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Transpersonal States: Awakening, Enlightenment, and the Ego | Vivian Dittmar

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  • Опубліковано 17 сер 2024
  • Vivian Dittmar is an author, speaker, and wisdom teacher dedicated to enhancing holistic development for over two decades. Through her books and the Be the Change Foundation, she focuses on emotional intelligence, ecological sustainability, social justice, and spiritual fulfillment to address modern society's crises.
    What does it mean to truly transcend the ego and embrace a transpersonal state of being?
    In this episode of “Voices with Vervaeke,” John Vervaeke and Vivian Dittmar thoughtfully explore enlightenment, viewing it not as a final destination but as an ongoing journey of maturation and integration. They challenge conventional perspectives on enlightenment, proposing a more dynamic interplay between personal growth and spiritual awakening. By examining the delicate balance required to maintain higher states of consciousness while cultivating a healthy personal self, they illuminate the complexities of spiritual bypassing and the necessity of embracing imperfection. Their conversation explores the importance of aligning inner and outer worlds, the role of synchronicity, and the transformative power of confronting our own mortality. Join them as they unravel these intricate themes with intellectual rigor, poetic insight, and a commitment to deepening our understanding of what it means to lead a truly awakened life.
    Embark on a journey with us to tackle the Meaning Crisis by joining our exclusive Patreon community. / johnvervaeke
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    00:00 Introduction: Exploring Transpersonal and Transegoic States
    02:10 Navigating the Spectrum of Egoic and Transrational Consciousness
    07:20 Beyond the Social Conscience: Discovering the Voice of the Soul
    12:35 Exploring the Implicate Order and Transrational Ways of Knowing
    19:00 Redefining Spiritual Awakening and the Mythology Surrounding It
    23:25 Bridging the Gap between Inner and Outer Worlds through Wisdom and Virtue
    32:20 Cultivating a Healthy Personal Self after Enlightenment
    43:45 Beyond Spiritual Bypassing and the Pursuit of Perfection in the Journey Towards Wholeness
    57:00 Facing Mortality: A Journey Towards Wholeness and Maturity
    01:18:00 Conclusion: Reflections on Convergence, Gratitude, and the Quest for True Prosperity
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    Ideas, People, and Works Mentioned in this Episode
    The Death of Ivan Ilyich, by Leo Tolstoy
    David Bohm
    Plato
    Carl Jung
    Leo Tolstoy
    Spinoza
    Fallible Man, by Paul Ricoeur
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 88

  • @alexanderdenheijer565
    @alexanderdenheijer565 Місяць тому +13

    This was so beautiful John and Vivian. I’ve been wrestling with the idea of enlightenment as well through my work and I recognize very much how some conceptions of enlightenment can lead to spiritual bypassing. I remember being very inspired by the search for enlightenment until it started dawning on me that I was actually just longing to be free from something. I wanted to escape the dreadfulness of ordinary life. Until at some point it started dawning on me that liberation is not a freedom from ordinary life, but a freedom from the desire to escape ordinary life. As I started facing reality as on ongoing process, the idea of enlightenment started losing its appeal to me.

    • @adamhope8689
      @adamhope8689 Місяць тому +3

      💯 most seeking "enlightenment" are simply trying to escape the stuff they are unwilling or not ready want to face

    • @gunterappoldt3037
      @gunterappoldt3037 Місяць тому

      In the most cases, seems to me, this search, resp. ultimate telos/aim was/is/will be “triggered“ by religio-philosophical institutions. Its is heavily and significantly “framed“ (E. Goffman) by “communitas“ (during ritual performances on the communal level) and the “organs“ of all kinds of social institutions.

  • @roberts.4137
    @roberts.4137 Місяць тому +3

    John is an excellent host and honors and truly welcomes the guest.Not easy when one has so much to say, himself.
    Vivian is so authentic and wise.

  • @eva-mariagass204
    @eva-mariagass204 4 дні тому

    Thanks to Vivian and John for this uniquely deep and releasing coversation. IT was incredbly valuable to me. You explained with words what I long was unablässig to find Word for. Now your Dialoge helped me to understand why. What i experienced was beyond terms and came from other realms or spaces. Now i feel very "erleichtert", so much ease and love. The Moment of both of you Breitling a Pause touched me deeply. Thanks for this! Stay blessed and alive and led by love and eternity. You are both amazing. Thanks!

  • @BF-non
    @BF-non 14 днів тому

    There is something very authentic about this woman.

  • @Jacob011
    @Jacob011 Місяць тому +7

    Not happy to hear that Voices with Vervaeke will be retired. Maybe Vivian will start Voices with Vivian and John will be invited. 😅

  • @StephenEmmons-mx5yz
    @StephenEmmons-mx5yz Місяць тому +4

    I would love to see a conversation with Loch Kelly. He is a spiritual teacher in the Buddhist tradition, having studied with Tulku Urgyen Rinpoche. But his teachings are around awake awareness and nonduality, not the Buddhist tradition exclusively.
    Would also love to see you talk with Eckhart Tolle, Sam Harris, Jayasāra, Gangaji, Adyashanti, Rupert Spira, Tara Brach, Steve Taylor, Richard Lang, or James Low. Any of those would be thrilling! Just love seeing more nonduality represented on this channel, and any of the traditions that espouse it (eg Advaita Vedanta, Dzogchen, mysticism, etc.)
    Keep it up! And thank you! Namaste and God bless.

  • @headrat1
    @headrat1 Місяць тому +15

    One cannot be in the world but not of it without a basic sense of self. The ego is necessary no matter how transpersonal one's experience is. Some basic presence is needed to chop wood and carry water. Ego is a continuum between deficient emptiness and inflated narcissism. Balance between them is essential.

    • @howiewhitehouse1202
      @howiewhitehouse1202 Місяць тому +1

      nicely concisely stated

    • @knoweagle888
      @knoweagle888 Місяць тому

      Jung describes “Christ” as a symbol of the “Self”. After everything superficial has been stripped away that is what’s left. Which leads to another question! Does one deserve to be there? Have you cultivated enough embodiment to rest in that? A key difference between the Mystic and the Psychotic imo…

    • @gunterappoldt3037
      @gunterappoldt3037 Місяць тому

      Carl Gustav Jung developed the concept of “individuation“, which somehow seems to find a middle way between an “abstract, yet also holistic absolute“ and the “real realities of the manifold“. And as Jung had some fable for ancient Greece and Egypt, maybe he was inspired by the arch-symbol of the Ouroboros. - Some more stuff for further considerations on the whole vital/basic topic of the “consciousness of there-being“ (Heideggerian Selbst-Bewusstsein des Daseins auf der Lichtung des Seins). Makes sense, no sense, non-sense...? - Sokrates: “We searched for the truth. We could not find it. Let's talk again tomorrow!“

    • @gunterappoldt3037
      @gunterappoldt3037 Місяць тому

      Addendum: “seeks“ instead of “seems“, typo, sorry!

    • @knoweagle888
      @knoweagle888 Місяць тому

      @@gunterappoldt3037 Truth is an alignment…

  • @skippybe
    @skippybe Місяць тому +2

    ❤ This was a fantastic conversation and I especially loved orbiting more clearly defining what it really means to be “enlightened” and what real integration actually looks like.
    I think a lot of us intuitively know what this looks and feels like because we have so many examples of what it does not look like.
    We have a lot of work to do but conversations like these make me feel like we’re getting much closer to discovering some pretty profound truths about ourselves.

  • @brandis3309
    @brandis3309 Місяць тому +2

    John, I always enjoy hearing you give sincere & heartfelt compliments to the people you speak with. Thank you both for this convo. I feel a sense of comfort when hearing Vivian speak 😊

  • @vellytothejelly
    @vellytothejelly Місяць тому

    Lovely Vivan and awesome John,
    What I'm kind of missing here is more metaphor and giving examples for the things you touch upon. The topics can get extremely abstract and, at the end of the day, you both expressed commitment to the applicability of your work. I would love it if your next conversations could be more graspable in the way that Awakening from the Meaning crisis argument was presented in a graspable and wrapping one's head around-able way.
    Thank you! 🙏

  • @gloriaharbin1131
    @gloriaharbin1131 Місяць тому

    Your dialogues with Vivian are always the most deeply heartfelt and meaningful for me. Thank you both so very much. Sending my love and gratitude.🙏

  • @eqapo
    @eqapo Місяць тому +1

    Although we have two higher beings engaging in the abstract concepts, tears are falling as memories of spiritual evolution come up right alongside this carefully "mapped" discussion

  • @YouHaveNeverKnownMe
    @YouHaveNeverKnownMe 10 днів тому

    Beautiful conversation

  • @mills8102
    @mills8102 Місяць тому +1

    I have to say, I really admire Vivian. Her dedication to truth, beyond any kind of particular orthodoxy is truly admirable. I really enjoyed your last discussion and this one is starting off on a powerful footing. Thank you 🙏

  • @lifearttimes
    @lifearttimes Місяць тому +1

    This! Great points Vivienne. Shine On, Vivienne & John✨

  • @shivadasa
    @shivadasa 17 днів тому

    Enlightenment is a thing. It doesn’t just happen; it takes a lot of internal work and not a small amount of courage.

  • @projectmalus
    @projectmalus Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for the conversation.

  • @shamanverse
    @shamanverse Місяць тому +1

    I wonder if the work of Dr Jeffrey Martin on persistent non symbolic experience can enhance further the distinctions explored here. Please consider bringing his considerable mappings on this topic to the conversation.

  • @emilthiels6256
    @emilthiels6256 Місяць тому

    Hello, this was a very clear dialogue, and I can find myself in what have been said! To you John en Vivian I wish you a wonderful path and the energy of clarity, THANKS !

  • @sean2662
    @sean2662 Місяць тому

    28:14 I personally can't sit in the middle of my heart space with the awareness of how deep this goes for long enough to study it.

  • @jutfaseweg9082
    @jutfaseweg9082 Місяць тому +1

    I fully share the idea of the transpersonal as a state not of perfection, but a feeling of wholeness. Isn't the personal feeling bound to our epigenetics, to feel complete in the sense of joy when we can share our capacities perfectly with the world, even though we see our own limitations of things we will never have or be?
    For instance, some of us feel blessed to have good hands to be a good osteopath (as I am), without even the willingness to be in the twilight state of ‘enlightenment’.
    Isn't it all about discovering what on the soul level we are meant to be, to share your talents in the world with honor, which gives rise to bliss and a fullmeaning life. “Ikigai” (生き甲斐) or “Shokunin” (職人), the profound aesthetic and ethical commitment to one's talents.
    We are not all destined to become spiritual teachers, coaches, or 'light workers’, after one or two shakti experiences in an 40 degree heated Indian Ashram. Someone who cuts fish is also not a 'sushi master' overnight, or after a 3-month course with a chef.
    As Marcus Aurelius speaks; That which is allready there has no need of anything; not more than law (ethica), not more than truth, not more than benevolence or modesty.

    • @elsawiegers1093
      @elsawiegers1093 Місяць тому

      how strange to see this name ,"jutfaseweg", it sort of makes long-forgotten memories bubble to the surface.....

  • @anthonytroia1
    @anthonytroia1 Місяць тому

    My old friend Soryu Forall (a Zen monk) says you can tell one's enlightenment by how good a friend they are. It's as simple as that.

  • @TheCoyotemonster
    @TheCoyotemonster Місяць тому

    My biggest bugaboo is waste. I believe waste is UGLY. But just lately, I have learned to accept that...waste happens. A person cannot survive without processing their waste, created from their living. I think this is an answer to perfection.

  • @RickDelmonico
    @RickDelmonico Місяць тому

    Eternity is not lots of time, it is an ever deepening relationship with your creator.

  • @oliverjamito9902
    @oliverjamito9902 Місяць тому

    Angels who persevere and heard the WORD will say keep watch!

  • @scottjrowan
    @scottjrowan Місяць тому

    Brilliant. Thank you both so much 🙏

  • @sean2662
    @sean2662 Місяць тому +1

    17:00 I really appreciate this perspective. I wonder if the implicit order auto updates every instance to keep its adherents safe from being ground to pulp by the chaos and human arbitration of explicit order. And if it does, who or what might be doing it? Is it silly to think entropy could fuel such a thing?

  • @ClassPunkOnRumbleAndSubstack
    @ClassPunkOnRumbleAndSubstack Місяць тому +1

    I make no claim of being enlightened, but I've lost count of the mystical experiences I've had through 16 years of meditation. So since it's related to the video subject, if anyone is interested, I wrote an 11,000+ word essay on my views on meditation and mystical experiences, including talking about people I believe to be fully enlightened in a meditation sense for current humans-- primarily talking about mystical experiences that always have bliss and phosphenes which I see as likely an absolute prerequisite to full enlightenment/sahaja samadhi/full kundalini awakening-- which I describe further in the essay. That's all the algorithm will probably allow me to say.

  • @SaxonShore
    @SaxonShore 4 дні тому

    "How much ego do you need? Just enough that you don't get run over by a bus." Shunryu Suzuki

  • @colorfulbookmark
    @colorfulbookmark Місяць тому

    I respect and honor people who have cares for people who need help. People's presence of this cares are what ameliorate people who need help, because there are people who can do this^^ The architecture of psychological model is difficult thing, people who can do this is what I would like to respect and honor. Of course, independent of my support feelings, Dr.Vervaeke and his fellows and guests are great people ^^ Dr.Peterson is also great man I honor and respect.

  • @Jacob011
    @Jacob011 Місяць тому

    I've had experiences that came upon me unbidden, without long history of meditation. I don't hot dog it around and many who do are BSing others, who BS themselves too for deeper reasons.

  • @projectmalus
    @projectmalus Місяць тому

    at 13 min the two meta drives for self, a transform between hourglass and spinning top, where the horizontal projection moves in and out. A cone origin reappearing in the vertically orientated increasing size of pipe example, where the projections of the diamond (of the spinning top) horizontally are cones when a circle is drawn around the tips, and where the hourglass opens to the vertical.

  • @AngeloSomers
    @AngeloSomers Місяць тому

    This woman is the sauce 👏

  • @jgarciajr82
    @jgarciajr82 Місяць тому

    On the next conversation I wonder if you guys would be able to talk about if God is everything and how is God connected to evil or what is that relationship?

  • @markobrien4332
    @markobrien4332 Місяць тому

    "Death happens in you,
    not to you." Bernardo Kastrupp talking to Rupert Spira on Consciousness.

  • @andreaw.3081
    @andreaw.3081 4 дні тому

    Thanks for the great conversation! Unfortunately my english is not so good that I understand everything. I heard also between the sentences and beyond what Vivian mentioned in the end. A Question: the new book that you mentioned Vivian....is it already issued...or which one you mean?

  • @AhmedOfKemet
    @AhmedOfKemet Місяць тому

    I like that Vivian stays silent when she has nothing to say. Some other people just try to fill the gaps with nonsense.

  • @lianaschill6132
    @lianaschill6132 Місяць тому +1

    Lack of impulse-control is related to Sin. The inability to reflect on the impacts/consequences of impulsive actions on orher human beings causes Sin.

  • @Michlin-rp5iv
    @Michlin-rp5iv Місяць тому

    Lots of great comments will be given, one I'd like to give quickly by pointing out the sacred pattern of time, by which I mean that simply the number one clip came out 6 months ago, n.2 three months ago, and now the trilogy episode. The sacred and the appreciation of ceremony is as important as sleeping and eating.

  • @allenneher9136
    @allenneher9136 Місяць тому +1

    Epicurus, the Greek philosopher, said, "Why should I fear death? If I am, death is not. If death is, I am not. Why should I fear that which cannot exist when I do?"


  • @projectmalus
    @projectmalus Місяць тому

    Shear pin self, meant to be brittle and break properly, so when the perimeter which moves faster transmits a shock of energy back to the slower moving yet more powerful origin, the expensive and delicate unfolding mechanism next to the origin doesn't break. Not too soft and not too hard, reverse engineered three leaps as three pieces that leap together again, to be between the vertical as the horizontal, adding larger pipe outwards (UTOK model) in this vertically orientated spaces between, that self mediates and is mediated by, perimeter slowing and origin quickening.
    Could be useful in seeing anima for a masculine person as closer to the origin and powerful, with self mediating between anima and an objectified masculine perimeter (anime for the feminine expression) or the two hemispheres of the brain, etc. Trust is like a shear pin, but between people where they can take turns being rational and emotional for each other, where trust is also a bottle of wall dissolver that can be stolen while a wall is built, more of a individual in a patriarchical collective kind of way, by removing means of engagement for that individual.

  • @ElenaRoche
    @ElenaRoche Місяць тому +1

    John at 9:30. Tolstoi made it obvious from the beginning that Ivan Ilyich neither lived correctly nor well, but it only began to matter on his deathbed.

  • @RickDelmonico
    @RickDelmonico Місяць тому

    I agree with some of this and wonder at some of the ideas presented.

  • @Schtoopot
    @Schtoopot Місяць тому

    This was a good one

  • @PhilGribbon
    @PhilGribbon 4 дні тому

    1:17:39 the pause-respect post-ponderance here is truly touching. Latin sapere led to English sage; PIE *sap- to taste. Vi\;/ seems to ΞI`•_|-aura the taste of life. May IIIΞ flow along akin cx၁

  • @RickDelmonico
    @RickDelmonico Місяць тому

    Imagine if everyone you knew were perfect.
    It is our flaws that make us unique.

  • @khaderlander2429
    @khaderlander2429 Місяць тому

    01:09:34. People are sleep when they die they are awoken, meaning they come to attention, regain consciousness. So practice the art of dying before your actual death. Consider yourself of the people of the grave. There is a substantial reality behind appearances. Remove the veil so you can witness beauty. The cosmos is meaning set up in images and anyone who understands that is among the people of discernment.
    Quran 50 (Verse 22) “You were indeed heedless of this. Now We have removed from you your cover; so today your sight is piercing.”

  • @sean2662
    @sean2662 23 дні тому

    Maybe virtualizing ourselves would be the ultimate act of mistaking the map for the territory.

  • @RickDelmonico
    @RickDelmonico Місяць тому

    We put on knowledge like we put on clothing and hopefully these cloths continue to let the light in.

  • @oliverjamito9902
    @oliverjamito9902 Місяць тому

    Little ones will say, surrounding about as a little lights! Surrounding about the PARADISE! Gratitude and Honor

  • @gunterappoldt3037
    @gunterappoldt3037 Місяць тому

    Master Kong Qiu: “not knowing life, how knowing death“ - a koan by master “Konfuzius“, as presented in the “Lunyu/Talks“. -Regards

  • @oliverjamito9902
    @oliverjamito9902 Місяць тому

    Time come here in front and remind!

  • @ValentinBrutusBura
    @ValentinBrutusBura Місяць тому

    "IT IS MISUNDERSTANDING" :))

  • @hernansoto2631
    @hernansoto2631 29 днів тому

    Minute 52, "if I hear someone saying I´m enlightened, I will say: probably not" says John. I believe that's the reason why Sufists doesen´t say the are Sufi. It is against the tradition. You just embodies it.

  • @oliverjamito9902
    @oliverjamito9902 Місяць тому

    Students what is to lose touch? Mimic come here in front and remind!

  • @projectmalus
    @projectmalus Місяць тому

    Con-science, an inhuman power assuaged by a statistical knowing. Consilience thru science where objectification of self can be bounced off of, to move collectively, which is powerful and needs folding back into the world as care.

  • @oliverjamito9902
    @oliverjamito9902 Місяць тому +1

    Students remember thy shared "i" AM, came with sincere conversations given just for thee, and thy shared Feet resting upon. What is a REBELLIOUS HOUSE?

  • @Richard_Paradise
    @Richard_Paradise Місяць тому

    ❤✝️

  • @oliverjamito9902
    @oliverjamito9902 Місяць тому

    Pops FATHERS our Beautiful Mothers! If a SON OF MAN sitteth comes to thee all. Visitations unto all HIS SHARED FEET!

  • @knoweagle888
    @knoweagle888 Місяць тому

    And God decided this person who has been sitting around meditating on nothing, breathing and stretching for decades. I’m just gonna enter him for 30seconds so he can write a book.

  • @Christoth2012
    @Christoth2012 4 дні тому +1

    It sounds to me that you are re creating the Tantric position, that is a non transcendental way of looking at enlightenment, perhaps you should talk to Rupert Spira or Christopher Wallis.

  • @ejenkins4711
    @ejenkins4711 Місяць тому

    Won goes up
    One falls down
    Two goes forever
    With four leaf plant i found
    🍀🚪🦍

  • @oliverjamito9902
    @oliverjamito9902 Місяць тому

    Very tip of time will say

  • @oliverjamito9902
    @oliverjamito9902 Місяць тому

    Why needed to remind unto all fed?

  • @lianaschill6132
    @lianaschill6132 Місяць тому

    How would a “healthy personality” deal with the egotistic would-be dictators, leaders running our geopolitical world? Is it wishful thinking to believe that a human being with a “healthy personality” can navigate the difficult realities of work, mortgages, responsibilities of children & parents, illness, accidents & injuries, etc.

    • @ZL0WBEE
      @ZL0WBEE Місяць тому

      The system definitely makes things harder but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t strive for wisdom and the embodiment of it

  • @catholicpog7183
    @catholicpog7183 Місяць тому

    Second

    • @ReverendDr.Thomas
      @ReverendDr.Thomas Місяць тому

      Are you a THEIST? 🤔
      If so, what are the reasons for your BELIEF in God? 🤓

  • @oliverjamito9902
    @oliverjamito9902 Місяць тому

    Students a little new minds Sons and Daughters will say?