@@KozirDuck I never talked about winning, I was just noticing an example of a dilemma called the "double bind" situation. In this case, whether you rush to grow up or not, some people criticize you either way sadly :(
Yeah... People are always picking on people for being young calling them "kid" as an insult or saying things like "your probably 12" to make people feel bad about they're age, and being young and innocent. When in reality they're the ones who wasted they're child and teenage hood by trying to grow up fast and expect others to do the same.
The advice is great, but it’s a lot harder to actually love yourself, to actually embrace your flaws, to stop procrastinating, etc than just saying it.
That’s….hard. What if you don’t even want youself? What if you already gave up? Then what? Who are you acting for then? Yourself? But…you don’t actually care about youself leah…
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Listening to our parents can be bad. My father kept putting me down, telling me that I was a good-for-nothing, capricious, selfish person. He yelled at me for everything and nothing. And with the time, I have believed it. So I started to hate myself and hurt me.
@@xMilkpudding It's been a couple years, I don't see him for a while. I started to heal with the time and work. It's difficult but I will succeed one day.
I’m 12 yet I don't do all those except for hating myself, I'm afraid of making mistakes, and comparing myself to others😢. But I'm trying to solve those problems
I am 32. And I strongly disagree with the one about grades before friends. I am Autistic, made straight A's in high school. No college, my parents are poor, plus my dad dropped out of 8th grade and became a very happy, satisfied material handler, while my mom graduated community college on a Pell Grant just to end up working for Goodwill Thrift. I am currently socially isolated, unable to drive, unemployable, and I spent school on grades instead of friends. The only constants in my life are my mom and dad, until they die, then I will be screwed. (I'm an only child.) Please, PLEEASSSSEEEE!! Take time to make friends, go play. Mild mischief is much better than social isolation that ruins you well into your 30s!! (And this is ESPECIALLY true if you have a disability, or live isolated from other kids. And if you risk homelessness, or have a poor home situation; you can stay with a friend, they save your life. Straight A's will not give you a place to sleep if your house suddenly burns down or you get mugged and robbed.)
Man I feel bad for you, hell I might turn out like you but have a sister I have autism and I am 13 rn I wouldn't say my parents are insanely poor due to something I wish not to speak of but middle class we live in a apartment which we will be moving from to another one that's less strict, but anyways back to what I was saying the apartment is I think 360$ a month my payment thing splits that with my father's which I'm afraid that it's going be cut off once I reach your age (32) and I'll be homeless since I don't really have any social skills at all can't even talk to myself and I'm homeschooled so no friends and probably no college, and my sister certainly 16 or 17 I forgot is probably going stay with my mom and dad like me until she gets a boyfriend which I for one will never ever get a girlfriend too shy and dumb to do that.
@@COOLSKELETON95x Best advice I can give you, look for agencies that help Autistic adults. Number one priority should probably be independent housing; from there, you get control over your schedule, and if you want to invite someone over you just can and nobody can pitch any fits or anything. For me, I live with a loud dad and a hoarding mom; moving out would do me wonders, I would finally have alone time, and I could read and study, and keep my living space clean without the fear or dread that my mom will find a way to fill that space with more of her clutter, and then act an angry fooI about the time I try reclaiming that area by moving her stuff where it belongs (especially if there are *no* safe areas left in the house), or just trying to discard it when she refuses to move it herself.
I’m sorry I know all these are genuinely helpful but the ones that say shit like “don’t hate yourself” and “don’t listen to what people say abt you”, just give the same vibe as “Oh you’re sad? Be happy!” Because it’s not THAT easy to get over stuff like self-hatred and harassment.
My parents used to tell me to take any insults thrown my way as a compliment. Not in the “oh they only insult you because they feel lesser way” but as in “the b word isn’t so bad, dogs are beautiful creatures, man’s best friend, you know?” Usually people would get weirded out or just straight up leave you alone after a while.
2:00 grades don't REALLY matter until highschool!! you don't need to have all A's. you just need to understand the material. Put yourself and your needs before your grades.
@@antigonarosaura7845 They meant that it won't REALLY REALLY REALLY matter until you're in Highschool. Several of my classmates who did nothing in Middle school went on to graduate with me.
I don't agree with trusting people before your friends, when you are a teenager, often the only people you have are your friends. And while grades and your parents are important, it's not okay to push away people that are trying / want to support you because of school or parents - my grades are only good because of my friends, and I wouldn't be friends with them if I listened to my parents. Some people have bad parents, so I guess this advice doesn't apply to everyone.
Exactly. Sometimes parents can’t be trusted. My mother saw me cutting myself (I suffer from dysthymia, but I don’t do it anymore) and she threatened to send me to a psychiatric hospital, but when I talked to my best friend about it he told me that I don’t need a psychiatric hospital, that I needed proper love and understanding
I’m neutral on that bit, for parents, it really depends, some parents are amazing, while others are god awful, while for the grades, those are definitely important cause studying helps lead to a successful future or just help you know more, but I do agree that friends are also great things to have in your life, they make you happy and help you go through hard times, they are also important as well
listen to your parents, but what if they say hurtful things, endlessly compares you to others, and expects their child or teen to be perfect at certain things?
ye ik sometimes it can hurt but when ur parents twll u that dont listen to them listen to only like the encouraging things theh say to u ect or likegood and mot rude things💗
you have to talk to them calmly and *without arguing frantically* and just talk the problem through, tell them that they shouldn't keep comparing you since it hurts you, and that everybody has their own flaws.
With the adult content thing, while it may sometimes be harmful, if someone understands the risks and implications of such content and can consume it in a healthy manner, it's a much safer way to explore one's sexuality rather than getting into unhealthy relationships prematurely
@@ssir_sav I’m saying I don’t wanna be “big kid” because for me I cosdiner that cringe and instead I wanna be considered a teen I get I might be growing up to fast but I do wonyoungism and it makes me mature
@@KrewANG3Lcurrently for me it’s summer vacation, but last school year I had some bullies and me and my mom told the school multiple times about these bullies, they did nothing, so maybe they did tell someone and they did nothing.
Tbh I will hold my grudges a person skinny shamed me, was racist, bullied me phiscally and mentally till I almost wanted to die so yes I will hold a strong grudge.
Screw that advice. Sometimes grudges are warranted. I hold a grudge against my old primary school bully who came to my house and threatened my little sister and my neighbour (same age as my sister). Why? Because not holding a grudge against them would be DANGEROUS
YES! Don’t gossip, many people I know including friends gossip and it leads you to not trusting them fully because they might be talking behind your back.
Thanks you very much sister ❤ ! Your videos are really helpful to me. I'm a teen girl who is transferring to new school/collage for studies. Its 6 almost days left. I was really confused and less confident. Thank you for these tips, they are really helpful.
Hi! I’m 14 years old (just graduated from 9th grade, in my country we are promoted to high school), and I can tell you that some of this will be unavoidable. Obviously you can avoid it but some of them are common teenager mistakes. The most important thing is learning from these experiences that make you grow as a person. Don’t rush to seem mature if you are not ready, you’re not too mature for your age. Remember that nobody is perfect and if you make a mistake it ain’t gonna be the end of the world. I personally had a terrible experience at age 12-14 at school, thinking I was the problem. Then I realized that it was them, not me. No one has the right to treat you badly just because they want to or think you’re “weird”. The same way, try to show the best of you and find your safe place. At the end of the day, you learn from your mistakes, and if you don’t make mistakes you will learn nothing and you will not be prepared for the real world. I mean, you can try to avoid some of them but you don’t need to be so harsh, difficult times will always exist and are mostly unavoidable in your teenage years.
wise words from a teen, you'll see that this is much more meaningful than most things adults say as adults just repeat the same things over and over again without telling us why or giving an example, though you just told us in a few sentences what adults have been trying to teach most kids in years.
0:12 Great advice unless you’ve grown up with people who get gradually more toxic and you can’t find a way to stop being their friend even though they’re rude to you ❤️
the advice from the video is very simplistic, it's hard to actually apply it to reality since real life scenarios can be very complex and complicated which makes them much harder to navigate than a random hypothesis.
@@DoritotheAxolotl I mean yeah I get that and that's fine but the scenario you listed is a legitimate thing that happens to people and even happened to me to an extent which is why advice that's very ''naive'' for lack of a better word yet so confident in it's message makes me roll my eyes hard to this day, I remember being that 13 year old stuck in an uncomfortable situation with people who clearly didn't care about me anymore and sometimes even went out of their way to make me feel bad yet not being able to distance myself because they were quite literally the only friends I had and I can say from experience that being told to ''just leave lol'' doesn't actually help you out in any meaningful way, and if it's recited blankly like a protocol by everyone who tries to talk to you about your issues it just gets annoying (I hope this doesn't come across as me trying to trauma dump in a random comment section, I just wanted to give an anecdotal example for why I don't think this video is particularly helpful if you struggle with any of the things it mentions, but judging by the amount of likes my opinion's clearly not the only one out there and that's fine, if it genuinely helps someone that's great and I'm happy for them too)
@@rozinq1351 Yeah I’ve had similar stuff happen, it sucks. I feel like some people don’t realize how to just back off of someone when all they’re doing is being snarky and mean to them while still calling them a friend
1:24 I’d like to add something, it’s okay to have unhealthy foods sometimes too! Vegetables and fruits are good to have once a day but I recommend having unhealthy foods every week or fortnite, this is healthy for your body to have a normal routine in eating. Unhealthy food isn’t totally off limits but it’s good to keep the amount of fast food at a reasonable level.
@@UndecidedASMR No, never hold grudges and forgive anyone who's hurt you. It's hurts you mentally and spiritually, and the Bible says to always forgive those who have hurt you, no matter what. And pray for your enemies.
1:39 My parents: ur lazy and worthless. My friends: aw, don’t listen to what ur parents say! Ur beautiful! Me: crap, I guess I’m lazy and worthless, and I’m not beautiful.
They meant more on advice like parents warn you to not do an all nighter on games but your friends tell you to, like not studying but you friends tell you to skip and play with them
It's about life choices and experience, you friends surely are very nice but they're the same age as you, so their experience in important life things is about the same as you therefore It's sometimes not an useful other point of view
@@Ilovegenshin77 my friends don’t tell me to skip and play with them. They are supportive and are trying to get an education themselves. They would never encourage me to do anything I wouldn’t want to, or anything bad for that matter, and they are against that stuff. My parents don’t give a single crap what I do, it’s not enough either way.
@@DuckyxLifeXD I agreee with you, my parents are verbally abusive + homophobic and my friends are all I have... plus people your age will have a better idea of what you're going through, unlike adults, who have a "different experience" rather than "more experience".
@@Aurorya when people are the same age as you and play a similar role in society as you at the same time as you, your friends are certainly going to know more about what you're going through whereas your parents may not have experienced it before and won't know how to handle it.
"skipping school can lead to gaps in learning and poor grades" well it's worth it since i won't have to see THOSE classmates that roast me and cook me and mentally drain me when i literally did nothing to them. they can wait until the end of time.
@@Dawn-FeraonNgl this video is really vauge, like tell me how to not procastinate, cuz if I knew the answer i wouldnt be procastinating and watching this video🙏
1. Toxic and fske friends 2. Involved in unnesscesary conflict 3. Too much screen time 4. Comparison to others 5. Don't rush to grow up, embrance childhood 6. Don't bully fo look cool 7. dont make anyone make u feel bad abt urself 8. no peer pressure 9. dont say gossip 10. dont be afraif to make mistakes 11. dont skip school you wont have ecperience 12. don't be elitist 13. eat healthy 14. atleast 7 to 8 hrs if sleep 15. no grudges but boundaries 16. listen ti ur parents aswell 17. dont seek valudation 18. take school seriously 19. dont be afraid to fail 20. no drugs 21. be happy 22, no provradination 23. dont damage reputation
If it’s the pretty girls then they’re just wearing a whole bunch of makeup to themselves pretty, thats 100% how they were not born to look like. If you can be pretty without makeup then that is even better. And when I say pretty I mean your personality, not your looks. I’m sure that you are beautiful‼️💕
as an older teen, I don’t necessarily agree with is the ‘listen to your parents more not friends’. while your parents will, in theory, have your best interest in mind, in practice, sometimes they will hurt you. A prime example is religious parents of LGBTQ children - they try to ‘save’ their children from hellfire while condemning them to feeling depressed and unaccepted for being who they are.
Then it's better to listen to your conscience than a random video on the internet, of course putting effort into studying and trying your best is good but it's not the most important thing in the world. Having a social life and people who understand you around is equally as important as studying and purposefully isolating yourself from that because of amibitions can be very unhealthy
I'm not a teenager anymore but honestly the eye strain thing is so real! I had classes during the pandemic and my eyes would twitch/itch all the time. Finding a hobby that makes you happy and is not related to electronic devices is hard. Wishing the best for all teenagers out there!!
A really great tip: If your parents have abused you a lot in the past, whenever it’s verbal, emotional, physical, sexual or at least one or more, do NOT listen to them. I am a victim of emotional child abuse, and listening to parents is the worst thing you can do if you have a long history of being abused by your own parents.
“Avoid getting in unnecessary drama” in 4th grade we were doing a digital breakout or riddles and the first group to solve all of them got candy, I was in a group with 4 other friends. We got one riddle down and another group got one down so we traded answers and another group had a problem with it (the other group had two of my friends in it, the one that had the problem) and they were forcing us to tell an answer even though they didn’t have any. At recess we were lining up and one of our group members ditched us to go to the group with the problem. We planned to apologize for lashing out at them (that was my fault hehe 🙃) but then they didn’t accept our apology (so I lashed out at them again :p) in the end we actually apologized (atleast 1 of them moved away) all because of a riddle :) anyway im still friends with them both. And this one happened a few days ago. Me and my friend were talking in the group chat because we were bored and one of the people from the other story (the one that had a problem) lashed out at us for “spamming” the group chat so I was lashed out at him to turn off his notifications and the my other friend from the group that had the problem sided with me luckily. He apologized and I accepted but now we’re not as good friends. This took me so long to type help-
@@sabbilzzhaving a social life is more important than studying, you don't need good grades to pass and a lot of the time you will forget that stuff anyways, while connections and friendship is important for your mental health and also career
@@ultimateidiot2344 while you may be right, grades are still very, very important to students. gpa is what a lot of colleges look at when accepting students.
Thank you so much ! i am an 11 year old who tends to not stand up for herself , procrasanates and changes herself for others . i really needed this . tysm ! i will take note for all of this .
As an adult this list is pretty good ! Especially don't begin smoking, dinking, such things, and especially not because of peer pressure ! Because then you're gonna have much more difficulties getting out of it that the very person who told you "do it like me, it's fun !" and that's just sad Source : I worked in a drugstore and seeing the "class followers" still addicted years after while knowing the "class leaders" were clean for a while is incredibly sad. It is because of brain chemistry ofc, but also mindpower. Class leaders have more mindpower but it doesn't mean other people don't have any. Please use yours when people try to make you do something bad for you. Always prioritize your health rather than what other people think of you because if relationships, especially school ones, end on an argument about theses subjects, they weren't worth it anyway. Yoy can change friends, you cannot change bodies : you're stuck with yours till the end, so please take care of it 😢
"Being mean to others can harm them and damage your reputation" Which is true but if the person who is mean to others apparently the most popular or has a large group of friends supporting them it's a different situation ngl (also where justice is starting to fall off which pisses me a lot)
Literally loving yourself is what causes most people’s downfalls. Always strive to be better, not okay with yourself. If you love yourself too much then you think whatever you do is right, so think how you can improve, not just stay still
as an older teen i wanna say these are all great tips but you dont have to live a "perfect" and "clean" life like this. a part of being a teenager is being rebellious, and trying out new things. you dont have to ALWAYS listen to your parents, or eat healthy food, or never smoke/drink. when i was younger i was always the one kid in the group that was like "guys idk if we should do this" and i was always so scared of everything ... but this year ive been way less scared, i started smoking weed, staying up late, and trying things i was always too scared to try. im not tryna encourage anyone to like do drugs or anything like that but i do wanna say that drugs like weed, shrooms, acid, and other psychedelics arent physically addictive and if your gonna experiment with drugs do that. the bad drugs are the things like meth and heroin. those are SUPER addictive and withdrawal from those can kill you. psychedelics cannot kill you. sorry idk what im ranting about im just tryna say dont be scared to rebel a lil edit: i wrote this comment when i was high so im gonna clarify 😭what im tryna say is not all "drugs" are bad but everyone thinks that cuz they're so taboo. weed isnt a bad yall im not telling u to go smoke it im just tryna say its not harmful and if u wanna go and do it, do it, if you dont, then dont, but dont go around saying "drugs are bad and unhealthy for u!" when someone mentions weed
I still don’t think you should even be putting the idea in younger teenager’s heads to try those things.. yes there are worse things to be addicted to and these would be better options, but they’re still addictive and harmful. You can try new things and be rebellious as a teenager without literally doing drugs.
People tell me to embrace my childhood but when I do, I’m told I’m cringe, annoying, and lame. So when I wanna be a teenager, I’m told I can’t look to the cute and I need to enjoy my childhood, but how could I enjoy something that has been ruined?
Don’t listen to what ppl say about you, just enjoy yourself and be happy and enjoy your youth and your life going forward,life is too short to focus on those ppls words, you’ll be happy knowing how you spent your youthful years , I’m only 16 but I hope this helps 😄god bless you 🙏
Thank you for making this! I know a lot of teens need to see this and we should be always café ful especially in this new generation that criticize for almost anything 😢 as a 13 y/o (I’m about to be) I’m glad I watched this❤❤❤
Half of them I avoided , some no. I am a 12 year old who watches 16+ movies, and knows already to many things. I gossiped my entire life almost and nothing bad happened. Still have the same friends that are not toxic and understand and respect me, some even support(I am a therian and part of the LGBTQ+ community). My grades are very good, finished on second place this year, and I skiped studying sometimes. I listened to my friend more then my parent one time, and nothing bad happened. I put my friends and familly before my grades, bcs I know how to deal with grades. And I do hate myself some times and compare myself to others, and that made me change, start working out and become the person I want to be. I would say to let anyone do things how they like, and where they end up is they'r choise.
This was great advice! I also reflected on this as a teen :3. I want to add that do not be ashamed of your friend group. I loved the nerdy anime kids, but I hung out with a different crowd I felt disconnected from and never felt like I was part of their tribe. While with the nerdy anime kids, it felt like I belonged... don't turn your back on your true friends, it will only hurt you in the end.
I dislike the phrase "Kids these days" so much. I feel like it describes kids and teens as a whole when in reality, a lot of kids aren't like that at all. I know for a fact I don't want to grow up quickly. "They" only describes a small minority of teens.
@@Pie_slays bro this is the era of social media and most kids are spoilt due to this. I'm 19 and I love how I was born at such a perfect time. I had a wonderful childhood without any social media but at the same time got all these things just when it was necessary and at the right age. Most kids don't have this kind of childhood now. They are all surrounded by stupidity. Very few kids keep themselves away from this social media virus and all.
As a Young Teen, I really, REALLY do not wan't to grow up! I hate it, I like my childhood! But other kids do not get it, being an adult is not fun, it is tiring...
Here’s another thing: Don’t love yourself so much that you become narcissistic but don’t love yourself so less that you can’t even look yourself in the mirror. Find a fine line between and you’ll be good :)
Im trying to just be myself my “friends” turned me into someone i wasn’t i was not actually happy around them and now i’ve blocked them and starting dealing with my unhealthy habits i feel so much better 😌
"Don't disrespect and bully others to look cool", yeah, say that to all the people at my school that make fun of me and my friends for being therians/quadrobicists (and of course, they call us " FurRiEs", damn people need to learn my favorite word, ✨"Differences"✨)
As a 17 year old I agree with all these things but, when I act childish to enjoy the moments before I’m an adult it’s just everyone will be saying “you are not a child stop acting like one” So I just recommend don’t act grown or act like a child
What i like about my friends is that they have good grades! And when i see their grades i feel like i should study harder and get good grades like them. So basically my friends are a big help in improving my grades without them even knowing. I love them so much ❤
I purposefully procrastinate at times because thats the time when my brain fully locks in and i will do my homework way faster and come up with better ideas or solutions. As for chores i do them immediately, i find peace in washing dishes and organizing rooms.
OMG, I'm turning 18 in a few hours and this video was exciting for me; it was able to help me see every lesson I could have applied earlier and how much more I would have accomplished. Thank you for your video, by now I know that's what every teenager should be aware of.
@@silliest.humann bruh your innocence was broken quick lol... Also I thought it was like adult movies, but if were talking about something like cuss words I learned when I was in 1st grade. 😭
As a person who’s really self conscious and has some bad habits like staying up late (commenting this at 12:15am :/) and even sometimes SH, I really needed this. I also have major trust issues, and I’ve always just tried my best to just not answer my friends calls sometimes, but I should still keep them close and not too distant
Yeah. Last year I had to get up at 4am for school. I didn’t get home until 8:30pm, too. I basically had no time to myself on days I had class and they wondered why my grades weren’t so good (funny thing, homework isn’t so good if you don’t have time to do it). We couldn’t even do most of the work in class. I don’t get why it wasn’t online (mandatory in-person stuff for 8 hours).
THE RUSHING TO GROW UP ONE! its so true! Im almost 40 😭 and the other day one of my best friends called me and my husband (who ive known since highschool) HYSTERICALLY crying about how much he misses being young, omg where did time go?! 😢 Enjoy your youth 💯✌️ and don't be a bully. Always be yourself
Hey. You’re almost 40, yes but that doesn’t mean your life is over. Don’t you forget to have fun, too. Life is too short to take so seriously all the time. Your age doesn’t make you less of a person.
Grades before friends? Idk. Maybe make sure to get your studying done, yeah. But not before friends. I've had no friends and bad grades, and i can tell you, I'd much prefer the bad grades. Friends are important
1:56 I get good grades but i don’t think it necessarily means I prioritise my results over my friends. I enjoy being around my two friends, and I hope i don’t seem like I prefer my academic achievements over them, lol. Besides, they both get similar grades as me. 😅
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When you don't rush to grow up, people say your childish and annoying, but when you do, people make fun of you and say you have a stolen childhood.
Ok? If there is no winning, then find something your happy with anyway
@@KozirDuck I never talked about winning, I was just noticing an example of a dilemma called the "double bind" situation. In this case, whether you rush to grow up or not, some people criticize you either way sadly :(
Yeah... People are always picking on people for being young calling them "kid" as an insult or saying things like "your probably 12" to make people feel bad about they're age, and being young and innocent. When in reality they're the ones who wasted they're child and teenage hood by trying to grow up fast and expect others to do the same.
Who cares what other people say just ignore them and do what makes you happy
Exactly!!
1:13 don't change yourself so others will like you. But you can change yourself so YOU like YOURSELF. (Coming from a self-loving person)
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I thought that when you turn 13 you are a teenager because 13 is the first number to end with "teen"
Exactly, that's what I thought.
yeah but ig this is also helpfull for preteens also yes 13 is the first yr of teenagers im pretty sure
You become a teenager when ur 13. But looking at the kind of kids these days.. they strongly need this advice. They want to look like an adult 😂
Yeah, you start being a teenager when your 13
10-12 is tween or preteen
You are completely correct. You stop being a teenager when ur 18 and start when ur 13. 10-12 year olds are tweens.
“Don’t watch adult content”
The hazbin hotel 9 year olds: 🫣
Real
no bc my 8 year old cousin already watches helluva boss wtf 😰
Almost all of my friends watch Hazbin Hotel including me..
*we’re 11-13*
@@ChocoBerry_12 i mean- at least u aren’t 9-
@@blwadez AH WHAT
The advice is great, but it’s a lot harder to actually love yourself, to actually embrace your flaws, to stop procrastinating, etc than just saying it.
Better advice would be to only change for yourself, nobody else.
That’s….hard. What if you don’t even want youself? What if you already gave up? Then what? Who are you acting for then? Yourself? But…you don’t actually care about youself leah…
Wait sorry
Lol 😅
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I love your forehead
I love your eyebrows or lack of
I love your eyelashes or lack of
I love your eyes
I love your ears
I love your nose
I love your cheeks
l love your mouth
I love your laugh
I love your teeth or lack of
I love your chin
I love your neck
I love your shoulders
I love your chest
I love your arms
I love your hands
Ilove your tummy
I love your hips
I love your thighs
Ilove your knees
I love your shins
I love your feet (not in that way.)
I love your moles/marks
I love your scars
I love your voice
I love what you do
I love your personality
I love you on your good days I love you on your bad days
I love you when you when you wear makeup
I love you when you don't wear makeup.
I love your skin
I love you when you're sad I love you when you're mad
I love you when you're happy
I love you when you hate me I love you when you love me I love you when you forget me
I'm proud of you for getting some sleep
I'm proud of you for trying to sleep
I'm proud of you for waking up
I'm proud of you for getting up
I'm proud of you for brushing your teeth
I'm proud of you for tending toward your braces
I'm proud of you for doing your hair
I'm proud of you for washing your face
I'm proud of you for doing skin care
I love you for doing your makeup (if youwear it)
I'm proud of you that you got out of your room
I'm proud of you for getting dressed
I'm proud of you TRYING to eat breakfast.
I'm proud of you for being clean
I'm proud of you for trying to be clean
I'm proud of you for being alive
I'm proud of you for being a good friend
I won't judge you for your looks
I won't judge you from your race
I won't judge you for your life I won't judge you for your family
I won't judge you for your past/childhood
I won't judge you for your body
I won't judge you for your body
I won't judge you for your tears
I wont judge you for your age
I won't judge you for your sexual orientation
I wont judge you for your gender
I wont judge you for your money
I won't judge you for where you come from
I won't judge you for your language
You aren't ugly
You aren't too fat
You aren't too skinny
You aren't annoying
You aren't mean
You aren't evil
You aren't crazy
You aren't weird
You aren't worthless
You aren't scary
You aren't selfish
You aren't too feminine
You aren't too masculine
You aren't too young
You aren't too old
You aren't disgusting You aren't a doormat
You aren't a toy
You aren't a monster
You are beautiful
You are pretty
You are handsome
You are kind
You are cool
You are everything you want to be
You aren't perfect, nobody is, but you are perfect in my eyes
I wont judge you for anything
Im so proud of you
I love you. Now it's your turn to share this message.
You made me wanna cut everything you said off myself (a joke)
Btw you're kind!
This made my day better. This needs to be heard more ❤️
ONLY 15 (16) LIKES???
Thank you
HOW DID YOU DO THIS?😭💖
Listening to our parents can be bad. My father kept putting me down, telling me that I was a good-for-nothing, capricious, selfish person. He yelled at me for everything and nothing. And with the time, I have believed it. So I started to hate myself and hurt me.
I'm really sorry that happened to you, in that case pls don't listen to these negative things he says 😭😭
@@xMilkpudding It's been a couple years, I don't see him for a while. I started to heal with the time and work. It's difficult but I will succeed one day.
@@Shina0721 Thats great! I hope you get better soon :)
Yeah. You have the right to not listen to your parents if they are saying bad things about you. Don't let it get in your head.
Im so sorry 🫂
2:22 Funny thing is, you can't just tell someone to stop procrastinating, because it's extremely hard to.
They will, in fact, procrastinate
me with adhd: "bro i'm screwed " 💀
EXACTLY WAHHHH
@@squiddicakes YOOOOOO SPLATOON PFP?!?!?!?💯💯‼️‼️‼️🚨🚨🚨
@@31r14n_dotzip YES BRO ‼️‼️🔥🔥
I read “how to avoid being a teenager”😭
Wish that was a thing lmao
@@Daybreaker1211same like I am not ready to have responsibilities tf 😭
LOL
Half of them literally are just that
LMFAOOAOAOA
If only life were this simple 😭
For real though
real
Real i hate being teenager😢 i wanna be a kid back
@@Silly-LittlePenguin LAYT BULB?!?!?!?! 😨 (why do I keep on doing this I swear there’s like a million ppl who like object shows)
@@MileMichi you're probably like 11 years old judging from the way you type. don't worry, you're still a kid.
i already did all of this… oppositely
(Just leave the smoking, Vaping and drinking)
I also did everything🙂💔
Me too besides that i’m already a teen…
But don’t worry, you still have your teen years to be a better person :.)
@@blackcatwhitecat4350 thank you..
I’m 12 yet I don't do all those except for hating myself, I'm afraid of making mistakes, and comparing myself to others😢. But I'm trying to solve those problems
@@Eu_Ni_Ce_1009 Not Same.. I literally do everyth8ng, I’ve changed like 80%
I am 32. And I strongly disagree with the one about grades before friends.
I am Autistic, made straight A's in high school. No college, my parents are poor, plus my dad dropped out of 8th grade and became a very happy, satisfied material handler, while my mom graduated community college on a Pell Grant just to end up working for Goodwill Thrift.
I am currently socially isolated, unable to drive, unemployable, and I spent school on grades instead of friends. The only constants in my life are my mom and dad, until they die, then I will be screwed. (I'm an only child.)
Please, PLEEASSSSEEEE!! Take time to make friends, go play. Mild mischief is much better than social isolation that ruins you well into your 30s!!
(And this is ESPECIALLY true if you have a disability, or live isolated from other kids. And if you risk homelessness, or have a poor home situation; you can stay with a friend, they save your life. Straight A's will not give you a place to sleep if your house suddenly burns down or you get mugged and robbed.)
Man I feel bad for you, hell I might turn out like you but have a sister I have autism and I am 13 rn I wouldn't say my parents are insanely poor due to something I wish not to speak of but middle class we live in a apartment which we will be moving from to another one that's less strict, but anyways back to what I was saying the apartment is I think 360$ a month my payment thing splits that with my father's which I'm afraid that it's going be cut off once I reach your age (32) and I'll be homeless since I don't really have any social skills at all can't even talk to myself and I'm homeschooled so no friends and probably no college, and my sister certainly 16 or 17 I forgot is probably going stay with my mom and dad like me until she gets a boyfriend which I for one will never ever get a girlfriend too shy and dumb to do that.
@@COOLSKELETON95x Best advice I can give you, look for agencies that help Autistic adults. Number one priority should probably be independent housing; from there, you get control over your schedule, and if you want to invite someone over you just can and nobody can pitch any fits or anything.
For me, I live with a loud dad and a hoarding mom; moving out would do me wonders, I would finally have alone time, and I could read and study, and keep my living space clean without the fear or dread that my mom will find a way to fill that space with more of her clutter, and then act an angry fooI about the time I try reclaiming that area by moving her stuff where it belongs (especially if there are *no* safe areas left in the house), or just trying to discard it when she refuses to move it herself.
@@COOLSKELETON95x Dang... that's awful. I really, really hope things will get better for you.
@@A13XLaircey I'm trying to force my mother and father to let me go to public school and its working
I’m sorry, I’ll follow this advice
"Don't rush to grow up" Oh how I wish I could have told 6 year old me
I’m sorry I know all these are genuinely helpful but the ones that say shit like “don’t hate yourself” and “don’t listen to what people say abt you”, just give the same vibe as “Oh you’re sad? Be happy!” Because it’s not THAT easy to get over stuff like self-hatred and harassment.
My parents used to tell me to take any insults thrown my way as a compliment. Not in the “oh they only insult you because they feel lesser way” but as in “the b word isn’t so bad, dogs are beautiful creatures, man’s best friend, you know?”
Usually people would get weirded out or just straight up leave you alone after a while.
2:00
grades don't REALLY matter until highschool!! you don't need to have all A's. you just need to understand the material. Put yourself and your needs before your grades.
Agreed
In my country, its actually HIGHSCHOOL grades that aren’t really important tbh
Grades are always important.
@@antigonarosaura7845 They meant that it won't REALLY REALLY REALLY matter until you're in Highschool. Several of my classmates who did nothing in Middle school went on to graduate with me.
yeah well school doesnt give you a chance to focus on mental health so all that matters is grades woo hoo
Things to avoid as a teenager: 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝘁𝗲𝗲𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗿
I don't agree with trusting people before your friends, when you are a teenager, often the only people you have are your friends. And while grades and your parents are important, it's not okay to push away people that are trying / want to support you because of school or parents - my grades are only good because of my friends, and I wouldn't be friends with them if I listened to my parents. Some people have bad parents, so I guess this advice doesn't apply to everyone.
Exactly. Sometimes parents can’t be trusted. My mother saw me cutting myself (I suffer from dysthymia, but I don’t do it anymore) and she threatened to send me to a psychiatric hospital, but when I talked to my best friend about it he told me that I don’t need a psychiatric hospital, that I needed proper love and understanding
@@suki-4607I self harmed, told my counselor, mom thought I was acting a fool and put me on punishment
These parents don't deserve custody.
@@antigonarosaura7845 they don’t deserve rights
I’m neutral on that bit, for parents, it really depends, some parents are amazing, while others are god awful, while for the grades, those are definitely important cause studying helps lead to a successful future or just help you know more, but I do agree that friends are also great things to have in your life, they make you happy and help you go through hard times, they are also important as well
listen to your parents, but what if they say hurtful things, endlessly compares you to others, and expects their child or teen to be perfect at certain things?
ye ik sometimes it can hurt but when ur parents twll u that dont listen to them listen to only like the encouraging things theh say to u ect or likegood and mot rude things💗
you have to talk to them calmly and *without arguing frantically* and just talk the problem through, tell them that they shouldn't keep comparing you since it hurts you, and that everybody has their own flaws.
With the adult content thing, while it may sometimes be harmful, if someone understands the risks and implications of such content and can consume it in a healthy manner, it's a much safer way to explore one's sexuality rather than getting into unhealthy relationships prematurely
@tobaboba-cc8hn its too late now 🧏
@tobaboba-cc8hn my friends would never talk to me again if i tried to talk about that stuff with them lol but i got what you meant
@tobaboba-cc8hn noo i meant i can't even talk about crushes with them, they'd think I'm nasty af 😭
@@kiyokomiyazakiSame and they’d tell like the whole class 😭😭
@@so...sleepyz the struggle is real 🙏🏻🙏🏻
“Don’t grow up to fast”
*calls a 10 year old a teenager*
Yeah, and I saw a 10 year old in the comments who thought she was a teen ☠☠☠☠
I need to be being a “big kid” is cringe
@@Wony_girlie huh??
@@ssir_sav I’m saying I don’t wanna be “big kid” because for me I cosdiner that cringe and instead I wanna be considered a teen I get I might be growing up to fast but I do wonyoungism and it makes me mature
@@Wony_girlie ohh ok
"Get at least 7-8 hours of sleep each night"
Me who went to bed at 5 am this morning:
😶😶😂😂,
It’s 2:13 am rn 😭😭
I went to bed at 6am-
4 am for me
@@-SashaGacha- same..
0:42 A lot of my classmates do this 😢
samee and im kinda a target
Same
@@wafflecatsswhy don’t u tell ur teachers?
@@KrewANG3Lcurrently for me it’s summer vacation, but last school year I had some bullies and me and my mom told the school multiple times about these bullies, they did nothing, so maybe they did tell someone and they did nothing.
Bruh sameee it’s annoying
"don’t let anyone make you feel bad about yourself"
damn gurl i live with such people
this video is kinda unhelpful if your home life is anything even slightly lesser than perfect ngl lol
waiter waiter!!!!! please
Tbh I will hold my grudges a person skinny shamed me, was racist, bullied me phiscally and mentally till I almost wanted to die so yes I will hold a strong grudge.
I am so sorry that happened to u
:( Hopefully ur with only ppl who love u the way u are now!
@@lozwindwakerfan4076 tysm it means a lot 💗
Screw that advice. Sometimes grudges are warranted. I hold a grudge against my old primary school bully who came to my house and threatened my little sister and my neighbour (same age as my sister).
Why? Because not holding a grudge against them would be DANGEROUS
@@KaiTheTyrant I totally agree with you!
Perfectly reasonable
YES! Don’t gossip, many people I know including friends gossip and it leads you to not trusting them fully because they might be talking behind your back.
Thanks you very much sister ❤ ! Your videos are really helpful to me. I'm a teen girl who is transferring to new school/collage for studies. Its 6 almost days left. I was really confused and less confident. Thank you for these tips, they are really helpful.
@@Hellohello0475 you're welcome 🤍
Hi! I’m 14 years old (just graduated from 9th grade, in my country we are promoted to high school), and I can tell you that some of this will be unavoidable. Obviously you can avoid it but some of them are common teenager mistakes. The most important thing is learning from these experiences that make you grow as a person. Don’t rush to seem mature if you are not ready, you’re not too mature for your age.
Remember that nobody is perfect and if you make a mistake it ain’t gonna be the end of the world.
I personally had a terrible experience at age 12-14 at school, thinking I was the problem. Then I realized that it was them, not me. No one has the right to treat you badly just because they want to or think you’re “weird”. The same way, try to show the best of you and find your safe place.
At the end of the day, you learn from your mistakes, and if you don’t make mistakes you will learn nothing and you will not be prepared for the real world. I mean, you can try to avoid some of them but you don’t need to be so harsh, difficult times will always exist and are mostly unavoidable in your teenage years.
@LunaOreo-cz9mk i needed to say it
wise words from a teen, you'll see that this is much more meaningful than most things adults say as adults just repeat the same things over and over again without telling us why or giving an example, though you just told us in a few sentences what adults have been trying to teach most kids in years.
0:12 Great advice unless you’ve grown up with people who get gradually more toxic and you can’t find a way to stop being their friend even though they’re rude to you ❤️
the advice from the video is very simplistic, it's hard to actually apply it to reality since real life scenarios can be very complex and complicated which makes them much harder to navigate than a random hypothesis.
@@rozinq1351 yeah true. I was mostly just joking though
@@DoritotheAxolotl I mean yeah I get that and that's fine but the scenario you listed is a legitimate thing that happens to people and even happened to me to an extent which is why advice that's very ''naive'' for lack of a better word yet so confident in it's message makes me roll my eyes hard to this day, I remember being that 13 year old stuck in an uncomfortable situation with people who clearly didn't care about me anymore and sometimes even went out of their way to make me feel bad yet not being able to distance myself because they were quite literally the only friends I had and I can say from experience that being told to ''just leave lol'' doesn't actually help you out in any meaningful way, and if it's recited blankly like a protocol by everyone who tries to talk to you about your issues it just gets annoying (I hope this doesn't come across as me trying to trauma dump in a random comment section, I just wanted to give an anecdotal example for why I don't think this video is particularly helpful if you struggle with any of the things it mentions, but judging by the amount of likes my opinion's clearly not the only one out there and that's fine, if it genuinely helps someone that's great and I'm happy for them too)
@@rozinq1351 Yeah I’ve had similar stuff happen, it sucks. I feel like some people don’t realize how to just back off of someone when all they’re doing is being snarky and mean to them while still calling them a friend
1:24 I’d like to add something, it’s okay to have unhealthy foods sometimes too! Vegetables and fruits are good to have once a day but I recommend having unhealthy foods every week or fortnite, this is healthy for your body to have a normal routine in eating. Unhealthy food isn’t totally off limits but it’s good to keep the amount of fast food at a reasonable level.
Yeah I’m 12 and I have a lot of candy but I balance it out with vegetables and fruits and meats and stuff
@@avie_chan0311Oh my goodness, where are you!? I’m in America and that is underweight for a twelve year old- IM TWELVE- and I weight about 107 pounds…
my european self thought yall were talking in kg 😭😭😭
@synnairek that’s a great attitude to have:)) ! And I’m pretty sure you are also a good weight too ^_^ so dw
@@BOB_VELSEB_1945 oh- I live in America too lol. Idk if I’m underweight or not-
"Don't hold grudges"
Me: 😨
"Stop procrastination"
Me: 🫥
it's perfectly fine to hold grudges if they've hurt you personally.
@@UndecidedASMR No, never hold grudges and forgive anyone who's hurt you. It's hurts you mentally and spiritually, and the Bible says to always forgive those who have hurt you, no matter what. And pray for your enemies.
@@akaKitty i have serious problems with organized religion
@@UndecidedASMR No worries! Just always know Jesus is there for you, if you want to know more, don’t be afraid to ask!
@@akaKitty i think i'll be good. thank you for the offer! i don't mean to sound mean
“No adult content”
My character ai chats rn: 😨
NO LITERALLY SO REAL
FR ME TOO!
REALL
BRUH, WHY IS THIS SO TRUE?!
@@Ashley2024_kit idk- but it is-
1:39
My parents: ur lazy and worthless.
My friends: aw, don’t listen to what ur parents say! Ur beautiful!
Me: crap, I guess I’m lazy and worthless, and I’m not beautiful.
They meant more on advice like parents warn you to not do an all nighter on games but your friends tell you to, like not studying but you friends tell you to skip and play with them
It's about life choices and experience, you friends surely are very nice but they're the same age as you, so their experience in important life things is about the same as you therefore It's sometimes not an useful other point of view
@@Ilovegenshin77 my friends don’t tell me to skip and play with them. They are supportive and are trying to get an education themselves. They would never encourage me to do anything I wouldn’t want to, or anything bad for that matter, and they are against that stuff. My parents don’t give a single crap what I do, it’s not enough either way.
@@DuckyxLifeXD I agreee with you, my parents are verbally abusive + homophobic and my friends are all I have... plus people your age will have a better idea of what you're going through, unlike adults, who have a "different experience" rather than "more experience".
@@Aurorya when people are the same age as you and play a similar role in society as you at the same time as you, your friends are certainly going to know more about what you're going through whereas your parents may not have experienced it before and won't know how to handle it.
I have always loved when people say things that will help mental health no matter how small, like these vids! I love ‘em so much!
As a 15 year old, I have learned from making many mistakes with friends and other stuff. This video is so good for younger people/teenagers to see.
"skipping school can lead to gaps in learning and poor grades" well it's worth it since i won't have to see THOSE classmates that roast me and cook me and mentally drain me when i literally did nothing to them. they can wait until the end of time.
I agree with most, disagree with others. In any case, it's all easier said than done :')
2:22 girl it's not as easy as "okay i'll jist stop procrastinating!!" 😕😕😕
I think they meant it as *Try* to stop procrastinating. Or to find a way to.
@Dawn-Feraon i try to but i just. cant not procrastinate yk
@@Dawn-FeraonNgl this video is really vauge, like tell me how to not procastinate, cuz if I knew the answer i wouldnt be procastinating and watching this video🙏
@@Herecomeskaren1 maybe research, like based on ur situation
1. Toxic and fske friends
2. Involved in unnesscesary conflict
3. Too much screen time
4. Comparison to others
5. Don't rush to grow up, embrance childhood
6. Don't bully fo look cool
7. dont make anyone make u feel bad abt urself
8. no peer pressure
9. dont say gossip
10. dont be afraif to make mistakes
11. dont skip school you wont have ecperience
12. don't be elitist
13. eat healthy
14. atleast 7 to 8 hrs if sleep
15. no grudges but boundaries
16. listen ti ur parents aswell
17. dont seek valudation
18. take school seriously
19. dont be afraid to fail
20. no drugs
21. be happy
22, no provradination
23. dont damage reputation
The pictures you put make me feel bad about myself evenmore🥲🥲🥲
Don’t let that effect you it’s just a certain aesthetic ❤
your perfect the wat you are
@@Ho-oh.Builderthe wat
@@mariandsayoriplushreal way*
If it’s the pretty girls then they’re just wearing a whole bunch of makeup to themselves pretty, thats 100% how they were not born to look like. If you can be pretty without makeup then that is even better. And when I say pretty I mean your personality, not your looks. I’m sure that you are beautiful‼️💕
as an older teen, I don’t necessarily agree with is the ‘listen to your parents more not friends’.
while your parents will, in theory, have your best interest in mind, in practice, sometimes they will hurt you. A prime example is religious parents of LGBTQ children - they try to ‘save’ their children from hellfire while condemning them to feeling depressed and unaccepted for being who they are.
Grades before friends? I don’t wanna be a perfectionist all the time I want friends too :(
Then it's better to listen to your conscience than a random video on the internet, of course putting effort into studying and trying your best is good but it's not the most important thing in the world. Having a social life and people who understand you around is equally as important as studying and purposefully isolating yourself from that because of amibitions can be very unhealthy
“Don’t watch adult content”
Me: *cough *chokes
Me:**coughs to death**
* coughs while dying and watching people in drama do 'it' *
*Coughs *Fpe Is 13+ And I'm Ten -
@@YallLocalEditor OMG ANOTHER FPE FAN???? IM ALSO TEN TOO-
@@that_odd_coyote_fan Twin Where have U Been🤭🤭 Collab With Me Sometimes!
I'm not a teenager anymore but honestly the eye strain thing is so real! I had classes during the pandemic and my eyes would twitch/itch all the time. Finding a hobby that makes you happy and is not related to electronic devices is hard. Wishing the best for all teenagers out there!!
2:24 you cant just stop procrastinating 😭
A really great tip: If your parents have abused you a lot in the past, whenever it’s verbal, emotional, physical, sexual or at least one or more, do NOT listen to them. I am a victim of emotional child abuse, and listening to parents is the worst thing you can do if you have a long history of being abused by your own parents.
2:25 “like mate stop procrastinating”
STAYYY
Omgggggg a stayyyyy heyyyyy mate I was thinking the same thinghh
HI SKZ FAN
@@Justme-zn2qi HIII
I THIUGHT THAT TOO
“Avoid getting in unnecessary drama” in 4th grade we were doing a digital breakout or riddles and the first group to solve all of them got candy, I was in a group with 4 other friends. We got one riddle down and another group got one down so we traded answers and another group had a problem with it (the other group had two of my friends in it, the one that had the problem) and they were forcing us to tell an answer even though they didn’t have any. At recess we were lining up and one of our group members ditched us to go to the group with the problem. We planned to apologize for lashing out at them (that was my fault hehe 🙃) but then they didn’t accept our apology (so I lashed out at them again :p) in the end we actually apologized (atleast 1 of them moved away) all because of a riddle :) anyway im still friends with them both. And this one happened a few days ago. Me and my friend were talking in the group chat because we were bored and one of the people from the other story (the one that had a problem) lashed out at us for “spamming” the group chat so I was lashed out at him to turn off his notifications and the my other friend from the group that had the problem sided with me luckily. He apologized and I accepted but now we’re not as good friends. This took me so long to type help-
respect for how long it took 🫡
"put grades above friends" WOWWWWW
FR you only live once AND u dont need good grades to go to heaven
CRAZY
I’m sorry but i agree with the video. They don’t mean it in a mean way, they just mean instead of spending time with friends prioritize studying.
@@sabbilzzhaving a social life is more important than studying, you don't need good grades to pass and a lot of the time you will forget that stuff anyways, while connections and friendship is important for your mental health and also career
@@ultimateidiot2344 while you may be right, grades are still very, very important to students. gpa is what a lot of colleges look at when accepting students.
Thank you so much !
i am an 11 year old who tends to not stand up for herself , procrasanates and changes herself for others .
i really needed this .
tysm ! i will take note for all of this .
*Me, a 30 y/o woman stumbling upon this because of UA-cam’s random algorithm*
“Yes, interesting”
As an adult this list is pretty good ! Especially don't begin smoking, dinking, such things, and especially not because of peer pressure ! Because then you're gonna have much more difficulties getting out of it that the very person who told you "do it like me, it's fun !" and that's just sad
Source : I worked in a drugstore and seeing the "class followers" still addicted years after while knowing the "class leaders" were clean for a while is incredibly sad. It is because of brain chemistry ofc, but also mindpower. Class leaders have more mindpower but it doesn't mean other people don't have any. Please use yours when people try to make you do something bad for you. Always prioritize your health rather than what other people think of you because if relationships, especially school ones, end on an argument about theses subjects, they weren't worth it anyway. Yoy can change friends, you cannot change bodies : you're stuck with yours till the end, so please take care of it 😢
That screen time and procrastination Bon be real hard for those with ADHD-
OMG SO REAL
"Being mean to others can harm them and damage your reputation"
Which is true but if the person who is mean to others apparently the most popular or has a large group of friends supporting them it's a different situation ngl (also where justice is starting to fall off which pisses me a lot)
1:22 DAWG IM COOKED YALL😭😭😭
FR
@@obsessed-with-abstragedystan?
@@Hazee_x what?
Me too ☠️☠️☠️
REAL PLUS I ONLY EAT WHAT MY MOM MAKES ME😨
"Don't be afraid to make mistakes"
This hit me like a ton of bricks
Sounds like a dream...
I’m a tween and these advices helped me out a lot
Thank you very much especially how I’m starting middle school. This is very approval and I’m appreciative of this.
Literally loving yourself is what causes most people’s downfalls. Always strive to be better, not okay with yourself. If you love yourself too much then you think whatever you do is right, so think how you can improve, not just stay still
as an older teen i wanna say these are all great tips but you dont have to live a "perfect" and "clean" life like this. a part of being a teenager is being rebellious, and trying out new things. you dont have to ALWAYS listen to your parents, or eat healthy food, or never smoke/drink. when i was younger i was always the one kid in the group that was like "guys idk if we should do this" and i was always so scared of everything ... but this year ive been way less scared, i started smoking weed, staying up late, and trying things i was always too scared to try. im not tryna encourage anyone to like do drugs or anything like that but i do wanna say that drugs like weed, shrooms, acid, and other psychedelics arent physically addictive and if your gonna experiment with drugs do that. the bad drugs are the things like meth and heroin. those are SUPER addictive and withdrawal from those can kill you. psychedelics cannot kill you. sorry idk what im ranting about im just tryna say dont be scared to rebel a lil
edit: i wrote this comment when i was high so im gonna clarify 😭what im tryna say is not all "drugs" are bad but everyone thinks that cuz they're so taboo. weed isnt a bad yall im not telling u to go smoke it im just tryna say its not harmful and if u wanna go and do it, do it, if you dont, then dont, but dont go around saying "drugs are bad and unhealthy for u!" when someone mentions weed
I get what you’re saying… Though drugs are a little much 😂😂
Im still curious, how was your experience
@@KozirDuck experience with what
I'm gonna personally not try to end up like my parents of smoking or drugs
No, this is terrible advice, and it is literally coming from a brony aesthetic kid.
I still don’t think you should even be putting the idea in younger teenager’s heads to try those things.. yes there are worse things to be addicted to and these would be better options, but they’re still addictive and harmful. You can try new things and be rebellious as a teenager without literally doing drugs.
People tell me to embrace my childhood but when I do, I’m told I’m cringe, annoying, and lame. So when I wanna be a teenager, I’m told I can’t look to the cute and I need to enjoy my childhood, but how could I enjoy something that has been ruined?
Don’t listen to what ppl say about you, just enjoy yourself and be happy and enjoy your youth and your life going forward,life is too short to focus on those ppls words, you’ll be happy knowing how you spent your youthful years , I’m only 16 but I hope this helps 😄god bless you 🙏
@@asiaceasar4145 God bless you too
Thank you for making this! I know a lot of teens need to see this and we should be always café ful especially in this new generation that criticize for almost anything 😢 as a 13 y/o (I’m about to be) I’m glad I watched this❤❤❤
Also: Talk to people, get help, do not expect of yourself to master everything alone
Better advice than the video tbh
Fr like I'm an introvert but whenever I need help I speak up 😭
And this is what everyone says especially people who think they help insecure people but they have no idea what actually goes on
Teenagers range from 13-17.
@Pinkzqueen bro its a 10 year old
@Pinkzqueen I would say preteens are 11 or 12 tho
yeah but considering that in the society we live today in every country those tips can be very useful for 10 year olds
13-19 actually, at least in english.
Half of them I avoided , some no. I am a 12 year old who watches 16+ movies, and knows already to many things. I gossiped my entire life almost and nothing bad happened. Still have the same friends that are not toxic and understand and respect me, some even support(I am a therian and part of the LGBTQ+ community). My grades are very good, finished on second place this year, and I skiped studying sometimes. I listened to my friend more then my parent one time, and nothing bad happened. I put my friends and familly before my grades, bcs I know how to deal with grades. And I do hate myself some times and compare myself to others, and that made me change, start working out and become the person I want to be. I would say to let anyone do things how they like, and where they end up is they'r choise.
You're very wise haha, I wish I was like you when I was your age 😭
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I just turned 11 and I’m so happy this exists! So inspirational tysm
You are a little kid not a teenager 😭 (I’m 10 years old about to be 11 next month)
@@P3bblePawzysWe’re like almost the same age but ur older than me by a bit- (my bdays in like 3 months)
1:37 My mom said I'm stupid. Sure, I'll listen to her. 🤗
my mom curses me almost everyday even if i am girl, so what, you are still supposed to listen parents
being called “stupid” is not big thing😭
@@sudoblxxdalt Unless it comes complete with a bunch of other personal insults and yelling)
And all from your own mom.
Help my mom calling me a female dog and way more
Not like THAT 😭
This was great advice! I also reflected on this as a teen :3. I want to add that do not be ashamed of your friend group. I loved the nerdy anime kids, but I hung out with a different crowd I felt disconnected from and never felt like I was part of their tribe. While with the nerdy anime kids, it felt like I belonged... don't turn your back on your true friends, it will only hurt you in the end.
You become a teenager when ur 13. But looking at the kind of kids these days.. they strongly need this advice. They want to look like an adult 😂
I dislike the phrase "Kids these days" so much. I feel like it describes kids and teens as a whole when in reality, a lot of kids aren't like that at all. I know for a fact I don't want to grow up quickly. "They" only describes a small minority of teens.
@@Pie_slays bro this is the era of social media and most kids are spoilt due to this. I'm 19 and I love how I was born at such a perfect time. I had a wonderful childhood without any social media but at the same time got all these things just when it was necessary and at the right age. Most kids don't have this kind of childhood now. They are all surrounded by stupidity. Very few kids keep themselves away from this social media virus and all.
@@Pie_slaysyeah like I’m terrified of growing even 1 year older 😭
AHEM TIME TO EXPLAIN TIME OF AGE…
10-11= pre-teen
12=tween
13-15=teenager
16-17=teen.
DO I HAVE TO EXPLAIN THIS EVERY TIME!?😭
@@Quit_g00dby3 theres a difference between teen and teenager? And tween and preteen? I think those are js different words for the same thing girly
Honestly I’m afraid of making mistakes it’s hard when people always say stop making mistakes
As a Young Teen, I really, REALLY do not wan't to grow up! I hate it, I like my childhood!
But other kids do not get it, being an adult is not fun, it is tiring...
Life is always tiring.
Sometimes adults struggle, it’s not always tiring
@@Yelyzavetta27483Struggling is tiring tho
Here’s another thing: Don’t love yourself so much that you become narcissistic but don’t love yourself so less that you can’t even look yourself in the mirror. Find a fine line between and you’ll be good :)
Im trying to just be myself my “friends” turned me into someone i wasn’t i was not actually happy around them and now i’ve blocked them and starting dealing with my unhealthy habits i feel so much better 😌
"Don't disrespect and bully others to look cool", yeah, say that to all the people at my school that make fun of me and my friends for being therians/quadrobicists (and of course, they call us " FurRiEs", damn people need to learn my favorite word, ✨"Differences"✨)
As a 17 year old I agree with all these things but, when I act childish to enjoy the moments before I’m an adult it’s just everyone will be saying “you are not a child stop acting like one” So I just recommend don’t act grown or act like a child
tysm for these tips! i really need to work on these ones:
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Thank you for the tips! Now I'm aware what to avoid mistakes. Ever since I have adhd, so it may be difficult to do it for me 😅
“Avoid getting involved in unnecessary drama.”
Looks like I failed that one😭
“Stop procrastinating”😭😭
“stop procrastinating” stop calling me out girlie 😭
You can listen to your parents ONCE they're right, pls know whats right from wrong
This girl be calling out my manipulative friends with this one 🔥🔥🔥
What i like about my friends is that they have good grades! And when i see their grades i feel like i should study harder and get good grades like them. So basically my friends are a big help in improving my grades without them even knowing. I love them so much ❤
I purposefully procrastinate at times because thats the time when my brain fully locks in and i will do my homework way faster and come up with better ideas or solutions. As for chores i do them immediately, i find peace in washing dishes and organizing rooms.
10-12 year olds are not teenagers😭 especially 10 year olds. social media is forcing kids to grow up and it’s getting worse each day
'Not too much screen time' *definitely not me watching this at 4am*
You broke the “not to mich screen time” and “get sleep” one lol💀😭
@@soda_design_pro yeah and i got no sleep the next night and ah hour of sleep the next~
@@kripplplays i stayed up all night and fell asleep in the morning now its 1AM and i just woke up💀
OMG, I'm turning 18 in a few hours and this video was exciting for me; it was able to help me see every lesson I could have applied earlier and how much more I would have accomplished. Thank you for your video, by now I know that's what every teenager should be aware of.
2:05 i think i already broke that rule when i was 12 lol 😅😅😅
same but for me at 9😭
@@silliest.humann bruh your innocence was broken quick lol... Also I thought it was like adult movies, but if were talking about something like cuss words I learned when I was in 1st grade. 😭
@@Strawberry_Mochi-u4bi learned abt that when i was like 7
@@Strawberry_Mochi-u4b I sort of learned it when I was about 7-10
@@toastLover-yo2yki was like 4-5
2:23 "like mate, stop procrastinating 🐺🐺🐺"
I do though🥲
STAYYY
EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT WHEN I SAW PROCRASTINATING
STAAA❤❤❤
They just put “stop procrastinating” with no way to help it, like how am I supposed to? 😭
I have this habit of comparing myself to others, but I really don't know why, it feels as of there are better than me
Trust me they are not, just learn to love yourself
As a person who’s really self conscious and has some bad habits like staying up late (commenting this at 12:15am :/) and even sometimes SH, I really needed this. I also have major trust issues, and I’ve always just tried my best to just not answer my friends calls sometimes, but I should still keep them close and not too distant
0:44 i only bully/disrespect when people are beefing/bullying me 💀
SAMEEEEEEE like its self protection and then they say im bullying them😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@ChaerinsVlog perfect revenge
Sameeee
Same here!
If I didn't have to wake up at 5:00 AM for school I WOULD get 7-8 hours of sleep
Yeah. Last year I had to get up at 4am for school. I didn’t get home until 8:30pm, too. I basically had no time to myself on days I had class and they wondered why my grades weren’t so good (funny thing, homework isn’t so good if you don’t have time to do it). We couldn’t even do most of the work in class. I don’t get why it wasn’t online (mandatory in-person stuff for 8 hours).
“No adult content”
My hyperfixation: 🗣️🔥🔥🔥
Me with Slow damage 😬
.. and you're watching a show made by someone with zoophile allegations, regarding your profile picture.
THE RUSHING TO GROW UP ONE! its so true! Im almost 40 😭 and the other day one of my best friends called me and my husband (who ive known since highschool) HYSTERICALLY crying about how much he misses being young, omg where did time go?! 😢 Enjoy your youth 💯✌️ and don't be a bully. Always be yourself
ok milenial
Hey. You’re almost 40, yes but that doesn’t mean your life is over. Don’t you forget to have fun, too. Life is too short to take so seriously all the time. Your age doesn’t make you less of a person.
Grades before friends? Idk. Maybe make sure to get your studying done, yeah. But not before friends. I've had no friends and bad grades, and i can tell you, I'd much prefer the bad grades. Friends are important
real title: things that are hard to do
1:56 I get good grades but i don’t think it necessarily means I prioritise my results over my friends. I enjoy being around my two friends, and I hope i don’t seem like I prefer my academic achievements over them, lol. Besides, they both get similar grades as me. 😅
0:38 k I should probably get off now
Loll
Lol same tho
Same
Same lol💀
agreed..