Unfortunately, this almost NEVER happens. If you're a guy and you're short, girls will dismiss you by just looking. Unless you're filthy rich. Even short handsome guys don't always make the cut.
Man he not only got out of the friendzone but he did it as a short Asian guy with an Asian American girl. That's virtually impossible. He should write a book.
@@ulizez89 You're right. She said some pretty demeaning things about him without even realizing. There's no way she's marrying this guy. She ultimately won't see past his height among other things. She doesn't really seem that evolved. I think she's just biding her time for a better option.
She wants you to do a thoughtful proposal instead of casually asking. If it’s a casual ask, it’s a no/idk. But if it’s a planned, thoughtful proposal, it’s a yes.
That was a hard watch. If he was 6'2" you'd be a lot more eager to marry him-I think you believe that you can do better, and you're tired of feeling inadequate with your friends. "That's why short kings, you always gotta keep it up" is so demeaning; you're saying "being short is such a huge liability, that if you're not fantastic in every other area, it's over." It's really shocking that people are comfortable saying stuff like that out loud. Imagine if a guy said to a girl, "That's why you flat queens, you always gotta keep it up."
i agree with you. If he would be 6" she would probably say yes - immediatly. Its rly unfortunate, that as a short man, you have to do so much to conivce a women to date, be in a relationship, marry you. I guess she just doesnt want short kids ( thats the usual answer i would get as a 5"8 dude ). A bad "Hand" will always lead you to misery - u cant rly win with a bad hand
@@identifesAsHelicopta this combination is not going to result in a short kid. His height is pretty tall for a woman and her height is tall for a man, so that combination with a gender switch normally would result in a pretty ideal height for the Next Generation.
I think you raise some good points though they have only been together for 3 years. 3 years is a decent amount of time but is it enough to commit spending a lifetime with each other? Im not sure with the state of marriage and divorce these days.
@@identifesAsHelicopta height is typically influenced from the moms side though I doubt if they had a boy or girl, that the kid would end up well below average height. People should be grateful to have *a* kid, especially one thats healthy. Not every couples gonna have 6’4 kids
yes it is so complicated when girl is taller, society put lot of doubts along the way, remember love is not lasting feeling it comes to respect and loyalty also
I also heard from my male friends that they prefer s.3.x with shorter girls too that it feels better but at the end of the day if you love someone then you love someone and that's all that matters. Love and s.3.x are two different things
idk why she got defensive when he revealed his honest height of 5'5.5" as if she was getting offended for him. That's an odd reaction when the whole point of this video is to be honest about your height and experiences. Like you taking .5" off your height isn't going to make your bf .5" taller irl.
it’s never a con for a guy to be walking with a taller woman, it is like breaking a stereotype, and whenever I see a couple like that in real life im always amazed , like wow that guy got hellla game or something, kudos to him. To do that is not easy, and taller women are always more fine in general compared to shorter women, in my opinion, DEM LEGSSSS, haha this video was funny, especially the twirling at the club part
I get the feeling that Sandy just wants to feel more settled in life before getting married. Not that she doesnt want to get married to Sheldon because it's clear that she really values their relationship. And she's talked about hoping to have a family in 10 years in a previous video. But I just think she wants more time with her career and figure out what she wants her life to look like before heading down that path. Because once you get married... then everyone starts asking you when are the kids coming?! Lol. Take your time and enjoy your journey. There's still plenty of time to hit those goals. And honestly I know some people in long term relationships that never got married because it just wasn't for them. Doesn't impact their commitment to the other person and honestly saves a lot of money for other things. I enjoy watching you together Sandy and Sheldon. Sending love and support to you both 😊
@@MultiGotch Theres literally tons of data online about it. Why don't you think its common to see girls dating shorter men?? It's obvious those relationships don't work out usually ... I'm not saying anything crazy here...
@@perc-ai ive hooked up with taller girls and thats basically a win on my end, if she wants to go further then cool. I don’t really care if im in a relationship with a taller or shorter girl
lol sandy ended video when the marriage question was getting elaborated. it comes down to ultimately what's your two dynamic in the relationship is. there's people that are married within a year of meeting and together for life yet there are people that are married after 5years then divorce 3 years later.
I'm sure glad my very short Chinese parents put myself and my siblings in tons of sports and fed us rice and beef for breakfast. My older brother is 6'2 and I'm 5'11. My sister is also tall for an Asian woman. My wife is also Asian (Japanese/Filipino) and is almost 5'9. Most of the Southern Chinese guys, from Hong Kong etc tend to be in the 5'6 to 5'8 range while the newcomers from mainland China can often be over 6 feet. My sister in law's family who are from Shanghai has two cousins who are 6'7 and played Canadian Uni basketball. My wife was about to give up on Asian guys due to several of her dates being uncomfortable that she was much taller than them. I'm stoked my timing was spot on as I was getting into my late 30s and now we have kids. I try to do most of the cooking to make sure our kids have similar nutrition as what I grew up with. The western world ain't that easy when you're an Asian male and a short king.
As a short guy, at around 5'7. I can say that it's not as important as it seems on social media etc. I have been married, and dated women ranging from 5'1 - 5'9. Height is a factor for many women, but we don't need a bunch of women. We need the queens who also love our shortcomings (ba dum ts). Being short isn't all doom and gloom. Does it matter? yes. But less than we think it does. The 5'9 girl thought it was cool that I had the balls to ask her out without letting our height difference bother me. The key is being resilient. If Mindy says no, then shake it off and say NEXT! Time to ask Cindy for a date.
@@Mythmx i always thought society nowadays have tougher height standards, as example being me 5'6 SE asian male in 5'5 avg male height country still often called short. maybe not "statistically" short , but doesnt necessarily meet the expectations.
"The key is being resilient. If Mindy says no, then shake it off and say NEXT!" Excellent mindset, no point in wallowing in self pity. Gotta keep it moving
Well in my opinion, the answer to your question "what does she actually mean" is like asking if roses are red or violets are blue. It's not a freaking equation to solve, she just said no because she didn't want to get too obvious and wanted a little special thing you need to do in asking that kind of question I mean make it a little bit romantic (as she have said that you were romantic). You claim yourself as a short king so you got to own it and be a man if you don't find the stereotypes like the guy should do proposal. There is no best time to ask when and where you should do the proposal, if you feel the right moment then do it, plan it if you want to but what you're doing like asking her if she wants to get married and you got your answer already 11:38 and you still have no idea what she meant? It's like a big YES but yeah you will never get the exact answer to that but she will give you hints and signals and us guys are simple and somehow straight-forward kind of creatures. But at least you can find some clues there and all you got to do is look for one and you already got some I believe because you told that she was showing you this and that (weddings on social media platforms). So it's up to you brother, the cards are all yours and like what you said you can't control the card being dealt but you can control the game. Good luck and hope the two of you accomplish your relationship and individual goals as a couple♥ #shortkings
I have to say you guys are so funny 😆 I really enjoyed the video and everyone has their own opinions about relationships and how tall they should be, I am 6’5 and my girlfriend is 4’11 so I look like a giant standing next to her 😳but I don’t care about what other people think 🤔 it works for us 😉
I’m the exact same height as you, 5”8.5 😅 I’ll be honest … I won’t be able to see past the height. I’ve dated someone who was like 5”7 but I just didn’t feel the attraction. I couldn’t help but feel insecure myself because I felt like a giant
The married part you guys will have to talk about for sure- doesn't have to happen if thats an agreement otherwise its just kind of wasting each others time.......
I'm actually quite tall for a Dude, which is funny because both of my parents are shorter than me. Looks like Genetics skipped a generation with my Mum and Dad 😂. So I shouldn't have an issue finding someone shorter than me.
Sheldon is average height and the way y'all gotta milk the shit out of the height difference for content is giving overcompensating vibes. Or maybe he's not as confident about it as he claims. Like the difference is not even that big
He's actually not that short imo. Maybe I'm just biased because I grew up and lived in Asia my whole life, but you definitely shouldn't be putting yourself in a caucasian standard when you're Asian because around 5'6" is the average, anything more than that is just a miracle for an Asian dude. There are some outliers like Koreans, but for the most part expecting a 6' guy here is a standard you just can't attain.
this is so cute...i'm happy for you both that you can enjoy your relationship without succumbing to the bullshit noise that is "societal expectations" and all this crap about heightism...
To all man out there, a successful bank account adds 3 inches to your height.😁Is the man behind the grind. The conviction and motivation of inspiration. keep thriving for your greatness. Success is the best revenge.Be kind and and have compassion to others. Respect and treat your woman and add to her confidence in life as a partner. When you have accomplish all these goals, then height will not be in her vocabulary.
tough watch... Not even for the marriage stuff, bc that's personal.. who cares. But just generally... she is roasting dude the whole time, and his demeanor just feels like he's very used to getting disrespected in life in general so he takes it all.. turns it into a joke.. but the insecurities are coming through anyway. Hope it all works out truly.. and what the fuck do I know from watching one youtube video... but it *seems* like both are still struggling with the height thing in ways that they may not even be being honest with themselves about.
It's not the height of the partners, but personality/emotional level between the partners.
Unfortunately, this almost NEVER happens. If you're a guy and you're short, girls will dismiss you by just looking. Unless you're filthy rich. Even short handsome guys don't always make the cut.
u mean money
@@larryjsmith2767 they deserve each other tho. one is a fkboi, another is a vain girl.
Nah, height is a major factor be fr
Man he not only got out of the friendzone but he did it as a short Asian guy with an Asian American girl. That's virtually impossible. He should write a book.
how so
You do realize most asian girls like and date asian guys right lol
Don't worry, she'll break up with him soon enough, that poor man has his days counted!
@@ulizez89I know .. I was just thinking the same thing ..
@@ulizez89 You're right. She said some pretty demeaning things about him without even realizing. There's no way she's marrying this guy. She ultimately won't see past his height among other things. She doesn't really seem that evolved. I think she's just biding her time for a better option.
5:10 what a W and positive take! And the fact that it’s a girl saying makes it all the more uplifting ❤😂
She wants you to do a thoughtful proposal instead of casually asking. If it’s a casual ask, it’s a no/idk. But if it’s a planned, thoughtful proposal, it’s a yes.
That was a hard watch. If he was 6'2" you'd be a lot more eager to marry him-I think you believe that you can do better, and you're tired of feeling inadequate with your friends. "That's why short kings, you always gotta keep it up" is so demeaning; you're saying "being short is such a huge liability, that if you're not fantastic in every other area, it's over." It's really shocking that people are comfortable saying stuff like that out loud. Imagine if a guy said to a girl, "That's why you flat queens, you always gotta keep it up."
i agree with you. If he would be 6" she would probably say yes - immediatly. Its rly unfortunate, that as a short man, you have to do so much to conivce a women to date, be in a relationship, marry you. I guess she just doesnt want short kids ( thats the usual answer i would get as a 5"8 dude ). A bad "Hand" will always lead you to misery - u cant rly win with a bad hand
@@identifesAsHelicopta this combination is not going to result in a short kid. His height is pretty tall for a woman and her height is tall for a man, so that combination with a gender switch normally would result in a pretty ideal height for the Next Generation.
I think you raise some good points though they have only been together for 3 years. 3 years is a decent amount of time but is it enough to commit spending a lifetime with each other? Im not sure with the state of marriage and divorce these days.
@@identifesAsHelicopta height is typically influenced from the moms side though I doubt if they had a boy or girl, that the kid would end up well below average height. People should be grateful to have *a* kid, especially one thats healthy. Not every couples gonna have 6’4 kids
yes it is so complicated when girl is taller, society put lot of doubts along the way, remember love is not lasting feeling it comes to respect and loyalty also
I also heard from my male friends that they prefer s.3.x with shorter girls too that it feels better but at the end of the day if you love someone then you love someone and that's all that matters. Love and s.3.x are two different things
Where there is no spiritual intimacy, there cannot be ideal sex.
- Richard Bach
idk why she got defensive when he revealed his honest height of 5'5.5" as if she was getting offended for him. That's an odd reaction when the whole point of this video is to be honest about your height and experiences. Like you taking .5" off your height isn't going to make your bf .5" taller irl.
It's because women instinctively want to be with a very tall man.
get a life .... seek attention somewhere else
it’s never a con for a guy to be walking with a taller woman, it is like breaking a stereotype, and whenever I see a couple like that in real life im always amazed , like wow that guy got hellla game or something, kudos to him. To do that is not easy, and taller women are always more fine in general compared to shorter women, in my opinion, DEM LEGSSSS, haha this video was funny, especially the twirling at the club part
I think she doesn’t want to get married but she DOES want to get Engaged
If you popped the question, she would be ecstatic
Engagement is an entailment of marriage, so that would mean still wanting marriage
I get the feeling that Sandy just wants to feel more settled in life before getting married. Not that she doesnt want to get married to Sheldon because it's clear that she really values their relationship. And she's talked about hoping to have a family in 10 years in a previous video. But I just think she wants more time with her career and figure out what she wants her life to look like before heading down that path. Because once you get married... then everyone starts asking you when are the kids coming?! Lol. Take your time and enjoy your journey. There's still plenty of time to hit those goals. And honestly I know some people in long term relationships that never got married because it just wasn't for them. Doesn't impact their commitment to the other person and honestly saves a lot of money for other things. I enjoy watching you together Sandy and Sheldon. Sending love and support to you both 😊
THANK YOU!
sheldon needs a "tallest short king shirt"
The sibling vibe is definitely there. :)
All Chinese girls say that because they don like Chinese dudes. Lol
Yeah, my poor guy has his days counted!
I am 5'6 and I dated someone who is 6'5. The amount of eyes staring at us was mind bogling yet fun at the same time 😂
Are you a man or woman
Ppl forget that he's not just shorter for the average guy but she's also tall for a girl which adds to it. It's not like he's 5'4 and she's 5'2
The fact that this is even a video is craaaaaaazy. Bro leave her
Honestly as a man, I would treat myself well, rather than catering to woman
Damn that bad huh. like dating short guy now people see it like some strange phenomenon to be examined. crazy world
He was only saved because he has a pretty attractive face. He has more dating options than the majority of men who are 6'2
short kings pulling tall woman Im here for it as a short guy gives me hope
she will leave him eventuallly dont get your hopes up. less than 3% of relationships work out where the girl is taller.
@@perc-ai cringe
@@MultiGotch Theres literally tons of data online about it. Why don't you think its common to see girls dating shorter men?? It's obvious those relationships don't work out usually ... I'm not saying anything crazy here...
Well first you need to be in shape, go to the gym, have your money on point, dress well, be charismatic, charming, masculine. Then youll get noticed
@@perc-ai ive hooked up with taller girls and thats basically a win on my end, if she wants to go further then cool. I don’t really care if im in a relationship with a taller or shorter girl
Aww sweet vid! Your bf is not short he’s average height you are above average tall queen, haha 😊 cute couple ❤ but i can relate; luv is love:)
True!! 💗💗🫶🏼
he ain't avg in america
@@danieldancer4065Merica hell yeah
Oh come on. He’s definitely not average height. Average height in the U.S. is like Sandy’s height lol
lol sandy ended video when the marriage question was getting elaborated. it comes down to ultimately what's your two dynamic in the relationship is. there's people that are married within a year of meeting and together for life yet there are people that are married after 5years then divorce 3 years later.
you guys look so adorable together
5'9 for a girl is like 6'5 for a guy. It's damn tall.
More like 6'2 for a guy
I am 5'9
thats reasonable
That’s a stretch
You two are a great couple! Keep the chemistry. ❤
Hehe thank you 💖
Yay short kings rise up (I'm 6'2 idk what I'm doing here)
She's trying real hard, I can tell...
Deep inside she wants a taller guy
Women inherently want feel feminine
If he was short and skinny damn it’s over
I'm sure glad my very short Chinese parents put myself and my siblings in tons of sports and fed us rice and beef for breakfast. My older brother is 6'2 and I'm 5'11. My sister is also tall for an Asian woman. My wife is also Asian (Japanese/Filipino) and is almost 5'9. Most of the Southern Chinese guys, from Hong Kong etc tend to be in the 5'6 to 5'8 range while the newcomers from mainland China can often be over 6 feet. My sister in law's family who are from Shanghai has two cousins who are 6'7 and played Canadian Uni basketball. My wife was about to give up on Asian guys due to several of her dates being uncomfortable that she was much taller than them. I'm stoked my timing was spot on as I was getting into my late 30s and now we have kids. I try to do most of the cooking to make sure our kids have similar nutrition as what I grew up with. The western world ain't that easy when you're an Asian male and a short king.
3:30 MY MAN 👨 👏👏👏👏, HATS 🧢 🎩 OFF TO YOU SIR
@sdy.cheeks probably like tyrion lanaster in game of thrones experience.
clearly she didn't enjoy the first time
She probably doesn’t even like having sex with him
As a short guy, at around 5'7. I can say that it's not as important as it seems on social media etc. I have been married, and dated women ranging from 5'1 - 5'9. Height is a factor for many women, but we don't need a bunch of women. We need the queens who also love our shortcomings (ba dum ts). Being short isn't all doom and gloom. Does it matter? yes. But less than we think it does. The 5'9 girl thought it was cool that I had the balls to ask her out without letting our height difference bother me.
The key is being resilient. If Mindy says no, then shake it off and say NEXT! Time to ask Cindy for a date.
Ur not short ur just the average height then
@@Mythmx i always thought society nowadays have tougher height standards, as example being me 5'6 SE asian male in 5'5 avg male height country still often called short. maybe not "statistically" short , but doesnt necessarily meet the expectations.
"The key is being resilient. If Mindy says no, then shake it off and say NEXT!"
Excellent mindset, no point in wallowing in self pity. Gotta keep it moving
5'7 is avg
5'7 is the dead on world average
Well in my opinion, the answer to your question "what does she actually mean" is like asking if roses are red or violets are blue. It's not a freaking equation to solve, she just said no because she didn't want to get too obvious and wanted a little special thing you need to do in asking that kind of question I mean make it a little bit romantic (as she have said that you were romantic). You claim yourself as a short king so you got to own it and be a man if you don't find the stereotypes like the guy should do proposal. There is no best time to ask when and where you should do the proposal, if you feel the right moment then do it, plan it if you want to but what you're doing like asking her if she wants to get married and you got your answer already 11:38 and you still have no idea what she meant? It's like a big YES but yeah you will never get the exact answer to that but she will give you hints and signals and us guys are simple and somehow straight-forward kind of creatures. But at least you can find some clues there and all you got to do is look for one and you already got some I believe because you told that she was showing you this and that (weddings on social media platforms). So it's up to you brother, the cards are all yours and like what you said you can't control the card being dealt but you can control the game. Good luck and hope the two of you accomplish your relationship and individual goals as a couple♥ #shortkings
If he hasn’t talked about this with her already then I think he should ask if she wants kids. Her answer should make the marriage question clear
I have to say you guys are so funny 😆 I really enjoyed the video and everyone has their own opinions about relationships and how tall they should be, I am 6’5 and my girlfriend is 4’11 so I look like a giant standing next to her 😳but I don’t care about what other people think 🤔 it works for us 😉
I feel like Sheldon is more into Sandy than Sandy is into Sheldon
I thought the same. She gives me weird vibes.. I don't see this lasting and not because of him.
This guy is so cool, well I'm 165 cm and I am happy
this is so cute!!! i can’t stop smiling 😚
i love this video
Ask if he lived on the 13th floor 6yrs ago. He looks so familiar :P
Great q and a video ❤😊
I’m the exact same height as you, 5”8.5 😅 I’ll be honest … I won’t be able to see past the height. I’ve dated someone who was like 5”7 but I just didn’t feel the attraction. I couldn’t help but feel insecure myself because I felt like a giant
no way sheldon is 5'5
IKR
Yeah cause he’s 5”5.5 😅 From their pics, you can tell he’s around that height. I thought he was 5”6 and Edward was 5”5
Isn’t This Sheldon From CantoMando? This Is Soo Crazy
Sandy gives me Blackpink Rosé vibe 🤍
As a guy, making a video like this is CRAZY
You guys are such a chill and cute couple. TMI, guys. lol😉
HES THE GUY FROM CANTOMANDO
Short Kings unite!!
Thanks for spelling s*x out. My dad is in the room haha
🤣🤣🤣🫶🏼
Thanks for this video 🤟🏻
The married part you guys will have to talk about for sure- doesn't have to happen if thats an agreement otherwise its just kind of wasting each others time.......
I'm actually quite tall for a Dude, which is funny because both of my parents are shorter than me. Looks like Genetics skipped a generation with my Mum and Dad 😂. So I shouldn't have an issue finding someone shorter than me.
I’ve seen tall girl short guy couples with a bigger range.
It’s all good.
Sheldon is average height and the way y'all gotta milk the shit out of the height difference for content is giving overcompensating vibes. Or maybe he's not as confident about it as he claims. Like the difference is not even that big
Fireeee 👍👍👍👍
He's actually not that short imo. Maybe I'm just biased because I grew up and lived in Asia my whole life, but you definitely shouldn't be putting yourself in a caucasian standard when you're Asian because around 5'6" is the average, anything more than that is just a miracle for an Asian dude. There are some outliers like Koreans, but for the most part expecting a 6' guy here is a standard you just can't attain.
Couple red flags in this lol
Adorable😊
Join the short men work club
I found his twin.......i had a high school friend that looks just like him
this is so cute...i'm happy for you both that you can enjoy your relationship without succumbing to the bullshit noise that is "societal expectations" and all this crap about heightism...
Why did this video need to exist, the title makes it sounds like your dating an alien
Why am I watching this
Imagine if we normalize calling girls flat queens too. Don't let social media pollute your character
This is such an American problem that there needs to be a video about it lol.
Its worldwide. Their stup*dity are amazing
whose idea was to film this
Ok, so the answer is obviously to work on myself
You guys are my FAVORITE UA-cam couple. PLEASEEEEEE keep making videos!!
Why looks matter so much in this world? And people have to make a video like this. I feel for short guys
If you had to describe each other with one adjective, what would it be and why?
Tell us about your thought process when sheldon got down on one knee to propose you to be his roommate at the hiking peak in HK 😂
This vid proves another point that there r no opposite sex bfs
What is his job? Likely not a teacher or firefighter...who makes more money?
How long have you two been dating?
3 years, its in the video
11:45 "We've been dating for 3 years"
It seems the height difference bonded you closer together. So go love your little man with high heels.
W short king Sheldon
@6:13 i want someone to look at me like she looks at him there. that says all.
Omggg sandy dont wanna marry him
They making the same vid of their dating story over and over wow. Gotta pad the video time..
Ryan gosling?
To all man out there, a successful bank account adds 3 inches to your height.😁Is the man behind the grind. The conviction and motivation of inspiration. keep thriving for your greatness. Success is the best revenge.Be kind and and have compassion to others. Respect and treat your woman and add to her confidence in life as a partner. When you have accomplish all these goals, then height will not be in her vocabulary.
Paying a woman to be with you doesn't count
I'm a boy and I'm 5'10, but I hate being tall, I especially hate overtowering most females that are older than me
5 10 is smack bang average wdym tall
What does wdym stand for
@@braylonspeights6658what do you mean it stands for
You’re not THAT tall lol
You guy are beautiful together. All the jealous one sre just usually ignorant tall people
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Cute and the baby will wait for you
Doesn't count. Grab them? #actionkid #itsjudyslife bao to the Egypt.
Is it even love if he doesn't have to climb a ladder just to kiss you?
When u guys getting married
Bro is handsome af
Don’t call him a short king, just king, kings come in all sizes
hes shorter but he got lengthy willy
5 years from now the woman will be posting videos and the man wont even be seen .
Did Sheldon eat spaghetti bolognese before filming this?
Short guys are not short "kings" just like fat girls aren't fat "queens" theres absolutely no need a stupid label to it.
Sheldon is a guy that can be throw around and he’s defensive lol sandy might be bullying person lol they both cute though
She trying to make money out of short guys feeling 😂
You’re the same height lying down.😂
God bless your asian money. #tinylicious #heyitsfeiii short term is forget. Beautiful over life.
I do not like the way you talk about him.
tough watch...
Not even for the marriage stuff, bc that's personal.. who cares.
But just generally... she is roasting dude the whole time, and his demeanor just feels like he's very used to getting disrespected in life in general so he takes it all.. turns it into a joke.. but the insecurities are coming through anyway.
Hope it all works out truly.. and what the fuck do I know from watching one youtube video... but it *seems* like both are still struggling with the height thing in ways that they may not even be being honest with themselves about.
Asian lies for lai. For brooklyn.
#mikahstride #cripmac #theschoellerfamily #lawgiverthekingson #ongsquad pretty boy?
Bro she will forever put her hands on your shoulders coz of your height😁good luck u 2!