The mechanics of our relationship: What works for us.

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024

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  • @Mr.T6338
    @Mr.T6338 7 місяців тому +7

    Greetings from botswana disabled with (spina bifida ) Botswana Gaborone, May God keep you two together.

  • @puculwasolwandle9843
    @puculwasolwandle9843 7 місяців тому +15

    I said PROVIDING even before Msi said it. I really believe that's a man's contribution,taking care of the finamces. ❤❤❤

  • @mandisambangula3275
    @mandisambangula3275 6 місяців тому +3

    We don't have a helper and i can feel it, coming from work and then having to start another "shift" at home is a lot. My husband helps sometimes but he is mostly too tired as his job is very physically taxing so I try to do the house chores. This morning he made us breakfast and washed the dishes, that was amazing, i dont kow, somehow it pumped me up to wanna bake flr us, make a hearty meal nje maarn, getting help is very encouraging.
    Our kids are small, recently started school. I make sure the lunches are packed and they always have exciting lunches. Lol I realized I need to just sign all the school messages and be on par about school event dates and and. My husband is an amazing provider. I was telling a friend that every cent he makes, it could be that he fixed someones plug 🔌 or whatever wiring (he's an Electrician), he will bring that R500 home. He's amazing with the kids, he buys the toys, lol I'm terrible with that. I think we've found our mojo on who does what, just the taking care of the house and cooking that's a bit of an issue for me sometimes.

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  6 місяців тому +1

      It becomes so effortless when roles are divided. Thank husby when he makes an effort to help with things that you'd normally do. That may encourage him to assist with more things, especially with the kids, those little administrative things that aren't physically taxing. Thanks 💕 for sharing.

  • @nonhlebixa2928
    @nonhlebixa2928 7 місяців тому +13

    I love how Somi Loves Msi Maan, she's soo in love with her husband, how she looks at her is still the same as the first time i saw them the couple of years ago ❤you guys are blessed the Lord continue to protect and bless your marriage ❤

  • @rollykgware
    @rollykgware 7 місяців тому +17

    I love how you took us back to basics. The things you mentioned Somi, are what we do everyday mostly without realizing that we are actually investing in our marriages. Eye opening episode this one. ❤

  • @yolandadyantyi6789
    @yolandadyantyi6789 6 місяців тому +3

    oh pray Somi bust in that prayer anywhere and everywhere. much love 🥰

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym21 7 місяців тому +11

    This was a beautiful conversation. 🫶🏾
    🌸I hope somewhere in this season we can have a “spin off” with Sis’ Somi going into greater detail about her home making routine , I definitely wanted to learn more.
    🌼Bhud’Msi please create a planning app , or a separate series on budgeting , planning, travel checklists etc, you have no idea how useful this will be for many families and individuals .
    🌺.. Also continue to pray without ceasing Sis’Somi, I believe there is a special blessing that comes through a mother’s prayer for her family 🙏🏾

    • @ntombisigonya3760
      @ntombisigonya3760 7 місяців тому +1

      You are really a team ! Love this couple. Blessings..
      Blessings ❤

  • @nthabimabuza1031
    @nthabimabuza1031 7 місяців тому +3

    Somi you really touched my heart ❤when you talked about a praying woman 💪👏24 7 wow wow and as the couples work hand in hand ✋ I love clean home always. Msi he is the man of the house he is the minister of finance 😂👊💪

  • @julietsithole9930
    @julietsithole9930 7 місяців тому +4

    Prayer prayer prayer… planning planning planning. Thank you for the tips 🙏

  • @katlego5077
    @katlego5077 7 місяців тому +4

    These guys really love each other yaz! I love how they embrace and enjoy their roles ! Beautiful

  • @thulipule4754
    @thulipule4754 7 місяців тому +6

    Colour coordination noticed 👌👌👌♥️❤️❤️♥️

  • @gomotsangmanja5354
    @gomotsangmanja5354 6 місяців тому +2

    It's literally the smallest things hey🥺😍😍😍God bless and keep your marriage ❤️Happy 10 years in advance

  • @Monsterbrawller
    @Monsterbrawller 7 місяців тому +5

    Man after my own heart. The spreadsheet and all.

  • @lesedilucymotloung
    @lesedilucymotloung 7 місяців тому +2

    I have enjoyed your previous content but this is GOLDEN, I have learned so much, thanks fam 💖
    Madame I also tried to be my own nails tech but 😂😅just doesn't work, it takes so much time.
    I take with me" to Prioritize my home,even if I have to cancel other commitments" this point just gave me so much peace . I love you guys and forever grateful for sharing your lives with us.

  • @hkay6512
    @hkay6512 7 місяців тому +7

    I watched this video two times, oh I truly enjoy your sit down videos. May God continue to bless your union Somi & Msi ❤❤❤

  • @nomceboDlamini-ip6nz
    @nomceboDlamini-ip6nz 7 місяців тому +4

    This is by far the best video I've seen on UA-cam this year 😊🙏❤ took a lot from it

  • @siviwekulu6996
    @siviwekulu6996 7 місяців тому +5

    PRAYING!!! The greatest contribution. Inkulu loo ndima sisi wam yhoo 🙌🏾

  • @conniemorapi9891
    @conniemorapi9891 7 місяців тому +6

    ❤wooow so blessed sana uneNdoda nyan.lovely family 🎉

  • @FifiOnthenet2
    @FifiOnthenet2 7 місяців тому +4

    You guys compliment each other so much. Happy 10 years in advance 🥺🌸❤️.

  • @KaramaRapolile
    @KaramaRapolile 7 місяців тому +2

    Pray sisi😊...fill that place with the Holy Spirit

  • @zwidofhelanganiprudence4135
    @zwidofhelanganiprudence4135 7 місяців тому +3

    Prayer 👏👌is everything

  • @mariamalephotomoletsanegas7891
    @mariamalephotomoletsanegas7891 7 місяців тому +5

    I love that Msi 👏👏👏👏 well done you find the budget and plan going well. Very impressive. Thanks Somi taking care of the house and family 👋👋👋 well done. ❤

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @siviwekulu6996
    @siviwekulu6996 7 місяців тому +4

    Yhooo! Nivela phi?!

  • @Dee-yd6mo
    @Dee-yd6mo 7 місяців тому +3

    Guys u inspire us, love u 😍🥰

  • @leratoshilakwe
    @leratoshilakwe 7 місяців тому +4

    Making marriage look so beautiful. May God bless your union ❤

  • @NomatshaweTshiwula
    @NomatshaweTshiwula 4 місяці тому +1

    Guys im enjoying your topics,im smiling alone here

  • @Sasa77662
    @Sasa77662 7 місяців тому +3

    I have the same exact role or contribution as Somi 😊 and I’m happy with. For me also it’s my way of serving my God. The spreadsheet I initially introduced it coz I’m the bookkeeper, but as years progressed my hubby took over and is doing an excellent job.
    Thank you for the awesome video

  • @mpumelelomagoso1315
    @mpumelelomagoso1315 6 місяців тому +1

    Aowa guys it's so good to have you guys back. I missed Msi's humour. Your love is such a beautiful love story ❤

  • @nontlahlasobuza8764
    @nontlahlasobuza8764 7 місяців тому +1

    Sanithandi yhoooo....Somi the way you look at ur husband...beautiful ❤

  • @ZandileZikhona-bz9pi
    @ZandileZikhona-bz9pi 7 місяців тому +3

    I love u guys ❤❤❤❤
    Thanks for sharing yo life wt us
    Basic ,little things an foundation that u touched are my principles ,they drive into relationship or out of relationships
    Thanks u ..I v been followed since yo beginnig .you inspires me for life
    GOD BLESS YOU LOVELIY FAMILY❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @comfortisoconsultant5562
    @comfortisoconsultant5562 7 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful. I have to apply to understudy this spreadsheet

  • @KaramaRapolile
    @KaramaRapolile 7 місяців тому +2

    Yho!!!..love is beautiful

  • @MotherElephant7
    @MotherElephant7 7 місяців тому +3

    Just subscribed, lol I’ve been watching tons of your videos without subscribing. I am ashamed 😂. But I did the right thing ❤

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Thanks for subbing!

  • @sibahlesidukwana3520
    @sibahlesidukwana3520 7 місяців тому +3

    Long time no see 🥲, I am glad that you guys are back 👏🏽👏🏽❤️

  • @noxolomatshaka2257
    @noxolomatshaka2257 7 місяців тому +2

    I love you beautiful and wise family. I love so much everything you are sharing with us. Praying together as a married couple is so amazing and spiritually it does something. God is good. What I love about your videos I'm always learning a lot a a married woman. Sometimes you would think you are doing much as a woman but as Somi is prioritizing her home is what I really enjoy it a lot🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️Stay blessed my family

  • @thandiswabusakwe4665
    @thandiswabusakwe4665 7 місяців тому +2

    We are being spoiled la ekhaya❤🎉love this for us

  • @monicajames6114
    @monicajames6114 7 місяців тому +2

    This was good!

  • @KaramaRapolile
    @KaramaRapolile 7 місяців тому +2

    Effortless love ❤😊

  • @KhutsoB
    @KhutsoB 7 місяців тому +2

    My big sis and big bro❤❤❤❤❤..... U guys are just awesome.... I love u so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kefimoruane1223
    @kefimoruane1223 7 місяців тому +2

    Love lives here, i am learning a lot from you family.Keep it up❤️

  • @asandaligugu5352
    @asandaligugu5352 7 місяців тому +2

    Sancumanga watching this

  • @zimkitamawonga-qz7ic
    @zimkitamawonga-qz7ic 7 місяців тому +1

    You guys complement each other I love that ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰. Thank you for sharing your life with us🌹🌹🌹

  • @maameamissah9320
    @maameamissah9320 7 місяців тому +2

    Awww I've really missed you people. Love you....

  • @thulipule4754
    @thulipule4754 7 місяців тому +2

    Heeellllo family ❤️❤️❤️❤️this one came quicker than expected, which is sooo appreciated..❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      You are so welcome

  • @paulinevanrensburg8930
    @paulinevanrensburg8930 7 місяців тому +2

    PRAYER PRAYER PRAYER... such a beautiful session ❤ I fully agree with Somi I love praying for my family. It is the little things indeed, the roles are such in our home that my husband loves cooking for us and it works. I clean and ensure that the house is homie❤

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Amen! Thanks for sharing!!

  • @selomiacochrane8342
    @selomiacochrane8342 7 місяців тому +2

    My favourite couple ❤❤❤

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 7 місяців тому +1

    Spreadsheet for me ❤❤...I desire to be that organised hleng!!
    This is great you guys , #accountable and responsible even in small things!!

  • @abongwemasiza534
    @abongwemasiza534 6 місяців тому +1

    This was so beautiful to watch. May God bless you guys❤

  • @dineonkatswang4791
    @dineonkatswang4791 7 місяців тому +7

    Can we change to Buti Msi Mr Spreed Sheet and Sisi Warm, loving Home ❤❤❤
    Honestly it never cross my mind about tonight's discussions that this are important in a marriage but now that you guys are discussing about them it all makes sense and they very important. ❤❤❤

  • @likhonamfamana4269
    @likhonamfamana4269 7 місяців тому +2

    love me some Boltinas, thank you for sharing all this information I love it

  • @boinfila4905
    @boinfila4905 6 місяців тому

    That is sweet Msi, love you so much love is patience ❤️

  • @ZeeT1682
    @ZeeT1682 7 місяців тому +2

    So much love for you ❤

  • @nomalingeprincessmanxiwa9009
    @nomalingeprincessmanxiwa9009 7 місяців тому +3

    Nina nje nobabini andazi ukuba ndithini ngani kodwa ke nizizithandwa ezi thandwa ngamazulu, kuhle ukuba Nani ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mapulakekana8459
    @mapulakekana8459 7 місяців тому +2

    My favs, love seeing notifications popping ❤❤❤😊

  • @Chuga-tp6oj
    @Chuga-tp6oj 6 місяців тому +1

    Umtshato uyatandazelwa Somi awukho rongo cc tuu❤ I think pple take that for granted

  • @phumezatsewu8953
    @phumezatsewu8953 7 місяців тому +1

    Yhooo guys nina uThixo wanisikelela ngentliziyo ezintle ,andisencume lonto ndiva kamnadi 💞

  • @SamkeNgqinambi
    @SamkeNgqinambi 7 місяців тому +1

    Y’all wisdom 🥹🕯️

  • @Mommy_lifestyle_with_Mo
    @Mommy_lifestyle_with_Mo 7 місяців тому +1

    Enjoyed this ❤

  • @tebellomotabaaletta9988
    @tebellomotabaaletta9988 7 місяців тому +2

    Rea le rata( we love you) in Sesotho! God bless you family! We learn so much from you ❤️

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Wow, thank you

  • @genevatshelakgosi5051
    @genevatshelakgosi5051 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow I so have this video and its an eye opening 🥰

  • @nokwethabamdluli6694
    @nokwethabamdluli6694 6 місяців тому +1

    We love you fam❤❤

  • @elsoniaswarts251
    @elsoniaswarts251 7 місяців тому +2

    Happy 10 years of marriage fam. I'm enjoying your videos so so much💃🏾🎉🎂💐🎈

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much 🤗

  • @nichollahove
    @nichollahove 7 місяців тому +2

    I love you guys ❤❤

  • @asavelamakhohliso2323
    @asavelamakhohliso2323 7 місяців тому +1

    Love you family, thank you. ❤❤❤

  • @PeoMmopi
    @PeoMmopi 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow...m learning from you guys...I thnk we have forgotten some of these thngs in our generation...simple things that help marriage thrive...well done guys,this s a godly union,...I love to see this

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Our pleasure!

  • @ZazaMpaka
    @ZazaMpaka 6 місяців тому

    Yhoooooo !! Yhenina I spreadsheet ska Msi

  • @sumeiyaali3755
    @sumeiyaali3755 7 місяців тому +1

    I really really loved this video. I’m so so impressed 👏👏👏👏by you guys, young, focused and so matured. Somi well done, you made me feel like I don’t know my role cos everything you’ve said it’s the things my husband xa engazifumani certain socks or something uyifuna kum. Beautiful guys, learnt a lot from this video ❤❤❤❤

  • @ThuliNkungu
    @ThuliNkungu 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much I enjoyed this episode❤

  • @khumalolungile973
    @khumalolungile973 7 місяців тому +1

    I really love this👌❤.

  • @gaokgakalamhaka4623
    @gaokgakalamhaka4623 7 місяців тому +2

    Woow, i like how you share responsibilities around. ❤❤

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Thank you! 😊

  • @tebooho8582
    @tebooho8582 7 місяців тому +1

    We deserve this consistency guyzin🥰

  • @lungazyapi2009
    @lungazyapi2009 7 місяців тому +2

    Yuuuh I can't wait for my hubby to knock off eSpan, I will watch this again with him ❤️ there's a lot azoyifunda/sizoyifunda
    May God keep blessing your union and may He continue to unihlebela topics emanithethe ngazo kule channel coz I strongly believe you are healing/restoring what the devil robed emitshatweni yethu

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Wonderful! Your words are very encouraging nakuthi. Thank you.

    • @nandingcanga8451
      @nandingcanga8451 7 місяців тому

      Yhoo Msi kuthandazwa even over clothes sana...

  • @thokonene5359
    @thokonene5359 7 місяців тому +1

    Love you both so much .So happy you back ❤

  • @vuyisekadumalisile6309
    @vuyisekadumalisile6309 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank u guys for this ❤️❤️I watched it with my husband we really enjoyed it 😍😍😍 we relate so much to some of the things shared, those basics really build a peaceful home 🏠 😍😍

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Our pleasure! Glad you and husby enjoyed it.

  • @monicajames6114
    @monicajames6114 7 місяців тому +3

    Spreadsheet guy😂😂😂 I'm the Spreadsheet person I hope my husband wherever he is, he's ready with the figures....

  • @nosirumbu2931
    @nosirumbu2931 7 місяців тому +2

    Hey guys , haha tyhooondandingazifuni nam iz spreadsheets ndafunda kancinci kancinci...already sesibona ba ngowphi o more organized😂😂, so educational and informative video

  • @sibongisenifadane2226
    @sibongisenifadane2226 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤ndiyanibuka ndiyanithanda Fam 🎉🎉🎉oh Somi umthandazo nono 😊😊😊

  • @gcobisaboqwana4350
    @gcobisaboqwana4350 7 місяців тому +2

    My prayer too, Somi uba singake sibekwilevel eyi one of prayer nomyenam

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Keep praying Sis, kuzokwenzeka💞

  • @zena3413
    @zena3413 7 місяців тому +1

    You both have very important roles azikho ncinci tuuu❤

  • @ntombekhaya4457
    @ntombekhaya4457 7 місяців тому +5

    Hi beautiful family ❤❤ kaloku tell us about u baby omncinci yhini and sibulela uThixo ngaye nathi besikhona emi thandazweni 😂😂makuthethwe ngaye we waiting 😅❤❤❤❤

  • @nonhlebixa2928
    @nonhlebixa2928 7 місяців тому +1

    I love the praying part, prayer is the Key family, without Jesus we will do nothing in our lives.
    The word of God says" He who builds a house without God is building in vain".
    So i love that you prioritize prayer🙏

  • @HlesiThole
    @HlesiThole 7 місяців тому +2

    Not me liking the video even before watching? 😅. Please don't ever disappear on us like that again❤😢

  • @zibuyilephungula7708
    @zibuyilephungula7708 7 місяців тому +2

    Prayer sisi, room to room👌👌 wenza njalo umfazi😅

  • @kanyiimantwana7455
    @kanyiimantwana7455 7 місяців тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video!!! love you guys loads

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      So glad! Love you too, fam.

  • @nokuthulamthimkhulu8008
    @nokuthulamthimkhulu8008 6 місяців тому +1

    Sanithandi😍😍😍my Fav

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  6 місяців тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @xolelwabucwa2899
    @xolelwabucwa2899 7 місяців тому +1

    Nkosi Fam siyabulela uThixo makanigcine anifihle nihlale niyintsikelelo anikhusele kunye abantwana uThixo anisikelele ngabo❤

  • @chunyiswamthi4782
    @chunyiswamthi4782 7 місяців тому +2

    Bantu bam Madoda ndinithandaaaaah

  • @jacoberthndlovu9485
    @jacoberthndlovu9485 7 місяців тому +1

    Silapha silapha❤❤

  • @InamBovu
    @InamBovu 6 місяців тому

    Abantu bam❤

  • @puculwasolwandle9843
    @puculwasolwandle9843 7 місяців тому +2

    Love you

  • @siviwekulu6996
    @siviwekulu6996 7 місяців тому +4

    Kid(s) 👀
    Hayi bo! Kucaba ndayigqibela kudala le channel!!!
    Ndagqibela kukhona uKunge yedwa!

    • @siyamzukisamkize7286
      @siyamzukisamkize7286 6 місяців тому +1

      Ushiyekile... we now have Baby Olo motsi

    • @siviwekulu6996
      @siviwekulu6996 6 місяців тому

      ​@@siyamzukisamkize7286 heyi ndishiyeke kakhulu!

  • @noxolomatshaka2257
    @noxolomatshaka2257 7 місяців тому +2

    I'm laughing because my Hubby taught me how to budget seriously because as much as I was budgeting I was not that good but now I'm very good even though it's not easy to do so

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Love that!👌🏾💞

  • @sinesine9630
    @sinesine9630 7 місяців тому +3

    Silapha Boltina’s

  • @namawabonogantshi1119
    @namawabonogantshi1119 7 місяців тому +2

    Hi family, Somi siyafana I don’t like indlu engekho clean, also ndiyayithanda imali, I don’t like spread sheet ne budgeting yonke lanto ndifuna uyibuka.

  • @ZazaMpaka
    @ZazaMpaka 6 місяців тому

    Kucacile Somi ba anibi late moss😂😂😂😂

  • @nomvuyondam8978
    @nomvuyondam8978 7 місяців тому

  • @gomotsangmanja5354
    @gomotsangmanja5354 6 місяців тому

    😂😂😂Somi please stop messing up with the spreadsheet 🤣🤣🤣🤣stick to the plan wethu😂😂😂

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  6 місяців тому

      Please tell her. @Msi

  • @ZazaMpaka
    @ZazaMpaka 6 місяців тому

    Ndim lowo ungena budget Bawo😂😂😂😂 ingaske ingapheli imali😂😂😂😂

  • @AndileMM608
    @AndileMM608 7 місяців тому +1

    What is your husband’s star sign? 😂😂😂 he sounds like a Taurus

    • @SomiMsi
      @SomiMsi  7 місяців тому

      Virgo. Why did you think Taurus?

    • @AndileMM608
      @AndileMM608 7 місяців тому

      I’m exactly like him when it comes to to being organized. He’s an earth sign and it makes sense