how i stop comparing myself to others & how you can too | real examples + practical steps

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2024

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  • @kiearacelina
    @kiearacelina 3 роки тому +96

    Wow wow wow 😯, i honestly believe that you were destined to be a public speaker. You’re so articulate and you have a hypnotizing voice lol, not to sound like a creep but I'm serious. Your points were so well structured and well said 👏🏽 . I don't know if you scripted that beforehand or not but either way sis, great work !! You're gonna go far!!

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  3 роки тому +12

      Thank you! 🥺 it’s something I’ve loved doing so I really appreciate you sharing that! ❤️❤️

    • @kiearacelina
      @kiearacelina 3 роки тому +2

      @@AdamaLorna ❤️❤️🙏🏽

  • @korkorsjourney3014
    @korkorsjourney3014 3 роки тому +61

    I'm currently trying to heal and turn my life around from what it is now....I just wanted you to know that these videos help me so much💕

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  3 роки тому +3

      It warms my heart to hear that; I'm wishing you all the best in your healing journey ❤️

    • @korkorsjourney3014
      @korkorsjourney3014 3 роки тому +2

      @@AdamaLorna thank you 😆

  • @Cocaleen
    @Cocaleen 3 роки тому +19

    Parents teach her children to be strong minded so that when they see kids with things that they want they can process it differently to know that it’s OK.
    It all begins from home.

  • @okuhlenkosi30
    @okuhlenkosi30 2 роки тому +3

    I was asking myself if my channel had a audience...(are people ready for mature conversations? )
    then you pop up in my feed and I'm like 🎉🎉🎉hallelujah! someone wise and very well spoken. You have a new subscriber from South Africa I agree with everything you saying. I'm so happy. wow. ❤

  • @washdaytalkz
    @washdaytalkz 3 роки тому +10

    ‘Face your front’ 😂 I read that in my mums voice. But you’re right, there’s so many positive things coming towards us. I used to compare myself to others so much, then when I looked at all the things coming my way I was so grateful. Facing our front is one of the best things we can do for ourselves!

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  3 роки тому +2

      Its so true 😂 Life is perspective and the more we open yourself up to good things the more comes our way ❤️

  • @TropicalTats1204
    @TropicalTats1204 3 роки тому +4

    I'm not gonna lie, I saw ur channel based on the recommendations and I wasn't intending on listening to you but I just chose to listen and I'm actually glad for your honest, transparent and inspiring words of ur self growth. Bless God. Thank you. 😊

  • @ini6325
    @ini6325 3 роки тому +25

    Firstly loving the sleek bun with curls. When I tell you this came at the EXACT right time! Everyone has their own difficulties and struggles but most people only display the perfect parts of their life. Let me also just face my front x

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you! Its so true; we never know whats going on in peoples lives, all we can do is focus on our own 💕

  • @aidadiack41
    @aidadiack41 2 роки тому +7

    girllll you have a gift
    this was so on point it’s crazy
    thank you mama
    keep flourishing in your calling

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you lovely 🥺❤️

  • @MsJosiann
    @MsJosiann 3 роки тому +2

    “Face your front”... Thank you, will continue to do so.

  • @geadonnamoore2719
    @geadonnamoore2719 2 роки тому +1

    Five stars! You have such a soothing relaxing voice whilst speaking on your channel. It's soothing. I can imagine you reading a story book to a sick child or comforting an elderly person with a nice comforting conversation. This was good.

  • @AliciaLuna-lb9ng
    @AliciaLuna-lb9ng Рік тому

    I'm in the middle of a month long social media fast because I realized I was struggling with comparison bad - I just love the point in my life that I found your channel, you're speaking to my soulllll!

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  Рік тому

      I’m glad you’re here too! Comparison is a factor of life- I’m glad this video was useful! ❤️

  • @rachelosei_
    @rachelosei_ 3 роки тому +4

    You should really start a podcast! 😁

  • @lovelywinnie1
    @lovelywinnie1 3 роки тому +6

    I love this so much I guess it’s important to be reminded once in a while to face our front and keep focused😩☺️

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  3 роки тому +1

      We definitely all need a reminder every so often! Glad you enjoyed the video ❤️

  • @ZombieAmi
    @ZombieAmi 3 роки тому +19

    I look forward to your videos you have such good insight.

  • @AliciaLuna-lb9ng
    @AliciaLuna-lb9ng Рік тому

    Face your front! So good!!

  • @qsutton1
    @qsutton1 3 роки тому +2

    Face your front...is a whole read and a word! I love it. Great sfuff

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  3 роки тому +1

      One of my favourite one liners! Thank you ❤️

  • @loripaige887
    @loripaige887 2 роки тому

    Adama please keep this kind of content coming! I'm currently in my second year of college and becoming indecisive of what I want to do and if what I want to do will set me up for a ,pre affluent life because I was brought up poor. Thank you for this!!!!

  • @rosy.n1931
    @rosy.n1931 3 роки тому +4

    I love your videos❤️
    As a young subscriber I am so grateful that I found your channel.
    You should make a podcast!

  • @artsyladie7
    @artsyladie7 2 роки тому +1

    I really enjoyed listening to your ideas on this subject and also the sound and gentleness of your voice.
    I am planning to take some of your recommendations. Looking forward to listening to you more. Thanks

  • @E.the.real_Lephoi
    @E.the.real_Lephoi Рік тому

    You are amazing. I have come to a realisation about so much within myself, that I could not put my finger on. Thank you so much for the enlightenment.

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much! My pleasure ❤️

  • @o.dey_
    @o.dey_ 4 місяці тому

    Do you have a podcast by any chance? I‘m loving your content and admire the way you express yourself!

  • @pleasantflowers9343
    @pleasantflowers9343 2 роки тому

    Hi Adama,
    I have found your UA-cam after researching on dissertation advice but I ended up finding greater truths and wisdom from a great lady. I have been in a pit for two years with a lot of self-esteem and other issues. Of course the majority of the work is down to me but 'we are not the sole author of our achievements' - thank you for keeping sharp and empowering content. It has been a transformative week for a messy 20 something gal. God bless you Miss Lorna x

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  Рік тому +1

      I'm glad you've found value in the channel. I hope you have an amazing new year ✨

  • @naturallbeauty8654
    @naturallbeauty8654 3 роки тому +5

    You are so gorgeous and I absolutely love your energy. It’s just so calm.

  • @Sandra-qf9ip
    @Sandra-qf9ip 3 роки тому +2

    This topic is so relatable to me so thanks for sharing also slick back hairstyle are really flattering on you!😍

  • @N00R12
    @N00R12 Рік тому

    watching this for the third time now. Your advice is timeless and has really benefitted me. God bless you Adama

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  Рік тому +1

      One of my favourite comments of all time! Thank you so much, God bless you too ❤️

  • @helenaduncan2310
    @helenaduncan2310 2 роки тому

    I've always been the type to celebrate the peoples around success genuinely from my heart. All of my friends are college graduates and beautiful amazing women. I haven't come close to any type of outward success lol but I know my heart and my love for others and I know that's special so I don't compare myself to others because that's just not my life. On the other hand its hard to escape comparisons there have been many times where like you said it was turned inward. Where I felt I was broke and people looked down on me cause I had nothing. Jealousy tho has never been a struggle for me but I have been in situations where certain people would try to make me feel jealous or basically say I was jealous even tho I hadn't shown any prior or recent signs of that. In that time I pondered over and over in my mind his did I seem jealous? What did I say or do that would make them say that? It wrecked my brain and brought me to literal tears because I know my heart and intentions and they were pure. Years later I realized that the prettiest people can be the most jealous ones. I learned that people can try to push their true feelings onto you as if those are your feelings. The people that tried to convince me I was jealous they were the ones struggling in that area but it was pushed off on me. The future actions of those people toward me proved to be true. They are no longer apart of my life. If I feel anything close to jealously in my heart I would repent right away and ask the lord to help me. Jealousy is such a ugly thing. If you feed it, it can lead to terrible things. I saw a story once of a girl and her best friend since childhood. Once as kids they got into an argument and one told the other she would burn her with acid. It was chopped up as just friends having a disagreement years later they remained friends and the one that made the threat finally decided to carry threw with it. Its a sad thing to fall into the hands of a jealous person, that's why I don't play about those kinds of things. I had a friend once told me she had a dream she choked me and was smiling when she said it. I was like you know that's not good right? In real life I had been a goo's friend to her, had took her in my home and fed her and listened to her problems and many other things so where is the place in your heart and conscious that these dreams are coming from? I knew she was harvesting something in heart toward me but without cause from me. Needless to say the truth came out and she told me how she really felt. Then persisted to try and be my friend again afther I moved on at her request. Its crazy out here people. Know who you are and then nobody can tell you who they think you are. This was long. 🤷

  • @angelaroberts2882
    @angelaroberts2882 3 роки тому +2

    Great content!!! Your voice is very calming. ❤️

  • @Sal-h4n
    @Sal-h4n 2 роки тому +3

    you should start a podcast!

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  2 роки тому

      Literally been thinking about it for a year now!! Thank you though ❤️

  • @waveche2k
    @waveche2k 2 роки тому +2

    Off topic but your hairstyle looks amazinggg

  • @Samayahhhh
    @Samayahhhh 2 роки тому

    amazing video , I’m 14 years old struggling with comparison and this was very eye opening .❤️

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  2 роки тому

      I’m glad this helped! ❤️

  • @anna-rose8325
    @anna-rose8325 3 роки тому +3

    Beautiful words of inspiration.👏🏽👏🏽💖

  • @evangelineo
    @evangelineo 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this! ❤️

  • @moonchild2295
    @moonchild2295 2 роки тому

    Bruh I'm so done with myself, I literally started comparing myself to her, like why don't I speak that well, she sounds so smart. Like what

  • @leahg6615
    @leahg6615 3 роки тому +4

    I was excited to see you weigh in on this topic. Also, where do you get your stock videos from?

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you! I get my videos from www.pexels.com/ 💕

  • @FacilaTsome
    @FacilaTsome Рік тому

    Loving your inspiration

  • @DJMotion9
    @DJMotion9 3 роки тому +5

    ♨️♨️ great perspective very insightful

  • @ehida-vi3153
    @ehida-vi3153 3 роки тому +1

    Wow you so on point. I really have a lot to learn from you.

  • @Vinoliah
    @Vinoliah 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this video ❤️

    • @AdamaLorna
      @AdamaLorna  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @promotedsandra_
    @promotedsandra_ 3 роки тому +1

    Good one girl

  • @cashleysimone5361
    @cashleysimone5361 3 роки тому +1

    This was helpful. Thank you

  • @njaliwesimango6077
    @njaliwesimango6077 3 роки тому +2

    Came at the right moment.

  • @Christ.MadeBri
    @Christ.MadeBri 3 роки тому +1

    Love this 💕🙏🏾

  • @riqhavok4969
    @riqhavok4969 3 роки тому +1

    Good topic and good show

  • @LorenRoz
    @LorenRoz Місяць тому

    Hi dear, I really appreciate your take on comparison-it’s so important to realize the unnecessary pressure it puts on us! I’ve recently tackled this topic myself, and it’s crazy how comparison can lead us astray, especially on social media. I’d love for you to check out my thoughts on it. Sending you positive vibes! 💋

  • @JessicaKromrey-vb9vt
    @JessicaKromrey-vb9vt Рік тому

    😳🌹🦋to focus on God and not pay attention to anyone who went against me and thankfully let God do the work. God knows that the people who came against me and wanted me to die will regret it as a prayer warrior and an account of how these people would rather just watch me and treat me as an experiment than a damn human being. So none of them will have an actual place in my life with God. I have the people in my life that I need and their story about me and my life is in Gods hands alone. And I’m certain that the people who knew and did nothing God will keep away from me. The truth is that Social Media really helps me. People set up cameras in my house and think it’s socially acceptable but it’s totally not and I know they reached karma but their karma is only just beginning.

  • @JessicaKromrey-vb9vt
    @JessicaKromrey-vb9vt Рік тому

    A friend of the world is an enemy of God