Joshua graham tells "How to deal disrespect"
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- Опубліковано 16 чер 2024
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#joshuagraham #fallout
Lately I got upset with a co-worker and how she treats everyone like garbage, doesn't do her job and acts hypocritical. She's been like this for half a year. I finally snapped, cursing and yelling because I was done dealing with it all.
The point: You helped me realize that although I did yell, curse, made myself a fool, I stood up for myself in the end. Thank you for your wisdom, and thank you for spreading said wisdom through a noble character
Had something similar myself today.
I'm younger than the other guy. And in construction, younger guys get crapped on a lot and the Good Ol' Boys tend to have each other's backs.
This particular morning didn't go the way I planned it to. Seven thirty A.M I am getting all manner of shouting, roaring and swearing my way for minor bullshit and I just decide I'm not doing this today. I give every ounce back at him.
I don't like losing my cool. And I tend to feel bad because I don't like confrontation. But you're right. I immediately felt better because I told myself, "No. I am a human being, I don't deserve to be treated like this. I am drawing a line here and it will not be crossed."
We all need to show the world we are not a doormat.
love the way how you related your real life experience to convey that the content of this video has made small impact in you , its very much encouraging to me to make more of the good contents like this in future. Thanks a lot ❤️
@@randomcenturion7264 This is a classic "coming-of-age" moment for young men. Just watch, you'll instantly get so much less bullshit from now on, since he knows you have a boundary / limit now. Being completely non-confrontational doesn't make you good, just weak.
Never put up with others bullshit. When you know they are doing wrong. And they have the gaul ,and disrespect to point the finger and lay , shift the blame on you. Those people do not have the right. They are liberty takers and lesser kinds of people. And they will not stop their selfish and bad behaviour around you until you put them in their place. People like them need to be shown their place.
Good for you for doing that. You weren't being a fool for doing that. You were finally being assertive enough to give them a well needed reality check. I'm sure your colleagues knew exactly what was going on and why you reacted that way. Modern cultures put on us in modern society, always being expected to be polite and in control 24-7 ,is just unrealistic bullshit. It's just not a true reflection of being an authentic human. Even the best of us lose our shit once in a while yeah.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent" 🔥
Thats a fuckin bar
@@Indubidably0 The irony of this statement on a video like this is unbelievable.
Joshua Graham is "mostly" what I wished my dad was like, personality-wise
you must be a terrible son
@@Panchoproductions2069 or he has a terrible dad…
@@jasonberesford1255 The world is in no short of shitty fathers.
Yep, wish my dad told me these things than someone else (or A video) we truly live in a degenerative society (that includes me)
@@MJ-ey5pc Mom's job is to show you there is love in the world. Dad's job is to show you there is to fortify you against the hate of it.
"people who love themselves don't hurt other people"
I respectfully disagree. People who love themselves more than others tend to view others as expendable.
@@Reonrei depends on the person. But yes, people who do love themselves a little too much will hurt others through lack of empathy. Whilst people who hate themselves will hurt others because they care so much about what others think.
@@Loltroll8 those who "love themselves" only love the ideal of themselves of which they cannot achieve. So they must defend their guise
@@lolslols755 guess you've never met a psychopath
@@Loltroll8 fair
He is like a father to us all.
I like to think all of these are JG teaching all of the Dead Horses/Sorrows about Christ around a campfire
Having read the description, I must admit that I admire your writing. It's nice to know that your script wasn't written by a soulless AI but instead by a living person.
Thank you ❤️ have seen so many AI generated contents from others but as much as I admire the the depth of JG's character i wouldn't do that. It's not only his voice we love after all its about how we all started to see him as a real person who has lot to share about life's reality ;)
@@abysmoflife Well said. Looking forward to more of your vids ❤
Why are these helping me more than any self help influencer and pod cast alpha dog bull shit. I know Joshua Graham never said this, but I feel a soul in it. thanks man
So far all the Joshua Graham ai/scripts/voicelines is the best use of ai 'generators'. Also its very interesting to see, that people who play crpgs more often than not are heavy thinkers :) Huge thumbs up, please deliver more
thanks for your love, i will keep making more contents like this but in future will also keep JG videos in parallel with other videos related to philosophy and life advices. Hope you all will support my work ☺️❤️
*WE CANT EXPECT GOD TO DO ALL THE WORK*
If you can’t treat me like im someone important. Then please, don’t disrespect me. Love that line 5:31
Joshua is the dad most of us never had
or so I've heard
Genuinely great life advice. Great video you made, Graham's voice is so damn soothing on top of it too
Thank you ❣️ true that i can't deny what you mentioned about Graham's voice .There's something in it !
@@abysmoflife did you write the script or was it generated by a.i?
not AI generated. I prepared the script based on quotes and writings from famous people like Edward Gibbon, Fyodor Dostoevsky etc...
@@abysmoflife thanks do you use eleven labs?
I'm sorry for disrespecting any person on my path in life.
Really good taste on quotes sir
Thank you ❤️
Let God deal with the things they do, because hate in your heart will consume you too.
He was cooking with that.
Well, this popped up at the perfect time for me, as I'm struggling to respect myself... Sorry to vent, but this whole thing, ESPECIALLY 1:05 , 5:42 - 5:55 and 7:50 spoke to me.
I liked a girl, we'd spend a lot of time together talking about personal stuff, supporting each other as best we could, bonding over a shared hobby. It started out platonic, but my feelings began to change and I was thinking of how to approach the situation. So, she spends time alone in a place with a "friend" and frames it as such... I trusted her to tell the truth. Turns out it was her boyfriend, that she had never mentioned to me and I only figured this out because she had a slip up while venting to me.
I wasn't mad about her having a boyfriend, I was more mad that she was comfortable lying to me for such a period of time... She said she NEVER lied about it. When I asked, "Does your boyfriend know you're going around telling people he's just a friend?" She said I was taking her words out of context... So I copy and pasted her words exactly where she said she was meeting up with a "friend", and she asked why I even still had those (apparently she expects me to delete all traces of our conversations). She then said it was "none of my business", and she swears that she still never told a lie, she was just being vague (pretty big difference between, "I'm meeting up with a friend" vs "I'm meeting up with a boyfriend.")
I got angry, I fully admit that and told her, somewhere along the way, she'd gotten used to disrespecting and lying to me... Which she claims I was just putting words into her mouth. The boyfriend stuff was mostly secondary, it was mainly the sheer level of disrespect and refusal to accept that she was lying to me that angered me. She said the positive parts of her life were none of my business, but she felt comfortable venting about the negatives... What? lol
Based on context of her hiding his existence from me, lying to me about it, refusing to admit it was a lie and apparently scrubbing traces of my existence from her devices (since I doubt most men would be ok with their girlfriends spending hours alone with another guy, talking about their emotions, I doubt he knows I exist either)... I strongly believe she was using me to have an emotional affair (no one in their right mind would willingly agree to be The Other Man/Other Woman), and to make matters worse, she asked me to help lift her spirits for the meeting... So all that trust I had in her was used to help her get her back blown out by another man. I'm fairly certain she knew how I felt, as she went to quite a few extremes to hide his existence from me (and probably mine from him if she regularly scrubs our chats) and wanted to keep us both for her convenience. She told me she had boyfriends before (and told me about them, which I was fine with), but she only NOW decided to start hiding it? Yeah... I'm not an idiot lol.
... While the knowledge my trusting nature was abused and made me resentful of people, this video helped me remind myself that I deserve better than being disrespected in such a way (not being anyone's emotional side piece, being lied to, gaslighted, etc.). If she'd just been honest with me from the start, I probably wouldn't have cared that much... Now she apparently wants to talk to me but is apparently annoyed as to why I no longer want to speak to her about her "personal life" since... Well, according to her that's none of my business so I just stopped lol. I lost pretty much all interest in her as a friend, let alone a woman, as... Without trust and respect, I just don't see a point in being around people and she will lie to me and not see it as a big deal. I strongly suspect a lot of what she told me about herself was a lie now. She claimed she respected me but... Actions speak louder than words.
I may not have much, but I have my self-respect and the peace of mind being away from her negativity.
Very glad to read about you being able to stand up for yourself and *not* being used.
Cheers to that. Be proud of yourself to be such a decent Human being, while also being able to speak *up* for yourself!
@@HandsomeGamerGuy Thank you! I'm glad people enjoyed reading that.
In hindsight, there was clearly something very wrong with her... She always had mountains of bad news that she would complain to me about (a "woe is me" attitude) but somehow conveniently never had anything good (even small things) happen to her. I gave her multiple chances to be honest with me and I learned she was a compulsive liar who couldn't keep her story straight. She gave me 2 or 3 directly contradicting explanations for why she did what she did, including trying to weaponize something I told her to say, "I did this for you!" which might have made sense... Except she also claimed she hid it from most (or all, it's been a while) other people too and I'm extremely doubtful the vast majority of her other friends had the same experiences I did that she used to try to "protect" me lol. She was clearly making up any excuses she could think of. That's when it sunk in that I had to give up on her, as she didn't respect me or her boyfriend enough to tell us the truth.
That said, I'm kind of thankful it happened. I learned a lot from the experience and now have a better idea on how to spot toxic people in my life, which helped me avoid repeating the same mistakes a few months later. So I gained some wisdom from the whole experience and will know what to look for in the future for when people try to test how much they can disrespect me.
@@ponderer1315
Yeah i knew a Girl similiar to that. Always the one that needed People to be around her and Reassure her that whatever Choice she made was good, how smart she was yada yada yada. Well turns out that a lot of Stuff she does is just straight up weird and very attention seeking. Which is even more disturbing, but calling her out for that really did open my Eyes to some other Shit.
@@HandsomeGamerGuy Yeah... In hindsight, the one I knew did a lot of that too. She'd randomly start talking to me about doing dangerous things in emotional states... In hindsight, I'm pretty sure she was trying to get some kind of reaction out of me. Such as threatening to hurt herself/claiming she already did, threatening to put herself into dangerous situations, that other people were dangerous to her, blah blah blah... I now realize it was likely some kind of sick game for her to see me be concerned about her, which would explain why the bad stuff was apparently the only parts of her life she felt comfortable talking about.
Good on you for calling her out and seeing through her BS! You don't need that level of toxicity in your life lol. I hope you can spot the signs the next time someone like that comes around, you'll have more experience and know not to waste your time on people like that lol. From what you described, it sounds like her house of cards fell down... I hope you find someone worth your time in the future and try not to end up jaded over sick women that seem to need attention from everyone. Good luck!
@@ponderer1315 Luckily she was "just" a Friend. And from the entire Friend group of people she got around her i was like the only one trying to find a solution for her problems or provide the information that could help her. Once i saw that she never actually tried anything, and only found execuses i just never bothered to take anything she said serious.
This man quoted Will Smith. There is no damn way lmao.
Great vid. It just needs a few little breaks of silence, giving the listener a moment to consider what JG just said.
appreciate your feedback, definitely will improve this in the next video :)
i take these joshua graham videos to heart and ever since my life has been better and more positive, thank you for this.
This video came in the right moment of my life, so did all the joshua videos, thank you man.
Such beautiful words. Needs millions of views, but the people who see this are blessed, so thank you ❤️
I'm so glad we have all realized the inspiring potential of Joshua Graham's voice, but I'm also just amazed that the lessons people have chosen to teach using it are extremely wise and well written. I hope that these help as many as possible
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. I love that.
Where’s more of this been when, I actually needed it 😂 hope someone gets this message in time and find clarity
Thank you for having Joshua speak about God and the devil. I've seen people having Joshua speak in a very secular way, which is a perversion of his character imo. My only complaint is his mention of karma. He does not believe in karma. He is a follower of our Lord God, Jesus Christ first and foremost.
Thank you so much, receiving this feedback from others also . I will keep in mind when making new script to keep JG as much as possible in his character and his views ;) but also would like to keep this bit open too not give any boundaries
@@abysmoflife Keep up the great work! I'm glad you are taking constructive criticisms and have a respect for the character. Really loved this video, brother! You got my sub!
What a fascinating mix of misguided yet well-meaning advice, paired with sound and rational advice
The part about the insults really hit me hard. Got out of bed at 2am to write it down
Thank you so much for this video .
I needed to hear this
Glad it was helpful ❤️
We are all the same under god. Also, tolerance is a contract- you break it, you will be broken.
I have been so unmotivated and lost in life. This is something that I NEEDED to hear and listen to. Thank you for such a beautiful video form such a legendary character
I'm so glad! :)
Truly amazing
thank you ❤️
Man I love you're channel 😊
You’re amazing
Words to live by
This is the truth top g
Learned much of this the hard way as I'm closing in my 20s. Choice picks 👍
Great content , just subbed to the channel keep it up 🔥
Can I have a Mini-Joshua Graham on my shoulder at all times?
IF THE FALLOUT SHOW DOES NOT HAVE GRAHAM IN IT I AINT WATCHING IT
Nearly every Joshua Graham video leaves me self reflecting.
Am only a minuet in, but this is some beautiful stuff.
Great video! I just couldn't understand what to do when disrespected. Top it, ignore and don't respond? Or stand up for yourself and respond in a ferm but not with insults?
0:31 powerful
I like to think this was the conversation that convinced my junkie do gooder, talk hot shit to anything mildly antagonizing courier to not just murder Ulysses.
This was the moment my boy decided on getting speech to 100
*Laughs* Amen!
The first quote, "don't lie to yourself," is said by Father Zosima from The Brothers Karamazov, probably the greatest novel written.
If NV were a movie id nominate Bruce Campbell to play Joshua
his expressive eyes could workout well for the character, definitely not a poor choice 😉👍
"Hate in your heart will consume you too" don't go thinking we missed that Will Smith quote
I love it
Thank you ❤️
Coming from a man who preaches righteousness, respect and moral vengeance; this couldn't have been a better topic to collect and voice with AI.
wow
Real.
I had a few people disrespect me. It was online but I just laughed it off. I try not to take things personally. If it’s criticism, then I listen, if it’s blatant disrespect, then I shoot back or laugh. But with two groups of people, who disrespected me. But, after some time, we became friends. All I did was laugh and stayed with them. I never yelled or cursed at them, I was calm and gave them some respect. Whenever they insulted me I just kinda made fun of it, because it was poorly crafted.
It's like Jordan Peterson got covered in pitch and tossed in a canyon aflame, bucko.
Do you have a written document of this? this was very influential and I would like to read it myself time to time.
Thank you ❤️ can be downloaded from transcript :)
Mr Graham as a tribal I gotta ask what is a restaurant?
Wise words, I shall remind myself of this in times of disrecpect and hate.
By the way, what does it mean to "top it"? I'm not a native speaker and internet gives me weird results for my native language
it meant like if you can't ignore the insult then beat (verbal) the other person's insult with your better reply/response, something like your response should shut them up for all.
@@abysmoflife Thank you for the explanation friend :D
I’ve been doing a lot wrong. Where do I start
What does it mean with "if you can't ignore an insult, top it", what does it mean to "top it"?
Source of the reading?
I would love to have the full script in text, please!
as most of our friends are asking for the full script i will shortly share all my work in Patreon :) you can find all my videos written script there. Thanks for your support in advance
You lost me at "man, woman, chick, or child. " I can't imagine him referring to any female as a chick. Knocked me right out of the immersion. 😂
What if I have respected all but myself while having bowls of disrespect poured upon you like the bowls of rath to be poured out at the end of days? Would you still say never disrespect? If yes you know not the true meaning of turning the cheek.
Karma is not real
consequences sure are
Why is there a spike in the audio at around 1:25?
Feels jarring.
will check that in editing next time ;)
1:16
Lemme get that .45
3:12
Shame is only an effective tactic with which other people can manipulate you if you agree with their evaluation of you.
If you let other people decide your value or lack of value, instead of simply believing that you have it, you are all but guaranteed to be miserable.
No other person will ever be as invested in your happiness, fulfillment or contentment as you. Expecting otherwise is foolishness.
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i would take that comment as ' Dope' right 😁
I disagree with the getting angry part
Hi Moua, individual opinions are always respected.
Can we get one of Joshua Graham talking on Bigotry, and that it's okay to be transgender? I think that'd be perfect
in the future will do my best to make such a script :)
if you accept disrespect from others youre disrespecting yourself. go tell that to an 18 year old black kid in chicago and see how holy you become
a couple good points but failed one using the word chick, and then repeating the words a 2nd time did a edgelord write this?
Damn this is good
Thank you ❤️