Man Goes VIRAL For Saying This About Single Moms Raising Boys
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- Опубліковано 2 тра 2024
- Man Goes VIRAL For Saying This About Single Moms Raising Boys
In this video, controversial personality Charleston White says that single moms are not capable of raising men.
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So you not gonna post link and pay homage
Listen, it's hard to hear as a single mother of a son. But I have to tell you, my SON WAS THE ONE WHO TOLD ME I COULDN'T TEACH HIM TO BE A MAN. IT'S TRUE.
I had the same conversation with mine at about 14. I asked her if she really thought she could control me? I know how to do the right thing. It’s my choice and my responsibility at this point. I’ve seen how the other side live and I’m out. Last time I ever lived at “home”
How could you? I can't teach my daughter what it means to be a woman.
You didn't need your son to tell you that.... just listen to men...
I’m a mother and I already knew this….we are not men….that’s why I don’t accept that Father’s Day crap from people #Huh? What?
It's hard to hear; but, it's a fact I've accepted early. It's why I've tried hard to make sure all my kids see their fathers, even at the expense of my mental peace, it's also why when my son asked to live with his Dad in 8th grade, I sent him that summer. His Dad is not a good man, but he is a man. I'm pretty sure that I'm harder on our son than he is. I still see my son, and when he comes, we pick up right where we left off.
My favorite line for my sons was “ Call your dad , granddad or one of your uncles because I’m not a man and I don’t know what to tell you” I thank God for them.
You're a very wise woman. It takea a village to raise a child😊
I Tell my son the same thing
Amen Sis!
@@shajohn780it takes a FAMILY. Most people live in CITIES, not villages. The city could care less about your kids.
When I was young growing up my mother use to tell me call my father when I need a man advice or go talk to your grandfather
This was hard to hear even as a man. My mom and dad divorced when I was 10 but my dad was only about 10 minutes away. He told me and my brother more than once “if you give your mom a problem, I will straighten you out”. They were still a team. He was and still is a good man. Glad I had him.
Sometimes, even in 2 parent houses, the mother plays dual roles! I, as a mother, taught my sons how to cut the grass, cut the hedges, drive, clean the house, catch fish, and cook! My siblings and I grew up doing those things, so I made sure they learned! Their dad was in the home. However, it wasn't until they got older that he started hanging out with them more! So I can't relate to a daddy who wasn't worth a damn because my daddy was a very good daddy! He was quite the man who women dream of! I can relate to a selfish raise who taught me nothing but hated me! The most important thing is I took everything that she didn't do and poured it into my boys so that they will know how to do! I taught them the things that my daddy taught me as well! My X husband had a good mother and father, so my boys were surrounded by good people! If they would've had a lousy daddy, I still would have made sure to expose them to manly things and Men! I would have been right there because I know that you can't trust people! So to say a woman can't raise a son isn't true! I took my bad situation of losing my mama at an early age mother and being raised by an evil stepmother, and so I vowed that I would teach my children EVERYTHING that I could! When they did things with their dad, I was right there most of the time! They raised animals and rode horses! I was there because I grew up doing those things as well!! Now that I box, my grandson is evolved with boxing to! We also just planted a garden! TO ALL OF YOU, MAKE THE BEST OUT OF LIFE AND POUR EVERY HEALTHY AND MEANINGFUL INTO YOUR CHILDREN NO MATTER THE GENDER! Turn your bad life experiences into something good for your children!!
I used to hate when my mom used to say.. “I was the mother AND the father!” 🤦🏿♂️
Only Black women say that stupid sh*t. They're so used to being put on a pedestal and treated like heroes for getting knocked up without a husband and ending up a single mother, that they think it sounds cute. Our (Black) community is backward as HELL...
👍 Agreed. It's a toxic response. It's a woman that hasn't tooken responsibility for her share of the bad relationship.
Tell it
Only BLACK women say that stupid crap, because they've been praised for being single mothers so much and for so long that they think it's cute to say.
When I heard my ex say that when I was present step father I knew I would never play a step daddy again
There's a reason it takes a MAN and a WOMAN to conceive a child....because it takes a MAN and a Woman to raise a BALANCED child. Operating as a single parent is operating at a disadvantage.
You nailed it.
Absolutely right
nowadays people are so brainwashed they say the woman give life , but in FACT it is the man who gives his life giving semen. father role should not be deminished by feminism.
@@TheRiduanOppier I always shut my (then) wife down with that "I carried you.. blah blah blah" with "That's cool. But I as your father MADE you. You are MY creation, I gave you life". 100
Actually studies show kids do just as good as 2 parent home kids when they are raised by their father
My Pops wasn't always a great dad, but I appreciate the fact that he was there. He taught me things about life that my mother could have never taught me.
Were you always a great son?
@@jamescarter5041🙄
@@jamescarter5041 Nobody's perfect! The fact that he gives his dad credit for being there IS being a good son. What need is there for your comment? 🤔
@@whitechicacooks5780 He can speak for himself; there is no need for your comment.
Thank you.
@jamescarter5041 Not always, and I can admit that. I met the man at 7 after he was released from prison.
There was plenty of friction between us at the start as I was not used to having a man around the house. My pops was very strict and quick to lay hands on me if I disrespected my moms or didn't complete some random task he set for me.
I was 15 when I finally started punching him back. He had taken me to get boxing lessons a year prior, so I thought it was a fight I was ready for. I didn't usually win fights against him, but I got my hits in. Respect was earned.
In hindsight I look at it this way...as a black man, you will either get tough love and discipline from your father or you will get it in prison. At the end of the day, it's unavoidable.. My Pops made sure I didn't get it in prison.
CHARLES SPEAKING FACTS YALL TOO SOFT TO RAISE A MAN !
It's not about being "soft". They're not qualified. At best, a good woman who is a mother can raise an accomplished male. She can't teach him how to deal with the weight of responsibility (justified and insane) put on men.
More often, she'll raise the type of man she was never into. One that will get used, disrespected etc.
I have a great mother and I love her dearly... she put me in front of real men... they were my football coaches
They weren’t your father. There’s a difference of approach and limitations
We hear you ,….that’s what was available…
@@ShadowbannedbyUA-cam unfortunately. Could have put him in front of male businessmen or engineers.
Facts
Young black boys raised by single mothers, need to bounce up outta her house ASAP and go directly to the military, Marine Corps, especially.
And white boys, Asian, Indian..... not just black!
I 100% agree with that!!! They must join the Military IMMEDIATELY!
@@shannoninalaskaBlack boys are not viewed by society like Asian, white and Indian boys. I need yall stop trying to interject y'all mouth about everybody else when you see black ppl having a black conversation about ourselves.
@@shannoninalaskaBlack boys are not viewed in society the same as an Asian, yt or Indian boy. I need y'all to stop trying to interject your mouth about everyone else, when this is black ppl having a conversation about our own situation.
Get the f*** out of here. We are able to do more than fight in the white mans army and follow his rules for a damn Camaro.
Notice how she had no response.
That means she was listening to him
Y would she?
She was listening, bruh.
@@Debbiediamond0310 because I've seen this man speak this kind of truth on other podcasts and they fought back
She's the host brotha😂.
Women navigate life much differently than men
That's because we have more to navigate, more obstacles and more to fear.
Yall don’t have to deal with the police and the government gives women all kinds of help… they only take from us… women have become allies with the opposition
@@susanplatt5331Why do you assume your path is more difficult? How would you know?
@@susanplatt5331not really.
@susanplatt5331 wrong answer, this here is one of many reasons women should not and can't raise a son nor teach him how to be a man. Look around and tell us why the kids are all messed up, really look around. Who raised them, who?
My husband speaks on this topic but him and his sister was blessed that they had a two parent household like me and my sister had. He also said that some single moms wants their son to be hubsand figures in their life instead of being their parents. Feminism have destroyed the patriarchy and family values in the homes.
Very true. That is why some sons commit suicide because they cannot mentally and emotionally maneuver the son-hubby relationship thrust upon them by their mothers.
I have two brothers and have to agree. I wasn't raised to be a wife and they weren't raised to be men
Phew!! That’s heavy and heartbreaking 💔.
Sams here sis, unfortunately
Sad
I TOLD MY MOM THIS AFTER MY DAD DIED AT 11, NARCISSISTIC MOTHERS ARE REAL
I grew up with a single mom and i can say for sure this is 100% facts. Only thing my mom taught me was Louis Vuitton and Burberry
weeell.. then it's not 100% facts for you by your description, seems he wasn't a "good woman" but a materialistic one 🤔js🤷🏽♀️
She taught you how to be materialistic
My ex-gf 22 yrs ago used to disagree with me about this topic. She used to say a woman could do it without a father. I used to tell her maybe she could fuddle her way through, but should she? She never could answer that.
Me and my two brothers grew up with my dad by himself I'm so glad he was the one that got custody what I've learned from him make me want to be like him or better
SPIT THEM FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
This is one of your best videos brother. I was also raised by my single mother. When I got married; I was so lost that it ended in divorce but I did get myself together by finding great male mentors which led to me re-marrying my wife and building a great family unit. ❤❤❤
All a mother can do is take that boy to be around good men and make his meals. She can’t teach what she’s biologically the opposite of
My dad came and went how and when he wanted. He got to remain the better parent in my mind cause he wasn’t around enough to f things up. My mom was the one who had to take that L as the shitty parent. Had he been around? My submissive mother would have let him dominate our lives with his ego trips. Now the part time version we got from him? Allowed us to experience a masculine in our lives, but it also caused us to blame mom for all then discipline she had to do by herself. Dad got to remain the better parent. And we had uncles cousins grandpas around us so we got to experience all types of versions of men. But when we got a step dad that never left? That showed us that that all that matters. A parent that shows up.
A lot of you forgetting that mom didn’t want to let you go with dad cause his addictions were priority and she wanted her kid to come back in one piece. No molested, not in a car accident etc. yeah, one parent households isn’t the dream. But damn, you looking at anything else but the hardships?
@@itsnotcolby6191why are they having children with drug addicts, etc?
I'm a divorced/single mom after escaping abuse, and I couldn't agree more!!! I am 100% unable to teach my boys how to be MEN!!! My dad has stepped up wonderfully, and I'm now in a healthy relationship where they'll see true manhood in the home on the daily, soon. I'm extremely blessed to have wonderful men in my life, that will help my boys become wonderful men, too! 🙏🏼❤️
He wouldn't have learned to be a good man from his father. Glad you escaped.
@@susanplatt5331 you just heard HER side of the story. since when do women state how abusive they were? it's always the man's fault. always.
the only good news is, at least she recognized she cannot raise a boy to be a man. NO woman can.
Poor men. These single mothers really ruin their lives. Preach!
Look I heard no lies. Look at the prison system and how some men resolve conflict. Of course there are outliers but most men have to make a decision to be a good man and seek out mentorship
CW be spitting FACTS 💯
So appreciative of my father in the household
My father wasn't my biological but I am greatful he chose to raise me as his own. As I get older I understand the sacrifice he has made
Don't just understand it. SHOW (not saying you are not) your appreciation for what he has sacrificed. buy him a new fishing rod because you remember he used to take you fishing and you enjoyed it a lot. stuff like that.
Listen bro… single motherhood SHOULD NEVER BE CELEBRATED. Doesn’t matter if she is the best mother. I mean… her kids should give her flowers for the sacrifice she made. BUT SOCIETY SHOULDNT CELEBRATE SINGLE MOTHERS. This is part of the problem. Because it encourages young women to continue the cycle of becoming single mothers.
SOCIETY doesn't celebrate single mothers...the BLACK COMMUNITY does...
Celebrate? Or support?
No body likes to scrub the toilet but it gotta get done right?
@@itsnotcolby6191
Unless it’s a single mother by uncontrollable circumstances… then yes. I’m all for supporting.
But if it’s a single mother by choice. Meaning carried without being married. Can’t mess with it. Because that situation becomes celebrated. Nope.
@@Che-Guitarra
Exactly…
“Our Mothers are telling us to be the men that aren’t even in her bed”. My Lord. This is the quote of the year.
I thought that & spoke that to my son's father when we broke up 45 years ago..I told him that I could not teach him how to b a man, but he didn't have his father & was only interested in getting for himself, so I did the best I could , & attempted to get him in the presence of what I thought were responsible, honest mean with integrity. But it was only my opinion, of what I thought a man was...this could go on & on ...but I agree with him totally yrs ago..peeps thought I didn't want the responsibility, but one thing was obvious to me..I am/was not a man
Where can i watch the full interview
As a man that has mentored many peoples children(23 years in the army) and volunteering at he YMCA coaching basketball for the last 2 years. I can tell you without a doubt, these mothers ruin some of these boys. These little boys I coach ages 8-11, a lot of them are mood and emotional just like a woman!!!! even in the middle of coaching you get mothers coming over asking 'DO YOU HAVE OT BE SO HARD ON HIM" when I'm giving everyone on the team equal treatment. All I do is shake my head continue to run my program, but I know this. MY SON IS NOT THAT WAY!!!!! Men get in your sons life and if your already there stay!!!!! Because every Monday, Tuesday and Saturday I see the effect of what Charleston said!!!!!
Any young man, listening to a woman is lost
Your mom should of lost you....😂😂😂
FACTS , never listen to them talk just watch what they do and how they act
Merely listening to anyone is poor judgment, I don’t trust what anyone says I trust what they do. When they show you who they are go with that. Actions don’t lie
In the same way that a father raising daughters cannot teach them how to be women, a mother raising sons cannot teach them how to be men.
We make this complex, but it is quite simple.
Yes, a father can certainly instill ladylike qualities and produce upstanding female citizens in a society.
Likewise, a mother can certainly instill gentlemanlike qualities and produce upstanding male citizens in a society.
However, neither can do a thing that only the other can do.
It's almost as if God is shouting loudly that we have such specific roles that a healthy household requires both. 🥴
My dad died when I was 9 she never remarried she tried her hardest to teach me the things my dad would teach me.
uncles?
Damn I'll Just say this hit home for me
Charleston White always dropping gems 💎.
I have said it several times: A woman cannot teach a son to be a man. In the same way, a father cannot raise his daughter to be a woman. THIS is why children should be raised with BOTH parents for balance!!
Yes. I agree.
Fax like a cat raising a dog to send him out there in a DOGGY DOWG world
It's possible to be a real man with a single mother. As long as real men are in arms reach of you then you good. They don't necessarily have to be in the house, but they need to be close.
I can agree with that. My cousin’s Dad died when he was 5 years old. He turned out to be a doctor, but he had my Uncle’s brothers who pitched in and gave him advice and words of wisdom.
Plus, his Mom instilled in him what a good person his Dad was and that he was a successful, law-abiding man. He was a college professor. All of this helped my cousin mentally and emotionally. He steered clear of the gang/thug life and became a success.
Impossible. The best a mother can do is manage him to adulthood, and for there, that now man must get the hell away from her, and through walking the earth, shed her teaching and as quickly as possible learn manhood. Besides school, and television, the mother spends the third most wake time with the children in a female led single household. Fathers don't get a chance to spend that much time with their face-to-face time. Facetime and talking over the phone doesn't count.
@@thespadestable I won't speak for your experience that's your business, and at the same time you can't speak for me. I said that men need to be around. I personally had uncles, brothers and my dad to a certain extent in my life. I don't even know if you're replying to my comment.
@@thespadestable You used the word impossible I wonder why. My oldest brother was in prison most of my childhood. My oldest sister was in prison most of my childhood. My middle brother was in prison most of his life which he died in prison a few years ago. How is it impossible for me to speak to them and for them to let me know how not to go about this. For them to show me in their actions and and their words how to handle mines. For me to see all my families faults and tell myself I won't continue in those ways. Following anyone's way of teaching including men can be just as harmful.
@@chad77657 -
Men "being around" is not men (father/stepfather) being under the same roof as the children. it's the cumulated micro moments that takes place during the week, over the month, over the course of their childhood that shapes them into adulthood.
You're expecting men who don't have a vested interest in children lives to fill in for the value that fathers, in general, are needed for.
And I'll speak on my personal experience. That's the crap my son's mother said to me in person, over the phone, and ramped it up once I filed for full custody of him....What other men could do as we lived in separate homes. Fast forward, I ran out of money to continue fighting her in court, which led to her a year later leaving him on my doorstep because he was about to flunk school with D's and F's and was dumped for me to fix the mess, he's now 31 years of age and doing well for himself, while her son who was 4 years older than our son has been in and out of jail, has 5 children by 5 different women, and life with 40 years of age around the corner, with no high school diploma and being of constructive use to no one.
His own mother washed her hands of him at 19 when she realized he wasn't financially capable of being her son-husband bailout program.
This social experiment has been going on in Black America for the past 55 years (the community raising the boys) and it hasn't worked, nor will it every work.
A woman can’t raise a boy to be a man but if she’s all he got she can raise him and be the example of a the good woman he should aspire to be with if she’s a good woman
Then he's gonna grow up to be a simp
He’s going to be a good woman like her. Overly emotional can’t take constructive criticism.
@@natashka1982 100% Steve Harvey type simp that will be used.
@@natashka1982 Exactly
@@natashka1982she gon teach that boy date women with multiple children, if they’re woman is pregnant with another man’s baby stay, you want to get women give them money etc all horrible advice😂
I raised sons, however I always told them I am raising boys to be men. Develop your character, and your integrity, never allow a women to rule over you, keep a strong heart, and a strong head, love from your heart, embrace and learn self control, never beat a woman, because you were made stronger than her, she is the weaker one. Always be a person of your word because a man of his word is always admired. Never allow sex to rule your manhood, it is just an activity. The rest is up to you. Be responsible and always resort to wisdom, it is one of the greatest things you can obtain in life.
I have said that for years. My friend is a single mother and she surrounded her son with male role models from the beginning after her husband walked out on her and her son. He is a honor roll student, scholarship bound most impressive young man I have ever met because she made sure she had men around him to teach and show him what a man is.
....He will still be lost....educational achievement is done by any gender, being a Man from the home is totally different from men outside the home ...Sociology and psychology in the home is real, especially for young males.
There is still a chance for this impressive young man to fail at being man to a woman, fail at leading his family, and fail at how to choose a good woman that will be an asset to him. Men outside the house can be great influences, but it isn’t the same as a good dad present.
absolutley. ONLY MEN can raise a boy to be a the type of Man he is. IF the man is smart, engineer, about business, the kid is following that path. Mothers cannot discipline. at some point, young boys stop listening to mom but they always listen to dad. Women have NO CLUE the nonsense we go thru as men. Just trying to talk to a sister is hell. No woman can advise a man on how to get a woman. never.
role models are not the boys father. he needs his father.
@NOLAqueen504A -
Women use education, degrees, job title, and material attainment as a qualifier of a person's success. A man who has a good paying job and a degree, but is screwed up in the head, is not a success. Sorry, but we have women with degrees, good paying jobs, but they are screwed up in the head, with no man really wanting to have much to do with them besides sex and fun nights out on the town.
Sorry, but women are nothing more than 17 year olds in the mind inside of a grown woman's body. So, if he impresses you, is not much of an indicator of much.
Nice vid. Been subbed for a grip now. Nice progress! Congratulations.
Thank you for your insights
I have been saying that for the longest time Mama can't raise a man and a man can't raise a woman .
Very much agree I went through this
Never thought of it like that! Very true statement!
Blessed, I had outstanding father figures in my life coming up.
Intentional parenting is needed in the community
"You can only show them how to be a good women."🤭 And sadly, sometimes NOT even that. Are there exceptions to the rule? Sure. But for the most part, boys need their fathers. If that isn't feasible, have good/solid male role models in their lives. This makes all the difference in the world, if we care.
This honestly hurt. I said this to mom. Not word for word... but effectively the same.
That was so powerful and appreciated.:)
Men need to step up and be fathers to their sons and not leave mother's to raise their son alone. A girl also need a father in her life to know what to look for in a future husband.
Well u need to tell women to stop taking the kids away from the father and stop using kids as Ponds like it's Chess ♟️
Agreed. So much bad talk about single mothers but never enough talk about the men that choose to walk away and leave these women to do the job. Many husbands walk away and leave their family in search for something else or someone else they feel is better and easier. They will take on another woman and her children while leaving their biological children to fend for themselves.
@@shadranfranklin7993 Now you know that the majority of women use kids to hurt the fathers. Take away welfare and child support and these women would be more agreeable and humble.
I was told that my brother's dad was my dad also, he was gracious but not around either, didn't find out that she had lied until I was 32, by then he had transitioned, I had 11 uncles and one aunt, all were gone
@@shadranfranklin7993 i think the point is a lot of people realize now these women just been lieing about this to a crazy scale. No accountabliity blame the man for everything is taught to women.
The back drops are hilarious. Shot out to the editor.
A single parent is like a 3 legged dog.
Study says single men make better parent I do believe this as most single parent women always in and out of relation its disgusting cycle of deprevation
Most men don't want their children full time, evidently in many case's, at all. Men will continue to work and give their children to someone else to look after, women are more likely to stay home until the child is full time school age. The perspective is that children do better because they're with dad but the reality is, they do worse, not because only mum is raising them, but because dad abandoned them altogether, is sporadically in and out their lives and makes life more difficult for their mother either taxing her mentally or financially or both.
@@susanplatt5331 -
Most women don't want the father to have the child. One reason why is via child support, those children are a source of income. Another reason why the father's success is tells the world she was an unfit mother; the success of the children is her public projection she wasn't that bad of a mother.
Also, men work more unconventional job schedules than women. I used to work at a hospital, and due to the nurse's 12 hour shifts, it's their mothers, sisters, and cousins who pick up the kids or watch them during their mother's shifts. For the few who are married, they husbands pitch in, with the non married ones having their live-in boyfriend/daddy to one, some, or all the children watching them.
Due to the how the Womansphere works, mothers are less reluctant in providing their sons the same home care service. And women many times don't be feeling watching the man they are dating children....But somehow feel if she's giving the man her poon; then the least he can do is watch her children.
@@susanplatt5331that’s actually false but something tells me you already knew that
Atleast she listened
I agree, but you have to do what you have to do. Who else going to do the job?
Choose better.. find a man who has it together and ask for HELP GUIDING YOUR SONS!!!
What do you mean?
He talked real shit
That was a hard and heavy message for women. I must say it's true. God intended for boys to be taught by their father's or some other good male role model in their life what it take to be a man. BOTTOM LINE, BOYS NEED MEN IN THEIR LIVES FROM DAY ONE! MOTHERS/WOMEN can teach them how to be loving, caring, kind, and respectful in that way, but that other than that, THEY NEED TO SEE AND BE RAISED BY A MAN. TO GUIDED THEM INTO MANHOOD.
That's where the uncles, male cousins and grandfathers step up to the plate.
Facts! Preach! Nuff said.
2:19 your Father should be the professor of the home.
Well if the Fathers are deadbeats exactly what is she supposed to do?
Who chose the deadbeats??
Pick better! Don't chase deadbeat men
A male family member or a coach or a big brother program.
@@raymondomollo6748idiot
Big facts 💯🎯
Yooo those edits are crucial!! 😅
CW needs to be the POTUS!
Common sense...give yourself a gold star!!!!
The flip side of this is when you have children thanking you for removing the harmful parent from the home. Teens are thankful that someone took the time to remove the toxic parent. I listen to the child because most of the time the parents are lying about whats going on in the house to protect the other adult. Ive been doing this so long, Im not surprised by anything a biological parent does to children let alone an adult thats not related. And the flip side, they're many single parents that have success in raising children with no one else in the home..To be bias is lack of common sense in this area. Everyone in this type of situation doesn't have a negative outcome. Only adults with a selfish mindset. Men and women.
Born 1999, my dad had 6 kids, 2 with another woman before my mom, My father supported us all, and my mom through her cancer. If there is anything i can say, is that my mother, from the day my father met my momma in a shoe store back in 1985 my father already had 2 kids, and she still stayed.
My older siblings mother was a party girl and did not prioritize family and her daughters and family. My relationship with my older sisters are almost non existent. My other siblings we had our father in our life to protect us and guide us, and our sisters didnt have that. Im older now and i realized why it was hard to bind with them. The were exposed to abuse and mistreatment because of the men the mother were around and just the lack of guidance and lies spewing from the mother.
Seeing the difference a father has in a house hold (as i became a father in 2022) I have a wonderful life at 25 with my soon to be wife because of the principals my father instilled in me. I found someone who looks at me the way my mom looks at my dad.
My brother is married, and younger sister is engaged! We credit our parents strong relationship for our example!
You guys have made this a great space to share, appreciate this community ✊
speaking facts but no BW gonna listen.
She couldn't even say anything. Because he was absolutely right
CW be hurling 💯 actual facts
I was raised by a woman after 12 years old
So I had a father figure until he was killed. I raised myself. I got into many fights until they figured that I wouldn't back down
When Charleston White..Stars Sounding like a "College Professor".. You know being a 'Single Mother 's ".. Isn't a good thing.😲🤱😲🤱😲🤱
Where's the link to the original video
I choked on my strawberry,
I’m gagged 🤣 I’m sorry that was a read down
WOW!! Speaking truth.
I'm a single father raising a daughter. I can't teach her how to be a woman. The guy on the video has a point. It's challenging for sure
He was right, the truth and facts..
Would like for you to expand on that last part of the video because I had a father like that
He’s right.
This was a good one. Solid.
I don't agree with everything Charleston White says on all his videos, but this message I agree with 1000%
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 all facts
Real talk 🔥
Fellas, get your sons when they get 11 years and older. There is only so much a woman can teach young man. It takes a man to raise a young man. If your in a failed marriage or relationship. Work something out for the kids future. My son mother and myself agreeded when he turned 12 I will have full custody. She raised him good for a child. But i had to teach him manhood, provide guidance and deal with the teenage drama of young man. Ladies can't deal with it. Let them deal with their daughters while men deal with their sons, in a failed relationship.
Yo that is deep. I always thought a single mother like the one I had growing up. Just did the best they could. Teaching me how to be a man isn’t something she could’ve never done. She only taught me what kind of woman she was. Through love and care. She tried
Some fathers who are in the home have been neutered. Like my grandpa, he was not allowed to have any say on his grandsons. (My mom wasn't able to raise us my dad was cast away in divorce) And what was good for us.
Killed her soul…but he’s right. And then she teaches the boy to be emotional. Which is the worst thing a man can be, men have to regulate and hold back emotions not express them.
as a man you don't really have to teach your boys directly if you keep them around you while you do stuff they will just learn
Def agree!
🤯 Damn! He’s preaching lawd have mercy
The painful reality IS ...your mother wasn't a wife 😮
and some of these woman dont want men to have no relationship with there kids
Seek therapy and break that cycle.
part of our therapy process is too stop listening too you broads , now shut up and get outta here 😅😅😅
So true