This is a real gem! Scholars based in the west and non-Arabic speaking countries like Turkey , Pakistan Malaysia will never talk about this today as they are ‘scared’ of the toxic feminism enveloping their societies today. You cannot say anything that is perceived to be against women as you will lose the Facebook fans, UA-cam likes from sisters! The logic is that the environment has become so bad that let’s try to use ‘hikma’ and not talk about anything that makes women ‘uncomfortable’! Only talk about wives’ rights not husband’s rights! Etc etc.
@@nether0701 you are just ignorant of them. In Pakistan there are several Salafi scholars and cities in Northern Panjab such as Gujarat, Gujranawala and Sialkot are heavily Salafi
Pakistan is not scared of that. We Pakistanis don’t care what others think we do what we think is right. When an International Women’s March happened in Islamabad several women in Burkas came out to fight against the liberal women and even more men came out to speak against it. Malaysia and Turkey maybe due to industrialization and nature of the people but Pakistanis and Afghans love to fight and we’re not quiet about our beliefs 😂😂😂
What a poor soul of intellect to realize her competition w/his hoories; let alone the good women of. Earth Allah has Created🌹. Seek refuge in Allah from being a women of fitnah; the women of fitnah being around her; & her being around the women of fitnah. Let's wear our noble threads of righteousness🌹
There are ways of telling people's attitude by seeing how they interact with others and asking others about their good and bad qualities. You also have the ability to meet them in person with a mahram to get to know them. Either way, there is a really good video podcast on chai with my bhai about marriage. Look at those. They talk about their experiences and how they found someone. Daniel haqiqatjou also has a marriage course you can take.
@@عبداللهأبوعبدالرحمن-غ5ح Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1467
So, Sheikh said don't marry such women. Okay and jazakallahu khayra, but also tell us where do we find the women who follow Khadija bint Khuwaylid RA, Ayesha bint abi Bakr RA, Fatima bint Muhammad RA ???
Salam un Alaikum. This was one of the most useful things I've learnt regarding dunya. What the Shaykh (may Allah reward him with al firdous) is so true. However, there is something that I found just a bit unclear, what would be the difference between Annanah and Shaddaqah. One is always moaning and complaining, how would that be different from someone who is always ranting. Would the difference be that the one who is ranting is the one who complains about general topics and is never quite. And the one who is moaning and complaining is the one who is ungrateful, always complaining about what she has and about her husband and all???
The one that is ranting is for example one that talks excessively about random things,it could be 50 different topics and she's just ranting on about it. She's rarely quiet basically. The one moaning and complaining is basically someone that complains about everything, nothing pleases her. Complaining about the house, her husband not being a certain way etc
Man Spider Salam alaykum. I believe Annanah means the one who is ungrateful in general while Shaddaqah is the one who speaks a lot (mostly about negative things, while not necessarily being ungrateful). A woman can be ungrateful while also not uttering a word, meaning she doesn’t show appreciation for what she has. But a characteristic of ungratefulness will include complaining. So perhaps she doesn’t speak a lot but when she does speak it is mostly complaining. Or when you give her gifts, buy her a house, etc. she doesn’t appreciate it and finds defects in things. So it doesn’t have to do with speaking a lot; it mainly has to do with a type of attitude. This is Annanah. Shaddaqah is the one who speaks and speaks about negative things or nothing useful.
That which seems apparent to me is shaddaqah is always speaking I guess meaning she doesn't shut up not necessarily always complaining but just always talking
1, complaining unappreciative
2, craves her former partners
3, materialistic hedonistic
4, distant with her husband
5, ranting and running her mouth
I don't think that's what 2 is
May Allah protect us from having any of these characteristics, may Allah grant us patience upon steadfastness 💕
Aameen
This is a real gem! Scholars based in the west and non-Arabic speaking countries like Turkey , Pakistan Malaysia will never talk about this today as they are ‘scared’ of the toxic feminism enveloping their societies today. You cannot say anything that is perceived to be against women as you will lose the Facebook fans, UA-cam likes from sisters! The logic is that the environment has become so bad that let’s try to use ‘hikma’ and not talk about anything that makes women ‘uncomfortable’! Only talk about wives’ rights not husband’s rights! Etc etc.
Bro in India and Pakistan there are lots of Salafi scholars. Alhamdu lillah
@@thetruthful1612 nope there are not.
@@nether0701 you are just ignorant of them. In Pakistan there are several Salafi scholars and cities in Northern Panjab such as Gujarat, Gujranawala and Sialkot are heavily Salafi
Pakistan is not scared of that. We Pakistanis don’t care what others think we do what we think is right. When an International Women’s March happened in Islamabad several women in Burkas came out to fight against the liberal women and even more men came out to speak against it. Malaysia and Turkey maybe due to industrialization and nature of the people but Pakistanis and Afghans love to fight and we’re not quiet about our beliefs 😂😂😂
The only problem is in most cases you find out which category she is from, after the Nikkah & having stayed with her.😝🤷🏾♂️😇
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Get a 2nd wife to put her in check.
my thoughts exactly
بارك الله فيكم
Quran :25:74
May Allah grant us the best of both worlds and protection from the fire
What a poor soul of intellect to realize her competition w/his hoories; let alone the good women of. Earth Allah has Created🌹. Seek refuge in Allah from being a women of fitnah; the women of fitnah being around her; & her being around the women of fitnah. Let's wear our noble threads of righteousness🌹
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I ❤ Saudi Salafi Scholars
How do we get to know if she has these qualities or not before marrying her?
There are ways of telling people's attitude by seeing how they interact with others and asking others about their good and bad qualities. You also have the ability to meet them in person with a mahram to get to know them. Either way, there is a really good video podcast on chai with my bhai about marriage. Look at those. They talk about their experiences and how they found someone. Daniel haqiqatjou also has a marriage course you can take.
@Umm Furfoor whats wrong with daniel?
@@islamthewayofthesalaf2776 don't judge so quickly. Someone you think bad might be very close to Allah SWT
Where is the full lecture please? Very interesting
Love and respect from India Occupied KASHMIR!
May Allah protect us from women who have those characteristics
But how to identify these kind of women before marriage
ask her family or friends those close to her about her
Talk to her *mentor*. If she doesn't have a mentor, then that's a red flag.
@@NewtralHumanwdym by mentor? his father?
That's why nabi rahma sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said "getting pious wivesis like getting jannah in this world"
@@عبداللهأبوعبدالرحمن-غ5ح Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1467
So, Sheikh said don't marry such women. Okay and jazakallahu khayra, but also tell us where do we find the women who follow Khadija bint Khuwaylid RA, Ayesha bint abi Bakr RA, Fatima bint Muhammad RA
???
جزاك الله خيرا
Baraka allah fik
Salam. Do you have the complete lecture?
ua-cam.com/video/vfVFcQuDhh8/v-deo.html
لا أذكر ...لكن ربما هنا او في هاته المجموعة الكاملة
@@أبوفهيمة unfortunately that has no subtitles 😔
Oof, I might never get married at this rate... I have two of these qualities haha... 👀💧
May Allah bless you with a righteous pious spouse and offspring
Everyone has shortcomings, You can improve my sister. May Allah have mercy on you
imrove sister
Salam un Alaikum. This was one of the most useful things I've learnt regarding dunya. What the Shaykh (may Allah reward him with al firdous) is so true. However, there is something that I found just a bit unclear, what would be the difference between Annanah and Shaddaqah. One is always moaning and complaining, how would that be different from someone who is always ranting. Would the difference be that the one who is ranting is the one who complains about general topics and is never quite. And the one who is moaning and complaining is the one who is ungrateful, always complaining about what she has and about her husband and all???
The one that is ranting is for example one that talks excessively about random things,it could be 50 different topics and she's just ranting on about it. She's rarely quiet basically. The one moaning and complaining is basically someone that complains about everything, nothing pleases her. Complaining about the house, her husband not being a certain way etc
Man Spider Salam alaykum. I believe Annanah means the one who is ungrateful in general while Shaddaqah is the one who speaks a lot (mostly about negative things, while not necessarily being ungrateful).
A woman can be ungrateful while also not uttering a word, meaning she doesn’t show appreciation for what she has. But a characteristic of ungratefulness will include complaining. So perhaps she doesn’t speak a lot but when she does speak it is mostly complaining. Or when you give her gifts, buy her a house, etc. she doesn’t appreciate it and finds defects in things. So it doesn’t have to do with speaking a lot; it mainly has to do with a type of attitude. This is Annanah.
Shaddaqah is the one who speaks and speaks about negative things or nothing useful.
I think he meant one who is nagging.
That which seems apparent to me is shaddaqah is always speaking I guess meaning she doesn't shut up not necessarily always complaining but just always talking
What of five men not to marry?
Broke/stingy men, men who don't lower their gaze, men who joke too much, liars, men who are abusers.
😂
Lol
First of all, women should become righteous then you can have righteous husband
Alter Nether It goes both ways. If a man wants a righteous wife he should strive to be righteous himself, and vice versa.
Mashaallah the sheikh speaks the truth, this can be applied to some extent to men too.
يرجى انشر الباقي
May Allah ﷻ preserve the noble shaykh sulayman at ruhyali
ok so the only way for you to know if the woman has these traits is if you marry her
If the marriage is with strangers which is most common in my culture , how can a man know about these things before marriage.
Istikhara and dua my brother.
Barakallahu feekum
جواكيم الله
subhnaAllah. 1
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