If they don’t put God before me and themself. That is a big red flag - if they make God a priority and then put all worry and love into god, then that is the best Green Flag ever
1. They don’t consistently pursue Jesus. Not a committed follower of Jesus. 2. When those you love, don’t love who you’re dating. 3. When you don’t face healthy conflict. 4. When you find it difficult to trust the one you love. 5. When the person you’re dating is leading you away from Jesus.
Pastor Craig is correct, when I was in college I dated a girl who was a lot of "fun," but my friends and parents did not care for her. I knew in the back of my head that she was not morally good for me, fortunately for me she broke up with me, and a few years later I married a woman that became my best friend!
@@melaniemartin730 As a person that's been a youth Leader for decades, that's EXACTLY WHY it should be taught in Mid hi/ High School. I actually was thinking about how I COULD teach this to my current youth group
25:08 - This is real. This lesson speaks to me so profoundly. I’ve lived these red flags in my past relationship, and I’m very glad it ended; however, I do miss the friendship we had before times got bad… oh well.
I’ve had friends date unbelievers who come to Jesus BECAUSE of them. So, there are upsides, and the Bible does mention marriages with unbelievers. - I understand that is a harder path, but is possible if your partner is open to it. And it’s so beautiful to see them come to God. (An example of someone well known is Lee Strobel, who was an atheist and his wife was a Christian). Obviously this is something you have to pray about, and really listen to what God wants for you. I definitely think red flag 5 is the most important one to look out for, so I agree that if someone pulls you away from God then you need to break up with them.
Yes it does happen, but as Christians we are called to be equally yoke so we avoid the hardships that can come with dating an unbeliever. The Bible says in Amos, "How can two walk in one accord if they do not agree." Waiting on what God has for you is so key. God Bless you! Myriam - LC Social Media Team
I'm so glad I found this sermon. I had to break up with someone because of the last red flag. Thank you, I needed the reminder. It's not easy to shut someone out of my life, when in the beginning, I believe it was meant to be. In the end, the Holy Spirit was telling me to get out. I hope someday the reason is revealed to me. My heart is still broken, but I believe it will be healed. All in His timing. God bless! 🙏
I am going through in this kind of situation, it is very painful, it breaks my heart. i know that Jesus will help me to overcome it. Let his will be done.
Definitely not what everyone wants to hear but definitely what we need to hear, wish I would of known this before my first marriage, this is definitely the biggest eye opener I've seen in the last couple months🙏🙏🙏 God Bless thank you Life Church❤️
Wow, this is a very helpful topic and very comical too! 😮 - This really made me think about my failed marriage to Dave that's leading to dreadful divorce!
This sermon is not only for the young people, but those who are older and may have been divorced. Everyone wants to be loved and have that someone special to love. The desire to know jesus first and looking at those red flags will definitely help to avoid another bad relationship.
We’re so excited for you, Peter! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Mika
having a marriage with the wrong person IS very painful to go through, especially when kids are involved. This message is very good and important for everyone. I found this message useful for friendships as well.
This sermon gave me clarity that I had been looking for. I advise you to listen with an open mind. Especially if you're in a relationship or about to be in one
God, we lift up this guest. We pray that they will experience Your presence in a new way today. Help set their heart upon You and Your Word! May You guide their path towards You, Lord, while deepening their relationship with You. Fill their mind with Your thoughts and ways, and provide community that strengthens their resolve towards You. Renew their mind and fill them with the Holy Spirit for wisdom and discernment to grant understanding of Your nature and character. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
I neglected the red flag, 20 yrs later my life is full of regret, however, I have separated from the abusive marriage and totally found complete peace in the Lord God almighty, thank you Pastor
Some people have common sense and others don't have common sense. You don't have to ask if he's a Christian, you will see by what says and by his actions.
We’re so excited for you, @hansvonpetersen5011! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
this video describes EXACTLY what I'm going through!!! My soon-to-be ex-husband is extremely abusive and narcissistic, he had severe anger issues and neglected me. he also emotionally and verbally abused me. I didn't want to believe the warning signs and ignored it, Pastor Craig is right!!!! I'm going to write a book about my experiences about surviving domestic violence and how I'm learning to say no and stand up for myself. Jesus rescued me
❤️Thank you for sharing your story @Allyson! May God continue to give you strength and hope as you move forward from this situation. What the enemy meant for evil, God will use for good! 2 Cor 1:4 -- Jenni
I hope you do. I also was in that kind of relationship, and he even presented as a godly man in the beginning. Ironically enough he introduced me to this channel. But watching this video, I was gonna have him watch it with me, but the opportunity didn't come, as we already were becoming more distant because I insisted on our time together being productive, and not falling into the trap of the "Netflix and chill" equivalent.(I don't have Netflix) I shudder that I could've fallen for the concept that we "need" to get married soon based on 1 Corinthians 7:9. We can all keep learning, and helping each other to live productive lives and avoid such relationships and so on. Be blessed today
Please pray for me and my girlfriend, I think we got 2-3 red flags. She's not a genuine christian, though she is interested in it. Please pray for her salvation, even if we won't work out; please pray that she will love Jesus.
Lord, We know the paths You have for us are amazing and so much better than our own. Please guide and strengthen Kenji for his faith in You and help his girlfriend to see Your love through Kenji so she can see You and committee to following You whether it is with Kenji or not. Allow Your Spirit to work in both of them and let them be able to grow in You in Jesus' name Amen. Laura
This just came at the right time. I went on a date two days ago and after that I had this clarity that this is not the person I would see myself getting married to or being in a committed relationship with. The date went okay but unfortunately most of my friends are not godly so they thought I am really choosy when I said the date was okay butI didn't have that sense of peace deep down and I can't date someone whose heart doesn't belong to Christ. I feel like this message was particularly meant for me. May God see me through as I continue seeking God's kingdom
We’re so excited for you, Yankee4ever2! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat
We’re so excited for you, Григорий Булатов! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Mika
We’re so excited for you, Brushstroke and beyond! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church - Laura
Father, we lift up this guest. We pray that they will experience Your presence in a new way today. Help set their heart upon You and Your Word! May You guide their path towards You, Lord, while deepening their relationship with You. Fill their mind with Your thoughts and ways, and provide community that strengthens their resolve towards You. Renew their mind and fill them with the Holy Spirit for wisdom and discernment to grant understanding of Your nature and character. In Jesus’ name, Amen
Just started listening from NJ but I suspect I am guilty of not paying attention to the warning signs. Going through a divorce right now after 15 years of marriage .
God’s here for you, and so are we. If you’re interested in wisdom or encouragement on how you can grow closer to God and find meaningful relationships while single, this is a great place to start: finds.life.church/tag/single/ -Team LC Ronnie
Yes! We have numerous messages. Here are a couple: www.life.church/media/save-the-date/3-qualities-you-need-before-marriage/ and www.life.church/media/save-the-date/5-signs-youre-dating-the-wrong-person/ both from a series of messages last year. You can also search here: www.life.church/media/messages/ Thanks for reaching out! -- Jenni
I am Chistian. I got divorce 12 years ago. I am now dating a man I have known since I was single. When I met him he was married and wanted to be with me but I did not accept him because of that, but now he is a widower and we met again and now that he is a widower I accepted him and he wants to marry me but he is not a Christian. Please can you pray for his salvation. And I will pray to God that if it is not his will I will leave this relationship to do God's will.
God, I lift up this future marriage. I ask that you help them both have the heart and eyes to see each other through your eyes. I pray that you work in them both, specially on the man, giving them a willingness to forgive and seek reconciliation. God, I ask for patience as they navigate how you will work in this marriage and choose to put you first. Protect both of them from ungodly influences that strain their marriage and their trust. Work in and through them to bless each other in this difficult time. In your name, Amen.
We’re so excited for you, @blossomyusuf9935! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat
We’re so excited for you, Ivan Hartanto! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Matthew Team LC
We’re so excited for you, Cyrus Cembrano! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church - jenni
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Hello Melanie! I believe we can always pray for other people who are dating the wrong people. We can also pray for God to speak through us, and to have the courage to reach out to them and to guide them on their next steps! -Mika
We’re so excited for you, megos Savino! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat
Jessica you are not alone... God, I lift up this marriage. I ask that you help them both have the heart and eyes to see each other through your eyes. I pray that you work in them both, giving them a willingness to forgive and seek reconciliation. God, I ask for patience as they navigate how you will work in this marriage and choose to put you first. Protect both of them from ungodly influences that strain their marriage and their trust. Work in and through them to bless each other in this difficult time. In your name, Amen. -- jenni
Hawayu Life Church *& I Appreciate Pst. Craig Groeschel 4 This Powerful, Blessful Deep Sermon on "5 Red Flags Yu are With The Wrong Person!"Where I Have Learnt That The 5 Red Flags Yu are With The Wrong Person are:- 1. When They Consistently Don't Pursue Jesus, 2. When The People Yu Love Don't Love The Person Yu are Dating, 3. When Yu Don't Experience Healthy Conflicts, 4. When Yu Find It Difficult 2 Trust The Person Yu are With & 5. When The Person Yu are With Doesn't Trust Jesus Christ & Doesn't It Have a Relationship With Jesus Christ 4 He Who Finds a Good Wife Finds a Good Thing & Obtains The Favor of The LORD & Husbands Love Yur Wives Just As Christ Loves The Church Written In Proverbs 18:22 & Ephesians 5:25 4 I Have Been Blessed Pst. Craig Groeschel & Life Church* & May Our Great Almighty God Bless Yu Pst. Craig Groeschel & Life Church So Veryyyyyy, Veryyyyyy Much.🙏🙏🕊️🕊️
Melanie Martin Red flags are meant to be warning signs to prevent you from making a bad decision. In other words, you do not really know your choice for a spouse until after the wedding. TeamLC Ronnie
Ask a million questions....how?! You have to be really sold out to God, have a relationship with the Holy Spirit and through his help you can ask spirit-influenced questions that will give you answers that you seek or pointers (red flag). Dating/Courtship period is a time for 'spiritual investigation', it's not a time for going only on dates, to the movies, new restaurants etc don't overlook these. Remember, marriage is a serious matter, so make sure you give it the seriousness it requires. God bless you!
Victoria, we're here for you if you'd like to talk about what you're going through. Just head to Life.Church Online at live.life.church. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. - LK
We’re so excited for you, Skye Abad! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life. Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -TeamLC Ronnie
Hi Life Church team. I applied to be part of 4 life groups so far and I sent emails to all of them, but I did not received any answer from anybody. I hope someone is seeing this comment. Thanks
What about Christian and Catholic, I can’t seem to convert to Catholicism for my bf and it has hindered our relationship. I can’t see a future because our beliefs are so different
Hi KJM! We would love to get you connected with one of our pastors to talk with you about this! If you are interested, please let us know by filling out this form -- go2.lc/meetwithus - Jas
Question: what if a lot of the red flags are prominent n very much are issues in mine n my husbands marriage? We are currently separated, should I go ahead then with filling for divorce if these things are very much been problematic n true for us through at least the last 9 years! It’s caused so much more trauma n sickness to take place in my n my children’s bodies. I need clarification from the Lord that it’s okay to divorce bc I don’t have peace as of yet to start that process… sister in Christ, Jeannie
Hi Jeannie Walker! We would love to get you connected with one of our pastors to talk with you about this! If you are interested, please let us know by filling out this form -- go2.lc/careform We’re praying for your family my friend. God bless you. Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good
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My father was not a Christian before he met my mom and now he is a much better Christian and role model. Also for point #1 what if the person we like just grew up in a non Christian family or taught wrongly about Christians and needs led to God? I have met many people who don't like Christians because they think they are all religious and Bible thumpers thus avoids them. Then we also have Hosea who God had married an adulteress women.
It feels like stories like this were more common decades ago. These days people choose to be who they want to be and it's very difficult to get them to be who you think they should be.
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What do you value and appreciate in your friendships and relationships?
If they don’t put God before me and themself. That is a big red flag - if they make God a priority and then put all worry and love into god, then that is the best Green Flag ever
@@AllGloryToTheOneMostHighabsolutely!🟣🟣🟣🟣
A little compromise, but so many couples are lacking it!🍌🍌🍉🍉
Amen!!! Great message Pastor Craig God Bless you
Trust
1. They don’t consistently pursue Jesus. Not a committed follower of Jesus.
2. When those you love, don’t love who you’re dating.
3. When you don’t face healthy conflict.
4. When you find it difficult to trust the one you love.
5. When the person you’re dating is leading you away from Jesus.
Why are they doing this?!🤷🤷🤷🤷
Thank you for taking the time to write out this outline for the rest of us!
Quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry! 🙌🏻
Good point...period!⚫⚫🤯🤯
Pastor Craig is correct, when I was in college I dated a girl who was a lot of "fun," but my friends and parents did not care for her. I knew in the back of my head that she was not morally good for me, fortunately for me she broke up with me, and a few years later I married a woman that became my best friend!
I love that story Bill Ashby, This is encouraging and gives good feelings knowing you are blessed. Thank you, for sharing -Team LC Ronnie
Man these teachings are always seem to be exactly what I’m going through 😭
Same Brother😅
Same here
God's timing is perfect!
SAME! Isn’t God amazing!
This was such a good sermon.
Wow...period!🎀🎀🎀🎀
amen
I listened to this, in order to weigh myself. To see if I was worthy of someone dating me. Great message! 🙏
@jesussavesrick Great idea! Hopefully you're ready
Great relationship advice! Should be taught in Jr high and high school!
But how? Teens are struggling!🛀🛀🛀
@@melaniemartin730 As a person that's been a youth Leader for decades, that's EXACTLY WHY it should be taught in Mid hi/ High School.
I actually was thinking about how I COULD teach this to my current youth group
@mtbiker841 YES TRUE! (see other comment)
Agreed
I am going to have my teenage daughters listen.
I want to be closer to Jesus in all my relationships and all things in Jesus Name!
25:08 - This is real. This lesson speaks to me so profoundly. I’ve lived these red flags in my past relationship, and I’m very glad it ended; however, I do miss the friendship we had before times got bad… oh well.
I’ve had friends date unbelievers who come to Jesus BECAUSE of them. So, there are upsides, and the Bible does mention marriages with unbelievers. - I understand that is a harder path, but is possible if your partner is open to it. And it’s so beautiful to see them come to God. (An example of someone well known is Lee Strobel, who was an atheist and his wife was a Christian). Obviously this is something you have to pray about, and really listen to what God wants for you.
I definitely think red flag 5 is the most important one to look out for, so I agree that if someone pulls you away from God then you need to break up with them.
Yes it does happen, but as Christians we are called to be equally yoke so we avoid the hardships that can come with dating an unbeliever. The Bible says in Amos, "How can two walk in one accord if they do not agree." Waiting on what God has for you is so key.
God Bless you!
Myriam - LC Social Media Team
I'm so glad I found this sermon.
I had to break up with someone because of the last red flag.
Thank you, I needed the reminder. It's not easy to shut someone out of my life, when in the beginning, I believe it was meant to be. In the end, the Holy Spirit was telling me to get out. I hope someday the reason is revealed to me. My heart is still broken, but I believe it will be healed. All in His timing.
God bless! 🙏
I am going through in this kind of situation, it is very painful, it breaks my heart. i know that Jesus will help me to overcome it. Let his will be done.
Definitely not what everyone wants to hear but definitely what we need to hear, wish I would of known this before my first marriage, this is definitely the biggest eye opener I've seen in the last couple months🙏🙏🙏 God Bless thank you Life Church❤️
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Pastor you're massages brings people closer to God. Keep it up God bless you.
Goodmorning Pastor Craig and the entire life Church Family watching from Bahamas, Blessings 🙏❤
Yes! I have, as long as I can remember. But I have reaffirmed my Baptism!
This is raising my standard. Wow.
I missed all the red flags , and now I regret it ….
Thank you for forgiving me & my sinful ness
Yes, Lord! Take me! I want you and NEED you to take my life in your hands! Guide me, in Jesus'name! AMEN!!
Wow, this is a very helpful topic and very comical too! 😮 - This really made me think about my failed marriage to Dave that's leading to dreadful divorce!
This sermon is not only for the young people, but those who are older and may have been divorced. Everyone wants to be loved and have that someone special to love. The desire to know jesus first and looking at those red flags will definitely help to avoid another bad relationship.
True @jefflutke3459!
I give my life to you Jesus ❤
We’re so excited for you, Peter! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
-Mika
I always seek you first.
I love to be wise,
And I hate stupidity
having a marriage with the wrong person IS very painful to go through, especially when kids are involved. This message is very good and important for everyone. I found this message useful for friendships as well.
💯 Amen!
This sermon gave me clarity that I had been looking for. I advise you to listen with an open mind. Especially if you're in a relationship or about to be in one
I want to be closer with God. Amen.
God, we lift up this guest. We pray that they will experience Your presence in a new way today. Help set their heart upon You and Your Word! May You guide their path towards You, Lord, while deepening their relationship with You. Fill their mind with Your thoughts and ways, and provide community that strengthens their resolve towards You. Renew their mind and fill them with the Holy Spirit for wisdom and discernment to grant understanding of Your nature and character. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
I'm Soo glad draws near to me
Thank you Jesus
This is absolutely amazin advice, thanks you Craig, God bless you
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amen to that I love this message about relationships
This message will help alot of dating people out there.
But how🧏🧏💆
@@melaniemartin730 help them to identify red flags within their relationships or what to look out for when they start to date.
Sheeewwww time to sober up…..hit me to my core….hallelujah
I want to be closer to Jesus in all areas of my life. Ready me for all that you have waiting for me. In your mighty name Amen.
Yes Pay VERY CLOSE attention to those RED FLAGS!!! OR SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCE.😢
Thank you for this message.
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I neglected the red flag, 20 yrs later my life is full of regret, however, I have separated from the abusive marriage and totally found complete peace in the Lord God almighty, thank you Pastor
Amen! 🙌🙏
I want to be closer to Jesus
Help me to honor you 💖
Help me in my relationship & put Jesus 1st
Quick to speak & slow to anger
I'm giving my life to Jesus
i want to be closer to jesus
I have been drink once before. It just made me tired and out of control. So I got home safe and went tosleep by myself. Never did it again.
This is a great message, thanks Pastor Craig!
Some people have common sense and others don't have common sense. You don't have to ask if he's a Christian, you will see by what says and by his actions.
I've met Christians who are doing God's work, but still have not a lick of common sense. God can still use them and loves them the same ❤️
-Kat
Thank you for this video.
I want to always be more closer to Jesus more. Every Day and include God also.
Quick to listen
i giving my life to jesus
We’re so excited for you, @hansvonpetersen5011! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
Be closer to Jesus
this video describes EXACTLY what I'm going through!!! My soon-to-be ex-husband is extremely abusive and narcissistic, he had severe anger issues and neglected me. he also emotionally and verbally abused me. I didn't want to believe the warning signs and ignored it, Pastor Craig is right!!!! I'm going to write a book about my experiences about surviving domestic violence and how I'm learning to say no and stand up for myself. Jesus rescued me
❤️Thank you for sharing your story @Allyson! May God continue to give you strength and hope as you move forward from this situation. What the enemy meant for evil, God will use for good! 2 Cor 1:4
-- Jenni
Oh no!🔥🔥🔥🔥
I hope you do. I also was in that kind of relationship, and he even presented as a godly man in the beginning. Ironically enough he introduced me to this channel. But watching this video, I was gonna have him watch it with me, but the opportunity didn't come, as we already were becoming more distant because I insisted on our time together being productive, and not falling into the trap of the "Netflix and chill" equivalent.(I don't have Netflix) I shudder that I could've fallen for the concept that we "need" to get married soon based on 1 Corinthians 7:9. We can all keep learning, and helping each other to live productive lives and avoid such relationships and so on. Be blessed today
@@quinoasongs2507 thank you for sharing your story! your not alone ❤
Please pray for me and my girlfriend, I think we got 2-3 red flags. She's not a genuine christian, though she is interested in it. Please pray for her salvation, even if we won't work out; please pray that she will love Jesus.
Lord,
We know the paths You have for us are amazing and so much better than our own. Please guide and strengthen Kenji for his faith in You and help his girlfriend to see Your love through Kenji so she can see You and committee to following You whether it is with Kenji or not. Allow Your Spirit to work in both of them and let them be able to grow in You in Jesus' name Amen.
Laura
@@kenji2342 kenji how are you?
Words to live by. Thats how i fell in love with my wife. All she spoke about was jesus. I knew right then she was the one!!
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Amen!! So good❤️🔥🙌🏻
This just came at the right time. I went on a date two days ago and after that I had this clarity that this is not the person I would see myself getting married to or being in a committed relationship with. The date went okay but unfortunately most of my friends are not godly so they thought I am really choosy when I said the date was okay butI didn't have that sense of peace deep down and I can't date someone whose heart doesn't belong to Christ. I feel like this message was particularly meant for me. May God see me through as I continue seeking God's kingdom
God bless you. Cheers to u for your strength and wisdom
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@@kenji2342 Thankyou and amen 🙏
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Giving my life to Jesus baby !
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-Kat
I'm not ignoring,the signs
I surrender my life to Jesus ❤
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-Mika
Same here, I'm giving my life!💜💙💚💛💜💜💙
I give my life to jesus
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- Laura
I want to be closer to Jesus
Father, we lift up this guest. We pray that they will experience Your presence in a new way today. Help set their heart upon You and Your Word! May You guide their path towards You, Lord, while deepening their relationship with You. Fill their mind with Your thoughts and ways, and provide community that strengthens their resolve towards You. Renew their mind and fill them with the Holy Spirit for wisdom and discernment to grant understanding of Your nature and character. In Jesus’ name, Amen
I think I'm the problem, but I'm not sure if it's 100 percent.
The hiding under the bed from Amy was a solid joke😂
Just started listening from NJ but I suspect I am guilty of not paying attention to the warning signs. Going through a divorce right now after 15 years of marriage .
Praying for you and her during this difficult time!! 🙏🏻✝️
God bless you!!
@@calistadecoster6274sorry that your Marriage is sadly ending!😭😭😭
Nice sermon. Do you have any sermons similar to this that are aimed at singles who want to have a relationship?
God’s here for you, and so are we. If you’re interested in wisdom or encouragement on how you can grow closer to God and find meaningful relationships while single, this is a great place to start: finds.life.church/tag/single/
-Team LC Ronnie
Yes! We have numerous messages. Here are a couple: www.life.church/media/save-the-date/3-qualities-you-need-before-marriage/ and www.life.church/media/save-the-date/5-signs-youre-dating-the-wrong-person/ both from a series of messages last year. You can also search here: www.life.church/media/messages/ Thanks for reaching out!
-- Jenni
I am currently learning how to not be a red flag
Shalom 🙏🏻💖 peace
I am Chistian. I got divorce 12 years ago. I am now dating a man I have known since I was single. When I met him he was married and wanted to be with me but I did not accept him because of that, but now he is a widower and we met again and now that he is a widower I accepted him and he wants to marry me but he is not a Christian.
Please can you pray for his salvation. And I will pray to God that if it is not his will I will leave this relationship to do God's will.
God, I lift up this future marriage. I ask that you help them both have the heart and eyes to see each other through your eyes. I pray that you work in them both, specially on the man, giving them a willingness to forgive and seek reconciliation. God, I ask for patience as they navigate how you will work in this marriage and choose to put you first. Protect both of them from ungodly influences that strain their marriage and their trust. Work in and through them to bless each other in this difficult time. In your name, Amen.
I surrender to Jesus
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-Kat
Great advice
Hello DKL, glad you got something from this message- Team LC Ronnie
❤❤one day I will teach on this stage amen 🙏
What were the scriptures?🉑♨️🉑♨️🉑♨️
So good
I am quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.
i'm giving my life to JESUS.
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-Matthew Team LC
PRAISE YHWY, PRAISE HIS HOLY NAME, AMEN 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Meanwhile at the movies, we saw snippets from "father stu." (It's because of copyright laws!) 🎁🎀🎁🎀🎁🎀
Im giving my life to Jesus
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- jenni
I want to be closer to Jesus.
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Even though I'm not dating, i feel bad for those who are dating the wrong people. What can i do?!😓😓😓
Hello Melanie! I believe we can always pray for other people who are dating the wrong people. We can also pray for God to speak through us, and to have the courage to reach out to them and to guide them on their next steps!
-Mika
I want a God honoring Relationships! Family, friends, my spouse, career, life
Amen
Quick to listen, show to anger
IM GIVING MY LIFE TO JESUS
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-Kat
What if one’s family doesn’t have a good spiritual foundation? But they have their opinions
I have been drink before. Then I fall asleep. I had TBI so I can't drink. I didn't like it . I didn't like feeling out of control.
What if you’re already married?
Jessica you are not alone... God, I lift up this marriage. I ask that you help them both have the heart and eyes to see each other through your eyes. I pray that you work in them both, giving them a willingness to forgive and seek reconciliation. God, I ask for patience as they navigate how you will work in this marriage and choose to put you first. Protect both of them from ungodly influences that strain their marriage and their trust. Work in and through them to bless each other in this difficult time. In your name, Amen.
-- jenni
Hawayu Life Church *& I Appreciate Pst. Craig Groeschel 4 This Powerful, Blessful Deep Sermon on "5 Red Flags Yu are With The Wrong Person!"Where I Have Learnt That The 5 Red Flags Yu are With The Wrong Person are:- 1. When They Consistently Don't Pursue Jesus, 2. When The People Yu Love Don't Love The Person Yu are Dating, 3. When Yu Don't Experience Healthy Conflicts, 4. When Yu Find It Difficult 2 Trust The Person Yu are With & 5. When The Person Yu are With Doesn't Trust Jesus Christ & Doesn't It Have a Relationship With Jesus Christ 4 He Who Finds a Good Wife Finds a Good Thing & Obtains The Favor of The LORD & Husbands Love Yur Wives Just As Christ Loves The Church Written In Proverbs 18:22 & Ephesians 5:25 4 I Have Been Blessed Pst. Craig Groeschel & Life Church* & May Our Great Almighty God Bless Yu Pst. Craig Groeschel & Life Church So Veryyyyyy, Veryyyyyy Much.🙏🙏🕊️🕊️
Why would unhealthy couples fight dirty? Help! 😔😔😔
What about the red flags that funny show up till after you get married.
What do we mean by red flags?♨️♨️♨️♨️
Melanie Martin Red flags are meant to be warning signs to prevent you from making a bad decision. In other words, you do not really know your choice for a spouse until after the wedding. TeamLC Ronnie
Ask a million questions....how?! You have to be really sold out to God, have a relationship with the Holy Spirit and through his help you can ask spirit-influenced questions that will give you answers that you seek or pointers (red flag).
Dating/Courtship period is a time for 'spiritual investigation', it's not a time for going only on dates, to the movies, new restaurants etc don't overlook these. Remember, marriage is a serious matter, so make sure you give it the seriousness it requires. God bless you!
What if you have been with this person 7 years, and leaving them would make you homeless? Idk what to do anymore and need somebody to help me.
Victoria, we're here for you if you'd like to talk about what you're going through. Just head to Life.Church Online at live.life.church. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one.
- LK
Yes!
I wish I watched this long time ago.
I give my life to Jesus
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-TeamLC Ronnie
Hi Life Church team.
I applied to be part of 4 life groups so far and I sent emails to all of them, but I did not received any answer from anybody.
I hope someone is seeing this comment.
Thanks
Hi Adrian! Some groups may be on vacation or away for personal reasons. You can put for other Life Groups, or wait for them to answer.
-Kat
Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry
I GIVE MY LIFE TO JESUS.
What about Christian and Catholic, I can’t seem to convert to Catholicism for my bf and it has hindered our relationship. I can’t see a future because our beliefs are so different
Hi KJM! We would love to get you connected with one of our pastors to talk with you about this! If you are interested, please let us know by filling out this form -- go2.lc/meetwithus
- Jas
I am slow to become angry
I question the first red flag. Being a committed Christian doesn't mean you have to talk about your faith every second or minute.
I want to be closer to you Jesus Amen
What if I'm dating an Asian? I'm living in Southeast Asia.
Question: what if a lot of the red flags are prominent n very much are issues in mine n my husbands marriage? We are currently separated, should I go ahead then with filling for divorce if these things are very much been problematic n true for us through at least the last 9 years! It’s caused so much more trauma n sickness to take place in my n my children’s bodies. I need clarification from the Lord that it’s okay to divorce bc I don’t have peace as of yet to start that process… sister in Christ, Jeannie
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We’re praying for your family my friend. God bless you.
Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good
I want to be closer to jesus.
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My father was not a Christian before he met my mom and now he is a much better Christian and role model.
Also for point #1 what if the person we like just grew up in a non Christian family or taught wrongly about Christians and needs led to God? I have met many people who don't like Christians because they think they are all religious and Bible thumpers thus avoids them. Then we also have Hosea who God had married an adulteress women.
Luke,
Praying for those who don't believe is a good start. Plus, you can ask God to show you ways to show them the love of Jesus.
🙏❤️
Laura
It feels like stories like this were more common decades ago. These days people choose to be who they want to be and it's very difficult to get them to be who you think they should be.