Bride Surprises Fiancé Announcing She Wants Two Dresses & He's Paying | Say Yes To The Dress

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  • The bride brings her fiancé to her appointment and surprises him by wanting to shop for not one, but two wedding dresses, and he will be the one to pay the bill!
    From season 12 episode 13.
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  • @FlashintheBand86
    @FlashintheBand86 2 роки тому +395

    I love how her friend says he loves the dresses, but he isn't paying for it. If she wants two dresses she should pay for at least one if them. The fiancé was really put on the spot.

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +8

      And she didn’t give a toss what anyone else thought anyway. Barely even gave them a chance to comment from what was shown. Hopefully they just cut all that out 🤷‍♀️

    • @honey_lovely777
      @honey_lovely777 2 роки тому +10

      In my country we have 2 marriage events. One frome fiance, her family and their friends, and second from groom. So we have 2 wedding dresses, and girls buy dress for her side event by herself. Sorry for my English)

    • @karaaliea7577
      @karaaliea7577 2 роки тому +21

      She said "I'll pay for it"

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +4

      @@karaaliea7577 She also said he was going to pay for it & just had to put up with that 🤷‍♀️ She also said she’d pay for it once & didn’t push that at all, while she kept telling him repeatedly that he’d pay for it & then bragged about how she knew she’d get what she wanted from him.

    • @adoreivette7373
      @adoreivette7373 2 роки тому +7

      She offered to pay for it even thoughtshe went by it the wrong way

  • @vintiago
    @vintiago 2 роки тому +1759

    This young woman was so disrespectful to her husband to be in assuming she could have anything she wanted at his expense. She blindsided him on the show in front of the world to see which was in my opinion was cruel. He agreed to her demand to save himself really. I think she figured he had a long sports career and money would keep rolling in but that isn’t always the case. She should have paid for the reception dress herself since she said he was paying for the wedding dress in the beginning.

    • @a.madden
      @a.madden 2 роки тому +40

      certainly wasn't a long sports career, he barely played two seasons according to his Wikipedia and now works as a loan officer: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ricardo_Silva_(American_football)

    • @TV-el6uj
      @TV-el6uj 2 роки тому +10

      So maybe she did pay for the reception dress. Who cares?

    • @maryamalfayed223
      @maryamalfayed223 2 роки тому +14

      You are absolutely correct on this one! 😡

    • @ms.diva2u22
      @ms.diva2u22 2 роки тому +12

      That's why it's called, Not For Long.

    • @kp4911
      @kp4911 2 роки тому +52

      @@TV-el6uj Because it's about respect and how we treat people. Waylaying your future partner and manipulating him on a TV show without his knowledge is not a good sign for a successful marriage. I just read in another comment that they are now divorced. It's not surprising when one watches this interaction.

  • @handcraftingwithtraceyann3
    @handcraftingwithtraceyann3 2 роки тому +380

    SELFISH! SELFISH! clearly there's no respect or boundaries. The man said 5000, you want reception dress. Girl look, keep the first dress and save that 4600, be financially responsible.

    • @TV-el6uj
      @TV-el6uj 2 роки тому +1

      It's her wedding day.

    • @handcraftingwithtraceyann3
      @handcraftingwithtraceyann3 2 роки тому +22

      @@TV-el6uj that was never the contention... Clearly she doesn't respect his budget...and then spend his money without discussing. And the first dress she comes out in is 10k... And in front the whole world what a slap in the face #disrespectful #noexcuse #SELFISH!

    • @CreationsByRachel
      @CreationsByRachel 2 роки тому +8

      She doesn't think she has to be financially responsible she is marrying a football player that's why she acts like that

    • @CreationsByRachel
      @CreationsByRachel 2 роки тому +14

      @@TV-el6uj why do people keep saying it's her wedding day. It's their wedding day and his opinion matters if not then marry the dress not the man

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +1

      Absolutely agree with you. She didn’t even wear the 1st dress in the end. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time
      ua-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/v-deo.html
      I don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding anyway. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself, or discuss with whoever is paying in advance a budget that will accommodate two dresses so they’re not put on the spot like this poor guy! And if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.

  • @cw-s3582
    @cw-s3582 2 роки тому +230

    We start off with Bride talking about what an exemplary young man her fiance is: then totally rolls right over him. Frankly I feel great empathy for this young man. Anyone out there have any updates on this couple? I'm feeling like I already know without a crystal ball. Very sad. Groom seems like a real gentleman.

    • @emsnewssupkis6453
      @emsnewssupkis6453 2 роки тому +18

      No marriage, no crazy female. He ran.

    • @jesseb.semple6018
      @jesseb.semple6018 2 роки тому +1

      @@emsnewssupkis6453 Did he really?

    • @terrybear5398
      @terrybear5398 2 роки тому +3

      @@emsnewssupkis6453 I hope so!

    • @themishashow8811
      @themishashow8811 2 роки тому +7

      checked her FB, has cute babies now but i didn’t see any pics of the hubby

    • @themishashow8811
      @themishashow8811 2 роки тому +18

      went a lil more deep , they’re not together & she doesn’t have her children either

  • @MsAngelique
    @MsAngelique 2 роки тому +184

    How to ruin a marriage: Step 1.

    • @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
      @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja 2 роки тому +8

      Yaps. Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.

  • @leslie-annjones5321
    @leslie-annjones5321 2 роки тому +95

    He was totally shocked when she said she wanted two different dresses, totally blindsided him. She was wrong to put him a that position,I really pray that they work out and she matures

    • @almaeclu
      @almaeclu 2 роки тому +9

      According to other comments, they divorced and the groom is now married to a gal named Chelsea.

    • @zaine1384
      @zaine1384 2 роки тому +1

      @@almaeclu hallelujah

  • @katherinehalliwell
    @katherinehalliwell 2 роки тому +119

    This is just wrong on so many levels. Buying dresses past the fiancés budget is just selfish and mean. Communication is the base of a good and healthy relationship and she ruined that. The way she said she gets what she wants irritated me. She's like a spoiled child.

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому

      Lol. She IS a spoiled child! She either came from a family that brought her up to be like that or she grew up hating what they were & decided to use men to get what she wants. Really really dislike this kind of person

    • @horseman4now
      @horseman4now 2 роки тому +2

      She's not LIKE a spoiled child; she IS one.

  • @milisarkar9749
    @milisarkar9749 2 роки тому +52

    This Bride is Nothing But A Massive Headache 🙄 & her Pushing Behaviour is just Intolerable too ☹

  • @juliam.mallen3181
    @juliam.mallen3181 2 роки тому +6

    He seems so kind and down to earth.

  • @kyliepechler
    @kyliepechler 2 роки тому +195

    I feel sorry for her husband, but he caved into her demand to buy two dresses too easily.
    So it will be his fault when she starts over-spending during their marriage, because he has shown her that she can get her way when he is paying, from the very beginning.

    • @AmberTris
      @AmberTris 2 роки тому +3

      Don't feel sorry for him. He knows his limits and they are still married after 8 years.

    • @arianam6430
      @arianam6430 2 роки тому +7

      No. If she overspends in their relationship, it is HER fault. It's his responsibility to speak up if he has a problem with it

    • @CreationsByRachel
      @CreationsByRachel 2 роки тому +5

      @@AmberTris and he is not a football player like she hoped and probably miserable because she is obviously materialistic

    • @jscho8674
      @jscho8674 2 роки тому +6

      @@AmberTris Another commenter said they are not together any more, per his Instagram. I didn't look myself so, so who knows.

    • @juliannapietraskiewicz9349
      @juliannapietraskiewicz9349 2 роки тому +7

      yeah, I just looked at his Instagram and it seems he's married to someone else, with 2 kids.

  • @josephinemiller4780
    @josephinemiller4780 2 роки тому +21

    They are no longer together. I wonder why 🤔
    After his football career he taught geometry at a high school in Washington DC in 2014. He’s now a loan officer with a home mortgage company in the Baltimore, Maryland area (where he’s from) and is married to a girl named Chelsea and has 2 children with her. He and Chelsea were married in 2019. They’ve been together since at least 2015/2016 which is the year their first son was born. Chelsea, he, and his ex fiancé all 3 went to the same college in Hampton, VA.

    • @hotrod66ify
      @hotrod66ify 2 роки тому +4

      Then he wasn't married to Whitney for very long because they got married in 2014. LOL I guess we all predicted that.

  • @throughmyview8411
    @throughmyview8411 2 роки тому +29

    Trust and respect are the bases of good marriage. Both these qualities are lacking in this bride.

  • @margaretbrown5683
    @margaretbrown5683 2 роки тому +10

    I laugh at nonsense like this. Thirty one years ago I married a guy who didn’t have a dime to his name. We were both grad students. Thirty one years and 3 kids later, we are still going strong. I give this marriage two years, at most.

    • @hotrod66ify
      @hotrod66ify 2 роки тому

      They lasted a year I believe. He met his now wife a year after he married this one so...

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 роки тому

      Or one year.. who can stand her!?

  • @whomadethewordword5035
    @whomadethewordword5035 2 роки тому +7

    How disturbing is it to hear a bride say “I always get what I want”. Time to grow up and face reality.

  • @nevadag606
    @nevadag606 2 роки тому +3

    I hate the consultant “I have a conflict, so I stick to the budget or do I go over?” YOU STICK TO THE BUDGET! Wtf??? If it’s not your money, don’t try to spend it!

    • @whatevergoesforme5129
      @whatevergoesforme5129 2 роки тому

      The consultant was just like that bride.

    • @nevadag606
      @nevadag606 2 роки тому

      WHATEVER GOES FOR ME she definitely matched the energy of the bride, but when you hear the man who is paying for the dress look at you and say “5k, no question mark.” You as the consultant, should respect that, while still trying to make the bride happy. Maybeeee pulling a dress that’s 1-2k over MAYBE, not immediately putting the bride in a dress 2x the budget!

  • @butterbeansc
    @butterbeansc 2 роки тому +62

    I googled Ricardo Silva to see if he was still playing. Unfortunately he had a very short career that ended in 2013. This episode must be old. According to Wikipedia, he’s now a loan officer for a mortgage company. The way she acted, I’m sure that she expected many years of a NFL salary. I hope that she’s matured and not continues to act like a spoiled child. Good news is that they’re still married!

    • @nnekaotika5635
      @nnekaotika5635 2 роки тому +7

      Just saw she's a PhD fellow at University of Maryland as of 2021. She might be teaching there too.

    • @aries8597
      @aries8597 2 роки тому

      Yes, this episode is old 2014. I found their wedding video too. ua-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/v-deo.html

    • @whatevergoesforme5129
      @whatevergoesforme5129 2 роки тому +7

      Someone said they are no longer together if you look at the guy's IG.

    • @nnekaotika5635
      @nnekaotika5635 2 роки тому +7

      @@whatevergoesforme5129 I saw that too. The person said he's married to someone else. They had a child together but she still uses his name.

    • @tonimcdowell9396
      @tonimcdowell9396 2 роки тому +13

      They are not married anymore.. I just looked up his Instagram and he is married to a lady name Chelsea Silva and they have 2 kids together! So glad to see he is with someone else

  • @figmo397
    @figmo397 2 роки тому +4

    I'd have worn the see-through dress at the reception and the opaque satin one for the ceremony, which is supposed to be more conservative.

  • @Rebekaaah
    @Rebekaaah 2 роки тому +5

    I felt bad when he said he didn’t have a choice. Boy you do😔

  • @angiemd4785
    @angiemd4785 2 роки тому +4

    She looks so much like Rihanna bt aint nobody talking abt that lmao

  • @pennylehrer1306
    @pennylehrer1306 2 роки тому +3

    Boy, is he in for a ride! 😊 She looks like Rhianna!!

  • @s.p.5213
    @s.p.5213 2 роки тому +1

    1- While the bride should've told him, the issue isn't 2 dresses. It's do the 2 dresses add up to the $5K. She paid for the 2nd one so problem solved.
    2- We can all tell he's a "nice guy" but it's also his responsibility to create boundaries. I didn't learn that til my 30s but her acting up is because he allows and fosters it. Makes me wonder what type of environment he grew up in why he wants to appease so much. Yes, "happy wife, happy life", but something is going on there with that.
    3- Yes, these two are now divorced. Some digging stated the girl above has mental health issues, had lost custody of the kid(s), that she climbed the fence at the White House, but that she is also finishing up her PhD, if she hasn't done so already. Some manipulative vulture from New Orleans contacted him on Facebook in 2017/ 2018, they wed in 2019. She asked HIM out on a date (pathetic and thirsty), and he met her parents on their first date, which is generally/ should be a no no (She was plotting, like them Southern girls like to do). Btwn the divorce and remarriage, I'm not sure if that's enough time to heal but good luck to them. I hope he has learned healthy boundaries by then, cuz if he hasn't learned, history is bound to repeat itself.

  • @drubert1981
    @drubert1981 2 роки тому +1

    Update: I googled Ricardo Silva and he married a NOLA native in 2019 after divorcing this hot mess. Pay attention fellas when the writing is on the walls.

  • @thejuliasaro
    @thejuliasaro 2 роки тому

    she did not need the reception dress- that second dress was perfect for the entire wedding.

  • @blue2134
    @blue2134 2 роки тому +1

    He is to blame because he ALLOWS her to treat him like that

  • @dakotaromero6319
    @dakotaromero6319 2 роки тому

    His face when she walked back to the room was funny he was like “what did I just do

  • @ashwinipai1956
    @ashwinipai1956 2 роки тому +1

    If you're looking for Overpriced and horrendous dresses.. You know the designer to go for!

  • @dm5791
    @dm5791 2 роки тому +3

    Goals... Rich enough to say 3k is cheap

  • @katwdesigns
    @katwdesigns 2 роки тому +1

    I'm shocked that consultant even brought out that Pnina Tornai that was 10k. Dude, the groom said 5k?!?!!?!

  • @syedauzmaaiftekhar594
    @syedauzmaaiftekhar594 2 роки тому +3

    The pinina dres, i dont know how is that pretty?

  • @carmenmiranda8963
    @carmenmiranda8963 2 роки тому +1

    Whitney is not married to Ricardo anymore, they do a have a child together. He's now married to a Chelsea Silva and they have 2 kids together.

  • @littlehouseinthebigapple5716
    @littlehouseinthebigapple5716 2 роки тому

    She did say she’d pay for it… he shoulda been like: cool ✌🏼🤣

  • @flutterby6390
    @flutterby6390 2 роки тому

    Run boy, run.

  • @우사민-r3c
    @우사민-r3c 2 роки тому +1

    3,400 dollars is cheap? Good luck to the groom!

  • @mpo2706
    @mpo2706 2 роки тому

    She was so rude to him. "I am wearing 2 dresses get over it"? What happened to " a lot of brides have 2 dresses baby, i would like to do that to". some best friend she is. I hope they are happy together. He seems like a nice guy.

  • @erinjaynes
    @erinjaynes 2 роки тому +2

    Wow. I predict they’re gonna be married about half a sec! 😳

  • @JAZZnMOTION
    @JAZZnMOTION 2 роки тому +1

    You can have two dresses they just need to equal 5k

  • @mymelodyssaxophone7724
    @mymelodyssaxophone7724 Рік тому +1

    She looks like if Rihanna and Will Smith had a kid

  • @nenenikole
    @nenenikole 2 роки тому +8

    Lawd! She is the cutest lil spoiled thing I’ve ever seen. Prayerfully her love is mature and strong enough to make the marriage last.

    • @stephanieyee9784
      @stephanieyee9784 2 роки тому

      There is Nothing "cute" about this dreadful woman. She's vain, entitled, tacky and disrespectful.

    • @sbg22
      @sbg22 2 роки тому +1

      They aren’t together anymore

    • @nenenikole
      @nenenikole 2 роки тому

      @@sbg22 how you know Sarah?

    • @Vrushali0419
      @Vrushali0419 2 роки тому +1

      She is like hurting people with smile and laughter

  • @veronicakennedy6977
    @veronicakennedy6977 2 роки тому

    This poor guy really needs to be sure if he wants to be married to this spoiled stuck up woman before it is to late. I seen the way he looked when she left with the reception dress, I felt his embarrassment was such a surprise. Good Luck Buddy your gonna need it.

  • @sknevel17
    @sknevel17 2 роки тому +2

    I stopped watching these for a while and I couldn’t remember why.... this one reminds me why. I can’t stand how spoiled and entitled these brides are sometimes! Makes me wonder how much of these marriages ended in divorce.

    • @whatevergoesforme5129
      @whatevergoesforme5129 2 роки тому

      This one did according to some commenters here. They checked the guy's IG.

  • @subratadey8533
    @subratadey8533 2 роки тому

    I am a woman and I hate seeing girls who uses other's money to fulfil their wishes. If you want something then why not earn and save and then buy? This is a disastrous way to start a wedding.

  • @rainbowbgood
    @rainbowbgood 2 роки тому

    If there was ever a dress to say spoiled, greedy, childish, unholy.. she wins.

  • @evelynperez7470
    @evelynperez7470 2 роки тому +1

    I feel that they're gonna get divorced. The bride definitely pressured her husband to agree to 2 dresses. A marriage requires teamwork!

  • @arminenersisyan3085
    @arminenersisyan3085 2 роки тому +1

    Hope to not have that kind of daughter in law 😖that's a disaster in a family.

  • @LeAnnWatson1378
    @LeAnnWatson1378 2 роки тому +1

    I hope for his sake....they did not get married! Hoped they had a huge fight after the show and ended it. He'll be sorry if he did go ahead.

  • @kathymiller549
    @kathymiller549 2 роки тому

    WOW, that was obvious she is not going to respect the boundaries even with a dress. 2 dresses upset the guy. She didn’t care. Don’t see this couple making it

  • @middletech
    @middletech 2 роки тому

    Poor man! I give it 5 years. The best friend did it with the bride to be before. She is going to run when the money runs out.

  • @sophiamassish7816
    @sophiamassish7816 2 роки тому +1

    These type of women will suck the energy from you and will lead you into financial difficulties. They think their behaviour is cute..but it is not. He is going to get tired of her real quick

  • @cookuwithkasthuri2202
    @cookuwithkasthuri2202 2 роки тому +1

    How can a women treat her man like this....how can a man like a women like this....so sad...

  • @browneagle2393
    @browneagle2393 2 роки тому

    What a brat. This guy needs to drop this proposal. She's greedy and needy.

  • @zonadaniell4584
    @zonadaniell4584 Рік тому

    Why two dresses? Let guests soak in the beautiful bridal gown at reception ..it's a one time dress...

  • @thecommunity1102
    @thecommunity1102 2 роки тому

    Yall do realize that he knows who he's getting married to and more than likely loves that she has him by the pocketbook. Yall always baby grown ass men

  • @jukes243
    @jukes243 Рік тому

    "He's a mama's boy" (uh oh) and she's a bridezilla. Yikes!

  • @lorivannuys3167
    @lorivannuys3167 Рік тому

    This marriage is gonna be a ride! She has minimal respect for her groom, doesn’t discuss her “plans” with her fiancée, just tells him how’s it gonnna be. “It’s $3,500, that’s a purse”???? Umm that’s your hard earned money from your own job, correct??

  • @Intothemythicalworld
    @Intothemythicalworld 2 роки тому +989

    A bride should always respect the person paying. If the dream dress is over budget, then you should pay the difference.

    • @ellenmason3833
      @ellenmason3833 2 роки тому +21

      I did hear her offer to pay for the reception dress, but I doubt he made her follow through. And I think it’s total BS she could pay for it herself, but I would love see the look on her face if he held her to it 😈🤣

    • @Intothemythicalworld
      @Intothemythicalworld 2 роки тому +12

      @@ellenmason3833 wouldn’t that have been priceless😂 I was just saying that he was expecting her to respect the budget and only get one dress. Surprising him with that and having him pay for two dresses is kind of rude. Plus it didn’t seem to me like she was genuine in saying she would pay for it. It sounded a lot like she was guilting him into agreeing to two dresses. If someone is paying for the dress either respect the budget or pay the difference. I would never go over budget if my mom paid for the dress. But if the dress was slightly over, I would pay the difference no questions asked.

    • @ellenmason3833
      @ellenmason3833 2 роки тому +1

      @@Intothemythicalworld 💯

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly!

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +9

      @@Intothemythicalworld And to the surprise of pretty much no one, she didn’t even wear the 1st dress. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time
      ua-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/v-deo.html
      I personally don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding anyway. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself, or discuss with whoever is paying in advance a budget that will accommodate two dresses so they’re not put on the spot like this poor guy! And if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.

  • @theposhmaniac5169
    @theposhmaniac5169 2 роки тому +2477

    It's obvious that this is not the way to start off a marriage! She just wants to play dress-up using his wallet. I feel sorry for him.

    • @suzannesenser607
      @suzannesenser607 2 роки тому +30

      Well said!

    • @localoca1313
      @localoca1313 2 роки тому +143

      They're not even together anymore. Now he is married to a girl named Chelsea Silva (Dunn).

    • @macy6012
      @macy6012 2 роки тому +13

      @@localoca1313 dang

    • @innerlight4601
      @innerlight4601 2 роки тому +36

      She was ready to pay it herself also he didn't seem to mind so why are you all upset ??? 🙄

    • @lisahenriquez6143
      @lisahenriquez6143 2 роки тому +3

      Still married and he is a high school math teacher.

  • @Grace-sm9yf
    @Grace-sm9yf 2 роки тому +1026

    I understand that a wedding happens once in a lifetime so it has to be perfect and memorable in a good way, but the bride was wrong to make the decision of buying two dresses without telling and agreeing with her fiance. Communication is extremely important in marriage.

    • @only1Franque
      @only1Franque 2 роки тому +34

      The fact that she says that she always gets her way. You can tell she runs the relationship.. Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @sammylee5474
      @sammylee5474 2 роки тому +12

      It was giving wayyy too many red flags with her constantly saying "He's my best friend"

    • @jscho8674
      @jscho8674 2 роки тому +18

      Another commenter said they aren't together anymore, per his Instagram. Not surprising!!!

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer 2 роки тому +4

      Looking at the wedding pictures it she's in the same dress to cut the cake, so maybe she didn't get the other dress after all.

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +7

      @@L.Spencer I’m sure she got it but I bet she didn’t wear it! Not flashy enough for her. It seemed to me that she got it just to prove she could because it wasn’t actually flattering in my opinion

  • @hoponop
    @hoponop 2 роки тому +767

    Very sad to watch. This woman is so disrespectful to her husband-to-be. To so flagrantly disregard his stated budget and to revel in her belief that she "always gets what she wants" is simply awful.

    • @kristinschaffer2698
      @kristinschaffer2698 2 роки тому +2

      Gold digger

    • @HippyMiMi
      @HippyMiMi 2 роки тому +15

      Wonder how long the marriage will last too. He needs a prenup to.

    • @caseys6872
      @caseys6872 2 роки тому +7

      They get divorced and he married someone else. She didn't even wear the 2nd dress at the wedding Reception from the looks of it.

    • @HippyMiMi
      @HippyMiMi 2 роки тому +1

      @@caseys6872 they are divorced already?

    • @caseys6872
      @caseys6872 2 роки тому +10

      @@HippyMiMi yep. You can search his name on instagram and he's got a different wife and 2 kids now.

  • @shonaroan5065
    @shonaroan5065 2 роки тому +458

    no clue how people behave like this in public, its totally embarrassing....she put her fiancé in a tough spot and tried to make him feel bad...she was totally crass and she was not even aware of it....

    • @heavensqueen7143
      @heavensqueen7143 2 роки тому +18

      Oh no she was aware of it, she know she can do it because he don't have a backbone to speak up

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +15

      And she had the delusion to use the word classy in reference to herself in the dress lol. Nothing classy about that gold digger at all!

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +8

      @@heavensqueen7143 Yup. He should have just said no. But I get that it’s hard to do when you’re a semi-celeb on a TV show. Pride will make people do silly things. Shame as he seems a hell of a lot nicer than her!

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +7

      And she didn’t even wear the 1st dress in the end. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time
      ua-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/v-deo.html
      No surprise that they’re divorced too. Hope he didn’t lose everything to her!

    • @hennarusi9841
      @hennarusi9841 2 роки тому +1

      @@allisonjames2923 I've been reading your comments here and I absolutely agree with every one of them.

  • @smritichandra3372
    @smritichandra3372 2 роки тому +444

    The way she keeps on saying, "I always get my way with him ." , says a lot about the relationship dynamic they have .

    • @alexiagiannopoulos5018
      @alexiagiannopoulos5018 2 роки тому +14

      Yeah. It’s sad. She clearly doesn’t care about her fiancé.

    • @rachelmm05
      @rachelmm05 2 роки тому

      Yep no marriage can last when it's based off of manipulation and with them for what you can get from them. If he wasn't a NFL player I wonder if she would even be with him🤷‍♀️

  • @dakotaromero6319
    @dakotaromero6319 2 роки тому +311

    His face when she said “get over the fact that I’m wearing 2 different dresses. Dude I would’ve walked out right then and there and called off the wedding

    • @emsnewssupkis6453
      @emsnewssupkis6453 2 роки тому +6

      They aren't married.🤪

    • @AnniCarlsson
      @AnniCarlsson 2 роки тому

      So she not allowed to choose her own clothes and must do as her husband to be allow her to dress? She said I pay fornit myself. She is allowed to have more dresses is she want to without he must approv it

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 2 роки тому +6

      @@emsnewssupkis6453 divorced I believe

    • @terricunningham6810
      @terricunningham6810 2 роки тому

      I hear ya

    • @joannadechenne6368
      @joannadechenne6368 2 роки тому

      RIGHT?!?

  • @amandahilliard6642
    @amandahilliard6642 2 роки тому +226

    Sorry that's selfish. Weddings are expensive and pushing budgets for vanity is stupid.

    • @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
      @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja 2 роки тому +15

      True! Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.

    • @ladyjustice1474
      @ladyjustice1474 2 роки тому +4

      @@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja really? Explain that to the countries that force under age little girl's in to marriage against their will.

    • @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
      @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja 2 роки тому +4

      @@ladyjustice1474 I have volunteered to advocate for the issue in my hometown country for years, actually.

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +2

      @@ladyjustice1474 Like in the US? ”Child marriage is currently legal in 44 states (only Delaware, Minnesota, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, and Rhode Island have set the minimum age at 18 and eliminated all exceptions), and 20 U.S. states do not require any minimum age for marriage, with a parental or judicial waiver.
      Nearly 300,000 minors, under age 18, were legally married in the U.S. between 2000 and 2018, this study found. A few were as young as 10, though nearly all were age 16 or 17. Most were girls wed to adult men an average of four years older.
      Child marriage - or marriage before age 18 - is dangerous. Even at age 16 or 17, regardless of spousal age difference, child marriage:
      1. Can easily be forced marriage, since minors have limited legal rights with which to escape an unwanted marriage (typically they are not even allowed to file for divorce);
      2. Is a human rights abuse that produces devastating, lifelong repercussions for American girls, destroying their health, education, economic opportunities and quality of life; and
      3. Undermines statutory r*pe laws, often covering up what would otherwise be considered a s3x crime. Some 60,000 marriages since 2000 occurred at an age or spousal age difference that should have been considered a s3x crime. “
      From: US Child Marriage Problem Study Findings Apr 2021

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +2

      @@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja I hope that you’re making progress too. It’s such an horrendous issue that basically legalises pa3dophilia or abuse of children & should never happen in any country.

  • @ruesamz
    @ruesamz 2 роки тому +216

    I'd reconsider the whole marriage altogether.. you can't just do that. communication is key if you are in a relationship otherwise you're going nowhere!

    • @starsgoboom6
      @starsgoboom6 2 місяці тому

      They aren't together anymore

  • @ginalawson5612
    @ginalawson5612 2 роки тому +126

    Totally discounting your partner is not the way to be. There’s a difference between spoiled and selfish

  • @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
    @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja 2 роки тому +159

    Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.

    • @cindy844
      @cindy844 2 роки тому +6

      Apparently not!🤣🤣🤣

    • @almohvn33
      @almohvn33 2 роки тому

      OMG... did you not hit it on the head!!!!!!!!!!!!! And SEXUALLY!!!! LOL

    • @GodsOath_com
      @GodsOath_com 2 роки тому +1

      Um, not

    • @ladyjustice1474
      @ladyjustice1474 2 роки тому +2

      Tell that to countries where under age girls are forced into marriage.

    • @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
      @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja 2 роки тому +3

      @@ladyjustice1474 I have volunteered to advocate that in my hometown country for years, actually.

  • @ella7225
    @ella7225 2 роки тому +134

    Since she offered to pay for the reception dress, I would let her! Especially since she didn’t tell him!

    • @valerieponce3015
      @valerieponce3015 2 роки тому +20

      I really feel she just said that to manipulate him into buying it. Possibly embarrass him in front of the other people, “I have the means since you don’t” kind of thing. Really horrible tactic that his future life partner has.

    • @thehungrygoldfish
      @thehungrygoldfish 7 місяців тому

      @@valerieponce3015At least she offered. Most spoiled brats don’t even offer.

  • @gillb9733
    @gillb9733 2 роки тому +57

    Dude, marry someone who cares about you.

  • @nidhiraina1109
    @nidhiraina1109 2 роки тому +101

    Her fiance is in complete shock, if she is not adjusting with her fiance budget n emotions.hw can she adjust wd him whole life.

    • @ruesamz
      @ruesamz 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly

    • @drummerlovesbookworm9738
      @drummerlovesbookworm9738 2 роки тому +2

      It won’t last. The whole world can see it. He should rrrrruuuuuuuunnnnn.

    • @jessicamarie8299
      @jessicamarie8299 2 роки тому +1

      @@drummerlovesbookworm9738 It didn’t last they are no longer together

  • @fjp9
    @fjp9 2 роки тому +32

    1:46 that shouldn’t be a conflict. you should pull $5000 and under. if you pull dresses over a person’s budget then you are just greedy and trying to get a person to spend more. while a good sales person should consider sales, they should also consider their customers budgets and wishes.

  • @claireconway9959
    @claireconway9959 2 роки тому +49

    she is an entitled!! doesnt deserve that man/ I feel so sorry for him marrying that woman

    • @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
      @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja 2 роки тому +2

      Yaps. Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.

    • @locketpop3851
      @locketpop3851 2 роки тому

      They still together and this was in 2014 I don’t know how he puts up with her

    • @jessicamarie8299
      @jessicamarie8299 2 роки тому +1

      @@locketpop3851 They are no longer together he is now married to someone else

  • @samarahraffat9922
    @samarahraffat9922 2 роки тому +308

    Omg, the ceremony gown she chose is drop-dead gorgeous. The other one doesn't compare at all. Why does she even need it? Lol. She should have just worn that gorgeous dress for both ceremonies. In my opinion the money spent on that other dress was a waste, especially since he stated $5000 max IN THE BEGINNING!!!

    • @robinkershen1054
      @robinkershen1054 2 роки тому +14

      I was thinnking the exact same thing - the show stopper dress (last one) should've been worn from ceremony to reception - it would be a disgrace to take it off for the other gown... She needs to respect her husband and not think she can get everything she wants - be a little more grateful!!

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +15

      Bet she doesn’t even wear the reception dress in the end. Or that she buys another more flashy dress for the reception. And we must have very different taste as I wouldn’t call this dress gorgeous in a million years lol.

    • @jh115
      @jh115 2 роки тому +4

      @@allisonjames2923 Exactly my thoughts- she won't want to change but will want to milk it, after all, you only really get to use it for one day :)

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому

      @@jh115 Yup. Found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time
      ua-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/v-deo.html And I’m with you. I don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself! But if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.

    • @Quantum36911
      @Quantum36911 2 роки тому +3

      This comment exactly! Why would she want to take off that drop-dead gorgeous dress and put on another one, not quite as perfect, for her reception?? And spend way over budget for it? Makes no sense.

  • @dixiechicken2643
    @dixiechicken2643 2 роки тому +37

    "This is a real big conflict for me, should I stick to the $5,000 or under or should I pull more expensive dresses." She says this immediately after the person who has to pay for it says $5,000 max., no question mark. I'm sorry but I find this disgusting, Too money hungry for me, I'm tired of it.

    • @Guernsey576
      @Guernsey576 Рік тому

      Agreed. That would put me off ever visiting the shop.

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 2 роки тому +30

    She's too much already - Dude Run - A Football Salary is Not Long Lasting nor is his Body.... 👀😮🤨😖

  • @timak23LB
    @timak23LB 2 роки тому +40

    These Pnina dresses are awful, they made her look cheap istead of being sexy as she deserves to be 🤦‍♀️

    • @kyliepechler
      @kyliepechler 2 роки тому +8

      Totally agree.
      Sexy & see-through should be for the wedding night, not the wedding day when you are around your extended family, friends.

    • @Herrera_70
      @Herrera_70 2 роки тому +9

      That last dress was so ugly omg 🤦‍♀

    • @Ready-ForTheEnd
      @Ready-ForTheEnd 2 роки тому +4

      @@kyliepechler
      And the children of friends and family. And possibly coworkers. It's just weird.

    • @nriamond8010
      @nriamond8010 2 роки тому +5

      @@kyliepechler Yes! Sadly, see-through dresses or dresses with a VERY deep neckline are so trendy right now that it's difficult to find something else. There are lots of dresses I would not even wear to the beach, let alone in a church.

    • @jessicamarie8299
      @jessicamarie8299 2 роки тому

      She’s not sexy tho she looks cheaps.

  • @deciderof8848
    @deciderof8848 2 роки тому +209

    I love this Bride consultant: I can be anywhere price wise too… oh god She made a superb counterattack

    • @Quantum36911
      @Quantum36911 2 роки тому +17

      Yes, Christiane is bomb, New York attitude at its finest!

  • @AR-dm7ze
    @AR-dm7ze 2 роки тому +102

    Both of her dress choices are hideous AND she's delusional and disrespectful. The "reception dress" does not flatter her figure at all and the "wedding dress" is really bad with the very low see through corset.

    • @samarahraffat9922
      @samarahraffat9922 2 роки тому +1

      The reception dress was indeed hideous, with that ugly, abruptly puffy bottom. I loved the wedding dress, though ❤️

    • @Ready-ForTheEnd
      @Ready-ForTheEnd 2 роки тому +14

      I love the reception dress. She does have a lil pooch stomach but that dress was very elegant. I HATE the wedding dress she chose. She should have wore the reception dress for the wedding and the cheap classless dress for the reception if anything.

    • @frickmom
      @frickmom 2 роки тому +8

      I agree! The wedding dress is butt ugly & the reception dress is not flattering at all. Don't see much of a long marriage in her future!

    • @AR-dm7ze
      @AR-dm7ze 2 роки тому +2

      @@frickmom I was thinking the very same thing. He seemed surprised by her attitude. I hope it woke him up.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 роки тому +1

      I agree that both dresses are so ugly and overpriced. I can get 4-5 dresses for way cheaper and prettier.

  • @soso4169
    @soso4169 2 роки тому +118

    Run, boy, run! You still have time! The shock all over that poor man's face was hard to watch.

    • @sbg22
      @sbg22 2 роки тому +25

      And run he did , he isn’t with her anymore

    • @Bakergirl86
      @Bakergirl86 2 роки тому +1

      YES!!!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jinilinee
      @jinilinee 2 роки тому +1

      @@sbg22 really!!???

  • @iyanubanks100
    @iyanubanks100 2 роки тому +67

    Honestly if I was the bride, I would get a 2 in 1 dress. An attached fancy ball gown skirt for the ceremony and on the inside, a refined mermaid bottom for the reception 😵‍💫

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +2

      I bet she didn’t even wear the second dress or that she bought a far more showy 3rd dress she ended up wearing. I suspect she bought the first one just to prove she could! Hopefully I’m wrong. This chick really made me mad with her disgusting attitude.

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +5

      Yup. Just as I predicted - She didn’t even wear the 1st dress. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time
      ua-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/v-deo.html At least she didn’t seem to buy a 3rd dress too though 🤷‍♀️

    • @iyanubanks100
      @iyanubanks100 2 роки тому +1

      @@allisonjames2923 bruh. What a waste of money🤣
      (Sorry but I found this funny when I typed this)

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 роки тому

      I can get 4 different dresses for a fraction of the cost of one of these overpriced dresses. They are expensive and ugly.

  • @witchdragonfly2586
    @witchdragonfly2586 2 роки тому +84

    " 10 that's not bad right?" 😱 Put a down payment on a car or house instead. I can't stand these brides that bully everyone into going severely over budget.

  • @Waffles84
    @Waffles84 2 роки тому +28

    I would never do my guy like that. Taking advantage of him like that. Just not right. Just because he is an NFL player and has money doesn’t mean you need to spend money 💴 like that.

  • @BlackBellyDanceCandy
    @BlackBellyDanceCandy 2 роки тому +55

    Why would a consultant ask if she should go over, it's disrespectful and I see them do this all the time. I would not marry how inconsiderate and disrespectful she was....

    • @AllysonKing
      @AllysonKing 2 роки тому +1

      It’s probably for tv drama but I absolutely agree

    • @BlackBellyDanceCandy
      @BlackBellyDanceCandy 2 роки тому +1

      @@AllysonKing They do this all the time, don't ask my budget if you can't commit to it.

    • @AllysonKing
      @AllysonKing 2 роки тому

      @@BlackBellyDanceCandy I’m agreeing with you lol but I’m saying they might be telling the consultants to do that for tv drama is reality shows aren’t real

  • @gabsie7224
    @gabsie7224 2 роки тому +31

    When she said "I'll buy it" he should have said "Great!".

  • @ladyjustice1474
    @ladyjustice1474 2 роки тому +19

    The bride's behavior tells me she's out of touch with the Cost Of Living. IF Her Fiance end up with a career ending injury, she's going to "think" budget all right, all the way to the divorce lawyer. Hope the groom had her sign a prenup.

  • @sarahdee374
    @sarahdee374 2 роки тому +25

    ooh, nothing triggers me more than a spoiled, entitled bride who expects someone else to give her what she wants! This man is in for a lot of temper tantrums and manipulation.

    • @siadara8874
      @siadara8874 2 роки тому +2

      Why is he even marrying her?
      I hope this is heavily scripted

  • @nikkijones5648
    @nikkijones5648 2 роки тому +22

    MASSIVE RED FLAG when your partner doesn't appreciate your money!!!!!!

    • @jenniferbond7073
      @jenniferbond7073 2 роки тому

      Of she appreciates his money all right, spending it. But I get what you are saying.

    • @nikkijones5648
      @nikkijones5648 2 роки тому

      @@jenniferbond7073 well they are divorced now I bet you her behavior was a factor in that

  • @allisonjames2923
    @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +31

    Why do so many brides think that the guests at their wedding are desperate to see them half (or more) naked? This isn’t the worst flasher wedding dress I’ve seen by any means, but it’s just a trend I really don’t get. Wouldn’t it be more satisfying to get the gasps from appreciation of a stunning dress that looks amazing on you rather than because you’re flashing your guests?

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 2 роки тому +8

      Yeah it’s such an ugly look. Not even sexy anymore but pure trashy. I actually hate these extreme low cut dresses like at least the cut could be a bit higher and not right below the hip where it looks weird

    • @crystalheart9
      @crystalheart9 2 роки тому +3

      Seeing her showing through the dress ruined the look of the dress. I though I was the only one who thought it looked awful.

    • @xeecstasy3183
      @xeecstasy3183 2 роки тому +2

      They don’t think they think their guest are desperate to see them half naked. They have the right to wear whatever, and no one has any right to judge anyone based on how they dress. Honestly don’t think it’s really pretty and honestly if you have nothing nice to say don’t say it at all. Too much Negativity is really bad.

    • @jessicamarie8299
      @jessicamarie8299 2 роки тому

      @@xeecstasy3183 First of all we can say whatever we want!

    • @jessicamarie8299
      @jessicamarie8299 2 роки тому

      @@xeecstasy3183 stay in your lane beach!

  • @NighDarke
    @NighDarke 2 роки тому +21

    He needs to rethink this marriage. She just showed him what she's REALLY about. He needs to believe her. Once they're married it'll only get worse

  • @aec9174
    @aec9174 2 роки тому +29

    I felt so sorry for the groom - the poor guy looked like a deer in the headlights when she dropped the news that she was getting TWO dresses, and HE was paying for them!!

  • @cynthia1015
    @cynthia1015 2 роки тому +27

    If I was her husband-to-be, this would be the moment I said no to the wedding.

    • @theprousteffect9717
      @theprousteffect9717 2 роки тому

      This dynamic has been going on for years, so it doesn't seem to be bothering him that much, or he was raised to think it's his "job" as the man.

    • @jessicamarie8299
      @jessicamarie8299 2 роки тому +1

      @@theprousteffect9717 Well I just read they are no longer together he filed for divorce and remarried to a Larina.

  • @shellykevinbaumgartner7612
    @shellykevinbaumgartner7612 2 роки тому +28

    I don't understand why a person would want a reception dress as well.
    You get to wear that perfect wedding dress for one day. Why would you want to change into something else after the ceremony?

    • @Jinglesbellez
      @Jinglesbellez 2 роки тому +3

      I get like a smaller more movable dress but not a SECOND wedding dress. That pet seemed weird.

    • @ASMR4calmmoods
      @ASMR4calmmoods 2 роки тому +2

      To show off how much money of his she spent? 🫣

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 роки тому +1

      In the Asian culture, we wear 3-4 different dresses, but they are no where as expensive as this. My former friend spent only $900 on her white wedding dress, $200 for her reception dress, $150 for her Chinese dress and $500 for her Vietnamese dress. She got all of her outfits for a good price and they were all nice. You can get nice dresses for cheap.

  • @lilibetmargaret
    @lilibetmargaret 2 роки тому +21

    I feel for this young man. He needs a companion who is on his side and encouraging and supportive. He does not need a gold digger. Such a shame.

  • @deciderof8848
    @deciderof8848 2 роки тому +4

    I feel sorry for the groom, He is a very sexy black boy. I’m sure This marriage does not last more than a few years…

  • @YT4Me57
    @YT4Me57 2 роки тому +13

    On August 1, 2013, the Detroit Lions released Silva. He joined Teach for America in 2014. Ricardo and Whytnee married in 2014 and she wore her wedding dress during the reception as well. I'm thinking that the two later had a conversation about that second dress.

    • @avafisser3800
      @avafisser3800 2 роки тому +1

      They divorced and he is now married to Chelsea Dunn

    • @leilaan9344
      @leilaan9344 Рік тому

      @@avafisser3800 damn lol

  • @megc25
    @megc25 2 роки тому +11

    The way she said "I'll pay for it". Such manipulation. She knew he would say he would pay for it.

  • @fjp9
    @fjp9 2 роки тому +19

    $3400 for a dress or purse is fine if you can afford it. it might be cheap for some people, but it’s definitely not for many people. it sounds like she might be able to afford it on her own, but it also sounds like she spends his money… seems like she has some gold digger vibes but not at the same time. i hope they are actually happy together though.

    • @sbg22
      @sbg22 2 роки тому +4

      They are no longer together ! I googled it after someone commented .

  • @kellysong2256
    @kellysong2256 2 роки тому +11

    People who say, "I always get what I want" are insufferable 🤮 This bride is obviously one of those awful people who walks all over others' feelings and opinions, because she's such a special little princess. I predict that this groom will come to his senses and divorce this spoiled brat...let's hope so, anyway

  • @rantingintothevoid
    @rantingintothevoid 2 роки тому +6

    If the comments below saying that they are now divorced are true , I’m very happy for this poor man. I know it’s hard to judge someone’s character off a clip on a reality show but this is not how to begin a marriage. She feel so entitled… If she wanted two dresses, she should’ve paid for it herself. This is absolutely so pathetic and she should be ashamed of herself.

  • @samanthaparker5914
    @samanthaparker5914 2 роки тому +22

    If she’s so bothered about gettin an expensive dress, she should pay

    • @allisonjames2923
      @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому

      Especially when she didn’t even wear the first dress! ua-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/v-deo.html shows she stayed in the glam dress all the way through

  • @wmijjministryshow2321
    @wmijjministryshow2321 2 роки тому +18

    Her fiancé’s face says a lot. 🫣🫣🫣🫣

  • @TheMaxymama
    @TheMaxymama 2 роки тому +5

    The 2nd dress she chose is hideous.