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  • Опубліковано 18 жов 2024
  • The Hippiearab Podcast --- S1 E24
    confidence baby- but not like you know it. Our society loves talking about the outside appearance of confidence, forgetting the inner work it takes to reach true self-confidence. I also discuss the idea of 'internal confidence' as well as 'external confidence' and how the two complete each other in every step of our lives.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 302

  • @auntshelly
    @auntshelly 9 місяців тому +359

    I adore you. I am a Muslim now! Your channel has really helped me.

    • @gladynemerone8358
      @gladynemerone8358 9 місяців тому +28

      IM SO PROUD OF YOU JazakAllah Kahiran. May your journey be filled with ease and peace.

    • @nourhatem6260
      @nourhatem6260 9 місяців тому +12

      Awwww that's so pretty may allah show you the right path always , jazakallahukharan welcome to Islam!!❤️❤️

    • @Noramemorycard
      @Noramemorycard 9 місяців тому +4

      hope for you the best in your journy may allah make it easy for all of us . the impact a person can have is really amazing dont you think !!.:3

    • @Ll_jfdk
      @Ll_jfdk 9 місяців тому +4

      Enjoy the journey, may Allah bless you on it and grant you goodness, may He give you the highest paradise. Ameen

    • @ShutterMurgh
      @ShutterMurgh 8 місяців тому

      May I know your call towards Islam
      I'm a Muslim myself but I am curious to know how the heart is moved towards guidance by Allah..

  • @MahamMaqbool
    @MahamMaqbool 9 місяців тому +349

    I see Farah's podcast notification...I click... I am a simple human😗

    • @riana902
      @riana902 9 місяців тому +4

      🗿🥂🗿

    • @R35574
      @R35574 9 місяців тому

      Mee touuuu

    • @Najoua11
      @Najoua11 28 днів тому

      I am just a girl that loves Farah she represent all the random us

  • @mademysterious
    @mademysterious 9 місяців тому +45

    "What is meant for you, will find you."
    Like this video found me when I needed it the most.

  • @izyans.j1285
    @izyans.j1285 9 місяців тому +22

    38:02 . "They have what they have for a reason. And I have what I have, for a reason" Thank you so much for this...!

  • @Yasmin-xt2rj
    @Yasmin-xt2rj 9 місяців тому +159

    Instead of working against yourself, work alongside yourself. Criticizing your performance, appearance, or style amounts to self-abuse. Constantly berating yourself, labeling yourself as unintelligent or worthless, creates an environment of internal abuse.
    Focus on collaborating with yourself. Address what you perceive as flaws without relentless criticism. By working on areas you’d like to improve, you pave the way to inner peace and self-acceptance.
    My take of the podcast. Thank you for the perspective change ❤😊

  • @nourhatem6260
    @nourhatem6260 9 місяців тому +182

    Let me tell you it's you after Allah that helped me rebound with my deen , you are the catalyst for me stoping music for the sake of Allah , you helped me wake up for fajr everyday , i can never stop thanking you, may Allah grant your pretty soul with whatever you wish for ❤❤❤❤
    Very much missed btw

    • @ZiziDar
      @ZiziDar 8 місяців тому

      It’is Allah that is helping you wake up for Fajr everyday.
      Perhaps Farah has inspired you, Alhamdulilah 🤲🏼

    • @nourhatem6260
      @nourhatem6260 8 місяців тому +3

      @@ZiziDar , I said it if you have noticed in the beginning thats it's her after Allah , sorry my idea reached you in a wrong way

  • @samridhitamang07
    @samridhitamang07 9 місяців тому +107

    Just simply love her

  • @simplyfira568
    @simplyfira568 9 місяців тому +96

    I am gonna write this for everyone.... Watching this episode only once...IS NOT ENOUGH

  • @neko_chaima5132
    @neko_chaima5132 9 місяців тому +55

    Farah is the friend we all want, she's the best 💕

  • @sayidahabirahmohdsalehan5991
    @sayidahabirahmohdsalehan5991 9 місяців тому +25

    This reminds me of a thought I had a few days ago about the kind of self talk we need to give ourselves as muslims. During times of low self esteem, we need to continuously remind ourselves of the pride we should hold as muslims and the responsibility of being chosen by Allah to do certain tasks. This goes to address that there’s a bigger world and bigger picture beyond what we know and that it needs our contribution and if we don’t do our part we’re only going to fall lower. Being chosen (meaning when we’re given opportunities to do something for his sake) to do something that’s bigger than you is an honour given by Allah indicating that He trust and knows we’re capable of accomplishing what he wants us to do with it. And we should deal with this responsibility with a sense of honour and pride so that we can hold the weight of responsibility. On the other hand, people who deal with arrogance within them, we need to continuously remind ourselves of our humble status in front of Allah. And that He’s greater than everything in this dunya AND akhirah. This can go as far as us saying to ourselves and reminding ourselves that we’re nothing but a speck of dust in the world and that we’re nothing if not for Allah. Some would say that it would somewhat sound degrading and belittling of ourselves but in actuality js a constant reminder of where we stand in front of our Lord. So Islam really provides us with both perspectives and suggestions that we need to implement in our lives. And from this, we should also understand exactly when and what we need to hear in times of vulnerability. Both arrogance and low-esteem is susceptible to the Wass-wass of the shayateen. Something that’s also a reoccurring theme within Islam is balance and boundaries. Everything has another side to the coin and we need to maintain the balance and create boundaries so that we’re not settling for the extreme sides of the coin. So I really love how I came to this realisation just as this topic for the podcast was released.
    This really affirms of my contemplation of this issue. Alhamdulillah and barakallah to you Farah 🫶

  • @nochonacho6883
    @nochonacho6883 9 місяців тому +65

    Hey Farah ever since I subscribed to your channel and I’m a muslim brother you really helped me to become close to Allah because I’m going through a-lot I’m depressed and anxiety i dont have the motivation to go out at all my parents and no difference they dont understand stand me what i am going through my life is rough sometimes

    • @_idk_1538
      @_idk_1538 9 місяців тому +6

      May Allah make it easy on you

    • @nochonacho6883
      @nochonacho6883 9 місяців тому +1

      @@_idk_1538 thank you

    • @PowerGurhl
      @PowerGurhl 9 місяців тому +4

      Seek help from Allah! Truly he always hears you while you also try all that you can yourself. May you feel better soon brother! ❤

    • @nochonacho6883
      @nochonacho6883 9 місяців тому +2

      @@PowerGurhl thank you so much

    • @annonymously1778
      @annonymously1778 9 місяців тому

      same broo🫂💗

  • @MashhuraSaksonova
    @MashhuraSaksonova 9 місяців тому +34

    It felt like a decade I was waiting for new video so much 😭

  • @mal8125
    @mal8125 9 місяців тому +14

    Farah for real we miss you one month no posting
    You’ve changed my life tremendously and I’m so grateful for you. I’ve never ever been that close to allah and find peace and positivity and creativity in my life that’s because God then you
    Please keep making these episodes

  • @aliyamaartk5681
    @aliyamaartk5681 9 місяців тому +29

    The more i listened to Farah's podcast the more comfortable i am being uncomfortable hearing her words. At first it's just almost pissed me off at some point in her talks but after grasping it for awhile i was like "wait... i think she's right" it happens in a multiple episodes and now i'm waiting for her new episodes to get even more uncomfortable lol. Hope that make sense 🧍🏻‍♀️

  • @danielballard3364
    @danielballard3364 9 місяців тому +20

    Once u have internal confidence (self esteem actually as you mentioned as well, often something that only comes with time, maturity and life experience and having life's questions figured out) there's no need for any confidence training stuff whatever.. you simply exhibit confidence in anything you do.. as simple as that..

  • @ora_nge09
    @ora_nge09 9 місяців тому +11

    شكرًا فرح! شكرًا شكرًا شكرًا من الأعماق. أحببت صدقك وصراحتك في هالحلقة، وكيف كنتي تخاطبيننا بكل أريحية وبلا حواجز. الله يسعدك ويوفقك ويكتب لك الخير دائمًا 3>

  • @Leila-u6d
    @Leila-u6d 9 місяців тому +5

    She is my favorite comfort podcast. I'm always relaxed and calm after listening to her.

    • @Sab.86
      @Sab.86 9 місяців тому +1

      Yes so true Alhamdulillah ❤

  • @mahirah9937
    @mahirah9937 7 місяців тому +2

    Wallah I love you for this. I started wearing the hijab and your videos really affirmed me in my decisions. May Allah reward you ❤

  • @tamaraeliscan6258
    @tamaraeliscan6258 9 місяців тому +47

    Аллах послал мне твоё видео,это то что нужно❤

  • @fariari1384
    @fariari1384 9 місяців тому +7

    Honestly, this is exactly what I needed. One of my goals this year is to be more confident...

  • @hana_hd246
    @hana_hd246 9 місяців тому +3

    I wish I could listen to Farah talk for hours 😭 it's so therapeutic to me

  • @namllvr
    @namllvr 3 місяці тому +2

    Your words really touch my heart. I cried when saied they have what they have for a reason, and I have what I have forr a reason|
    منجد كلامك ذكرني انو كل شي لو حكمة من ربنا ومافي اي شي عبث في الحياة وانو كل امر المؤمن خير وانو كل شي في حياتنا خيرة🥹
    Thank youu for this nice podcast🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @Geronimo_Stilton
    @Geronimo_Stilton 7 місяців тому +3

    girl !! you really help me ! thank you so much may allah grant you your ultimate goal

  • @PowerGurhl
    @PowerGurhl 9 місяців тому +12

    Yay Farah! New video for the new year ❤ 😅I love how she is the most relatable human and it has nothing to do with what she is wearing or looks like etc. it’s all just the knowledge she possess. Thank you Farah you truly are a light in the algorithm.May Allah (swt) bless you ❤

  • @gabrielaalvarez5263
    @gabrielaalvarez5263 9 місяців тому +3

    40:41
    Thank you for seeking this as your calling, these podcasts help me feel closer to the journey of becoming a better person, these get me very emotional and I truly enjoy these episodes.

  • @styxroasteris
    @styxroasteris 9 місяців тому +3

    I cannot like this video enough i wish we can like videos multiple times in a row. Thank you so much

  • @emanshwaihne8595
    @emanshwaihne8595 9 місяців тому +5

    I think that we are looking up for يقين I don't know what describes it in English but it suits this podcast اليقين that what's meant for us will find us and as Muslims اليقين بالله is the external confidence booster 💗

  • @MathPhysique-cl3vo
    @MathPhysique-cl3vo 9 місяців тому +1

    24:20 this question will change everything, it's like the resume of mindset

  • @FaridaAisah-yh7kk
    @FaridaAisah-yh7kk 9 місяців тому +14

    girllllllllll I've been waiting for you to upload the new podcastttt. Hope you're doing well

  • @kaidorade1317
    @kaidorade1317 9 місяців тому +3

    “Farah is going to have a podcast from this day to this day “ the key is that the choice to start the podcast was still in your hands. I’m glad you chose to follow this plan

  • @shelmithseth7645
    @shelmithseth7645 6 місяців тому +3

    I am a christian, and I love your videos, any one can learn from them, regardless muslim or not, doesn't matter:) thanks for sharing Farah

  • @madebym5359
    @madebym5359 9 місяців тому +11

    To me, internal confidence is to feel and experience, your essence, your true self, your spirit, your unshakable faith in your being and in your relationship with Allah. If that is hard to attain it can be a work in progress and it starts by developing yourself as a person and a human of a faith. To pray and meditate. To tell yourself of your worth and your kind attributes and ur incredible potentials, whilst also staying humble and gracious and having humility.
    Confidence externally is to me, mainly emanates from internally tbh because if u love and respect urself and are kind to urself, u show that to others no matter how “awful” some people can be.
    God has created everyone from the same source so whatever u dont dislike in others is what u dont dislike in yourself. You accept people as they are right now in their life even if it doesnt live up to “you”. If you love yourself enough you’d see the good soulfulness that is within others too. We are all a product and creation of God not just the goodness in us, but the bad qualities that are also placed, to teach and grow us all collectively into positive manifestations.

  • @MA_MAA
    @MA_MAA 2 дні тому

    You raise a new definition of confidence for me

  • @an0nym0uspersn
    @an0nym0uspersn 9 місяців тому +3

    This is the best video I've seen about confidence. Its the way you pictured it that was making the whole idea clearer. Tysm Farah for this video

  • @trishasofian2172
    @trishasofian2172 9 місяців тому +3

    You delivered this with perfection, dont doubt it

  • @Nnnooo1
    @Nnnooo1 9 місяців тому +6

    Salaamu Alaikum

  • @MubashwiraMithi
    @MubashwiraMithi 9 місяців тому +10

    Alhamdulilla.May Allah make your all duas come true

  • @shyshakirah
    @shyshakirah 9 місяців тому +11

    I'm so glad to see a video from youuu 🤭 It's been a while...I hope you're doing good!!

  • @iwashere583
    @iwashere583 9 місяців тому +1

    Your episodes are always needed Allahumma barik! Truly inspiring this generation frfr

  • @simplyfira568
    @simplyfira568 9 місяців тому +1

    i am sitting in my room mind blown....like literally. I dont have my brain right now, i dont....it has been blown away.... i am just sitting

  • @mrjlad6625
    @mrjlad6625 9 місяців тому

    I watch ur podcast, feel hope in life, I go to ur instagram and lose it, cycle goes on. When I listen to your podcast I connect to the point I feel you are that one good friend that makes my negatives positives and changes my lifestyle, but then I find that friend doing exactly the negative things I learned not to do just crushes me

  • @saynotoignorance7994
    @saynotoignorance7994 Місяць тому

    Baraka Allahu fik sister, precious words ❤️

  • @AhmadAbuaun
    @AhmadAbuaun 9 місяців тому

    this lady has made me cry too many times

  • @mariums6155
    @mariums6155 9 місяців тому +3

    18:07 I'm an architecture student 😅. Have been struggling with both confidence and sense of purpose and felt that Allah sent me your video. Thank you Farah❤️

  • @rzmrdn7025
    @rzmrdn7025 9 місяців тому +1

    Dear Farah, I get so excited every Friday just to wait for your new video. Unexpectedly, it’s finally here today which actually comes at the exact right time! Thanks!

  • @mariamahmad4304
    @mariamahmad4304 9 місяців тому +1

    I love hearing you talk, Farah, and I love you so much. Thank you for every word you say! ❤️

  • @freyavogel2650
    @freyavogel2650 9 місяців тому +2

    Hi Farah! I listen to your podcast a few month now an i really love it! I am a liberal christian from germany and i like to hear your thoughts from the islamic perspective a lot, because it helps me understand the essence of it and i almost always recognize that there is much more we all have in common than many people think. We should open our hearts and thoughts much more to listen and understand instead of judging each other. People are always offended nowadays and i think, that we should stop that and use our ability to see things with a distance to our ego and more humor. Wish you all the best!

    • @milanas1529
      @milanas1529 8 місяців тому +1

      Ich mag ihre Videos auch gerne:)

  • @angelesmartinez1615
    @angelesmartinez1615 9 місяців тому

    I think that having weak boundaries dampens the level of confidence we’re able to portray.

  • @maxito7463
    @maxito7463 9 місяців тому +3

    Oh ye congrats on 200k sister

  • @ousmaneba8931
    @ousmaneba8931 8 місяців тому +1

    Very inspirational and deep in meaning, as usual. Keep it up!

  • @selqwu777
    @selqwu777 6 місяців тому +1

    i love you so much, thanks for this video farah

  • @Loner_and_a_survivor
    @Loner_and_a_survivor 6 днів тому

    Right in the feel

  • @linautenova8967
    @linautenova8967 9 місяців тому

    I agree to what you’ve said, God bless you!

  • @maftunaabdullaeva3625
    @maftunaabdullaeva3625 7 місяців тому

    Watching your podcast feels like facetiming a long distance friend, who really gets me🤗

  • @__yussra
    @__yussra 9 місяців тому

    I’m actually older than you Farah and I learn alot from you. I hope you keep growing as a great person 💌

  • @Allie_Emmeline
    @Allie_Emmeline 16 днів тому

    Thank you for such a great video! They help a lot

  • @اللهمحلمأبى
    @اللهمحلمأبى 9 місяців тому +5

    انا لا افهم الانجليزيه لكننى احب الاستماع للبودكاست الخاص بك ❤

  • @LaBillVillage
    @LaBillVillage 9 місяців тому +1

    This topic is best learned traveling the world by self

  • @aifer561
    @aifer561 8 місяців тому

    You are destined to do it so just do it. It feels exhausted to nervous everytime. My mindset when i get presentation tasks

  • @tahiyaasra
    @tahiyaasra 9 місяців тому +6

    alhamdullillah.... i was just in a crisis about confidence in general and how am supposed to improve it.. but alhamdullillah i found your video and trust me it was eye opening...
    It is like i know about all these but was not aware of it... just had to organise those thoughts and idea.
    i thank you very much for this video.
    really needed it.

    • @Najoua11
      @Najoua11 28 днів тому

      I am so happy for you may Allah make your heart happy❤

  • @aryk2199
    @aryk2199 9 місяців тому +1

    homie girl is back with the best advice

  • @evronnie
    @evronnie 9 місяців тому +1

    Your podcast is the best thing on UA-cam and my motivation to learn English ❤

  • @Amira-Hassan647
    @Amira-Hassan647 9 місяців тому +1

    Truly missed you girl

  • @hello2059
    @hello2059 9 днів тому

    I really love your video thank you so much for helping us muslims get in the right path

  • @Nnnooo1
    @Nnnooo1 9 місяців тому +2

    PLEASE DIVE DEEPER LOVED THIS EP

  • @karimahsi
    @karimahsi 9 місяців тому

    thank you farah for this video! this episode really helped me to confront the topic that I'm currently struggling at, may Allah give you barakah for this my sister.

  • @simplyfira568
    @simplyfira568 9 місяців тому

    istg thankyou so much for talking about what u talked about which was not confidence but confidence...but through self esteem....like ahhh how come that never crossed my mind....THNAKYOU

  • @sinus90
    @sinus90 9 місяців тому

    another amazing video Farah, i've dealing with this topic seriously these days.. and you're video just came up on yt was like a message from god

  • @rzmv_a
    @rzmv_a 7 місяців тому

    I really wanna get/ watch a new podcast today as a sign😭❤️‍🩹

  • @natalien1485
    @natalien1485 9 місяців тому

    You changed my perspective about what confidence is. ❤

  • @rrahuii
    @rrahuii 9 місяців тому +5

    I MISSED YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!

  • @aifer561
    @aifer561 8 місяців тому

    Subhanallah. I thought it was different what i just faced. But this video gave me the part that I needed.

  • @sarahhimrane2198
    @sarahhimrane2198 9 місяців тому

    I love your ideas please please develop more the last idea it really hit me when you talked about accepting what happened and focusing on what is in your control and not Killin yourself when something go wrong that was amazing thank you so much ❤❤❤ and yes the ideas was received you were right

  • @zsuzsitakacs4595
    @zsuzsitakacs4595 9 місяців тому +2

    I was just listening to one of your pod casts love you ❤

  • @jia17729
    @jia17729 9 місяців тому

    Please do post more Farah, your podcasts really helps a lot❤

  • @dixieibr6710
    @dixieibr6710 9 місяців тому +5

    لا إله إلا الله ❤

  • @ManelMimi-ev2bn
    @ManelMimi-ev2bn 9 місяців тому

    This is really important and true, not many people realize these facts!! Such a good podcast alhamdulilah

  • @user-qu8pj3rq2z
    @user-qu8pj3rq2z 9 місяців тому +1

    Farah, you need to be a public speaker!

  • @rurus22
    @rurus22 9 місяців тому +4

    have been waiting for you😭😭

  • @hamzaio7670
    @hamzaio7670 9 місяців тому +3

    Slay and love from egypt ❤

  • @l.b.5023
    @l.b.5023 9 місяців тому +4

    Omg I was just thinking of you today. 😂❤

  • @omniaelsersawy9803
    @omniaelsersawy9803 9 місяців тому

    girl, we love you so much

  • @chibicretster
    @chibicretster 9 місяців тому

    I just was needing a video like this and you just send this. Jazakallahu khair

  • @lara_pagiola
    @lara_pagiola 9 місяців тому

    miss farah here giving coach vibes like always (in a coach way that is *actually* good) love ur videos, truly 💖

  • @chaimamazourga7425
    @chaimamazourga7425 9 місяців тому +1

    Idk why but farah gives me Micheal scott’s vibes😂Girl i looove how you talk and explain things ❤️❤️😂

    • @mominanaimat
      @mominanaimat 9 місяців тому

      Sameeee but she's like a better Michael

  • @zubiya68
    @zubiya68 9 місяців тому

    5 mins into the podcast i am like i wanna have thattt confidence thing she is talking aboutt lovee yaa

  • @fishbarbeque8540
    @fishbarbeque8540 9 місяців тому +1

    I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!
    (Im not sus, I just love how you're more relatable that my own family.)

  • @cookiemonsterrr5116
    @cookiemonsterrr5116 9 місяців тому

    Wow...this is the best talk ive heard on this topic...thanks Farah❤

  • @khatijakhan7857
    @khatijakhan7857 9 місяців тому

    Farah, Habibi, it is with great love and adoration that I write to you. I eagerly keep waiting for your videos, I have watched every single one of them multiple times and I'll say it, it's like a therapy. You're my bestie and you don't even know it. Perfect wisdom + your sense of humour is Chef's Kiss. Jazakillah for your work Habibi. Please make a video on how to deal with heartbreaks. ❤

  • @Akhiadnan
    @Akhiadnan 9 місяців тому +3

    Was waiting for u❤

  • @thembelihlet.tmahlalela6490
    @thembelihlet.tmahlalela6490 9 місяців тому

    I am so glad to have come across this video and your channel. You are doing what you are meant to be doing! Thanks for the wisdom you share :)

  • @angelesmartinez1615
    @angelesmartinez1615 9 місяців тому +1

    Grateful to Allah for social media so I can be part of this conversation. I love big thoughts. ☺️

  • @ayamifaroud1021
    @ayamifaroud1021 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Farah, may Allah increases you in guidence,knowledge, health and wealth (all of us too Amiiin)❤

  • @farr_jms7707
    @farr_jms7707 9 місяців тому

    Truly, Allah plans. Just today, I really felt like I hated myself for doing something; for slacking. But Alhamdulillah Allah made you upload at the right time. The part about self love and something about what I think about myself affects the trajectory of my life really made me get off from the slump.

  • @sallypastriesug4649
    @sallypastriesug4649 9 місяців тому

    Yeii Finally! We're happy to have you back!

  • @sophie-db1wj
    @sophie-db1wj 9 місяців тому +1

    love you farah ❤

  • @mohamedchliyah8335
    @mohamedchliyah8335 9 місяців тому +2

    Your metaphors are hilarious 😂

  • @ariii3795
    @ariii3795 9 місяців тому

    I’ve missed you so much, welcome back, hope your doing fine Farah 💞

  • @socresme366
    @socresme366 9 місяців тому +2

    Having Lack of self-esteem will really stopped you from achievement I'm learn English but because i always feel like I'm mispronunciation i rather to not talk with anyone even i could get in the conversation I'll be just sitting behind even if really want to talk because of that now i cant express my feeling even in my native language i cant make friends or even do the normal activities thats everyone can do it no matter how old you are or where you came from

  • @MelinaKhaldoun
    @MelinaKhaldoun 9 місяців тому +1

    fave podcast wallah