CLIP: Tony Gaskins DEBATES ACE Metaphor on the PURPOSE of DATING

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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiated  9 днів тому +2

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  • @mellyjelly3331
    @mellyjelly3331 20 днів тому +484

    Ace has a worldly mind! Tony is speaking from what God wants

    • @Msmaryjay
      @Msmaryjay 18 днів тому +12

      Exactly.. so why is Tony even arguing with him?

    • @lilbel73m.86
      @lilbel73m.86 16 днів тому +6

      Exactly!!

    • @misssterling3094
      @misssterling3094 16 днів тому +11

      Some of us are unfamiliar with ACE so we needed this exchange between them. I know Tony stands for God/Christ.

    • @createyourworldllc
      @createyourworldllc 15 днів тому +8

      Heal before you deal🎯

    • @createyourworldllc
      @createyourworldllc 15 днів тому +1

      Come on with the creator benefiting Tony!

  • @chakaaiken7414
    @chakaaiken7414 25 днів тому +601

    Tony Gaskin is not Double minded... He's straight forward and direct with his conversation. He's not making a blanket statement. I'm 100% with Tony.

    • @Savingrace457
      @Savingrace457 24 дні тому +4

      I'm 100 with Ace because he is speaking from a standpoint in the way of the world. God created sex for marriage, but we don't live in a world like that, and I wish that we do.

    • @moniquemitchell5092
      @moniquemitchell5092 24 дні тому +18

      Totally got Tony's back. Let's not confuse conversational opinions for truth. It's facts. Stop cutting him off..it's not religion either. It's the way God set this system for us up. My opinion.

    • @setapartaay925
      @setapartaay925 22 дні тому +11

      @@Savingrace457 he is, I agree. But this is where Romans 12:2 comes to play. It says….And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect will of God. Just because the world is doing it doesn’t mean that we should, especially if you’re sincere about walking in God’s purpose and will for your life.

    • @sonyamartin6226
      @sonyamartin6226 19 днів тому +2

      ​@@Savingrace457I agree...I just feel like most of ace metaphore foundation goes back to how a himan treats u..if u gone thump the bible tyen promote the WHOLE BIBLE TONY NOT JUST WAT SUPPORTS U IN UR LIFESTYLE..period..a bible thumping bully..he need to refpect and pick a side

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 19 днів тому +2

      So am I because he stands on God’s principles! It’s the only way!

  • @jehannedufresne3998
    @jehannedufresne3998 24 дні тому +479

    This debate was a spiritual warfare. And Jesus follower, Tony Gaskins won this fight 👏🏿 💪🏿 🙌🏽

  • @ShellyDash
    @ShellyDash 21 день тому +175

    He said “I grew up religious too” that’s the problem, a lot of us grew up in church, that doesn’t mean a thing if we aren’t following the principles of Jesus Christ.

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 19 днів тому +4

      This!!!!

    • @KeyPoetic-Justice4
      @KeyPoetic-Justice4 10 днів тому

      Love Your Statement!
      That Use To Mentality Becomes Wordly.
      Values and Foundation Doesn't Leave You.
      Traditional Values Stays Within You.

    • @kyki8512
      @kyki8512 4 дні тому +2

      👍👏👏👏👏 AMEN! ONLY those who follow Jesus are righteous!💯🎯🎯🎯🎯 GOD'S way is the ONLY way!

  • @msmaam912
    @msmaam912 24 дні тому +421

    Ace is attempting to defend his platform while Tony is defending principled dating. Two totally different directions and mindsets. The goal should always be marriage dating to “find yourself” is childish. Travel, read a book, take a hike. You can find yourselves there.

  • @taraboddie
    @taraboddie 24 дні тому +250

    Christian women, I hope you're paying attention to this conversation. Married culture vs boyfriend/girlfriend culture. Choose which goal you're moving towards and date accordingly.

    • @visionspoetry9164
      @visionspoetry9164 19 днів тому +14

      Amen. We have fell so far from grace. So many are settling for any type of commitment.

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes 15 днів тому +17

      they are not looking for wives, they are looking for convenience. They have been telling us in so many ways.

    • @marciathomas-de3ij
      @marciathomas-de3ij 10 днів тому +4

      You have to go through one to get to the other. So what's wrong with learning how to date without hurting yourself or others? Dating does not have to involve sex or compromising your morals. I agree with Tony alot but he's rather narrow minded on how things are vs how they should be. If you're going to get people to come to Christ and want to do the right thing then speaking with them not at them & not shoving your ways and opinions on others. Him folding his arms & telling Ace to take the base out of his voice speaks volumes on his willingness to listen & accept his words. Ijs.

    • @bizstrategistsandy
      @bizstrategistsandy 10 днів тому +2

      @@visionspoetry9164 you better say that again!! I am so tired of these WORLDLY people and their OPINIONS not PRINCIPLES of the way we should live.

    • @1205snaby
      @1205snaby 9 днів тому

      Amen

  • @pfrance17
    @pfrance17 24 дні тому +289

    Don’t like a sneak attack they pulled on Tony. They were wrong for that.. 😡

    • @sunflowersoul821
      @sunflowersoul821 24 дні тому +37

      I peeped that too.👀

    • @crystalstrong268
      @crystalstrong268 23 дні тому +76

      But Tony stand his ground and he was calm about it as long Tony did what God wanted him to do they can’t touch what God anointed

    • @icequeen491
      @icequeen491 22 дні тому +39

      He handled it well

    • @listeningviayoutube7229
      @listeningviayoutube7229 22 дні тому +13

      I agree.

    • @sashakeeling
      @sashakeeling 21 день тому +29

      Yeah I know right. That was crazy. And even though Tony was drinking that water to calm the storm in his belly from erupting, when he told Ace to drop that "base" out his voice!! He had every right to say that. Frfr.

  • @gabriellex0x0
    @gabriellex0x0 24 дні тому +267

    As a woman who desires to be married to a God-fearing , principled man , I approve Tony’s message . Please keep all that “dating” confusion away from me.

    • @crystalstrong268
      @crystalstrong268 23 дні тому +9

      Period

    • @sonyamartin6226
      @sonyamartin6226 19 днів тому

      A man that's going to throw God's name in his mouth only when it suits him is the epitome of double minded.m.he don't talk about nothing else in the bible but like to open the book an blow the pages around and folk lick it right up off the ground 🤣🤣..i agree sister ..

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 19 днів тому +2

      YES & AMEN!!!!

    • @skennedy13281
      @skennedy13281 11 днів тому

      @gabriellex0x0 agreed and I hope you are having a wonderful evening

    • @MsBrown-ey2sc
      @MsBrown-ey2sc 3 дні тому

      Yes ma'am, I pray the most high blesses you with what your heart truly desires. Have a lovely day sis.

  • @lilianrodriguez-baz8402
    @lilianrodriguez-baz8402 24 дні тому +169

    Tony's face says: ok, do it your way and let me know how that goes for ya'll LOL. Tony is right. Point blank PERIOD.

    • @Kalila2405
      @Kalila2405 21 день тому +8

      “POINT BLANK PERIOD” in his voice 😂

  • @simonepaurley152
    @simonepaurley152 25 днів тому +590

    I am a part of Tony Gaskins' audience.

  • @RC-ul4uc
    @RC-ul4uc 24 дні тому +156

    If you are unhealed you shouldn't be dating cause you out here hurting other people.
    TG thank you for sticking with the truth. Do whats best for the community 🎉

  • @Annabelarhin
    @Annabelarhin 24 дні тому +107

    You can tell a worldly man from a man with God's heart. I'm glad we can see the difference. That man's perspective is all that is going wrong with society. Thanks Tony

    • @EIGHTMINUTESWITHAIRVING
      @EIGHTMINUTESWITHAIRVING 19 днів тому +1

      Absolutely it’s like mixing oranges without righteous with unrighteous Tony Gaskins is a Saved man of God, husband, father You don’t have to snap or argue the word of God back to the naturally and spiritually.🙏🏼🧎🏽‍♀️❤️

    • @nayelimartinez2115
      @nayelimartinez2115 15 днів тому

      You are definitely right

  • @raeahstevenson
    @raeahstevenson 24 дні тому +136

    This should be an eye opener… shows the two types of men we are dealing with today. One who’s trying to please god while the other is trying to please the world ! I’m so thankful that God is working on me because I probably would have been confused too ❤️

    • @britneythomas3713
      @britneythomas3713 22 дні тому +2

      Exactly

    • @Ogoad29
      @Ogoad29 19 днів тому +1

      This right here! 💯

    • @tmarie9609
      @tmarie9609 17 днів тому +2

      That’s a BIG point! I’m so tired of the BS within the culture.

    • @misssterling3094
      @misssterling3094 16 днів тому +4

      Tony says there are 2types of men: grown MEN and grown BOYS. We see both types with Tony and ACE.

  • @broiechristianorr1276
    @broiechristianorr1276 25 днів тому +359

    Tony Gaskins Removed confusion brought clarity and reset the bar on the field. Thank you sir. #Reset #HelpTheMen

    • @dawnahamilton1751
      @dawnahamilton1751 20 днів тому +8

      God is Love. God is not the author of confusion.

    • @sonyamartin6226
      @sonyamartin6226 19 днів тому

      Exactly....100% don't promote how "God" want u to date but dont walk in the bible and the OTHER LAWS .SIMPLE LAws. Like keeping feast days sabbath day dietary law..and many others. that God want u to walk in ..God has😂 SEVERAL Principles..NOT JUST the ones Tony like to get claps on! I'm sorry ..it smell like a hot ass bowl of hypocritical bullshit to me...lmbo😂😂and folk ok here just catching some kind of ghost cuz it sound good cuz it aint holy nothing holy about a man acting like a bully as well...

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 19 днів тому +1

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @BrittneySharde15
      @BrittneySharde15 15 днів тому +1

      💯💯💯

  • @_MarisJ
    @_MarisJ 24 дні тому +156

    There are married people on Ace’s panel and even Stephen Speaks who is a Christian. I went to the live podcast show and was grieved tbh. The live show was like a club. With the music playing and the twerk contest. Then the questions that were selected to be asked were childish and overly sexual. It was clear that Ace and most of the panel live in the world. The married woman and Stephen Speaks “ironically” left during the overly sexual segment. I also noticed Stephen looked visibly uncomfortable during some of the questions. The questions that were even a sprinkle biblically-related Ace would ask the married woman or Stephen to answer. Which showed me that Ace is not coming from a biblical background and doesn’t want to. He does promote the world and he promotes sex. I had to repent for being blinded and interested in the live show. I believe there’s a reason why Ace blocks out cursing on UA-cam. In person he was cursing so much and drunk. Tony and Ace have different beliefs and audiences so this “debate” would never come to an agreement.

    • @visionspoetry9164
      @visionspoetry9164 19 днів тому +5

      Thank you for sharing your experience. I wanted to go when it came to my city but I missed it.
      But...when I watch the videos, it always seems so loud and seems like a party atmosphere. Like a lot of confusion, which breeds more confusion.

    • @_MarisJ
      @_MarisJ 19 днів тому +9

      @@visionspoetry9164 yeahhh if you’re a Believer and you want to date/marry with God as the standard, don’t go lol. It’ll be a waste of your money & time.

    • @pearlpearl3806
      @pearlpearl3806 12 днів тому +4

      I praise God for giving me the foresight to know that aces show was a toxic mess when I first saw the advertisement

    • @rezavier
      @rezavier День тому

      Guys thank you both for bring on Tony G. He single handedly just exposed Ace true intentions. We'll done

  • @Jay_Finkley
    @Jay_Finkley 24 дні тому +196

    Ace says no one disagrees with two parent households while promoting and validating exactly what leads to single parent households--aimless dating and casual sex.

    • @tmarie9609
      @tmarie9609 17 днів тому +10

      Very true! OMG! Why are people so blind? This is a real issue in the black community and a lot of people seem absolutely delusional!

    • @BrittneySharde15
      @BrittneySharde15 15 днів тому +1

      💯💯

    • @Fashionjunki871
      @Fashionjunki871 15 днів тому +5

      Like make it make sense!

    • @nayelimartinez2115
      @nayelimartinez2115 15 днів тому +2

      Exactly

    • @pearlpearl3806
      @pearlpearl3806 12 днів тому +1

      I stopped listening to ace metaphor a long time ago but around the time he blocked me, he was writing something about how I should "KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED" (slut shaming) although I was celibate lol and had a semi-religious angle. So it's weird that he is an advocate for casual sex/dating for sex now

  • @aaballar
    @aaballar 25 днів тому +238

    I'd like to see Stephan Speaks, Tony Gaskins', Ace Metaphor, and Tim Ross all on one panel.

    • @Simz199x
      @Simz199x 25 днів тому +5

      Yessir

    • @viciousreasoning504
      @viciousreasoning504 24 дні тому +28

      Tony said he would never come back after this i believe

    • @monbar422
      @monbar422 24 дні тому +5

      Yesssss me too!!! That would be sooo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @daianasantana4946
      @daianasantana4946 24 дні тому +26

      Take out Ace Metaphor because he is not standing on what those other guys are. Ace is for culture the other guys are for results.

    • @danyhoward5103
      @danyhoward5103 24 дні тому +12

      I dont believe Ace is on the level of the other three gentlemen yet. I'm surprised he kept interrupting Tony. It's a bit off putting

  • @DanielleBelgrave93
    @DanielleBelgrave93 24 дні тому +61

    Tony Gaskins said nothing but the TRUTH & the TRUTH shall set you free 🕊️.. point blank perioddddd !

  • @helgapataki4156
    @helgapataki4156 22 дні тому +62

    Tony you are supported. WE NEED what you have to offer; we thank you for your honesty & transparency. Continue to do the Lord's work 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @PT-ly1ck
    @PT-ly1ck 24 дні тому +161

    I agree with Tony. Only people in healthy marriages should be giving advise. The black community doesn’t need the other voices. Look at the data on our marriages and out of wedlock children

    • @nayelimartinez2115
      @nayelimartinez2115 15 днів тому +2

      Exactly the way he’s addressing things isn’t working the way we are living gives us bad results which means it’s wrong we needs to do better we need someone who’s truly a leader.

  • @justinebar519
    @justinebar519 25 днів тому +201

    Listen Tony I'm with you when you're right ✅️ and... you're 100% right

  • @tgee1007
    @tgee1007 22 дні тому +55

    The difference here is one guys is strictly promote marital unity under God's covenant. The other is promoting relationship entertainment.

    • @cammac2753
      @cammac2753 День тому

      @@tgee1007 This is true!

  • @Alexis-cz2pv
    @Alexis-cz2pv 24 дні тому +51

    Thank you Tony for being a man of principle and clarity..

  • @nell_uhh
    @nell_uhh 21 день тому +76

    The hosts are so messy for how they played this out…. Smh,

  • @simonepaurley152
    @simonepaurley152 25 днів тому +233

    Done deal!!! YES! Gaskin all the way.
    Useless debate.

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 25 днів тому +16

      Yup the other dude is as much of a “relationship coach” as an insect is a bear. And I can’t with all this fake phony “brother” 10times in every sentence

    • @yemedemure414
      @yemedemure414 24 дні тому +5

      🎉🎉

    • @DanielleBelgrave93
      @DanielleBelgrave93 24 дні тому +12

      Absolutely.. Tony is a true man of God & not to be played with .. some people just love confusion sadly

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 19 днів тому +1

      💯‼️

  • @ItsAboutAComeback
    @ItsAboutAComeback 25 днів тому +145

    21:15 this what Ace is saying right here is the problem right now in this world. Just because people are doing it, doesn’t mean it’s right. Too many are living life in a way that’s taking them straight to hell. Life is for a purpose but not many understand this! Heal first then decide to date.

  • @LadyJay882
    @LadyJay882 19 днів тому +114

    Ace’s Closing: “I like confusion and talk for talk sake. You’re uniformed Tony bc you don’t like listening to everyone’s pointless perspective”. Ace is literally the blind leading the blinder.

  • @NoNo-ix3id
    @NoNo-ix3id 19 днів тому +62

    Ahh!!! Good job Tony! It’s so refreshing to finally see a black man who it’s afraid to counter and stand firm against popular but confusing and fruitless messages/platforms our culture promotes.

  • @Trendingnow1103
    @Trendingnow1103 25 днів тому +228

    Tony is correct!!!! Of course its based principles... it's God's way not Tony's way... he keep saying Tony's way... use your platform to lead your people to marriage, especially our black culture, we need voices thats going to lead us to build positive healthy marriages... men are uncomfortable about marriage we need men like Tony to bring our men to being intentional about marriage!!!!

    • @ItsAboutAComeback
      @ItsAboutAComeback 25 днів тому +3

      🎯💯💥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

    • @duffessence
      @duffessence 21 день тому +1

      This comment shows that you don’t listen to Ace Metaphor platform because he does offer that. Which is why he made the comment about having healthy married people on his panel. To help guide you or show you internal things that you have to work on before actually meeting your equally yoked partner.

    • @Trendingnow1103
      @Trendingnow1103 21 день тому +4

      @@duffessence what I can respond to is Ace response to his stance in dating in today's society. I don't have to listen to him to know his values are different and that's ok, this interview told me all I needed to know... I've come across his tiktok and granted he's entertaining and he has valid points but his stance and values are different, which he has stated out of his own mouth... which I can appreciate that but I stand with Tony dating for marriage is the only way and that's God's way. He may speak on a healthy relationship but is he promoting healthy marriages..., is he preparing his audience for marriage etc... or is he for what society want him to be ( which he said he was) so that is what I am referring to... he's a dope speaker in his own right.

  • @Moreofdestinee
    @Moreofdestinee 25 днів тому +109

    Tony G is standing on business and God’s word. Ace shows are just entertainment and influencers speaking on their perspective but still have no results. Once again, if everyone has a different perspective who is really right?
    He literally just said dating can be for finding yourself or entertaining purposes. Dating is not therapy sir.
    Principle will stand over “perspective” any day.

    • @jbwtsfinest
      @jbwtsfinest День тому

      The thing is people are entitled to their own perspective but there is only ONE TRUTH.

  • @ABCD1234_8
    @ABCD1234_8 23 дні тому +65

    Ace is TRIGGEREDDDDDD 😂

  • @superxicanatravel
    @superxicanatravel 23 дні тому +25

    This debate made it very clear why intentional dating is a better for women spirituality, mentally, physically and emotionally. I feel like the recreational dating that Ace mentioned is the reason we have so many women who were misled, abused, and cheated on by men “trying to find themselves” and as a society we end up with fatherless children who will only repeat these vicious cycles as adults.

  • @Shemashay
    @Shemashay 25 днів тому +167

    YES TO TONY. If you TEACH BLACK CHILDREN you will see that exactly what he is saying is what is needed!! Our black children are suffering SOOO much and it’s their parents and the culture we have let permeate that has ruined them!

  • @BriElaine
    @BriElaine 25 днів тому +166

    Cmon Tony!!!! With the word!!! Doesn't matter the time of dating...
    God's way is the only way
    .... He lays the foundation of marriage/dating

  • @Taylorcmay_
    @Taylorcmay_ 19 днів тому +51

    Tony, as a married person, is speaking straight facts. Respectfully.

  • @JaylanRose
    @JaylanRose 21 день тому +66

    Tony Gaskin made some valid points and everything he stated is actual and factual!!!! I tuned into Ace Metaphor's, "Tonight's Conversation" podcast for a few episodes and instantly felt confused and the conversations were very cringy and unsettling. I just can't entertain nonsense and what's the purpose of having a platform if it doesn't produce any substance? How is it beneficial for the black community? Like Tony said, we are struggling as a black community, and we need to produce information that will help build healthy families and marriages. "Tonight's Conversation" is part of the problem!!!

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 19 днів тому +3

      Agreed! It was confusing, and God is not a God of confusion so I will never listen to them!

    • @ninawallace3755
      @ninawallace3755 14 днів тому

      Perfectly said!!!!

  • @beautifulj2952
    @beautifulj2952 25 днів тому +131

    Everything TG said was on point. I'm 34, and if you are living this life and dating, you should be dating with the purpose of marriage. However, this generation is so lost with social media, etc., that almost everything he says will go over people's heads.

    • @ItsAboutAComeback
      @ItsAboutAComeback 25 днів тому +6

      Yup! Absolutely 🎯💯💥 we must continue to pray for all lost souls. They really were not taught this. The Bible speaks on those perishing because of the lack of know. Tony giving the knowledge and of course so many will reject it and say I’m a Christian. The Bible does speak on Jesus telling so may to depart from HIM, HE never knew them! I pray they stop following these norms and hunger and thirst for our Creator that their destiny is saved from the disaster they are headed to in Jesus Mighty Name. They calling what should be a relationship a religion.

    • @cynthiareynolds1941
      @cynthiareynolds1941 24 дні тому +4

      Agreed

  • @jesscurrie
    @jesscurrie 22 дні тому +65

    I love Tony’s calmness throughout this conversation as ace being argumentative

    • @carladawn8787
      @carladawn8787 14 днів тому +2

      He’s filled with the Spirit, Peace. Ace seems to be demonstrating an combative spirit…certainly not of God

    • @90charim
      @90charim День тому

      Yes!

  • @yellowbears1
    @yellowbears1 24 дні тому +61

    "Hold on lil bro you got a little too much base in your voice" 😅😂

    • @LorenzoGBrown
      @LorenzoGBrown 22 дні тому +2

      Bass

    • @alyu9337
      @alyu9337 20 днів тому +5

      And that was a way for “godly person” should be talking? He’s a hater because he’s not making money as Ace

    • @cocobrown1031
      @cocobrown1031 14 днів тому +5

      @@alyu9337you proved his point. Ace is adding to the division and separation. There’s no solution or advice to resolve. It’s always about being a side chick

    • @fairplayer7435
      @fairplayer7435 День тому

      @@alyu9337 There are many things in life more valuable than money. Family is the best example.

    • @fixedbyfaith
      @fixedbyfaith День тому

      @@alyu9337 not that it matters but Tony is a millionaire…

  • @mrsvr
    @mrsvr 25 днів тому +153

    Tony is standing on God’s Word. Not everyone will live this way. They may call themselves Christians but the Bible says many will say lord lord and Jesus will say he never knew them. The Bible says live holy. This applies to every area of life yes even dating. Yall want to date and live according to your flesh but then wonder why you keep dealing with heart ache, disappointment and pain

  • @jasminwilson4313
    @jasminwilson4313 23 дні тому +34

    I love Tony’s message it helped me hold my boyfriend accountable, who is now my husband,❤❤I will always be grateful that I found your message at I time when I was lost. God bless you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @theofficialshanazaryoutube2334
    @theofficialshanazaryoutube2334 25 днів тому +37

    Tony is right and the reason people are so broken is because they are looking for love in all the wrong places besides doing it the most highs way

  • @carmenlondon9120
    @carmenlondon9120 25 днів тому +83

    Get him Tony!! Casual relationships leads to risky consequences. Dating is not experimental and for healing which leads to a heartbreak if the person's expectations and values are higher than the other person. Ace is missing the whole point.

  • @starfloyd1482
    @starfloyd1482 25 днів тому +98

    I have gained even more respect for Tony after this brief debate.. Don't play with God's principles!!

    • @susandodson1234
      @susandodson1234 24 дні тому

      Wow he told Ace to take the base out his voice and he’s godly??? He disrespectful!!!!

    • @lilianrodriguez-baz8402
      @lilianrodriguez-baz8402 23 дні тому +7

      @@susandodson1234 what should Tony have done? Just taken it? Ace's voice and mannerisms were emotional and very passive aggressive. People can demand respectful dialogue.

    • @crystalstrong268
      @crystalstrong268 23 дні тому +3

      Period

  • @mm_0286
    @mm_0286 25 днів тому +76

    The problem with people who overemphasize subjectivity is that, in their cowardice and dishonesty, they never acknowledge that not all ideas of life (and of dating in particular) are conducive to a well-functioning society: we might all have different approaches to dating, but not all of these approaches will lend themselves to healthy relationships.
    Thus, any community-oriented thought leader should not shy away from saying, "Right is right, and wrong is wrong!". Only trifling people benefit from cultural ambiguity, as they can always hide behind the pretense of subjectivity to not be accountable for anything. Is it any wonder, then, that many people nowadays are so open about cheating? After all, maybe faithfulness is not everyone's "truth"!

  • @poosh518
    @poosh518 16 днів тому +21

    Tony is so right, I went to one of their events in Chicago “Tonight’s Conversation” and it was pointless. There was no purpose, no solution, no take away. The panel depended on the audience to navigate the conversation. It was essentially pointless. And now I understand why. The sensationalism is what led me to buy the ticket.

    • @thedebtfreelady
      @thedebtfreelady 8 днів тому

      Appreciate this comment bc I truly wanted to go when they were in Nashville but had to work. I'm sooo thankful that my time wasn't wasted. Marketing is a beast bc that's the only reason I was going to purchase. Watching this clip said enough

    • @skylar6818
      @skylar6818 День тому

      I bought a ticket but never went I felt everything was just ghetto! So I lost out on money?

  • @veecarmichael
    @veecarmichael 19 днів тому +30

    You will know them by their fruit.

  • @thekingsempire
    @thekingsempire 24 дні тому +27

    One thing we don't need is more divisiveness. Thank you for promoting mature dialogue.

  • @cmarie5867
    @cmarie5867 25 днів тому +67

    Team Tony Gaskins all the way! The principles of love and dating have not changed...amen!

  • @reneehenry1135
    @reneehenry1135 20 днів тому +15

    Respectully Ace, if you don't stand for something , you'll fall for anything...

  • @willebanks4547
    @willebanks4547 23 дні тому +20

    As a man that lives with purpose, I attest that Tony is absolutely right you can’t placate to everyone especially when you over 30. I Tell my lady this all the time.

  • @beauti2thecore
    @beauti2thecore 25 днів тому +123

    Yesss Tony👏👏👏 this is a clear representation of Godly wisdom vs. Carnal mindset.

    • @bigamemphis10
      @bigamemphis10 19 днів тому

      The way Tony spoke and acted was Godly to you?

    • @beauti2thecore
      @beauti2thecore 19 днів тому +8

      @@bigamemphis10 have you ever read the Bible? Jesus definitely put people in their place when it was needed🤷‍♀️ Even Peter in the Bible didn’t play that lol I’m just saying

    • @bigamemphis10
      @bigamemphis10 19 днів тому

      What’s your husband’s opinion?

    • @misssterling3094
      @misssterling3094 16 днів тому +1

      It’s probably the same as the wife that you don’t have.

    • @beauti2thecore
      @beauti2thecore 16 днів тому

      @@bigamemphis10 he hasn’t watched this episode but let me just say…. the Bible supersedes anyone’s opinion 🤷‍♀️

  • @kaycee7733
    @kaycee7733 25 днів тому +70

    Tony Gaskin is absolutely right!! One thing for sure, when you are right, people get offended and will argue with you no matter what.

  • @dr.jailangston975
    @dr.jailangston975 17 днів тому +13

    I'm a #TonyGaskins listener all the way... he's direct, constant/consistent, relatable, respectful, integrity-filled, and a transparent believer through his speech, character, and walk.

  • @CCF_Christopher
    @CCF_Christopher 23 дні тому +28

    There’s no such thing as a coincidence… This was a Setup

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 19 днів тому +1

      💯🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @KR-rn8lh
      @KR-rn8lh 3 дні тому

      Do They think we’re slow? Lmao that’s why Tony’s face looked like that when they asked if he would mind if Ace joined. He peeped game from jump

    • @90charim
      @90charim День тому

      Like he said he came for clarity they for confusion

  • @cocotruffles9815
    @cocotruffles9815 25 днів тому +114

    TONY IS RIGHT. Listen to married people when it comes to relationships. They’re at the epitome form of a relationship, lifelong commitment. Listening to anyone else, its not advice but information on their experience. We need more men like Tony

    • @listeningviayoutube7229
      @listeningviayoutube7229 22 дні тому +2

      Married or single people with unhealthy, negative relationships can not tell anyone anything. Period.

  • @jessicag0625
    @jessicag0625 16 днів тому +12

    Ace got SERVED from the sec he opens his mouth and Tony responded! And he KNEW IT, written in his face.

  • @blkbutterfly7618
    @blkbutterfly7618 15 днів тому +11

    “Heal before you deal”-- Tony G.

  • @detasha428
    @detasha428 24 дні тому +51

    Tony Gaston is 100% correct everything he said about Ace’s show is what you do experience confusion and sensationalism

    • @lyaries19
      @lyaries19 19 днів тому +2

      That part. It’s mostly entertainment

  • @SweetestNya
    @SweetestNya 25 днів тому +103

    I’ll never understand Ace. Marriage is based on Godly principle. Why would any ungodly person desire marriage? If you don’t desire Christ, marriage is not necessary in your life.

    • @humilis42
      @humilis42 24 дні тому +9

      Wow what you said sums it all up.

    • @Trish0103
      @Trish0103 23 дні тому +7

      Right like God created marriage why would an unbeliever desire that if anything it would be the opposite. Hmmm

    • @NoNo-ix3id
      @NoNo-ix3id 19 днів тому +1

      These “influencers” do that with every area in life; money, people dynamics, marriages, career, etc. They exploit Godly principles and rename it as their game but make it all inclusive so sins are acceptable. Some of the influencers don’t recognize that their “game” is based on the foundational principles that God created in the beginning.

    • @vicjjr31
      @vicjjr31 4 дні тому

      I never could understand that myself...The world will adopt religious traditions, yet be against the very God that implemented them. Make it make sense...🤔

  • @PrinceJenkins-rj8wt
    @PrinceJenkins-rj8wt 19 днів тому +20

    Tony is too blessed to go on Ace’s panel

  • @Danydsha
    @Danydsha 25 днів тому +50

    Tony's directness and transparency are truly refreshing. His insights on manhood, relationships, and much more are not only accurate but also deeply needed in today's world. It's inspiring to see a Black man genuinely walking the walk and preaching the word of the Maker. Although I seldom comment online, I feel compelled to share how much I appreciate Tony's contributions

    • @moniquemitchell5092
      @moniquemitchell5092 24 дні тому +6

      Don't like the way Tony gaskins is being cut off . Seems too much like trying to create hostile conversation for video content. Not respectful. No good.

    • @moniquemitchell5092
      @moniquemitchell5092 24 дні тому +7

      I agree with Tony. Don't like this interview or interviewer energy here . Have a great day

    • @indiawood19
      @indiawood19 23 дні тому +3

      No blanket statements

  • @meetthemoores6296
    @meetthemoores6296 22 дні тому +12

    TEAM TONY! He’s sooooo right!!!! Cool, calm, collected and wise!

  • @MrDubb5
    @MrDubb5 24 дні тому +50

    As a man, I agree with Tony

  • @aprillittleton6527
    @aprillittleton6527 25 днів тому +33

    Tony Gaskins is THE ONE & THE TWO baby!!! ❤

    • @90charim
      @90charim День тому

      👏👏👏👏👏

  • @idaglaude4453
    @idaglaude4453 24 дні тому +39

    Team TONY! Just observing the difference in their body language speaks volumes. Tony was confident & poised.

  • @kellyandrews1659
    @kellyandrews1659 24 дні тому +96

    Metaphor NEEDS TO SIT DOWN!!!!!!!!! HE'S A JOKE

  • @mrdanielleebrown
    @mrdanielleebrown 25 днів тому +39

    This was healthy because it's easy to be used to being the only voice. As Christians, we have to learn how to stand on God's word and our testimonies of obedience to it. God desires that we be the compare to the culture's contrast.
    It's a great commission, indeed.

    • @DiamondJohnson-os4dj
      @DiamondJohnson-os4dj 14 днів тому

      All of it is a conversation what you do with it is your choice in my opinion.

  • @destinysdiary3097
    @destinysdiary3097 20 днів тому +14

    Dating for fun is immature.

  • @Misnyc
    @Misnyc 25 днів тому +69

    Can you imagine someone with no results telling Tony Gaskin "do a little more homework!" It's like someone with a GED telling someone with a Masters to "do a little more homework." In a deck of cards, Ace is definitely a joke, here! Lol!

    • @elizabethmonsivais651
      @elizabethmonsivais651 18 днів тому

      💯 Ace is a joke, everything he says makes no sense. That comment of “do more homework” had me laughing at him, what a clown. Also, he said TG was being rude? Ace was rude with his constant iPhone scrolling & texting.

  • @prazup49
    @prazup49 23 дні тому +13

    Tony is speaking truth, stop mixing, it won’t work. Tony conversation is solid, it has a foundation. You cannot build without a foundation.

  • @tonimcpherson9449
    @tonimcpherson9449 25 днів тому +44

    It's NOT Tony's Way, It's Yahweh's Way!!! Tony is doing Kingdom Work in an efforts to REBUILD the Black Families, Black Communities. Anything outside of Yahweh's Way is leading us straight to hell.

  • @AmBeauty20
    @AmBeauty20 25 днів тому +23

    Mr Gaskin❤ is always on point !!!!!!!!!!

  • @victoriouslee
    @victoriouslee 24 дні тому +19

    7:01 I'm with Tony! It's not Tony's alignment, it is God's alignment. As we look at the alarming increase rate in OUR community of broken homes, heart, and families dating OUTSIDE of any way that is not God's way is a CLEAR sign God's way is the way, truth, and life.

  • @traceyruffin5752
    @traceyruffin5752 25 днів тому +58

    I agree with Tony the entire goal of dating is two healthy people resulting in marriage . God created family

  • @eboneybrown9339
    @eboneybrown9339 25 днів тому +47

    I stand 10toes down w/Tony Gaskins & I L❤️‍🩹D what he had to say.

  • @icequeen491
    @icequeen491 22 дні тому +15

    Toni won this Argument Hands Down!

  • @MGarciareporting
    @MGarciareporting 24 дні тому +36

    Ace came in with a whole attitude of arrogance to Tony, that type of energy is a no-no for me. He came in like a bully, that's what was felt. I am Team Tony!!!

    • @skylar6818
      @skylar6818 День тому

      Ace is more a new millennial dating guy, he isn't about the spiritual realm. There is a Godly way of dating and those who don't date in the realm of God will never get it.

  • @Shonnie1122
    @Shonnie1122 20 днів тому +8

    Tony wasn’t giving worldly living and messaging a pass. And I respect that.

  • @rodnishamiller5070
    @rodnishamiller5070 22 дні тому +12

    Tony always stand on business 🐐 🔥 Praying for God to raise up more men as bold and on fire for God!

  • @Ieasha10
    @Ieasha10 24 дні тому +19

    Whew chile, Tony was absolutely correct. I can understand Ace metaphor but his message was a bit redundant.

  • @joygolden5348
    @joygolden5348 24 дні тому +55

    Ace said a whole lotta’ NOTHING and HI FOUL for bringing on that clown to begin with

    • @STLlove
      @STLlove 19 днів тому +4

      HI is with drama... My POV- 'Debate' is one of their buzz words from time to time...

    • @deborahfranklin9370
      @deborahfranklin9370 17 днів тому +2

      Agree. Quit playing w Tony!!

  • @jkidz6410
    @jkidz6410 24 дні тому +11

    The guy has word salad and TG picked up on it and dismissed him. Total confusion coming out of Ace’s mouth. Too much double mindedness and HI is a fan of Ace.

  • @nadargekwala3110
    @nadargekwala3110 25 днів тому +52

    Tonny G. You're speaking the truth. The word of God is the TRUTH. And everyother thing is a lie, confussion ...

  • @ItsEllie1993
    @ItsEllie1993 24 дні тому +10

    Why would your goal not be marriage? If not, there is a spirit of lust it unforgiveness for past trauma. If you’re still traumatized don’t date! HEAL 1st!

  • @MzBrOdUs18
    @MzBrOdUs18 25 днів тому +41

    I love Tony Gaskins because he reminds us how weird this generations values are. God principles will always make everything else sound crazy. Because honestly “not everyone dates for marriage” is telling. Ace be so fake passionate in his advice to ppl only to argue with a man who’s all about bringing man and woman together in the most serious way. Through marriage! Just the way he hopped on the live with that devious smirk to argue with Tony let me know where he is spiritually and he ain’t really about what Tony about. This was an example that the real gon always expose the fake. Ace is performative and what the Bible calls a “false prophet” he really got a whole show dedicated to giving ppl relationship advice but this debate proves he really just about drama, entertainment and making money.

    • @moniquemitchell5092
      @moniquemitchell5092 24 дні тому +4

      Yes

    • @britneythomas3713
      @britneythomas3713 22 дні тому +2

      Yes you can see in his facial expressions every time Tony brung up biblical principles. It’s sad to see. And ppl love listening to him and his toxicity. I did too before I elevated spiritually. Not I can’t even tolerate listening to him at all.

  • @jackieblue4128
    @jackieblue4128 25 днів тому +50

    Its Gods way or the highway with TonyG 😂

    • @yemedemure414
      @yemedemure414 25 днів тому +15

      That’s for all of us Believers. ❤

  • @bw8082
    @bw8082 25 днів тому +49

    This was abit uncomfortable 😮

  • @aprilwashington3150
    @aprilwashington3150 25 днів тому +22

    At 3:15
    ACE, play....plate....whatever
    Bottomline, you're focused on SELF.
    Tony is focused on family and our community via examples through his self.
    His PURPOSE vs. Your PLATE
    Can you see the difference?

  • @FROMC2C
    @FROMC2C 18 днів тому +9

    School these ‘Brothers’ Tony Gaskins🙏🏾‼️ 🗣️

  • @yemedemure414
    @yemedemure414 25 днів тому +73

    18:56 When Tony G said “Yeah Yeah Aye! Calm down lil Bruh cause you getting too much bass in your voice” 🗣🗣🗣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cynthiareynolds1941
      @cynthiareynolds1941 24 дні тому +5

      😂😂😂

    • @crystalstrong268
      @crystalstrong268 23 дні тому +8

      Then he say Tony was out of order no Tony was on point Tony speaking facts and the other man speaking confusion then he had the nerve say he is on a health relationship I really don’t know about that iam praying for the brother way to go Tony

    • @MrHearddat
      @MrHearddat 23 дні тому +8

      Tony was right. As men we talk and speak to each other like men. When the voices rise it shows a feminine trait. And the man spoke on manhood and his religion.

    • @yemedemure414
      @yemedemure414 18 днів тому

      @@crystalstrong268 💯💯💯

    • @yemedemure414
      @yemedemure414 18 днів тому +1

      @@MrHearddat Yes Sir!! Lil Bruh was effeminate.

  • @ItsAboutAComeback
    @ItsAboutAComeback 25 днів тому +48

    25:34 PERFECTLY SAID TONY!!!🎯💯💥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Mutsa
    @Mutsa 24 дні тому +10

    If you are a regular subscriber of Tony’s you know exactly what was going on in his head at 0:13

  • @shenitathompson7493
    @shenitathompson7493 20 днів тому +23

    Why is Tony evening having a conversation with someone who is not equally yoked with him

  • @DiscoverDevoteDecide
    @DiscoverDevoteDecide 25 днів тому +56

    Yes I agree with Tony Gaskins

  • @lh3643
    @lh3643 23 дні тому +7

    Big Ups Tony!! I don’t feel like Ace Metaphor is listening to what Tony saying.

  • @tanyalatricestaysonfire3929
    @tanyalatricestaysonfire3929 22 дні тому +9

    Gaskins shut this one down 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Iminvestednow
    @Iminvestednow 25 днів тому +40

    Tony ATE! While marriage is not for me, I totally agree with him.

  • @kaycee7733
    @kaycee7733 25 днів тому +27

    Preach Tony, where God brings clarity, the devil brings confusion!! If they were going to bring you on, you should have had the whole floor!! Period!!

    • @kaycee7733
      @kaycee7733 25 днів тому +2

      Oh and in this day in time, you should not be dating just to be dating because you will pay for it, it’s to much going on to play games, check the news.