Hey, maybe he saw your Instagram, and he saw the videos of you flirting with other boys, and he just thought you were playing with him, or did you give him a different ig if not I think he saw your other videos that are on your ig and I have seen them too because I followed you on Instagram maybe he just felt it was all for the video because when he saw your ig he said something like (that was a good one ) like that was a good joke u just played on him because after he saw your ig he kept on laughing nervously soo that what I think I might be wrong tho❤
Thanks for the update. My sense is that you both had genuine great chemistry but because his parents don’t want him to be involved my guess is that he disappeared because the chemistry was too dangerous.
Okay so here's my opinion on the husband issue. It was sus when you asked him for his instagram and he avoided it and asked for yours instead. I personally think that he didn't want to keep in touch and he was just doing the session for fun and he didn't know how to tell you no. And towards the end when you said to talk on instagram, he seemed a bit uncomfortable. This is my honest take on it.
@@NhiVo-mk9xn yes i’ve definitely noticed that the culture in china is less direct and more beating around the bush (as opposed to germany, for example)
Yeah this is probably true. No massive red flags like some people are screaming, just a difference in culture and maybe some awkwardness is way more likely
Emi I wanna tell u I been watching ur content all the time since day one !! But I wanna tell to u but u gotta be careful with Chinese boys they really had sum problem but they like to lie all the time. And sitting up here talking and plus flirting at the same time. What I gotta say that boy trying to trick u and tells lies I mean Chinese boys really put up sum werid stuff to get away with anything when he said "that's my brother acc on IG" or "I forgot my WeChat I'd" whatever he talking about but look emi u gotta just be careful and plus block or unfollow this account u know he just faking to get you're attention or sum like trolling because he never text u back ?? Like I said just block or unfollow that person also emi I love ur channel sm and keep doing what u doing luv 🥰🙏🏽🩷 !!
yes! let's move on. he could've saved you a lot of time by saying "no, i don't want to exchange socials" instead of using his brother's but whatever 💀. you live and you learn :)
I thinnk not everyoneis overly open and friendly when it comes to giving out their socials. They get on tthese apps, they meet people, have a bit of fun talking, then skip to the next person without taking everything to seriously, or just joking around. (the format encourages people to "move on" from person to person). I think he was having fun with the situation but did not take ti seriously, just goofing around, I also think he was suprised that you asked for his socials (like people would not generally ask without an ulterior motive, and like he would not just give them out on te internet to anybody that asks)... So in the end he was not sure about the situation but did not want to say NO 😅 I don't think it was with bad intention but not everyone wants to keep in touch on the internet.
Thanks they’re all against him but I think he was just having fun like her and didn’t want more but she wanted more just because he’s handsome soo he seems too nice/shy to say no when he doesn’t want and he could have skipped without saying anything but he didn’t
As long as you don't know what really happened don't jump to conclusions. If it is meant to happen, it will happen, don't overthink. Life writes the craziest stories, move forward and trust in faith.
Red flag: I sensed good chemistry and connection; he just didn't want to become anything serious. That is why he never gave out his name, not even his first name. He avoided it altogether and also gave his brothers account which at his age he should have his own account, or he could tell you I'm not that into social media which he is if he is using this app to begin with. There also could be that he was afraid to commit to a relationship, he could also just be a flirt and like attention. Another reason perhaps is that he won't get a relationship because of school and the fact his parents said they didn't want him dating. Conclusion, it could be any number of reasons, but you are an amazingly beautiful woman, and you sound like the more mature adult in this situation you can get someone who treats you better and is better for you!
These young boys are looking a an ego boost. If they don’t compliment you back, ask you for your info but are super private about their own - RED FLAGS 🚩
I went straight to the update, kanti 💔Haibo husband 🙄njani🤦🏽♀️? So disappointed🥺 the way I was so invested, oh well. He will regret it when he bumps into you with your new man in China😇. Boy bye ✌🏽 his loss… definite red flag 🚩
I’m sorry but I could immediately tell that he was not interested because who doesn’t remember their WeChat or ig ID you could tell he didn’t want to give it to you. If he really was interested then he would have gave it to you.
More like an 🍊 flag imo. I think he was just going with the vibes and not taking it seriously. The fact that he wasn't willing to share his name nor send his social IDs first was a sign that he didn't want to leave any info behind that could be used to track him down outside of omeTV. But to play the devils advocate a bit; You're going around and flirting with other people too besides this guy, so how serious do you take OmeTV? I assume that most of it is just for content and some lighthearted fun as well. The guy did essentially the same thing to you as what you do to others, albeit not to that extend :'). His only fault was not being able to decline the offer to exchange socials and yours for missing the signs. But hey that can happen sometimes! Best to move on with positive energy Emi!
Yeah you’re totally right, i also think it’s fair to be honest. I just try to give out the best content i can for you guys ❤️ for example, you guys were asking about him a lot. so i wanted to give you guys more closure by trying to get a part 2 from him since y’all really liked him a lot.
@@smolbiskitThanks for doing it for us ❤ hehe，謝謝啊，小妹~ Yeah, I figured... This way of looking at it is the most balanced and makes the most sense. I guess our little collective fantasy can come to a close now. 😂
I don’t think any of you are in the wrong per se. If anything, he’s more of an orange flag. Neither good nor bad. You’re both young and come from different cultures. And perhaps he didn’t wanna chat after. It would’ve been better and more honourable if he just was honest and said either he couldn’t use social media or wasn’t comfortable sharing his with a stranger. Both are ok. Don’t sweat about the interaction. There’s nothing wrong with you or him. You both enjoyed a conversation (well at least you did) and it was good practice for your Chinese. And there are so many other people you’ve interacted with (and will in the future) that have similar or better chemistry who will actually be honest. You’re all good sis. Also, boys aren’t everything (although I’m sure you know that anyways) it’s easy to get caught up in that thought. Just enjoy making friends and building your speaking skills. ❤❤❤❤
His vibes were so off in this video the husband guy lol 😂. Online people can't be trusted….. He's keeping you at arm's length meaning he doesn't want to let you into his personal life.
He also gives italian vibes... they flirt like crazy and it looks like you should never take it seriously. Girl, you seem so sympathetic, I'd love to be your friend! And your language skills and rizz are great hahah😂You deserve someone who has a genuine heart, not a player(although he was good looking). Take care friend :))) Dearest greetings from a 20year old from Switzerland🌻🌼🦋
IM SO SAD FOR U GIRL, I WAS ROOTING FOR YALL. Either way, thats why its best to hold 0 expectations with people ydk irl just to protect yourself :) ull fine other baddies who know your worth but don't bother spending any more time think about this at trusttt
my darling you are so cute and inocent🥺 when you asked him a quastion he didnt answer and switched the quastion back to you... you said your name, and he said ''husband'' in the begining it was cute, but then it was.... and when you laughed he asked ''why are you laughing'' so... (and he didnt answer you in the ig!) find someone better, you desserve smoeone better!!🙏 and its not your fault, dont waste your time on him take care of yourself sweetheart, love you🥰🥰🥰
Я верю ему. Он сказал, что его родители очень строгие. Он должен учиться без отношений с девушкой, может быть. Не сердись на него, наверное есть причина. Ты умница, удачи тебе. ❤❤
I think you are correct. He's got strict parents. Maybe the reason why he was on his brother's account, he is not allowed to have his own. Move on... All is well that ends well.
2. Definitely a red flag🚩🚩. Because if the man was serious, after y'all hanged up, he could still have contacted you via wechat on his phone, IF [and that is a big IF] he had saved your socials on his ipad. So even if that was his brother's IG, he could have still connect with you via wechat, since you sent it to him as well too. Don't worry, there are more fishes in the OmeTV, you would definitely come across your green forest! 🌳🌳🌳🌳
OMG PART 2 YOU KIDDING edit : 5:20 that stare though 👀👀👀 wait i just finished the video he is not as hot anymore… girl you’re not in the wrong he is 🚩🚩
Fr! Idk why everyone is focused on the way he didn’t give his insta, while the red flag is his parents, like I get him if he said he’s focusing on his studies/work rn.. but saying “my parents” this kind of excuse means that the parents will be there always involved in his relationships
Nah foul play why ask for ig if you dont want to stay in contact. Dw girl move on, im sure you have. In his defence, this was just a very fun encounter on the internet for him, and doesnt overlap with his personal one.
And I realized you kept telling him that he was handsome hahahhha. I love how you're not afraid to say it and I love how he kept laughing each time you say it!!!
Honestly every guy on that app is a red flag!! 😭 I don't think any of the man on WeChat will commit to a serious relationship. They're all just looking for fun.
He either has a gf or hes promised to someone. He said parents wont let him date. Which literally means hes not available. When you asked his name and he said *husband" couple of times hes def hiding something. If he wanted to find you he could. You are a gorgeous gorgeous girl. I can understand him flirting with you so we were rooting for yall. Very interesting content.
He's suspicious 🤔. Remember how he put his hand over his face when u were still talking about WeChat and ig? It's like he was hiding something but couldn't or didn't want to say it. So far it's a red flag , you don't ghost a girl you wanna keep in touch with. My advice is to let all this go. You're divorced 😭. No more husband. It's safer and saves your time .
Dear, move on and no need to dwell on that one dude coz he is just trolling with your mind! I won't be shocked if the IG actually belongs to him and not his "brother" as he is stating.
Just let it go if he really had a situation he will explain it someday by trying to get in toch with you or maybe he'll never... Let's not think anything... Just let him pass like a wind... But honestly my ship just got wrecked
You can tell by his mannerisms that he was uncomfortable and not feeling it. I'd delete whoever he had you add. If he wants to reach out, he has your info, if not there's plenty of other guys out there sis. If a guy is truly interested, he'll make it known.
Honestly girl ive been using ometv for a year communicating w these forgeins like u and one thing ive noticed is that its not worth to flirt w them or try n bag bc at the end theyll treat u like ur nothing, i rlly hope ur careful w who u share ur info w ❤
I mean...you're clearly young so I won't be too harsh...but it was pretty obvious that he wasn't that into chatting off ometv with you. I don't know how you didn't see that but generally I wouldn't ask people for their social media. Let them ask you, that way you KNOW they actually want to talk to you.
Well.... he seemed serious about it when he told you that his parents don't allow him to date. And it can be a red flag, but we also shouldn't judge here... maybe he has a girlfriend. Maybe it is because of his parents. Maybe it was just a beautiful and fun conversation with a stranger for him. Maybe it is because he saw you saying "I love you" and flirting to many men (even a married one). It is already easy seen in ig and here on yt. And you started "rizzing" and flirting to him so he went into this (game?) the first time. It could just be fun and could be more serious/felt from heart....but you were just strangers. Even though you had a great chemistry and fun time. Maybe he didn't want to let it become more serious and deep. Maybe it has different reasons, but keep him in your good memory and respect. Like you said "let's not get to deep" and there is no reason to judge about what he said and did within this app - you also asked why he use it. And you also use it... not only for practicing Chinese but also for flirting in Chinese or other languages. So you don't seem to be so serious about it. Please also take care about your heart and also about the hearts of the men/persons you are talking to. 🫶💕 You are precious and so are they. And I really love your voice and how beautiful you can speak either in English, Chinese, your mother tongue and also Russian. It is a really big gift God gave you with learning languages so easy and being so smart... use it wisely and stay blessed - in everything. You seem to be a very sweet and caring person and I can imagine it's lovely, fun and a blessing to be and to spend time with you. 🫶💝 Thank you so much for sharing you experiences and also your skills with us! You really are a blessing😊🫶💕
"Hallo" to SouthAfrica 😊💕🇿🇦 thank you for answering to my comment.🫶 I wish you and also your family and beloved ones all the love and blessing God will afford you! I really like your lovely respectful and sweet way to interact with people it is so pleasant and spreading love. 🫶💕
Hehehe, I'm totally not suggesting all Mongolian guys are like this, but now that you mention it, the two I've ever spoken to (one in high school and one in college) were both very flirtatious, as well 😂
#1 !!!! OMG he's such a GREEN flag. It's "only" an issue with his parents...! He told you so. You must believe him. I might sound crazy, and I'm not sure of WHO will read this, but I'm sure with all my gut (omg I'm so invested haha) He's victim of manipulation from one (or both) of his parents... I've been there. I can spot it. He's a good guy, not a player. But under control. Under psychological influence. Omg I'm so invested 😂 but I'm so sorry for him !! And for you... In my past I ghosted sooo many guys before I left my narcissistic father.... Yep. Praying for anyone experiencing this currently...
Remember he said he is not allowed to date and his parents might have found out and he got in trouble. 😢😢 so sad. His brother might have told parents. Not going to judge when he is able I am sure he will reach out.😊
Any man that comes on that strong so quickly is a red flag. From the time he came through with the “husband”. I was like …. Meh. He’s for the moment not a long haul. And we move on lol
Very nice videos. Green light for Mr Husband. Remember he said he is not allowed to date, also he seems quite shy. I think you should flirt less with these boys, as when you are too flirty, they take you less seriously. Forget the Indonesian, he looks like a user and will break a girl's heart.
I wouldn’t trust these diffrent people on here just for safety issues and especially giving out to much info about u and they could be dangerous so just wana say stay safe and be careful of only bc that dude was so weird having his brother account and not wanting to give his snap or whatever so stay safe 💖
Don't let anyone play games with you. That's his loss. Red flags? Walk away. Better to do it now than regret it later. Too many iffy men out there to take the risk.
As a guy I personally think it’s just 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. This whole situation just doesn’t add up something is not right on his end. It’s definetly not your fault. I def think the ref flags started with the whole exchange of social media especially how adamant about him not giving his WeChat and instead IG, furthermore the fact that it was his “brother’s IG”. I applaud you for making the decision to move on. It’s his loss regardless. There are plenty more people out there.
Gurl your intuition said what she said. That's it! If your intuition said it, trying to make sense of it is just denial. Thats my rule. I'm here for the content, which all of this is. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t think it’s a matter of who’s right or wrong, just an unfortunate circumstance. Both of your sides are valid and if he didn’t want to exchange he could’ve said so. But it might have been a bit difficult cuz of how nice ur convo was going and he didn’t want to ruin the mood? Or something like that idk. If that’s the case then I understand his side a bit because im like this too. im not really good at telling people that i dont want to do something, especially if we’re having a good time. Either that or something else. Im probably completely wrong but just giving my perspective based on my experience. Better communication and honesty could have avoided this situation. It’s so sad cuz u guys were vibing so well 😭😭 oh well, there’s more fish in the sea~
Babe you 18... Follow your dreams.. youll look back on rhis like wtf.. this is from a german polish russian speaking east African. In the end i like our people more.. ❤
a red flag imo, it’s really weird for him to give his ‘brothers’ socials if he wasn’t interested in talking at all….. he should’ve said he barely uses ig or made up a diff excuse
Hello girl I’m new here! This situation has happened to me a year ago on a wedding I was invited on a Greek and Spanish wedding I met a Spanish boy and he was kinda trying to flirt with me we danced together interact talked(I also asked him if he has a gf and he said no), I saw him around Athens and it was very fun. I asked his ig and he gave me not his personal account but a profile that he uses with one of his friends I text to ask if he had fun when I show him around Athens and he never replied I waited like 3 days as well as u. I texted him again if his okey then I found out his personal account which is public and the bro had a gf and he was flirting with me at the same time idk I did not felt bad for me I didn’t care I felt dad because he’s probably cheating behind his gf back I hope she’d had found out what a jerk she’s wasting her time. So idk what’s wrong with some men they are soo immature some times and they think they feel like real men 😂. Anyways red 🚩
Why am I not surprised? 😂 I watched the first video and I was like ok, he’s cute and I didn’t want to judge him yet but because am paranoid and I generally have trust issues especially with guys, plus the fact that he’s Chinese I just didn’t fall for his flirtations. Going a full week without saying anything to you and not bothering to add you on WeChat is a massive 🚩 🚩 that guy is either in a relationship and is emotionally cheating with you on his gf or he’s truly single but just sees you as an ometv girl he messes with online.
Young sis, please be careful with these men hearts. You are a great at charming them and probably can get just about any guy. I hope you understand the depth of what you’re doing because“Husband” is really hurt. Where is this skill leading to? I must say, it is highly entertaining. But is it wise Young sister?
12:18 i meant to say "delivered" not "read" 🤦♀
Hey, maybe he saw your Instagram, and he saw the videos of you flirting with other boys, and he just thought you were playing with him, or did you give him a different ig if not I think he saw your other videos that are on your ig and I have seen them too because I followed you on Instagram maybe he just felt it was all for the video because when he saw your ig he said something like (that was a good one ) like that was a good joke u just played on him because after he saw your ig he kept on laughing nervously soo that what I think I might be wrong tho❤
Either he has a gf or he was just messing with you or he just didn't want to give you his information or all. Just move on he's not the one for you ❤
Thanks for the update. My sense is that you both had genuine great chemistry but because his parents don’t want him to be involved my guess is that he disappeared because the chemistry was too dangerous.
Don’t sweat it. Don’t hunt for him. If he cares, he’ll come to you.
Okay so here's my opinion on the husband issue. It was sus when you asked him for his instagram and he avoided it and asked for yours instead. I personally think that he didn't want to keep in touch and he was just doing the session for fun and he didn't know how to tell you no. And towards the end when you said to talk on instagram, he seemed a bit uncomfortable.
This is my honest take on it.
yes
@@NhiVo-mk9xn yes i’ve definitely noticed that the culture in china is less direct and more beating around the bush (as opposed to germany, for example)
Yeah this is probably true. No massive red flags like some people are screaming, just a difference in culture and maybe some awkwardness is way more likely
Maybe he's just trying to be polite without saying no?
@@Amelia-s8t1o pode ser isso
Your voice and way of talking is so calming🥹
Thank you so much 🥰❤️
I sense he wasn’t all that serious but whether he was or not, y’all had real chemistry in like an awkward but vulnerable and natural way
I believed him, I was thinking he was the one..
move on baby, you deserve better 💋
Emi I wanna tell u I been watching ur content all the time since day one !! But I wanna tell to u but u gotta be careful with Chinese boys they really had sum problem but they like to lie all the time. And sitting up here talking and plus flirting at the same time. What I gotta say that boy trying to trick u and tells lies I mean Chinese boys really put up sum werid stuff to get away with anything when he said "that's my brother acc on IG" or "I forgot my WeChat I'd" whatever he talking about but look emi u gotta just be careful and plus block or unfollow this account u know he just faking to get you're attention or sum like trolling because he never text u back ?? Like I said just block or unfollow that person also emi I love ur channel sm and keep doing what u doing luv 🥰🙏🏽🩷 !!
I really appreciate this input you’ve shared, and i truly appreciate your support,
Thank you so much for the donation ❤️❤️
@@smolbiskit np sweetie anytime 🫂🫶🏽💕💕
Red flag. He's a flirt. period. lol
She is also flirting
He’s a nothing flag you can’t always expect your first encounter w someone to lead to something.
Smh that’s unfortunate. His loss
Literally.
Are you dumb? They are just stranger in internet, so why should he give anything to stranger lol.
yes! let's move on. he could've saved you a lot of time by saying "no, i don't want to exchange socials" instead of using his brother's but whatever 💀. you live and you learn :)
I thinnk not everyoneis overly open and friendly when it comes to giving out their socials.
They get on tthese apps, they meet people, have a bit of fun talking, then skip to the next person without taking everything to seriously, or just joking around. (the format encourages people to "move on" from person to person).
I think he was having fun with the situation but did not take ti seriously, just goofing around, I also think he was suprised that you asked for his socials (like people would not generally ask without an ulterior motive, and like he would not just give them out on te internet to anybody that asks)... So in the end he was not sure about the situation but did not want to say NO 😅
I don't think it was with bad intention but not everyone wants to keep in touch on the internet.
Thanks they’re all against him but I think he was just having fun like her and didn’t want more but she wanted more just because he’s handsome soo he seems too nice/shy to say no when he doesn’t want and he could have skipped without saying anything but he didn’t
There is plenty of fish in the sea
NEXT!
Also I love your content ❤
Thank you! ❤️
As soon as l saw the heartbroken emoji , l was like OH - . I am so disappointed ngl. This is not what l expected to hear. 🤦🏽♀️😞
Samee😭😭
As long as you don't know what really happened don't jump to conclusions.
If it is meant to happen, it will happen, don't overthink.
Life writes the craziest stories, move forward and trust in faith.
so well put
#2! I always listen to your conversations with people and he was playing games from the start.
Red flag: I sensed good chemistry and connection; he just didn't want to become anything serious. That is why he never gave out his name, not even his first name. He avoided it altogether and also gave his brothers account which at his age he should have his own account, or he could tell you I'm not that into social media which he is if he is using this app to begin with. There also could be that he was afraid to commit to a relationship, he could also just be a flirt and like attention. Another reason perhaps is that he won't get a relationship because of school and the fact his parents said they didn't want him dating. Conclusion, it could be any number of reasons, but you are an amazingly beautiful woman, and you sound like the more mature adult in this situation you can get someone who treats you better and is better for you!
These young boys are looking a an ego boost. If they don’t compliment you back, ask you for your info but are super private about their own - RED FLAGS 🚩
I went straight to the update, kanti 💔Haibo husband 🙄njani🤦🏽♀️? So disappointed🥺 the way I was so invested, oh well. He will regret it when he bumps into you with your new man in China😇. Boy bye ✌🏽 his loss… definite red flag 🚩
Nyani sana 😭 I thought he liked her but ke
We were all invested!!!😢 WE WERE ROOTING FOR EMIIIII & "Husband"!!!
I’m sorry but I could immediately tell that he was not interested because who doesn’t remember their WeChat or ig ID you could tell he didn’t want to give it to you. If he really was interested then he would have gave it to you.
About ID I do forget my own too sometimes😂😂😂
More like an 🍊 flag imo. I think he was just going with the vibes and not taking it seriously. The fact that he wasn't willing to share his name nor send his social IDs first was a sign that he didn't want to leave any info behind that could be used to track him down outside of omeTV. But to play the devils advocate a bit; You're going around and flirting with other people too besides this guy, so how serious do you take OmeTV? I assume that most of it is just for content and some lighthearted fun as well. The guy did essentially the same thing to you as what you do to others, albeit not to that extend :'). His only fault was not being able to decline the offer to exchange socials and yours for missing the signs. But hey that can happen sometimes! Best to move on with positive energy Emi!
You are absolutely right!
You are right.
She’s having fun/ flirting and these guys are also having fun and flirting lol
Yeah you’re totally right, i also think it’s fair to be honest. I just try to give out the best content i can for you guys ❤️
for example, you guys were asking about him a lot. so i wanted to give you guys more closure by trying to get a part 2 from him since y’all really liked him a lot.
@@smolbiskitThanks for doing it for us ❤ hehe，謝謝啊，小妹~
Yeah, I figured... This way of looking at it is the most balanced and makes the most sense. I guess our little collective fantasy can come to a close now. 😂
He wrong for thatttt just move on bc you deserve better Beautiful 💗
I don’t think any of you are in the wrong per se. If anything, he’s more of an orange flag. Neither good nor bad. You’re both young and come from different cultures. And perhaps he didn’t wanna chat after. It would’ve been better and more honourable if he just was honest and said either he couldn’t use social media or wasn’t comfortable sharing his with a stranger. Both are ok.
Don’t sweat about the interaction. There’s nothing wrong with you or him. You both enjoyed a conversation (well at least you did) and it was good practice for your Chinese. And there are so many other people you’ve interacted with (and will in the future) that have similar or better chemistry who will actually be honest.
You’re all good sis. Also, boys aren’t everything (although I’m sure you know that anyways) it’s easy to get caught up in that thought. Just enjoy making friends and building your speaking skills.
❤❤❤❤
When I saw '💔' I straight up went "daaang"
Girl the way I was rooting for y'all 😩😩
His vibes were so off in this video the husband guy lol 😂. Online people can't be trusted….. He's keeping you at arm's length meaning he doesn't want to let you into his personal life.
He also gives italian vibes... they flirt like crazy and it looks like you should never take it seriously.
Girl, you seem so sympathetic, I'd love to be your friend! And your language skills and rizz are great hahah😂You deserve someone who has a genuine heart, not a player(although he was good looking). Take care friend :)))
Dearest greetings from a 20year old from Switzerland🌻🌼🦋
IM SO SAD FOR U GIRL, I WAS ROOTING FOR YALL. Either way, thats why its best to hold 0 expectations with people ydk irl just to protect yourself :) ull fine other baddies who know your worth but don't bother spending any more time think about this at trusttt
i love when their face lights up when you speak their language .. so cute 😭😭❤
Aw girly I’m so sorry. We all were rooting for you. But it seems like he’s just not worth it🤷♀️😕
my darling you are so cute and inocent🥺
when you asked him a quastion he didnt answer and switched the quastion back to you... you said your name, and he said ''husband'' in the begining it was cute, but then it was.... and when you laughed he asked ''why are you laughing'' so... (and he didnt answer you in the ig!)
find someone better, you desserve smoeone better!!🙏
and its not your fault, dont waste your time on him
take care of yourself sweetheart, love you🥰🥰🥰
Я верю ему. Он сказал, что его родители очень строгие. Он должен учиться без отношений с девушкой, может быть. Не сердись на него, наверное есть причина. Ты умница, удачи тебе. ❤❤
I think you are correct. He's got strict parents. Maybe the reason why he was on his brother's account, he is not allowed to have his own.
Move on...
All is well that ends well.
I agree. I do remember him saying that in part 1 lol. They were cute together though.
2. Definitely a red flag🚩🚩. Because if the man was serious, after y'all hanged up, he could still have contacted you via wechat on his phone, IF [and that is a big IF] he had saved your socials on his ipad. So even if that was his brother's IG, he could have still connect with you via wechat, since you sent it to him as well too. Don't worry, there are more fishes in the OmeTV, you would definitely come across your green forest! 🌳🌳🌳🌳
Darn it. I just watched the first one. And I got so excited to see a second video. 😢 there is way better out there.
OMG PART 2 YOU KIDDING
edit : 5:20 that stare though 👀👀👀
wait i just finished the video he is not as hot anymore… girl you’re not in the wrong he is 🚩🚩
Don't forget he said my parents don't allow me to have a relationship😅
Fr! Idk why everyone is focused on the way he didn’t give his insta, while the red flag is his parents, like I get him if he said he’s focusing on his studies/work rn.. but saying “my parents” this kind of excuse means that the parents will be there always involved in his relationships
Nah foul play why ask for ig if you dont want to stay in contact. Dw girl move on, im sure you have. In his defence, this was just a very fun encounter on the internet for him, and doesnt overlap with his personal one.
Better to ask, than assume. He did say his parents are not with him talking to people/ dating. But definite red flag. Dishonesty is always a red flag.
Girl, I love you. You are absolutely amazing. You deserve better.
The Russian guy is very handsome! Haha I loved that he laughed when you asked if he had a girlfriend.
And I realized you kept telling him that he was handsome hahahhha. I love how you're not afraid to say it and I love how he kept laughing each time you say it!!!
Russiand are bad news for Africans. Don't waste time. Keep the husband
Honestly every guy on that app is a red flag!! 😭 I don't think any of the man on WeChat will commit to a serious relationship. They're all just looking for fun.
He either has a gf or hes promised to someone. He said parents wont let him date. Which literally means hes not available. When you asked his name and he said *husband" couple of times hes def hiding something. If he wanted to find you he could. You are a gorgeous gorgeous girl. I can understand him flirting with you so we were rooting for yall. Very interesting content.
He's a red flag. He gave his brother account information because he has someone else on his main account ...Move on...
oh that could be the case
They have each other's instagram. Also, they are not dating, 😂
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girlll- you practically know every language it’s crazy😭
RED FLAG FRFR.... I like the way ur so chilled
Such a soothing voice 🥺
I smelt so much chemistry and potential there …..so disappointed 😂
He's suspicious 🤔. Remember how he put his hand over his face when u were still talking about WeChat and ig? It's like he was hiding something but couldn't or didn't want to say it. So far it's a red flag , you don't ghost a girl you wanna keep in touch with. My advice is to let all this go. You're divorced 😭. No more husband. It's safer and saves your time .
She's a stranger. Lol. Also, IG is technically banned in china. They gotta use VPN.
THE husband 🎉...no.2. We move!!
Dear, move on and no need to dwell on that one dude coz he is just trolling with your mind! I won't be shocked if the IG actually belongs to him and not his "brother" as he is stating.
He's too young and immature to be a fully fledged red flag. He's a soft, pink flag. Move on.
Your way if talking us so calm and smooth
I CAN SMELL THE LOVE- ITS NOT THAT FAR AWAY!!!!
That South African accent is tuff
Just let it go if he really had a situation he will explain it someday by trying to get in toch with you or maybe he'll never... Let's not think anything... Just let him pass like a wind... But honestly my ship just got wrecked
You can tell by his mannerisms that he was uncomfortable and not feeling it. I'd delete whoever he had you add. If he wants to reach out, he has your info, if not there's plenty of other guys out there sis. If a guy is truly interested, he'll make it known.
Honestly girl ive been using ometv for a year communicating w these forgeins like u and one thing ive noticed is that its not worth to flirt w them or try n bag bc at the end theyll treat u like ur nothing, i rlly hope ur careful w who u share ur info w ❤
And also if a man is quick to flirt w u he GOTTA GOO cuz what happended to being friends
Damn. His loss...
im sorry that happened to you. please speak to more russians. you’re cute
So sad that he’s a Red Flag 😢 I would have love to see you together 😮 take care of your self ❤
I mean...you're clearly young so I won't be too harsh...but it was pretty obvious that he wasn't that into chatting off ometv with you. I don't know how you didn't see that but generally I wouldn't ask people for their social media. Let them ask you, that way you KNOW they actually want to talk to you.
omgg i was waiting for a p2!!
also 2nd comment 🤭
broo i had so much hope . . #2 im so sorry 💞💞🎀
Have you considered doing ASMR? Nah bra you have an incredible voice. You won't even need to whisper 😹.
I can listen to you all day ngilale 😴❤️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
That russian smoke something for sure, he looks completely stoned. He looks like an ethnic Chechen or Daghestani i think.
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Well.... he seemed serious about it when he told you that his parents don't allow him to date. And it can be a red flag, but we also shouldn't judge here... maybe he has a girlfriend. Maybe it is because of his parents. Maybe it was just a beautiful and fun conversation with a stranger for him. Maybe it is because he saw you saying "I love you" and flirting to many men (even a married one). It is already easy seen in ig and here on yt. And you started "rizzing" and flirting to him so he went into this (game?) the first time. It could just be fun and could be more serious/felt from heart....but you were just strangers. Even though you had a great chemistry and fun time. Maybe he didn't want to let it become more serious and deep. Maybe it has different reasons, but keep him in your good memory and respect.
Like you said "let's not get to deep" and there is no reason to judge about what he said and did within this app - you also asked why he use it. And you also use it... not only for practicing Chinese but also for flirting in Chinese or other languages.
So you don't seem to be so serious about it. Please also take care about your heart and also about the hearts of the men/persons you are talking to. 🫶💕 You are precious and so are they. And I really love your voice and how beautiful you can speak either in English, Chinese, your mother tongue and also Russian. It is a really big gift God gave you with learning languages so easy and being so smart... use it wisely and stay blessed - in everything. You seem to be a very sweet and caring person and I can imagine it's lovely, fun and a blessing to be and to spend time with you. 🫶💝
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Hehehe, I'm totally not suggesting all Mongolian guys are like this, but now that you mention it, the two I've ever spoken to (one in high school and one in college) were both very flirtatious, as well 😂
omg really!? 😭 that’s interestingg
Bro was literally practicing his rizzing skills 😮 15:19
either he for the streets or he got zero game. the chinese are very reserved when interating with outsiders keep that in mind sis.
#1 !!!! OMG he's such a GREEN flag. It's "only" an issue with his parents...! He told you so. You must believe him. I might sound crazy, and I'm not sure of WHO will read this, but I'm sure with all my gut (omg I'm so invested haha) He's victim of manipulation from one (or both) of his parents... I've been there. I can spot it. He's a good guy, not a player. But under control. Under psychological influence.
Omg I'm so invested 😂 but I'm so sorry for him !! And for you... In my past I ghosted sooo many guys before I left my narcissistic father.... Yep. Praying for anyone experiencing this currently...
He ghosted you because he took it as a one time thing no seriousness there move on girl nothing is there sadly I wish you the best 🙏🏽😭😭.
thanks for part 2 that i now wish never existed..😔
9:40 tbf i would’ve thought the same thing, why would he give you someone else’s instagram? 😭
Remember he said he is not allowed to date and his parents might have found out and he got in trouble. 😢😢 so sad. His brother might have told parents. Not going to judge when he is able I am sure he will reach out.😊
Any man that comes on that strong so quickly is a red flag. From the time he came through with the “husband”. I was like …. Meh. He’s for the moment not a long haul.
And we move on lol
OMG... damn this is so heartbreaking
Very nice videos. Green light for Mr Husband. Remember he said he is not allowed to date, also he seems quite shy. I think you should flirt less with these boys, as when you are too flirty, they take you less seriously. Forget the Indonesian, he looks like a user and will break a girl's heart.
Yeah when he asked how old were you and if you were a senior in highschool, then replied perfect....i did look at him differently
Girl don't come across so thirsty. He probably was just having fun. Pump your brakes girl. You may be coming on a little too strong.
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I wouldn’t trust these diffrent people on here just for safety issues and especially giving out to much info about u and they could be dangerous so just wana say stay safe and be careful of only bc that dude was so weird having his brother account and not wanting to give his snap or whatever so stay safe 💖
yess part 2!!
nvm...red flags all around on his part
Red flag. He’s hard work already. Don’t worry about it.
Don't let anyone play games with you. That's his loss. Red flags? Walk away. Better to do it now than regret it later. Too many iffy men out there to take the risk.
not me shipping them hard eiiii🤣🤣
As a guy I personally think it’s just 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. This whole situation just doesn’t add up something is not right on his end. It’s definetly not your fault. I def think the ref flags started with the whole exchange of social media especially how adamant about him not giving his WeChat and instead IG, furthermore the fact that it was his “brother’s IG”. I applaud you for making the decision to move on. It’s his loss regardless. There are plenty more people out there.
REM, he sad he was sad . He said his parents control his life right now. Magnetic, they have taken his privileges away. That is a cultural thing.
Gurl your intuition said what she said. That's it! If your intuition said it, trying to make sense of it is just denial. Thats my rule. I'm here for the content, which all of this is. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t think it’s a matter of who’s right or wrong, just an unfortunate circumstance. Both of your sides are valid and if he didn’t want to exchange he could’ve said so. But it might have been a bit difficult cuz of how nice ur convo was going and he didn’t want to ruin the mood? Or something like that idk. If that’s the case then I understand his side a bit because im like this too. im not really good at telling people that i dont want to do something, especially if we’re having a good time. Either that or something else. Im probably completely wrong but just giving my perspective based on my experience. Better communication and honesty could have avoided this situation. It’s so sad cuz u guys were vibing so well 😭😭 oh well, there’s more fish in the sea~
Wow, what a letdown 😓
Babe you 18... Follow your dreams.. youll look back on rhis like wtf.. this is from a german polish russian speaking east African. In the end i like our people more.. ❤
a red flag imo, it’s really weird for him to give his ‘brothers’ socials if he wasn’t interested in talking at all….. he should’ve said he barely uses ig or made up a diff excuse
Can you pleaseeeeee I’m literally begging you to make a video about how you are learning these languages step by step please
I’ll make a video on that soon, so stay tuned :)
@ thank you soooooo much!!! Step by step and maybe you can teach as well. I would DEFINITELY pay you to teach me
@@smolbiskit yes I need that I'm trying to learn another language other than the two I already know
Hello girl I’m new here! This situation has happened to me a year ago on a wedding I was invited on a Greek and Spanish wedding I met a Spanish boy and he was kinda trying to flirt with me we danced together interact talked(I also asked him if he has a gf and he said no), I saw him around Athens and it was very fun. I asked his ig and he gave me not his personal account but a profile that he uses with one of his friends I text to ask if he had fun when I show him around Athens and he never replied I waited like 3 days as well as u. I texted him again if his okey then I found out his personal account which is public and the bro had a gf and he was flirting with me at the same time idk I did not felt bad for me I didn’t care I felt dad because he’s probably cheating behind his gf back I hope she’d had found out what a jerk she’s wasting her time. So idk what’s wrong with some men they are soo immature some times and they think they feel like real men 😂. Anyways red 🚩
Leave him alone he's immature
It's painfully common for men to switch up on women. Better he did it now than later. Please, don't take it personally.
red flag, he is showing signs that he wasn't all that interested. forget him!
2. Moving on
Why am I not surprised? 😂 I watched the first video and I was like ok, he’s cute and I didn’t want to judge him yet but because am paranoid and I generally have trust issues especially with guys, plus the fact that he’s Chinese I just didn’t fall for his flirtations. Going a full week without saying anything to you and not bothering to add you on WeChat is a massive 🚩 🚩 that guy is either in a relationship and is emotionally cheating with you on his gf or he’s truly single but just sees you as an ometv girl he messes with online.
Young sis, please be careful with these men hearts. You are a great at charming them and probably can get just about any guy.
I hope you understand the depth of what you’re doing because“Husband” is really hurt. Where is this skill leading to? I must say, it is highly entertaining. But is it wise Young sister?