Money can’t buy love and money is not everything, money is just a bonus in your life. You can be the richest person on earth but still feel lonely if you don’t have the right person to spend it with you.
Good story. Zaj neej neeg no zoo heev. Cov niag txiv neej khav khav txiv es khav nqa tej nyiaj mus muas dej cawv rau phooj ywg, kwv tij, neej tsa haus ua lam lam vab vab es poj niam tsis hais ces zoo, poj niam ces rho nrig rau poj niam ua nws hnub qub yaj daj vog. Hais rau kwv tij los kwv tij cem tias niag poj niam siab nqaim. Hais rau neej tsa los neej tsa cem tias niag ntxhais siab me. Thaum tus poj niam hloov siab lawm ces niaj hnub tuaj cem niam Ntsuab Teev tias tim nws es lawv tej neej thiaj puas tsuaj. Tab sis vim muaj tej khub niam txiv sib sib hlub li no es ntshaw ntshaw kom tus txij nkawm hlub yus li no os, lawv. Nej cov txiv khav theeb es pheej tuaj khav cem hais tias tim tus ub tus no nej tej poj niam thiaj ntse es thiaj muab nej tsij thoob khib nyiab na, mloog tej neej neeg zoo zoo no mus tsim kho nej lub neej lawn yav tom ntej mog es nej tej neej thiaj tsis puas zaum ob zaum peb nawb.
Poj niam ua dev thawj thiab 3 xyoos tom qab tsis muaj txiv, hos txiv neej ua dev thawj thiab 3 hnub tom qab tsis muaj poj niam, vim txiv neej lawv tub nkeeg ua noj ua haus ntxiv rau lwm yam, Nov tsuas yog hais rau tus phem xwb ov, nej leej twg yog tus zoo tsis raug nej li nawb es txhob tawm tsam ov.
Brother, Thank You for your story! I agree with you! We must cherish our wife and never take her for granted! Money is the biggest issue in marriage, but not all!
Marriage can be complex and most certainty a constant work in progress. It is not always easy and it’s not always fair. You and your wife dealt with hardship, challenges, and difficulties. It’s those challenges and difficulties that bring two people together and strengthen their bonds. Keep fighting for your marriage. Thank you for sharing. Wishing you, your wife, and family a lifetime of love and happiness.
If no infidelity involved in a marriage, problems can be resolved. Money can’t buy love but will add happiness to your life. If you’re choosing money over love, you’re making a big mistake that will not last a lifetime…you must balance both love and money…😩!
It’s not that money bought happiness. U actually realized to changed for eachother when a time of age through life needed to be changed. Both of u two knew how to change and let go of ppl that shouldn’t be there in your life and made memories that are worthy. Some ppl Dnt changed in time.
Lub neej nuj nqi loj , nuj nqi ntau ces yeej muaj kev sib caw sib ceg ntau heev vim tej nuj nqi ntau es nyiaj tsis duav ces kev nyiaj siab loj heev ces npau2 taws ces ib tug tsis Txawj hais los 1 tug tsis Txawj teb thiab mas lub neej nyuaj2 siab kawg os. I been there.
BRAVO!!! ONE OF THE VERY FEW GOOD HMONG MEN WHO FINALLY GREW UP AND REALIZE HIS WIFE IS IMPORTANT AS HE IS. GOOD JOB, MY BROTHER. UNLIKE MAJORITY OF HMONG MEN WHO DRINK AND PARTY THEMSELVES TO SICKNESS OR DIVORCED. YOU MADE IT. 👍
I agree with most of the things you said. Yes, when we have less stress about bills, we can focus on loving our spouse, kids, and ourselves. Less stress means you can focus more. You can be happier. Those marriages that goes far and last long is because of forgiveness only. We have to learn to forgive more often and not bring up small issues. We have to still date our spouse to keep the love alive. Focus on loving your spouse and kids first before anyone.
It’s only true to you. Money is not everything. You said you have limited your spending and stop being with Friends and care about your wife. That’s what happiness is so not money.
Cov txiv zoo li no tos poj niam pheej khiav pauv siab na. Yog ib txhia txiv neej lub neej zoo li no ces kawm nawb. Txhob tuaj hais ub hais no tias tim May nej neej thiaj puag tag. Nrog neb zoo siab thaum kawg neb kuj sib hlub lawm.
Money is not always happiness but it is the main source of issue other then infidelity in a marriage or family. Love alone can’t pay rent or buy food either.
Money can’t buy love and money is not everything, money is just a bonus in your life. You can be the richest person on earth but still feel lonely if you don’t have the right person to spend it with you.
Good story. Zaj neej neeg no zoo heev. Cov niag txiv neej khav khav txiv es khav nqa tej nyiaj mus muas dej cawv rau phooj ywg, kwv tij, neej tsa haus ua lam lam vab vab es poj niam tsis hais ces zoo, poj niam ces rho nrig rau poj niam ua nws hnub qub yaj daj vog. Hais rau kwv tij los kwv tij cem tias niag poj niam siab nqaim. Hais rau neej tsa los neej tsa cem tias niag ntxhais siab me.
Thaum tus poj niam hloov siab lawm ces niaj hnub tuaj cem niam Ntsuab Teev tias tim nws es lawv tej neej thiaj puas tsuaj. Tab sis vim muaj tej khub niam txiv sib sib hlub li no es ntshaw ntshaw kom tus txij nkawm hlub yus li no os, lawv.
Nej cov txiv khav theeb es pheej tuaj khav cem hais tias tim tus ub tus no nej tej poj niam thiaj ntse es thiaj muab nej tsij thoob khib nyiab na, mloog tej neej neeg zoo zoo no mus tsim kho nej lub neej lawn yav tom ntej mog es nej tej neej thiaj tsis puas zaum ob zaum peb nawb.
Poj niam ua dev thawj thiab 3 xyoos tom qab tsis muaj txiv, hos txiv neej ua dev thawj thiab 3 hnub tom qab tsis muaj poj niam, vim txiv neej lawv tub nkeeg ua noj ua haus ntxiv rau lwm yam, Nov tsuas yog hais rau tus phem xwb ov, nej leej twg yog tus zoo tsis raug nej li nawb es txhob tawm tsam ov.
Me n my husband are only in our 30. We don't need friends. We have each other, our kids n both side of the families.
Brother, Thank You for your story! I agree with you! We must cherish our wife and never take her for granted! Money is the biggest issue in marriage, but not all!
Hauv kuv li neej no puag yuav muaj ib hnub es zoo li tus txiv tsev no hais os 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Money doesn't mean happiness. That means there wouldn't be any rich people divorcing. Marriage is harder than running a business.
Good story! Love is a very hard lesson learned. I’m glad he learned his lesson.
Marriage can be complex and most certainty a constant work in progress. It is not always easy and it’s not always fair. You and your wife dealt with hardship, challenges, and difficulties. It’s those challenges and difficulties that bring two people together and strengthen their bonds. Keep fighting for your marriage. Thank you for sharing. Wishing you, your wife, and family a lifetime of love and happiness.
If no infidelity involved in a marriage, problems can be resolved. Money can’t buy love but will add happiness to your life. If you’re choosing money over love, you’re making a big mistake that will not last a lifetime…you must balance both love and money…😩!
Zaj neej neeg no hais tau zoo tiag tiag yog tus txiv tsev twg los coj tau li no ces lub ntiaj teb no nws yuav xis nyob heev os niam ntsuab teev
Yog li koj hais. 💯
It’s not that money bought happiness. U actually realized to changed for eachother when a time of age through life needed to be changed. Both of u two knew how to change and let go of ppl that shouldn’t be there in your life and made memories that are worthy. Some ppl Dnt changed in time.
yog xab maim no ce nyiaj sib xwb tsi yog neeg sib hlub
Lub neej nuj nqi loj , nuj nqi ntau ces yeej muaj kev sib caw sib ceg ntau heev vim tej nuj nqi ntau es nyiaj tsis duav ces kev nyiaj siab loj heev ces npau2 taws ces ib tug tsis Txawj hais los 1 tug tsis Txawj teb thiab mas lub neej nyuaj2 siab kawg os. I been there.
BRAVO!!! ONE OF THE VERY FEW GOOD HMONG MEN WHO FINALLY GREW UP AND REALIZE HIS WIFE IS IMPORTANT AS HE IS. GOOD JOB, MY BROTHER. UNLIKE MAJORITY OF HMONG MEN WHO DRINK AND PARTY THEMSELVES TO SICKNESS OR DIVORCED. YOU MADE IT. 👍
I agree with most of the things you said. Yes, when we have less stress about bills, we can focus on loving our spouse, kids, and ourselves. Less stress means you can focus more. You can be happier. Those marriages that goes far and last long is because of forgiveness only. We have to learn to forgive more often and not bring up small issues. We have to still date our spouse to keep the love alive. Focus on loving your spouse and kids first before anyone.
Money is #1
Yog tshaj plaws
Brother koj hais yog kawg👍🏻
money does not equal happiness maybe for gold diggers... my wife and i do not have much but we are happy...
Agree with you. Gold diggers are no money no honey.
Same here. My husband & I, we don’t have much but we’re happy to have each other.
Only poor people use that excuse. Money makes everyone happy.
Majority of us are all just getting by. But having a lot of money is a big help.
😊😊😅😊😊😊😊
Ib yom neeg yeej zoo li zaj dab neeg no 😢😢😢😢😢😢
money was only a small factor, this guy was doing drugs and alcohol and hanging out with his friends rather than his family.
It’s only true to you. Money is not everything. You said you have limited your spending and stop being with Friends and care about your wife. That’s what happiness is so not money.
Cov txiv zoo li no tos poj niam pheej khiav pauv siab na. Yog ib txhia txiv neej lub neej zoo li no ces kawm nawb. Txhob
tuaj hais ub hais no tias tim
May nej neej thiaj puag tag. Nrog neb zoo siab thaum kawg neb kuj sib hlub lawm.
Thank you
Good story, but I think for you brother monet is just a plus. You know how to think that's why your life is better.
Money is not always happiness but it is the main source of issue other then infidelity in a marriage or family. Love alone can’t pay rent or buy food either.
Lujneej sib thooj chaj
Txiv neeg zoo li no mas dhuav siab Tshaj plaw tsim me neeg no hais mob hlwb tshaj
May. Os. May. Çaskj. Lub. Suab hais dab neeg yuav. Mus zoo tiaggg li os yom kj lub qa. Hais lus zoo tiaggg li os yom
"Muaj nyiaj thiaj muaj kev hlub" translates to the old American saying, "No money no honey" because "Money is a girl's best friend".
Kind of boring.