Living In My Van| Back To Car Life| Things Didn’t Go As Planned 😒| Ep.46

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  • Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
  • After today's experience with my car,I really need to learn how to do basic mechanic things on my van. I might try and buy a book. Thanks for watching 🙏.

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  • @Princess48198
    @Princess48198 2 роки тому +633

    As an introvert....it takes a lot of energy to be around people

    • @larakaramazova777
      @larakaramazova777 2 роки тому +26

      Amen!

    • @phylliscrosby4
      @phylliscrosby4 2 роки тому +88

      It's draining. It's like I can feel everybody's energy.

    • @joannaazar7396
      @joannaazar7396 2 роки тому +21

      Yess it definitely does!! Agree 💯

    • @Frecklezbpoppn
      @Frecklezbpoppn 2 роки тому +66

      I always have to sit in a quiet place and calm myself down after I've been around alot of people I really be exhausted it's crazy

    • @livinglifewithjean1969
      @livinglifewithjean1969 2 роки тому +12

      Definitely!

  • @knut8062
    @knut8062 2 роки тому +154

    I like this person. An introvert with a UA-cam channel shows she can connect with the world on her own terms.

  • @hourinhourout
    @hourinhourout 2 роки тому +301

    In my younger years I always thought I was a freak because I loved being alone. As the years have passed I realized that there are millions of introverts like me out there. I have my tiny circle of favorite people but most times I am my best friend. Love your videos!

    • @mo0nstonegirl
      @mo0nstonegirl 2 роки тому +30

      The best thing about the internet is that it's helped us all realize we're not the only ones ♥

  • @sandil7571
    @sandil7571 2 роки тому +149

    The thing people who aren't introverts don't understand is that we are more comfortable being alone than with others, and we are ok with that. It's hard to get bored when you know how to entertain yourself.

  • @TheSolitary1
    @TheSolitary1 2 роки тому +396

    Just maintaining your car and van, says a lot about your discipline and that is to be respected 🖤

    • @HughMadBro
      @HughMadBro 2 роки тому +4

      Yessss, I agree!!

    • @i.m.7710
      @i.m.7710 2 роки тому

      @@Nomadicintrovert ok I have a few questions and comments here. I’m glad you put your camo jacket over your black shirt. The look says, I’m military. Good protection.
      I encourage you to listen to Dave Ramsay and read his first book. Ignore his politics and religion if you don’t agree with it. He has financial knowledge that helps anyone.
      You have a brand new van which should not break down so plan B should not be a second car and a storage payment. Plan B should be a motel for two days or a rental car for two days if needed. Sell the car and get rid of the storage and put the money on your van. I hope you’re not making payments on two vehicles.
      It was mentioned you paid cash for the van. If so, good.
      If things are breaking down in your van, consider getting a different more dependable rig (Ford or Japanese).
      Also, it’s not hard to learn pedicures and manicures. 😂
      Just a few comments! Take what you like and leave the rest!

  • @mo0nstonegirl
    @mo0nstonegirl 2 роки тому +90

    Being an introvert is how you'll truly find yourself. It's actually such a blessing 🙏 Stopped forcing myself into social situations since 2018 and wow, I'm a whole new person (for the better). People who are introverted - we shouldn't feel like we should be ashamed, and those who are extroverted definitely need not feel sorry for us lol. It's home to us. Peace. Quiet. Especially coming from trauma.

    • @possumcolvett5722
      @possumcolvett5722 Рік тому +3

      Hi I don't know whether iam an introvert but I feel really uncomfortable in large crowds such has shopping malls concerts etc I honestly prefer to be at home safe and peaceful watching television and DVDs I don't enjoy going out take care Possum 😊

    • @tonyabibbs2075
      @tonyabibbs2075 4 місяці тому

      Bullshit!

    • @mo0nstonegirl
      @mo0nstonegirl 4 місяці тому

      @@tonyabibbs2075 try it, find out. Be with yourself and find out who the f you really are. Hahahaha I dare you. Or would you be too ashamed to know yourself properly....? Most are. Can't face what they'll have to deal with. Their own company. I looove my own company 😊 I've fallen in love with myself and for the first time in my life I actually know exactly who I am. Socialites are ignorant. I'm 100000% a better person now.

  • @janestjordan6507
    @janestjordan6507 2 роки тому +315

    OMG! I thought I was the only one feeling like this when it comes to being alone. I feel happiness when I'm alone. I truly enjoy my own company. The peace that comes with being alone is priceless. There's a big difference between being alone and being lonely and one thing I am NOT is lonely. Keep doing what makes you happy Nomadic Introvert and know there's nothing wrong with how you feel as long as you're truly happy and at peace.

    • @1msekim
      @1msekim 2 роки тому +16

      I do too. For some reason I focus better when I'm alone. I like the thought that I don't have to deal with someone else's feelings or emotions if something is not done right or when they want it done. I like taking care of myself and being able to do for myself and not having to ask anyone to do it for me.

    • @BayouBellePhDBe
      @BayouBellePhDBe 2 роки тому +9

      Me too. Don’t get me wrong, I’m fine when in a relationship; however, I’m at peace when it’s just my dog and me.

    • @Mysteree
      @Mysteree 2 роки тому +5

      Yes...same!

    • @nevaehfairman214
      @nevaehfairman214 2 роки тому +3

      Peacefulness is what I like about being alone, I used to be a extrovert, now since older I'm more of a introvert.

    • @brendaedgehill7761
      @brendaedgehill7761 2 роки тому +8

      Same here. Too many people around sometimes means more drama. I Enjoy being by myself 😁

  • @robertarmstrong2812
    @robertarmstrong2812 2 роки тому +88

    Your videos are therapeutic, I’m watching your videos before going to sleep at night. I’m 52 and divorced since 2013, tried dating and it didn’t work out for me, find that it’s easier just being a single Dad and have my sole focus on my son, no distractions. Wish you peace, joy and happiness from Houston.

    • @Elaine-ee1eh
      @Elaine-ee1eh 2 роки тому +12

      So your son later will appreciate you making him the priority in your life! 👏🏾❤️🙏🏾

    • @nadogrl
      @nadogrl 2 роки тому +5

      Your son SHOULD be your sole focus! Congratulations to both of you!❤

    • @robertarmstrong2812
      @robertarmstrong2812 2 роки тому +4

      @@nadogrl thank you for the kind words

    • @robertarmstrong2812
      @robertarmstrong2812 2 роки тому +3

      @@Elaine-ee1eh thank you for the kind words. I never want to look back years later and have any regrets.

    • @nadogrl
      @nadogrl 2 роки тому +3

      @@robertarmstrong2812 - You’re welcome. ❤️ from a great Grammy in San Diego.

  • @boxerspause
    @boxerspause 2 роки тому +215

    I am a huge introvert too and am never bored. I do have a dog who takes up a lot of my life, but I love how people assume because we are not with others every single minute that we go crazy alone. If I am with people, I look forward to being alone again😁

    • @elbacosme
      @elbacosme 2 роки тому +10

      Yes, exactly!!

    • @cozmicgrrl4674
      @cozmicgrrl4674 2 роки тому +5

      💯

    • @godisgreat4096
      @godisgreat4096 2 роки тому +4

      Totally agree.

    • @glendareid2470
      @glendareid2470 2 роки тому +3

      Hey, I never feel alone 😊😊😊, I love people, but my alone time more.

    • @angelthankgodforangels
      @angelthankgodforangels 2 роки тому +3

      Sooooo..... True.... Especially family..." Haven't heard from you in a while, just wanted to make sure your still alive"??? Like say, what??? I'm happy just leave me alone... Sorry, not sorry

  • @ms.dimples3861
    @ms.dimples3861 2 роки тому +106

    I’m so glad to hear someone say it’s okay to be alone. I love being alone. Whenever I’m invited to go out with friends. I just wish they would leave me alone. 😂😂😂

  • @elizabethdean9409
    @elizabethdean9409 2 роки тому +148

    This is one awesome woman may God continue to be with her and keep her safe on her van life journey 😊

  • @teenamarie6431
    @teenamarie6431 2 роки тому +12

    Please do me a favor. Don't bother with people asking you dumb questions; like 'what is this a cooking show' SMH. Keep doing what you're doing I love watching you cook and eat. I admire you for getting out there living your life. I've been living my life for others for 44yrs. I wish I had your courage. So you go girl. I'm proud of you.

  • @cain8866
    @cain8866 2 роки тому +70

    Living alone doesn’t mean you are lonely these times and days it’s best to stay away from a lot of people eventually it causes problems .

  • @AKA-Nana
    @AKA-Nana Рік тому +4

    Omg when you thought there was peanut butter I thought, if they had peanut butter left on that scoop when they created your ice cream blend, I’m gonna scream! I got nervous!!! Lol

  • @larakaramazova777
    @larakaramazova777 2 роки тому +109

    I am an introvert like you. I am retired now and live alone (with my Yorkie). And I THANK GOD every single day that I can be totally alone 🙏. A perfect day for me is not having a thing that I must do. And then doing "nothing" in the most pleasant way that I can.i worked for over 50 years. Now it's me time.

    • @valsvoice6815
      @valsvoice6815 2 роки тому +8

      I just retired in June (after 49 years in Corporate America) and I am so loving my alone time. I enjoy my own company.

    • @brendaedgehill7761
      @brendaedgehill7761 2 роки тому +4

      Yes I feel you. I retired 2 yrs ago and LOVE my alone time, God bless

    • @meowmom3296
      @meowmom3296 2 роки тому +2

      I've been retired for a few years. I had the empty nest syndrome for awhile but what you just wrote made me feel instantly better. Thank you!

  • @ritamaroney5473
    @ritamaroney5473 2 роки тому +24

    60 year old introvert here.. Love love being alone.. Of course I made my 31 year old son into an introvert as well.. I use to think about going out more also, but simply have no desire what so ever and I'm blissfully happy being all by myself.. You do you girl.. Love ya ..be safe..❤️❤️

  • @app103
    @app103 2 роки тому +82

    BEFORE you get your van winterized, make sure they understand you will be living in it and using it over the winter. Make sure they fully understand what that means before letting them do ANYTHING. Winterizing means different things, depending on if you will be living in it, or storing it, over the winter.
    If you will be storing your van and not using it over the winter, it means draining all the water out of your tanks and lines, and then filling the tanks and lines with a propylene glycol anti-freeze liquid, to keep your water lines and tanks from freezing during the winter.
    But if you are using your van over the winter, you would be wasting your money if you pay for that, because you'd have to drain and flush the anti-freeze out of your tanks and lines, and refill your fresh water tank to use your sink, shower, or toilet, defeating the winterizing by putting water that can freeze back into the water lines & tanks.
    I think what you need is insulating of your tanks and water lines, so that they don't freeze. That might be difficult and/or expensive if you have any tanks mounted under the van, such as gray water.
    If you only have a 3 season van, and it becomes impossible to do anything to protect your water tanks/lines from freezing and still be able to use everything normally (sink, toilet, etc.), consider going the anti-freeze winterizing route and then avoid using anything involving water till spring. That means a winter of paper plates, not washing dishes, pots, etc in your sink, using a "pee bottle" and getting an ice chest to store gallons of drinking water in (with no ice), to insulate them from freezing while you are working or sleeping. Most things on the inside of your van should be ok and not freeze while you are in it and running the heat, but when you are away and not running the heat, they can freeze, and the external tanks can freeze, no matter what you do, unless they are filled with propylene glycol anti-freeze.
    Four season vans are designed differently, with no external tanks. The gray water tank is located under the sink instead of outside. But even those can freeze if you aren't running the heat all the time on cold days, which would likely happen while you are working, unless you have a warm heated garage to park it in.

    • @myviewpoint2750
      @myviewpoint2750 2 роки тому +13

      Great information. 😊

    • @sammiesnowflake8440
      @sammiesnowflake8440 2 роки тому +10

      Holy moly thanks for all of your information. Much appreciated 👍 Have a great, lovely day!

    • @skateranddancer
      @skateranddancer 2 роки тому +4

      A lot of people fully winterize and then don’t use the tanks at all. Some switch to a non flush toilet and use bottles of water depending on what temps they are in . 🤷‍♀️

    • @app103
      @app103 2 роки тому +12

      @@skateranddancer And that is more or less what I suggested, if there is no other solution to prevent freezing.
      I wrote what I wrote for the benefit of anyone that doesn't fully understand what winterizing means, what the limitations are, and the implications for someone that lives in their van full time, year round. It's easy to just tell someone to go get their camper van winterized. But I suspect that many that suggest it heard the term somewhere but don't really know what it means. And I would hate to see anyone spend all that money to have it done, not knowing what it means, and then have a panic attack when they turn on their faucet and what comes out ain't water. Or flush it out and refill with water, thinking their tanks and water lines will still protected all winter because they had it done.

    • @_Julie_Bee
      @_Julie_Bee 2 роки тому +4

      That's crucial info right here!

  • @deidrerichardson5638
    @deidrerichardson5638 2 роки тому +3

    Girl your haircut is cuuuuutttteeee!!!!❤️

  • @tarabentley1704
    @tarabentley1704 2 роки тому +55

    My grandson and I love watching your videos. He gets out of school and asks....is there a new video from introvert?(LoL)
    Thanks for making clean informative content that I can share with my grandson😊

  • @RunningTowardHappiness
    @RunningTowardHappiness 2 роки тому +40

    Noma, your optimism is so refreshing and contagious!!! I love how you talk with us about your plans for the day. You’re the best!!! All of us anticipate your next video. YOU are also loved!!!

  • @TheSolitary1
    @TheSolitary1 2 роки тому +60

    I understand when you said that you simply like being alone. I am a very reclusive person, no friends, do not go out at all unless its in nature. I go to work and back home. Order everything online. This is how i like it because I'm very sensitive to energy and auras from others. At first i thought something was wrong with me back in school but now as a 47 year old, I'm perfectly fine. I'm sort of like an urban Emma Orbach 😁

  • @yanna1631
    @yanna1631 2 роки тому +25

    I love your discipline and how well you take care of your things. You inspire me to do better with my own belongings. Be safe! ❤️

  • @sheilabundren2037
    @sheilabundren2037 2 роки тому +85

    Think about backing your car into your storage unit. That way if the battery goes dead, easier to jump start unless you have a compact jumping station. You can get one at Autozone.

    • @kathyorio718
      @kathyorio718 2 роки тому +12

      Plus just in case you would need a tow also! Good luck & Be safe

    • @grandmajeddah1963
      @grandmajeddah1963 2 роки тому +7

      Amazon has one on sale right now

    • @jojobean2845
      @jojobean2845 2 роки тому +3

      Really good idea. 👍

    • @veronica-c8199
      @veronica-c8199 2 роки тому +3

      Great advice.

    • @slewmayhew9515
      @slewmayhew9515 2 роки тому +1

      @@Nomadicintrovert I wouldn't back in. I had a sports car and stored it for a few years in a storage. Fumes are dangerous - pipes are in the back against the wall.

  • @renifejn
    @renifejn 2 роки тому +14

    “I can hang out with friends, but I just don’t want to”. Same girl, same. Love your channel!

  • @Grahmahshanz
    @Grahmahshanz 2 роки тому +100

    Your content is so helpful and interesting.... I'm crocheting and sipping water while enjoying this 53 minute episode... love it !!!! The day of self care is so well deserved... the cut is FLY { showing my age saying fly}🔥

    • @dmj9906
      @dmj9906 2 роки тому +6

      Also showing my age. I still say "fly" and I don't mean wings in the air😊

    • @kaylewis4105
      @kaylewis4105 2 роки тому +6

      At least you didnt say "fresh" 😊

  • @diannamoses6858
    @diannamoses6858 2 роки тому +23

    Be careful with those peanut allergies !! Always keep your epipen nearby. I'm glad you enjoyed your ice cream 🍦

    • @raid1616
      @raid1616 2 роки тому +3

      Yep. I have eaten stuff myself and it had nuts in it and I didn’t know. I paid for it.

  • @Newtome03041
    @Newtome03041 2 роки тому +66

    You have the characteristics of an Empath. I am an Empath and I LOVE being alone. It took me years to accept this about myself. When I stopped trying to fit in life became more enjoyable. You are good just as you are. Be free baby girl!😊❤

    • @Vee-yc5ht
      @Vee-yc5ht 2 роки тому +7

      @Dee Stoddard- same here

    • @gfkathyd
      @gfkathyd 2 роки тому +3

      Yes! You are spot on!

    • @binkyfaith
      @binkyfaith 2 роки тому +2

      Same here

  • @lindahamilton5836
    @lindahamilton5836 2 роки тому +3

    I don't know how to cook, I enjoy baking, so I appreciate watching you cook. Love that you take us to the grocery store, show your ingredients and make it look so easy. I'm going to try to see if I can get it right, lol!!! I'm 65 and have spent the past 6-7 years in bed after a mild stroke, because my body feels like it's on fire. I never realized how much I enjoy my own company. I learned to do activities for ONE, puzzles, coloring, games on my phone, etc. My puzzle board is a bulletin board!!!
    I stumbled on to your videos and have really enjoyed them. I'm 65 now and have lost friends, because I can't do anything. After watching your videos, you feel like a friend, even though I don't know you! I have two heated blankets and couldn't survive without them. Beauty Rest and London Luxury are the brands and have held up well, because I use them daily for the majority of my days. It helps with the burning, go figure! Keep putting out your videos. It gives me something to look forward to watching. Stay safe!

    • @teresamcgee-vd2uc
      @teresamcgee-vd2uc 4 місяці тому

      I hope you're doing well Linda. May God bless and keep you 🙏

  • @shess1640
    @shess1640 2 роки тому +37

    I really appreciate how well you take care of your belongings and how careful you are in selecting them.

  • @MsBerries25
    @MsBerries25 2 роки тому +13

    As an introvert, it takes an enormous amount of energy to be around people

  • @user-cq8fk8ej4h
    @user-cq8fk8ej4h 2 роки тому +17

    I love being alone too! Too many people just means more draining drama! Most people think that's crazy. 😂

  • @marloverrilla1272
    @marloverrilla1272 2 роки тому +12

    Life is a series of seasons. If you don’t want to be around people….you don’t want to be around people. Nonintroverts don’t get it…alone doesn’t mean lonely. There are inner worlds to explore too. Happy traveling!

  • @lauriesopas
    @lauriesopas 2 роки тому +31

    Your videos are MY self care! 😊Thanks as always for sharing your life with all of us.

  • @tfgh521
    @tfgh521 Рік тому +1

    I love watching you cook and eat and fully enjoying your food. I love food and eating alone ❤❤❤

  • @claraguzman6842
    @claraguzman6842 2 роки тому +20

    I don't know if you're familiar with the famous advice columnist Ann Landers. She was a hoot, and well known for her short and to the point advice. She once said "It is far better to be alone than to wish you were". I definitely agree with her!

  • @Haziesmom2023
    @Haziesmom2023 2 роки тому +8

    What a beautiful community you are building. Us! A community of introverts. So happy to have found all of You..........PLUS getting to live vicariously through you and your road trips!! Whooo Hoooo!!! I'm hangin' On!!!!! Thanks!

  • @sheilampriest4927
    @sheilampriest4927 2 роки тому +26

    I understand where you are coming from. Some people can't understand that you can feel comfortable being alone without being lonely or being bored. I find myself reading or going out to sight see by myself. You keep doing what you feel comfortable with.

  • @Kj-ec7iz
    @Kj-ec7iz 2 роки тому +10

    I have just started watching this channel. I have been jumping around to different videos and I have to say I always smile when she ‘shares’ bites of dinner with us.

    • @aaleahmcconnell2988
      @aaleahmcconnell2988 2 роки тому

      I will be half asleep but when she shares a bite with us I quickly snap out of it

  • @vannessaschubert4252
    @vannessaschubert4252 2 роки тому +62

    I like that you maintain your vehicles and inform others to do the same.

    • @lifeas_jaz
      @lifeas_jaz 2 роки тому +1

      @@lynncatalano4782 She said she ate the ice cream and didn't wanna put more bad stuff in her body. The ice cream ruined her dinner date.

  • @parryan1800
    @parryan1800 Рік тому +1

    The vibration of the van driving down the road will shake all that stuff off the walls. Plus it looks, appears, that you have a bit of a heavy foot.

  • @maryanne5994
    @maryanne5994 2 роки тому +23

    Frankly for me the best part of your videos is the cooking and eating! It is fascinating to see what you are cooking and how much you enjoy your food! I think many love the food aspects of your day! I have gotten some great food ideas so thank you! Watching you cook and eat is relaxing!! I really enjoy the simplicity and discipline of your life! Your truly doing you and are in touch with what you like dislike and your needs! So many can learn from you!
    I love the way you admit you just love being alone, I can relate as an introvert! But society can judge us and make us wrong for not wanting to be sociable, good not to listen to those voices and follow what makes you prosperous and happy!
    I live in Ontario Canada not too far from Michigan and our winters get cold so I am glad you are preparing it will be such an interesting survival experience for you facing the elements! I have complete faith that you will will rise to the occasion make it work for you!

  • @sheisawarenow3753
    @sheisawarenow3753 2 роки тому +30

    Very inspiring video. Much respect and love to all of us introverts….there’s nothing like your own company!

  • @EscapeAndChill
    @EscapeAndChill 2 роки тому +35

    Chillin out in my patio with my lil toy poodle IrisPuffyBush watching your video. Life is good. Thank you. ❤

  • @dianewinters8628
    @dianewinters8628 2 роки тому +1

    That ice cream looks incredible. Never been to Cold Stone. We have Stewart's shops around here for shakes, dish ice cream, cones, & make your own sundaes. I've never cooked with coconut milk either. I use coconut milk in the blender for smoothies. Goodnight fam.

  • @ej6388
    @ej6388 2 роки тому +38

    Really enjoy your videos especially the long ones! 1 hour of not indulging in trashy/addicting tv or social media accounts. Just pure wholesome vanlife

  • @NiceenoughDMV
    @NiceenoughDMV 2 роки тому +5

    You are wise to keep your car young lady. Yup, I'm one of the Aunties of your page. I'm always concerned about your safety and we'll bring. I too am an introvert. I Iove my alone time. "I don't feel like it" is my staple line/excuse. It's just how we are. Thx for the content. Thx for sharing your meals and ice cream with us today. I look fwd to your posts. Take care

  • @ruthanne9914
    @ruthanne9914 2 роки тому +47

    Rest assured, you are not the only personal who truly loves being alone. It may not be the norm, but that's how it is. And, honestly, I suspect that many folks remain "sociable" because they think they should. But me? I tell my very close friends, I never tire of my own company--am endlessly charming and interesting.😉 Love your videos!

    • @gigigiseleworld
      @gigigiseleworld 2 роки тому +1

      "Isolation is peace 🕊️🕊️ of Mind"..

    • @malvaparker6618
      @malvaparker6618 2 роки тому

      Nothing like having piece of mind. Period.
      ❤️✝️🙏🏾👏🏾

    • @margaretr5701
      @margaretr5701 Рік тому

      Sociable friends don't understand this. They feel insulted, even rejected.
      One friend felt she'd done something wrong because I mostly chose to not join her and other's at a weekly gathering.
      I like to see people occasionally, but on a one on one basis, and not too often.

  • @noobmusic23
    @noobmusic23 2 роки тому +1

    The broccoli 🥦 and tomato 🍅 did it for me! Yum

  • @MINORTHINGS99
    @MINORTHINGS99 2 роки тому +49

    I think it's interesting how people assume you don't know certain things. At a certain age you pretty much know what will make you happy and if you don't you have a plan to get there. I love your confidence and how you speak your truth! You got this. 💖

  • @shenamontoya3487
    @shenamontoya3487 2 роки тому +15

    Girl I love when you cook. I learn alot of new recipes from you and I thank you for that. Im also a introvert and I love it. At the end of the day I'm my own bestfriend ❤

  • @iymkr4544
    @iymkr4544 2 роки тому +32

    Found your show/life, and been hooked. Really appreciate the energy, positivity, and meals you make. We could all use someone like you in our lives😀. Please continue.

  • @soothingsounds7574
    @soothingsounds7574 Рік тому +2

    Still watching your vids in order from start & loving them! I love how you do self-care & how it was supposed to be no cooking. I need to do the self-care a lot more often. Sorry the day didn't go as planned though. 🌞

  • @barbarastone2791
    @barbarastone2791 2 роки тому +7

    I worked remotely for the past 3 years and I love it. I am very comfortable being alone. No need to rely on others to keep me company. Will try the coconut milk. Sounds good.

  • @victoriadecarlo9734
    @victoriadecarlo9734 2 роки тому +1

    My kind of girl, dessert before dinner lol. Here's what I've learned, when things start to go awry, there's a reason we may not understand. Here's what I tell myself...."I'm right where I'm suppose to be" (possibly saving you from an accident ahead). "I am ready for and equal to anything that comes my way." (Because you are equipped for a time such as this.) "I can do this, cause I can do anything." Our words are powerful, and we believe ourselves more than anyone else. Stay safe out there.

  • @kayyeaman7071
    @kayyeaman7071 2 роки тому +9

    So I'm a 63 year old white Mormon woman from Utah. Lol! You might think we don't have much in common but we do! Even tho I'm married I do quite a lot of things by myself and enjoy it. Love you and your videos. 🙂❤

  • @jasminmalave98
    @jasminmalave98 2 роки тому +1

    Using Coconut milk is very popular in Thai dishes yum 😄😄

  • @HarlemScholar
    @HarlemScholar 2 роки тому +38

    I love being alone as well. I travel alone all around the 🌎 and absolutely love it! I would love to live in a van solo and travel the states. You're inspiring. ✨️

  • @tammysmith8828
    @tammysmith8828 2 роки тому +1

    I totally understand about not wanting to be around people. It can be totally exhausting to some people. It can at times be physically painful.

  • @allyncollins359
    @allyncollins359 2 роки тому +5

    I would back your car into the storage bay. That way, if the battery needed a jump, you're facing out and can reach under the hood. Oh dang, I was so looking forward to the pizza!! Maybe tomorrow!! lol

  • @joletted6340
    @joletted6340 2 роки тому +8

    Love eating dinner with you. You do you! Everyone is different and there is nothing wrong with being alone. You dont have to explain yourself. More people understand you than you think. I'm not an introvert and I LOVE being alone. Absolutely love it. I love traveling alone, shopping alone, walking alone. Just being alone.

  • @beverlysyferd379
    @beverlysyferd379 2 роки тому +11

    We all need a self-care day. So glad you do one too. I don’t understand why people think they have the right to criticize your life. If you don’t like what you see…..There is a scroll button. Use it!!

  • @marlissfern2710
    @marlissfern2710 2 роки тому +15

    TOO CUTE!!! Love the cut but your reaction was even better. 😍Please keep doing the longer videos. They’re great! 🎉❤

  • @potomacable
    @potomacable 2 роки тому +15

    Girl I feel ya on the whole social thing I enjoy my own company more than those of others, no drama, I know what I want , it's pure bliss

  • @janinerizzoli7472
    @janinerizzoli7472 2 роки тому +14

    Is a nice change to see someone confident in just being who they are and loving it. You're not trying to compete with other bloggers..... you're just being you. Well done. I love your independence and confidence in tackling every day life. Thnakyou for sharing with us. Watching you from Australia 🇦🇺 would love to travel around the US in a van. Bucket list 👌 🤞🤗

  • @cj9667
    @cj9667 2 роки тому +14

    Always a plan B…you may want to put a piece of plywood under your car tires.. you can get them already cut at HD…or a tarp..a moisture barrier. Tire pressure will decrease during the winter..so check them before you drive it

    • @cj9667
      @cj9667 2 роки тому +7

      @@Nomadicintrovert oh I forgot..fill up the tank and add Stabil. It’s a gasoline additive..prevents the gas from separating and going bad

    • @hannahbahtyaqov9319
      @hannahbahtyaqov9319 2 роки тому +2

      Great Tips.

  • @cck6740
    @cck6740 2 роки тому +5

    I'm an introvert married to an ambivert...he understands my need for solitude and gives me that, but is also companionable when I need it.

  • @jasonmack2569
    @jasonmack2569 2 роки тому +16

    Had something similar happen to me the other day. Thought it was going to be a quick trip to Home Depot to get a few items to fix a screen door; and then off to have my roots done and a facial. That turned into a three hour quest for rubber cording. As someone giving serious consideration to van living, I love that you show that this lifestyle will not save you from the everyday headaches of life. So very happy that your videos were some of the first that got recommended to me in my research into van life.

  • @tooshort12
    @tooshort12 2 роки тому +2

    So I ran into your videos last night, and I watched like 20 of them so far, I have to tell you that you seem like the sweetest, smartest person ever! I will be rootin for you from now on! Love watchin your channel!

  • @doe4638
    @doe4638 2 роки тому +6

    I love when you offer a bite. Feels interactive. Thank you for sharing. Take care of yourself.

    • @phylliscrosby4
      @phylliscrosby4 2 роки тому +1

      I always bite. Lol

    • @doe4638
      @doe4638 2 роки тому +1

      @@phylliscrosby4 me too!! Lol

  • @WildKraftyAotearoa
    @WildKraftyAotearoa 2 роки тому +1

    Yum!
    Coconut milk & cream take food to the next level! Not just because I am Polynesian, but because it is total delish! I make a base for lentils or chicken peas using coconut cream, sweet potato, pumpkin and watercress. Oh my word, yum!
    Be blessed and stay fab xoxo🌺🌺🌺

  • @supreedascribner7375
    @supreedascribner7375 2 роки тому +10

    I just want you to know that being a loner is one of the most human strengths and values and is hard for any of us to achieve, but you could. I am very impressed. You are a very strong person and are self contained. Most people can’t be alone and must depend on other’s company and be socializing at all times. You are obsessed with checking the temp in the van, but I am obsessed with watching your videos😉. By the way, you must have read my comments for the special request. I have been noticing the longer video clips of you. Thanks so much. I appreciate it.

  • @MC-dd8ls
    @MC-dd8ls 2 роки тому +5

    Dahlin' there is no need to apologize for wanting to be by yourself. Others who don't understand, can't phantom one can be their own best friend AND ENJOY IT.
    I, too, am the same way and it is nice to know there are others like-minded.
    Being alone is perectly fine!

  • @deborahwalker3644
    @deborahwalker3644 2 роки тому +7

    I am so happy I found you !!! I’m 69 an as I’ve gotten older I luv my peace an quiet. I live with my youngest daughter an her fam an they are loud especially teen grandkids, my room in between theirs😢. I like being alone in my room watching you an movies sn coloring. I wished I could afford too buy any vehicle too get away an sleep by beach or lake. Since I can’t I live through you🥰Thank you for being you🌹

  • @udesirekyejc
    @udesirekyejc 2 роки тому +1

    Chile when you whisper “have some “ 😂 that cracks me up! But I love that. Imma try to make this

  • @RedBoneMelanin84
    @RedBoneMelanin84 2 роки тому +7

    I always get ice cream in the winter. Summer everything melts too fast

    • @lisahenderson4561
      @lisahenderson4561 2 роки тому +1

      I love ice cream when it’s cold! Now I want some even though it’s in the 80s. 😆😆

  • @alewis4941
    @alewis4941 2 роки тому +23

    Yes, I agree. I'm an introvert and an empath OMG!!!!! 😱 SO draining being around people although like you I have friends at work. I've been on my current job for 10 years and still have friends from my previous job I was on 13 yrs. I'm the same way always been a loner, I enjoy my own company, don't get bored, not in a relationship, I like my peace and doing my own thing. I enjoy taking care of myself and getting things done. Kuddo to you for being authentically you. Also, I'm very excited to see more and more people embracing who they are and not conforming to what the world says you should be. 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @californiaglo9666
    @californiaglo9666 2 роки тому +15

    I enjoy watching you cook. It is a good balance of content. I think it is great that you enjoy being your own company. I was an extrovert until the pandemic hit. Working from home and living alone I sort of got used to being alone. I think we all go through cycles. Stay safe. I love the long videos!!! 😁

  • @charlenekeillor1373
    @charlenekeillor1373 2 роки тому +1

    I am an introvert as well. I love my own company and people just don’t understand. I have been cooking some of your dishes yum. 🌸🇨🇦

  • @yvettemathis2321
    @yvettemathis2321 2 роки тому +25

    I really can’t think of a better way to enjoy my day off than watching your video.I enjoy your videos sooooo much 💯💙💙

  • @daniellealkhabi84
    @daniellealkhabi84 2 роки тому +3

    The longer the video the happier we are!!!!

  • @ibrahimsara92
    @ibrahimsara92 2 роки тому +7

    i love how your days consits with you and only your needs , i feel like sometimes i miss that especially being a mom

  • @marisac66
    @marisac66 5 місяців тому

    I’m an introvert myself. It takes a lot of energy being around others with a different energetic dynamic from yourself. It’s draining. I love your channel! Been binge watching! 😂

  • @kibblenbits
    @kibblenbits 2 роки тому +6

    When I do a self care day, it includes my 5 pound long hair Chihuahua, named Lil' Miss. I do my pedicure, then her's. I cut my hair, then her's, etc. She always ends up looking far better than I do! 😁😁

  • @beautifulchaos4383
    @beautifulchaos4383 2 роки тому +1

    What brand is your cookware I tried to read it when you were pouring your food but I didn't catch it. You have had me seriously thinking about changing my eating habits, I'm not much of a meat eater but I'm really interested in the veggie dining habit. I watch what you make and getting lots of ideas

  • @JJ-Chantel
    @JJ-Chantel 2 роки тому +4

    Best investment i ever made was for a portable air pump for my tires, especially in the winter where it comes in super handy. They're like $30 on Amazon

  • @janetwilson4290
    @janetwilson4290 2 роки тому +1

    My husband passed away in March and now it is cooking for 1 so you have inspired me and given me some ideas 💡 on what to make.

  • @annisechetelat9026
    @annisechetelat9026 2 роки тому +4

    Great haircut! I wish I had bought an r v When I got my small inheritance...but didn't think right. Was in love with a scammer and gave most of it to him. Wish I had found your videos 3 years ago and felt love for myself!

  • @patricialewis-payton7114
    @patricialewis-payton7114 2 роки тому

    Happy Tuesday, have a wonderful day. Thanks for sharing your daily videos. ❤❤❤😂.

  • @ceebabee53
    @ceebabee53 2 роки тому +3

    May I suggest getting a portable power station such as a Jackery. They come in handy and they have AC/DC outlets. I love watching you girl!❤

  • @arlettewhite8046
    @arlettewhite8046 2 роки тому +2

    Check your floor if the shop hasn't. I watch a lot of Chrome in Vancity Vanlife too and he was shocked to see that there was mold underneath the floor covering, so be safe. Great videos, I'm watching them like I eat popcorn- one after the other.

  • @dianedavis3741
    @dianedavis3741 2 роки тому +4

    I like your car it's good that you had to take care of your car in get that ready for the bad weather it's always good to drive your car around make sure that your car has antifreeze in all of that stuff

  • @EstherLopez-f7h
    @EstherLopez-f7h 3 місяці тому

    I love to see you cook. It gives me ideals for myself.
    Truly understand you, I am a introvert too. There's nothing wrong with that. You do have a beautiful soul. That's why I like watching your channel.

  • @jmag1671
    @jmag1671 2 роки тому +4

    I think it was the new haircut!! Like a reverse Sampson! So enjoyed the idea of you going from fixing your car to having your nails done! Hope you get to the nail shop tomorrow and give yourself some attention!

  • @beckymcdonald8864
    @beckymcdonald8864 Рік тому

    I totally understand about being alone or having my alone time. I have my husband of 41 years and my health is not what it used to be. I do my thing and he does his. We both love staying at home. I’m happy with that. Not happy with Dr. visits but we do what we have to do. I enjoy watching all your videos. Hugs 🥰

  • @teelc0253
    @teelc0253 2 роки тому +16

    Always looking forward to your content! You can never forget the self care. Even if you’re not able to do everything, if you get one thing done… that’s great!! I’m here for it!!!
    ✨✨✌🏾

  • @Truelyblue333
    @Truelyblue333 2 роки тому

    Whew, same, same! Not in a relationship but I’m not lonely or bored. I’m not stressed either with being in a relationship. 😂 … Everything is beautiful. 😊

  • @126missday
    @126missday 2 роки тому +3

    I love the way you prepare and cook your meals & how you keep it healthy it’s definitely a vibe👍🏽

  • @beverlypoirier705
    @beverlypoirier705 2 роки тому +1

    Try checking out a 18 wheeler place or truck stop store for a heated USB heated blanket. I bet you'll find everything you need right there. As always be safe and safe travels ❤️ 🙏

  • @juliekostas7322
    @juliekostas7322 2 роки тому +7

    Smart woman to make sure all your business is in order. You're going to rock the winter with van life! You've got great campground/hotel plan for the rigorous parts of winter. You should be feeling good about the future. Wishing you continued blessings as you venture through this exciting and liberating chapter of your life. We love being your company! PS if I may ask--what was your MOS in the military? You're very handy!

  • @justleannemarie
    @justleannemarie 2 роки тому +1

    Mmmm coconut milk! That ice cream looked spectacular too. As a Canadian girl who winter camps I suggest the following to keep warm and cozy this winter: Pick up a hot water bottle or 2. Add nearly boiing water to them and tuck them into your sleeping bag at bedtime. Wear wool long underwear or synthetic blend clothing instead of cotton to bed. Cotton keeps you cool not warm! Wear a toque to bed for sure..ah... a knit beanie in American. I suggest a down filled sleeping bag and prefer over a heated blanket. Love your content. Stay safe!