Leaving Da’wah, Losing Friends & Self-Development | Really & Truly Podcast | Ep1

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  • Опубліковано 3 сер 2024
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  • @idrisi8352
    @idrisi8352 Рік тому +7

    I’ve noticed I tend to be overly loyal to people and it can get you feeling really lost and empty after because investing so much in someone else rather than yourself is harmful. However I wouldn’t say it’s always better to be by yourself, having connections is important in life and meeting one person can open many doors (by the will of Allah swt). Like for example one can find marriage through a friend etc.

  • @AbuAnkabut
    @AbuAnkabut Рік тому +5

    Allahuma BARIK
    I am currently on the same journey as you my brother
    And it has defiantly been a humbling experience
    Sometimes we need time to ourselves to perfect ourselves before we perfect others.

  • @jamilayasmin4165
    @jamilayasmin4165 Рік тому +6

    Your videos helped me a lot, you had the answers to my questions, I can relate a lot, because half of the things u mention I go through it. Subahanallah, i needed this at this very minute of my life because I'm struggling with people who I thought were Friends weren't my friends. 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭

  • @diariesofatraveler2285
    @diariesofatraveler2285 Рік тому +9

    The part where you said you like being alone and being comfortable in your own company , I haven’t related to something this much. Subahanallah
    People who can’t relate don’t know , that we don’t wanna hang around people that do not bring benefit like uplifting us etc , so we find comfort in being alone and truly connecting with ourselves can be beautiful and in doing that we truly nurture ourselves and the kind of person we continue to grow into.
    I also read something that said that when you find yourself alone it’s because Allah(SWT) just wants it to be you and him. So yeah seclusion with Allah(SWT) can be something we should all strive towards to the best of our ability. Ameen
    بارك الله فيك

    • @bushrahussain2361
      @bushrahussain2361 Рік тому +1

      This is so beautiful Subhan'Allah. Thank you for this I really needed to hear this. May Allah bless you ameen

    • @no-handlleee
      @no-handlleee Рік тому +1

      that's beautiful ❣

  • @nafeesiqbal1538
    @nafeesiqbal1538 Рік тому +1

    Allahumma Baarik. So good to see you & hear from you again. May Allah Azza-wa-jal bless you abundantly & keep you sincere & steadfast.

  • @asmrmukbangs9168
    @asmrmukbangs9168 Рік тому +3

    Subhanallah, i was alone by myself for a pretty long period of time. I think, that without that i would never reflect several things so deeply. Alhamdulilah

  • @original_arabian
    @original_arabian Рік тому

    Ma Shaa Allah so relatable akhi refreshing hearing it come from a Brother like you 🙂

  • @Vibez_K
    @Vibez_K Рік тому +18

    Bro don’t leave the dawah.. the youth need you more than ever. Having righteous friends is so necessary in this generation due to various fitnah around us. But being lonely is better than having evil friends.

    • @peshwak9575
      @peshwak9575 Рік тому +4

      Assalamu Alaikum
      I’ll say this, as much as we need people in the da’wah, we’re all going to be resurrected alone. There are du’at trying to guide others and help them strengthen their relationship with their creator but what’s better than strengthening your relationship with your own mother as you came from her. What’s better than strengthening our relationship with the One who created us? As opposed to guiding others to the most beloved. The One whose face is more fulfilling to see than the enjoyment of all of his creation combined and more.
      At the end of the day. What we do with our lives is for our benefit for the most part. Allah is going to ask His slave what he did to please him and give him a reward for that. Jannah is the goal and it being the goal for others, spent from our time and effort comes thereafter. A secondary priority.
      We are raised alone, experience life alone and are resurrected alone.

    • @tarynaliyah
      @tarynaliyah Рік тому +2

      Asalamu Alaikum. I believe what he is stating is that , he’s not leaving Dawah in it’s entirety, he’s starting over from a place where he is happy with himself and his obligations to Allah (swt ) first . When we pour more into others than ourselves , we become depleted. Starting over from a healthier headspace is 🔑 May Allah strengthen us all and keep us steadfast upon what’s right ! Ameen

    • @LionofBabylon
      @LionofBabylon Рік тому +1

      He is not even a daie my friend he isn’t even student of knowledge the guy doesn’t no nothing ‘aki’

  • @WeEducateAndTutor
    @WeEducateAndTutor Рік тому +2

    Here for the ‘losing friends’ part💔

  • @ummqudamah
    @ummqudamah Рік тому

    JazakumAllaha Khairan, I myself am in the middle of a burnout as I try to get through writing of 3 books and seeking knowledge and taking care of my health and minute 8:00 was a real eye opener

  • @gaffa820
    @gaffa820 Рік тому +2

    May Allah guide us all.

  • @samiraadam6624
    @samiraadam6624 Рік тому +1

    Alhamdulilah i totally agree, i prefer to be by myself as im in more remembrance in Allah (swt) hate wasting time which is funny because i used to always like to be around people.

  • @mustafa-cc7cg
    @mustafa-cc7cg 10 місяців тому +1

    The Extreme salafi burnout at play , stridez , dawah man and Abu bakr slowed down too. Abu Taymiyyah is has jumped ship to centrism.

  • @ibrahim_salaou
    @ibrahim_salaou Рік тому

    Please make an episode on moving out inshAllah 🙏🏾

  • @asmrmukbangs9168
    @asmrmukbangs9168 Рік тому +1

    WHERE IS THE NEW REALLYYYYYYY AND TRUUUULLYYYYYYYY- TRULLYYYY AND REALLYYYYYYY !!!!!!!!! I AM WAITINGGGGGG

  • @aminaa4133
    @aminaa4133 Рік тому +1

    Please upload this on podcast apps jzk

  • @user-uy8pg4wv4b
    @user-uy8pg4wv4b Рік тому

    We need brother yarimi on inshallah!

  • @bayaan0003
    @bayaan0003 Рік тому

    Don’t leave

  • @JoyaKMA
    @JoyaKMA Рік тому +2

    Why do you keep deleting your videos?

    • @nafeesiqbal1538
      @nafeesiqbal1538 Рік тому

      I only just checked that he has deleted his videos regarding the 3 question. I found it really beneficial

  • @user-up6mm7ow5f
    @user-up6mm7ow5f 6 місяців тому

    Ive seen this imran dawah man guy cut off alot of friends lmao, i believe allah will hold him accountable for it too, ive seen many things i didnt like of him

  • @joshhazelwood2692
    @joshhazelwood2692 Рік тому +1

    Typical salafi burnout but atleast you are honest about it. Not saying don't be a salafi but as you said surround yourself with experienced older men.