As a retired Ob/Gyn clinician I always told my patients this. What y'all do is your business. Everyone will always talk and ask questions. Focus on you all and don't worry or let what others says bother or affect you. When it happens it will. Continue to be awesome and inspiring others. 🙂
The more the outcry from earth to heaven, the more jubilation, excitement sending best wishes for the future the more likely the good and pleasant things will happen Cole and Charisma need not to be anxious and not at all. We are the one waiting quietly biting on our nails to sing 🎶 the victorious song 🎵 when the moment comes. We are like children waiting for Santa to knock on our door on Christmas Eve 😁
@@bridgetsuttles9908 didn’t want to say it but I agree this was my goal for the first round and for the second round one will be just fine. A total of 6 little feet 🦶 running all over the place ❤️👏🏽 jumping on Mom and Dad’s bed early in the morning to get some attention
@@coleandcharisma not sure if you have been reading my comments from a while ago. You and Cole have been in my prayers as a Catholic tomorrow is The Day December 8-12 to beg for favors from Our Lady of Guadeloupe. Oh yes 👍🏽 you and Cole gonna hear your ears ringing because your name will be mentioned for you to catch a couple of birdies with one single stone. Watch for a full moon 🌕 and a nice glass of Chardonnay along with the nicest slice of European cake 🍰.
Oh man, I had to pause the video...this hit close to home and I got all the feels because it felt like it was yesterday. My condolences for your loss and my heart goes out to you. I know it's a bummer being told what to do or receiving advice when not asked...but one thing my husband and I learned is to take care of our mental health during the process. We're proud of your strength, resilience and bravery. Wishing you both all the best!
THIS is the best advice we could receive right now! We have been really focusing on our mental health. I meditate and journal almost every morning and it’s been super helpful for me. - Charisma
Don't worry, Charisma. I had my first child at 30, my second at 34, my third at 36, and my fourth at 43! And now I have a 2 year old grandson as well. You don't need to feel rushed.
We will be praying that in God's timing, all things happen as they should. PLEASE don't feel obligated to share more than you feel comfortable sharing, YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!!🙂
Guys it’s the hardest thing when you want to conceive and people really don’t understand how upsetting it is to be asked when it’s not happening for you. I’m 49 and it never happened I had miscarriage’s but I took them really badly. I’m at peace with it now and very happy. I wish you all the best for the future 💞
I am so sorry you had to experience that. It must have been extra hard dealing with other people's reponses too. Glad you were able to find some peace. God Bless you.
Don’t listen to anyone telling you that it’s too late to have a baby. I just had my first baby at 38 and I’m planning on having another soon. I wish you guys the best! ❤️
I would never pressure anyone about this topic, I have had several people in my life who had trouble becoming pregnant, and the family members were not supportive, and even rude about it.One couple ended up having 5 miscarriages in seven years, eventually adopted two children. How ever you form a family is what is right for you. You do what is best for you in your situation This not something that others are supposed to be involved with, except those you choose to tell. I was at a wedding and an older woman asked the bride,when the baby shower was going to be, the bride who was in her early twenties, said that it was to early for them, they were paying off student loans. The rude woman said some pretty nasty things about this and upset the bride to tears ,she spent her wedding reception in the ladies room. So I wish people would leave personal topics alone ,unless you are very close to someone, who wants advice on the subject, don't ask so when's the baby coming? Or another one is when are you gonna get a better job. I am sure that if they want us to know something they will tell us, topics like this are very personal and can be difficult and hurtful, if someone is trying and it's not happening for some reason.
I had that same thing happen to me and I was dealing with a bad case of endometriosis! It never happened for me even with surgeries and hormones! People were so cruel 😪!
Beverly Dust: Also, it's none of anybody's business! I hate fans pressuring famous people (influence/content creator) to have a baby or asking questions!
@@sharonharris7245 Eu tinha ovários policísticos, endometriose, miomas e cistos por dentro e fora do útero... Tive uma ferida pequena no colo do útero, que se não tratasse poderia virar câncer no colo do útero, tratei no início e deu tudo certo. Mas vários médicos, falaram que nunca teria filhos. Com muita esperança e fé, consegui ter meus lindos presentes, quando nem esperava mais. Engravidei sem tratamentos e naturalmente aos mais de 40 anos do primeiro filho, e com mais de 43 anos do segundo filho. Meus presentes lindos e especiais pra mim, o mais novo é autista, um anjinho especial na minha vida. Quando queremos muito, de alguma forma conseguimos...Deus ouve ...
BLESSING and Prayers 🙌💕. It's a huge blessing they found Your polyp 🙏, there's always a good in a bad situation and in the decades to come it Could Save Your Life. I'm Sorry For Your Loss but That Child Will Be Back Growing In Charismas Tummy, timing just wasn't right appatently, God Knows. I can feel that You Two 💕 will have A GORGROUS Baby Girl💗, It Feels Right!!!! Gorgeous like Her Mommy or His Mommy... and Handsome Daddy. Many Blessings Ahead Of You Both Including Your Babies and Amazing Family 💕🙌. Sending Love and Hugs From Western Upstate New York.... Your Tree Is Beautiful 🌲 Enjoy The Holiday Seasons
I am 53 years old and I have been following you for about a year now. And funny I was not sick then till September of 2021 was hit by COVID. And had lots of complications that led me to be wheel chair bound till now. But watching you guys has such a blessing. I love how you love each other. It gives a lot of courage and strength. Love you guy and praying for you.
Good luck with the process! You don't need pressure or questions from anyone. I totally think keeping this to yourself until you want to share is the way to go.
I feel for ppl who desperately want children, who would make great supportive parents but struggle to conceive. Keeping my fingers crossed your able to conceive a much wanted child. We don’t deserve your story but I’m happy to hear all about it and cheer y’all on. Sending baby dust y’all way!! ❤
Y’all are *so* young - please, take your time! Children are a blessing, but also change your life completely. Continue having fun times together as a couple: pursue your ambitions, travel, sleep late …. Just keep laughing and loving each other. As Charisma said early in the video, folks have babies much later these days - there’s plenty of time. Love y’all.
I am so excited for the both of you! My daughter chose to go with IVF after losing 3 babies. She also decide to only share her pregnancy with only a few people until after the first trimester, because of the emotional tole it took on them. She now has two beautiful baby girls and just found out she has another one on the way. This new one is a do it yourselfer! I was shocked, because I had a dream about 2 weeks previous that she was pregnant and she was going to have a boy! After you have your precious little one, the biggest problem you will face is Grandparents wanting to buy everything in sight for their beautiful Grandbaby! I tell my daughter, I waited a long time and I worked very hard to get my Grandbabies, so let me spoil them! You would think I delivered them myself! I was a nervous wreak the whole pregnancy. LOL!
Praying for a blessing this year ! We tried for 8 years after our first child. When God finally blessed use with our 2nt child. We are praying for blessings over you!
I see a beautiful healthy baby and two beautiful emotional parents on the blessed day! We’re going to be happy with whichever one you two have because that’s how we roll here! 🫂🙏💜❤️
Thank you to you both for your graciousness in responding to your fans in such a way. I'm not fond of the fans who insist on voicing their comments regarding babies, which is, as you've revealed, an intimate and stressful aspect of your lives. The journey to parenthood is multifaceted for whomever takes it on, and it's becoming more known that the road to pregnancy is not a slam dunk! That being said, I pray for you all to have an enjoyable experience on this journey, however it comes about, and Thank you for sharing with us, while keeping the joy intact along the way. Blessings to you both and your families.
I don’t know why I’ve always seen you two having a baby boy first!💙 This is exciting! Thank you SO much for allowing us insight on your beautiful journey. Everything happens for a reason and in it’s due time.
You to go for it.I had my last child at 43.It went very smoothly.And a life changing experience that is priceless.Nobody has the right to say anything other than,we are so happy for you and congratulations!
I am excited for your guys. We went through this 18 years ago and it will happen. The waiting game sux but when the ball gets rolling it is nonstop. I started at 27 and said no more after 35 and ended up having my surprise blessing at 36 LOL. Three kids later I can say enjoy each other, because it will get busy quick :) Many blessings of health and peace heading your way in 2023.
The same thing happened to a couple I knew from church in the past. They waited 10 years to get pregnant after nany petitions the 1st baby was born, a year later the second, a year after the 3rd, and the fourth and the fifth and the sixth. They decided to do contraception the natural way 3 years later the 7th and the last one a very pretty little girl with deep blue eyes and dark hair. Careful what you asked God for cause when it rains it pours 😁
You are YOUNG! I had my first and only baby at 40. No problems and he was such a gift! He is such an awesome person and I cannot imagine life without him!
As a mom of 4 kids I learned that when you take the regimental structure out of things and just let a natural flow happen then pregnancy can occur rather easy. When you try to overly plan and force things it adds stress, not a healthy baby making environment ☺. I'm glad u guys got tested and I pray when the timing is right you all will be blessed with a beautiful and healthy baby☺☺
Cole & Charisma sorry for your loss but good to know it is possible to conceive God timing is perfect you will be awesome parents. Such love ❤️ to give to a child. Ps don't pay attention to pressure. Relax enjoy your jounery.
I agree. Try to relax and take the stress out of it. It took my younger sister four years after her marriage to become pregnant, largely because her husband was in the military and he had to spend many months on several occasions away from my sister on overseas deployment. They eventually had two healthy children without any problems.
As a person as who has struggled with fertility for the last 10 years this is THE LEAST HELPFUL MOST HURTFUL advice I have ever heard repeatedly. My organs are not working. This is like telling someone with heart condition to just "relax" it will fix itself. No it won't. My organs still aren't working. Relaxing does not make my ovaries release my eggs
Thank you for sharing ❤. Infertility is so under talked about. My husband and I went through the same. After 3 years of trying we adopted. 12 years later it’s sad infertility is still a taboo subject
Gosh, you guys, I'm so sorry that it's been emotionally tough. Thank you for being vulnerable and for sharing your story, which of course is totally up to you how much you choose to share! I love your guys' positivity and can totally picture you with a baby girl. I will be praying for your family!! ♥
Trying to get pregnant and not having it happen is enough pressure without adding the public to it. Just keep to yourself what you want to do, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. I'm sorry for your loss and wish you both all the best 🙏🏻💓🙏🏻
There is thousands of couples on this platform but this two are special and super strong super heroes. May God bless them greatly with whatever they wish. I feel they contributed immensely to UA-cam 🏆❤️🙏God will bless them with a baby at the right time.
Congrats and yes keep what you want and need to yourselves. The questions have to be hard I'm sorry some people forget that is sometimes a pain line of questioning.
Questioning someone's PERSONAL lives and choices is NEVER appropriate. It is especially rude when questions are directed to complete strangers. People all need to "mind their own business". I wrote my family's experience, if you want to read it.
Thank you for being so open about this! I'm 33 and constantly being asked when I'm going to have a baby 🙄 it's exhausting because people don't know my fertility struggles so it's hurtful. I pray for your strength and sending you baby dust! The horizontal tango is the fun part lol 💚
I never ask woman about having a baby people don't understand it's hard especially if you have PCOS or anything that messes with you having a baby. I'm sorry for dumb ass people hugs and prayers
My sister had two miscarriages, one being a biochemical loss and now my niece is three years old and thriving. It is so so common. It will happen for you! Prayers for you and so much love your way. I love you two!
I see a baby Charisma. The reason why is because her family genetics seems so strong. Either way, this baby will be blessed 💯 percent to have you both as parents.
I hope y'all addressing this helps people consider not making comments like that. There are far more reasons to NOT ask those things, even with the best intention and purest curiosity. Love y'all
I pray that all the plans and procedures align and 2023 will be your year. You put it right Charisma, it WILL happen at the right time. The triplets are coming ! 🍼🍼🍼I'm with Cole in this 💗 💗 💓 God bless you both xx
I too, have had a chemical pregnancy and couldn’t pass the baby on my own & man oh man I couldn’t agree more with “there was a lot of tears”. Here’s hoping you guys have a baby when “the time is right” good luck on your journey loves❤️
I literally just had a myomectomy last month to remove a small polyp. My Dr said that it's location, in my uterine lining, could prevent a pregnancy. If you do need a procedure for that, I can confirm it's not that bad. Best of luck with all your trying!
I had a myomectomy in May to help with conceiving a baby. It wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. People constantly asking when I’m gonna have a baby with me knowing that I had something preventing me from conceiving was so difficult. Hence I would never ask a couple this question. I pray that things will work out in you and Cole’s favor. And maybe we can all be in the 2023 baby club. Blessings.
Try not to stress over this has to be the, this has to be the time, and so on. Plan and try to make sure you leave y'all some space to breathe. I have followed y'all off and on and I just love seeing y'all's videos. Such an inspiration ✨️
You two are such an inspiration and give hope to others, even those who may be suffering with other diseases. And I can't help but always smiling through your whole videos. Your smiles are contagious..
Guys, it's nobody's business at all but thank you for sharing. I rarely ask people about their baby plans because it is such a sensitive and emotional issue. So much pressure. Don't feel obliged to share no matter the probing questions. Do you and share when you're ready. Took me 20 months to get pregnant with my second child; it happened after I gave up trying! So, relax and try to enjoy the process. God bless!
I feel honored that you've chosen to share with us 🙏🏽. I pray your baby brings even more joy into your hearts, might be in the minority but I see a boy or twins 🥰🥰
Oh, the first half of the video, I had tears of joy for you all. Then you all explained what happen. I’m so sorry that you experienced that. Have faith it will happen in Gods time. You all are going to make awesome parents and the baby is going to be beautiful. Good luck on your journey to get pregnant, stay safe, and God Bless the both of you and your future children. Love you guys. Much respect and love.
Every time you guys make a video, it is cuteness overload. Boy, girl, twins, triplets, they will be so blessed to have you guys as their parents. I agree with 2023 being your year to have a baby. I wish you and Cole the best of luck.
Good Luck ColeNCharisma👏💕I believe you both will bring this special little one in 2023 🙏🙏you both get yall miracle little 😇. Thank both for sharing yall story.
When the most high is ready to bless y'all, you will have all the babies he know you are able to take care of, when it happens enjoy your blessings guys
Viewers need to chill on their baby comments/questions. It will happen when it's meant to happen and they will share when they want to share. This video is so vulnerable. I appreciate all you both share with us. Stay warm in this chilly LA weather. Sending my love and support 💝
Yay I’m so excited for you guys! I pray that your present this year for Christmas is a pregnancy! You both are going to be fantastic parents. God Bless
Thank y'all for being so open and honest. Not everyone's road to pregnancy is smooth or "typical." More couples struggle than we realize because it's not talked about much. (I got surprised with severe endometriosis!) I'm sorry for your loss...such a hard thing. But that baby will come! And I say...GIRL! #GirlPower ✊🏻❤️
I was 28 when pregnant the first time and 36 the second time - with twins. Take your time, enjoy being a couple and babies can come when you are ready.
Take it as it happens. U'll rejoice the same. People should let up on the questions. It's a very personal issue. Putting too much pressure on u guys may b making it less enjoyable too.
As a retired Ob/Gyn clinician I always told my patients this. What y'all do is your business. Everyone will always talk and ask questions. Focus on you all and don't worry or let what others says bother or affect you. When it happens it will. Continue to be awesome and inspiring others. 🙂
Well said, and thank you!!
Amen
The more the outcry from earth to heaven, the more jubilation, excitement sending best wishes for the future the more likely the good and pleasant things will happen Cole and Charisma need not to be anxious and not at all. We are the one waiting quietly biting on our nails to sing 🎶 the victorious song 🎵 when the moment comes. We are like children waiting for Santa to knock on our door on Christmas Eve 😁
Has she seen obgyn for confirmation?
well said.
Lets normalize not asking people when they are going to have children!
New subscriber- praying for y’all ❤️
Guy huh huh huh0 kip up😊😅
Congratulations in advance guys! We're speaking this baby into existence 🙏💙💜
Oh yea I’m 💯 percent on board with this comment 😂 ❤️ 🙏
AMEN!!!!!
🙏 Amen
ONLY GOD can DO That.
Twins
God is in Control of everything. He brought you two together for a reason and the blessing of God is coming
Cole and Charisma make my day. Can’t wait to see the little one : boy or girl it don’t matter. We will be waiting ❤😊
I'm team twins. Boy and girl
@@bridgetsuttles9908 didn’t want to say it but I agree this was my goal for the first round and for the second round one will be just fine. A total of 6 little feet 🦶 running all over the place ❤️👏🏽 jumping on Mom and Dad’s bed early in the morning to get some attention
Y’all are too much!! 😂❤️
I am team triplets❤💓🥰
@@coleandcharisma not sure if you have been reading my comments from a while ago. You and Cole have been in my prayers as a Catholic tomorrow is The Day December 8-12 to beg for favors from Our Lady of Guadeloupe. Oh yes 👍🏽 you and Cole gonna hear your ears ringing because your name will be mentioned for you to catch a couple of birdies with one single stone. Watch for a full moon 🌕 and a nice glass of Chardonnay along with the nicest slice of European cake 🍰.
I will Pray for God to Bless y’all with twins soon ❣️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Oh man, I had to pause the video...this hit close to home and I got all the feels because it felt like it was yesterday. My condolences for your loss and my heart goes out to you. I know it's a bummer being told what to do or receiving advice when not asked...but one thing my husband and I learned is to take care of our mental health during the process. We're proud of your strength, resilience and bravery. Wishing you both all the best!
THIS is the best advice we could receive right now! We have been really focusing on our mental health. I meditate and journal almost every morning and it’s been super helpful for me. - Charisma
@@coleandcharisma I love watching you guys on your UA-cam channel
@@coleandcharisma wish u well 💕🇳🇬
Don't worry, Charisma. I had my first child at 30, my second at 34, my third at 36, and my fourth at 43! And now I have a 2 year old grandson as well. You don't need to feel rushed.
We will be praying that in God's timing, all things happen as they should. PLEASE don't feel obligated to share more than you feel comfortable sharing, YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!!🙂
I just love you people.lots of love from kenya.
Thanks for sharing what is none of our biz! 😂
Guys it’s the hardest thing when you want to conceive and people really don’t understand how upsetting it is to be asked when it’s not happening for you. I’m 49 and it never happened I had miscarriage’s but I took them really badly. I’m at peace with it now and very happy. I wish you all the best for the future 💞
@@LyslScentedLife that’s a hurtful thing to say to someone when they wanted to become a parent
Hugs
@@parler8698 you’re the one
I am so sorry you had to experience that. It must have been extra hard dealing with other people's reponses too. Glad you were able to find some peace. God Bless you.
@@LyslScentedLife Are you crazy ???
I see a healthy baby, I don’t see any particular gender, just two happy parents with a beautiful baby❤
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Just pray and God will do the rest 🙏🏽❤️
Don’t listen to anyone telling you that it’s too late to have a baby. I just had my first baby at 38 and I’m planning on having another soon. I wish you guys the best! ❤️
I know someone who had her 1st at 30 and 3rd at 40...
I agree! Had my first baby at 34 (easy pregnancy, no issues, easy delivery, healthy baby). Planning on my second now at 39.
Agreed. Trying for a second one and I'm 35. I am healthy. My tests came out fine.
Congratulations on your first baby.
I agree, my mom made me when she was 43 years. Now I'm 25 years
I had my son at 35... there are 14 years in between him and my daughter so yes you do have time... so good luck yall
I would never pressure anyone about this topic, I have had several people in my life who had trouble becoming pregnant, and the family members were not supportive, and even rude about it.One couple ended up having 5 miscarriages in seven years, eventually adopted two children. How ever you form a family is what is right for you. You do what is best for you in your situation This not something that others are supposed to be involved with, except those you choose to tell. I was at a wedding and an older woman asked the bride,when the baby shower was going to be, the bride who was in her early twenties, said that it was to early for them, they were paying off student loans. The rude woman said some pretty nasty things about this and upset the bride to tears ,she spent her wedding reception in the ladies room. So I wish people would leave personal topics alone ,unless you are very close to someone, who wants advice on the subject, don't ask so when's the baby coming? Or another one is when are you gonna get a better job. I am sure that if they want us to know something they will tell us, topics like this are very personal and can be difficult and hurtful, if someone is trying and it's not happening for some reason.
I had that same thing happen to me and I was dealing with a bad case of endometriosis! It never happened for me even with surgeries and hormones! People were so cruel 😪!
Beverly Dust: Also, it's none of anybody's business! I hate fans pressuring famous people (influence/content creator) to have a baby or asking questions!
@@sharonharris7245 Eu tinha ovários policísticos, endometriose, miomas e cistos por dentro e fora do útero...
Tive uma ferida pequena no colo do útero, que se não tratasse poderia virar câncer no colo do útero, tratei no início e deu tudo certo.
Mas vários médicos, falaram que nunca teria filhos.
Com muita esperança e fé, consegui ter meus lindos presentes, quando nem esperava mais.
Engravidei sem tratamentos e naturalmente aos mais de 40 anos do primeiro filho, e com mais de 43 anos do segundo filho.
Meus presentes lindos e especiais pra mim, o mais novo é autista, um anjinho especial na minha vida.
Quando queremos muito, de alguma forma conseguimos...Deus ouve ...
@@amorcompartilhado601 I'm sorry, I can't translate and I don't speak Spanish! Is there anything you can do to help? I'd love to hear from you!
You sound like a good and çaring person with the right outlook on life !
BLESSING and Prayers 🙌💕. It's a huge blessing they found Your polyp 🙏, there's always a good in a bad situation and in the decades to come it Could Save Your Life. I'm Sorry For Your Loss but That Child Will Be Back Growing In Charismas Tummy, timing just wasn't right appatently, God Knows. I can feel that You Two 💕 will have A GORGROUS Baby Girl💗, It Feels Right!!!! Gorgeous like Her Mommy or His Mommy... and Handsome Daddy. Many Blessings Ahead Of You Both Including Your Babies and Amazing Family 💕🙌. Sending Love and Hugs From Western Upstate New York.... Your Tree Is Beautiful 🌲 Enjoy The Holiday Seasons
You both bring so much joy to my week every week with this content! All my love and support from Scotland xx
I am 53 years old and I have been following you for about a year now. And funny I was not sick then till September of 2021 was hit by COVID. And had lots of complications that led me to be wheel chair bound till now. But watching you guys has such a blessing. I love how you love each other. It gives a lot of courage and strength. Love you guy and praying for you.
You are still young. I was 33 when my son was born and my sister had her son at 43. So enjoy each other. ❤️
Hello, I hope you're safe over there and I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love to you as well, can I know where you're from?
I never ask anyone that’s one of the things I was taught. It’s personal. I wish you all much success!
It's shocking some of the things people ask. I was raised as you not to ask questions like that
Good luck with the process! You don't need pressure or questions from anyone. I totally think keeping this to yourself until you want to share is the way to go.
I feel for ppl who desperately want children, who would make great supportive parents but struggle to conceive. Keeping my fingers crossed your able to conceive a much wanted child. We don’t deserve your story but I’m happy to hear all about it and cheer y’all on. Sending baby dust y’all way!! ❤
Thank you 🤍🤍
Wishing y’all much success in your pregnancy endeavors. Prayers are on their way 🙏🏽 😊
Y’all are *so* young - please, take your time! Children are a blessing, but also change your life completely. Continue having fun times together as a couple: pursue your ambitions, travel, sleep late …. Just keep laughing and loving each other. As Charisma said early in the video, folks have babies much later these days - there’s plenty of time. Love y’all.
I am so excited for the both of you! My daughter chose to go with IVF after losing 3 babies. She also decide to only share her pregnancy with only a few people until after the first trimester, because of the emotional tole it took on them. She now has two beautiful baby girls and just found out she has another one on the way. This new one is a do it yourselfer! I was shocked, because I had a dream about 2 weeks previous that she was pregnant and she was going to have a boy! After you have your precious little one, the biggest problem you will face is Grandparents wanting to buy everything in sight for their beautiful Grandbaby! I tell my daughter, I waited a long time and I worked very hard to get my Grandbabies, so let me spoil them! You would think I delivered them myself! I was a nervous wreak the whole pregnancy. LOL!
Aaaaw so sweet congrats to your daughter n family yeah right thats gonna be me one day when I'm a grandma will spoil them rotten
I see two great parents who will be loving and caring. I look forward to your bundle of joy
Praying for a blessing this year ! We tried for 8 years after our first child. When God finally blessed use with our 2nt child. We are praying for blessings over you!
Whenever it happens, I know this will be a beautiful baby and the baby will be so blessed to have you as parents❤
I see a beautiful healthy baby and two beautiful emotional parents on the blessed day! We’re going to be happy with whichever one you two have because that’s how we roll here! 🫂🙏💜❤️
I am in agreement with Miss Natha! Be Blessed C&C!
Best wishes with God everything is in control 🤗🌾🔥🤰👪👌
I see Cole& Chairsma wonderful parents who will love and take good care of there of babies.
A healthy baby with amazing parents that will love him or her unconditionally- good luck and lots of positive thoughts coming your Way 💕
I’m happy for you, it will happen soon, you guys will be great parents 🙏🏾 that things work out for you in 2023
🙏🏾It will happen for you all…Stay encouraged!
Praying that everything goes well with you and hope you have twins.
Thank you to you both for your graciousness in responding to your fans in such a way. I'm not fond of the fans who insist on voicing their comments regarding babies, which is, as you've revealed, an intimate and stressful aspect of your lives. The journey to parenthood is multifaceted for whomever takes it on, and it's becoming more known that the road to pregnancy is not a slam dunk! That being said, I pray for you all to have an enjoyable experience on this journey, however it comes about, and Thank you for sharing with us, while keeping the joy intact along the way. Blessings to you both and your families.
Sending lots of love to you both on your journey! That’s gonna be one beautiful baby! ❤️
Keeping my fingers crossed and praying for good news for you in 2023
I don’t know why I’ve always seen you two having a baby boy first!💙 This is exciting! Thank you SO much for allowing us insight on your beautiful journey. Everything happens for a reason and in it’s due time.
me too!
You to go for it.I had my last child at 43.It went very smoothly.And a life changing experience that is priceless.Nobody has the right to say anything other than,we are so happy for you and congratulations!
It will happen when it happens and we will all be here for it guys! ❤❤ so excited for you both!!
I love the way you guys love and treat each other
I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm in awe of y'all sharing that. Y'all are so vulnerable and open with us about your lives. Thank you for being you!
I am excited for your guys. We went through this 18 years ago and it will happen. The waiting game sux but when the ball gets rolling it is nonstop. I started at 27 and said no more after 35 and ended up having my surprise blessing at 36 LOL. Three kids later I can say enjoy each other, because it will get busy quick :) Many blessings of health and peace heading your way in 2023.
The same thing happened to a couple I knew from church in the past. They waited 10 years to get pregnant after nany petitions the 1st baby was born, a year later the second, a year after the 3rd, and the fourth and the fifth and the sixth. They decided to do contraception the natural way 3 years later the 7th and the last one a very pretty little girl with deep blue eyes and dark hair. Careful what you asked God for cause when it rains it pours 😁
Our time is not God's time...be patient it will happen! Love you guys❤️
God allowed the murder of toddlers in that school. Shooting. God has bad timing
This is SO SO SO True! Have been struggling with this personally myself.
Waiting on God's timing is so real...just relax guys...when you least expect...keep praying and thanking God in advance..
Probably. But maybe it won't, and if so you will cross that bridge when you come to it and find a way through.
Great that you're sharing! A lot of people don't know this. God bless you two.
You are YOUNG! I had my first and only baby at 40. No problems and he was such a gift! He is such an awesome person and I cannot imagine life without him!
May God give you triplets, you two are too sweet you deserve everything and more.
Namanya! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
As a mom of 4 kids I learned that when you take the regimental structure out of things and just let a natural flow happen then pregnancy can occur rather easy. When you try to overly plan and force things it adds stress, not a healthy baby making environment ☺. I'm glad u guys got tested and I pray when the timing is right you all will be blessed with a beautiful and healthy baby☺☺
Mom of 4 here too and couldn't agree more!
Cole & Charisma sorry for your loss but good to know it is possible to conceive God timing is perfect you will be awesome parents. Such love ❤️ to give to a child. Ps don't pay attention to pressure. Relax enjoy your jounery.
I agree. Try to relax and take the stress out of it. It took my younger sister four years after her marriage to become pregnant, largely because her husband was in the military and he had to spend many months on several occasions away from my sister on overseas deployment. They eventually had two healthy children without any problems.
As a person as who has struggled with fertility for the last 10 years this is THE LEAST HELPFUL MOST HURTFUL advice I have ever heard repeatedly. My organs are not working. This is like telling someone with heart condition to just "relax" it will fix itself. No it won't. My organs still aren't working. Relaxing does not make my ovaries release my eggs
Yup. Mom of 6 and two years of temping and timing with no success. Gave you and bam! Had 3 back to back 😂. Then had 3 more
You still have time for a baby! Sending baby dust your ways!! Happy 2023!!
Many blessings and positive thought for the two of you!
congratulations on your bundle of joy in 2023 Blessings
Thank you for sharing ❤. Infertility is so under talked about. My husband and I went through the same. After 3 years of trying we adopted. 12 years later it’s sad infertility is still a taboo subject
That is going to be one beautiful baby. You are both going to be amazing parents.
Gosh, you guys, I'm so sorry that it's been emotionally tough. Thank you for being vulnerable and for sharing your story, which of course is totally up to you how much you choose to share! I love your guys' positivity and can totally picture you with a baby girl. I will be praying for your family!! ♥
YAY!!! I'm soooooooo ready to be the UA-cam Auntie!!!!
Trying to get pregnant and not having it happen is enough pressure without adding the public to it. Just keep to yourself what you want to do, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. I'm sorry for your loss and wish you both all the best 🙏🏻💓🙏🏻
Thank you 🤍🤍
There is thousands of couples on this platform but this two are special and super strong super heroes. May God bless them greatly with whatever they wish. I feel they contributed immensely to UA-cam 🏆❤️🙏God will bless them with a baby at the right time.
You will be blessed soon, God will be there for you on this new journey. "Girl"
You are going to be amazing parents !!
You are teaching us a true love.May God we trust be with you guys.
Praying for you guys
Congrats and yes keep what you want and need to yourselves. The questions have to be hard I'm sorry some people forget that is sometimes a pain line of questioning.
Questioning someone's PERSONAL lives and choices is NEVER appropriate. It is especially rude when questions are directed to complete strangers. People all need to "mind their own business". I wrote my family's experience, if you want to read it.
I see a beautiful healthy baby with two loving parents. I’m praying for you guys ❤
Thank you for being so open about this! I'm 33 and constantly being asked when I'm going to have a baby 🙄 it's exhausting because people don't know my fertility struggles so it's hurtful. I pray for your strength and sending you baby dust! The horizontal tango is the fun part lol 💚
I never ask woman about having a baby people don't understand it's hard especially if you have PCOS or anything that messes with you having a baby. I'm sorry for dumb ass people hugs and prayers
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Praying for a bouncing, healthy baby for you guys... 😍
Wishing you the best. Share what you want because everything is not everyone’s business. Continue to enjoy your life together.
My sister had two miscarriages, one being a biochemical loss and now my niece is three years old and thriving. It is so so common. It will happen for you! Prayers for you and so much love your way. I love you two!
Don't forget to have fun!!! Good luck
I see a baby Charisma. The reason why is because her family genetics seems so strong. Either way, this baby will be blessed 💯 percent to have you both as parents.
A girl was my thought as well! Sending positive vibes your way! 🙏🏾❤🙂
I hope y'all addressing this helps people consider not making comments like that. There are far more reasons to NOT ask those things, even with the best intention and purest curiosity. Love y'all
I pray that all the plans and procedures align and 2023 will be your year. You put it right Charisma, it WILL happen at the right time. The triplets are coming ! 🍼🍼🍼I'm with Cole in this 💗 💗 💓
God bless you both xx
I too, have had a chemical pregnancy and couldn’t pass the baby on my own & man oh man I couldn’t agree more with “there was a lot of tears”. Here’s hoping you guys have a baby when “the time is right” good luck on your journey loves❤️
Hold on and keep the faith. It’s going to happen. Praying for you and your blessing is ❤on the way.
I literally just had a myomectomy last month to remove a small polyp. My Dr said that it's location, in my uterine lining, could prevent a pregnancy. If you do need a procedure for that, I can confirm it's not that bad. Best of luck with all your trying!
Omg thank you for sharing! So happy to hear it wasn’t bad. I was so nervous! Haha
I had a myomectomy in May to help with conceiving a baby. It wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. People constantly asking when I’m gonna have a baby with me knowing that I had something preventing me from conceiving was so difficult. Hence I would never ask a couple this question. I pray that things will work out in you and Cole’s favor. And maybe we can all be in the 2023 baby club. Blessings.
I apologies for all of us but I know we are so vested in being aunts, uncles, grandma's and grandpa's...we will try and contain our enthusiasm...
I'm 38 with 2 kids and never heard of a polyp till this video and reading through comments 🤷♀️
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You’ll have a family when YOU are ready!!!!, not rushing from anyone!! Please live your life!!!🙏🏼♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏾
Try not to stress over this has to be the, this has to be the time, and so on. Plan and try to make sure you leave y'all some space to breathe. I have followed y'all off and on and I just love seeing y'all's videos. Such an inspiration ✨️
You two are such an inspiration and give hope to others, even those who may be suffering with other diseases. And I can't help but always smiling through your whole videos. Your smiles are contagious..
Awww guys. So many of us care so much and are rooting for you. We genuinely do care. We're going to be over the MOON when that wonderful time comes.
Good luck guys
Thank you for sharing y'all journey to parenthood.
I see a little cute and chunky Cole 💙
Guys, it's nobody's business at all but thank you for sharing. I rarely ask people about their baby plans because it is such a sensitive and emotional issue. So much pressure. Don't feel obliged to share no matter the probing questions. Do you and share when you're ready. Took me 20 months to get pregnant with my second child; it happened after I gave up trying! So, relax and try to enjoy the process. God bless!
You guys are going to be AMAZING parents. Can't wait to see your journey! 🤞🏼🙏🏽
I feel honored that you've chosen to share with us 🙏🏽. I pray your baby brings even more joy into your hearts, might be in the minority but I see a boy or twins 🥰🥰
God bless you two. I picture the sweetest child or children. I see a blessing no matter
Oh, the first half of the video, I had tears of joy for you all. Then you all explained what happen. I’m so sorry that you experienced that. Have faith it will happen in Gods time. You all are going to make awesome parents and the baby is going to be beautiful. Good luck on your journey to get pregnant, stay safe, and God Bless the both of you and your future children. Love you guys. Much respect and love.
Wow congratulations I'm happy for you guys much love from Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬
Every time you guys make a video, it is cuteness overload. Boy, girl, twins, triplets, they will be so blessed to have you guys as their parents. I agree with 2023 being your year to have a baby. I wish you and Cole the best of luck.
Praying for u 2 love you both.
Good Luck ColeNCharisma👏💕I believe you both will bring this special little one in 2023 🙏🙏you both get yall miracle little 😇. Thank both for sharing yall story.
I had a miscarriage and God bless my husband and I to have a healthy baby boy…Stay encouraged! It will happen!🥰
When the most high is ready to bless y'all, you will have all the babies he know you are able to take care of, when it happens enjoy your blessings guys
Viewers need to chill on their baby comments/questions. It will happen when it's meant to happen and they will share when they want to share. This video is so vulnerable. I appreciate all you both share with us. Stay warm in this chilly LA weather. Sending my love and support 💝
Absolutely agree ❤
Love is so,sweet and I'm happy for you guys can't wait for the arrival of your bundle of joy 2023 God will do it for you
Well, I'm happy you guys are getting started now!! Keep God in your prayers..
Everything is going to be great 👍
Thank you God for this blessed family 👪🤰❤♥️💚💜💛🧡🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m rooting for you guys!!! 🥰🤘☀️
I’m with you guys in the stress and emotional rollercoaster it does take you time to heal.
Yay I’m so excited for you guys! I pray that your present this year for Christmas is a pregnancy! You both are going to be fantastic parents. God Bless
Your attitude of being content in any and every situation is beautiful. I pray a single happy and healthy pregnancy!
Thank y'all for being so open and honest. Not everyone's road to pregnancy is smooth or "typical." More couples struggle than we realize because it's not talked about much. (I got surprised with severe endometriosis!) I'm sorry for your loss...such a hard thing. But that baby will come! And I say...GIRL! #GirlPower ✊🏻❤️
Thank you for sharing this with us
I was 28 when pregnant the first time and 36 the second time - with twins. Take your time, enjoy being a couple and babies can come when you are ready.
20 with my daughter and 35 with my son... I am done now for sure lol
Take it as it happens. U'll rejoice the same. People should let up on the questions. It's a very personal issue. Putting too much pressure on u guys may b making it less enjoyable too.
I am So Excited and Happy for You Both !!!
Bless you both and take care ! 🙏🏽❤️🤗
Hi, Awww really I am a winner on
your Christmas Giveaway !!!
Thank you both very much !
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