Lauren Southern: It's Not Marriage, It's Character
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- When a Marriage fails, everyone always wants to blame the concept of Marriage itself, Traditional Family Values, Conversates, Liberalism, Feminism, Men, Women, the Laws, anything...and everything BUT a lack of Virtue, Character, and a Lack of compassion.
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"A Fed turned out to be a psychopath"
Whaaaa NO WAY!!
Shocking innit?
🤯
Or a narcissist, I think probably diagnosible NPD from what I heard. They had the idealization, shared fantasy, and devaluation then discard.
She was far-right, he was a fed - Can I make it anymore obvious?
🤣
She was a punk, he did ballet - what more can I say?
Number one rule: IF YOU A CONSERVATIVE OR A CHRISTIAN, NEVER MARRIED A FED! Lol
I would not put it as far, that maybe that this Fed guy she married was a ploy to get her knock-up with a child, so she can sit her butt down, and STOP doing the things she was doing! ;)
God(Jesus Christ) Bless! :)
Number one rule: IF YOU A CONSERVATIVE OR A CHRISTIAN, NEVER MARRIED A FED! Lol
I would not put it as far, that maybe that this Fed guy she married was a ploy to get her knock-up with a child, so she can sit her butt down, and STOP doing the things she was doing! ;)
God(Jesus Christ) Bless! :)
He was an agent boy she said come skeet in me boy nice guys aren’t good enough for her
Never ask a Libertarian what her husband's job is.
y?
Yeah why
He's implying lauren is a libertarian and her husband is a FED and that this would be standard for libertarian women (who are mostly against gubmit).
I thought you were going to say weed dealer lol
It saddens me that people get divorced, and the worst victim of it is the children. Man, something has got to change. This isn't working anymore.
This shit has never worked man, what are you on about?
@@hershellumiere Fair point.
No happy marriage has ever ended in divorce.
It will change. As Elrond says "Either by the sword or by the slow decay of time..."
The only possible exception to this is if women rapidly become, on aggregate average, better people. And to qoute Qui-Gon, "Hmhm, not likely."
Marriage and family is obsolete, unless one of the two people involved is okay with being screwed over
Lauren had literally 716,000 simps to choose from lol no sympathy from me.
Also, her version has been disputed but so many accept it automatically.
The only surprising thing about this story is BassfZz saying he's fond of Lauren southern
Agreed. It’s more disappointing they all keep taking the same path, like lemmings.
You shouldn’t date/marry a simp. Being a lapdog isn’t respectable. Plus, it’s a feminine trait (the follower) and most women want masculine men (the leader).
@@mrshmuga9auren had all those stereotypical ultra conservative GI Joe types in her back pocket too and she still fumbled. No one is "too good" to be loved.
Doomed from the start. Always look past the wedding and your feelings at the time, and think about a lifetime contract to another.
I would add, have a purpose, put it at the forefront, and never lose focus on it for anything, especially a woman, no matter what her status or looks are.
Her ex husband made her the focus and lost himself, but when he came back to his senses he realized that even "The Lauren Southern" wasn't worth trading for his purpose.
@@lordhelps7762 Her husband only cared about his career. We're supposed to have a higher purpose than career. Marriage and children are to be the highest purpose, w/ career being the means to an end that supports that. He wanted a convenience that was the other way around.
@@saintejeannedarc9460 To be fair, she mostly just wanted him because he was "ambitious". So to be fair, if he stopped being "ambitious" she'd probably stop liking him eventually.
@@grantwithers No, she also had a child w/ him. He cared more about his damn job than he did his wife and even his child. It's on him, and has nothing to do w/ Lauren. She left her internet career, left her country and gave up everything to be w/ him.
@@saintejeannedarc9460 You're obviously confused on the facts. When they married he came to canada and took a lower-level job. She wanted him, pre-baby, because he was in her words "the best person she'd ever known" and "ambitious". She confirmed this on many times. If he wasn't ambitious she'd have not been all that into him, regardless of baby existing or not existing. To be clear he didn't "care more about his career", by her own admission and her own assessment, the pressures of him moving to canada (and having trouble getting immigrated for some reason) and taking a lower job (with lower pay that likely barely would support them) and her not having any job but taking care of baby pushed him into taking a job back in austrailia. He told her to come with him to austrailia, and iirc she did briefly, but that was leaving her in a terrible position that was killing her. She went home to visit fam after two fam deaths, he said don't go. She went after he reluctantly relented. He then declared he was divorcing her because she went back to canada. She begged him to take her back several times. Thems the facts. Check the Unheard interview.
What is this woman talking about, respectable jobs? Almost all jobs are respectable unless you're some form of s3x worker, you sell something harmful/illegal, you're a lawyer or in advertising. xD But yeah to a woman a respectable job will be the ones that make the most money.
dude... all those guys who wanted her so bad, don't know anything about her. Thirsting for someone and actually living with them day to day are completely different things.
Any one of them still would have better. 🤣😂
bro was willing to say and do anything to bag lauren...and then dumped her...women choose that man over and over
The real victim here is the child!
There is a reason why, for most of human existence, fathers picked their daughter's husband. Women have the uncanny ability to have many options, but still choose the wrong men.
AMAZING!
😂...that last sentence is too good
At least there are some women who lack that ability...
The other way around too. Many young men are infatuated with total losers and the parents would understand. They can pair the boy with with a good girl.
There was no reason why, imo
Not all?? Not even most? Its almost as if they a imperfect humans that can make bad choices.
I love how we have been brainwashed so much to believe that women are perfect beings that now that they have autonomy to make their own choices and ultimatly their own mistakes thus making the world realize they are flawed and are not perfect that we now go to the extrene implying it was somehow better that when they didnt have their own autonomy.
What about all the times us men pick terrible women that screw us over yet we dont have the same energy why dont you rationalize fathers picking wives for their sons??
A father or brother or uncle can talk to boyfriend and find out if he’s a “player”.
But modem feminists, want the bad boy. And so the cycle continues with endless divorces.
Since working in corporate every manager or higher up I've met has been a sociopath. That may be the only kind of person who can move up in that environment.
Ya know…I’ve often wondered the same thing 😂
@@Macheako I've had two jobs in the tech industry and have spoken to people at other companies. It does seem to be an uncomfortable trend.
Its is to some degree the types of temperments that you need to have to be a hyper successful High value person are oftern not condusive to marriage long term relationships and parenthood.
Of course there are exceptions but there is a general arch type.
Thats why there is the story trope of the neglectiful parent who is a CEO or King/queen that ignores there children
"I wanna be a housewife, yay!"
Are you sure about that? C'mon, man.
Even so, it being during covid is going to be even worse. But the man needs to WORK TO BRING HOME MONEY TO AVOID STARVATION AND THIRST.
I do NOT trust her side of events without his side being a juxtaposition, even despite her trying to humanize him more than most would.
I'm not the kind to dismiss women's events because whether we like it or not Lotharios and Psychopaths do exist.
Being dismissive is the first step down the "i hate women" road.
That doesn't sound like a fair reason to dismiss everything she said.
How daduq did she “humanize” him?
All I heard for 1.5 hours was “he promised me we’d be happy…then he went and had us move to Australia! 🤬” lol
Rollo Tomassi claims to have been in discussion with the guy and if that version is true it is not flattering. He did a live stream on it.
However, all we have is claim and counter claim. Nothing any of us should consider proof.
@@SA-vz7qi What’s the cliff notes version?
Once a man gets married, you have to do what is best for your family. That means getting a job that is boring.
It doesn't even Have to be a boring job. Often it is, but what you have at home is certainly supposed to be the priority and what you look forward to, and this selfish bachelor wanted it to be the opposite.
This is not remotely true. A man’s first priority is his God given purpose. The thing that gets him out of bed and contribute to the world. The second priority is finding a wife that compliments him and his purpose and is a helpmate and dedicated mother.
That video from Lauren kind of made me dislike her, something about it just put me off and her ex seems a bit of a tool.
I never liked her to begin with. She's just another chameleon.
Yup, she's just trying to come across as a victim and "poor me" most likely. She wants to get attention again. She missed being a histrionic social media 304 and make money just like every other woman is conditioned to do.
@@roderickcortez138 I was more indifferent towards her, but this just makes me dislike her.
Bury the light deep within!!! cast a side there's no coming home😢
I believe in the sacredness of a promise, that a man's word should be as good as his bond.
Marriage is about foregoing your own gratification to devote yourself to make a family together with your spouse. A relationship where both do not adhere to this is doomed to fail. We see so many relationships fail in this generation because people can't seem to get over themselves.
Modern marriage is about women spending money they dont have to impress other women they dont like with pictures.
@@tomhan come on bro be fair the fault isnt simply on womens shoulders
Thats why one big predictor of marriage success is how long two people have been together BEFORE marriage.
Tho the irony is modern people are marrying less, marrying less, and here is the kicker DIVORCING LESS.
@@xMckingwill It IS on their shoulders. And it's on ours for trying to PLACATE their fickleness. Men are too nice in this day and age.
@@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 oh no im not trying to absolve women from any resoonsibilities im saying its not ONLY their responsibility.
And i agree 1000% men and society go WAY to easy on women. Tho to simply point the finger and blame saying its all womens fault is also dishonest.
not sure when this video was recorded
there's now rumors abound that the real reason was because she cheated on the husband with destiny and even got pregnant
not sure whats real anymore, certainly hard to take anything at face value at this point
Rollo said he's going to stream a phone interview with the ex-husband... i'm withholding judgment until i hear what the ex has to say
Destiny?! that sounds like a joke, I don't see her going for destiny in a million years.
The ex-husbands side would be interesting.
Yeah I want to hear his side of the story and I don't buy the whole affair with Destiny.
if that was true wouldn't her video be basically slander
@@Neucher
usually you can only sue for defamation if the slander causes you to actually lose money...
else it's just slander that caused "zero damage"
@@crown9413
ya apparently southern and destiny were supposed to get married in late 2022, but then it fall through, and destiny started calling her a 'feminist'
southern apparently drove melina off
and destiny had to beg melina to come back after shit ended with southern
Always noticed, that with some exception, the more ambitious men tend to be the more rotten they tend to be.
Exactly my man, exactly.
"He must have done something down under" No! Bad BASSFZz! 😂
I saw this too, My thought the whole way through was just its not marriage. It’s just: Don’t marry a government official when you’re an international dissident and isolate in the middle of nowhere.
When people are pushed into a bad situation even if they’re the nicest person they’ll act out.
He should’ve retrained as a plumber or something. And they shouldn’t have isolated themselves like that.
Your thirst is getting in the way of empathizing with the other man in this situation.
If she'll eventually be a stay at home wife, she could be that anywhere. She said that's what she was going for herself.
Also, you keep fucking demonizing him and emphasizing how hot and "lucky" he must have been. While I love most of your videos, share some of that thirst for that DUMBY sexy woman, but you're falling for demonizing him for just trying to optimize their situation, given he probably didn't want to be a bitter man and husband and thus needed to find his footing again.
C'mon, man, love your channel, but you gotta introspect on how you're judging him, just because he made a few moronic decisions and gave an ultimatum to someone you're infatuated with.
simp making excuses
If he had really loved her for her, then yes, he could have retrained in some way. He cared about his career first though and whatever wife and kids he'll ever have need to just blend into the background and settle for second place, because I doubt they would ever be his priority.
It's 2023. There still hasn't been a documented case of a trad thot being trad.
Meh. Traditionalism is just slavery for men.
😂 the best thing they can do is to shut off all social media and just take care of their kids they said they would have and just make the guy they're with happy
@@roderickcortez138 Humans only get to choose their masters.
@@suhbro5928 She did all that, and it still wasn't enough for him. She gave up her career and even left all family and friends for him, still wasn't enough. Man was selfish to the bone, or had no sense to know what he was getting w/ her.
I wouldn't claim the man lacked virtue. The main problem was that their "love" or "passion" clouded their judgement and they underestimated the weight the rest of the life outside of marriage actually had. Since you are an anime fan maybe you've watched Death Parade, if not it is worth the watch. A point they make in that anime is that sometimes that "evil" is not shown in dire situations, but created. Probably he was a good man before marrying and became resentful through his circumstances. It was foolish of him to think otherwise, though. But the point I'm trying to get to is that it is a sin of hubris to think that if we were virtuous enough we wouldn't bend no matter what. Truth is, we depend a great deal to our environment and if we were virtuous indeed we would take care of it rather than think we can do whatever and remain unchanging
Yeah this is a really good point that Zerse missed imo. If women can be clouded by their infatuation and feeling special etc, why wouldn’t he also feel the same way, especially when he married “The Lauren Southern.” It’s just that halfway through he regretted his actions and wanted to return to his old life but couldn’t.
Zerse did not miss it tho. He already talked about not getting caught in the romance (it was general advice)
And he could have just divorced her before accepting his new job. He's just jumping from decision to decision without his feet first.
@ raylevi5343
Only if you accept sll of hrr clsims at face value. And dismiss the counter claims.
@@SA-vz7qi those claims about cheating, kid estrangement and/or restraining orders don't necessarily dispute this though.
But sure, I'm keeping my mind open.
I don’t know why people even attempt to start relationships with so many barriers. Lives halfway around the world, and is a government agent. The first is bad enough. Whose country do you choose to live in? How will that affect them long-term? Does that party not have/want to see their family much? If you end up having kids, how is it fair to them to barely see that side of their family?
It’s different if you already lived in the same country and happen to have “family back home” (although still a hurdle). It’s different to still be living there and move completely. Living in another state/province can be difficult enough. I’m sure it’s hard for an e-celeb because you don’t want to date a “fan” because of the power dynamics. But it’s not even reasonable like within your own country or another one close like the US. Australia is like a 15 hour flight or something nuts. Moving, giving up your career, alienating yourself from your family/friends, living in a new country with a culture/environment you’re not used to is going to have a cascading effect.
This is at least the 2nd video from Lauren where she's character assassinating other people she was in some form of relationship with. If I knew her, I'd have a hard time trusting her.
She can’t character assassinate you if you only do what’s right. 🤣😂 The question is whether this stuff is true, not that she’s talking about it.
The reason why she has to talk about it…”has” is because she was suppose to be the poster child for conservatives and failed.
However my video is to comment on how we blame everything but people’s poor character these days.
@@BASSFZz Was she supposed to be the poster child for conservatives, or a palatable (read: female) face for young conservatism?
You got the wrong conclusion. She legitimately tried not to character assassinate him, but she just told the truth. The truth being: Yes, he was a POS.
Imagine how Chad this guy had to be in order to convince her that she should shit on everyone BUT him for what transpired.
@@seg162The pressure comes from the fact the left will use this to demonize marriage.
@@Shockgueywe don’t know the truth until the ex speaks out, which isn’t likely.
It would make sense, a person like Lauren would end up with someone like her husband, if her story is even true.
Your right 50% of marriages are happy. Usually it's the ones where the guy is a chad(lite) (at least when compared to the woman) and has a "good" character .
There was a research paper a few years back showing only 13% of marriages as "satisfied."
With a 50% failure from divorce, that leaves 37% failing via "cheaper to keep her."
Among faithful Christians practicing their faith, divorce is way less and happiness is way up.
This video made me reflect on my decisions… some of which I’m honestly not proud of. I’ve come a long way, but there’s still work to do.
In an alternate universe Lauren didn't get into politics but stick with anime cosplay and is either an onlyfan thot or just married to some weeb who like girls in cosplay and they live happily ever after 😂
I've noticed in you a real eagerness to throw other men under the bus in order to highlight what a good partner you'd be. It seems you only defend men in order to defend yourself, and no further.
We only have her side of the story. Anyone who understands hypergamy knew Lauren was going to have a really tough time finding a happy marriage. Marrying some sort of high-level spook or fed makes sense in that it probably carried a lot of power, status and money, but only while he had that job. Moving to Canada and taking a much lower-paid, lower-status job is something anyone red-pilled could've told him was extremely likely to end in divorce.
Likewise anyone could've told him that for her to stay in Canada while he moved back to Australia was very likely to end in divorce too. Attractive women don't stay alone long. Not to mention he would be missing out on unmissable years with his new son. We don't know what the circumstances of his decision to return to Australia were. He may well have been the deceptive narcissist she's painting him to be -- such men are overwhelmingly concerned with money and status, which most women are also overwhelmingly concerned with. But maybe not.
I know one of Lauren's recent-ish videos was about the huge cost of living in Canada, and how 100k a year was barely a liveable wage for a young guy. Maybe this guy saw the writing on the wall -- that if he couldn't find a better job she was going to eventually divorce him? Maybe the job he was taking in Australia was a short-term one leveraging his previous position to gain more marketable skills in Canada? Or maybe Lauren had friendships he wasn't comfortable with?
Who knows? I don't. Neither do you. What I do know is that women are almost always keen to smear the guy they're leaving so they're not the ones considered the bad guy. We see it time and again. It's so common as to be trite in the manosphere, and yet you're willing to accept it on face value because it gives you the opportunity to jump on your 'women don't appreciate nice guys (like me) they go for thugs' hobby-horse.
@Jeff Jones
Well said.
I guess some Men just can't be Red Pilled.
It's a simple fact, women are not the objective selectors they've been made out be and tend to pick men without taking their character into account. You think this influencer with millions of simps considered every average/handsome lad and looked at their character😂
@@adamkane7513 I think it's a bit of a problem for extremely idealistic Christians like him that women red-pill us the best and he hasn't had that experience. Until then it's really hard to see past blue-pill hopes and dreams, especially if you believe in an omnipotent God and destiny and people made for each other. It's also really hard to see past automatic out-group bias, especially if you were bullied at school and were friend-zoned a lot. But you don't have to have been bullied and friend-zoned: instinctive sympathy for women and rivalry with men is part of our nature. I've been there. I still have to watch it.
HOLUP so you're shitting on him for using available information to make an informed conclusion while presuming that if more information becomes available he won't change his mind?
This is called BAD FAITH.
@@Shockguey No, I'm calling him out for coming to conclusions about someone he doesn't know based solely on the word of his ex-wife. That is almost the opposite of an "informed conclusion". Informed usually means you've heard all sides and then made up your mind.
And where have I said he wouldn't change his mind if more information becomes available? Helluva strawman there bucko.
ngl Zerse but you are simping a bit hard here
I wouldn't believe anything she's says on this. Women character assassinate on instinct. It is what it is. The dude wasn't perfect and neither was she. My ex wife claimed all sorts of bullshit on my character, thought I wouldn't be able to function without her. I proved her wrong. Not sure what's hard to understand about relationships failing. When they do, people fight and act out icebergs of relationship issues. They don't fight about what's actually happening in the moment. It's a ton of things you let go here and there that build to fever pitch. You tend to exaggerate people's faults when it goes tits up.
Yeah, pretty much all women’s ex’s are controlling, manipulative, abusive and violent. It’s just about getting that narrative out in the court of public opinion.
She didn't do a bunch of character assassination though. What she shared was pretty humiliating to her. It ended up he didn't really love her when the shine faded. He cared more about his career. Some guys do. It wasn't just his career, he had to change countries, plus jobs for her and it was too much. Even when he dragged her back to Australia w/ him, the career was still more important. It's not so far fetched that some men are truly like that. He wants a wifey that fades into the background, doesn't cause him embarrassment and doesn't get in the way, and is a convenience at home.
I think a hindsight red flag that could've been touched upon was that she was a secret the whole time. If he wasn't telling anyone he had personal relationships with that Lauren was his wife so long after marriage, even if he was iffy about it for his career, it reeks of non-committal or the shame you mentioned. You shouldn't really be ashamed of your partner, unless it's just their guilty pleasure favourite films or something innocuous, but not them as an entire person.
I had a bad breakup with a girl I knew for years, and she seemed to break it off at least partly due to my limited ambitions. She was a bit of a city girl and had started a career earlier than me. I was still in university and trying to feel out my post-graduation career, but I was quite honest about being unsure what to do, and that didn't seem to sit well.
I'm glad I didn't bullshit and fake more ambition and assuredness, otherwise god knows how much worse it could've ended later.
That's a good point about her being a secret and needed to be. He was deluding himself that he could somehow make her the obscure little housewife that he clearly wanted. Why go for someone w/ the kind of high profile and notoriety she had, when that is the total opposite of what you want in your life?
Love when Bass brings the wisdom. It my favorite thing about him. Like I always say it's not marriage that's the problem, but the people in it.
Dude. This is her side of the story. True or not. She is the one with the megaphone and that creates an uneven playing field.
It was a terrible idea for Lauren to marry a fed, especially from a country that is so far away from her native Canada.
Humanity, as a whole, is lost.
The age of decadence bred a generation that wants everything, but doesn’t know what they want.
You can’t have it all. We simply don’t have the time to do everything life has to offer.
So you must carefully choose a select few things and stick with it through thick and thin.
Hobbies, relationships, etc.
I wonder if people pass the buck unto institutions because it would absolve them of wrongdoing. However here, Lauran seem to be willing to take responsibly for her actions, but It was her choice of a husband as you so accuracy laid out. I believe you're on to something about ambitious men. Especially since so many women complain about their men spending "too much time at the office". Maybe these women should seek men that want families more than they want titles? ... But who am I kidding... A lot of these men while taking care of themselves, doesn't show the same financial safety net. These women in general place financial safety over, Family stability.
And revel in this beautiful world the strong woman 💪 has helped to create 😂🙏❤️
Thank you qweens!
We've also heard women say that their men are too clingy. I think it's just a case of damned if you do, damned if you don't.
I'm an agorophobic lonely looser and the thought of moving an entire country to be with someone is ludicrous to me, it's insanity. I can't imagine there was an ounce of actual critical thinking involved with that decision.
Maaaan..... I just had a conversation with someone getting divorced last night about this. It's funny how a lot of Men and women were swear off marriage. But completely ignore the fact that they chose the wrong person to be with. It pains me to see people trying to make a relationship work when they're not being honest with themselves; suppressing goals to make the other person happy. Then, a lot to become resentment and explode like a tactical nuke. It's mind boggling that so mean people blame marriage but don't take accountability for their bad decisions! Don't get me wrong what Lauren has experience is rough. But, what was her part to play to make her husband be distant to her? It's easier to trash on someone without knowing the full story. That is something worth investigating. Honestly she is at fault as much as her ex-husband. Just because she is attractive doesn't mean a damn thing. I've seen people cheat on beautiful people all the time. At the end of the day those folks are secretly pursuing something that they actually desire and forcing themselves to be in relationships that they do not really desire. I would assume it's because of some childhood / emotional trauma that's not being addressed. Something to think about...
Either way whether its the marriage... Or them. They still probably shouldn't marry either way, so "in the end it doesn't even matter" Right?
Well said Brother - But who is willing to shed light on that "mirror darkly"? Women function from feelings and if your relationship - even friendship - only exists when you "feel" validated - well then - enjoy the silence...lol (note the flesh spiraling - out and in - that is the "Lizard Brain") ua-cam.com/video/-_3dc6X-Iwo/v-deo.html
...Here is that same band when it still had hopeful ideals. ua-cam.com/video/zuWQitNlvf0/v-deo.html
Men should:
1. Never marry a career women.
2. Never follow a women ANYWHERE!
3. Always tell the truth.
Women should:
1. Follow her husband.
2. Be a helpmate.
3. Marry him for his CHARACTER!
Agreed about all you said. Couple of remarks though: we just heard her version of the story, heard he posted some stuff about this relation, could be interesting to put his version in paralel I didn't care enough to look it up, because I don't know these people, I know her name but never seen her content.
But regardless, from experience it isn't easy to pick someone (like we random dudes had that much choice to pick from to begin with).... lets be honest we pick by default more than anything else, someone who will tick enough boxes but later can totally flip from full of honor from weak and petty.
It's hard to see through the act played during the seduction and early stages of a relationship. People can seem reliable for a long while, maintain a facade because they understood what you expect so they will mimic that until after years of life together, it was just that: an act they played because they wanted you to fall for them?
Plus women can change radically the moment they have the child they wanted frst, from you only secondarly, and then it's just over she isn't the women you fell in love with anymore.
I don't understand how *you* can be around Red Pilled concepts and still make a 45 minute video defending that woman.
Simpin ain't easy, my friend
EXACTLY .. this is crazy.. The fake redpill/fake conservative grift is unreal.
He isn't redpill though... is he? If not, why would he look at the situation with a redpill lense?
Because the future of mankind is dependant on men and women working together.
The sex wars are just depopulation propaganda.
You can clearly see that he *chooses* not to address the situation from a red pill lens. Cuz that would be too presumptuous.
What I've noticed looking at divorces where the guy "became mean" to her over time is that the guy 9 out of 10 times is more attractive than her.
Perhaps. On a technicality, that’s how it always is, isn’t it? With great power comes great responsibility, however most people want to act like The Green Goblin, instead of Spider-man.
People are often times selfish, and when they feel they can get away with things, they do it because there’s no morality or care to stop them.
With the more attractive person, there is as I say, a lack of character in them most people seem to refuse to acknowledge because they want to have sex with them. As such, attractive people never change to be better because people just want to keep using them.
It’s a cycle that keeps going until someone decides to break it.
@@BASSFZz I think it's more base than that. He knows his SMV is higher than hers, yet at some point and eventually, she decides to shit test him or lose respect when HE was the one who settled...his decision however
@BASSFZz .. I love Norman Osborne not gonna lie, he has the best qoutes " Strong enough to have it all too weak to take it"
@@Ashcroft1313 oh it’s an excellent quote. Thematically, the Green Goblin is truly Spider-man’s greatest foe.
What I love about stories is how we can connect them back to our life. The Green Goblin is all about greed and selfishness. Using your power to take what you want. The end result of that is always what? Other people getting hurt, and you ending up alone or worse.
The point is to not be like The Goblin. 🤣
@BASSFZz You right.. but he got that rizz though 🥲
Show of hands how many of you guys would throw away your career mind you not job but career for your family not to talk of a woman, i dont believe anything she says for a second, its the same old story modern woman gets man to simp woman loses interest and divorce
So what's the lie you're trying to imply?
He wasn't a Fed?
He didn't actually have a career?
They didn't actually move to Canada?
@@ShockgueyThat she divorced him and that was really unusual for him to do that. Though that doesn't mean anything.
She has the uncanny ability to make one bad decision after another in pursuit of what, exactly? The appearance of looking trad or hypocritical? And the correct thirst was for Lauren Chen although Southern has her appeal.
You might be on to something, I would take a significantly hotter conservaboomer GF over one that needs to travel the globe and make documentaries
@@boogie1434 TBH I did not like the people around Southern very much. Particularly her Rebel crew of the gay guys. Effeminate gay guys and the women who hang out around them tend to be disasters.
@@boogie1434 That South Africa documentary was pretty good though tbf.
I'm married and super happy. To be honest, I find it hard to be hyper involved with online stuff (content creation) and be happily married.
There are a few who can successfully pull it off.
Some women online be thinking all men are Vergil lol.
Lauren is the kind of person that says one thing but does the other... she claims that she "just wants to be a housewife", but will never be satisfied with the kind of life that that would entail, she is an activist first and will spend all her time making her "brand".
When you are such an opinionated person, no man can be enough, because he can't ever be "the man" in the relationship without being seen as vilanous/controlling, even if he does everything that she claims that she wants.
I didn't get that impression from her at all. Not one thing she said even alluded to that. In fact, she did leave her job, her public life, even her right to have political opinions all to the wayside to try to make that marriage work. She signed it all away when she moved to Australia w/ him. She also left her family, friends and support when she'd just had a child.
We live in a culture that celebrates and purpurates evil. In many ways to be truly successful in this world, you need to be agnostic to engaging in evil acts (see; ePimp, Andrew Tate). Maybe it's not ambition itself that is psychopathic, but ambition without moral resignation
Men are always on their best behaviour when dateing. They act like the best guy when theybwant to wife you. You only really know someone after you marry them. Then you know who they truly are.
Women do the same.
@@libertarianrevolution7026 I don't even think all men and women do that. There are always going to be many things you won't find out about a person until you live w/ them for awhile though. People have to be mature enough to expect that and brace themselves for the inevitable.
Hey Bassfzz, how do you know he's "craptastic"? There's always three sides to a story: his side, her side, and the truth. We ONLY heard her side, and no amount of caveats will guarantee that she's being objective or giving the proper context. It's amazing to me how all the women I've ever known (yes, literally all of them) exit their relationship and if you listen to them, they're completely blameless.
Here's a hint for you to look at that she had some major issues in the relationship: what were the behaviors she was exhibiting that she blamed on her adhd? Because no one is going to care if you have adhd and make demands that you get over it unless the behavior is causing serious issues. She glosses over what she actually did and hid it behind a diagnosis. I'd imagine if we asked him, we'd get a much different series of events then she outlined.
I told my husband that I would not divorce him when stuff got hard. That I was aware of the changes we'd eventually have to navigate together, but that we would HAVE to navigate since I wasn't going anywhere, no matter how much he wanted me gone, or vice versa. 😂😂😂😂😂 we've been married for 9 years and we've been together for 12.
Also, turn to God, and he will give the woman a blueprint for the man she should value, and a man will get the blueprint for who he must be. God Bless, Zerse.
Lauren southern apparently told her man the same thing 😂❤
God bless ya
@@Macheako big doubt, bit back at ya! 💜
Lauren is not rich from all the simps? she could not supporty the household? why would he give up his job anyways your marriage and work life should not mix it's just a bizarre reason to leave your job and to get divorced...
Furthermore your thought on the husband divorcing her because she is who she is pretty out of line. because you wouldn't divorce her doesn't mean he should not have you don't know what the dude's reasoning was, stay on topic, she choose the most dramamtic choice and now she is a single mother over the fact.
Rich doesn't mean shit if you keep your capital as a liquid asset. She was constantly referencing "I still had some money left-" as if she just sits on a bank account.
they were most likely living beyond their means
I would love to have a family, but thats for married people and a big fear of mine is divorce.
I was and am the same. Have a family and still fearful of divorce. There's some past relationship trauma my spouse and I have which add to some trust issues I have with them and fuel the fear of divorce more, to the point promises that we will always be together feel a bit empty at times, but my spouse isn't a terrible person (not good perhaps but not evil) and we try to make it work daily. I at least 100% love my spouse though I have resentments.
You gotta cover hunter avallone divorce. It is soo messed up and funny 😂. It might also add to show lauren cheated on her husband with the soy destiny.
I've heard her name but never caught her speaking. From this video it seems this guy ran into an actual woman willing to pursue intimate connection, and he picks the machine instead of that and his children. Welcome to clown world. I have a difficult time believing this is true and I am sure the story is more than this. I'm indifferent, but fishy
From either side, if there is no abuse involved, and when expectations are not met.. You make it work. Divorce is an easy way for most these days.
"Abusive" men are just men who actually aren't afraid to apply discipline to their other.
Damn son did she turn you down that hard.
So disgusting, she basically admits to marrying and having a child with a psychopat
My take is she's either going threw/is divorced. In that she's seeing nothing but discontent and failure around marriage tells me 2 things in this video or 3. But I'll make 4 main points
1. Zerse love your content but unfortunately I think you are forever doomed to call for Character,ethics, morals, values and principles in people that would force them to think about someone other than themselves
2. She's got a bit of a point on it even if she's a bit of a shit magnet not unique to her as we should speak generally: women are spoiled for choice, heavily erratic and incapable of living in peace and the female existence is uniquely peaceful so they seek chaos for entertainment whilst men exist in chaos and seek peace. So #2 I think women are simultaneously insatiable/over stimulated like a chronic male porn user .
So point #3
Point #3 Simply put what wets women's....lilies or gives that spark, that hedonism is antithetical to a long term relationship. Like you covered at the end they want what they want and they want it now. So all these tie in to my 4th point
4 and final: women are incompatible with men and as time and technology advance men and women become antagonistic toward one another. Lacking in these virtues zerse preaches (love, empathy, compassion ect) women are incompatible with men. Particularly the men w that thing, the justin waller, tall, black metal credit card w a 7 figure limit, abs all these vapid, vainglorius shallow things...they'll never settle divorce will be high. Relationships will be few and far in between and women will fck off to their yacht parties and getting passed around sexually whilst men f off into pron, gaming their careers and the billionaires will get what they wanted disgenic birth rates to reduce the population
@@flexjohnson18 2 of your replies are hidden btw.
The "HAPPY" Marriage statistic at most (optimistic) recent estimate is 1 in 4.
When women start looking for actually good men AND NOT JUST AFTER THEY HIT THE WALL (+ not cuckolding good men with NOT GOOD MEN'S kids): the world might start to spin in a positive direction....(yeah right XD ).
Didn't Jordan Peterson say that lots of "high value men" are psychopaths?
What I learnt from this video is. Lauren is available again, and a desperate single mom. Nows our chance boys!
You come across as a pick me boy, pick me and I won't be like all those other boys. Yeah..right
I mean. I’m not. I know I’m not because when given the same opportunity I prove myself time and time again. So…ehh? 🤔😂
Given you said you were Christian
29:40 onward a bit Made me think of Luke 22:24-30
The king of the universe, the alpha and omega came to us as one that served. One that was humble and not seeking to demean or look down upon people in society. Yet he himself would have had every right to. Though he attracted great crowds, he didn't even seek fame. Often actively avoiding it.
You describe people quite opposite. People wanting the status, wealth, fame- materialism. Fallen people seeking these things, yet the creator himself didn't when taking human form.
The alpha and omega instead instructing us to be humble. Imagine society pushing values such as these instead of more Social Darwinism. That likely would solve a lot of these issues.
In my opinion Lauren only pretends to be trying to be fair to her ex because she is probably by far in the wrong and has something to hide.
If you take how she talked about the ENTIRE MANOSPHERE saying it was toxic through and through, she clearly has no issues with making things political.
If Lauren pretends to be coming at thing in an even handed way it is probably because she cheated and cucked the guy and did everything wrong in the book.
But even if that is an incorrect guess, what she does here is say "I wasn't fair to men, I threw them all under the bus. I said the entire manosphere was toxic. BUT I want you to put that aside now and be fair to me; hear me out."
No thanks Lauren.
To make a functional and happy Family takes sacrifice. It feels like this was doomed from the start. Honestly both of these people should not be starting families - they both seem selfish.
She made a massive sacrifice to keep her family together and try and make her marriage work. She signed away her career and ability to make money, moved country, left all family and friends and went into obscurity in Australia. I don't see where that was selfish?
The fact she still didn’t understand at the time of making this video that a security clearance only describes a model of security. Everyone with a top-secret level security clearance does not have access to all top-secret classified information. I might have top-secret clearance with a government contracted company who makes shelving for the storage closets and some of that information might be how long the shelf is and the length and diameter of screws used. I could then claim with 100% integrity that I have a top-secret level clearance. I could then appear even more mysterious by saying that I’m not allowed to discuss confidential information. When Lauren and Stefan did their tour of Australia and New Zealand, they greatly enraged the powers that be. All that happened was a type of CIA agent was given as much intelligence on her as possible. His mission was to get her knocked up and then they banned her from the country. If he really had that much influence and wanted her and the child to be able to see the family, he would’ve pulled some strings and made it happen. In reality, his mission was complete, and he and the country have no use for her anymore. Even after her demonstrating very little regard for her own security when she decided to share hotel rooms with Antifa members, she still doesn’t seem to understand the definition of psychological operation. It’s really quite sad.
Come back BASS 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I’m sorry I’ve been gone my man. I’ll be back to uploading soon. 👍
Many military jobs allow individuals to acquire skills that will transfer to a very nice position in the private sector.
If someone has intelligence position in the government, those skills are certainly transferable. Even Talking Heads on TV have those positions due to the fact they claim to have had some sort of, sensitive, secret, or top-secret clearance at some point in the past. The reason these clearances are apparently seldomly revoked is because that information is eventually no longer relevant to current operations.
Which one is more likely:
A man with a prestigious career and skill set happens to have the one job in his field, which doesn’t carry with it transferable skills.
Or
He was given a set time to be out of the country until he was due to report back for duty, at which time he returned, she unexpectedly went with him and that’s why the state needed to remove her or prevent her from re-entering the country.
He idolized her. She idolized tradwifery, which is hard work and at times mundane. This was doomed from the start. They need to find Jesus.
I agree with what you said - Lauren is not a traditional woman. She’s a modern woman. I hope she finds Jesus and can find healing.
You going to talk about Hunter?
If true, all this does is prove women can also be manipulated. It just takes a bit more work to pull off (looks, money, status). Fulfill one or all of those criteria to a high degree and you’re “good”.
Why did she make a public statement about him?
Because rumors were speculating? I’m new to this news of her getting divorced
No one ever seems to answer why this spark as you call it…is there in the first place if the person is oh so wrong for you? Doesn’t make sense to me. I believe we are for everyone we are with…and stop…don’t be “body count” monitor….it could be 5 people or 50 or 1….either way…we are with the right person at all times. It’s just a matter of when the relationship will run its course…and you also may never understand why they were ever right for you.
This is a classic case of why men should not let go of their dreams for a woman- why ANYONE shouldn't, eventually it builds resentment. I dodged this vid for a while but if you think about why he was doing what he was doing instead of demonizing him it makes total sense. He was in a honeymoon phase in love, made the wrong decision, had to rely on his wife to provide for the family (Do you know how emasculating that feels?Well respected man having to be supported by his wife?),when their child is born he figures he has to become the provider so he bluffed and used an ultimatum, then he knowing what she's going through because he just went through it with moving to canada not knowing anyone, he probably thinks she resents him for making her give up on her dreams and the only way to cope is to project that resentment, just as a guy who is cheating on his gf will think she's cheating on him. I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, but it's more textbook than anything. The significant other should always be second in life, because if they are gone what will you have?Who will you be without them? You never throwaway dreams for other people because while it's romantic it will always transform into resentment when the chemicals are gone.
Word on the street is that she was having an affair with destiny
The fact that any women would consider having sex with destiny should not reproduce
An affair with a 5'4" libcuck is just sad. If true, I lost all respect for her.
eh that was said by that mentally ill onlyfans model so I wouldn't believe it too much
Destiny? the game or that striper with blue hair? 😅
I need some info guys. 😂😅
always such quality content; I hope she watches this. She does need real introspection.
The only question I have for him is why de he even get married to her 🤦♂️
This is also why chastity is very important. I don’t know if getting pregnant out of wedlock influenced her choice to rush into that marriage but I’d imagine it would. I didn’t watch the original video she put out so I don’t know if she touched on that bit. Don’t behave like a wife to the man you aren’t married to and don’t behave like a husband to the woman you aren’t married to.
Its not so much chastiy its more like men and women when they have sex should be sure that the people they have sex with they are good people that if a child is created they know they can be in a long term relationship
Maybe thats exactly what you mean lol
Maybe I missed it. Did she say they had a kid before getting married? I thought it was after or unclear.
@@mrshmuga9 No they got married before the kid, it was AFTER she gave birth with the newborn where he said "if you dont move with with me i will divorce you"
Mans such a POS
@@mrshmuga9 the point of the OP imo is simply saying be dam sure who you fuck so if you happen to have a child they where already marriage material or s good person so you wont be screwed over like lauren ( regardless if it was her fault for ignoring his his red flags)
@@xMckingwillpersonally I don’t think people should have sex outside of marriage
lesson here at the end of the day, NEVER TRUST THE FEDS
One of your best ma man! You made a very relative point. Although, I still think that the relative think that has changed is not people but the laws concerning marriage.
JESUS CHRIST WAS MONK. HE WAS TH3 ONLY ONE. HE KNEW WHAT THEY ARE.
I am surprised that somebody as smart as Lauren married a guy who is obviously not a good person and was not a good match for her.
It's easy for us to see it all in retrospect now. She does now too, surely w/ bitter regret. I'm pretty sure her thinking at the time was wanting to avoid the pitfall of marrying one of her fans, that had no idea who she really was, but liked the idea of her. So she marries someone instead who doesn't care about her activism, or online Lauren Southern. He was unfortunately so much the opposite of caring about online Lauren that he ended up pretty much hating her for it, as it threatened his #1 priority in life, his career.
Regarding the Lauren and her ability to create thirst:
Remember that first book she wrote had a section where she talked about enjoying the power she had while doing cosplay and making men burn inside. It is unfortunate that the beauty and the beast fairytale is not sold to women as a fictional story. They grow up believing that they have such incredible sexual power that they can tame even the most ferocious of beasts and so they try. I’m sure she initially relish at the thought of being able to turn a ferocious federal agent into a sniffling lapdog. Older women are simply women who have gone through. This should be the first ones warning, their younger sisters in order to protect them and spare them such devastating loss.
Like Lauren said in the marriage reveal video a number of times, she wishes she could have known what her younger self didn't know. I never read the book you mentioned, which presumably she wrote when she was in her teens. So I think she was likely past that type of thinking when she married. She took too much of a gamble on the man she married though. I guess in wanting someone who wasn't marrying her as the fan fantasy girl, she went so much the opposite to someone who realy didn't want her for any of her public work, but wished she was just an anonymous person. Which she can never be again.
I luv my wifeeee I luv wife, aye!
Choosing toxic partners or people with a personality disorder is not just something Women do. The Manosphere is full of guys who have picked Women like this. At least Lauren is not saying "all men are like that". She at least takes responsibility for her choices.
She was very fair about this and really tried to understand his side. I think she's learned a lot of lessons about everything she says online is forever, ,and can always be found and held against her. I think when she made this video, she very much had it in mind that her son would hear it all one day. And she didn't want to be bashing his dad in full view of the world, and eventually hurting her son w/ her hasty words.
@@saintejeannedarc9460 Most likely. 😊
Yeah not gonna trust her without hearing from him. Like from go she wanted an traditional marriage... so its weird in that traditional marriage his last name was southern too because she took his last name, right? Lauren Southern is a social scorpion so any social contract she gets into with any frog is going to end the same. Also my favorite piece of trash chad philosophy I found hilarious with how true it is - "never lie to a woman, if she really likes you she will lie to herself for you."
Also the previous societies before the ones that we are since the 70's is the reason why a bunch of marriages stayed together during those times that they would rather let it go 1. you had to have a reason to divorce not "i am not happy right now" and 2. the person who broke their vows was ostracized by those societies
Lauren's real last name is not Southern. That is her stage name. I do not know if she took this guy's last name or not, but her using the stage name Southern does not answer this question.
Ladies stop expecting the man to change who he is to please you and to change his job. She wanted him to accept her but she couldn’t accept his job and move on from him. I’ve spoken to many men about this and they always regret having done what the woman wanted them to do because that’s not who they are and the relationship suffers. Case in point Lauren Southern. Men stop entertaining and then marrying women who want you to change for them. Modern women because they’re not held accountable especially by the people on the right who are all about accountably never hold women accountable these women will love you as long as you become the man they want you to be. They don’t love you for who you are they love you for who they want you to be. The sad truth is you become the simp she tells you to be she’ll cheat on you with a man completely opposite of you. Don’t give women what they want give them what they need a hard dose of reality.
You're just spouting a bunch of red pill talking points. Most of them don't even apply here. I agree she shouldn't have tried to be w/ someone that had to change his job to be w/ her, because that obviously backfired. She was willing to relocate and completely give up her own career and even political opinions to be w/ him though. She actually did that. We all watched her fade into obscurity, w/ no explanation.
You never know who you going to fall in love with Mate
That is the best responce to the divorse statistic ive seen in a long time. Nice.
I didn't get that read,at first she said she wasn't going to make it political but then slowly throws 6:20 6:20 6:20 her ex under the bus.
This also reminds me of the vid she did a few years back when she threw a lot of conservative firebrands under the bus,not arguing the right or wrong of it or defending them at all.
But the premise I got from this video and that one is she is miss princess not so bright and got sucked into it.
She alludes, very minutely, that it was her career and controversy it created
that closed doors professionally for her husband.
I lost a lot of respect for her and dont feel she is being genuine.
ignore the time stamp😂
was the guy chad or top earner?
Hey bass. Love your stuff. I know that you said that she picked the wrong mate. Which i agree with to some extent. If she picked a horribly disfigured man she wouldnt be dealing with this. However, i would like to add that what if people change, more so the lust that he had for her wore off. He was willling to do anything to get her at first. But it changed when he got used to her. Her lustur just wore. I have had a lot of girls say what ever they needed to say to get me and just change up on me once they get what they want. So its kinda what lauren is going through. I feel for her.😢
Indeed. That’s why I also tell people to understand the representation people have when they first meet people.
But here’s the thing. People will always act correct when you have something they want. The real question is how do people act when they CANT get what they want. Many people don’t think about that.
I will be fair. People can change their minds, and change the way the feel with time. For better or for worse. But based on what Lauren said, I think the guy here just never really had his heart in it.
Good point but also recognize that marriage is the place of selflessness. Even if her luster has worn off that doesn’t mean you stop loving her or abandon your child. Then I’m turn, if she loves you she can try to do what pleases you to make that burden lighter. It’s supposed to be a constant give and take.
Good take dude
Yeah mate its called being turned on 🤣🤣🤣
i haven't heard of Lauren Southern, But i would love to be with Jenna Ortega from Wednesday or ice spice. i am a short guy and i want a short girl. thank you for this video BASS.
Jenna seems like a good girl she was shitting on social media a week back.
@@Shockguey oh, i can look into that. Can you send me a Video or a Aritcle talking about that? i did hear about that in the Wednesday show.
I think you overvalue Lauren Southern to an unhealthy degree. You don’t know what she’s like behind closed doors and you never heard the husbands side of the story. To argue that Lauren Southern is some kind of special woman is ridiculous. She’s just a woman like any other, and this is a failed marriage like any other. People didn’t agree on lifestyle so they split up.
I was one of those 2016 thirsty s1mps. And I agree.
I ended up doing the black pill advice of geoMaxxing. Russian blonde blue eyed gorgeous woman, that’s out of my league.
Lauren could have had any guy, even prince Harry.