my lovers 😅😂. I just wish some people didn't leave and also thought the same way.😅🤞
You may do great without the other person. Give it a chance and see ❤️
I'm Not Getting interest in Marriage
or - Love
- Friend
Anything
...हम ना सोचें हमें क्या मिला है
...हम यह सोचे क्या किया है अर्पण
...फूल खुशियों के बाँटे सभी को
...सबका जीवन ही बन जाये मधुबन
Enjoying every word……so wonderful🙏😊🙏😊🙏😊🙏😊😊🙏🙏
Wow… thank you for sharing this wisdom. 💜
Relationships - be it love, friendship, or whatever - thrive on mutual respect, mutual trust, reciprocity, and fellow - feeling ! When that trust is lost, everything is lost !
You’ve nailed it dear 🙏🏿
It's a stark reality ! Truth hurts and hurts very deep, indeed !
How right was the great Swami Vivekanandji in his assessment in saying - "Truth can be said in thousand different ways ; yet each one can be true !"
Irrespective of your relationship statues,try be the best woman you can be both financial and otherwise....
I am 42 years old single mum living in California I'm hoping to retire at 50 if things keep going well for me. Bought my first house last month and I can't be more proud than I am right now. I am so glad I made good decisions about my finances that changed me forever.
Wise and immense, as always. Thank you Sadhguru 🙏🏻❤️
Please upload in hindi,
Meko jrurt thi isi video ki TQ sadhguru ❤️ nd TQ universe.
The best relationship I have is the one I have with myself. It took a very long time to get there. Listen to yourself
I was literally just thinking this. I’m never getting into another relationship again. My joy and peace is complete as a single person.
@@Anne-ku3lj being single for so many years let me find out who I am at the core. I feel a whole person but society says we are not complete.
@@mytinyketolife6797 little do they know! Have a nice day 😊
If you dream is for marriage and a family this doesn't work
A wonderful display of marvellous lucidity Sadhguru Bhai.
Awesome explanation Sadhguru....
Such a sweet guru🙏😊😊🙏😊
Sadhguru,,,your words are like nectar. You can turn a foolish into a wise person. We shall all succeed in our paths if we follow you from the heart. Thank you so much for being with us!
Please upload video on binge eating and watching entertainment at the same time... I try to stop this but after some time, it comes back
Well, that was very straight forward and I would so want this video to reach each and every person thinking of killing themselves or someone else that in next day newspaper it should come a person changed his/her mind after watching Sadhguru's video 😂😂😂. This would be the best headline to read.
If you can’t bend you have to break. What a wise words. Greatful
Satguru like you is needed in this country
I wish i never experienced this pain🥺
Everyday is a struggle,mere survival seems like a huge task
Ooh guru … such profound way of looking at life 😊 and moving us towards that.. Pranam 🙏🙏🙏
Hey-I kinda think other creatures can communicate more than about just their bodies.
I'm Not Able To come out From Trauma
Very logical and meaningful ❤❤❤
The best speech ever
You are the secret to every beauty in the world 🙏😍
I'm Not Able To Come Out From shock
From 8 years
To love on self is the beginning of life long romance....Oscar Wilde.
Love this quote.
The Bible says "love never fails" so if it fails, it wasn't love 🙏🏼
I have already seen many loves fail! Can you leave someone that you love to someone else who can take care of here or He very well than you? There comes love as solution!
If really you love her or he, you have to break for her or his happiness!
@@chandangautam293 failing of love doesn’t equate to breakin up or leavin the person you love to another who could take better care…u could still love them and not be together at the same time, it isn’t love failin here, it’s still there so yeah it holds true. It only ever truly fails if wasn’t love altogether in the first place. Failin here means realising tat ur feelings weren’t what u wanted or named them to be but somethin else:))
@@angelburn8780that doesn't make sense, if you love someone you wouldn't leave them
I can’t forget her. No matter what. I will be sad until the last minute of this boring life. Nothing is worthy without her. There is no light, joy or point. Nothing really matters. Im just in autopilot. Lets see how long I can keep dragging my feet in this world. I love you mamita.
Teaching Economics also🙏🙏😊🙏😊
Good evening guru ji I'm very interested or I like your spich thank you
With death you have to wait , everything else you have to DO SOMETHING 🗣🗣📌
Sadhguru ji your voice is like a therapy for me
Appa.
🙏🙏🙏🙏
😊appa got relief for the soar throt,,,
You communicate when ever i feel like,,talk to you,,,
😇 appa you are looking like parijataa flower,,,☺
Appa😊
This video is so good... 🥺🥺❤ thank you Sadhguru.. 🙏🏽
Today I got parcel of Rudraksh Diksha🥰🥰🥰 Thank you so much sadguru..... Thank you 🙏🥰❤
I really needed this. Thank you so much. 🙏
love is founded upon knowing yourself and going within
I was wishing i was not born do to the pain of this 15 yrs relationship
The secret is hard work and discipline everyday. The problem is people want everything for free and they are not willing to do any work for it
The only thing I want for free is freedom
I am grateful Sadhguru for your advice. You have given me a torch to walk the path called life.
So true. Thank you for the wonderful wisdom ❤️
I can understand this and relate this to me.
This guy would make a great couples therapist
Om shanti 🙏🕉
Sadhguru i love you so much. i was recently in a state where i wanted to end my life, not over a sexual relationship, but just over my mindset at the time, i failed to see much point in my life an thought 12 years isnt so long, ill come back and sort it. i did try, but fairly unsuccesfully, a little bit here or there it comes back again yeno but what you said about just wait itll come eventually, man that hit me hard ahahaha all i could do was laugh and laugh. peace always onto you friend
What a glowing skin..... 😍
I get Hopeless. Why my destiny become like this?
Nice understanding😢 if you want love it should be unconditional❤
Great message ! Give without expectations.
Sadhguru,You are addressing a topic that should be all over the news,headlines,etc .. thank you.
Tell Her I Loved Her...
I'm forever grateful that I came under his wisdoms
*Do not underestimate negative relationships. You have a deep bond with those you hate, fear, or envy*
Thank. You🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏Great Guru
"Can anyone please answer my question? I agree that love is all about giving, but as a normal human being, I also have some expectations, right? My partner is unable to fulfill them, but someone else can. I am afraid of this detachment from my partner because it might lead to losing them. I am really afraid of this." by this fear am tired to attach deeply with my partner but it hurts me and partner too