I'm so glad for her. She has a chance to start a new life. I hope she'll marry that guy. She is blessed. Don't spend a single day pretending your marriage is perfect. I did that with my narcisssist ex-husband for 13 years and it led nowhere. Don't waste your life with a lost case.
She wanted to believe in him but he was so not worthy of her. Glad that she did eventually dump him and move on. Life is too short to put up with jerks like her ex.
@@bron9674 unfortunately, it has nothing to do with the era, but rather with the nature of long term relationship coupled with children. Or to be more precise, with human nature.
@@cancel5015 I really enjoy it when the bad guys are caught and justice is served. And it's especially great when the victim survived against all odds. There is nothing wrong with this "addiction" if you get the same kicks out of it that I do.
It's called a deep relationship & long term connection with someone, it becomes very hard to leave when you invested your life with that person which is unfortunate. Something ppl don't get until they experience it.
the biggest lie that we are fed throughout our adolescence and young adulthood is that children will mature and settle you down, if one kid makes things worse why would two be any different. An immature self centered person does not change, not with marriage or rehab or parenthood
Some women don't want realize their husband are only a burden to them. They wait and wait, they take care and sacrifice their own lives to the end.. for what?
The daughter looked so familiar to me! Then I realised she had a podcast seres with Shane Dawson where she mentioned her mom getting shot. Crazy story! Thankfully the mom is okay 🙌🏼♥️
People who cheat don't realize that the whole family pays the price for their cruel actions. Joe is a nasty narcissist who did this to his family. I'm glad that Mary Jo is ok now and without that evil man.
I'm happy she moved on with her life. Sometimes woman alow abuse because they think they will never love agian. Most of the time you love even better than before 😆😆
It seems to me Mary Jo did everything humanly possible to make the marriage work, but, ultimately, took the right decision to leave & has now found a partner worthy of her. As for her ex-husband, I see nothing but bad times ahead for him - old-age, loneliness, degradation...
Never ask to stop, just leave. Make him think about if he is ok without you or he must stop and beg on his knees for you to return. Yet not return, they never change just make him see what he lost for not giving you the respect you deserve.
It's incredible how women, in general, forget values, compassion, respect and so on, we become blind. It's very sad that this woman gave 100% of herself to this man. He was worthless. Glad to know she moved on. She deserves it ❤
From all the series I watched on these marriages, this is the only woman who is completely adequate and acts adequately during the whole time. Not completely blinded and delusional. I am happy that she survived and found somebody new :)
I read a book written about "Mary Anne," aka Amy Fisher, the husband's lover. Amy thought the amount of time (5- 15 years) she got for shooting Mary Jo was unfair. Her reasoning - that Joe should have taken some of the responsibility because he promised he would leave Mary Jo for her. LOL
Wow, the daughter's statements though..she still wanted her parents to stay together even after the fact....it really shows the very negative impact her dad had on the entire family . He cared nothing about his wife, what if Amy had gone after his kids instead? Would Jessica still have wanted her parents to stay together? I don't think so. That whole family is effed in the head. No clue what Mary Jo saw in him to stay with him for that long, he's not even handsome.
New addition to the family never helped any.. If guys are abusive stop having kids with them.. I saw worse cases.. Wat a lovely lady... Sad that she faced coz of her husband
@@delishme2 he was sniffing coke and She was warning him not to do it? What kind of mother is that.I would show him the way out on the minute...Come on...
I saw the film Amy Fisher long time ago, and I could not believe that she stayed with his husband after knowing his infidelity. His coke addiction had to be a warning, but she instead wanted to believe that everything was ok and that he loved her. She learned the hard way.
She has done so well to survive it all. The description when the piont was reached to leave him was similar to a lot of marriages including mine - what Ian Fleming who wrote teh James Bond books called the quantum of solace. When the quantum falls to zero then couples break up. That can be quite a long time coming particularly in Catholic marriages like hers and mine. (Not sure why anyone is criticising the daughter below in the comments - she was great)
The mother seems like such a beautiful soul. Hope she’s doing really well. Any women out there in love with a man like this pull the plug don’t lie to yourself
She did all her best to keep her marriage continue with ex-husband..! She is brave and strong lady. She deserves a great life and mature partner help her moving forward.
Am addicted to this type of series I watched true crime and finished all of them I try to get away but when I see one my addiction goes way back sometimes I feel like am addicted to such becoz I wanted to do a career related to justice but this ain't enough coz am also confused the addition may awake the dark side of me ,but one thing I wouldn't ever do its date a guy watches such kind of documentaries coz I would fear for my life ...haha I need to find something else to replace my addiction of crime documentaries
@@ranze-rose they both had affairs, but it was a mutual arrangement.... a lot of documentaries on her and them both with real footages, on UA-cam and on Netflix.... but Charles cheated with Camilla first, after she found out, they tried to save the marriage and embarrassment to the monarchy by coming to a mutual agreement to live separate lives but remain married... however it did not last because princess Diana kept falling in love with her lovers, she decided she wanted out completely but was afraid to lose her children to Charles and the monarchy, that was how it all turned messy! she was no angel, but she was a great humanitarian, she used her position to promote humanity as much as she can.... but she is just human with all the faults that all humans have.... RIP queen of hearts!
I remember the for TV movie about this when I was a kid. I remembered the name Amy Fisher, but now I‘m realizing what an unfortunate last name Mary Jo had...
What is with these plea deals? Just because she survived does not change the girls intention!
@@hollysarahmcaulay8168 she was old enough to know the difference between right and wrong.
@@hollysarahmcaulay8168 umm...I've been manipulated by men but never shot anyone.
Holly Sarah MCAULAY at 16 you know it’s wrong to shot someone in the face ffs
Saves time and money for the police and the court.
I'm glad she finally left him and found a nice normal guy who her daughter approves of. 😊
My daughters would have approved of guys I never would. It's not up to our families.
the normal guy she found died in 2018
@@aamirscorpio7309 aww how sad
⬆️⬆️⬆️ spoiler alert ⬆️⬆️⬆️
I'd like to know what normal is? Any info greatly appreciated 🤔
imagine shooting a woman for something that's her husbands fault, crazy
It happens. Look up the Shawna Nelson case. Sick people out there
I'm so glad for her. She has a chance to start a new life. I hope she'll marry that guy. She is blessed.
Don't spend a single day pretending your marriage is perfect. I did that with my narcisssist ex-husband for 13 years and it led nowhere. Don't waste your life with a lost case.
Mary Jo spent her life pretending her marriage was perfect, she couldn't see he didn't love her. Holding on to a toxic relationship is so dangerous.
😢
Hindsight without an understanding of historical perspective ala women of the 70's?
She wanted to believe in him but he was so not worthy of her. Glad that she did eventually dump him and move on. Life is too short to put up with jerks like her ex.
@@bron9674 unfortunately, it has nothing to do with the era, but rather with the nature of long term relationship coupled with children. Or to be more precise, with human nature.
That's Catholism for ya
She survived, that’s important 💪🏾
Mary jo looks fabulous and she is one tough mama. I love her.
Really hate the addiction to watch those killing stories
@M B I should learn to watch it during the day not at 3am 😱
Joey daughter woof 😒
@@cancel5015 I really enjoy it when the bad guys are caught and justice is served. And it's especially great when the victim survived against all odds. There is nothing wrong with this "addiction" if you get the same kicks out of it that I do.
@@Tanny.M You might be right because I only watch when they find the bad people, I do not like the unsolved stories.
@@francinel8154 Same here, nothing wrong with that :)
What do these ladies see in this man, obviously something im not seeing 😂
Hey!! Maybe these men are just not photogenic 😂🤷only reasonable explanation
Money?
It's called a deep relationship & long term connection with someone, it becomes very hard to leave when you invested your life with that person which is unfortunate. Something ppl don't get until they experience it.
Me too, heehee
😂 true that
the biggest lie that we are fed throughout our adolescence and young adulthood is that children will mature and settle you down, if one kid makes things worse why would two be any different. An immature self centered person does not change, not with marriage or rehab or parenthood
That coke habit was the red flag and she should have divorced him immediately.
She probably loved him too much
I would have left the marriage after getting shot. Why was she trying to hold on to a loser?
Some women don't want realize their husband are only a burden to them. They wait and wait, they take care and sacrifice their own lives to the end..
for what?
She really deserves better 😊 A nice goodlooking woman and mom! Hope she has a better life now!
The daughter looked so familiar to me! Then I realised she had a podcast seres with Shane Dawson where she mentioned her mom getting shot. Crazy story! Thankfully the mom is okay 🙌🏼♥️
Lol
I KNEW THAT LAST NAME WAS FAMILIAR! Thanks for commenting, I would have never remembered that
People who cheat don't realize that the whole family pays the price for their cruel actions. Joe is a nasty narcissist who did this to his family. I'm glad that Mary Jo is ok now and without that evil man.
They don't care . Simple.
I’m so glad you and your family have moved on. You deserve to be happy and feel secure. X
What is missing from this documentary is that when Amy got out, he went back to her 🤦🏻♀️
Joey budafuhooko was only in it for himself. He was a selfish guy who couldn't keep his pants up.
Why am I addicted to watch these stories... 😓 next week are my examz but still am busy watching this 😂
I hope you've gone off to study!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Please go and study.i have the same problem too. Hope u come back namesake and we both pass our papers
Oh thank you i wish the same 😇
It's not by accident. There's a reason it's addictive.
I'm happy she moved on with her life. Sometimes woman alow abuse because they think they will never love agian. Most of the time you love even better than before 😆😆
It seems to me Mary Jo did everything humanly possible to make the marriage work, but, ultimately, took the right decision to leave & has now found a partner worthy of her. As for her ex-husband, I see nothing but bad times ahead for him - old-age, loneliness, degradation...
Real talk!!
🙏 and for the little girl who got fooled and manipulated by the monster, I wish her the wisdom to know right from wrong.
Love how their hair styles got smaller and smaller as the years went by
Never ask to stop, just leave. Make him think about if he is ok without you or he must stop and beg on his knees for you to return. Yet not return, they never change just make him see what he lost for not giving you the respect you deserve.
It's incredible how women, in general, forget values, compassion, respect and so on, we become blind. It's very sad that this woman gave 100% of herself to this man. He was worthless. Glad to know she moved on. She deserves it ❤
I am really happy for Mary Jo. Everyone deserves a safe, loving relationship. I hope she’s found it.
From all the series I watched on these marriages, this is the only woman who is completely adequate and acts adequately during the whole time. Not completely blinded and delusional. I am happy that she survived and found somebody new :)
I remember the non stop news, so happy to hear she's doing well
Hmmm... because of her husband... time to go looking for some more cats.
Sophia ATN 😂😂😂❤️
Ha ha, yes but I already have 3! And 3 birds and a dog and geckos and.....
@15:42 In know it was probably for the surgery BUT Mary Jo rocked the shaved side mullet look
So glad to have watched this video, watched the movie about this long ago and very happy to see Mari Jo left him and now has a happy life.
I admire Mary Jo. Such a strong, level headed woman.
Shes a brave woman and an amazing mother to hide it from her kids while they were children.
I read a book written about "Mary Anne," aka Amy Fisher, the husband's lover. Amy thought the amount of time (5- 15 years) she got for shooting Mary Jo was unfair. Her reasoning - that Joe should have taken some of the responsibility because he promised he would leave Mary Jo for her. LOL
Indeed, she is right. If it wasn't for Joey's in having a relationship with her then she will not have to shoot her.
do the crime do the time! being a crybaby after the act - grow up and accept your responsibility
@ziggilypiggily
Uhm...Mary Anne? Did the child not say her name was Ann(e) Marie?
I really admire her... Does anyone else think she got much better looking with age?
I disagree. And that blonde-out-of-a-bottle look with bangs that don't actually touch her forehead plus flat-ironed hair age her more.
This man Joey is nuisance value at the most . People like him will never change and should never be trusted .
This oneof the craziest cases i seen so far no doubt , that irony of faith in pure form .
Its also shocking that amy and Joey dated again years later. Just wow
Wait, what
😳
@@kyriehughes7027 My reaction too!
Wow, the daughter's statements though..she still wanted her parents to stay together even after the fact....it really shows the very negative impact her dad had on the entire family . He cared nothing about his wife, what if Amy had gone after his kids instead? Would Jessica still have wanted her parents to stay together? I don't think so.
That whole family is effed in the head. No clue what Mary Jo saw in him to stay with him for that long, he's not even handsome.
Couldn't agree with you more
Thank you for your honesty Your a brave beautiful woman,💕 Australia
he looks like john belushi ... on a bad day
I was looking for this comment because I knew I'd found it!! 😛 Yes he did!!!😃
Yes!!!
Yes same seemed to me!!
I feel very deeply for all of these women who can't have happy family life
8:53 "when joey buttafuogo beat the COKE"🤔😂 am I the only one?
What a story! So glad Mary Jo survived and was able to get away from this husband of hers.
New addition to the family never helped any.. If guys are abusive stop having kids with them.. I saw worse cases.. Wat a lovely lady... Sad that she faced coz of her husband
Well said and so true, witnessed this many times.
She NEVER said he was abusive, what she claimed was, at the time he was an addict.
@@delishme2 his behavior was abusive and unpredictable after drug use.. He was lying continuously..
@@delishme2 he was sniffing coke and She was warning him not to do it? What kind of mother is that.I would show him the way out on the minute...Come on...
She find a better and handsomer one! Glad for her
I saw the film Amy Fisher long time ago, and I could not believe that she stayed with his husband after knowing his infidelity. His coke addiction had to be a warning, but she instead wanted to believe that everything was ok and that he loved her. She learned the hard way.
That man's surnames is Spatfires.... and the kind wife had her bonfire and she didn't deserved a man as such, glad she's alive to share her tales.
It sounds like desperate house wives narration lol 😂
shalini reddy 😂 true
What a nice daughter, I am glad Mary has found some happiness.
I’m happy to hear that she is happy and her life is normal.
my respect to mary jo.wishing her the best.
Buttafuoco........his surname itself should have raised big sized red flags 🤣🤣🤣
keep making more of these videos!
He’s such a drop kick! She’s amazing 😉
She has done so well to survive it all. The description when the piont was reached to leave him was similar to a lot of marriages including mine - what Ian Fleming who wrote teh James Bond books called the quantum of solace. When the quantum falls to zero then couples break up. That can be quite a long time coming particularly in Catholic marriages like hers and mine.
(Not sure why anyone is criticising the daughter below in the comments - she was great)
This whole story is a hot mess, it's tragic but wow
I'm glad she has met a nice man
I first heard his name in FRIENDS. This was the Joey they're referring to
(who gave bad reputation to all Joeys)
😂
Joey looks like the Young turks guy
She's beautiful and strong. An amazing woman and an example to us all.
As an Italian, the way they pronounce Buttafuoco is utterly disturbing :-)
Would be even more hilarious if they pronounced it as butt-a-f@ka
Dad n daughter mouth n jaw same
Wow im 40 y.o. now and i remember my dad called me when i was young that he's in disneyland! Now i know.
Okay yes what he did was wrong, nobody is denying that but what that girl Amy did was COMPLETELY inexcusable. She was not a victim imo.
She should have left him when he broke his promise the first time
She is still very beautiful 😍
So this is how Amy fisher's career started huh?
It took her 11 years to leave him 🤓
Maria Lewis being dumb I guess.
This is soo me I want to leave but I can’t think of the kids
Very strong lady! I'm glad that she is happy now with a new man on her side.
So glad things are working out for her at long last. I wish her a long and happy future.
her second husband died of cancer in 2018.
Relationship and marriage are gamble. She dated 5 years, married 15 years ago and still didn't know the man she thought she knew.
Why do we get ENDLESS REPEATING...ENDLESS REPEATING of the same facts???........
Daughter is just like her father there's is something wrong about her poor woman
she changed places to places but forgot to change husband 😎
Thank you for not swearing all the way through that even though the title is a missing swear word.
I thought this was going to be that he wanted her dead to be with his mistress so when he didn’t that was a surprise!
Most women's biggest problem is the need to keep up appearances- it is a totally ridiculous concept and as we see time and again, it doesn't last.
The mother seems like such a beautiful soul. Hope she’s doing really well. Any women out there in love with a man like this pull the plug don’t lie to yourself
Engaged for 8 years? What’s point in that? They should have been married by now. 🙄😂
Is he still in Disneyland?
😂😂😂
That crazy lie makes her even sweeter somehow.
@@Stefanie3
It wasn't a lie. (corrected)
@@ImplosiveCatt I meant the lie she told her daughter about Disney land. He wasn't in holiday as the daughter believed.
She married Stu but i read that he died in 2018, so sorry for Mary, shes been through so much.
How do you have an 8 year engagement?!
Jenny Jerome why not 🤷🏼♀️
It's not that uncommon...
my aunt and uncle do
Fake commitment.
Lol that last name took me out! Butter sin co?🤣
Even that those case is tragic & are based on real, i can not help found them interesting 🙂
yep! truth is always more interesting than fiction
love happy ending like this
I went through a similar experience...men put us at risk
I've always thought Mary Jo was such a lovely woman.
She did all her best to keep her marriage continue with ex-husband..! She is brave and strong lady. She deserves a great life and mature partner help her moving forward.
She lived to tell her story.
20:25 Who else caught the sly way the narrator said Mary had been "happily engaged for the last 8 years" 🤣
Am addicted to this type of series I watched true crime and finished all of them I try to get away but when I see one my addiction goes way back sometimes I feel like am addicted to such becoz I wanted to do a career related to justice but this ain't enough coz am also confused the addition may awake the dark side of me ,but one thing I wouldn't ever do its date a guy watches such kind of documentaries coz I would fear for my life ...haha I need to find something else to replace my addiction of crime documentaries
Worrying comment... get help before is too late. prevention is better than cure!
@2:32 just like the purity of Lady Diana💕👸🏻
lady Diana was not pure at all...
@@princessnyeni5548 she was I don't ever hear that she cheated on Prince Charles he's the one who always did with Camilla
@@ranze-rose they both had affairs, but it was a mutual arrangement.... a lot of documentaries on her and them both with real footages, on UA-cam and on Netflix.... but Charles cheated with Camilla first, after she found out, they tried to save the marriage and embarrassment to the monarchy by coming to a mutual agreement to live separate lives but remain married... however it
did not last because princess Diana kept falling in love with her lovers, she decided she wanted out completely but was afraid to lose her children to Charles and the monarchy, that was how it all turned messy! she was no angel, but she was a great humanitarian, she used her position to promote humanity as much as she can.... but she is just human with all the faults that all humans have.... RIP queen of hearts!
I remember the for TV movie about this when I was a kid. I remembered the name Amy Fisher, but now I‘m realizing what an unfortunate last name Mary Jo had...
The daughter is so annoying she’s on every talk show squawking as if that incident happened to her 🙄🙄
Oh really, I did kinda get the impression that she liked being in the limelight...
🤣🤣🤣🤣....."squawking"
Be nice
There is this kind of guy who strategically puts his better half in all sorts of negative situation and dangers.
Yes, like a mob wife!
Why does this sound like an episode of Desperate Housewives?
He is really a buttafuoco😁an italian word meaning throw fire😃
🤭🤭🤭🤭
"I believed him".....AS YOU ALWAYS DO🙄......
He had an aweful overshot shovel jaw
It wasn't fair that she stood up for her husband and blamed it all on a 16 year old. I feel really bad for Amy, she was groomed by her sick husband!
What did she ever see in him in the 1st place . 😅😅😅😅