Please pray for me that Allah gives me a righteous and loving husband who will love me as much as I love him and be happy with me as much as I am happy with him. I am in my 30s and nothing yet.
I'm in late 30's and i don't like advice like you cant be choosy regardless of age. Of course we can't be choosy in terms of look and height and so on. But I'm concerned about a huge gap of mindset and way of life. So 'choosy' for a future family leader is crucial to me. I usually met good guys but not serious to get married while start to get approached by inappropriate men (which I'm not confident to be a good partner and family leader) but so eager to get married. Thus a good guide like this video and du'a for Allah guide are what me and maybe other single Muslimah really need. Insya Allah
Say this before you make Dua. Yaa Hayyu ya Qayyum Allahuma inni asaluka bi annaka Antallahu, Al Ahad As Samad Alathee Lamyalid Walamyulad Walam Yakun Lahu kufuwan Ahad Then Ask Allah what you want afterwards. This are some of the supplication in which scholars say when you mention these words Allah will answer your Dua Biidhnillah. Don't loose hope in His Mercy
I do agree with Nafisa on this. I remember before I got married, I was making dua to Allah to grant me a righteous spouse. I remembered the story about having tawakul and tawakal. Although it’s good and we should have tawakal in Allah we should also tie our camels and from that I started asking myself if I got married today what kind of wife would I be, am I fully prepared to be married I looked at my pile of clothes that I took from the dryer that I didn’t fold it yet 😂😂😂😂😂 and said probably not yet and from then I started imprint myself and acting like a wife, I started cooking, cleaning, folding laundry and all. I also started getting into self care and routines and I was consistent now after getting married I can safely say it came in handy. My advice to all girls is first work in yourself ask yourself questions are you prepared to be a wife then act like one before you get married this also applies to men too. F
I do tell my daughters about how to attract a good man. As a father of 4 teenage daughters, my advice is for them to marry early because the younger the better atleast 23 or 24 at max I encourage them to and their mom is also aware of that. I make sure they are on deen which is most of them are working their way to hafiza of the Qur’an , I also encourage with their mother to focus on their hygiene and personal appearance which is a good representation of Islam as Muslimahs! They’ve had suitors but me as a father is very aware of men’s mentality and I able to know their intentions if they don’t want to come directly to me to ask for their hands in marriage.
Allah hijab them with righteous spouses, brother. Yes, exactly the earlier, the better. Late teens/very early twenties👍 my daughter is age 4, and I am already praying for her a righteous husband and help her get married by age 18 In shaa Allah.
You can see this topic on the other channels too and it's all about how to flirt and play with words , wear and act sexy and go on to attract a man . The difference here shows the wisdom, thank you for existing ❤
I really loved the point of setting boundaries and standards. Self-esteem is also definitely very important. Love yourself and others will love you. Respect yourself and others will respect you.
Dear Nafisa, thank you for being our big sister and teaching us so many crucial topics in life 💗 I appreciate you so much and may Allah be pleased with you ameen.
Mashallah nafisa you’re very well spoken and radiating.I struggle with deen I have up’s and downs but within I wish I can get back to praying and do more Quran reading.I needed to hear this today im approaching my 30s and still haven’t found the right one after listening to this I feel like I should work more on myself and let it Allah sbw deal with it 🩵 Thank you and please pray for me 🩷
Thank you. You know what, working on yourself will make you an asset to any man and that is a fact so continue on your growth and make your efforts and in Allah’s timing; it all work out insha’Allah
I am not a Muslim woman. But I really like you. I really admire your intelligence and maturity. Love from India ❤. I am 27 years old. Not married. Working. Make videos for audiences like us.
1. Pray Allah guides you to the one who is for you and to guide him to you. Pray to Allah to bless you with a righteous husband who will be good for you in the deen and dunya. A husband who will be good for you and to you. 2. Be a positive person. Work on your mind. Educate your self. Interact with different people. The more you work on yourself - the better spouse you will be to that person. 3. Believe that you deserve a good man. Do not self sabotage yourself. 4. Have an endearing personality. Be someone who is welcoming, sensitive, warm, Kind to children. 5. Have standards and boundaries. Don’t let people walk all over you. 6. Be physically as put together as you can. Take care of grooming and clothes. Iron your clothes. Try to look clean and look as if you’re someone that looks put together. You will find someone who is attracted to you. 7. Become a healthier version of you. 8. Get a good reputation. Be a good woman living a good life. The way you carry yourself with dignity and honour, hayaa. Be active within your community.
Dear Nafisa. You are a gem. I have just discovered your videos and can certainly say that you say in no uncertain terms how to choose wisely and I have yet to find your video explaining why we attract the same kind of narcissistic men who lack emotional intelligence. Please put it out there in case I don't find it. Shukran for your inspiration, guidance & wisdom
JazzakhAllahu Khairan my dear sister everything you said was on point and very useful, i will definitely start adapting these tips InshaAllah ❤ may Allah continue to bless us Allahumma Ameen
Everything happens at its own time. At ine hand, I have witnessed many people getting married early and ending up in divorce being single mums. And on the other hand, I have seen woman marrying at their 30s and having a happy marital life. Be thankful for what you have and Allah will bless you with more.
Thank you Nafisa for this wonderful video, I have always dealt with men who were below my level in my past because I had issues in deserving the best men out here. It's been hard for me to actually have a good and high self-esteem. But now i am setting up certain boundaries and have good standards in getting a good man. Can you do videos about dealing with self-esteem its an important topic to discuss about.
Your words really give me hope and also the practical tips you give put my mind ease. May Allah make it ease for us to meet our partners who are good for us and good to us. Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen 🤲🏻
SubhanaAllah!!!!!! Sis this was sooo right on point beautiful advice and reminder Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah so enjoyed this Ma shaa Allah you’re so good thanks for always being such a positive Sister 🫶🏾🤲🏾❤️❤️
May Allah SWT continue to bless you inshallah, whenever I watch your videos I feel like Allah guided you to me. Subhanallah you answer all my questions x
I feel like women getting married young between 20-23 is not ideal bcuz they still Have dreams and aspirations and our minds are changing daily . Also , leaving our Parents that young when we should be taking care of them and spending time with them is a bit selfish to me , just my input
I choose the wrong patner and from him i have 2 babies.. now i decided to get separate and started my single mom life with 2 kids.. hope u guys encourage me.
Jazakhallah khair Nafisa for your consistent uploads on both of your channels despite you being busy with your baby. May Allah swt reward you for the knowledge you share with us and the effort you put in ameen 🙏🙏❤️
Machallah Nafisa, may Allah protect and bless you for all this important knowledge that you share with us. I thank Allah for the day that he put your channel in my path, I have not stopped learning with each of your videos. Your advices help a lot ❤️. May Allah reward you in Dunya and Al Akhirah, and gives you what you desire in your heart and that is the best for you. Ameen ❤❤
same. i have hung onto every word she has said throughout the whole video. i have even thought about being coached by her but there was no info about costs etc..
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh Sister Nafisa🧡... May Allah bless you. U HV no idea how long I've waited for this topic 😅😅♥️. May Allah reward you abundantly.
Am making 34 yrs I was struggling to find right but after convert to Islam decided to make dua while depending on Allah's right for to find one but please pray for me
Honestly this video helped me to figure my actual problem as a single girl...sister ur doing a great work ...plz make some more videos on how to be confident n positive in life as single girl n how to modify our self
Nafessa is a very wise sister Alhamdulillah, but I honestly believe Marriage is either something Allah gives you or don’t, every sister unfortunately will not get married it’s not your Qadr. In this day and time the quality of people are not the same therefore marriage is not the same, not trying to be negative but it’s unfortunately just not in your deck of cards, to be married many men are not right nowadays. Muslim God fearing they still don’t make good husbands I’m serious . Allah knows best , being single can actually be a blessing
I don‘t even know what a good man dies. Yes, characterwise i know, deenwise i know, but anytime someone showers me with time or gifts or whatever i always feel like oooooh lovebombing, hes toxic…
When my husband asked to marry me; I told him that he was rude, arrogant and vulgar so if he could fix that maybe we could discuss otherwise I wanted nothing to do with him regardless he had money & looks!
I desperately need an advice from a muslim sister. I have my faith and do my regular prayers. I feel close to Allah in my own ways. However, I dress quite western. My bf and i share a lot of core values in terms of religion and other aspects of life but he does not appreciate my clothing. He's never controlling and never tells me what exactly to wear but i can tell that it saddens him when i dress more openly. He says it personally makes him uncomfortable to look at a woman who dresses like that and also wouldn't want another man to look at me inappropriately. I understand where he comes from and i respect that completely but should i change the way i dress for a man? I'm confused if he's just a way for me to get close to God or changing myself completely may not allow the relationship to sustain? I just need some opinions
Hey sister ! As a person who used to not wear Hijab, sometimes we feel stuck between whether we do things for society or for God. But I realized that we need to cut off the noise and truly realizethat our relationship with God shouldn't be affected by other people . Meaning wearing modest or Hijab should be considered because it will strengthen your relationship even more with Allah and the blessings are countless. The focus shouldn't be to please others or take your bfs suggestion ,because then you won't find meaning in the decision itself. Look deeper,see why God choose for us to dress a certain way, why we fast, and slowly we will love and understand our religion more. I struggle with my Hijab because of people's judgement even after wearing it but what matters at the end of the day is that our number 1 motivator in life should always be Allah. May Allah guide us all to choose the best decisions.
Jazakillah Kheir sister nafeesa, May Allah reward you for all your efforts ❤ . You’ve been a source of encouragement for us sisters who are single . if you don’t mind me asking what age did you get married ?
Alhamdulilah. 32 It wasn’t an easy test but I honestly thank Allah who was with me every step of the way and all the men that past would have never been good for me so that is why we should always trust that Allah wants the best for us even during challenging times.
In my whole life, only 3 men approached me and they all were RED flags 😢 and when women got sent to our house they would excuse themselves or worse they would lie to come again for them to never show up although my family made the effort to prepare great hospitality,.... Only because i have some birth defects in my nose and fingers, like I'm seriously not bothered by it and thank Allah and my parents who payed everything for me to live, but I'm noticing that i get angry or annoyed when women gossip about some girl they saw because oh her eyes are small or her skin is too dark or she had a gummy smile and all that crap as though they had the right to judge Allahs creation?? I thought maybe it is the reflection of me being bothered by how i look? God forbid and Allah knows best I'm perfectly fine with how i look.
May you prosper in Allah's way You and your family Habibty, We love you, You're The sister we need especially us young Girls, Dunya is full of Shirk, and somehow by the Allah's Guidance you help us to pass through it , Deeply Am grateful to you and to Allah, Alhamdulillah for having you uhkty.
Hope Allah will give me a righteous and loving husband.. I'm 34..never was married, neve lived with a man... I'm a convert for 9 years alhamfolillah... I tried to know a Muslim man.. But... I got some bad experiences.. Also about some men not respecting a white girl same as they do Arab girls.. But what I know maybe they don't expect either... I did find courage to try one Muslim marriage app... It is difficult Co.. So many men.. How do you know whom to talk to.. And.. Keep with one u till it is clear.. Coz that's crazy... If there are so many at once.. I hope Allah guides the right one to me and me to him.. Allow us to meet... Talk.. Fit.. And to marry... Inshallah
What about girls who dont go out and even when they do they keep to themselves. Their parents are no longer in this dunia and no one in the family is bpthered about getting them married. How do they find a man? Tried online platform it was bad experience.
Dear Nafisa, could you please model how to set a boundary with a spouse, and how to address the breaking of that boundary rhe first time,and then, if it happens again, showing a pattern of disrespect emerging?
I want say I miss our counseling session. A Muslim man that is 13 years younger than me has made intentions, we get along really well. He is very fearing of Allah and I naturally submissive to me, but we just talk with my Whali present.Any suggestions
I'm looking for advice here...a good suitor came to me yet i don't find him attractive. It feels like i'm shallow, should i reconsider my opinion? The idea of intimacy is wrong and and evenmore so if i'm not attracted to that person
Sister Nafisa I watched all your videos about not to chase a man etc and signs he is a good man Basically I have a small crush on a guy at my University he always approaches me when I walk outside and asks me questions and asked me if I want to go to church with him .What’s best to do cause I don’t want to date around and can’t marry right now as I need to finish my degree and get a job . We talked about God and growing up and he said he’s a religious man with firm morals.
If you aren’t ready for marriage I think it’s best not to entertain his company because it will eventually lead to heart break if you have to let him down at some point. Even if you tell him you aren’t ready and he agrees, your heart may become attached to him. The other alternative is to see if it is anyway possible to get married sooner. Hope that helps ❤
oh wow i benefitted so much from all the points you have made. your videos always give me hope, courage and reframes my perspective on life and reminds me of what is important.
Please pray for me that Allah gives me a righteous and loving husband who will love me as much as I love him and be happy with me as much as I am happy with him. I am in my 30s and nothing yet.
I'm in late 30's and i don't like advice like you cant be choosy regardless of age. Of course we can't be choosy in terms of look and height and so on. But I'm concerned about a huge gap of mindset and way of life. So 'choosy' for a future family leader is crucial to me.
I usually met good guys but not serious to get married while start to get approached by inappropriate men (which I'm not confident to be a good partner and family leader) but so eager to get married.
Thus a good guide like this video and du'a for Allah guide are what me and maybe other single Muslimah really need. Insya Allah
may Almighty Allah provide the one that will be coolness of eye.i also need such a prayer.
Allahumma ameen sis I’m 31 and also in the same situation may Allah make it easy for us 🤍
May Allah grant you a blessed man as your husband and May he be one who will be the coolness of your eyes.
Say this before you make Dua.
Yaa Hayyu ya Qayyum
Allahuma inni asaluka bi annaka Antallahu, Al Ahad As Samad Alathee Lamyalid Walamyulad Walam Yakun Lahu kufuwan Ahad
Then Ask Allah what you want afterwards. This are some of the supplication in which scholars say when you mention these words Allah will answer your Dua Biidhnillah.
Don't loose hope in His Mercy
I do agree with Nafisa on this. I remember before I got married, I was making dua to Allah to grant me a righteous spouse. I remembered the story about having tawakul and tawakal. Although it’s good and we should have tawakal in Allah we should also tie our camels and from that I started asking myself if I got married today what kind of wife would I be, am I fully prepared to be married I looked at my pile of clothes that I took from the dryer that I didn’t fold it yet 😂😂😂😂😂 and said probably not yet and from then I started imprint myself and acting like a wife, I started cooking, cleaning, folding laundry and all. I also started getting into self care and routines and I was consistent now after getting married I can safely say it came in handy. My advice to all girls is first work in yourself ask yourself questions are you prepared to be a wife then act like one before you get married this also applies to men too. F
Absolutely
😹😹 that’s me learning to be a better wife because I wasn’t ready at all!
Great sister
I will apply this on my self from now
InshaAllah ❤
Iam a Christian but I must confess that that every thing you’ve said is life changing
Yes, I take from Xtian, Islam and Judaism to learn. My husband remains a Muslim and prays 5 times every day.🇺🇸🇸🇦🙏❤️
I do tell my daughters about how to attract a good man. As a father of 4 teenage daughters, my advice is for them to marry early because the younger the better atleast 23 or 24 at max I encourage them to and their mom is also aware of that. I make sure they are on deen which is most of them are working their way to hafiza of the Qur’an , I also encourage with their mother to focus on their hygiene and personal appearance which is a good representation of Islam as Muslimahs! They’ve had suitors but me as a father is very aware of men’s mentality and I able to know their intentions if they don’t want to come directly to me to ask for their hands in marriage.
Very important!
May Allah bless you for the efforts you are putting in raising righteous muslimah. 🤲🏾
Allah hijab them with righteous spouses, brother. Yes, exactly the earlier, the better. Late teens/very early twenties👍 my daughter is age 4, and I am already praying for her a righteous husband and help her get married by age 18 In shaa Allah.
Why is younger better? You never know Allah’s timing.
@@Sarafara7 early marriage saves you from zina.
@@saucepan2342 true but I see many divorces actually happening now from people who got married young. Times have changed.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate this wise and beautiful woman, mashallah!🥺 Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Allahuma Barik❤
You can see this topic on the other channels too and it's all about how to flirt and play with words , wear and act sexy and go on to attract a man . The difference here shows the wisdom, thank you for existing ❤
I really loved the point of setting boundaries and standards. Self-esteem is also definitely very important. Love yourself and others will love you. Respect yourself and others will respect you.
10 Q so much I totally agree with you
I am not Muslim nor religious but do like your videos and advice. It seems comum sense but is full of wisdom.
Please read about Islam, it’s the truth that is sent to all humanity. May god guide u
Thank you ❤
Dear Nafisa, thank you for being our big sister and teaching us so many crucial topics in life 💗 I appreciate you so much and may Allah be pleased with you ameen.
Mashallah nafisa you’re very well spoken and radiating.I struggle with deen I have up’s and downs but within I wish I can get back to praying and do more Quran reading.I needed to hear this today im approaching my 30s and still haven’t found the right one after listening to this I feel like I should work more on myself and let it Allah sbw deal with it 🩵
Thank you and please pray for me
🩷
Thank you.
You know what, working on yourself will make you an asset to any man and that is a fact so continue on your growth and make your efforts and in Allah’s timing; it all work out insha’Allah
I am not a Muslim woman. But I really like you. I really admire your intelligence and maturity. Love from India ❤. I am 27 years old. Not married. Working. Make videos for audiences like us.
1. Pray Allah guides you to the one who is for you and to guide him to you. Pray to Allah to bless you with a righteous husband who will be good for you in the deen and dunya. A husband who will be good for you and to you.
2. Be a positive person. Work on your mind. Educate your self. Interact with different people.
The more you work on yourself - the better spouse you will be to that person.
3. Believe that you deserve a good man. Do not self sabotage yourself.
4. Have an endearing personality. Be someone who is welcoming, sensitive, warm, Kind to children.
5. Have standards and boundaries. Don’t let people walk all over you.
6. Be physically as put together as you can. Take care of grooming and clothes. Iron your clothes. Try to look clean and look as if you’re someone that looks put together. You will find someone who is attracted to you.
7. Become a healthier version of you.
8. Get a good reputation. Be a good woman living a good life. The way you carry yourself with dignity and honour, hayaa. Be active within your community.
Thanks
When all the men you meet in your life are either married or messing about or both...Ya Allah help me!
I've been watching your videos for while and I feel that Allah is guiding me through you. May Allah bless you for this
Allahuakbar. May Allah continue to make it a means of goodness 🤲🏾
Me too, Amiin Ya Rabb
Same here! :)
Dear Nafisa. You are a gem. I have just discovered your videos and can certainly say that you say in no uncertain terms how to choose wisely and I have yet to find your video explaining why we attract the same kind of narcissistic men who lack emotional intelligence. Please put it out there in case I don't find it. Shukran for your inspiration, guidance & wisdom
I always make dua to Allah to guide me towards my husband. But never asked Allah to guide him towards me. That's really so dumb of me.
Not dumb at all. These are things that we were not taught to do so we had to learn along the way.
JazzakhAllahu Khairan my dear sister everything you said was on point and very useful, i will definitely start adapting these tips InshaAllah ❤ may Allah continue to bless us Allahumma Ameen
4:04 “ask Allah to guide your actions” wow
Not Muslim but I definitely enjoy your content. You have amazing nuggets of wisdom for every day living! Thanks for sharing✨
oh amazing no muslim came up with a recommendation to read the quran 😂 and all the truth there can be found for mankind
May Allah make it easier for us 🤲🏼 I’m tired of being single 😮
Ameen. Do not complain. Allah has your back!
Everything happens at its own time. At ine hand, I have witnessed many people getting married early and ending up in divorce being single mums. And on the other hand, I have seen woman marrying at their 30s and having a happy marital life. Be thankful for what you have and Allah will bless you with more.
@@mariaabdulmajeed4591 Mashaallah Jazakum lahu khairan ma’am
This past month has changed my entire life i.e stopped chasing the man and now attracting a good man???? Takbir🎉🎉🎉Hearing our collective wedding bells
Allahu’akbar. That’s what I’m talking about!
May Allah make it successful if he is best for you.
May Allah bless you
Allahu Akbar
Didn't stopped myself to comment ... sister...your awesome....so relatable....i found you first time and you will be my forever guide ..
Thank you so much!!
Thank you Nafisa for this wonderful video, I have always dealt with men who were below my level in my past because I had issues in deserving the best men out here. It's been hard for me to actually have a good and high self-esteem. But now i am setting up certain boundaries and have good standards in getting a good man. Can you do videos about dealing with self-esteem its an important topic to discuss about.
Yes I will insha’Allah. You are right it’s a very important quality to have
Life is strange definitely how it plays out! Subhannalah.
Many good women out there and many good men too but seems totally apart..
May Allah help all the young Muslim girls out there with good spouse
Sister Nafisa, you have no idea what your channel has done for me❤.الحمد لله
May Allah reward you. اللهم بارك
Subhanallah, I’m so glad to hear that. Alhamdulilah!
May Allah continue to bless us all ❤
Your words really give me hope and also the practical tips you give put my mind ease. May Allah make it ease for us to meet our partners who are good for us and good to us. Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen 🤲🏻
SubhanaAllah!!!!!! Sis this was sooo right on point beautiful advice and reminder Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah so enjoyed this Ma shaa Allah you’re so good thanks for always being such a positive Sister 🫶🏾🤲🏾❤️❤️
Alhamdulilah and thank you for watching and supporting ❤
May Allah SWT continue to bless you inshallah, whenever I watch your videos I feel like Allah guided you to me. Subhanallah you answer all my questions x
I feel like women getting married young between 20-23 is not ideal bcuz they still
Have dreams and aspirations and our minds are changing daily . Also , leaving our
Parents that young when we should be taking care of them and spending time with them is a bit selfish to me , just my input
Everytime I listen to you speak it makes me cry. You're so nice Nafisa. Mashaa'Allah 🤍
Thank you
I choose the wrong patner and from him i have 2 babies.. now i decided to get separate and started my single mom life with 2 kids.. hope u guys encourage me.
Jazakhallah khair Nafisa for your consistent uploads on both of your channels despite you being busy with your baby. May Allah swt reward you for the knowledge you share with us and the effort you put in ameen 🙏🙏❤️
Waiyakum. Ameen and May Allah bless you for seeking nearness to him ❤
I did not know sister Nafisa had another channel, please share
@@lovelyrose4959 it's @Nafisaathome 😊
May Allah grant you all good spouses who will be a coolness of your eyes❤
Aameen
Machallah Nafisa, may Allah protect and bless you for all this important knowledge that you share with us. I thank Allah for the day that he put your channel in my path, I have not stopped learning with each of your videos. Your advices help a lot ❤️.
May Allah reward you in Dunya and Al Akhirah, and gives you what you desire in your heart and that is the best for you. Ameen ❤❤
Ameen ❤
And May Allah bless you also with all that is good for you in this world and the next 🤲🏾
ammeen
same. i have hung onto every word she has said throughout the whole video. i have even thought about being coached by her but there was no info about costs etc..
Here to like and comment before watching because thats just who I am as a person🥴🥴
😂 thank you ❤
I don't know why i feel more safe and attentive while watching her videos, i love you from Uganda 🇺🇬❤. ❤
Aslamu'alaikum warahmatu'llah sis❤ thank you so much for always for your updates. May Allah reward you abundantly😊
Walaikumsalam. Jazaka’Allahu khairan
Thank you so much Nafisa !!! You are truly so knowledgeable and I look forward to watching your videos ❤
32 never been married. I am tired how women value tied to men.
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh Sister Nafisa🧡... May Allah bless you. U HV no idea how long I've waited for this topic 😅😅♥️. May Allah reward you abundantly.
Walaikumsalam lol. 😅 Alhamdulilah
lol i hate ironing too! jazakAllah so much for your videos, your wisdom is so appreciated I hope you know that!
Am making 34 yrs I was struggling to find right but after convert to Islam decided to make dua while depending on Allah's right for to find one but please pray for me
May Allah grant you the best spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes. Allahumma Aamiin
Masha Allah.
Amiin ya Rabb, amiin ya Mujeeb.
Honestly this video helped me to figure my actual problem as a single girl...sister ur doing a great work ...plz make some more videos on how to be confident n positive in life as single girl n how to modify our self
Nafessa is a very wise sister Alhamdulillah, but I honestly believe Marriage is either something Allah gives you or don’t, every sister unfortunately will not get married it’s not your Qadr. In this day and time the quality of people are not the same therefore marriage is not the same, not trying to be negative but it’s unfortunately just not in your deck of cards, to be married many men are not right nowadays. Muslim God fearing they still don’t make good husbands I’m serious . Allah knows best , being single can actually be a blessing
Dua changed Qadar❤
JazakAllah sister. What a beautiful video and so useful for any woman. ❤
That is very interesting and profound.Thank You🙏
Thank you Nafisa, love your videos, they are so inspiring Mashallah ❤️. You have given me hope, last night I was ready to give up xxx
I don‘t even know what a good man dies. Yes, characterwise i know, deenwise i know, but anytime someone showers me with time or gifts or whatever i always feel like oooooh lovebombing, hes toxic…
That happens to many people. You should seek some help with that.
Thank you so much Nafisa, ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Your content is so helpful
I recently came across your channel its so great! alhamdillah
Always yr video came on time Nafisa i badly needed these kind of words may Allah reward you goodnesses ❤
Ameen. Jazaka’Allahu khairan
Pray for me to get out of bankruptcy it's holding me back from improving my personal growth I want to learn new skills but financialy drained 😢
After reading some comments,,I feel like you are so blessed sister Nafisa ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Alhamdulilah I’m very grateful to Allah who enables me to do this. May He continue to bless us all. ❤️🤲🏾
@@NafisasPearlz Ameen 🤲
Thank you very much for this advice sis
May Allah bless you
Wise advice.Thank u sister.I like to listen to your all lectures.🌹
Oh thanks this will help us alot💓💜
When my husband asked to marry me; I told him that he was rude, arrogant and vulgar so if he could fix that maybe we could discuss otherwise I wanted nothing to do with him regardless he had money & looks!
Your videos have helped me so much, keep up the good work, I appreciate you. ❤
I desperately need an advice from a muslim sister. I have my faith and do my regular prayers. I feel close to Allah in my own ways. However, I dress quite western. My bf and i share a lot of core values in terms of religion and other aspects of life but he does not appreciate my clothing. He's never controlling and never tells me what exactly to wear but i can tell that it saddens him when i dress more openly. He says it personally makes him uncomfortable to look at a woman who dresses like that and also wouldn't want another man to look at me inappropriately. I understand where he comes from and i respect that completely but should i change the way i dress for a man? I'm confused if he's just a way for me to get close to God or changing myself completely may not allow the relationship to sustain? I just need some opinions
Hey sister ! As a person who used to not wear Hijab, sometimes we feel stuck between whether we do things for society or for God. But I realized that we need to cut off the noise and truly realizethat our relationship with God shouldn't be affected by other people . Meaning wearing modest or Hijab should be considered because it will strengthen your relationship even more with Allah and the blessings are countless. The focus shouldn't be to please others or take your bfs suggestion ,because then you won't find meaning in the decision itself. Look deeper,see why God choose for us to dress a certain way, why we fast, and slowly we will love and understand our religion more. I struggle with my Hijab because of people's judgement even after wearing it but what matters at the end of the day is that our number 1 motivator in life should always be Allah. May Allah guide us all to choose the best decisions.
Ma sha Allah sis😍.. Ur video hv b helpful to me for the past 3yrs... All I can say is jazakillah khair
Waiyakum
Subhanallah I am so happy I found you ❤
MASHA'ALLAH I'm amazed by your wisdom, knowledge and positivity. love your videos! Please do remember me in your prayers.. love from Pakistan 😍
Seek therapy i hope you mean seek Allah that's major therapy in dunya and deen..
I love you! Thank you for this valuable naseeha ❤️
Mashallah Amazing tips..
Love it 💕💕
Thank you, sister. ❤
Very refreshing.
JazakAllahu Khairan Nafisa…
Jazakillah Kheir sister nafeesa, May Allah reward you for all your efforts ❤ . You’ve been a source of encouragement for us sisters who are single . if you don’t mind me asking what age did you get married ?
Alhamdulilah. 32
It wasn’t an easy test but I honestly thank Allah who was with me every step of the way and all the men that past would have never been good for me so that is why we should always trust that Allah wants the best for us even during challenging times.
In my whole life, only 3 men approached me and they all were RED flags 😢 and when women got sent to our house they would excuse themselves or worse they would lie to come again for them to never show up although my family made the effort to prepare great hospitality,.... Only because i have some birth defects in my nose and fingers, like I'm seriously not bothered by it and thank Allah and my parents who payed everything for me to live, but I'm noticing that i get angry or annoyed when women gossip about some girl they saw because oh her eyes are small or her skin is too dark or she had a gummy smile and all that crap as though they had the right to judge Allahs creation?? I thought maybe it is the reflection of me being bothered by how i look? God forbid and Allah knows best I'm perfectly fine with how i look.
can you please do a video on submission/ how to submit to your husband
That’s a great idea. Will add it to my list insha’Allah
Masha Allah jazakallahu khair sister ❤❤❤❤❤
What if you are already married and suffering the hell
In an emotionally and verbally abusive marriage
With an idiot ?
Thank you Sic Nafisa😊, I mean it, your videos help a lot may be you don't know ❤❤, Barakallahu feek Wajazakallah khayr habibty
Alhamdulilah. I’m also so grateful to have such a blessed audience whom like myself seek Allah in everything.
May you prosper in Allah's way You and your family Habibty, We love you, You're The sister we need especially us young Girls, Dunya is full of Shirk, and somehow by the Allah's Guidance you help us to pass through it , Deeply Am grateful to you and to Allah, Alhamdulillah for having you uhkty.
Very nice video and very good advice.
Jazakillah khairan
wonderful speech ❤
8:46 Deserve better
9:30 pattern of men /
Thank you❤
Beautiful , Alhamdulillah 🌹
Thank you
Hope Allah will give me a righteous and loving husband.. I'm 34..never was married, neve lived with a man... I'm a convert for 9 years alhamfolillah...
I tried to know a Muslim man.. But... I got some bad experiences.. Also about some men not respecting a white girl same as they do Arab girls.. But what I know maybe they don't expect either... I did find courage to try one Muslim marriage app... It is difficult Co.. So many men.. How do you know whom to talk to.. And.. Keep with one u till it is clear.. Coz that's crazy... If there are so many at once.. I hope Allah guides the right one to me and me to him.. Allow us to meet... Talk.. Fit.. And to marry... Inshallah
What about girls who dont go out and even when they do they keep to themselves. Their parents are no longer in this dunia and no one in the family is bpthered about getting them married. How do they find a man?
Tried online platform it was bad experience.
Thank you 💜💜
Dear Nafisa, could you please model how to set a boundary with a spouse, and how to address the breaking of that boundary rhe first time,and then, if it happens again, showing a pattern of disrespect emerging?
Very good contents, MashAllah
Tnx ❤
The next question is where do you find him if you live in London? Only Apps seem to be the answer
There is no one place, just continue to live your life actively and your paths will cross.
Great vlog 👏❤🇧🇦
No Assertive Personallity
low self esteem
I want say I miss our counseling session. A Muslim man that is 13 years younger than me has made intentions, we get along really well. He is very fearing of Allah and I naturally submissive to me, but we just talk with my Whali present.Any suggestions
@@paralleluniverse298 I that was a typo I was trying to say I am naturally submissive to him.
Thanks sister.
Hi Nafisa, please pray me to find a good guy... maybe Allah give me good husband because of your pray 😌
I'm looking for advice here...a good suitor came to me yet i don't find him attractive. It feels like i'm shallow, should i reconsider my opinion?
The idea of intimacy is wrong and and evenmore so if i'm not attracted to that person
She made a video in which she talks about it, it‘s called „Signs you have met your husband“
Sister Nafisa I watched all your videos about not to chase a man etc and signs he is a good man
Basically I have a small crush on a guy at my University he always approaches me when I walk outside and asks me questions and asked me if I want to go to church with him .What’s best to do cause I don’t want to date around and can’t marry right now as I need to finish my degree and get a job .
We talked about God and growing up and he said he’s a religious man with firm morals.
If you aren’t ready for marriage I think it’s best not to entertain his company because it will eventually lead to heart break if you have to let him down at some point.
Even if you tell him you aren’t ready and he agrees, your heart may become attached to him.
The other alternative is to see if it is anyway possible to get married sooner.
Hope that helps ❤
do you both practice same religion,because i can read "are you going to church "in your write up?
@@muritalaakande69 we are both Christians
In Christianity we have morals too we can date but have to keep it halal
@@marss4030 nice
oh wow i benefitted so much from all the points you have made. your videos always give me hope, courage and reframes my perspective on life and reminds me of what is important.
Alhamdulilah I’m really glad to hear that. Stay blessed.
@@NafisasPearlz you too, sister Nafisa
What about a hijab girl I mean wearing jalbab this is her modesty