Having A Natural Birth, Choosing The Baby's Name & Getting Married At 20! | Honest Q&A
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- Having A Natural Birth, Choosing The Baby's Name & Getting Married At 20 | Honest Q&A
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0:54 Birth control
2:14 Change channel name?
2:27 Will the baby have dual citizenship?
2:41 Why Nashville?
3:02 Mindset life change in Pregnancy?
5:04 Fav books, novel recommendations
7:02 How are you not scared of giving birth?
8:23 Getting married young thoughts
9:19 what thing did your mom do that you want to do with baby girl?
10:00 Baby girls name a family name or did you hear it somewhere
10:14 what is something you want to say to post-pregnancy Jess?
11:08 Birht vlog and epidural?
12:06 Tampons or pads?
12:49 How are YOU doing?
14:04 how did Gabe adjust to changes in your body?
14:46 Do you and Gabe ever fight?
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Hope this helped :))
Thank you! 😁
@@meepfriend1425 no problem!
You’re amazing
Ty!!!!!
when did they reveal the gender?
Can’t believe we’re getting a Jess vlog & a Jess & Gabe vlog at the same time! 🤍 Can’t wait for baby girl Conte & you guys’ new chapter to start! 🥹
Hahahah though the same! I got so excited when I realized
@@valnucifora9992 Me too!!
I KNOW!! Love it
so in awe of your strength & amazing capacity to endure so many changes in such a short amount of time. im incredibly excited to be on this journey virtually with you 😊💕
I'm so excited for your & Gabes baby's safe arrival. Its such a precious and magical time. Such a privilege for us to be included in this special milestone. ❤ you're doing amazing, Jess. Sending you good vibes 😊
Watching your weekly videos is like talking to a best friend that lives on the other side of the world that you only talk atleast once a week to catch up. I’m not much of a social media fan but I wait for your videos because it feels so real and comforting. Thank you for being you Jess!💜
I’ve done 3 unmedicated births and I went into it with the mindset I wanted to be able to get up and move. But I was also open to get an epidural if I felt overwhelmed with the pain. I never got to the point where I felt like I couldn’t handle it. I think having an idea of what you want, but also trusting your doctor/midwife to do what is safest for you and your baby is the best mindset going into birth! You got this!!
oh Jess I’m so sorry that people have projected onto you with their birthing experiences 🥺 I went in with a similar mindset to you, trusting God & the process of labour. I had a completely unmedicated labour and birthed our beautiful little girl. I did have a second degree tear but other than that baby was healthy and I recovered well. Keep an open mind and remember that you are so much stronger than you think! A huge affirmation for me during labour was “while I am weak He is strong” just trusting God every step of the way 🤍
I highly recommend you check out the BirthTime documentary, it is LIFE CHANGING! 🙏
While I am weak He is strong 😭💛 I love that so much
I was definitely told “just get the epidural” and “don’t try to be tough, you don’t have to impress anyone” when I mentioned that I’d like to try for an unmedicated birth (as if that’s what I was trying to do?). It’s very discouraging, but I want you to know that if you want to try it, go for it! I had an unmedicated birth my second pregnancy and it was an incredible experience. My first pregnancy was medicated and it was wonderful as well. You are amazing in whatever you choose, and try to tune out those who are discouraging to you. I used Bridget Taylor’s videos to prepare for my unmedicated birth and I was so prepared and loved it!
I've always wanted the epidural (i'm 9 months pregnant), and I've always heard the opposite! "Just try to go natural at first", "you're going to have back pain after", "you'll miss out on the experience" etc. I think no matter what we moms decide to do, the people who disagree will always be vocal about it
@@moodsofkiwi9285 that’s so true. It’s unfortunate that people can never seem to just be supportive. I’m so sorry that’s happened to you, it can definitely feel discouraging, especially from people you care about. I hope your birth goes wonderfully and that you are able to get the epidural ❤️
I did relaxation birth with my second child and it was amazingly more positive!
my favourite kind of videos - i’m ready for the catch up session with jess! always feels like chilling with a bestie 💛
love you jess, can’t wait for the baby to arrive, she’ll be so loved ❤️
Hi Jess! My mom gave birth to my sister in the hospital after being induced and to me in a "birthing center", in water and she always said she had liked the more natural birth a lot more because she felt more respected and everything was like soft, loving and the pain was not worse. Hope all goes well for you❤️
I don’t think someone should be more or less respected because of the type of birth they choose. but glad you had a positive experience :) 🤍
@@martham6 no of course everyone should be respected! but my mom had explained that the doctors in the hospital were less gentle, even agressive in their movements whereas in the birthing center they were a lot nicer and more "respectful" of her (I’m French so maybe respect doesn’t have the same connotation in English)
I think you’ll seriously surprise yourself during birth! It’s inevitable and you’re so so capable. I absolutely loved giving birth to my two boys. People look at me weird when i say that but the pain is temporary, and the HUGE feeling of accomplishment and the joy of doing what you have to do to meet your baby face to face is absolutely amazing. You’ll do great, Jess. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Watching you Jess is always very calming and relaxing, your aura, voice, everything. Wishing you all the very best in this season you and Gabe are stepping into, May the Lord oversee your birth and parenthood...Love you three so much!
im a midwife and calm birth educator and what you said at the end made me so happy .To have conversations with your partner about what life and your relationship is going to be like once baby is here before the baby is here. Managing boundaries with visitors, expectations of each other in baby care and household duties etc, managing self care for each other, signs of postnatal depression and what to do. All SO important!! you're doing great Jess, you will be great parents.
I'm so excited for you guys!! my baby girl just turned 1 and it has been the best year of my life. God is good 🤍🤍 love you guys!
Honestly birth is just beautiful. I watched my sister give birth when I was 18 (I was 6 weeks pregnant without knowing bay the time) and I loved the experience and to share that with her. Sometime that blew everyone’s minds, I would watch birth blogs, midwife shows etc and I feel like it mentally prepared me, taught me a lot of phrases and terminology, showed me tips on pain relief. I wasn’t scared to give birth at all ❤️🥰
I went unmedicated for both births. Second birth I was induced which was more intense but I was really set on not having an epidural, not that I’m against them but for me I already had back problems, I also really wanted to feel the whole experience. My biggest tip is focus on your breathing and hot showers (or the tub if you go water birth) is amazing!! Helps a lot.
It’s hard to commit to a name honestly, with both of my kids I had two names but also leaned more towards one then the other. With my daughter we had Natalie Rose (one I leaned more towards) and Kaylee Rose. Just looking at her I knew she wasn’t a Natalie. Even though I love that name even now 7 years later. With my son we did want Charlie but our niece was named that, then by the end it was out of Arlo (my partner loved this) and Maddox (my favourite because it’s welsh and my family is welsh). It took us a few hours but we knew 🥰
jess!! i’m sooo excited for you and gabe and wish your baby to be born the absolute healthiest way possible. i’ve been watching you guys since 2016 and i’ve watched you guys grow and the same time i’ve grown up with you. so everytime i think about how you guys are about to become parents i get super emotional, i just can’t wait! i love you both so much and wish you all the best☺️💙💙
"growing up with us" that one hit me, I really did grow up with you guys.
I started watching this channel at 16 (now I'm 20) and seeing how much you've grown as persons but also as a couple, all that stuff has been beautiful
thank you for letting us be part of your journey
So excited for you guys! we had our little girl 6 months ago and it has been just SO fun, you guys are going to LOVE it! I totally understand the negativity towards going unmedicated -- everybody I talked to made it sound impossible! Thankfully my mom and husband were encouraging, and watching UA-cam videos of people's unmedicated birth stories was encouraging, too. During labor I just kept telling myself I could do it because I truly believed it! I loved the unmedicated experience and was so amazed by my body when all was said and done. You CAN do it if that's what you really want. that being said, I tried to keep an open mind about an epidural and will consider it in the future if I feel it's necessary. 😊
im so happy to know that you’re doing well!! wishing you a great and healthy rest of pregnancy ❤️❤️❤️
Giving birth is truly the best experience! I loved every single moment and i cant wait to do it again! It does hurt obviously but the empowerment of birth and then holding the love of your life after. Its incredible
Couldn't help feeling emotional thinking about what beautiful parents you guys are gonna be, and I love that we get to watch part of your journey and hear your experiences🤍
I seriously just love your videos!! So much like talking to a best friend!! It’s crazy to think how much we’ve both grown since I started watching your videos❤️❤️ wishing you all the best!!
The part where you mentioned your love for Gabe has grown so much since your wedding day - just you wait until you see him holding your little baby for the first time. I didn’t think I could possibly love my husband any more, but seeing him become a dad truly made my love for him grow so much and continue to grow. I’m so excited for you to experience all the joy and wonder of motherhood, it is the best thing that ever happened to me ❤️
I think about this all the time and it makes me emotional hahaha 😭 it’s one of the top things I’m looking forward to, I can’t wait to see him with her 🥲
I love what you said. “Even though she is your world try to still have a world of your own” that’s beautiful! As a first time mom I wish I would have heard that sooner!
Also when it comes to your birthing experience, although hard to ignore some people opinions/comments try to not let it get the best of you. I was super similar in what I wanted for my labor and delivery and I let everyone scare me. At the end of the day it was beautiful and perfect and now I have my son because of it. You are STRONG, god created our bodies for this and you are capable of anything you set your mind too
jess ur GLOWING. so honored to be included in this phase of ur life :)) praying for you and bb girl 🫶🏼
So glad you’re doing well!!! I’ve warched y’all since the very beginning and was always so excited to see you both become parents!! Love y’all ❤️❤️
Jess dear, I have been following you and Gabriel for a few years now, and I have never come to writing a comment up until now.
I feel I must tell you that choosing over and over again to hear/look/see the positive in whatever it is you are looking at.. is truly hart worming and filling me with hope that there is a good place in life to live it. This is extremely important to feel having to go through numerous life challenging experiences (Emotionally is ‘main base camp’ here, if you will) which leave you with serious baggage of diss-believe in the human of man kind that is GOOD. That is SAFE TO BE AROUND that is HAPPY ENOUGH TO LIVE AROUND in this world…. And you my dear.. are a clear beautiful example for that.
I find you pure, connected to the positive by choice, and so respectable of your inner self and you private life with Gabriel and family to be. The modesty in your soul is well preserved and that is an example for today’s generation - that I find SO IMPORTANT!!! It is beautiful, it protects the innocence in life which is so fragile in these day..
Thank you Jess sweet hart. You are beautiful inside and out. Gabriel and your entire family is lucky to have you.. keep on being the wonderful you.. and the intention will send of the waves for someone out there to choose better for himself with compassion to his actions, hart and life story.
I send all my best to you & family, have a happy healthy full handed birth, and may the grace in life fill your home with glory and joy of Harts , that is all that is.
Ashirah.
Hey, Jess! I’m so happy to see that you and Gabe are doing well! I know that you still have a little bit before you have to worry about periods but I would highly recommend trying the cup if you are on the fence about it! I didn’t like tampons or pads either and I had heard so many great things about the cup and decided to try it. There is definitely a learning curve but once you get the hang of it it’s incredible! I can’t wait to see the progression over the next few months and to see pictures of your beautiful daughter❤️
I was in a similar journey while I was pregnant and chose to go the natural birth route. I was so scared I wouldn’t be able to do it. A lot of people are negative about it so I didn’t talk to anyone about my plans really. But my birth was the best experience of my life. It was 4.5 hours long and I felt so powerful and exhilarated.. you really can do what you set your mind to. Christian hypnobirthing and positive birth stories were super powerful in preparing 💛
Jess & Jess & Gabe vlog at the same time! Love it!!! ❤️ I hope you and baby girl are doing well! I hope you have the best time in Aussie and safe delivery soon! 🙏💕
I had the same mindset for the "epidural vs no epidural" decision, and I had some people look at me sideways like if I didn't DETERMINE that I wasn't doing the epidural I would probably just give in, but I really just didn't want to confine myself to a decision when I had no idea what it feels like to me. I took birth classes and tried to prepare as much as possible, and I did end up doing it all naturally with no pain meds. Deep breathing, movement, and being in the bath were my go-to's for coping. The contractions hurt, but to me it was totally doable, and I don't consider myself to have a super high pain tolerance. The pushing, however, was really rough for me, and lasted over 2 hours. But at that point I knew I was almost done, and knowing I was about to see my baby's face any minute gave me the strength I needed til the end.
You're gonna do a great job!! And if you get in there and you decide you want the epidural, just party like its 2022 and get it! ❤ A mother's ability and stength aren't defined by the details of her birthing experience. Wishing you all the best!
A Jess video and a Jess & Gabe video in the same minute, happy Saturday 😇
Jess, thank you for such comforting videos and content, especially the part on relationship “struggles”. I admire you and Gabriel. My mum always says that giving birth was the most special moment of her life and despite all the pregnancy difficulties it was all worth while. I don’t have a sibling and I’ve always wanted a sister and watching your channel really helps me in getting to know all the “girly” things but in the most positive way. Your love for God is truly inspiring and your energy is so comforting.Thank you again and I really hope you’re going to have a fabulous rest of your pregnancy and you’ll be doing just fine during and after birth. Super excited to see your upcoming videos and what the future will entail. 🙏🏻❤️😇💕
I love that you and Gabe are such great communicators. My husband and I are not, lol. When we had our babies, there was little open communication and as a result, there was a lot of resentment and bickering. I'm so glad that you are having these conversations now before emotions are high and the exhaustion sets in. Make sure you ask for help or breaks when you need them. I'm so excited for you both!
This is so amazing and heartwarming to see how far you’ve come!! Been a fan since your Going Home series and just love you guys so much. God bless you:)
One thing I admire about you and Gabe is, how you all take the time to count the cost. You all count the cost on marriage, on moving, etc. You all always stay aware of the risk and the cost thereof. Love it.
Adore your videos, best of luck for the rest of your pregnancy and newborn phase - you guys will be incredibly loving parents 🥰😍
Hey Jess! The good girls guide to murder has 2 other books to go along with it! The second is “Good girl bad blood” and the third is “As good as dead”! Can’t wait for Baby Girl Conte! ❤️
I realize this video was posted 10 days ago, but I’m just getting a chance to check it out. As a mama of 2, I want to encourage and back your decision to just see how the pain is during childbirth! Good for you for not putting any decisions in concrete. There is NO reason why you have to choose now. I’m so glad you are giving yourself the space to choose when you have more knowledge. 🙏🏼🎉
Jess you’re glowing omg, love you!!
you and Gabe are the epitome of a perfect couple. youre real, youre loving, youre role models. thank you, and im so excited for you!!!
So excited for baby girl Conte to get here!! So excited for your guys new adventures with your growing family
Why did I almost cry multiple times in this video 😭 u and Gabe are so genuine in your videos. Thank u for sharing your life with us!
I am so so happy and excited for you both becoming parents! And really excited to be here with you on your journey ❤️❤️ you got this! Can't wait to meet baby Conte hehe
i’m loving these update videos so much
Aww Jess so happy and excited for you and Gabe! Excited to see you both as parents, I know you'll do amazing
I wish nothing else but only good thing happens to you during your delivery. Love you Jess!!💛
I loved hearing about how your relationship has changed since pregnancy. It’s nice to have examples of good working relationships!
Aw what u told ur future self ugh🥺🥺❤️ ur so cute I think u and gabe do so amazing at prioritizing ur relationship to make time for eachother even when ur so busy and I look up to that and I know u guys will continue to be able to do that once u have ur routine down with baby girl🥺❤️ so excited for u both congratulations ahh I can’t wait for u guys ❤️ I’ve been with u guys when u first started so I love to see how far u guys came and growing with u guys
I am so happy for you guys. As for birth every person is different. People scared me and nurses pushed the medication but I did what I wanted to do and I am glad I did. I had my son natural, no epidural, no medication. The Dr broke my water at 9am and he was born at 9:29am. I had been in the hosp since 8pm the prev night due to high BP that just crept on me. Felt every contraction and every push. God was all in it. Our bodies are made for it.😊 I say do what Jess' heart wants and I promise you won't regret it. ❤🎉 Congrats again!!
I just gave birth to my first baby 8 weeks ago and did it all natural and you can totally do it! It’s much more mental than physical in my opinion. Affirmations, knowing your body was made to do this, each contraction is just one minute closer to meeting the love of your life, and your body won’t put you in more pain than you can handle. Being able to birth my baby girl natural and unmedicated was such a huge accomplishment for me and made me feel so powerful and proud. No matter how you give birth, women are incredible but for me personally, I felt so proud of myself. You’ve got this! 💕
Was so happy to see this video when I finished watching the Jess & Gabe video!! 💜
I would definitely give the natural birth podcast a listen. Going unmedicated is amazing and the biggest tip is that it's a mind game. Believe in yourself !!
Hey Jess! So excited for this next chapter for you! I’m due with my baby girl around the same time. This isn’t my first rodeo so my advice to you is to be flexible. Not every birth is the same even for the same woman so for sure have a birth plan, but be prepared to make adjustments as you go. It’s ok to decide later that you want an epidural, but don’t let people pressure you into getting one. I found mine to be wonderful, but everyone is different! Just try to relax and focus during those contractions. I found an exercise ball to be super helpful for giving me something to bounce on and do while I had contractions. Good luck!
I like the question asking current Jess say to leave a message to Post Pregnancy Jess. Really thoughtful
Just epidural input: I'm so scared of needles and IVs, so I did a natural water birth and I'm glad I did. Yes it was painful but I always felt like "I can do this" the pain never felt out of control or beyond me. In the middle of my 5 hour labor my body even slowed down contractions to allow me to nap twice to get more strength. I loved that my body knew exactly what I needed, and I think having an epidural would have masked some of my body's capabilities! You'll do great and your body will amaze you no matter which way you go though! ☺️
This makes me so happy. Our minds and bodies are amazing. Congrats mama!
Jess! I feel so connected to you in this video. I am not expecting, but I LOVE birth & educating myself on the subject. Everyone always has something negative to say when you mention any birth plan that is geared towards the mum & bean more so than the facility in which you will deliver. Water births = more work for the doctors & so their negative outlook on that trickles down into the patients they have. If your first instinct is to have a water birth & to go unmedicated, then do it! You are more than capable. You were made for this. Your body was made for this. We believe in you! Xoxoxo
Out of experience I’m 21 years old and gave birth naturally without an epidural. It’s so beautiful knowing that we can have that strength and bring a little baby to the world. I support everyone’s opinion but always listen to your body. I’m sure you’ll know what to do when the right time comes and all that matter is that you have a safe delivery Jess. I love you and can’t wait to meet your baby 😍❤️
It's not a problem bud. However, it depend on the sex you done.
Jess, I started watching your vlogs with Gabe when you were still in a long distance relationship and I just wanted to share that I am also in a long distance relationship, I always watch your videos and in your Jess and Gabe channel when I seek comfort. Also, we cannot wait for Little Jess, she don't have any idea that a lot of people loves her even when she is still in her mumma's belly.
Me dropping everything and running around to grab my headphones bc Jess Conte just dropped a new video. Kerrmon🔥🔥
Oh, you are going to be SUCH a sweet mom, Jess. I am so excited for you🥺
So excited for you and Gabe!! Can’t wait for you to meet your baby girl 🤍
so excited for you both you and gabe! i've been here since your dating days and now you're having a baby girl 🥹💛 can't wait to "meet" here and remember that she's already loved by her aunties and uncles around the world 🥰🫶🏻
and siblings because i was their child first 😂
@@angel-fk6rn you're gonna be a big sis! 😆
@@mayeveryday omg i’m so used to being a little sis that i don’t know how to handle it! 🤣 but i guess i will have to learn to adjust HAHAHAHA
The talking about what will happen when you’re both tired is awesome!!! It’s an amazing experience.
It has been so beautiful watching you grow 🥺
I’ve done natural cycles since I took my IUD out 13 months ago and it’s been life changing. Highly recommend if you’re sick of the side effects from more popular birth control forms. (This is not a medical opinion, just my personal experience)
It's actually amazing that we get to hear Jess' thoughts like this. Can't wait for the baby girl! Hoping for safe delivery Jess! Love u :)))))
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Gabe being selflessness during your pregnancy is so encouraging 🥹
My biggest advice is have no expectations. I had my “dream birth” I wanted so bad to have my boys naturally but ended with a c section and I just wish I would have went in with the mindset of no expectations but praying for a safe and healthy baby.. things like that. You are so inspirational 💗
Love that!! No expectations 💛🙏🏼
Do whatever works best for you and baby during labor. Sometimes not getting the epidural and letting your body go through the pain can make your body not relax and not progress so at that point it would probably be suggested but everyone is different and every pregnancy is different. The only thing I always say after having our daughter is keep an open mind throughout the process because some people have a set birthing plan and you truthfully can’t control anything other than maybe your pain. As long as you and baby are safe at the end of the day that’s all that matters. You’ve got this💗
She's such a role model for me!
Love you, Jess❤
I’ve been watching you since before you got married! Love your videos and I’m so excited for you and Gabe’s baby🥰
Hey Jess! I had an unmedicated water birth for my first baby 3 weeks ago and it was the most incredible and empowering experience! I’m still on a high about it, I hope you get to have this amazing experience as well. Trust your body 💓
hi Jess!! Can't wait for mini Jess and Gabe! Love from Malaysia!! ❤️
Omg 8 months Jesss!!! So close!! Praying for an awesome rest of your pregnancy love🙏🏼💜💜
Love watching your videos so much!!! Makes me feel like we’re two friends having a face to face conversation 🥺🤍🤍
Had my first baby at 25, my husband was 27 at the time, same as you. Fast forward 2 years and we now have 2 boys. I love seeing you getting ready to be a mother, you'll both do a great job! Sending love and prayers from Europe 😊
You and Gabe are my favorite couple on the internet 🥰.
You look absolutely gorgeous Jess, washing you an amazing journey ahead 🥰
❤️ thank You for being You Jess!
Your videos make me feel so much calmer💙
You got this💪🏼 Sending lots of love
I love love this casual catch up style, thanks for sharing and glad to hear you’re doing well ❤️
To your question/answer about period products, I always recommend the Diva Cup & period panties (I use Thinx)! Both are a sustainable, reusable option & honestly in my opinion, soooo worth it. The undies are comfy and easy to wash & the cup is nice because you can have it in for up to 12 hours! It takes a couple tries to get used to it, but once you do, it’s a piece of cake. Highly recommend!
watching Jess heals my depression..and I’ve been suffering wether to stay in the world or not for years. 🖤
Sending you so much love!! you are so beautiful and worthy 🙏🏼❤️❤️
Hey Jess!! So happy for you. God bless your growing family. 🙏🤍
So excited for you and Gabe! My husband and I just had our first baby (girl) last year and it’s been the best. If it makes you feel better about your decision for an epidural or not, I didn’t know until I was in labor. My friends thought I was crazy for being 50/50 about wanting one or not. It sounds crazy, but I wanted to see what the pain was like before deciding. It’s completely up to you and what’s best for you and baby girl 💕 wishing you the absolute best!
I just love your vids! They are so calming 🤍 good luck with everything in the future 😊
Definitely recommend the cup! It's amazing! Also so excited for the baby !!
I'm still in awe that we are pregnant at the same time and our baby girls will be born in the same year ❤ I talk about you guys at home like you're our personal friends 😅 not to mention you are now going to be living just an hour and a half away from us!! 🎉 I hope one day to meet you three ❤
I had a drug free water birth (first time mum) last year.. can’t recommend highly enough! I can’t imagine giving birth anywhere but in the water, it’s just so weightless and takes the edge off! My biggest advice is really use the breaks in-between contractions, they are there for a reason, don’t think about the contraction before or the one coming just embrace and enjoy the relief in that moment, centre yourself & take some deep breaths to re-oxygenate your body and baby. And remember you can do anything for a minute! You got this girl, you will honestly amaze yourself with what you are capable of!! Focus on all those positive stories and forget the rest xx
it feels surreal hearing you talk about pregnancy. so excited!!!!
Your videos are always so peaceful and uplifting! Thank you thank you:)
Imagine if they had another wedding?🥺💜 that would be the cutest!!!! Jess you should definitely consider doing that!
thankk you guys for giving us 2 vids in a dayy! ❤
I’m so excited for baby conte 🥺 sending love from Melbourne ❤️
i love these types of videos!!💗 it feels like we are just hanging out (: i can’t wait for you to meet your baby!!! time will fly by!
i had an unmedicated birth and it was intense, but I'm so glad i did it! I've always been terrified of birth and looking back, I'm so proud of myself for doing it. you got this!
Jess, CONGRATULATIONS! I'm a birth doula in NC and first off I'm so glad you are taking Bridget's course, she is an incredible birth educator. If you are wanting a water birth go for it! But do so in an educated way, so you aren't just "going with the flow". The thing everyone doesn't tell us about birth, is that our body produces natural hormone painkillers (endorphins) during labor. Those are the same endorphins that allow people to run marathons. So just as you said, our bodies are built for this. Keep reading those positive birth stories to help shift that mindset. In the doula world we talk about "KICO" and "Floppy Face/Floppy Fanny" as a reminder when laboring to keep your "knees in, calves out" which helps naturally open the pelvis, relax the face, relax the fanny. Allow yourself to fully rest between surges, ride the waves of each 60 sec surge (20sec build, 20sec peak, 20sec coming down). If you haven't already hired a doula I would definitely recommend it just to have the extra support for yourself and Gabe. Sending lots of love and support for a positive birth experience.
You’ve got this! I have had 3 births. The first two were unmedicated and the 3rd I opted for a little bit of pain management (not epidural). I’m so glad I didn’t do an epidural because as soon as baby was born and healthy I was up on my feet and in the shower. There was no grogginess or anything like that. When it came to my 3rd I felt I didn’t want to do it completely medication free and decided to try the gas, and fentanyl. It didn’t take the pain away but it let me take each contracting at a time and cope better! Whatever you decide will be great and God is with you.
I started Natural Cycles about 2.5 weeks ago because my fiancé and I get married at the end of the month and I didn’t want to get on the pill and so far I’m really liking it!
The menstrual cup is life changing, me and my daughter both use them.
I had natural births with no pain relief and they were brilliant.
Had a spinal injection for a c section that didn't work, ended up being put to sleep.
If you can do it natural go for it but if you need pain relief go for that.
It's totally your choice.
Also tried gas and Air for non birth reasons recently and it was really good. I was to scared to try it during birth but I think it would of been helpful xx
So surprised when I saw my name and question in the thumbnail 😂 Thanks for answering and I really enjoy this casual catch-up video. Hoping you have a smooth and happy last stage of pregnancy! 💛