There is times we’ve given eggs out for free to families and if we didn’t have enough, I would cut containers in half and just give out six eggs at a time every little bit counts! my aunt growing up used to shop from my parents freezer and takes stuff that my parents probably weren’t going to use that for her. It helped feed her kids and they remember that until this day.
If I have too much of items are that I know I not going to eat enough, or dry goods, I give them to friend or neighbor that has a larger family, so to get them used up.
When we went through a financial struggle, one of the things i did was research ways to cut costs. I became obsessed with learning how to cook meals with very cheap ingredients. Dinners don't have to be elaborate to be nutritious and filling. To add variety, look into cheap international dishes...I call them "peasant foods". India and Asia have some very flavourful vegetarian based dishes, as well as dishes that use cheap cuts of meat. Poland is known for perogies, but they have other cheap dishes to try. Heck, the Dutch admits to being very cheap and having a sweet tooth. There are lots of great dishes to try your hand at. Don't be afraid to try some new meals that appeal to you and your families tastes. Also, instead of buying convenience treats for your kids, learn to bake. Even a mix is cheaper than buying granola bars. A cake mix makes 24 cupcakes. A brownie mix can be cut into multiple small servings and wrapped up individually. Again, look for recipes that use cheap ingredients! I would make a "treat of the week" every weekend to last for the week. You can even involve the kids and make it a fun family thing. Another suggestion is to find cheap or free things to do. Getting out and having some fun is very important when money is tight. Go to a park, check out free events around your town, or get together with family or friends for a game night. It helps with the "I have nothing and can't do anything" mentality. You CAN have fun, even with no money. So take a deep breath, and carve out some time to have fun. As for holidays and birthdays, there are so many amazing ideas on the internet for inexpensive, homemade gifts. Even if you don't have much talent, there are still great ideas that anyone could do. So please, start researching early and find a way to capture the holiday spirit or enjoy the birthday celebrations on an extremely tight budget. So yes, it is possible to live on a tigh budget. You just have to adjust your mindset and embrace a positive, can-do attitude. This is a temporary situation that will take some creativity, positive thinking, and strength of character to work through it. You are stronger than you think you are!
I would like to say to any parents please don't talk to your children about finances too early! It puts a burden on them they are not emotionally ready for! Show them love in being present and 'making them feel special ' so they won't feel the burden . Then as the get older give them teaching on the difference in needs and wants !
When we needed help, we didn’t qualify. I had 2 babies, almost 11 months, and a newborn. I had to go back to work 3 weeks after the newborn. Hopefully, times have changed . Where you can get help when you really need it. Was a tough time, we survived. Working our tails off & Gods help. We bought 2 cans of formula a day because that’s all we could afford, the 11 month old still needed formula too!
Hello my beautiful friend! I am not saying this to cause friction or anything but I am voting for the outlaw and the hillbilly. The last 3 plus years have been so bad and I just can not do another 4 years of this. I cant even imagine what housing cost and prices will be like 1, 2, 3, or 4 years down the road if the last 3 are anything to compare them too. This is just my opinion and we all have choices that why we love being Americans! We are empty nesters and are doing okay financially but I worry about my parents, our children, grandchildren and my family and friends. A lot of them are as they say robbing Peter to pay Paul! Most people do not have more than one week of food in their house and are up to their eyebrows in debt! I just continue to pray for change!
I’m so glad I’m not raising a family right now! In the late 80s I was homeless with my young child and we were literally the only people staying at the homeless shelter. These days people are being turned away because of overcrowding. I’m not well off but I’m able to take some stress off of my daughter & sil’s plate by cooking and running errands for them. So many I see needing food also don’t have transportation so I try to help out with delivery
Hi Mama B.!!! My children are grown . Our daughters are both 50 years old and our Son is 40. We have 3 Grandchild and 1 Great Grandaughter...and one on the way in January!!! I like hearing what others are going thro in life. My life was really wonderful...my dear husband ♡ had a government job so...I was never in need for help. I feel nothing is wrong with getting help. I wish I could get some help the way grocerys are now a days. Take Care all...Nice Video!!!...🦋
Meal schedule is great that way you know what you need. Also look around on what you have in the freezer or pantry see what you can make. Usually things like chicken noodles soup is cheap to make and makes a lot. Call your utility companies, you will be surprised on how we willing they are to work with you. Many will work out a budget that is a lower amount and you know how much it will be every month. Keep your head up, pray, and use that food bank.
We have gone through some lean times on and off. Here is a mantra: First add no more debt. Second pay the current bills on time. Third get caught up. Fourth pay down debt.
I am of the opinion to include the children in the general financial discussion: GENERAL financial discussion. Unless you're living beyond your means on credit, they are going to know anyway. When things are financially tight, let them know that there isn't as much money coming in as you would like and you just aren't going to be able to afford everything you and they would like. If you haven't introduced the word budget then do so; if you haven't been budgeting, then do so. Involve the children in your meal planning. If you haven't been meal planning, then do so. Let them see you make the/ part of the meal plan, make the grocery list, figure out how to use food bank food, etc... If you try new foods or dishes, let them be a part of the success review. Cooking more from scratch is part of saving on groceries, let them explore that and the prepping with you. If you go on to prep your own convience foods for on the shelf, let them be a part of the measuring and funnel work. Let them be a part of the grocery shopping and keeping to a list. If saving money is a part of your strategy, get them involved in challenges such as can you turn the water off while brushing your teeth; put a little challenge chart up with each person's name on the mirror to self monitor and check off for a week(s). Involve the children when you go through the closets to assess how many of what they own (and fits etc..) then write the list of what's missing. Get them to help pack the lunches/ beverages for a day at the park or other budget friendly activity. Get them to help you make toys and things out of scrap materials. The list goes on. I'm not big on overly discussing any budget details you dont want the friends, family, neighborhood, school yard and thier parents to know. This guiding principle generally keeps you from sharing and burdening your kids from too many of the adulting aspects of being fiscally challenged; in times of plenty it keeps the world from knowing your savings, investments, and other intimate details related to your net worth too. But I think it is fine to announce things like a credit card has been paid off, you're happy about it, and to thank the kids for thier help in doing it; the same with paying off the card paying off the mortgage, having saved enough money to buy a major or an extra purchase, being able to afford an activity or school related item, etc...
I am really struggling right now. My apartment has become unlivable thanks to my neighbors smoking cigarettes, weed, cigars... My upstairs neighbor is clogging the drain that we share to the larger pipe under the building. She has flooded my kitchen 3x now. I know it isn't us clogging it because I have not cooked in this kitchen in over 6 months. I can't stand it here anymore and I need to move us. but rental prices are INSANE and nobody care that I pay nearly $1,700 per month (rent, water, "amenitites", electric, internet) to live in this dump. I want to pull my hair out.
I know this suggestion will not work for everyone, so I apologize if it just won't work for you. But, have you considered sharing accommodations with a trusted friend or family member. Sometimes renting a larger place, then dividing the cost with someone else works out to be less than renting a smaller apartment for just yourself. This will only work if the person you share with is reliable, does their fair share around the apartment/home, and pays their rent/utilities on time. This is a lot to expect. But if you know someone, perhaps this would help you both get ahead.
@katiesinthekitchen Well, keep it open as an option. Someone might come along complaining of their rent, and they would be a perfect match to do this with.
I bulk shop, budget, meal prep, stretch leftovers into other meals or meal prep/freeze then for later. I also visit local food banks to help supplement. also shopping sales and clearance! My husband and I even donate plasma twice a week. That's an extra $240 a week on top of his wages. Most plasma centers give new donors higher payments there first so many donations also.
Woah yall get $1000 a month for plasma? And get food from several food pantries? So you don’t have to really buy groceries except staple items? I have my grown daughter grand baby and son in law at my house with my youngest child now. And I can barely afford to feed us. It’s gotten crazy. We don’t really have any good food bank options either that I know of. I’m in Texas. What I have seen from an uncle who used to go to the local food bank is that they give a loaf of bread and beans and rice and can veggies and sometimes day old donuts. That’s it. No meat except every once in a while some kind of freezer burnt bag of nuggets. So I could use some help but those items wouldn’t really be too helpful for me. Times are hard. Oh and this is precipitated by my sorry husband just leaving. So that’s why I’m broke and struggling the most. Not a good time for him to do that to me and the family while the economy is so damn hard.
I go to the food bank drive thrus for my neighbors they are to shy and ashamed but boy they love the food and so glad to do it haven't had as much time lately but if you can do that for someone please do it
Unless you're born into a very wealthy family you've always going to struggle with something one way or another in life the problem right now is billionaires buying up all the land and driving the prices up I don't think the government can fix that
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There is times we’ve given eggs out for free to families and if we didn’t have enough, I would cut containers in half and just give out six eggs at a time every little bit counts! my aunt growing up used to shop from my parents freezer and takes stuff that my parents probably weren’t going to use that for her. It helped feed her kids and they remember that until this day.
If I have too much of items are that I know I not going to eat enough, or dry goods, I give them to friend or neighbor that has a larger family, so to get them used up.
I am not a parent but a senior and it is so hard My Prayers for all.
When we went through a financial struggle, one of the things i did was research ways to cut costs. I became obsessed with learning how to cook meals with very cheap ingredients. Dinners don't have to be elaborate to be nutritious and filling. To add variety, look into cheap international dishes...I call them "peasant foods". India and Asia have some very flavourful vegetarian based dishes, as well as dishes that use cheap cuts of meat. Poland is known for perogies, but they have other cheap dishes to try. Heck, the Dutch admits to being very cheap and having a sweet tooth. There are lots of great dishes to try your hand at. Don't be afraid to try some new meals that appeal to you and your families tastes. Also, instead of buying convenience treats for your kids, learn to bake. Even a mix is cheaper than buying granola bars. A cake mix makes 24 cupcakes. A brownie mix can be cut into multiple small servings and wrapped up individually. Again, look for recipes that use cheap ingredients! I would make a "treat of the week" every weekend to last for the week. You can even involve the kids and make it a fun family thing.
Another suggestion is to find cheap or free things to do. Getting out and having some fun is very important when money is tight. Go to a park, check out free events around your town, or get together with family or friends for a game night. It helps with the "I have nothing and can't do anything" mentality. You CAN have fun, even with no money. So take a deep breath, and carve out some time to have fun.
As for holidays and birthdays, there are so many amazing ideas on the internet for inexpensive, homemade gifts. Even if you don't have much talent, there are still great ideas that anyone could do. So please, start researching early and find a way to capture the holiday spirit or enjoy the birthday celebrations on an extremely tight budget.
So yes, it is possible to live on a tigh budget. You just have to adjust your mindset and embrace a positive, can-do attitude. This is a temporary situation that will take some creativity, positive thinking, and strength of character to work through it. You are stronger than you think you are!
Nice video, you are always trying to encourage others-love it❤️
I am senior It is almost impossible I have friends who cant afford there medicine its food or meds its a scary out there thanks for sharing
I would like to say to any parents please don't talk to your children about finances too early! It puts a burden on them they are not emotionally ready for! Show them love in being present and 'making them feel special ' so they won't feel the burden . Then as the get older give them teaching on the difference in needs and wants !
I strongly second this. My husband still has PTSD from this and having to move homes frequently. Sending peace to everyone's households
I agree with you! Kids already have enough to deal with at school
100% AGREE
Great ideas. There are people willing to step up and help those in need.
When we needed help, we didn’t qualify. I had 2 babies, almost 11 months, and a newborn. I had to go back to work 3 weeks after the newborn. Hopefully, times have changed . Where you can get help when you really need it. Was a tough time, we survived. Working our tails off & Gods help. We bought 2 cans of formula a day because that’s all we could afford, the 11 month old still needed formula too!
Hello my beautiful friend! I am not saying this to cause friction or anything but I am voting for the outlaw and the hillbilly. The last 3 plus years have been so bad and I just can not do another 4 years of this. I cant even imagine what housing cost and prices will be like 1, 2, 3, or 4 years down the road if the last 3 are anything to compare them too. This is just my opinion and we all have choices that why we love being Americans! We are empty nesters and are doing okay financially but I worry about my parents, our children, grandchildren and my family and friends. A lot of them are as they say robbing Peter to pay Paul! Most people do not have more than one week of food in their house and are up to their eyebrows in debt! I just continue to pray for change!
I’m so glad I’m not raising a family right now! In the late 80s I was homeless with my young child and we were literally the only people staying at the homeless shelter. These days people are being turned away because of overcrowding. I’m not well off but I’m able to take some stress off of my daughter & sil’s plate by cooking and running errands for them. So many I see needing food also don’t have transportation so I try to help out with delivery
Hi Mama B.!!! My children are grown . Our daughters are both 50 years old and our Son is 40. We have 3 Grandchild and 1 Great Grandaughter...and one on the way in January!!! I like hearing what others are going thro in life. My life was really wonderful...my dear husband ♡ had a government job so...I was never in need for help. I feel nothing is wrong with getting help. I wish I could get some help the way grocerys are now a days. Take Care all...Nice Video!!!...🦋
Meal schedule is great that way you know what you need. Also look around on what you have in the freezer or pantry see what you can make. Usually things like chicken noodles soup is cheap to make and makes a lot.
Call your utility companies, you will be surprised on how we willing they are to work with you. Many will work out a budget that is a lower amount and you know how much it will be every month. Keep your head up, pray, and use that food bank.
We have gone through some lean times on and off. Here is a mantra:
First add no more debt. Second pay the current bills on time. Third get caught up. Fourth pay down debt.
I am of the opinion to include the children in the general financial discussion: GENERAL financial discussion. Unless you're living beyond your means on credit, they are going to know anyway. When things are financially tight, let them know that there isn't as much money coming in as you would like and you just aren't going to be able to afford everything you and they would like. If you haven't introduced the word budget then do so; if you haven't been budgeting, then do so.
Involve the children in your meal planning. If you haven't been meal planning, then do so. Let them see you make the/ part of the meal plan, make the grocery list, figure out how to use food bank food, etc... If you try new foods or dishes, let them be a part of the success review. Cooking more from scratch is part of saving on groceries, let them explore that and the prepping with you. If you go on to prep your own convience foods for on the shelf, let them be a part of the measuring and funnel work. Let them be a part of the grocery shopping and keeping to a list.
If saving money is a part of your strategy, get them involved in challenges such as can you turn the water off while brushing your teeth; put a little challenge chart up with each person's name on the mirror to self monitor and check off for a week(s). Involve the children when you go through the closets to assess how many of what they own (and fits etc..) then write the list of what's missing. Get them to help pack the lunches/ beverages for a day at the park or other budget friendly activity. Get them to help you make toys and things out of scrap materials. The list goes on.
I'm not big on overly discussing any budget details you dont want the friends, family, neighborhood, school yard and thier parents to know. This guiding principle generally keeps you from sharing and burdening your kids from too many of the adulting aspects of being fiscally challenged; in times of plenty it keeps the world from knowing your savings, investments, and other intimate details related to your net worth too. But I think it is fine to announce things like a credit card has been paid off, you're happy about it, and to thank the kids for thier help in doing it; the same with paying off the card paying off the mortgage, having saved enough money to buy a major or an extra purchase, being able to afford an activity or school related item, etc...
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I am really struggling right now. My apartment has become unlivable thanks to my neighbors smoking cigarettes, weed, cigars... My upstairs neighbor is clogging the drain that we share to the larger pipe under the building. She has flooded my kitchen 3x now. I know it isn't us clogging it because I have not cooked in this kitchen in over 6 months. I can't stand it here anymore and I need to move us. but rental prices are INSANE and nobody care that I pay nearly $1,700 per month (rent, water, "amenitites", electric, internet) to live in this dump. I want to pull my hair out.
I know this suggestion will not work for everyone, so I apologize if it just won't work for you. But, have you considered sharing accommodations with a trusted friend or family member. Sometimes renting a larger place, then dividing the cost with someone else works out to be less than renting a smaller apartment for just yourself. This will only work if the person you share with is reliable, does their fair share around the apartment/home, and pays their rent/utilities on time. This is a lot to expect. But if you know someone, perhaps this would help you both get ahead.
@@rhondaakey9166 I don't know anyone like that.
@katiesinthekitchen Well, keep it open as an option. Someone might come along complaining of their rent, and they would be a perfect match to do this with.
I bulk shop, budget, meal prep, stretch leftovers into other meals or meal prep/freeze then for later. I also visit local food banks to help supplement. also shopping sales and clearance! My husband and I even donate plasma twice a week. That's an extra $240 a week on top of his wages.
Most plasma centers give new donors higher payments there first so many donations also.
Woah yall get $1000 a month for plasma? And get food from several food pantries? So you don’t have to really buy groceries except staple items? I have my grown daughter grand baby and son in law at my house with my youngest child now. And I can barely afford to feed us. It’s gotten crazy. We don’t really have any good food bank options either that I know of. I’m in Texas. What I have seen from an uncle who used to go to the local food bank is that they give a loaf of bread and beans and rice and can veggies and sometimes day old donuts. That’s it. No meat except every once in a while some kind of freezer burnt bag of nuggets. So I could use some help but those items wouldn’t really be too helpful for me. Times are hard. Oh and this is precipitated by my sorry husband just leaving. So that’s why I’m broke and struggling the most. Not a good time for him to do that to me and the family while the economy is so damn hard.
I go to the food bank drive thrus for my neighbors they are to shy and ashamed but boy they love the food and so glad to do it haven't had as much time lately but if you can do that for someone please do it
Its not all the government. Corporate greed is just as much to blame. Just look at their profits.
Unless you're born into a very wealthy family you've always going to struggle with something one way or another in life the problem right now is billionaires buying up all the land and driving the prices up I don't think the government can fix that
Billionaires from other countries.