In this vlog, my husband answered some assumptions we get from Filipina ladies who are dating a Pakistani. #pakistanifilipina #ldr #assumptionsaboutpakistan #lovestory
I want to share this lamg Ate: Hmm, I was in a relationship with a Pakistani, BEFORE. He is 9 years older than me. He's on his late 30's. One day, he shared that his mom want him to get married ASAP and she will be d one who will look for the woman for him to marry. On that instant, I broke up with him to becos ano nga ba naman ang laban ko sa tradition nila since i have this idea in mind that THEY CAN'T SAY NO TO ARRANGED MARRIAGE. I have in mind to save myself as early as i can. I thought everything will end up there, but i was wrong. Until now he's been and still regularly contacting me. 😣 Pinagpapa sa Diyos ko nalang ang lahat. I have been avoiding to communicate to him even if he's checking on me regularly except when those times na I have to ask how he's been doing in some major events in their country like nung nag start and Ramadan and when that time na na-oust ung Prime Minister nila..
Oh na oust ba prime Minister nila? Di ako updated. Anyways, okay ka ba sa ganyan na set up? I mean kelan ka mag kaka lakas ng loob to end jt permanently sis?
@@ErnielyAmorganda To be honest po, I still have feelings for him. di naman yun biglang mawawala. But since i decided na to walk away frm this relationship, I must have to restrain myself frm communicating to him -- like any form of communication. In fact, I have to ignore his acct in messenger para if ever magmessage sya, di mag aappear sa inbox ko. Nandun sa Spam napupunta. Feeling ko ansama ko pero i have to make it para naman to save myself sa possibility na maikasal sya sooner or later.. Yes mahirap sya talaga but what can i do? Fate and universe is not for us.. hehehe.. drama ko tuloy.. pero ate, i will still continue to watch your videos kc i love learning frm their culture.. 😊😊
Oo sis eventually naman you will do the right thing kahit na mahirap and masakit. Lagi mo lang tandaan na we can't give what we don't have. Swlf love is first thing to remember lalo na kung alanganin ang position mo sa life ng isang tao.
Hi, I am late but I need some advice. I'm a girl from Hongkong and I want to date a Pakistani too! How did you two meet and what were the first encounters like? Also, a personal question but how is he in bed? Thanks in advance and have a great day ❤
as to doing all the household chores...marriage is partnership. if you are a full time housewife, it is expected that the woman will be the one doing those chores while the man is expected to be the sole provider. we cant expect our man to still ldo chores after being at work the whole day, right??? if would be a different story altogether if both the couple are working. but even in philippine set up, when the couple both work, it is still the woman who does more work once both are home...ive seen lots of these :).
Hi po. I'm watching your vlog ate. From Philippines hihi. I just wanna ask about being converted into Islam. Is it okay po ba if you're not going to follow your husbands belief? Like you will convert into islam? And if that happens, where would you possibly get married?
Some Pakistani have a hidden behaviour you can only discover it when you've been together.some of them are manipulators .they not consider the voice of their partner bcoz they value most their honor than love..and they also wiser especially in choosing wife ..they also look if your useful to them or not..and some Pakistani never do first move ..and if you marry me a Pakistani you have to do household chores bcoz their culture man provides the needs of family and wife must take care your husband ,your house and your kids..
hello po ate.... ask lang how can u assured that guy is serious with you?. they are not sweet po ba? like they dont know how to show their love, care or in what way po?
it is true that a pakistani guy can marry a non-muslim woman but she has to be whats called "people of the book" or believer. like what your hubby mentioned, Converting is a lot more acceptable to the family or lets say preferred because it would be a lot easier for everyone in the family especially if youre the only one who is non muslim. Islam is a way of life...hence, your life style would be more or less around it. practically speaking, say, when your children starts school, youre going to deal with a lot of islamic activities....since you are the one who might be in charge of home and the children then this is where you might find it difficult if you arent a muslim...well, you can learn though but its still different as you need to raise a muslim child:)
Tanong, lang po ate, totoo bang di nila sinasabahayan maglakad o mabilis silang mag walk kapag kasama nila ang asawa or girlfriend nila po. Thanks in advance☺️. Goodbless and have a great day ahead po☺️
What are your assumptions about them that are not true? Share yours below ☺
His almost same mindset the way he answered and explained with my pakman 😁 his open minded enough ma'am ♥️ stay happy po
I vlog mo na rin yan sis haha
It's been a while Ate. I do love watching your videos.
Thanks sis, oo nga eh nabusy kase sa mga bagay bagay hahaa but thanks for sticking around my channel ☺ ♥
kilig na kilig ka ateng :))))
Hahaha sarap kaya mambully 😂
You're taking things personal. Leave him answer the question 😏
Okay
I want to share this lamg Ate:
Hmm, I was in a relationship with a Pakistani, BEFORE. He is 9 years older than me. He's on his late 30's. One day, he shared that his mom want him to get married ASAP and she will be d one who will look for the woman for him to marry. On that instant, I broke up with him to becos ano nga ba naman ang laban ko sa tradition nila since i have this idea in mind that THEY CAN'T SAY NO TO ARRANGED MARRIAGE. I have in mind to save myself as early as i can. I thought everything will end up there, but i was wrong. Until now he's been and still regularly contacting me. 😣 Pinagpapa sa Diyos ko nalang ang lahat. I have been avoiding to communicate to him even if he's checking on me regularly except when those times na I have to ask how he's been doing in some major events in their country like nung nag start and Ramadan and when that time na na-oust ung Prime Minister nila..
Oh na oust ba prime Minister nila? Di ako updated. Anyways, okay ka ba sa ganyan na set up? I mean kelan ka mag kaka lakas ng loob to end jt permanently sis?
@@ErnielyAmorganda To be honest po, I still have feelings for him. di naman yun biglang mawawala. But since i decided na to walk away frm this relationship, I must have to restrain myself frm communicating to him -- like any form of communication. In fact, I have to ignore his acct in messenger para if ever magmessage sya, di mag aappear sa inbox ko. Nandun sa Spam napupunta. Feeling ko ansama ko pero i have to make it para naman to save myself sa possibility na maikasal sya sooner or later.. Yes mahirap sya talaga but what can i do? Fate and universe is not for us.. hehehe.. drama ko tuloy.. pero ate, i will still continue to watch your videos kc i love learning frm their culture.. 😊😊
Oo sis eventually naman you will do the right thing kahit na mahirap and masakit. Lagi mo lang tandaan na we can't give what we don't have. Swlf love is first thing to remember lalo na kung alanganin ang position mo sa life ng isang tao.
Nttwa ako sis sa do this..do that😂😂relatemuch😂😂pero minsn dko cnusunod..wla din ciang mggawa pag ayw ko.😊
Hahaha di naman nya ko inuutusan sis pero mabuti ng alam nya sa umpisa pa lang.
Hi, I am late but I need some advice. I'm a girl from Hongkong and I want to date a Pakistani too! How did you two meet and what were the first encounters like? Also, a personal question but how is he in bed? Thanks in advance and have a great day ❤
as to doing all the household chores...marriage is partnership. if you are a full time housewife, it is expected that the woman will be the one doing those chores while the man is expected to be the sole provider. we cant expect our man to still ldo chores after being at work the whole day, right??? if would be a different story altogether if both the couple are working. but even in philippine set up, when the couple both work, it is still the woman who does more work once both are home...ive seen lots of these :).
but normally , its the man who does the "marketing" here...
Yes that's the common set up ideally. Things would be different if both are working but best is to get someone to do the chores 😂 😂
Hi po. I'm watching your vlog ate. From Philippines hihi. I just wanna ask about being converted into Islam. Is it okay po ba if you're not going to follow your husbands belief? Like you will convert into islam? And if that happens, where would you possibly get married?
hi sis, i didnt convert. Depende kase sa usapan nyo yan sis, you can get marry pa rin naman.
Ilike the topic 😅😅😅😅😅 ahahahhha
Thanks sis, the topic or the bullying 😂 😂 😂
Antagal ng update mo sis.di pa ba kayo nakabalik ulit sa pakistan?
Hahaha umuwi kase ako sa ph sis, two months vacation then pagbalik dito sa dubai, nabusy naman sa work kaya ayun.
Hi po .. over all by the way when you are going to kasaal. We want to knw at least 😄 🤣 😂
We're done with marriage po 😂
Some Pakistani have a hidden behaviour you can only discover it when you've been together.some of them are manipulators .they not consider the voice of their partner bcoz they value most their honor than love..and they also wiser especially in choosing wife ..they also look if your useful to them or not..and some Pakistani never do first move ..and if you marry me a Pakistani you have to do household chores bcoz their culture man provides the needs of family and wife must take care your husband ,your house and your kids..
ive hear about it sis, but i think as long as we women dont depend on them financially, we can have choices to make.
hello po ate.... ask lang how can u assured that guy is serious with you?. they are not sweet po ba? like they dont know how to show their love, care or in what way po?
hi sis, if they truly love you, you will feel it, you wont feel any doubts kase he is consistent, respects you, listen to you.
hi ate, when kayo nagpakasal? and where?
Last year pa sis, sa Pakistan but it was online.
Hi kabayan 😀 it is normal ba kapag hindi ka friend on Facebook ni pakistani or hindi pino-post? Sana mapansin thank you
Hi po, hindi kase sila sanay na mag display sa social media, as long as wala ka doubts and secured ka sa relationship, then okay lang yan.
it is true that a pakistani guy can marry a non-muslim woman but she has to be whats called "people of the book" or believer. like what your hubby mentioned, Converting is a lot more acceptable to the family or lets say preferred because it would be a lot easier for everyone in the family especially if youre the only one who is non muslim. Islam is a way of life...hence, your life style would be more or less around it. practically speaking, say, when your children starts school, youre going to deal with a lot of islamic activities....since you are the one who might be in charge of home and the children then this is where you might find it difficult if you arent a muslim...well, you can learn though but its still different as you need to raise a muslim child:)
Papa tutor ko nalang sayo ateng hahaha
if i may ask, from whre in Pakistan is your husband ate?
Hi sis, from islamabad.
Tanong, lang po ate, totoo bang di nila sinasabahayan maglakad o mabilis silang mag walk kapag kasama nila ang asawa or girlfriend nila po. Thanks in advance☺️. Goodbless and have a great day ahead po☺️
Hi sis now ko lang narinig yan, based on my experience, naglalalad naman kami sabay ahha holding hands pa 😂
He is ur husband dear ate🤔
Yes
@@ErnielyAmorganda ouh okay