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I forgot to do the question of the day for the giveaway LMFAOO so the question to enter the $100 giveaway is.... Do you like shopping alone? if yes why?:) also what’s your fave skims item? leave ur cash app with ur comment! Anyways, get y'all some skims mama!!!! giveaway winner from last video is $Ladyarcos btw!
Yes it's me time self love matters ❤️ alot and go shop alone go to Starbucks and target 🎯 .If u have anxiety just eat sour stuff like candy it helps a lot
Girl NOOO 😂😂 I hate it so much I feel like I’m shopping wrong in public. Anxiety can never let me win 😭 The simple things people find easy is hard for people with anxiety, SO PROUD of you for doing this on your own! ❤ $COUMBELE
making time for yourself is good for your mental health . Trust me you will enjoy your time alone once you get the hang of it . I don't get no breaks from my children but once in a while i'll go alone and i love it i feel recharged once i get home 🙌🏽😀
I’m your neighbor and I’m usually always at home. I suffer from anxiety but love shopping. I could always go with you and record you while you shop lol
I love shopping and eating alone! I don’t have to wait on anyone to go somewhere I have in mind, I can take my time, and be in my own zone 💗🙏🏼 maybe being the only child has helped too 🙊
I suffer from bad anxiety and trust me when I tell you going shopping alone has definitely helped me with us even if it’s running errands I still have yet to take that big step to go on dates by myself but it’s these little steps that counts love ❤
Retail therapy is the best especially when you go alone, take your time and just honestly enjoy your own company. Your energy is different but in a positive way!! I love it 🩷 love that you’re trying to do different things for your anxiety it’s scary but keep trying!
I used to get anxiety shopping alone but now I love it. I get to enjoy myself and take my time just walking around. You did so good! Keep going Alo! 🤩🥰 I haven’t tried any skims items yet. I can’t decide what I want. 😭
Having anxiety is the worst i literally can’t go anywhere without having someone with me even if it’s a family event 😭😭 I can’t imagine filming in public you are so brave ❤
Girl, I haven’t even watched the video but I’m just so proud of you for making such a commitment for change. I can really see it and I don’t even know you, but I’m really happy that you’re finding your groove and feeling safe to be you. 🫶✨
Alondra , you’re so relatable and it’s so refreshing. I began to have a difficulty with anxiety but even more when I became a mom and wife. There’s so much to get done and several other tasks that it just gets overwhelming and not knowing where to begin cleaning up my messes. Little by little I’ve been getting better at it. Deep breathing exercises and getting a dog has helped me go out for walks and the dog alone has forced me to be speak to people because people really love dogs where I live lol I also realize I feel better when I am not near my phone. That’s what’s helped me :) thank you for sharing your journey with anxiety I enjoy your content very much :)
Alondra, you are truly the cutest girl ever! I understand your anxiety and stuff...you are handling it great!! Love your content!! Sending lots of love to you and your family, from Utah!! 💗
I was just like this 1 year ago 😭😭😭 but I was determined to be able to go out alone! Now I love it 💕 you’re in your own bubble Alo! ❤ start of small then bigger places
Look at you go!! You're so brave for doing this and continuing to take these steps to conquer your fears. We're so proud of you, Alondra!! Keep up the amazing work. 🥺
Baby steps !! It’s so good to do things outside of your comfort zone even tho it is hellllllla scary ! I prefer to shop alone because I hate feeling rushed if I’m with someone who isn’t really into shopping . I love to look at every single item in the store lol. A trick I use for social anxiety is wearing my air pods , even if I’m not playing any music or talking to anyone lol it just makes me feel less alone for some reason. You did great babe 🫶🏼🩷🙌🏼
I been watching you for a while now, and the way you have went through so many changes In your life & getting older gets more challenging to find your style outfits and your personality for your time of age, and when I clicked this video OMG, this look makeup hair and clothing colors nails. Fit you so well. Just know your doing amazing and look amazing ❤️
This was me before,all the time,I even went through a time I had severe anxiety I lost weight and would lock myself in my room,couldnt even spend time with my kids as I felt panick and anxiety attacks,I thank God for saving me,now I enjoy those solo trips by myself .Praying for anyone going through anything mentally,your thoughts can be your worst enemy, but remember you hold the power.
So proud of you Alondra! I get so many anxiety being alone sometimes too! I can only imagine how you feel being an influencer recording and being so pretty! Also by the way you look so pretty with your makeup like that😍 and girl you made me want to get a skims shirt 😂
Someone with PPA I developed agarophobia and girrlllll it’s so hard to go shopping alone even leaving my house! Seeing you do this makes me so happy for you! ❤️
I suffer from anxiety so I know what your going through, It’s not easy. I liked when that little baby started talking blah blah to you. I think he was really saying keep going your doing good. I hope your anxiety gets better so you can continue to do these things.♥️
Omg girl you look Gorgeous i love the layers in your hair it's something I've been wanting to do, but was scared but now l seeing yours inspired, it inspired me to do mine Thanks lAlo I love your videos and get excited when I see a new one. Thanks again, I
I actually love shopping alone bc i take forever looking around & trying on clothes and dont have to feel bad i take long but I do get anxiety if I gotta talk to people
Alondra I feel you girl. Sometimes I go into the store and feel so overwhelmed I end up leaving with half of the things I actually need. It’s stressful. 😣
I have a fear of shopping alone and for some reason, going out wearing my eye glasses and a hat makes me feel 100x better! 😂 almost like I’m incognito lol
I'm a strong believer in exposure therapy, what also helps is knowing that it's you against your mind rather than you against people aka social anxiety. Hope that helps
This video gave me anxiety even tho I don’t have any 😂😂 the speed walking tho good job alo u go girl I love shopping alone best thing no one to bug you or rush you through it!
This was SOOOOO relatable and I feel like I got more anxiety after the pandemic. I do like shopping alone; it lets me focus on something and not focus on people. So I don’t really overthink the fact people are looking at me. Favorite Skim… my thicc ass needs them Spanx to look like you (and I don’t lmaoooo). Thank you so much for this nice video!! As someone that has anxiety; it’s so nice to be reminded that we’re not alone!
So proud of you for going alone! I love shopping alone, going to the movies alone, and eating out alone. The only thing is when I shop I always go when the stores open because I hate waiting in long lines 😂😂
Alondra is meeee speed walking in the store 😂 and I have anxiety going any where alone last week I took myself out I was so nervous but I’m glad i did it.
“Influencers in the wild” 😂 I’m so proud of you! Between quitting smoke 💨 and going out alone. I hope you continue to find your confidence in doing things alone. Also, I hope your anxiety subsides after not 💨 anymore. Letting your body naturally regulate is the best thing.
Yass hate shopping alone too even tho i tell myself all the time Ima wake up early an go shopping but nevver dp 😭 but they're probably staring cause you're so pretty gurllll ! Embrace it 😅❤️🙏🏼🥰
Girl I love shopping alone The reason why is I don't have to wait on anybody else I can do whatever I want spend whatever I want don't have the extra drama and anxiety of somebody else. I find it very peaceful.
I forgot to do the question of the day for the giveaway LMFAOO so the question to enter the $100 giveaway is.... Do you like shopping alone? if yes why?:) also what’s your fave skims item? leave ur cash app with ur comment! Anyways, get y'all some skims mama!!!! giveaway winner from last video is $Ladyarcos btw!
Alo, I like shopping w/ my 👩🏻🍼 🙋🏻♂️🛍
Yes it's me time self love matters ❤️ alot and go shop alone go to Starbucks and target 🎯 .If u have anxiety just eat sour stuff like candy it helps a lot
Yes 😂but im not good at managing money 😢 $CinthiaC24
$CinthiaC24
Girl NOOO 😂😂 I hate it so much I feel like I’m shopping wrong in public. Anxiety can never let me win 😭 The simple things people find easy is hard for people with anxiety, SO PROUD of you for doing this on your own! ❤
$COUMBELE
Starts the target shopping with “my anxiety is not too bad guys” as you RUN through the entrance 😂😂😂
It’s crazy how anxiety works. I get anxious posting on social media, but love shopping alone.
making time for yourself is good for your mental health . Trust me you will enjoy your time alone once you get the hang of it . I don't get no breaks from my children but once in a while i'll go alone and i love it i feel recharged once i get home 🙌🏽😀
Yessss i agree....mamas should be able to get me time at least 1x a week if they can.and it does help mentally
I think some girls dont like being alone but i love it i take advantage when i can .
i love shopping alone with nobody rushing me!! im proud of you alo!
I’m your neighbor and I’m usually always at home. I suffer from anxiety but love shopping. I could always go with you and record you while you shop lol
She’s gonna move after seeing this comment lol
@@pattyv9506😂😂😂
That’s so nice of you! As someone with anxiety it’s sooooo much better when your with a friend.😊😊
Aww I hope she sees this comment ❤
You live in Rosedale too? We should all go ❤
I love shopping and eating alone! I don’t have to wait on anyone to go somewhere I have in mind, I can take my time, and be in my own zone 💗🙏🏼 maybe being the only child has helped too 🙊
Real asf I hate going out alone I get so scared sometimes 😭
I’m proud of you for shopping alone!!
I personally don’t like to shop alone, my anxiety be over the roof girl but sometimes we gotta do it 🥲🥲
4:26 Alondra speed walking through target 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️😅
love the new hair 💇🏻♀️💁🏻♀️❤
I suffer from bad anxiety and trust me when I tell you going shopping alone has definitely helped me with us even if it’s running errands I still have yet to take that big step to go on dates by myself but it’s these little steps that counts love ❤
Retail therapy is the best especially when you go alone, take your time and just honestly enjoy your own company. Your energy is different but in a positive way!! I love it 🩷 love that you’re trying to do different things for your anxiety it’s scary but keep trying!
I used to get anxiety shopping alone but now I love it. I get to enjoy myself and take my time just walking around. You did so good! Keep going Alo! 🤩🥰 I haven’t tried any skims items yet. I can’t decide what I want. 😭
Having anxiety is the worst i literally can’t go anywhere without having someone with me even if it’s a family event 😭😭 I can’t imagine filming in public you are so brave ❤
THIS IS ME!! Even at family events and I’m 23 already
Girl, I haven’t even watched the video but I’m just so proud of you for making such a commitment for change. I can really see it and I don’t even know you, but I’m really happy that you’re finding your groove and feeling safe to be you. 🫶✨
I love the light makeup & darker hair ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Alondra , you’re so relatable and it’s so refreshing. I began to have a difficulty with anxiety but even more when I became a mom and wife. There’s so much to get done and several other tasks that it just gets overwhelming and not knowing where to begin cleaning up my messes. Little by little I’ve been getting better at it. Deep breathing exercises and getting a dog has helped me go out for walks and the dog alone has forced me to be speak to people because people really love dogs where I live lol I also realize I feel better when I am not near my phone. That’s what’s helped me :) thank you for sharing your journey with anxiety I enjoy your content very much :)
I Love the Black Hair and Light Make up fits you so well. Your so Glowing ✨️
Alondra, you are truly the cutest girl ever! I understand your anxiety and stuff...you are handling it great!! Love your content!! Sending lots of love to you and your family, from Utah!! 💗
I don’t like going to places alone but I LOVE going shopping alone it’s the best therapy for me. 😅🥰
been watching you & elsy for years, I love your new life 🥺❤️
The little kid stare omg! Lol 🤣 they always be staring even in church lol.
Go Alondra go! You got this! 🫶🥹
He was looking at you girl cause you’re beautiful. Love when you post.❤
Literally love her so much more now that ik she’s a 🍃 queen
Same ✨
Me too 💕🥰
That’s probably why she has sm anxiety
seriously lol
She's definitely NOT a smoker queen tf 😂
Crazy how you had anxiety filming but you eased mine by vlogging lol I love you
Yes a high grwm !!💖
I was just like this 1 year ago 😭😭😭 but I was determined to be able to go out alone! Now I love it 💕 you’re in your own bubble Alo! ❤ start of small then bigger places
Look at you go!! You're so brave for doing this and continuing to take these steps to conquer your fears. We're so proud of you, Alondra!! Keep up the amazing work. 🥺
Love seeing alo getting out of her comfort zone and going alone to shop. And it wasn’t that bad. Love it !!!!🥰🥰
Baby steps !! It’s so good to do things outside of your comfort zone even tho it is hellllllla scary ! I prefer to shop alone because I hate feeling rushed if I’m with someone who isn’t really into shopping . I love to look at every single item in the store lol. A trick I use for social anxiety is wearing my air pods , even if I’m not playing any music or talking to anyone lol it just makes me feel less alone for some reason. You did great babe 🫶🏼🩷🙌🏼
I been watching you for a while now, and the way you have went through so many changes In your life & getting older gets more challenging to find your style outfits and your personality for your time of age, and when I clicked this video OMG, this look makeup hair and clothing colors nails. Fit you so well. Just know your doing amazing and look amazing ❤️
Good job Alondra!!! Way to work through that anxiety! 🙌
Alo you look so beautiful with light makeup, I love that look on you and loving the dark hair!!!
Alondra your growth has been amazing to see grow !!!!
This is so relatable 😅 love watching you. I also get anxiety going anywhere alone.
Alo, you're always glowing 🙋🏻♂️😍🥰💖🩷✨️
❤ I love that you’re bringing very consistent on your videos Alondra 🎉
This was me before,all the time,I even went through a time I had severe anxiety I lost weight and would lock myself in my room,couldnt even spend time with my kids as I felt panick and anxiety attacks,I thank God for saving me,now I enjoy those solo trips by myself .Praying for anyone going through anything mentally,your thoughts can be your worst enemy, but remember you hold the power.
So proud of you Alondra! I get so many anxiety being alone sometimes too! I can only imagine how you feel being an influencer recording and being so pretty! Also by the way you look so pretty with your makeup like that😍 and girl you made me want to get a skims shirt 😂
as a person with anxiety, sitting in the car deciding if ur gna get out or not is SO real! thank you for being so transparent with us Alo🥺💗
Someone with PPA I developed agarophobia and girrlllll it’s so hard to go shopping alone even leaving my house! Seeing you do this makes me so happy for you! ❤️
Love you Alo we miss you here on YT thanks for taking us shopping with you now I know what to pick up next time I’m at target for just one thing 🤗😊
Me as a scorpio not wanting to go alone to the store 😂
Girl this is me as well with 2 kids gives me so much anxiety but I don’t think I could ever do this alone , those skims shirt look cute
I suffer from anxiety so I know what your going through, It’s not easy. I liked when that little baby started talking blah blah to you. I think he was really saying keep going your doing good. I hope your anxiety gets better so you can continue to do these things.♥️
I get anxiety while shopping too, you’re not alone. You’re one of my fav vlogers bc you’re real.
I love the darker hair and lighter makeup! ❤❤
You did good girl!Love your videos QUEEN! ❤
I love shopping / eating out alone. Being an able to spend my alone time is an important part of taking care of my mental health.
Omg girl you look Gorgeous i love the layers in your hair it's something I've been wanting to do, but was scared but now l seeing yours inspired, it inspired me to do mine Thanks lAlo I love your videos and get excited when I see a new one. Thanks again, I
I actually love shopping alone bc i take forever looking around & trying on clothes and dont have to feel bad i take long but I do get anxiety if I gotta talk to people
I love this type of vlogs!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
I loveeee your makeup here the natural and more lighter lips and lashes
I hate shopping alone it’s just not the same 😂
Omgee 😮😊 that skims color is so cute I can’t wait to get my hands on that color
Esoooo!!! So proud of you! ❤
Alondra I feel you girl.
Sometimes I go into the store and feel so overwhelmed I end up leaving with half of the things I actually need.
It’s stressful. 😣
Alo, I ❤ you and I ❤ it when you post your videos, and I can't wait to see post another one 🙋🏻♂️🫶🏻🙌🏻📹💻❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
First off you are so beautiful and that’s probably why people stare. Second no peer pressure but omg yes please do a GWRM vlog lit! Love ya girl!
I have a fear of shopping alone and for some reason, going out wearing my eye glasses and a hat makes me feel 100x better! 😂 almost like I’m incognito lol
You're doing good. Taking baby steps and knowing your limit is key.
Beautiful family!!!❤
I'm a strong believer in exposure therapy, what also helps is knowing that it's you against your mind rather than you against people aka social anxiety. Hope that helps
Hey girl you actually pulled it off . Good job. It'll get easier. 🎉 Keep up the good work ❤
Holddddd onnnn u smoked 🍃 this wholeeee time, why did u hide this from us queen 😫💘
Agreee! Love you even more ✨💜
Girl Burlington be having the cutest chairss!!😍
Your makeup looks so gooood
OKAAYYYYY SKIMS SPONSORED LOVE IT 😭💕
Please do more videos like this, we love it 🖤♥️
I LOVEEEEEE those shave oils leaves my legs so so so soft 🥰
tha title of the video I definitely felt 😂.. I feel socially awkward going shopping by myself lol
This video gave me anxiety even tho I don’t have any 😂😂 the speed walking tho good job alo u go girl
I love shopping alone best thing no one to bug you or rush you through it!
Girl you look so good 👀🩷🩷🩷
I love shopping alone cuz no one is rushing me 😂 and the cozy skims pants are the best !!
The baby saying bye to you awww ❤❤❤
Definitely need to try those skims tops 😍😍😍 do a video of trying secret menus from a lot places ! 🤭
This was SOOOOO relatable and I feel like I got more anxiety after the pandemic.
I do like shopping alone; it lets me focus on something and not focus on people. So I don’t really overthink the fact people are looking at me.
Favorite Skim… my thicc ass needs them Spanx to look like you (and I don’t lmaoooo).
Thank you so much for this nice video!! As someone that has anxiety; it’s so nice to be reminded that we’re not alone!
Alo this look on you is a 10/10!!!
Love shopping alone it’s me time!!! Target runs with a Starbucks in hand ❤😊
Babe wake up Alondra posted another video 🤩 You’re glowing
ILY so much ur video are so fun 🥰🥰❤️
Omg same 😫
❤ your not alone Alondra
This makeup suits you, you look GORGEOUS.
I can totally relate. I be flying thru the stores cause my anxiety kicks in instantly!
Good job, Alondra! You did it. You got it, girl. No worries. 👍
So proud of you for going alone! I love shopping alone, going to the movies alone, and eating out alone. The only thing is when I shop I always go when the stores open because I hate waiting in long lines 😂😂
It’s nice having alone time sometimes mayb grab a coffee and lunch before shopping maybe get a pedi self care day then shop ❤
I loooove shopping alone because I can look at every single little item lol without feeling rushed!!!
Lmao you were SPEEDING through the aisles that how you know you have anxiety 😅❤ Love youuu!
Its always a good day when Alondra posts a new video🥹💗
Alondra is meeee speed walking in the store 😂 and I have anxiety going any where alone last week I took myself out I was so nervous but I’m glad i did it.
I love these kinds of videos! You should try TJ max or Marshals or Burlington for dusty pink chairs for your vanity.
My comfort UA-camr I love you
You did good Alo‼️🤍 You had me laughing ( Mc gang bang burger) 🍔😂💀
“Influencers in the wild” 😂 I’m so proud of you! Between quitting smoke 💨 and going out alone. I hope you continue to find your confidence in doing things alone. Also, I hope your anxiety subsides after not 💨 anymore. Letting your body naturally regulate is the best thing.
Alo have you ever talked about your lash line and how you started??
❤ you can do it!❤
Yass hate shopping alone too even tho i tell myself all the time Ima wake up early an go shopping but nevver dp 😭 but they're probably staring cause you're so pretty gurllll ! Embrace it 😅❤️🙏🏼🥰
literally me a year ago but now I loveee going out alone so proud of you thoooo! 🫶🏼
Girl I love shopping alone The reason why is I don't have to wait on anybody else I can do whatever I want spend whatever I want don't have the extra drama and anxiety of somebody else. I find it very peaceful.