FAMILY LAWYER Spills the TEA on Pakistani Marriages SECRETS!
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- FAMILY LAWYER Spills the TEA on Pakistani Marriages SECRETS!
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We sit down with Barrister Zahrah Sehr Vayani, a renowned family lawyer in Pakistan, to uncover the hidden complexities of marriage. From unique and bizarre cases to the cultural challenges leading to divorce, this discussion dives into the root causes of societal issues affecting relationships. Zahrah also sheds light on essential legal precautions that both men and women can take to foster clarity and resolve marital matters effectively. Don’t miss this insightful exploration of the legal, cultural, and personal dynamics shaping marriages in Pakistan.
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balance and dividing the duties and responsibilities of each other may help in good and healthy relationship as a married couple
While I agree that it's important to highlight women's rights in relationships, I feel that discussing men's challenges in marriage and divorce could create a more balanced perspective. Many men are also unaware of their rights or face unique struggles.I feel many women are becoming more aware of their rights. Would it be helpful to also discuss resources for men navigating these issues?
Yup, if with held finances is abuse, than so is with held intimacy. A lot of western psychologist are now talking about it. I think recently it came up in Indian law too, I have to confirm that part, but it is regular topic within the men right activist in India.
Very important discussion
I'd suggest to divide the whole podcast into sections which can be accessed as desired. The description of the video could use some bullets as per the discussion as well :) Love the content though.
Thank you for this video
Loved the interview.
Much needed podcast, thanks 4 shedding light on this important topic
Do this programme in English or urdu plz one language
پاکستان میں انصاف نہیں تو لاقانونیت والے ملک میں قانون کی بات کرتے ہیں۔
Pakistani men suffer a lot in Pakistan. I wish it was more highlighted.
Only poor men. Rich men can get rid of the problem and remarry
@@asadb1990 it’s not about remarrying. What about the emotional trauma? What about stealing money from the husband, his financial loss, emotional loss etc.
As a Muslim this is a husbands right that wife should get a permission from him and if she is not doing something wrong so its her right to get the granted permission from her husband because both have to do their roles properly man is a protector and provider so wife should be obedient but husband have to be humble and guidance for his wife
Khula is from wife's side she can demand from her husband
That only works if husband works also does the same and consults and acts with permission from wife.
Talking about control, I go around doctors whole day n they even act shit with their wives, even if the wife is doctor they want her to sit at home, if you so want your wife to sit at home dont marry a doctor, tib ki taleem or practice jaiz hy religion mn bhi lakin pakistani mard pata nahin knsa islam prhty hn 😂 n if you talk logically they label u feminist😅
Aj kal single earning pr ghar to chlte hi nahi hn.Or jo high earning wale hn unhen phle ce ye bat fiscuss kr lene chahye
Spouse should not make inferior each other instead work for sucess and humanity otherwise live separate as competitor while in marriage
Nabi Muhammad Salallahu Alayhi wa Sallim has admonished them MEN in a hadith that: DO NOT APPROACH YOUR WIFE LIKE AN ANIMAL (for sexual relations). Many Muslim do not know about this hadith or they ignore it and instead they only focus on the hadith that the angels will curse the wife for refusing sex. Well, the men will not earn sawaab for forced sex either. Refer to the example below:
Prophet SAW said:
“None of you should come on to his wife like an animal, but rather there should be between them a messenger.” It was said, “What is the messenger, O Prophet of Allah?” He replied, “Kisses and sweet words.” Ithaf al-Sadat al-Muttaqin bi Sharh Ihya Ulum ad-Din 6:175
^^^^^THIS is PROOF/EVIDENCE that marital rape is not allowed. Pakistani men that are guilty of marital rape need to remind themselves that they would NEVER want any man to approach their own sister/daughter with such cruelty. GHINN AATI HAI NA AESA SOCH KAR....HAINA? GHUSSA BHI AATA HOGA HAINA? GOOD. Then don't approach sexual intimacy with your wife in a way that would make you feel ASHAMED as a man to face Allah in your prayers....on the Day of Judgment....to face yourself in the mirror....and even to face your sister/wife/etc.
اسلام علیکم! ہمارے پورے معاشرے کو تربیت کی ضرورت ہے! نہایت پسماندہ معاشرہ ہے۔ اعلی تعلیم یافتہ اشخاص بھی اپنے رویوں میں عجیب جاہلانہ سے محسوس ہوتے ہیں کبھی کبھی۔ نہ غصے کا اظہار کرنا آتا ہے؛ نہ اختلاف رائے کرنے کا طریقہ اور نہ تبادلہ خیالات کے ذریعے، حسن سلوک سے کسی نتیجے پر پہنچنا! رعب، دھونس، manipulation, emotional abuse وغیرہ سے گھروں کو جہنم بنایا ہوا ہے سب نے مل جل کر۔
Sometimes haq mahar bhi chahy zyada likhawa do kuch bhi karlo jinko nibhana nahi hota wo kisi haal mai nahi nibhaty . Or bohot se mard jab physical abuse tak pohnch jaty hai to waha koi counselling bhi kaam nhi aati qk ager mard 1% bhi apni biwi se muhabbat karta hai haath uthana door ki baat unchi awaz mai b baat karny main sochta hai.when a person raise his/her hand on the partner abuse them , torture them there is no other way than getting a divorce.
A real male never fight eith female if if relation not working end it gracefully
Be redpectful and as a woem. Give her ease
mam i wish app islamabad ki family court main hoti.
Aisay bachoun ka kia haal hojaya hai jo itna hate dekh rahe hain 😢😢😢
Absolutely idiotic feminist approach 😒😒
Walaikum Assalam
Boycott wife also girlfriend.Live as batchalor.
Very very shocking information
Itni one sided discussion.
english ni bolo plz, achi b ni hai
feminist secular show
I hate marriage
I hate marriage and any kind of relationship. Single life is worth living❤
@Mahrooshay right
fazul nthng new in it
عدالتی خلع نا جائز ہے ۔ مفتی طارق مسعود صاجب کو سن لیں ۔ کم از کم دین کے خلاف گفتگو مت کریں
Y ground reality K bat kr rehe h Jo society me ho rehe h
Ketabon K nhi ....
Lagta hai Madam ke divorce cases ke waja say he dukan chal rahe hai
@muhammadaiman1073 j nhi
Mere to shadi ho rehi h .....tmhari aql Etna hi h
There is something called law not everything revolves around jaiz/ najaiz, the country where we live we have to follow law n religion says so as well. Second Islam gives us the right to divorce husband this is called khula! That is name talaq e tafweez in PPC law so why make a bug deal , mufti tariq masood isn't the ultimate knowledge as long as I agree with few of his points he does put forth some really controversial points!
@@dr.maryamabid9371 For a true believer yes, definitely every thing revolves around jaiz/ najaiz. State law allows me to take interest from bank but my religion don’t, I would never take a single penny based on interest. So is the Khula from our court system which is not permissible. As a result she is still in Nikah with previous husband even court grant her khula or talaq. Khula is a request from woman to husband asking him to grant Talaq. A true gentleman always give talaq if she is not willing to stay with him provided his genuine conditions fulfilled.
Court can only grant talaq if husband is not providing basic needs, extremely abusive, given jail for very long time, not able to cohabitate etc. but then it is not called Khula it is Tanseekh. Means nullification of marriage.
Tafweez is a completely different thing. It’s when you put right of talaq condition in Nikah nama before you sign on it. That’s is definitely Okay.
Your 2nd point , forget Mufti Tariq Masood just email or send a letter to Muftj Taqi Usmani who has served in courts as a justice for years n years. His reply would be same as muftj Tariq Masood.
Spouse should not make inferior each other instead work for sucess and humanity otherwise live separate as competitor while in marriage