I knew I was agender because I never felt fully any gender and liked acting male and female. Like I wore boys shirts because they were in the boys section and wore skirts because I liked how they looked. I played with boys and girls and generally feel happiest in a mixed gender group of friends. I find being called a girl uncomfortable but being called she/her completely fine, as well as they/them or he/him. I feel more comfortable ticking the male box than the female.
Same i dont really like when people call me "girl" or "woman" but also fine with she/her but people don't really call me he /him except my oldest brother trying to bully me because I got a really short haircut and i love it, I actually look way better then when I had it long hair
@@SkyeID hii I need some help actually I really need to talk to am agender person because I am in a very confusing stage . And being an asian person I can definately not afford to go to a counsellor can you help me please .
I know I'm almost two years late in this video but I think I'm agender and I'm pretty sure of it only I'm scared to tell anyone bc of anxiety and I'm okay with my body and feminine pronouns but I'd like a binder and stuff so am l really agender
RANDOM SHIZZLE 21 there's no right way to be trans. You gender identity (being agender) and your gender expression (being feminine) don't have to be a perfect match. You are valid no matter what and if you don't think you're a girl and you might be agender, no one can tell you that but you! 💚
When you said "I didn't know what I am but I knew I wasn't cis" And I'm just here like: yeah I have the same thing right now- wait. I've done this before... wha- HOLD UP I ALREADY SAID THIS SHIT BEFORE I KNEW I WAS ASEXUAL yall I might be agender
my voice is really strange, people can just not tell the deference on whether I'm biologically Male or Female, just based on my voice. but at certain times my voice does suddenly pitch up.... heh.... I didn't know that agenders could take hormones without suddenly being classifies as FTM or MTF or something like that.........
When you call certain things "girly", it's offensive to me. I'm not a girl, but I like some of the stuff you called "girly". I don't suddenly turn into a girl as soon as I put on a skirt! I'm still Agender, and slapping a gender on stuff is like an invalidation of my identity, and it reinforces binary gender stereotypes. I believe that dresses, make-up, heels, long hair etc. are for anyone who likes them, regardless of gender. A person's outward appearance is not always reflective of their gender, or lack of gender.
And yeah we can say things aren't gender but to every uneducated person, they are! So when I say "girly" I'm talking society's socially structured girly things.
Hey, would love some advice. I have been struggling with my gender and need some advice. I was born female and whatever I identify with i would present fairly fem. I prefer jumpsuits and trousers but will wear a dress in a few instances. I dont feel connected to any gender and any pronoun feels the same for me. I think I might be agender/librafeminine but would like to hear what anyone thinks from what I said. Thanks
Agender and feeling exactly like this, whenever i tried to connect with a gender it felt like a performance, like im just pretending. Turns out, i really was just pretending
I was always very tomboyish and thought I was non binary since I knew I wasn’t a girl but also not a boy, so I thought the only other option was non binary. I’ve never cared for any gender and especially pronouns, I hated it. Like whenever I thought of my gender and pronouns, It felt so empty, like a void (idk how to explain it). Then I came across agender and EVERYTHING clicked. I use any pronouns cause I just really don’t care but using my name just feels so much better! Also It’s really funny coz when I heard people feeling euphoric when others use their pronouns I didn’t get it AT ALL. Coz I thought I uses they/them since I ‘was’ non binary and i never got any euphoric feelings. But now when ppl use my name instead of she they or him, it feels AMAZING!! Totally feel the euphoric feeling now lol
Hello! So.... I started questioning my gender about two months ago... I narrowed it down to either genderfluid or agender fairly quickly (although for a few weeks I've been considering that I am a trans man. I don't dislike my body, but I prefer that I'd been born with a male body.) While I do feel more inclined to male or female on different days, most of the time I feel like neither (although I am definitely NOT a cis-female). But if I had to describe my overall personality, behaviour, thought and emotional patterns I'd say I'm a little bit of both. Is genderfluid fluctuating between male and female? Or can they feel male or female or both or neither, as I do?
+Cleo Green genderfluid is fluctuating between genders. any genders. you can also be demi(gender). for example, demiboy: you sometimes feel as if youre a boy, in fact most of the time you do but other times you dont and that fluctuates. there's also pangender, bigender, trigender, polygender, and thousands more. if you feel somewhere in between male and female you might be neutrois if you feel no gender you might be agender
hello, i saw this video because i was curious about how other agenders transitioned. i am agender myself but i have not started any transitioning for my body, mostly because i have a thyroid problem and i've just been scared as to what would happen if i did use hormones to physically transition. i have thought about ordering a binder but i'm also scared of how my mother would react to me ordering and wearing a binder. i did a coming out post on face book for my family to see, but i dont know if shes seen it and ignored it or she just never saw it. all in all i'm scared about how she would react most of all
Is it agender to just be indifferent? I already don’t follow nearly any gender norms I can think of. As such my life feels like it would be the same regardless of gender. I try to talk about myself in the 3rd person with varying pronouns, but I’m having less reaction to any of ‘em than I would expect. I don’t necessarily *dislike* being a cis boy, but I want being cis to be a complete coincidence, a big coincidence that my gender matches my sex. Tryn’a explore my gender, but the more I think about it, the dumber the whole thing is. Why have any expectations of a person bases on whether it looks like they like blue or pink? It’s dumb. I honestly don’t care what pronouns someone calls me. I don’t see a major difference in my life if I am a girl or whatever. Is that was being agender is? I don’t really feel like I know what being a boy is, because I can’t see what would change if I wasn’t. I feel like me, and I’ve been called “he” for my entire life, so do I really need to go further than that? Idk.
I just realized I was afab agender a couple of weeks ago. I'm still figuring out what that all means for me and what I want to do about it. I'm considering a low dosage of T hormones because I'd like to have the option of sideburns and facial hair and a slightly lower voice. But I have an afab gender fluid friend who's doing that and one side effect was that their hair started falling out with male pattern baldness stuff and now they have to keep it shaved and wear wigs. I'm worried about that happening so I'm not sure what I should do. Do you have more info or advice about hormone pros/cons for afab agender people?
I’m guessing it depends on genetics ya know? If your family (on your fathers side) I’m guessing doesn’t have a history of balding then you’ll be fine, not sure but that’s what I’m thinking.
I'm really confused tho. I don't mean to sound ignorant at all, because I don't totally understand it all. But why are you undergoing the transition process to be more male-like if you don't identify as totally male, but you're trying to seem more masculine.
k so im very late to this video so idk if anyone would be able to help but so how do you know for like for sure? Cause like I'm afab and I'm perfectly fine with stereotypically female stuff and like being called she/her and 'female' like compliments and I'm comfy with that. But then again I'm perfectly comfortable with typically 'male' stuff just like the female stuff. But also they/them and all that. And I don't feel gender? if that makes sense, like I don't know what feels like let alone describe it?
Can someone please explain to me how does it feels to be agender? Like I watched a lot of videos and I really don't understand and I'm super confused, I would really appreciate that someone told me how it feels. (I really hope this doesn't offends anybody)
I forget that I don't identify as something until I'm reminded of the binary or that I'm trans it's just another thing that I go through life with yanno??? It doesn't have a feeling
Fran Lupin There is a nice Video here on UA-cam called "gender animatic" which shows how Agender/Non-binary people feel. It's really well done, at least I (as an Agender person myself) think so.
Can someone please help me on this? I was born female but never really 'felt' like a female....nor a male either. I didn't discover agender until recently. Could this be what I am? (also is it possible to be agender and only be attracted to guys? Thanks. )
It totally could! But you should know there's so many non binary genders, I suggest you to do some research and find out what seems the most accurate. It's possible to be attracted only to guys because our sexuality has nothing to do with our gender :)
I nearly cried so many times. I am also a person who kind of use drops hints. I told my best friend on snapchat (cause in person shit.. nahhh) and she told me that I didn’t need to know and I was fine to question (cause I told her I thought I could be agender but I wasn’t sure) but we haven’t really talked about it. One of their person knows but he is a online friend. I was afab and I think I am quite lucky to have a deep voice. I have a deeper voice then many amab people Ik so that isn’t a problem for me. I also stopped wearing earring after like a year because I didn’t like wearing them (probably because they made me look very feminine) and this was years before I found the agender label. I don’t like having long hair and I want to cut it but because my parents don’t know I am agender I am too scared to ask. I don’t know If they will react well. I only found the agender label like a month ago (I also found the asexual and aromantic label that fits me) but I was always labelled as a tomboy. I always was confused when people said “female do/don’t do this” or “males do/don’t do this”. I don’t like feminine clothing. I wear a skirt to school (didnt in primary but did in highschool to avoid bullies and never changed back). I have recently been wanting to change back to wearing trousers but I only have a couple months left of having to wear uniform so I’ll just deal with it. I was bullied in primary and part of me thinks that my identities (agender and aroace) may be a part of why I felt and was perceived as being so different and that really sucks. Maybe that is why I don’t want to come out in general. *realises I have just ranted* This video was helpful to hear!
Hi Charli This video was posted about seven years ago, and a lot has changed since then. I relate to what you said, I have always had an issue with femininity and I never quite understood the expression I wanted to have, and there really wasn’t words for it when I came out all these years ago. Not everyone in my family was accepting. Most people tolerate it. Few understand. Actually, I would say to this day, I feel more like an inconvenience to my family being non-binary than if I was just a trans guy because of the language that’s used. My mom came around, she helped me get on hormones. She thought the hormones changed my personality and tried to take me off them. I got kicked out over it. Her and I are really close now. She has been calling me “he” and her “son” behind my back and I have repeatedly asked her to stop doing that but she continues to slip up and I know she hasn’t stopped. My dad died thinking I picked being transgender, but I wasn’t particularly close to him. All this in mind? I wouldn’t change a god damn thing. Being trans is such a back burner part of my life now, I don’t really think about it much. I apply my hormones, I live my life, I finished all my surgeries. I’m relatively happy. My best friends and closest circle are all queer, most people I know now are non binary. In every aspect of life there will be ups and downs. We will never be able to control how other people respond to us but we can control how we react and let that affect us. It gets easier with time, as do most things. And ultimately the comfort of being truly you will outweigh anything else that may come your way. It’s simply a piece of who I am, but it’s not what makes me me. Right now, in this discovery period, it takes up every bit of your thoughts and actions and that’s normal. But I promise some day it will not hold the same weight. Keep pushing forward, we only have one life here, we deserve to live it authentically.
@@HeyItsMoog I didn’t realise this video was posted so long ago! 😂 I am sorry to hear about your dad. Thought I am glad you are happy and have good friends! Thanks for the response, it is helpful to hear.
Hi Moog I have a question, wondering if you could help me understand. With all this business of gender I hear people say "I identify as..." I don't actually know what that means. You identify as no gender but what does it mean to identify as a gender in the first place? Like, I know I'm a woman because of my biological sex so I don't understand where you're coming from. Just know that I am truly curious and wanting to understand and I mean absolutely no offense if I stepped on your toes. I think you're great for putting yourself out there like this and speaking candidly. I hope you get what I'm talking about and good luck for the future and present ♥
Sex is between your legs and gender is between your ears. So who you are in your brain is your gender identity and I've never connected w an ident so I'm a gender because I'm not even on the spectrum of identity.
+Moog Ferlita +Robird sex is not only what's in between your legs,it's your entire anatomy. primary and secondary sex characteristics determine a person's sex.Many intersex people have either a vagina that does not make them biologically a girl or a biologically a boy if they have a penis.also just because someone's sex is different from their gender that doean't mean you can say that person is biologically this or //that because it invalidates their gender. an individual's sex does not trump thier gender.
Moog Ferlita I need to look more deeply into gender to be honest because I still don't understand how gender and sex can differ. I know they can differ but I don't understand how.
I knew I was agender because I never felt fully any gender and liked acting male and female. Like I wore boys shirts because they were in the boys section and wore skirts because I liked how they looked. I played with boys and girls and generally feel happiest in a mixed gender group of friends. I find being called a girl uncomfortable but being called she/her completely fine, as well as they/them or he/him. I feel more comfortable ticking the male box than the female.
Same i dont really like when people call me "girl" or "woman" but also fine with she/her but people don't really call me he /him except my oldest brother trying to bully me because I got a really short haircut and i love it, I actually look way better then when I had it long hair
WAIT A MINUTE THIS SOUNDS A LITTLE TOO FAMILIAR TO BE A COINCIDENCE
same but i dont really feel comfortable with she/her pronouns or he/him pronouns i prefer they/them
Wow, this is exactly how I feel/felt. That’s crazy
This comment actually helped me a lot because this is exactly what I’m feeling and it’s so confusing for me
I'm crying I'm so happy there's someone like me thank you
Same here!!! I'm kind of late to the party but I'm so happy to see other people who I can relate to.
+ReaperInTheFlowers I'm agender, too. You are not alone :-)
@@SkyeID hii I need some help actually I really need to talk to am agender person because I am in a very confusing stage . And being an asian person I can definately not afford to go to a counsellor can you help me please .
I know I'm almost two years late in this video but I think I'm agender and I'm pretty sure of it only I'm scared to tell anyone bc of anxiety and I'm okay with my body and feminine pronouns but I'd like a binder and stuff so am l really agender
RANDOM SHIZZLE 21 there's no right way to be trans.
You gender identity (being agender) and your gender expression (being feminine) don't have to be a perfect match. You are valid no matter what and if you don't think you're a girl and you might be agender, no one can tell you that but you! 💚
I'm in the same situation as you right now. Still figuring it out 🤔
When you said "I didn't know what I am but I knew I wasn't cis"
And I'm just here like: yeah I have the same thing right now- wait. I've done this before... wha- HOLD UP I ALREADY SAID THIS SHIT BEFORE I KNEW I WAS ASEXUAL
yall I might be agender
fucking same, I'm ace and now I'm questioning my gender as well
my voice is really strange, people can just not tell the deference on whether I'm biologically Male or Female, just based on my voice. but at certain times my voice does suddenly pitch up.... heh....
I didn't know that agenders could take hormones without suddenly being classifies as FTM or MTF or something like that.........
When you call certain things "girly", it's offensive to me. I'm not a girl, but I like some of the stuff you called "girly". I don't suddenly turn into a girl as soon as I put on a skirt! I'm still Agender, and slapping a gender on stuff is like an invalidation of my identity, and it reinforces binary gender stereotypes. I believe that dresses, make-up, heels, long hair etc. are for anyone who likes them, regardless of gender. A person's outward appearance is not always reflective of their gender, or lack of gender.
You should realize I was talking about when I was 4 years old oh my /god/
And yeah we can say things aren't gender but to every uneducated person, they are! So when I say "girly" I'm talking society's socially structured girly things.
+Moog Ferlita I'm sorry for exploding :/ I see your point now.
+Skye ID lol, can't tell if trolling or serious
Hey, would love some advice. I have been struggling with my gender and need some advice. I was born female and whatever I identify with i would present fairly fem. I prefer jumpsuits and trousers but will wear a dress in a few instances. I dont feel connected to any gender and any pronoun feels the same for me. I think I might be agender/librafeminine but would like to hear what anyone thinks from what I said. Thanks
im feeling the exact same way. it would be great to hear how you're doing now! :)
I doubt this will help now since it’s been a year but librafem or Agender sounds correct to me
Agender and feeling exactly like this, whenever i tried to connect with a gender it felt like a performance, like im just pretending. Turns out, i really was just pretending
you're awesome.
Mmmmmmmthatlabelsstartingtosoundrealgoodtome-
I was always very tomboyish and thought I was non binary since I knew I wasn’t a girl but also not a boy, so I thought the only other option was non binary. I’ve never cared for any gender and especially pronouns, I hated it. Like whenever I thought of my gender and pronouns, It felt so empty, like a void (idk how to explain it). Then I came across agender and EVERYTHING clicked.
I use any pronouns cause I just really don’t care but using my name just feels so much better!
Also It’s really funny coz when I heard people feeling euphoric when others use their pronouns I didn’t get it AT ALL. Coz I thought I uses they/them since I ‘was’ non binary and i never got any euphoric feelings. But now when ppl use my name instead of she they or him, it feels AMAZING!! Totally feel the euphoric feeling now lol
Hello! So.... I started questioning my gender about two months ago... I narrowed it down to either genderfluid or agender fairly quickly (although for a few weeks I've been considering that I am a trans man. I don't dislike my body, but I prefer that I'd been born with a male body.)
While I do feel more inclined to male or female on different days, most of the time I feel like neither (although I am definitely NOT a cis-female). But if I had to describe my overall personality, behaviour, thought and emotional patterns I'd say I'm a little bit of both.
Is genderfluid fluctuating between male and female? Or can they feel male or female or both or neither, as I do?
+Cleo Green genderfluid is fluctuating between genders. any genders. you can also be demi(gender). for example, demiboy: you sometimes feel as if youre a boy, in fact most of the time you do but other times you dont and that fluctuates. there's also pangender, bigender, trigender, polygender, and thousands more. if you feel somewhere in between male and female you might be neutrois if you feel no gender you might be agender
You could be genderflux
OMG my birth name was also Megan. I also identify as agender. That's. Cool. Good video. You are amazing!!!!
Wait same i think idrk yet but im pretty sure. Same name tho
hello, i saw this video because i was curious about how other agenders transitioned. i am agender myself but i have not started any transitioning for my body, mostly because i have a thyroid problem and i've just been scared as to what would happen if i did use hormones to physically transition. i have thought about ordering a binder but i'm also scared of how my mother would react to me ordering and wearing a binder. i did a coming out post on face book for my family to see, but i dont know if shes seen it and ignored it or she just never saw it. all in all i'm scared about how she would react most of all
Is it agender to just be indifferent? I already don’t follow nearly any gender norms I can think of. As such my life feels like it would be the same regardless of gender. I try to talk about myself in the 3rd person with varying pronouns, but I’m having less reaction to any of ‘em than I would expect. I don’t necessarily *dislike* being a cis boy, but I want being cis to be a complete coincidence, a big coincidence that my gender matches my sex. Tryn’a explore my gender, but the more I think about it, the dumber the whole thing is. Why have any expectations of a person bases on whether it looks like they like blue or pink? It’s dumb. I honestly don’t care what pronouns someone calls me. I don’t see a major difference in my life if I am a girl or whatever. Is that was being agender is? I don’t really feel like I know what being a boy is, because I can’t see what would change if I wasn’t. I feel like me, and I’ve been called “he” for my entire life, so do I really need to go further than that? Idk.
I am an agender "girl", and I love a homosexual man! :)
I just realized I was afab agender a couple of weeks ago. I'm still figuring out what that all means for me and what I want to do about it. I'm considering a low dosage of T hormones because I'd like to have the option of sideburns and facial hair and a slightly lower voice. But I have an afab gender fluid friend who's doing that and one side effect was that their hair started falling out with male pattern baldness stuff and now they have to keep it shaved and wear wigs. I'm worried about that happening so I'm not sure what I should do. Do you have more info or advice about hormone pros/cons for afab agender people?
I haven't experienced any loss of hair. In fact, I have more hair... Everywhere.
I’m guessing it depends on genetics ya know? If your family (on your fathers side) I’m guessing doesn’t have a history of balding then you’ll be fine, not sure but that’s what I’m thinking.
I'm really confused tho. I don't mean to sound ignorant at all, because I don't totally understand it all. But why are you undergoing the transition process to be more male-like if you don't identify as totally male, but you're trying to seem more masculine.
Identity and expression aren't the same thing :)
I'm gay!
k so im very late to this video so idk if anyone would be able to help but so how do you know for like for sure? Cause like I'm afab and I'm perfectly fine with stereotypically female stuff and like being called she/her and 'female' like compliments and I'm comfy with that. But then again I'm perfectly comfortable with typically 'male' stuff just like the female stuff. But also they/them and all that. And I don't feel gender? if that makes sense, like I don't know what feels like let alone describe it?
i dont know if i can really help because im still questioning, but you are super valid and i hope you figure it out
Can someone please explain to me how does it feels to be agender?
Like I watched a lot of videos and I really don't understand and I'm super confused, I would really appreciate that someone told me how it feels.
(I really hope this doesn't offends anybody)
I really don't know how to explain it? It doesn't /feel/ like anything.
I forget that I don't identify as something until I'm reminded of the binary or that I'm trans it's just another thing that I go through life with yanno??? It doesn't have a feeling
Moog Ferlita Ooh, i get it
thank you very much ♥
+Moog Ferlita i just found my explanation, thx
Fran Lupin There is a nice Video here on UA-cam called "gender animatic" which shows how Agender/Non-binary people feel. It's really well done, at least I (as an Agender person myself) think so.
Can someone please help me on this? I was born female but never really 'felt' like a female....nor a male either. I didn't discover agender until recently. Could this be what I am?
(also is it possible to be agender and only be attracted to guys? Thanks. )
It totally could! But you should know there's so many non binary genders, I suggest you to do some research and find out what seems the most accurate. It's possible to be attracted only to guys because our sexuality has nothing to do with our gender :)
raiahy
Hi there. :) Thanks so much for replying to me, I really appreciate it. It's frustrating trying to figure this out, but I'll do my best. :)
+Jackson Afroman Uh excuse you? Did I ask for your opinion? Why are you on a video related to agender if you don't seem to agree with it? =\
nerdieone1 I just like calling people who think they aren't a male or a female stupid.
+Jackson Afroman sorry you're life is so boring and uneventful that you feel the need to hate on people who have it better than you. :)
I'm confused as fuck, I feel like I'm supposed to be a boy, but I'm comfortable in my female body, what would that make me?
Trans. gender expression is not gender identity.
i am also a gender
I nearly cried so many times. I am also a person who kind of use drops hints. I told my best friend on snapchat (cause in person shit.. nahhh) and she told me that I didn’t need to know and I was fine to question (cause I told her I thought I could be agender but I wasn’t sure) but we haven’t really talked about it. One of their person knows but he is a online friend. I was afab and I think I am quite lucky to have a deep voice. I have a deeper voice then many amab people Ik so that isn’t a problem for me. I also stopped wearing earring after like a year because I didn’t like wearing them (probably because they made me look very feminine) and this was years before I found the agender label. I don’t like having long hair and I want to cut it but because my parents don’t know I am agender I am too scared to ask. I don’t know If they will react well. I only found the agender label like a month ago (I also found the asexual and aromantic label that fits me) but I was always labelled as a tomboy. I always was confused when people said “female do/don’t do this” or “males do/don’t do this”. I don’t like feminine clothing. I wear a skirt to school (didnt in primary but did in highschool to avoid bullies and never changed back). I have recently been wanting to change back to wearing trousers but I only have a couple months left of having to wear uniform so I’ll just deal with it. I was bullied in primary and part of me thinks that my identities (agender and aroace) may be a part of why I felt and was perceived as being so different and that really sucks. Maybe that is why I don’t want to come out in general.
*realises I have just ranted*
This video was helpful to hear!
Hi Charli
This video was posted about seven years ago, and a lot has changed since then. I relate to what you said, I have always had an issue with femininity and I never quite understood the expression I wanted to have, and there really wasn’t words for it when I came out all these years ago.
Not everyone in my family was accepting. Most people tolerate it. Few understand. Actually, I would say to this day, I feel more like an inconvenience to my family being non-binary than if I was just a trans guy because of the language that’s used.
My mom came around, she helped me get on hormones. She thought the hormones changed my personality and tried to take me off them. I got kicked out over it. Her and I are really close now. She has been calling me “he” and her “son” behind my back and I have repeatedly asked her to stop doing that but she continues to slip up and I know she hasn’t stopped.
My dad died thinking I picked being transgender, but I wasn’t particularly close to him.
All this in mind? I wouldn’t change a god damn thing. Being trans is such a back burner part of my life now, I don’t really think about it much. I apply my hormones, I live my life, I finished all my surgeries. I’m relatively happy. My best friends and closest circle are all queer, most people I know now are non binary.
In every aspect of life there will be ups and downs. We will never be able to control how other people respond to us but we can control how we react and let that affect us. It gets easier with time, as do most things. And ultimately the comfort of being truly you will outweigh anything else that may come your way.
It’s simply a piece of who I am, but it’s not what makes me me.
Right now, in this discovery period, it takes up every bit of your thoughts and actions and that’s normal. But I promise some day it will not hold the same weight.
Keep pushing forward, we only have one life here, we deserve to live it authentically.
@@HeyItsMoog I didn’t realise this video was posted so long ago! 😂
I am sorry to hear about your dad. Thought I am glad you are happy and have good friends! Thanks for the response, it is helpful to hear.
@@joshuaelias.caswell5003 she doesn't sound very sorry about it herself. In fact, she sounds almost glad
why did you chose to transition?
Bethany Online crippling dysphoria
thank you for telling me that.
Hi Moog I have a question, wondering if you could help me understand. With all this business of gender I hear people say "I identify as..." I don't actually know what that means. You identify as no gender but what does it mean to identify as a gender in the first place?
Like, I know I'm a woman because of my biological sex so I don't understand where you're coming from. Just know that I am truly curious and wanting to understand and I mean absolutely no offense if I stepped on your toes. I think you're great for putting yourself out there like this and speaking candidly.
I hope you get what I'm talking about and good luck for the future and present ♥
Sex is between your legs and gender is between your ears. So who you are in your brain is your gender identity and I've never connected w an ident so I'm a gender because I'm not even on the spectrum of identity.
Moog Ferlita
Thank you but I don't actually understand what it means to identify as a certain gender. How does that present itself?
+Moog Ferlita +Robird sex is not only what's in between your legs,it's your entire anatomy. primary and secondary sex characteristics determine a person's sex.Many intersex people have either a vagina that does not make them biologically a girl or a biologically a boy if they have a penis.also just because someone's sex is different from their gender that doean't mean you can say that person is biologically this or //that because it invalidates their gender. an individual's sex does not trump thier gender.
+Robird identify is just a term used but you ARE that gender you don't just identify as it
Moog Ferlita
I need to look more deeply into gender to be honest because I still don't understand how gender and sex can differ. I know they can differ but I don't understand how.
Why do you want to be more masculine? Do you just like the look? Sorry if it offends you, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you wear a binder?
Act like a boy
You’re a lesbian be happy !!! You don’t have to create a new term for lesbianism.
Agender is not the same as lesbian at all.
Gender is not sexuality