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This is what the average black woman does nothing new. Now look, she's on the street. I think all black. Women need to be part of the streets, what they belong.
This is true! Don’t go for the I’m married but we not really together because as long as they are still married and you cheat with them your life will be turned upside down. I didn’t know where it was coming from but as soon as I stopped messing with her shit started to get better. I’m scared of married women now.
@@RayStephens-Mr.2U it's the EXACT same thing that happened to me, I was looking real goofy after all of that. Now I wont even talk to a woman if she has a man even if she's not married.
@anthonybates7307 Actions have responsibilities... You're making God sound vindictive...you can't sleep around and not physically and mentally suffer from that...
@@dn30001 maybe with the type of women you deal with. Yall didn't have any men in yall life too teach you how to choose better. No great women examples to show you how greatb women look. If you had either or. You would understand not all women are what you watch on social media. There are many good classy faithful women with integrity. You just gotta know how to pick them.
" If you wait by the river long enough, the bodies of your enemies will float by." Unfortunately for these women when they look in the river they see their bodies floating by.
She said she was his 1st. Then went on to say he couldn’t fulfill her desires… how come she didn’t teach/show ? Because she used it as a reason to justify her infidelity any play victim
I cheated on my husband and i aint been the same since. I lost two babies and almost died twice because of my poor decisions this woman is a carbon copy of me but the part i will never forgive myself for is the pain i caused both my husband and my child. Those men never respected me because i never respected myself and when i realized that and started to change my ways it was too late! Now i live in shoulda coulda wouldaville all by myself wishing i could go back to right my wrongs😢i do my best to be a better mom for both my girls and set a good example for how a woman should and shouldn't behave. Its extremely important that i teach them to love themselves im not perfect but i truly believe we all can learn from past mistakes and become better versions of ourselves. Would i ever cheat again? Absolutely not in a million years i love myself too much for that
@sammyk702 At least until you come across a hard-hitting, 10 inch, pipe laying dude, who will blow your back out.😮😮😮😂😂😂. Then you will be back on UA-cam saying "see what had happen was...."
We all make mistakes. Look to the future not the past and make it great because you can. Don’t look at these comments as people always judge others but never judge themselves. ❤
Cheating on an abusive man sounds like a sure 🔥 way to get yourself deleted. Crazy how in the first video she sounded so remorseful, then turned around and played the blame game
Right. Sounds like she makes all kinds of bad decisions and blames everyone else for everything. Can’t be mad at fire for causing blisters and then get sad when you jump in ice and get frostbite after that smh
Thank you! Thats what i was feeling...in her 1st video seemed like she was saying she messed over a good man & her kids...then 2nd video he's an abuser all of a sudden...y she feel bad abt cheatn on an abuser...? She talkn out both sides of her mouth imo...🤷🏾♂️ And 18 y/o is not a relationship...thats still kids...
@@empressali601not all the way truth are all. Everyone paid for their sins in the Bible including Pual himself but people want to over look it because they don’t want to pay for their sins because they want to live in it. That why the Bible says fear God Almighty because you never know when he says enough. King Saul with thought that. God give him a few chance to do right but he fear the people more then God the pair pressure got him. God took his peace away and send demons. God Almighty didn’t give grace to Judías even though he seek it afterwards but it wasn’t like he wasn’t warned. Pual murdering the saint God people though he repeant he punished him as he said he would stuffer. A lot of believers in the way didn’t trust him and that way most of his teachings went to the gentile. He was beating a inch of his life, etc than God Almighty refused to heal a thorn in his side. It one got away from consequences of their actions not even his people as a whole, losing there land, their Id and scattered across the world.
It's also sounds like he may have been abusive due to her masculine nature emasculating him, but I question her motives as well he was taking care of her, and then for certain he had money and that was good enough for her to say? What y'all think?
@@queenZarae1220 DON’T BLAME THE VICTIM, IN EITHER CIRCUMSTANCE. CAN’T BLAME HIM FOR WHY SHE CHEATED N DEFINITELY NOT BLAME HER FOR WHY SHE WAS ABUSED 💯
i got one for you if a person is so abusive why do a person keep coming back to them after being in the streets, i don't have a problem with women i have a problem with their accountability not all men are abusive but when you have a woman placing hands on you pointing their finger in your face and/ or spit on you.....then when the meet someone else the story is he was abusive......the victim role plays well for women
@@empressali601 She did blame her husband, were we listening to the same thing? She started by calling him an abuser, then said she cheated to get revenge for the abuse, but then also attacked his sexual prowess by saying shes a freak and he couldnt keep up with her. So which is it, was it revenge, or was it because she wanted more sex than he was willing to give her? Whats more likely, he was abusing her, or that she was a freak? By her words she said she started cheating on him at the age of 18. So youre telling me, him abusing her in high school if true, is the reason she was cheating for the entire duration of their marriage? As the man just said, Men will give up their happiness for their relationship, women will give up their relationship for their happiness. I dont believe for a second she was abused. i believe she wanted dick and he didnt give her enough so she fucked other men. The reason why she cheated is because this dude provided so well that she ended up homeless when he booted her out.
This happened to me. But my husband was the cheater. I was the church girl trying to live right. Yet, he left me for another woman. Many years later I am happy and he is living in his car with mental issues!! Karma will bite you!!
I cheated on my husband back when we were separated... 10 days after that but, we was off in on for a while I got drunk and called someone I regretted it the next, day and asked God to forgive me I haven't done it since. I did tell my husband but he still wants to sleep w someone else, cause I did. ☹️ I regret it everyday I wish I could take it back
That’s one I struggle with continuously. I try to not hate and I’m willing to forgive but simply can’t forget. As the famous aphorism goes, those who forget the past are condemned to repeat it. I am a Christian but flatly refuse to equate Christianity with masochism.
Wow! He was a clueless provider who used to stone cold stunner her then just ignored her. That's why she feels very comfortable telling the world how often she cheated on her. Once he found out, the former abusive husband merely divorced her. Why couldn't she take accountability and admit she was a bad 304 wife. Smh
@@katehack1677yea but in the second video she used the same lie many women like her and said he was abusive. She most likely lied about the abuse part. Then she contradicting herself. To take accountability then you shouldn't blame the other person for the reasons like she did. She could of just left the marriage instead of cheating.
How you turn this around. She flat out said she cheated and she don't know why and what was wrong with her. She said her friend told her that her friends were asking what's wrong with her, this man providing for her and treating her good, but she out here doing whatever she wants
Funny how women are always so adamant that they are fully and completely satisfying their partner
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Because usually that's how it goes men are easy to satisfy but it's hard to find a man that can sexually satisfy a women in every way be real lol
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Cause usually that's how it goes men are easy to please but it's hard to find a man that can actually satisfy a women sexually in every way 😂😂😂be real most of them can't even give a woman a orgasm without coming before her 🙄
Right and 85% of them aren't even satisfying their partners or providing the proper loving their partners needs. They feel long as they are laying on their backs then that's all that's needed
Eh... Not necessarily true. Once u catch even the "normal" STD's stay in ur body forever, even after they have been "cured". But... Herpes is forever, too.
-He loved me so much -He was abusive -He was a provider who gave me everything -He never cheated -He wasn't a freak like me All women read from the SAME ol tired playbook. #ItAintMyFault
Something isn’t adding up? He was abusive but she felt bold enough to cheat on him multiple times and wasn’t scared? 🤔 maybe he was emotionally abusing her.
Abuse of any kind affects people differently, especially if you have low self esteem. It's not always easy for abuse victims to just leave. It's hard to explain.
So is he watching the 800,000+ black babies and children that go missing every year for organ harvesting,trafficking, and for their blood??? “He’s “ just watching…. Gotcha!👍🏾
My mom's hubby cheated on her and abused her and me. He remarried and adopted a son and then died of pancreatic cancer, so karma does come back on you.
Sooooooo what about the millions of people that don’t cheat and live a righteous life that get cancer🙄………..idiots and their bullshit tarot cards, karma, thoughts and prayers and zodiacs, litteraly the dumbest people in the world! 🤦🏽♂️
@@iamlegend5190she had no valid reason to cheat because at the beginning of her story she told on her self by saying when they were young she was cheating then and then use the abuse bullshit which I know she is lying because I dealt with females like her when I was young and I can guarantee she was the abusive one who couldn't keep her hands to herself when she got caught in a lie or cheating but he didn't let her get away with hitting so he got his get back and she didn't like it so now her way to validate her bullshit is to label him as abusive so she can get sympathy from people so you have to watch for the little details that are easily missed because horrible people will tell on themselves if you sit back and listen while they talk.
@@kennethhorn97 i didn't say it was valid. She gave the reason that SHE FELT validated her cheating. It wasn't an excuse. It was her reason. No matter how absurd. Excuses are for arguments. She not arguing that she was right. She know she was wrong.
Exactly!💯People do be thinking they know whether or not a person has received karma. I always tell people that’s not their business and to focus on living a good life and let god handle that.
I don't condone violence..although I will say she prolly was cheating and that's prolly what got the paws put on her..even in trying to tell the truth, she telling half truths 😅
She brought that on herself by doing that to her hubsand. I would never do that to my hubsand at all because he's my first love and crush. I would still be there to support him doing his good and hard times like I did before when we wasn't married. If he lost his job, he have other jobs ready for him because I have connections and we have our own businesses together. My mom support my dad doing his good and hard times so me and my sister would do that for our hubsands.
I thought she was taking accountability, until the abuse claims. She should've left as soon as the abuse came about. Just keep it as i cheated, thats it. She really put her health at risk.
Cheating seems to be a whole mess of issues, Not caring, revenge, mistreatment etc......I hear this neglect, feeling alone a lot from women and I can see it as a guy. People need to get back to just respecting and caring for your partner and stop with the games.
WHAT GOES AROUND DO COMES BACK AROUND 💯 I LEARNED FIRST HAND. BUT WHEN IT’S ALL SAID AND DONE, APOLOGIZE TO THE PERSON YOU HURT AND LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND DON’T NEVER CHEAT ON NO ONE EVER AGAIN. IF HE’S A GOOD MAN AND A KEEPER 💯
Yea that all sounds good until the next "risk it all" dude walks thru the door. Then its back to bein the same piece of shit lowlife she been the whole time.
That goes for ever aspect of treating people bad! Is why I never wish any harm to anyone who’s wronged me! Karma will definitely come for you sooner or later.
She's not bashing him she's telling her story and what she went through and what led her to cheat the truth is the truth and man needs to learn from this and so do women it's a lesson in all of it I would say just leave and be done but we don't know her situation we don't know why she stayed but her story is her story
I am going through this now of my wife. I've been married to for 10 years. I just landed me a six-figure job this year and I sank all in all. I am doing pretty good for myself but it is not enough for her. She undercuts me at every corner. I just never felt so alone while being with somebody people telling me to leave. I'm trying to but I stay for my kids
@@lamerveille9186 open your eyes if you only see black women that over wheight. Black men is not in shape either. Most of them die before black women also.
@@lamerveille9186 please don't. Thick is thick. BBW is BBW and morbidly obese is morbidly obese. Thick doesn't necessarily show from the neck up and we don't need these boundaries crossed.
@@Bostonterrier441 Naturally around the world Men die faster B4 wen it has nothing to do with weight.. Let's stop it. Based on stats Black women in USA are at the top when it comes to obesity, I repeat 4 out of 5 black women in this country is overweight
The disrespect for other beliefs, religions and spirituality from you is highly disturbing. I don't think you realize that your last sentence still more or less in a sense, described the idea of Karma.
@@VodooQueen88 there is no such thing as karma,this is an ideological belief by a pagan idolatrous belief,there is only one GOD,the man CHRIST JESUS,every religious belief is false,THE LORD SAID,WE MUST BE HOLY AS HE IS HOLY,EVERYTHING ELSE IS A FALSE WAY
Lol! She was faithful from 15 to 18. No matter how much attention he gave you, it would never be enough. Did you catch that she caught something she can't get rid of?
I'm just happy she's open enough to make this known . I've been telling people, especially married couples, it ain't no joke when you cheat and there are many more women like this who it has affect but they play it cool everytime. Take Accountability, ladies & men
I don’t believe her. Women always spread this narrative and Kevin Samuels always asked women about when did it start and where are the police reports. If she was such a cheater it’s kind of hard to believe her. If she really was abused, I’m glad she got out.
omg - I'm recently married - I honestly can't cheat without looking myself in the mirror with guilt. I had to tell someone I could not even get lunch with them - I've learned to not place myself in tempting situations. I'm a Scorpio - I'm extremely sexual - but I am also extremely faithful.
You should never allow anyone to be responsible for your happiness. But if someone is bringing you pain, it's your responsibility to remove the problem or leave the situation.
So, it wasn't her Conscious or Morals that made her stop..... it was the consequences and her nonbeneficial situation. So as long as she was benefitting, getting her way, she had no Fore sight, and wasnt doing wrong.🤔
Yes that's true but at least good sex brings something to the table that he will miss. Just like if a man's providing for you full time that women will miss that trust me.
Yall ain’t fucking right because if my brains fucked out in rolling over going to bed at 9 in the morning and ain’t waking up to dinner work or I’m getting fucked again
It’s important to wait until you’re ready to be in a relationship because there’s no such thing as someone else giving you attention or making you happy or providing you with basic human emotional needs that a healthy person should come with already.
She said her karma came from cheating like those were her only bad choices in life. You can believe in karma but bad things happen to everyone and not necessarily to pay for stuff you did wrong.
The Bible says you reap what you sow. Galatians 6:7-9 7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. 8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. 9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not If you sow evil you will reap evil and if you sow good you will reap good. Gods word does NOT come back void. Isaiah 55:11- so shall My word be that goeth forth out of My mouth: It shall not return unto Me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it
unpopular comment: Boyfriend/Girlfriend relationships aren't actually real; meaning they are not legally recognized relationship. they are essentially a verbal agreement between 2 people stating that they are "exclusive" with each other (just like a marriage). However, the difference between the 2 is the actual consequences. And, I don't mean the emotional response that could lead to stalking, killing, etc. I mean the legal consequences, with marriage comes divorce and the splitting of assets; But, with the whole Boyfriend\Girlfriend aspect the consequences are just emotional responses and nothing more (unless they are truly crazy and willing to hurt the other physically; and I'm taking about both male and female not just one gender) I said that to say this: While cheating is a messed up ordeal that can be avoided by breaking up and being honest; Boyfriend \ Girlfriend relationship doesn't truly hold weight. So, instead of treating it like a marriage; treat it for what it really was an introduction to who you were really dealing with.
I agree I have a friend who is dating a guy but she’s also entertaining other men. While they do plan to get married soon I look as them as dating is what she’s gonna bring to the marriage table in any inconvenience. I look at her different now cause I don’t condone cheating culture whether a friend or family doing it
I agree with the last sentence, but overall, I disagree with the post. Cheating is intolerable period. Regardless of whether you’re dating or married. People treat dating way too casually, then wonder why it’s so cutthroat.
So it's not real because it's not legally recognized? That's a Christian belief. Some people have been together for years and are doing great. So, if that's your belief....🤷🏾♀️
@@VodooQueen88 which is cool however if one dies and have no legal documentation that states what to do in the case of their death for there partner then that person is out of luck...also, marriage isn't just a Christian practice or belief; since Christianity and a multitude of other religious practices are based off of tribal practices way before the existence of religion.
@@laztywayne7862 Not necessarily. This is 2024. And things are different these days. There is a thing called common law marriage. My Aunt just went through this. She was in a relationship and lived with the man for over 36 years. Never legally married. He has since passed away. When he died...it took a minute. But she got everything...🤷🏾♀️
I was married for 30 years and my husband cheated and ignored me. He was a great provider. I do miss feeling secure but I happiest with out him. He’s told me several times he would take me back in a minute.
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lol why you keep putting super thick bbw as the titles?
Play stupid AZZ games and win stupid AZZ prizes.
say less
The more you fuck around the more you find out
Damn
😂😂😂😂 this matter is serious but your comment is hilarious
God did not cheat; so he did not sit her down. Her behavior and mindset set her down.
No lies detected. Some of the worst karma I had was when I cheated with a married woman.
This is what the average black woman does nothing new.
Now look, she's on the street. I think all black. Women need to be part of the streets, what they belong.
We can have many women just not the married ones even if you a married man that's why old folks used to say a woman can't do what a man do
This is true! Don’t go for the I’m married but we not really together because as long as they are still married and you cheat with them your life will be turned upside down. I didn’t know where it was coming from but as soon as I stopped messing with her shit started to get better. I’m scared of married women now.
@@RayStephens-Mr.2U it's the EXACT same thing that happened to me, I was looking real goofy after all of that. Now I wont even talk to a woman if she has a man even if she's not married.
Married peoole be the worst sometimes
Them streets ain't nothing nice
you can't say it any other way facts
Believe that
At least she's holding herself accountable. Nasty...yet holding herself accountable.😢
How… she’s creating a story time for views n likes
Too late for that.
Until you get halfway into the story, she became the victim, and it’s strongly implied she was justified.. so yeah..
Please!!!!! She trying be Reesa Tessa..... No more bbw stories for paydays please
@@Taye_Stark it'll be better if she was skinny?
Why cheat just get the hell on
They'll lose the benefit of the man they are cheating on!
Facts
There you go using common sense again. Lol
A Demon
@@darthconquest1046 🤣
Now since she destroyed her marriage, she is feeling the Most High's wrath.
Good! And he won’t stop till he’s ready!
James 1:13,its the consequences of her actions... not God's Wrath,that is yet to come
He destroyed the marriage, but she definitely compounded the destruction by cheating & not simply leaving.
@anthonybates7307 Actions have responsibilities... You're making God sound vindictive...you can't sleep around and not physically and mentally suffer from that...
So True
Permanent injury? That’s what we calling STDs now??? 😂😂😂
She has to use a walker...... she's crippled. Stay in School....
@@terencebyrd1067 why you did that to her bro??? 🤨
Lmmfao yo ass funny as hell boy 🤦🏾♂️😂😂😂
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@@nathanielsingleton6302 Your mom was out of town, getting throat surgery from our last encounter 😎
Im so lucky to have such a special lady in my life for 16 yrs!
you might want to STILL do DNA tests on your kids
@@dn30001 maybe with the type of women you deal with. Yall didn't have any men in yall life too teach you how to choose better. No great women examples to show you how greatb women look. If you had either or. You would understand not all women are what you watch on social media. There are many good classy faithful women with integrity. You just gotta know how to pick them.
@@dn30001😂😂😂😂😂
@@dn30001 oop
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" If you wait by the river long enough, the bodies of your enemies will float by." Unfortunately for these women when they look in the river they see their bodies floating by.
Straight Facts! You your own worst enemy. Absolutely agree 💯
Yesss
So, she's not just a CHEATER, she's IRRESPONSIBLE as HELL, too??? 😓
Dang man. Kudos to her for shedding light and trying to help others with her testimony.
Precisely 👍🏽
Kudos to her for blaming him for being a stinky cheater.
phuckin vagina knights . . . what a surprise 😂
In her supposed explanation, she was still blaming him. 🤦🏽♂️
Right!
You know it had too be his fault why she was outside moving around. But the first video doesn't go with the second video,
@@godsangel67able she’s all over the place. 🤦🏽♂️
She said she was his 1st. Then went on to say he couldn’t fulfill her desires… how come she didn’t teach/show ?
Because she used it as a reason to justify her infidelity any play victim
I cheated on my husband and i aint been the same since. I lost two babies and almost died twice because of my poor decisions this woman is a carbon copy of me but the part i will never forgive myself for is the pain i caused both my husband and my child. Those men never respected me because i never respected myself and when i realized that and started to change my ways it was too late! Now i live in shoulda coulda wouldaville all by myself wishing i could go back to right my wrongs😢i do my best to be a better mom for both my girls and set a good example for how a woman should and shouldn't behave. Its extremely important that i teach them to love themselves im not perfect but i truly believe we all can learn from past mistakes and become better versions of ourselves. Would i ever cheat again? Absolutely not in a million years i love myself too much for that
@sammyk702 At least until you come across a hard-hitting, 10 inch, pipe laying dude, who will blow your back out.😮😮😮😂😂😂.
Then you will be back on UA-cam saying "see what had happen was...."
@@AnthonyMalczewski-d7q are you okay? That’s ohdee!!
I heard a lot of women don't like themselves and that's why they cheat but good for changing your ways
We all make mistakes. Look to the future not the past and make it great because you can.
Don’t look at these comments as people always judge others but never judge themselves. ❤
@@AnthonyMalczewski-d7qyou seriously have to see someone. Who says something like this to another person? Are you Jesus Christ? I didn’t think so.
If I was him I would make sure the children are mine after she cheated
Cheating on an abusive man sounds like a sure 🔥 way to get yourself deleted. Crazy how in the first video she sounded so remorseful, then turned around and played the blame game
Exactly
First she was mad for him beating her. Then she says he couldn't keep up with her. Which is it
Right. Sounds like she makes all kinds of bad decisions and blames everyone else for everything. Can’t be mad at fire for causing blisters and then get sad when you jump in ice and get frostbite after that smh
@@leeolie3728More Like You Can’t Start The Fire And Think It Won’t Burn Yo Ass..
"he wanted things to go his way" is codename for "HE NOT LETTING ME DO WHAT I WANNA DO WITHOUT REPERCUSSION"
Nowadays you got to read in between the lines, because you realize they not telling the full story
Facts
Thank you! Thats what i was feeling...in her 1st video seemed like she was saying she messed over a good man & her kids...then 2nd video he's an abuser all of a sudden...y she feel bad abt cheatn on an abuser...? She talkn out both sides of her mouth imo...🤷🏾♂️ And 18 y/o is not a relationship...thats still kids...
Imagine putting this up on the internet thinking you deserve a partner…
God gives you grace so why not give it to her
@@empressali601she got aids. Do you want that? God gave her grace and she spit on that grace for cheating on her husband.
@@empressali601not all the way truth are all. Everyone paid for their sins in the Bible including Pual himself but people want to over look it because they don’t want to pay for their sins because they want to live in it.
That why the Bible says fear God Almighty because you never know when he says enough. King Saul with thought that. God give him a few chance to do right but he fear the people more then God the pair pressure got him. God took his peace away and send demons. God Almighty didn’t give grace to Judías even though he seek it afterwards but it wasn’t like he wasn’t warned. Pual murdering the saint God people though he repeant he punished him as he said he would stuffer. A lot of believers in the way didn’t trust him and that way most of his teachings went to the gentile. He was beating a inch of his life, etc than God Almighty refused to heal a thorn in his side. It one got away from consequences of their actions not even his people as a whole, losing there land, their Id and scattered across the world.
She will find one
@@empressali601 I’m not God.
Soooo, she was just a Big Ole Freak and dude was a Box of Rocks.
Well a box of rocks doesn't provide.
@@troy028 Sho nuff 🤣
Busted chocolate tunnels
"Simp" is more like it
@@keckchan7156LMAO 🤣
People cheat because…..they want to. End of story. If he was so abusive she could have left him…but like most people they’d rather leave than cheat.
It sounds like he was abusive before they got married. So why marry this abusive man in the first place?!?
It's also sounds like he may have been abusive due to her masculine nature emasculating him, but I question her motives as well he was taking care of her, and then for certain he had money and that was good enough for her to say? What y'all think?
@@queenZarae1220 DON’T BLAME THE VICTIM, IN EITHER CIRCUMSTANCE. CAN’T BLAME HIM FOR WHY SHE CHEATED N DEFINITELY NOT BLAME HER FOR WHY SHE WAS ABUSED 💯
@@valeriecompton777 yeah, every cause has and effect.
i got one for you if a person is so abusive why do a person keep coming back to them after being in the streets, i don't have a problem with women i have a problem with their accountability not all men are abusive but when you have a woman placing hands on you pointing their finger in your face and/ or spit on you.....then when the meet someone else the story is he was abusive......the victim role plays well for women
Women always giving testemonials after the wall hits.
The walls the bricks and the door handle.
The Wall is undefeated.
And some men NEVER take accountability and give testimonials , INSTEAD they just embrace the wall and LIVE IN DENIAL for the rest of their lives!🤦🥴🥴🥴
And men never do 😂😂😂
Lie until their teeth fall out.
At least they bite the cannon and DO speak on it...
She started off honest then immediately started blaming the husband 😂😂😂
She never blamed him. She said she did it because she wanted too. She gave her Own opinion. Don’t knock her reason
She did start blaming him. She tried to use he was abusive excuse.
@@empressali601 She did blame her husband, were we listening to the same thing?
She started by calling him an abuser, then said she cheated to get revenge for the abuse, but then also attacked his sexual prowess by saying shes a freak and he couldnt keep up with her. So which is it, was it revenge, or was it because she wanted more sex than he was willing to give her?
Whats more likely, he was abusing her, or that she was a freak?
By her words she said she started cheating on him at the age of 18. So youre telling me, him abusing her in high school if true, is the reason she was cheating for the entire duration of their marriage?
As the man just said, Men will give up their happiness for their relationship, women will give up their relationship for their happiness. I dont believe for a second she was abused. i believe she wanted dick and he didnt give her enough so she fucked other men. The reason why she cheated is because this dude provided so well that she ended up homeless when he booted her out.
@@empressali601watch the video - she starts to blame him.
She definitely tried to blame the husband in the second video
God don’t play when you mistreat people!!
AMAN what goes around will come back around.
This happened to me. But my husband was the cheater. I was the church girl trying to live right. Yet, he left me for another woman. Many years later I am happy and he is living in his car with mental issues!! Karma will bite you!!
I cheated on my husband back when we were separated... 10 days after that but, we was off in on for a while I got drunk and called someone I regretted it the next, day and asked God to forgive me I haven't done it since. I did tell my husband but he still wants to sleep w someone else, cause I did. ☹️ I regret it everyday I wish I could take it back
If someone does you wrong, it's okay to hate them. I understand how some people may disagree with what I'm saying but for me, it works.
Yo life don't seem to great either ..watching you tube v8does about cheating..yo life must stink to church girl
That’s one I struggle with continuously. I try to not hate and I’m willing to forgive but simply can’t forget. As the famous aphorism goes, those who forget the past are condemned to repeat it.
I am a Christian but flatly refuse to equate Christianity with masochism.
The hell do I look like believing a cheater 😂😂 she’s not sorry
This woman wasn't abused. She's trying to excuse what she did.
Wow! He was a clueless provider who used to stone cold stunner her then just ignored her. That's why she feels very comfortable telling the world how often she cheated on her. Once he found out, the former abusive husband merely divorced her.
Why couldn't she take accountability and admit she was a bad 304 wife. Smh
She literally is taking accountability and saying she knows she was wrong and a 304 and he wasn't. It's unusual. Encourage it!
Doesn't add up @mr.boring_man huh. She is not telling everything
@@katehack1677yea but in the second video she used the same lie many women like her and said he was abusive. She most likely lied about the abuse part. Then she contradicting herself. To take accountability then you shouldn't blame the other person for the reasons like she did. She could of just left the marriage instead of cheating.
How you turn this around. She flat out said she cheated and she don't know why and what was wrong with her. She said her friend told her that her friends were asking what's wrong with her, this man providing for her and treating her good, but she out here doing whatever she wants
She trying to save face between the videos.
Funny how women are always so adamant that they are fully and completely satisfying their partner
Because usually that's how it goes men are easy to satisfy but it's hard to find a man that can sexually satisfy a women in every way be real lol
Cause usually that's how it goes men are easy to please but it's hard to find a man that can actually satisfy a women sexually in every way 😂😂😂be real most of them can't even give a woman a orgasm without coming before her 🙄
Right and 85% of them aren't even satisfying their partners or providing the proper loving their partners needs. They feel long as they are laying on their backs then that's all that's needed
Yeah I laughed at that part. A sexual high horse?
@@Gvhbj 🎯
People, please leave whether it’s cheating or abuse. Both of them are wrong and the worst part is they have kids
If you want to be single then be just that male/female...FRFR!!!
Bingo
Leaving instead of fixing the issue is weak
200000 brain idea bro
@@dslime8095but doing what she did is way worse and it also put her in danger cuz she dont know how he would react.
Permanent Injury= She caught the monster.
Da big monster
Yup
Eh... Not necessarily true. Once u catch even the "normal" STD's stay in ur body forever, even after they have been "cured". But... Herpes is forever, too.
Gross 🤢
What’s the monster aids ?
She sounded like she was bragging about cheating on her husband
Sounded like a confession to me
I was thinking the same and I’m a woman!! Karma has a way of biting you in the butt. Women like her make it bad for good women!!
-He loved me so much
-He was abusive
-He was a provider who gave me everything
-He never cheated
-He wasn't a freak like me
All women read from the SAME ol tired playbook. #ItAintMyFault
Something isn’t adding up? He was abusive but she felt bold enough to cheat on him multiple times and wasn’t scared? 🤔 maybe he was emotionally abusing her.
Every woman on the planet says they are emotionally abused when they are just immature and lack discipline.
Excellent point.
How is something not adding up? 🧐
Abuse of any kind affects people differently, especially if you have low self esteem. It's not always easy for abuse victims to just leave. It's hard to explain.
She a liar anything to make the man look bad this is what women do.
Accountability is ALWAYS their KRYPTONITE
List she was very honest about her life and what she was doing and what she did. God delivered her testimony.
When ppl disrespect their families… they usually ruin their lives. God is always watching.
So is he watching the 800,000+ black babies and children that go missing every year for organ harvesting,trafficking, and for their blood??? “He’s “ just watching…. Gotcha!👍🏾
Live in integrity.....Leave if you are not fulfilled
My mom's hubby cheated on her and abused her and me. He remarried and adopted a son and then died of pancreatic cancer, so karma does come back on you.
I'm pretty sure cancer is not karma, it's just cancer
@@marimarielove karma is karma. when you do wrong by people any terrible thing that happens to you is what people call karma including cancer
Sooooooo what about the millions of people that don’t cheat and live a righteous life that get cancer🙄………..idiots and their bullshit tarot cards, karma, thoughts and prayers and zodiacs, litteraly the dumbest people in the world! 🤦🏽♂️
You call it karma, some say "chit happens🤷🏾♂️" and I call it "life"......
Him getting cancer had nothing to do with him not liking your momma like that
That’s common sense which a lot of people don’t have
At least she holds herself accountable. A lot of ppl blame others
She blaming him for her cheating. Typical.
I don't think she blaming him. She gave the reason why she felt validated to cheat. She owned it.
@@iamlegend5190she had no valid reason to cheat because at the beginning of her story she told on her self by saying when they were young she was cheating then and then use the abuse bullshit which I know she is lying because I dealt with females like her when I was young and I can guarantee she was the abusive one who couldn't keep her hands to herself when she got caught in a lie or cheating but he didn't let her get away with hitting so he got his get back and she didn't like it so now her way to validate her bullshit is to label him as abusive so she can get sympathy from people so you have to watch for the little details that are easily missed because horrible people will tell on themselves if you sit back and listen while they talk.
@@kennethhorn97yo nobody is perfect. At least she admitted to her ways.
@@kennethhorn97 i didn't say it was valid. She gave the reason that SHE FELT validated her cheating. It wasn't an excuse. It was her reason. No matter how absurd. Excuses are for arguments. She not arguing that she was right. She know she was wrong.
@@KyleEdwards-if3poyou simp white knights watch videos like this, but y'all STAY simping and white knighting. dafuq?
She tossed salads 😅
I respect your honesty. Lessons earned and sounds like you learned to be better.
Yes when you know better you do better ❤
Always hold women " Accountable " respect over love.
Facts
👍🏽
No doubt 💯 percent facts
Love IS 100% a choice.
Every decision that you make…. Good or Bad has consequences! Every single decision….has a consequence whether it is good or bad.
Exactly!💯People do be thinking they know whether or not a person has received karma. I always tell people that’s not their business and to focus on living a good life and let god handle that.
I don't condone violence..although I will say she prolly was cheating and that's prolly what got the paws put on her..even in trying to tell the truth, she telling half truths 😅
She probably brought him something back
Ppl cheat. Some get found out. Some don’t.
Tats on face...let her be in her place...the streets
I truly agree
J.R. STOP! The shock and hand on the chest, you hilarious 🤣🤣🤣💀!
It’s not just about what goes around comes around. You weep what you sow.
That's basically the same thing.
She brought that on herself by doing that to her hubsand. I would never do that to my hubsand at all because he's my first love and crush. I would still be there to support him doing his good and hard times like I did before when we wasn't married. If he lost his job, he have other jobs ready for him because I have connections and we have our own businesses together. My mom support my dad doing his good and hard times so me and my sister would do that for our hubsands.
Why this chick didnt leave if she was a abusive relationship i kinda feel like that was an excuse
If he was beatin’ on ya, he was cheatin’ on ya! 💯
So she cheated but stayed to keep his resources ..
Found out my boyfriend been talking to his ex for the whole relationship
All those things happened to her because her husband was probably a prayerful man….wait, wait; he was abusive. Now, I’m confused.
Dam, she had a husband and had the audacity to cheat. Men, we have got to do better when we decide to cheat with stuff like that.
😂😂 some desperate
I thought she was taking accountability, until the abuse claims. She should've left as soon as the abuse came about. Just keep it as i cheated, thats it. She really put her health at risk.
Thank you for being honest.
Cheating seems to be a whole mess of issues, Not caring, revenge, mistreatment etc......I hear this neglect, feeling alone a lot from women and I can see it as a guy. People need to get back to just respecting and caring for your partner and stop with the games.
Facts
I respect her for her honesty hope heal my sister keep god first
WHAT GOES AROUND DO COMES BACK AROUND 💯 I LEARNED FIRST HAND. BUT WHEN IT’S ALL SAID AND DONE, APOLOGIZE TO THE PERSON YOU HURT AND LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND DON’T NEVER CHEAT ON NO ONE EVER AGAIN. IF HE’S A GOOD MAN AND A KEEPER 💯
Yea that all sounds good until the next "risk it all" dude walks thru the door. Then its back to bein the same piece of shit lowlife she been the whole time.
She making excuses, no accountability in women when they cheat, blaming her husband for hitting her to make her cheat.
I just stay single and child free. Relationships are too dramatic.
She not telling what she did to provoke him to act like that see she leaving that part out
That goes for ever aspect of treating people bad! Is why I never wish any harm to anyone who’s wronged me! Karma will definitely come for you sooner or later.
She is so right!
She's not bashing him she's telling her story and what she went through and what led her to cheat the truth is the truth and man needs to learn from this and so do women it's a lesson in all of it I would say just leave and be done but we don't know her situation we don't know why she stayed but her story is her story
You stated this beautifully.
I am going through this now of my wife. I've been married to for 10 years. I just landed me a six-figure job this year and I sank all in all. I am doing pretty good for myself but it is not enough for her. She undercuts me at every corner. I just never felt so alone while being with somebody people telling me to leave. I'm trying to but I stay for my kids
I’m liking this new vibe of yours…
It's not always going to be in public, BUT IT'S GOING TO BE! 😐
JR Always with the thick bbw stories 😂😂😂
Why he alway with the bbw/ alway or some ways to descibe bk women..
@@gaylenecoicou3198 I guess so cuz 4 out of 5 black women in America are overweight (bbw)
@@lamerveille9186 open your eyes if you only see black women that over wheight. Black men is not in shape either. Most of them die before black women also.
@@lamerveille9186 please don't. Thick is thick. BBW is BBW and morbidly obese is morbidly obese.
Thick doesn't necessarily show from the neck up and we don't need these boundaries crossed.
@@Bostonterrier441 Naturally around the world Men die faster B4 wen it has nothing to do with weight.. Let's stop it. Based on stats Black women in USA are at the top when it comes to obesity, I repeat 4 out of 5 black women in this country is overweight
7:05 Did she cheat because he was abusive or did she cheat because he was inexperienced?
This is what we call the anti-mentor. Learn from their poor choices.
I like his approach to topics he speaks on
Bad things happen to good people more so than the bad honestly
At least she's being honest with herself and hopefully she's learning 4 it.
Karma is garbage,that is Buddhist and Hindu ideology,but GOD said,vengeance is mine,I will repay sayeth the LORD
you are talking about what they call a royal flush in poker
The disrespect for other beliefs, religions and spirituality from you is highly disturbing. I don't think you realize that your last sentence still more or less in a sense, described the idea of Karma.
@@VodooQueen88 there is no such thing as karma,this is an ideological belief by a pagan idolatrous belief,there is only one GOD,the man CHRIST JESUS,every religious belief is false,THE LORD SAID,WE MUST BE HOLY AS HE IS HOLY,EVERYTHING ELSE IS A FALSE WAY
FACTS
@@spitflamez Amen
Lol, I promise she is telling the truth. Adultery will not go unpunished!!!
…but not on this video right here 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀💀 i died laughing !!
Lol! She was faithful from 15 to 18. No matter how much attention he gave you, it would never be enough. Did you catch that she caught something she can't get rid of?
Cheating is no excuse for domestic violence just leave
Gotta
I'm just happy she's open enough to make this known . I've been telling people, especially married couples, it ain't no joke when you cheat and there are many more women like this who it has affect but they play it cool everytime. Take Accountability, ladies & men
I don’t believe her. Women always spread this narrative and Kevin Samuels always asked women about when did it start and where are the police reports. If she was such a cheater it’s kind of hard to believe her. If she really was abused, I’m glad she got out.
Exactly what she gets
Really! GOD had mercy on you too! She’s still here tho! Thank GOD for JESUS!
Sometimes it’s the person you’re cheating on to ( could be chosen by GOD) Touch not!!! 😮
omg - I'm recently married - I honestly can't cheat without looking myself in the mirror with guilt. I had to tell someone I could not even get lunch with them - I've learned to not place myself in tempting situations. I'm a Scorpio - I'm extremely sexual - but I am also extremely faithful.
If he was an abuser why did Karma come back and bite you in a big way? Just take the L sis. You messed up bad.
My health and my trust - nothing can replace that!!
Welcome to the real world 🌎 💯
You should never allow anyone to be responsible for your happiness. But if someone is bringing you pain, it's your responsibility to remove the problem or leave the situation.
Say it louder for the people in the back. This so so true.
Now she trying to blame the husband for her cheating
So, it wasn't her Conscious or Morals that made her stop.....
it was the consequences and her nonbeneficial situation.
So as long as she was benefitting, getting her way, she had no Fore sight, and wasnt doing wrong.🤔
Freaky and open minded don’t mean a man still won’t cheat don’t be fooled
Yes that's true but at least good sex brings something to the table that he will miss. Just like if a man's providing for you full time that women will miss that trust me.
Yall ain’t fucking right because if my brains fucked out in rolling over going to bed at 9 in the morning and ain’t waking up to dinner work or I’m getting fucked again
It’s important to wait until you’re ready to be in a relationship because there’s no such thing as someone else giving you attention or making you happy or providing you with basic human emotional needs that a healthy person should come with already.
She said her karma came from cheating like those were her only bad choices in life. You can believe in karma but bad things happen to everyone and not necessarily to pay for stuff you did wrong.
The Bible says you reap what you sow.
Galatians 6:7-9
7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.
9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not
If you sow evil you will reap evil and if you sow good you will reap good.
Gods word does NOT come back void.
Isaiah 55:11-
so shall My word be that goeth forth out of My mouth: It shall not return unto Me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it
I gotta give this woman her props, for coming clean, about her past catching up with her.
unpopular comment: Boyfriend/Girlfriend relationships aren't actually real; meaning they are not legally recognized relationship.
they are essentially a verbal agreement between 2 people stating that they are "exclusive" with each other (just like a marriage).
However, the difference between the 2 is the actual consequences. And, I don't mean the emotional response that could lead to stalking, killing, etc. I mean the legal consequences, with marriage comes divorce and the splitting of assets; But, with the whole Boyfriend\Girlfriend aspect the consequences are just emotional responses and nothing more (unless they are truly crazy and willing to hurt the other physically; and I'm taking about both male and female not just one gender)
I said that to say this: While cheating is a messed up ordeal that can be avoided by breaking up and being honest; Boyfriend \ Girlfriend relationship doesn't truly hold weight. So, instead of treating it like a marriage; treat it for what it really was an introduction to who you were really dealing with.
I agree I have a friend who is dating a guy but she’s also entertaining other men. While they do plan to get married soon I look as them as dating is what she’s gonna bring to the marriage table in any inconvenience. I look at her different now cause I don’t condone cheating culture whether a friend or family doing it
I agree with the last sentence, but overall, I disagree with the post. Cheating is intolerable period. Regardless of whether you’re dating or married. People treat dating way too casually, then wonder why it’s so cutthroat.
So it's not real because it's not legally recognized? That's a Christian belief. Some people have been together for years and are doing great. So, if that's your belief....🤷🏾♀️
@@VodooQueen88 which is cool however if one dies and have no legal documentation that states what to do in the case of their death for there partner then that person is out of luck...also, marriage isn't just a Christian practice or belief; since Christianity and a multitude of other religious practices are based off of tribal practices way before the existence of religion.
@@laztywayne7862 Not necessarily. This is 2024. And things are different these days. There is a thing called common law marriage. My Aunt just went through this. She was in a relationship and lived with the man for over 36 years. Never legally married. He has since passed away. When he died...it took a minute. But she got everything...🤷🏾♀️
I was married for 30 years and my husband cheated and ignored me. He was a great provider. I do miss feeling secure but I happiest with out him. He’s told me several times he would take me back in a minute.