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- Опубліковано 8 тра 2024
- A viral video has started a conversation about boundaries versus bonding between teachers and students.
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I’m a grown man, I don’t want any form of contact with underage children.
I agree, this is why we should ban all sports. It is merely a grooming ground for men who do want that contact.
Does everyone else have to live by your standard?
@evening_streets they should. All it takes is one accusation from a kid "they felt uncomfortable " and it's a wrap
@@Drayonis - true that. Keep children away from the neck beard daddies. And the Religious weirdos. Men who eat candy and cake have sticky fingers.
@@evening_streets your statement tells us you don’t know boundaries.
Unless it's cosmetology class, I don't send my child to school to do hair 🙄
Yep, there are times and places
For that.
Exactly
Period.
I know that’s right lol. But even if it was, he should be using volunteers or mannequins, js
@@ridwanomar5351 it was after all their work had been done and permission granted from their other teachers. They had to be in good academic standing as well.
Its inappropriate. Why are people trying to Justify it?.
Cuz most ppl are morally bankrupt and justify their feelings of when they were young n moving fast to excuse a possible predator
Exactly!!! This is why the bLK community is dumb
Because its innocent😒 because when something really wrong is goin on, you same ppl be quiet asf
they're sick.
Baby mamas are trying to justify it.
Him calling the students his little best friends was all I needed to know about him… Very inappropriate behavior as a teacher
Definitely
Immature
Exactly!!
gordon flowers and co. will be paying him a little visit soon.. sorry to meet you like this , i know you’re a good person…
Right?!? ……..Red Flag all day. 🚩
I doubt any father would approve this.
ion know none .... including me.
/Bklyn👑
The comment I was looking for. Nobody but single mothers would approve of this.
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🎯 no good father would go for this
This only happens in blk schools! I can’t imagine giving one of my teachers a shampoo and a scalp massage before she goes to her appointment. This is so bizarre
This is 100% inappropriate. Those are not your daughters.
Absolutely!!! He certainly did not use WISDOM!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾
Unprofessional, inappropriate and scary that people think this is okay.
Little girls are not your best friends.
He has an unhealthy relationship in his mind with these kids and he is satisfying a need for attention and admiration through these kids.
On the surface it seems harmless but on a deeper level this is actually sick.
I also know at those little girls age having a crush on a young looking teacher and having him give me access to “help” him do something as intimate as unbraid his hair… yeah as a teenage girl I would be dreaming about him every night and claiming him as “my man” in my mind.
That’s teenage girls for you!
of course the kids would not protest. So, It is for the teacher to understand boundaries.
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I agree, sis!
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perfect observation. 👌
Facts
Not saying he’s a predator but most of the teachers I knew that was close with students like this were predators messing with underage students.its not appropriate 💯
Same! Then it’s little touches here and there for no reason, a secret exchange of numbers to text and then after school meet ups and then…. Yeah. This is done very slowly over time. I know it second hand. We have to protect children because of cases like this.
Omg he's definitely not and everyone is worried about everything but raising their own kids
Most of the teacher you knew that were close to students like this were predators? How many predator teachers did you know??
@@05zianne one was a women & one was a man .
@@skyjacksonA1 not saying he is but I’m just speaking from my experience. Me personally I wouldn’t do it knowing how the world. Looks at it not saying he’s wrong but it’s how its perceived.
This is very inappropriate and unprofessional behavior by that “teacher”. It shows a lack of good judgment, common sense, and inability to maintain professional boundaries. He should be disciplined for his actions.
Perfectly stated
Very well stated!
Decipline for two ponytails ? I’m sure they didn’t mention this is an inappropriate no no in his interview or any of the school meetings . Smh
Omg. So a teacher does one thing wrong in your mind so now the teacher is worthless? Because exactly what you are saying when you wrote: “teacher”.
Sorry, that’s a hyperbolic or irrational reaction.
And you awake that schools with this demographic are often starved for male role models and motivation to care about school work. So a teacher is breaking through and now the teacher is worthless? Smh
1. Omg. So a teacher does one thing wrong in your mind so now the teacher is worthless? Because that is exactly what you are saying when you wrote: “teacher”.
Sorry, that’s a hyperbolic or irrational reaction.
The woman on the panel sounds ridiculous. The two men on the panel expressed why it’s inappropriate from a man’s perspective and we should be listening.
Right dumb
Are they IN the classroom getting braids? Nope, don't do it. The classroom is NOT a salon. It wouldn't happen in a white school.
Hmm 🤔 that’s interesting…so are men just inherently sexual predators?
Or are they saying that men should stay away completely and avoid building rapport or bonding because they can easily be accused of sexu@l assault at any time? That’s what I heard these men said.
Listen to what the men ACTUALLY said.
No, it's "people with narrow minds, like you" have issues and are ridiculous" 🙄
As a father i would be outraged! This is very inappropriate in my opinion. Why doesn’t he have boys participating?
Thank you 💯💯💯💯
Does the average boy have any experience unbraiding hair? Are you insinuating something sexual with the gender mention as if a teacher can't be gay?
Yeah, right. You and the ppl who agree with you would be way more "outraged" if your son was doing his or even a females hair.
As a "father" why aren't you homeschooling your OWN child if you're sooo great?
Cause that's gay. Fq wrong withchu?
This woman attempting to defend him when men are clearly stating it’s inappropriate is very troubling.
Yeah it’s eye opening for sure.
I mean I agree with you… but also it’s a little funny because she probably knows just how annoying taking braids out can be and how she’d be grateful for help to… meanwhile the two vocal guys are bald. They don’t know the horror 😂
Because she wanted that relationship with her teacher when she was 15. 🤣
Too much is being made of this! Most of those female students have no fathers in the home and are actually comforted by being able to touch a man's hair. Why aren't we discussing how fatherlessness is creating thugs shooting up the Black community instead? This is just a gossip channel not to be taken seriously!
This is what being discussed point of view. Perception of how you see things. The majority of you guys drage the women for agreeing with the teacher. And she did not. She gave back reference meaning this teach has done things before and let school know. Also if the parents of the students in the video knew this was happening and ok with. Then who is she not to be ok with it. But if not she don't feel that's okay. That's why she said she is in the middle. Which means she is not with him on this if he did not get the permission of the parents and school.
Other people's kids touching a strangers hair is not what kids go to school for. This is not up for debate. This is unacceptable period.
He's not a stranger he's their teacher
Very much so unacceptable 🤦🏾♀️
@@PRETTYBROWNEYES1982A teacher is a stranger. Students shouldn’t be intimate and familiar with their teachers. There needs to be boundaries to maintain professionalism.
@@maribelle7673 Sometime kids see their teachers more than their parents.
@@maribelle7673stranger?
As a grown man why do you want these little girls, that are your students doing your hair in the classroom? Why don’t you consider that invading your personal space? He’s creepy
Period
As a teacher I see bLK men acting extremely inappropriate with children! Maybe it’s the culture! Try to be cool!! As a teacher the majority would never act like this, but I see bLK teachers act like this all the time
Too much is being made of this! Most of those female students have no fathers in the home and are actually comforted by being able to touch a man's hair. Why aren't we discussing how fatherlessness is creating thugs shooting up the Black community instead? This is just a gossip channel not to be taken seriously!
Exactly
Talking about he’s a video creator
Does it matter if the parents are okay with it? Does that make it right? Parents allows bad stuff to happen to their kids everyday
Yup there are a lot of dumb parents who make poor decisions
Exactly did parents okay they kids to go with rkelly
Period
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Lady stop trying to make excuses for that grown man’s poor judgment.
Even if their parents allow it, use your common sense.
Exactly
@@marikahopgood8862 Same thing R Kelly said...the parents bought them too me...Fool shut up
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She is the problem!!! With bLK people face
She is old and delusional and based on her responses here, she shouldn't be around kids either.
I don't send my child to school to do their teachers hair😮
Of course you don't, don't be ridiculous AF. You send your child to school to learn and give them a fighting chance at success in society. And that's the expectation held by the parents who gave consent as well. And yet a bunch of overzealous people obsessed with perversion and distrust that doesn't exist (and who themselves have never been a part of anything bigger than themselves in society) have destroyed a wonderful educator and jaded the youth he inspired. It's a goddamn travesty.
Period
So you send them to do their friends hair then? Honestly the teacher looks and seems gay and is just trying to be relatable to the girls. It works for him I am sure his class listens and learns because he is fun. Good teachers are hard to find let the man be a positive male role model. When I was in school I had a history teacher you would probably say he was a bully because a girl use to make fun of my big feet all the time and he told her infront of the whole class what size shoe do you wear? He told her leave Akaisha alone and worry about your own dusty shoes. I am 32 and that still makes me smile as a woman with size 13 feet who was made fun of for them even as an adult. Maybe a student in the class was being made fun of for having old braids or her braids not looking right so he was like lets show em you have something they dont skill. Unbraid my hair and braid it up real quick that will shut them up. Also how we know a student wasnt his neice or family friend kid and those are her friends and they see eachother all the time?
@@akaishadouglas8259 Gay men s+xually assault teen girls too! One gay BM is in jail now for harming the teen girls he coached in a cheerleading team.🤦🏽♀️ He he also was grooming teen males too. So.wake.up! Being gay doesn't mean you're not a child predator too.
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She feels it’s risqué behavior, yet she’s kind of okay with it. Nothing with an inkling of risqué should be going on in the classroom. This is 100% inappropriate.
She did not say she was totally okay with it. Try listening a little harder.
@@mizzury54 🤦🏾♂️
@@mizzury54 Be quiet.
@@mizzury54@mizzury54 @mizzury54 I stated that she's KINDA OF okay with it. Looks like reading comprehension is not your strong point. Sorry that the education system has failed you too.
The sad part is she even thinks hugs are okay. I wouldn't mind a hug at graduation where everyone sees it. But in the classroom or any other random place on or off campus... Nope
It’s not old school to not touch students or allow them to touch you. We have annual training about inappropriate behavior/sexual
Harassment/sexual abuse of students.
Parents and others saying this is ok are dead wrong. Smh, awful.
You are crazy as hell, they touched his hair/head. They unbraided his hair, those girls or guy did nothing inappropriate or morally wrong, nothing.
Exactly..I worked in schools before and they made us sign employment contracts stating.."don't touch students, and don't allow them to touch you." 💯 We also had the trainings you mentioned as well. Idk what possessed him to do this, then record & post it online but this was inappropriate & wrong.
As a teacher, I find it a bit too familiar. I allowed my little nieces to “style” my hair. But that was in a family context. Teacher student relationship should have certain boundaries.
Most predators are family members
Predators are also teachers that get to familiar and close with students. Predators exists everywhere this is why people should be more overprotective of kids.
@@AnaJots that dude is not familiar with them kids like that. He got to really trust them kids to let them take down his hair as bl**k man we don't let anyone touch our hair.
I can’t believe this woman on this segment. She’s okay with minor black girls touching an adult male? Very inappropriate. You can see the name of the school on his uniform shirt. He put those young girls on the internet for all the child predators to know what school they go to and know what they look like. He needs to be investigated. ASAP
Amen. This is grooming behavior. Finding reasons to create a physical connection.....normalizing touch between and adult and a child.
@@TEM14411 huh? I was a daycare teacher for years and let the kids play in my hair all the time. I'm a woman and also let the kids sit on my lap, held them etc. I remember my teachers holding me and letting me play in their hair too. You folks are soooo weird and clearly have been through some stuff that has really altered your perceptions in such a harmful way.
@@edj2045 they have sexual trauma and are projecting 😭😭. It’s really not that deep
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Times have changed and the main child predators are those who work with children. We don't know if this man is grooming these girls as others have stated and displaying them for internet predators to choose which one they want. He's surrounded by young impressionable naive girls who could end up in a secretive sexual relationship with him. This Is Dangerous Territory.
This is not grooming. He had permission from the parents and the principal. Is it professional? No. But it's not sexual or having the intent to do something sexually inappropriate. He literally was just doing it for views...he is a content creator.. BUT there is a reason why you don't even call teachers by their first name. You have to have boundaries for different reasons.
Take ya own damn hair down! My nail tech charge to take my nail polish off, my beautician charge me to take my weave down, shampoo my hair and braid my hair. This is not a hair salon, it’s not cosmetology class, and this isn’t a place where my child is sent to do work besides class assignments and curriculum. Our tax dollars should not be paying teachers to sit in class and get their hair done! It’s wrong on so many levels.
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'll do all that you mentioned your hair tech does, for free, for you gorgeous lady 😍
You are correct! This is why they are failing standardized tests and focus on appearance, hair, tik toks, and shoes.
Facts sis. He's a drama queen to the fullest and that video was just a NO!
My hair stylist just went from $35 to $75 to do take downs.😅 My immediate thought was he had them do it to save a buck and make social media content at the expense of the kids!! Even if the parents thought it was OK, which is so VERY WEIRD, it still wasn't professional or appropriate. 🤷🏽♀️💯
And that lady’s mentality? That’s how children go UNPROTECTED and get touched by family members and people they shouldn’t be touched by! He HAS opened the door to getting himself in trouble! If one of those girls feels jealous, they can say something crazy! Everyone in here KNOWS this but wants to keep going past go!
We know she a mammy. As old as she is. Pathetic!
That "lady" is a seasoned and well respected educator. As if these students are "unprotected" out in plain view with parental consent. Mr. White has nothing to hide and if a student were to go manipulative and deviant, he's in a perfect position to defend himself, he's got the MF'n receipts to prove otherwise. Video doesn't lie.
Predators and perverts are a rare occurrence in overall society, those are the facts. Distrust and conspiracy in everyone is a horrible way to live life. Predators can lurk in any corner of society and this is why we teach children "Situational Awareness". Making children despise and disinterested in school benefits no one in society.
Mr. White was making a difference in society, one youth at a time. And a bunch of overzealous people obsessed with perversion and distrust that doesn't exist in any reality have destroyed a wonderful educator and jaded the youth he inspired. It's a goddamn travesty.
💯 She is exactly the type of relative in the black community that is careless and then covers up the harm. It's unbelievably common. And it's sickening.
Said the same thing
Exactly
He is a liability to the district.. in a civil suit against the district the standard of proof is more than likely .. he is in a position of authority which makes it potentially coercion
I prey he was fired...he looked so crazy and sick. What teacher would record kids doing this?🤦🏽♀️ I pray he doesn't work with kids again.
I doubt he actually asked for the parents permission for those kids to touch his hair, probably just for the cameras. He got an inch and took a mile.
Agree. Also in terms of him posting this video on his personal social media. When a Parent gives permission to the school to post their child’s image. No way does that extend to the Teachers personal online account. This is just wrong, he should be reprimanded for this.
He never asked! This is why bLK children can’t read! Never in my white schools would this be acceptable or even normal. I can’t even imagine washing my white teachers hair because he has another appointment! This is ridiculous and only happens in black schools
She said Administrators were ok with it.
If I hear her say he’s not doing nothing inappropriate one more time when he is doing something inappropriate this is not his job title. This is not his job description so it’s inappropriate.
Right
It is very inappropriate they are not in school for that they are there to learn and there are other ways to build relationships appropriately with students…
I don’t see no male students either…just too risky for my taste.
And why are the girls dancing and using their mobile phones in addition to doing his hair? I’d be furious if I were their parents to see that this is what’s happening when I think I’m sending my child to school to study books.
@@RnBReworked- Oh no, a few minutes a day to laugh and joke to create a bond with kids. How horrible. Instead that send kids to school with his no fun and it’s 100% teaching, but the results are bad. But hey, who cares if The results are bad, as long as there’s no fun than online experts will not be able to criticize. Sounds good to me.
I would be LIVID as a parent! Where is the teacher's code of conduct? Also, there are many appropriate ways to build a relationship with a student.
This is too close to personal space.
Please stop Trying to Make WRONG, right by excusing this behavior. Let's Keep a standard for the next generation.
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Unfortunately this the signs of today's world everybody wants to defend the indefensible, everyone wants to make wrong right for some twisted reason.
This is why bLk students can’t read! Never in my school’s and private schools will these be normal or okay besides a blk school
Boundaries! Boundaries! Boundaries!! This is grooming behavior.
You know if y’all stop focusing on the sexual part and simply focus on the professionalism people will listen more but because y’all are too busy, yelling, grooming, grooming, grooming no one can hear you just saying this is it professional will get the job done
@@downbad2874I understand your view but many people do groom children
OMFG. Oh yeah, groomers usually put everything online after getting the permissions of parents. 😂
I guess if he had a class handshake y’all would say that’s grooming because the teacher is touching them so it desensitized them to the touch.
@@iMatti00They put what they want you to see online and do their dirt behind closed doors. What grown man has 100 high schoolers as "best friends?"
Exactly!grooming it is
Society is officially going downhill nothing productive being taught!
“An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure”
While THIS instance may be “innocent”, it’s a huge NO for me. It’s not appropriate and there must be boundaries. This could’ve gone left really quickly but if he was teaching and they were learning, there’s little room for accusations and misunderstandings. Common sense and wisdom will take you far.
Perfectly said 👏🥹 children are the main individuals we need to protect!
I've heard this awful ideology which is changing p3d0toMAPS 🙅🏾♀️
Its inappropriate...............wtf
Why should he be building a relationship with these teen girls
Teen
Because if you are a teacher you would want to build a relationship with your students it helps them learn and understand them every good teacher had good relationships with their students
@@amarianaja-vq4qvthis selective outrage is ridiculous
@@amarianaja-vq4qv so what if one of the teens started to become emotional attached. And start to learn liking the teacher more than a friend. At how relationship began. Then it’s more than one teen girl. Then why is it all girls where’s the video of the interaction with the boys. Im just saying 🤷🏽♂️
@@HiMynameissavage so what if the girl has a crush as long as the teacher isn’t doing anything with those kids then it’s not a problem
This is another example of being to familiar with the children. We are teachers NOT FRIENDS, BIG BROTHERS/SISTERS, none of that! He’s doing a lot!
Oh please ghetto people love to complain ua-cam.com/users/shortsU8AfAAYPsQQ?si=fRjDhp61HqDaB2_j
This is out of pocket… he would’ve been investigated and fired. This is coming from a former school admin! 👩🏽💼
Can we bring back professionalism? Man got tattoos and giant fake diamond earrings on. He looks like a kid.
A man “getting his hair done” not barbered is a no no for me. Men should be doing other things than getting their hair done. It looks crazy too.
A man “getting his hair done” not barbered is weird despite how “normal” it has gone.
😂😂😂
That’s the point. He’s trying to be these students friends instead of a mentor. I had young teachers when I was in school that we considered cool, but the boundary of adult/child relationship was never crossed.
There is an uprising in the black community of adults wanting teens to view them as friends and it needs to be discussed more.
So I guess the teachers that do the students hair are grooming too?
Literally 😅
No one should have to do a child’s hair in class. The parent should have done it prior. It’s not a teachers job to do their students hair. Weird take.
@deeg9498
It depends on the situation.
Every parent is not a good parent
Some kids have been neglected
I worked at headstart preschool, and a black girl had lices in her hair.
Black people think we can't lice they are wrong.
Headstart teachers and stuff went and got some delice for her hair.
Later one of the staff adopted the little girl
You’re comparing apples to oranges. If a teacher fixes a child’s hair it’s an adult caring for the child, which is literally the adults responsibility. Adults don’t need children to take care of their grooming routines.
Yes
Unpaid child labor is illegal. This is work that is supposed to be paid. It is work! He’s saving money and he’s using these girls. This only happens in the Blk community. He is NOT a KANG! If he’s not in jail he’s a saint in that community and can do no wrong. Now me as a student, I would be afraid to say no because now you’re getting cool points in his book he’s going to remember you were one of the ones that helped with his hair if you say no that will negatively affect you.. this is not a part of the curriculum. This is grooming.. we all had those inappropriate teachers in school. We all know them! Stuff like this is why 80% of black girls have been touched before the age of 18!!!!
I agree with every word said save for the phrase “he’s not a kang”. He is a Kang, not a king. Beautifully stated.
This! Even if he’s never had any sexual interest in these students he’s normalizing grooming behavior. It’s the same reason why we tell our daughters not to sit on men’s laps. It’s not always because these men will touch them, but rather we’re establishing healthy boundaries early.
Talk about jaded. Whoever did you wrong and hurt you in life, you let them DESTROY and scar you. I've never read such twisted, pure unadulterated goddamn nonsense. Mr. White is a well respected educator, who has NOTHING to hide and has made a positive impact on countless youth. There are good people in world despite your inability to see and recognize it.
Thank you
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Building what type of relationship???
This is why I want no physical contact with any of my students. It's sad, but I protect ME! Some of them look hurt when I don't hug, but this is the society that we live in.
We live in stupid time, last week i left the train and it was heavily raining and i looked to a girl with no jackets or umbrella with surprise for a second and went my way and there is only one way to go the left side of the street, when she saw me again, she become anxious and went faster and looked back, i looked to my phone was like wtf. Some people are just stupid and paranoid, there is only one to the left or i have to go like 5 minutes straight.
It may be innocent. It just does not look right. Someone playing in my hair unless it is a hair stylish is intimate to me. It feels good to have someone ply in your hair. So this doesn't seem right. Bond another way Mr. Teacher
Very unprofessional, #1 I don't think the students should be that close to the teacher from the Get go
Why are the guests and host laughing? this pisses me off Black people are always joking about things that are serious another reason why we are not taken seriously, safeguarding minors clearly isnt important in America.
Why he thinks thats ok is beyond me
And his followers too. None of them thought it was inappropriate for him to do this. They should have reported him to the school right away.
IDC, IDC that's sexual to me.... Not my child that's sensual do your own fucking hair perd
My daughter would be on serious punishment if I saw her a school-age child playing in her teacher a grown ass man’s head. just wait till your hair appointment. That’s very creepy.
The daughter is on punishment. But what are you going to do to the adult male? Where is the heat for the adult male?????????????!!!!💀
@@WhoAuthorizedThisif I didn't know they both on punishment he said he got the approval so it's half ok ....he asked permission from parents and the principal.....I hate it but if her dad says ok and mom says it's fine than it's fine not my child tho
Ignorant AF. You all don't know a goddamn thing about Mr. White. Just a bunch of sexual deviant, perverted minded sickos in this comment section.
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@ratchetrock6040 That mentality is the problem. "It's not my child" so whatever happens to them happens.
Sick!!!
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse by a childcare provider I am disgusted by people like you who look the other way.
Idiot parents shouldn't be listened to just because they will sell out their child.
The fact that a parent would sign to let their underage child be put on social media says it all.
What is wrong with that woman!? Just like the parents that THOUGHT R. Kelly was HELPING those girls with a "music career..." Yea ok...🤦🏿♀️
I wish I would let my niece ( 9 yr. Old) un- braid a grown man's hair...other than her brother or even her father, but her teacher!?
Yess I was saying the same
@@marikahopgood8862 ...and their teacher? Clearly this woman has no boundaries nor does she watch the news 🤦🏿♀️ The teacher should be ashamed of himself...clearly he's ok with all of it. If it was his daughter, I wonder what he would think? 🤷🏿♀️
She sound like a mammie or BM worshipper!!🤦🏽♀️ These types of women, are VERY dangerous to kids & teens.
Well why does he only have girls doing it
They don't even make sense what you said. No man or underage boy that is straight is going to be in another man's head
Because… girls generally know how to take care of hair + they’ve probably had braids so often that they can do it much faster than him. Not saying they should be doing it at all but asking any of the boys who’ve probably never taken out a braid would take so much longer than him doing it alone. Imagine the knots! My sister is so fast now she can do it one handed while texting with the other.
I know but I know my sister
Totally inappropriate of this teacher. He should be fired!! and never be allowed to teach or work with kids again.
U can’t b their friend because then they lose all respect even my mom is my mom she is never my friend
“He received permission from the parents.” In my past experience working in Title I schools, I recognized that students will work harder to learn when they have established a relatable relationship with teachers. It’s definitely a different generation.
Thank you OMG someone said it.
He actually got fired for this video that the admin was aware of, and his relationship with his students. The Parents gave permission.
So with consent of parents and the awareness of employers, a teacher is fired and out of a job, and looked at as a sick person, because his braids were taken out, and people's opinions from the outside mind you, took this man's ability to provide for himself. Is it really this easy?
I can show you 20 videos (right now) of girls taking out their female teachers hair online.
How much do you want to bet that some teachers didn't even do the respectable thing, and get permission to post other people's kids online doing their hair. I'd like to see that waiver that states "I'd like to post a video of your daughter doing my hair online" but this dude had such a great relationship, it became normal. Like, literally no parent to this point had an issue with him and his bond with his kids.
What now, does this help the kids? What does this kind of attention do because of some keyboard loud mouths, who have the power somehow to destroy the safety to trust in a teacher that cares of all the times that we're living in right now...nope you lose your job for doing a good job and having a good heart. Take a look around at what's happening, we need to keep paying attention. 🙏
Nope. We keep allowing the slippery slope. With too many of “us” there are no standards. Every thing is to be overlooked or diminished. We make excuse after excuse.
More than likely only one parent to give permission, and not to be ugly, too many of those parents allow too much access to their children.
Did he need to be fired? I can’t say, but definitely eroded to be reprimanded. If female teachers have students taking their hair down should be reprimanded as well.
But let’s stop co-signing foolishness.
@@ActionNotWordz He got permission to use them in his social media videos (which is crazy). Not permission to have inappropriate contact with them.
I have also worked in Title I schools. Many children there are neglected on every side. It makes them easy targets for manipulation by adults who should know better.
It's TOTALLY inappropriate for young girls to be stroking and touching the hair of an adult male teacher. There's a lot to consider like the fact that their fathers are likely not in the home. Making it more likely that they could be groomed or taken advantage of.
A middle student of mine was sleeping with a 34 man. When we asked her mom to come in she dismissed it saying she was too busy with her newborn. The man was coming in her daughter's window. This type of behavior was very common and being ignored.
No one is standing up for these children. And that needs to stop.
@@TheEMC99How is this contact inappropriate though? Taking out or doing someone’s hair is not “intimate”. By your judgement you can’t take any child to an opposite gendered hair dresser bc it’s “too intimate”.
@@DojaRat12it’s inappropriate because children go to school to learn! Not to be playing in a grown man’s head! Those are not licensed cosmetologists, those are children! If that man had an infectious scalp condition he could have easily transmitted it to the kids.
Aside from that, he’s exploiting them for free labour. Those children obviously look up to him and he’s taking advantage of that admiration by making those girls feel like it’s a privilege to be doing his hair for free. The real prize is proximity to him, and he knows it. Some of those girls are probably crushing on him and instead of being the adult in the situation he’s taking advantage of it.
If he wanted to reward them with some down time after the presentations, an appropriate alternative would have been letting them play an educational game or taking them to the computer lab for the remainder of class. Instead he decided to use them to make content for his TikTok. He’s blurring the lines that exist between students and teachers to gain cool points on TikTok, but this is at the detriment of the children. Teachers are supposed to be training students to become professionals themselves one day. Is this what we’re teaching children is acceptable in the workplace?
That is why its important for fathers to be apart of their daughter's lives!!!
Now when a female teacher has her male students giving her a breast exam y'all better not say nothing!!!!
Okay!!!
This lady is ridiculous. She has no common sense. Please don’t justify inappropriate behavior.
Inappropriate! Bonding with students? What about boundaries too much closeness. And Im a dad with a 10yr old daughter. H-E-L-L NAW
“Popping pimple of his back” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 funny but he does have an excellent point. The two male parents are correct.
I am with the parent on here. I think it's inappropriate.
As an educator, I have a strict rule of no physical contact with my students ( unless it is a medical situation to stabilize said child while help is on the way). I also make it a rule to never be alone with a student either and if I am the door to my room is open.
Yet he recorded and posted it online to show no malice
@edithart5753 yet he has videos of his male students asking him what type of women he likes. And he said gyat meaning big behind in front of the children. In another video a girl calls him sexy. ITS GROOMING IN PLAIN SIGHT. You don't act like that with children
I get that he wants to bond, but find a different way. That is a no for me. Teach my child please. Call a friend to help you, have another teacher do it for you on a lunch break. Things can go south.
Edit: Oh wait he has parental permission? As long as he has that then fine, but my child will not be among them. Homegirl needs to wisen up. She knows that female teachers get a lot more grace in the touchy department than men.
That is gross!
He should not be around children!!!
Whats next? It's not worth the risk!!
You know what's next, as the man said, popping pimples on his back. Smh
*It’s not that deep y’all are making it DEEP*
Right....most of these people that are on here complaining damn children probably don't tell them anything. The streets know more about their children than they do
Most of them probably got brutally hit to learn by their teachers when they were in school. My parents generation did and they gave b-day whippings in my class room. No outrage then.
AGREED
You the only one on here making sense. Hair is so apart of us, it’s normal to do one another’s hair when it needs done. Taking down braids is simple
Single Mother Babble BS
Grooming at its finest! No kid’s should be touching a teacher or vice versa. I do not understand why every group wants access to our kids and expose them to adult behavior. This needs to stop! We are the main group that will always pay the biggest cost for it in the end.
I pretty much just wrote the same thing. Agree. Agree.
The men's point is on point. Letting students touch you in any physical way nowadays is dangerous for your freedom and future let alone your livelihoods. I used to work at a school and it was a teacher who got accused by a little 2nd grader of touching her. But she was knowned to be a little liar and drama queen and meeting her mom you definitely would see how. I was in shock when 1st heard about it then other teachers and the other security guard there who knew better and was more in the situation told me he was innocent and she was lying. I was a friendly person and cared about showing kids love i didn't mind hugs but after that i stopped hugging and everything except fist bumps and daps. You gotta be careful and aware these days anything can be used against you even if you did no wrong and are lied on. It's sad because its almost as you gotta get a job or career where you can work alone and be to yourself somehow to avoid that like working overnight somewhere or be a delivery person or mail carrier like im about to do.
And you best believe this guy is messing with some of these students on the low
Definitely it’s giving r Kelly
I won’t go that far. He could have a weird fetish or it could lead to that but either way he definitely outta pocket
It’s nothing wrong with it at all you ppl really over thinking it honestly not everyone a bad catcher
He stated there are cameras in the classroom too tell the full story
Might’ve not been ill intent. I’m sure it wasn’t. But it’s unprofessional. Why put your job in jeopardy?
She said its “our mind set” ? Its clear as day a little girl is touching a grown man and she think it’s nothing wrong with that?
It could have been how she was raised because people see clear as day how inappropriate his behavior is.
@@danyelgarcia3689 there were absolutely no boundaries, I understand he wants to bond with the kids and want them to think he cool and all that but he needs to pursue a better image and still be able to maintain a professional environment and stop letting lil girls take his hair out! Period
This is the kind of toxic woman in the black community who protects predators instead of children.
She just wants to be “woke”.
He got fired, sorry but he got what he was looking for 🤷🏾♂️
Well...What did he expect??
Facts.
Parent's permission my a$$
When I was in high school, our gay chorus teacher, Mr White, would have the girls in his office, give them chocolate candy with liquor in it and one of the girls would massage his chest. I always thought that was weird. It really pisses me off now.
That’s so gross and predatory. 🤢
Aint nothin new under the sun.
Ok that’s a little weird
That’s crazy 😳
I'm a high school teacher. This parent who says he does not want his child building bonds with the teacher has no clue what we do in classrooms. I can guarantee that his kids are not very engaged in school. I understand he may not want contact between his child and teacher but the teacher still need to find a way to a relationship and bond with the kids for them to grow interest in the subject and get excited about learning. I'll pray for that man's children.
#youreapredator
Children learned for decades with a less touchy feely warm and cuddly relationship with teachers. It was called appropriate respect for each relationship. A teacher that teaches and is a basic degree of personable is all that is needed.
The teacher was probably trying to break up the monotony in the classroom with something that would get the kids to get up and move around.
"These fast little girls."
Ummm no all around. This is very inappropriate. Teacher is there to educate. Where did he find time to play with a lizard and have his hair taken out by 5 underage females.
She is crazy. He over stepped his boundaries.
Teach them how to WRITE IN CURSIVE. NOT APPROPRIATE AT ALL.
Why are the people defending it black women?!?! Showing no prudence, wisdom and due care for your children. And most likely the girls he allowed to do this are fatherless and therefore more vulnerable for this kind of inappropriate hair.
Did we forget Chicago? Hundreds of teachers being investigated. Many charged after being exposed in sexual relationships with schools.
My husband and I have 5 children, 4 girls. The idea that our girls would play in an adult males hair other than their father's is unacceptable.
That behavior is far too intimate. A teenage girl can definitely misunderstand. This grooming behavior is nothing new.
Cringe.
I feel like in the 90s we would've done this and no one would think twice. It seens like he has a good relationship with his students.
That’s a lie in the 90s this would have still been seen in met with outrage. The only reason it may have slipped through the cracks is because there would not be any Internet or a video to prove he did it.
Also, him being black and being unprofessional would have gotten him fired
The 90s my teachers weren’t like that. If they were cool it’s because their classes were cool. Not because imma be touching their hair. And I went to school in the hood- the teachers were either nice or strict but not touchy touchy
Let’s be honest…back in the day, he would not even be allowed to teach with those tattoos and earrings. 🤷🏾♂️
I'm from the 90s and NEVER did this nor thought to! Our teachers were professionals back then.💯 They weren't trying to film us just to go "Instagram or TIk Tok famous"!🤦🏽♀️ It's something seriously wrong with these new generation of teachers.🤦🏽♀️ Too many are craving to go viral, begging for public attention & likeness & abusing children/teens.💯 It's sickening!
I would be upset if it was my daughter
I had a lot going on at home so it felt nice to hear my teacher to talk with us and show interest in us as people
My substitute teacher braided my hair in afterschool -- two braids. I was like 7 or 8, back in the 90s. She was an angel, pure soul.
So, he got free child labor instead of paying a salon to do it? Honestly, he should be teaching these kids during school hours, not playing beauty school.
The fact y’all keep saying he isn’t doing nothing inappropriate. He is doing something inappropriate. He is having kids do his hair while he’s on the job. This is in what his job titles for nowhere in this is his job description, so yes inappropriate because it’s unprofessional
You act like teachers spend every second of there shift teaching that’s not how it works goofy there’s always down time
This is the second female online persona i've have seen supporting this behaviour, while most men frown at it.
*Why do i have this feeling that women are doing this just to opppse the view of men.*
My expectation is that it should be a no-brainer that women should frown at it, but that has not been the case.
Just to oppose the view of the man no your just saying stuff now the reason that most girls or women don’t care is because it’s not that serious
This is during the school day. Why is this happening when children should be learning???? That’s the first issue. America’s children are at a deficit academically. It sounded like his lesson was restructured to get his hair unbraided. Simple solution change your hair appointment. Mrs. Murray wasn’t clear on the facts surrounding the story. He was not on his lunch break. He did not get permission from parents. He ended his lesson earlier than scheduled to get his hair unbraided. Mrs. Murray was not impactful in this discussion.
One question…why is he only “bonding” with the female students in the class?
That part! Our Black boys are in desperate need of mentorship from Black men. But here he is posting “bonding sessions” on social media with Black teenage girls.
Because males usually don’t care for stuff like that
@@U-TubeAddict They claim ignorance all day with silly questions.
bc most teachers like to create connections with their students
So u want him to have a gay guy do it 😂 oh ok 😂😂😂😂
While rubbing his lizard
😂😂😂
Frog 🐸
😂😂😂
@kaof-1958 sorry didn’t get a good look at it. It’s still a reptile whatever it is.
@kaof-1958dude just looked at it again it is a lot lizard
It is so disgusting to let children touch his dirty hair 😪 😫 what kind of school is this? This is so unprofessional.
I can't believe a woman has no problem with this & she look like she from the old school of teaching.
Unfortunately, Most older black women are lead my emotions and sentiments not logic.
I don’t see the problem with this if he had permission and not doing anything inappropriate he’s building a bond you can literally see so much videos of kids doing their female teachers hair and braiding it but because it’s a male who’s not ugly y’all have a problem
The only thing I can think of is that she thinks he is handsome. Women let a man get away with murder if she is attracted to him.
@@gifi11 why are you comparing this to murder?
@@amarianaja-vq4qv wow..... this is why we don't have the time to be taking out hair in school. What a weird response. "Getting away with murder" is a very known saying lol
Why i the world is she defending this??
4:45 right. He’s opening some dangerous doors. He don’t know which one of them girls may have a secret crush on him. Or maybe he does!
I said the same thing I guarantee one of those girls got a crush on him !!
@@tomeko0762that doesnt matter at all tho… they are kids… crush or not a grown man isnt going to entertain it yall know how many teachers i had crushes on?? 😂 that I literally voiced?? A teacher will reject tf out u make u realize u a kid real fast
@@98slime86 ... What are you talking about? Grown Men entertain students often. Have you lived under a rock for the last 30 years! Just this last 2 months 2 resource (Police Officers) were fired and arrested for "entertaining" 2 female students. Geesh. No wonder society is in the mess were in. Your flesh knows no bounds when there are no boundaries. Not to mention.. If one of his "crushes" decides to make up a lie about him SA her. Although it may be a lie... His career is over. You're thinking like a child.... Not a responsible adult.
@@98slime86you need discernment. Cause wha…. Go back and read your comment again.
@@tam1729 no you need it if you think them having a crush on his matters… even if they werent playing in his hair and they had said crush its been there before it 😂 like i said as a grown man you dont eveb think that way and it aint nun but a word to shut it down fast if he really was a perv i doubt hed be on camera putting it on full display so who really has poor judgement
It is interesting how it's always the most attractive person in the room who is setting up appropriate boundaries.
A lot of people are confusing "inappropriate" with "smeggsual" and because they don't see anything smeggsual in nature, they assume it's fine. No! This teacher's behaviour is inappropriate because it lacks boundaries and is an abuse of authority. Understand the difference. Because the teacher is in a position of authority, there are strict boundaries they must upheld as to not (whether purposefully or inadvertently) take advantage of the students. Why? Because the students may not feel safe to advocate for themselves. Imagine you are at work and your Director asks you to take out his braids (during work hours). How would you feel? Some may feel comfortable doing it, others may feel they have to do it, to keep their job. Unless they are hairdressers, in the eyes of the law, that Director would be seen as contributing to a toxic work environment and could be let go. BOUNDARIES! And that is how grooming easily takes place with people of authority. The authoritative figure uses their position to build trust and emotional connection by slow pushing someone’s boundaries until before you know it, you can’t tell that you’re even being taken advantage of, manipulated or exploited.
Agree with the men on the panel period.
Can we say Groomer. No Teacher needs to build this type of relationship with their students, we have seen how this has ends up. If this was done in the work place with an adult male boss, having his female subordinates doing his hair. That would be considered inappropriate, and some may call it sexual harassment. So why is this appropriate for this Teacher and minor students. Shame 🔔 Shame 🔔 Shame 🔔 Time to start investigating this Teacher’s computer and text messages. 🕵🏽♀️
Now, to my understanding there's a video in which it was explained why this was being done etc....
However in many posts, the video isn't available and all you have if this image....
1. I'm not going to jump to conclusions and assume his intentions are bad but I will say from my optic view and opinion this does not look good even if it is totally innocent..
2. True or False , all it would take is one accusation and his career or more is over. I can't seem to understand why anyone would put themselves in a situation like this even if their intentions are of a good nature...
3. I also believe that people that are saying others are "projecting trauma" and "sexualizing everything" make that point seem so logical but........ They may not understand that in alot of cases (not necessarily this one) this is how grooming begins... Most young people that are violated usually happens in the hands of someone that they or sometimes even the parents trusted
Why is it that none of you stop the first think about is this professional is this is his job description
Teachers / educators and students AREN'T peers so theres a power dynamic going on..so that the first nono, secondly personal space is important to learn at an early age.. and lastly.. those young girls will be fighting over that man soon ( he can be totally innocent in the matter) .. young girls will not do anything like this unless they like him... And we all know this regardless how its dressed up.
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That's a big NONO
No boundaries! Teachers are in a situation where they KNOW they can’t be replaced anymore so they can do whatever they want. If these kids need friends find them mentors. Teach them academics and get your girlfriend to braid your hair. DO YOUR JOB!
You can bond with ur students without them touching u at all .
Hello, I am a Girl Dad of four adult daughters and also a former State Juvenile Probation Officer, Middle & High School Teacher and Dean of Students, this is completely inappropriate and unacceptable, he should be fired and removed from teaching. Anyone excusing this behavior as a father of daughters is out of their damn minds!!!
The fact that we have a Black woman on this panel thinking that it is okay, we'll let your granddaughters be with grown ass men and then when they are victimized deal with it!!!