The Distraction of Women || Ustadh abdul Rahman Hassan

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  • @JaysonAng
    @JaysonAng 3 місяці тому +49

    00:20 Preoccupation with low-value matters
    02:25 Low aspiration is living a life without value or purpose.
    04:48 Being preoccupied and productive diminishes love and obsession in one's heart
    06:41 Obsessive love reflects low aspiration
    08:57 Excessive love and obsession harm one's honor and dignity.
    11:51 Obsessing over women leads to loss of dignity
    14:29 Obsession can lead to valuing external beauty over true essence.
    16:55 Being infatuated with someone based on social media image

  • @ONFROZE
    @ONFROZE 3 місяці тому +53

    “your presence in this world and your absence are the same?” that hit deep

  • @a_h_m_e_d____
    @a_h_m_e_d____ 6 днів тому

    Barak Allahu Feek

  • @yassinhassan336
    @yassinhassan336 3 місяці тому +16

    My favorite words on this topic are that of Ibn Al Jawzi's where he says : "Having one’s desires fulfilled [lawfully] in order to free the heart
    and mind from such distractions is a cardinal pillar as it will devote
    the heart towards minding one’s other important matters. When a
    person finishes from subsequent side tasks he will then be able to
    focus on his original major tasks."

  • @feynmanives
    @feynmanives 3 місяці тому +11

    Commenting for the algorithm.
    JazakAllahu Khair

  • @dbeasteditors3067
    @dbeasteditors3067 3 місяці тому +9

    The video is actually very informative

  • @TheJwaad
    @TheJwaad 3 місяці тому +42

    Commenting for the algorithm.
    JazakAllahu Khair

    • @xXTheRoyalTurkXx
      @xXTheRoyalTurkXx 3 місяці тому +3

      Same let me add to that

    • @fujaelmollah4232
      @fujaelmollah4232 3 місяці тому +3

      replying for the algorithm

    • @ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451
      @ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451 3 місяці тому +1

      It worked you three. I got recommended this video after viewing a not too relevant video. May Allah bless your intentions and accept your good deeds.

    • @lamijar7859
      @lamijar7859 2 місяці тому

      Jazak Allah khayran for this dars

  • @albadree9802
    @albadree9802 2 місяці тому

    May our creator protect us from all types of Satan's or Devil's and safeguard us from ungratefulness ameen ❤😢✌️👍

  • @blususpect
    @blususpect 3 місяці тому +8

    Wallahi I needed to hear this, Jazak Allahu Khair

  • @mardiyakezire5255
    @mardiyakezire5255 Місяць тому

    ‏صح!

  • @albadree9802
    @albadree9802 2 місяці тому

    Allahu akbar, may our creator increase us in knowledge ameen ❤😢✌️👍

  • @bigmoneymoose4644
    @bigmoneymoose4644 3 місяці тому +16

    This is the poem
    I needed

  • @mastura_22
    @mastura_22 3 місяці тому +2

    Glad i found this yt channel, barakallahu feek

    • @fruitsoftawheed
      @fruitsoftawheed  3 місяці тому +2

      May Allah reward you ... benefit in sha Allah

  • @YH-yh8pr
    @YH-yh8pr 3 місяці тому +7

    Brothers
    Do your 5 daily salawat
    Fast during ramadan
    Give zakat and sadaqa
    Do umrah and hajj
    Do dhikr of allah
    Keep it simple

  • @Pagodacoralsllc
    @Pagodacoralsllc 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you Ahki amazing may Allah bless you

  • @ren.8137
    @ren.8137 3 місяці тому +14

    Amazing video, I needed this.

  • @kenzy.shares
    @kenzy.shares 3 місяці тому +11

    This video is what i needed . Jazak Allah khayr

  • @shahidkhandesign
    @shahidkhandesign 3 місяці тому +1

    May allah reward you❤

  • @al-aminalpoet3725
    @al-aminalpoet3725 3 місяці тому +25

    Thank you. This is deep.

  • @mankamohamed277
    @mankamohamed277 3 місяці тому +3

    I really pray I meet you one day ..inspirational ❤

  • @abdullahalmdawh
    @abdullahalmdawh 3 місяці тому +1

    حقّ

  • @yaqob3275
    @yaqob3275 2 місяці тому +1

    I love your green screen 😂 real zuhd 😂

  • @desmondbangura1405
    @desmondbangura1405 3 місяці тому +11

    This is really a very important point to note

  • @Maalik-MohammedAbdullah
    @Maalik-MohammedAbdullah 3 місяці тому

    SubhanAllah

  • @abdulrahman-tk6ep
    @abdulrahman-tk6ep 3 місяці тому +2

    Very beneficial. Jazakallah khair.

  • @SiyanSonda-jq9ls
    @SiyanSonda-jq9ls 3 місяці тому +6

    Very helpful

  • @saadiaally7718
    @saadiaally7718 3 місяці тому +1

    Assalamualaikum rahmatullah wa barakatuhu! BarakAllahufekum 🎉may Allah continue to bless you with afiyah ameen, and preserve your eman ameen

  • @flameztimez
    @flameztimez 3 місяці тому +5

    Subhan Allah

  • @Silvermalik
    @Silvermalik 2 місяці тому

    may allah reward you

  • @ModouNyang-md2tm
    @ModouNyang-md2tm 3 місяці тому +1

    جزاك الله خيرا

  • @Mohtabane
    @Mohtabane 3 місяці тому +3

    I liked the video and subscribed AlhamdouliLAH.

  • @michaelboero7789
    @michaelboero7789 3 місяці тому +1

    Allah bless you Sheikh

  • @JALILAHLatif
    @JALILAHLatif 3 місяці тому +1

    Mash Allah shaikh amazing job 👍👌👍may Almighty ALLAH Bless you always and protect u always all the best 👍👌👍❤️❤️❤️

  • @LifewithSalem21
    @LifewithSalem21 2 місяці тому

  • @muneerahmagee3568
    @muneerahmagee3568 2 місяці тому

    May Allah reward you ❤

  • @SalSabeel10
    @SalSabeel10 3 місяці тому +1

    جزاكم الله خيرا

  • @Yungabdi
    @Yungabdi 2 місяці тому

    Well said.

  • @harveyghost2553
    @harveyghost2553 3 місяці тому

    Mashallah

  • @son375goku6
    @son375goku6 3 місяці тому +1

    perfect

  • @zakisensei
    @zakisensei 3 місяці тому

    This video hits deeply in my soul

  • @aithemlashab2234
    @aithemlashab2234 3 місяці тому

    wow chokran.

  • @ShirazDole
    @ShirazDole 3 місяці тому +3

    Alhamdulillah. Thank you for this video brothers.

  • @CetamolPara-db5xc
    @CetamolPara-db5xc 3 місяці тому

    SubhanAllah Elhamdulillah La ilaha illAllah Allahu Ekber☝️

  • @Ghariebyaakhi
    @Ghariebyaakhi 3 місяці тому

    BarakAllahoe feek

  • @ahlussabr
    @ahlussabr 3 місяці тому

    JazzakAllahu khairan

  • @YxngOmz
    @YxngOmz 3 місяці тому

    Jazakallahu khairan

  • @1JourneyToJannah
    @1JourneyToJannah 3 місяці тому +3

    For the algorithm

  • @mohamedwihshi8119
    @mohamedwihshi8119 3 місяці тому +1

    Commenting for algorithm

  • @visoren6580
    @visoren6580 3 місяці тому +14

    may Allah reward you with goodness
    One suggestion for enhancing your teaching approach would be to first present the entire Arabic expression, followed by its complete English translation.

    • @abelo2305
      @abelo2305 3 місяці тому +2

      The account owner is not the shaykh btw

    • @Astra-36
      @Astra-36 3 місяці тому

      I dont agree with this. It is good the way he's doing plus he memorised it in arabic not english

  • @Jinan9Dec
    @Jinan9Dec 3 місяці тому +5

    JazakAllah khair

  • @ozbekfahri
    @ozbekfahri 3 місяці тому +4

    like it or not but this is true tasawwuf and zuhd from dunya. I liked this video very much even though i don't follow the shayxs mazhab or aqeedah. More videos on these topics like this are very needed.

    • @ONFROZE
      @ONFROZE 3 місяці тому

      you don’t need to follow the shafi’i madhab to benefit from ustadh videos

    • @ozbekfahri
      @ozbekfahri 3 місяці тому

      @@ONFROZE thats what i said. Also i though he was salafi and dont follow any madhhab

    • @ONFROZE
      @ONFROZE 3 місяці тому

      @@ozbekfahri no he salafi in aqeedah and takes fiqh from the shafi’i madhab. he teaches maliki fiqh aswell

  • @jaavz8113
    @jaavz8113 3 місяці тому +1

    Sheik spittin ngl

  • @troysadler7765
    @troysadler7765 2 місяці тому +1

    The only time I would advise to delay marriage is while seeking knowledge they can be a distraction but when u seek knowledge you won’t give worldy things any concern if Allah beautifies knowledge in your heart, knowledge is a light that turns Pain into pleasure, fear Allah n allah will teach you,

  • @ayoub6625
    @ayoub6625 3 місяці тому

    thank you

  • @s.g.e5523
    @s.g.e5523 3 місяці тому

    hmmm

  • @adammedz
    @adammedz 3 місяці тому +6

    Great video but nothing prepared me for how he was sitting on the chair 😂

  • @militaryislam5184
    @militaryislam5184 Місяць тому

    Alpha male video mashallah

  • @saymonislam3047
    @saymonislam3047 3 місяці тому

    4:48

  • @anotherbotacc
    @anotherbotacc 3 місяці тому

    Sheikh does speak good English

  • @Sayit9297
    @Sayit9297 3 місяці тому +4

    What book is this from?

  • @amier9529
    @amier9529 3 місяці тому

    جَزَاكَٱللَّٰهُ

  • @abirahmed8643
    @abirahmed8643 3 місяці тому +6

    i think the word the sheikh was searching for is "limerence" that is the most accurate translation of the word "عشق" and Allah knows best

    • @taimurahmad
      @taimurahmad 3 місяці тому +1

      infatuation

    • @ponderingspirit
      @ponderingspirit 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@taimurahmadOr simp, which is the lowest form because you have no resiprocating affection.

  • @hk-xw6zk
    @hk-xw6zk 3 місяці тому

    and how ist a healthy love is looks for me like healthy love isnt desirable like unhealthy

  • @numairmaqbool
    @numairmaqbool 3 місяці тому +3

    Can I get notes of this lecture

  • @Ummemad10
    @Ummemad10 3 місяці тому +6

    SubhanAllah. But unfortunately, there is no value of righteous woman ustadh.
    Men are not Qawwam anymore.

  • @Victoryaps
    @Victoryaps 3 місяці тому

    g

  • @kenzy.shares
    @kenzy.shares 3 місяці тому

    Where is this book from

  • @saadaabdikarim1757
    @saadaabdikarim1757 3 місяці тому +5

    The topic was about Ishq yet you wrongfully named to create fear and hate for women. That is not Islamic teaching as it comes from non-muslim influence.

    • @weirdstrafer9263
      @weirdstrafer9263 3 місяці тому +13

      i dont think so... he clearly explained the difference between obsession an healthy love. The difference between the two feelings is high aspiration. If you have this you dont have to be scared of women.

  • @alifvidmar1239
    @alifvidmar1239 3 місяці тому +5

    Why are you sitting on the chair like that?

    • @xXTheRoyalTurkXx
      @xXTheRoyalTurkXx 3 місяці тому +13

      I think generally people who sit on the floor in the masjid et cetera would be more comfortably sitting that way so it makes sense I think

    • @muhammadsani129
      @muhammadsani129 3 місяці тому +10

      What's your problem with that bro? 😂

    • @alifvidmar1239
      @alifvidmar1239 3 місяці тому +4

      @@xXTheRoyalTurkXx jazakallah, makes sense

    • @alifvidmar1239
      @alifvidmar1239 3 місяці тому +20

      @@muhammadsani129 no problem at all akhi, I was just generally curious, maybe it was some sunnah I wasn't aware of that I could staart applying it also 👍🏾

    • @xXTheRoyalTurkXx
      @xXTheRoyalTurkXx 3 місяці тому +1

      @@alifvidmar1239 wa jazaak akhi

  • @Zarghaam12
    @Zarghaam12 2 місяці тому

    Misogynist?

  • @AdrianHoyte-yr4hh
    @AdrianHoyte-yr4hh 3 місяці тому

    My.sisters.of.the.world.please
    Forgive.me.i.know.that.words
    Bite.i.donot.mean.no.hurt.or.
    Disresecpt.but.truth.be.told.
    Some.of.you.all.leaves.a
    Lot.to.be.desier.most.of.you.all.are.well.learned.but.vulgar
    And.it.seems.that.some.of.
    You.sad.to.say.have.thorn.
    Most.of.the.values.you.once.
    Held.dear.to.your.heart.in.
    The.gutter.in.muddy.water.
    Without.a.cear.in.the.world.
    Just.to.please.the.crowd.
    Of.slanders.body.shameers.
    Interbreeders.peeping.toms.
    And.decevers.please.
    A.word.to.the.wise.please.
    Protect.your.private.parts.
    From.unclean.acts.it.is.
    Not.healthy.on.the.day.of.
    Resurrection.out.limbs.
    Will.witness.against.us.
    To.allah.is.the.return.
    And.once.again.stop.using.
    Molly.and.mith.with.
    Wichky.and.keep.away.from..
    The.evil.three.diging.wells.is.
    Not.healthy.it.is.ungodly.and.
    Evil.as.i.said.ervy.day.the.
    Bucket.gose.to.the.well.one.
    Day.the.bottom.will.drop.out.
    And.it.will.not.be.able.to.
    Hold.anything.
    May.allah.help.and.guide.all.
    Of.the.sistets.of.this.world.

  • @y4971h
    @y4971h 3 місяці тому

    Jazakallahu khairn