Cultural and Ancestral rights of a child born out of wedlock
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- Опубліковано 11 бер 2021
- There is much confusion around who can do what between the mother and father when a child is born out of wedlock. This week's video siyabonga explains what is mandatory and what is optional. He will also explain the deeper meaning and understanding behind 'inhlawulo' and why it should be respected and honoured.
The world needs you man. The knowledge you impart is so vital and enlightenment .your intentions are so pure. Thank you
Crisp and clear, thank you!
Wooow Siyabonga 👏👏👏👏 I could listen to you the whole day... The world needs more people like you, who's intentions are to educate us and guide us. Singabantu and we need deeper understanding to our cultural meaning and uncestral rights. Thokoza.
Thokoza ,
Thank you for watching and commenting. We do all we can to educate and empower. What else would you like us to cover?
Siyabonga Mkhulu,this is enlightening,makwande,Kubemhlohle, I would like for you to speak about,when a mother was expecting then the father paid lobolo for umama, then a child is born ngesibongo sa ka Baba before ku gcagcwa and later on in the years kwacgwacgwa,inhlaulo,Imbeleko iyenzwa njani in this regard.Y0ur response would be highly appreciated, SiyaThokoza
Great work!!!
Thokoza Siya you have nail it thank you so much 💓i have lern so much from you
Umfazi uzalela umzi wakhe, intombi izalela ikhaya layo
Stumbled across your video after having a debate regarding DJ Zinhle and Bongani. I realised that world “Damages” ruins things and unfortunately these days people look at these things from a monetary side 💔 it’s not necessary about the money.
Thank you for the explanation 🙏🏾, I’m gonna use this video as my trump card when these conversations rise up 😹
Siyabonga Siyabonga
Well said kudala abantu bengayazi lonto besiphikisa
yohh man thank you for this
I would love to hear a way forward 4 my kids I don't want them to struggle on something that can be rectified
For hair cutting of a child what is the right protocol/procedures to be followed.
the error that i get it says privacy error i don't know where it's my side or your side but i really need to book
Hi Siyabonga, this video touched home. Short story short, my parents were both married when i was conceived. however when the dowry or lobola was paid, my Grandfather (maternal side) was not present during the negotiations and my Grandmother being the elder there received the lobola. So everytime i consult i am told that Lobola was not paid successfully hence why i have life problems. Please clarify how can this be fixed?
Thokoza Siya
What about those of us who have Christian parents (only lobolad), now they're divorced and don't get along. I'm struggling ngempela....
I'm in situation of urban umbangwa abanthu my ancestors from my mother's side and ancestors from my fathers side are fighting over me and my father didn't marry Mather wat do I do in such case
Hi
Does damages have to be expensive? Does it really need to meet a certain threshold in terms of money or expenses ?
I just want to know, what then happen when the father has passed away
Ok, what happens then when I'm already using my father's surname kodwa engakahlawuli?
What if I've taken the father to court for not supporting the child and decide to neglect the child am I in the wrong for doing that? Cos now we not talking
Thokoza mkhulu. I will be contacting you cos I'm struggling ngomsindo owenzwe hubaba wengane nabakubo
Thokoza, that is great to hear. Please email bookings@umsamo.org.za when you are ready.
Mkhulu Mkhize...I have a burning question I hope you navigate your way to finding it.
Placenta burying, I would like to know the significance because I really feel the urge to do it for my child?
I would like to know if i have intensions to pay lobola to my pregnant girlfriend can i go ahead with it or do i need to pay inhlawulo first? my girlfriend hasnt told her family that she is pregnant as yet and The Lobola negotiations are comming up soon.
Ancestors can see therefore you need to lobola them both
So ka sezulu when u pregnant u supposed to go to the boyfriend and present that u are pregnant,and in my case that was Neva done nor the letter wasn't send as we usually do in tshwana and now the child is 4 years and facing some issues and now we don't know what to do as the inhlaolo was Neva send,can u pls advice
If you have 3 kids and the 4th one it's another father do we have to take out inhlawulo nah
M struggling with this now ...i got a calling 😏
Please bring in English,we want to learn
So how do we go about it when the baby daddy denys the baby?
As long as you're sure it's his baby denying or not doesn't change child's identity. In any event you must give your child your surname, can only change if he pays lobola, if not your surname remains your child's surname period
What if that happened to me changed surname from a young age ,only realized now there was no marriage ,,,or inhlaulo to my mom's family,,, what do I do then,,
Mom and Dad now both passed away,,
Good question... But Where you brought up by your mother's or father's home/side?
Very profound ! My brother and I are using my dads surname yet he didn’t hlawula or lobola! What should I do now ? My ancestors are fighting over me snd my brother coz of this ! Nothing is going well for us , what are the steps to take ? My dads family won’t agree to do doing anything for us ! Please reply , thanks
Us in the same both Mina worse my stepdads.
Cc I’m going through something similar
@MOEKETSI ELDRIDGE Yoh Moeketsi 😞
@MOEKETSI ELDRIDGE It's complicated, However your maternal surname takes precedence in your life, meaning your achievements, academic, work, economic comes from maternal side
Ngyavuma futh ngyafusa balalele abantu beslisa ngoba bayasthanda isbongo soyise
Uvesane uxakeke ukuth usthandan isbongo so muntu ongakhlawulelanga ongaklobolanga. Nxa
Thokozani ekhaya labadala am trying to book online but i have an error am unable to book is the a way i can book am in jhb thank u
Thokoza, please call 010 007 52954/5 for Dr. Mkhize and email bookings@umsamo.org.za for Siyabonga Mkhize
@@UmsamoInstitute Thank you
On UA-cam active traditional healers are speaking Zulu, so rona le sala ka dipotso feela. Umsamo is it a pillow?
Lol no😂. Not a pillow.
Ka se sotho badimong baya kayi?
The place where badimo live, the spiritual realm, that place/space is called “umsamo”
what the Mkhize family have done is that they’ve expanded on the concept and got to a very advanced interpretation of it.
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Ey akekho owazi ukuthi ithengwa kanjani ingane?🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Please always use English a lot of us don't understand your language
Black people are not homogenous . This only to the Zulu culture . Assuming one believes and practices the culture . In the urban and township areas, there’s no one culture that dominates
Stop narrating in English if you want to help our people especially the Nguni, now you are eleminating a wider A wider part of our people abangafundanga.
He’s reaching many more people by speaking English, we already have too many teachers who speak vernacular
This is not only for the Nguni speaking people
Fundisani abantu nge sintu...ngo lwimi labo...