We Asked, You Answered: Parties That Require Costumes - Stick to the Theme Already!
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Adrienne needed Jeanie to back her up for this themed party topic.
I agreeeeee
😂 😂 😂 She really did. I felt so bad for her. Jeannie would've definitely had her back here! 😂
Was thinking the same thing haha
Omg yes!!! But Adrienne held her own! Love My Latina Sista!
Absolutely
I'm with Adrienne! If you think the theme is corny, then don't come! I'll see you at next party.
Also, as the host, I'm always happy to answer questions if you're not sure of what to wear to the party.
Personally parties are a reason to come together and celebrate an event or person. They're not an instagram moment. Also not everyone has the financial means or the time to be playing dress up on top of bringing food and/or a present.
@@theoneandonly0099 Exactly! I think most people who have themed parties are disrespectful jerks who don't care that you don't have the money to waste on crap you'll never wear again. PLUS, if you don't come, then they get mad about you not coming! They are fools who want to complain no matter what. I'm over themed parties.
Exactly 💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😂😂😂
@@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 I agree completely!!!! And I wouldn't care if u get mad that I didn't come coz now I 've got a great excuse to why I didn't come. I m grown and u can't dictate what I wear
Yea, well you are a teenager...so that is okay, i guess, but as you get wiser, you learn that all that is not wise.
Adriennes friend that showed up in blue for the earth toned theme is adorable 🤣 even though they got it wrong, the effort is appreciated.
Lmao right, 🤣 they weren’t entirely wrong they just had a different (but valid) interpretation.
Blue is apart of the Earth lmao
@@gregoryjeanbaptiste8055 yes, blue and green are the main colors, the Earth and the sky. But that's my perspective. I guess if you are out in the desert, there would be tons of earthy tones like sand, peach, brown, tan, beige, brown, cream, white, black, bronze, brass, yellow,
But, the sky is Blue, depending on weather and time of day, the sky is peach, pink, red, lavender, magenta, fuchsia, purple, rose, coral, garnet, burgundy, maroon, baby blue, pool blue, cerulean blue, turquoise, sea green.
Honestly when i think of earthy colors i think of muted colors like camouflage green and nudes and brown but as long as the blue is muted and has some impurity to it it could fly under the radar
Hilarious 😆
Adrienne is right if you don't wanna do it then don't come like 😭 don't ruin the theme for the rest of us
I'm sorry, but I completely agree with Adrienne. Why can't real friends just go along with a theme to make their friends happy and have fun? Who cares how "grown" you are.
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Exactly, it has nothing to do with 'grown'.
'Grown' to me is, mature enough to respect your hosts wishes OR respectfully decline.
Loni really hurt Adrienne feelings , I love themed party's too lol
I saw that too, I feel like they have been ganging up on her in this episode and laughing at her expense
Me too
She probably hurt loni's too by saying don't coe if you can't follow the theme lmaoo seems so mean & rude
Y’all reading too much into this
What’s so hard to grasp that if you don’t want to dress in theme then don’t attend the event?? Their responses towards Adrienne were so avoidable…
Reanna!! Omg I completely agree; I really don’t like the way they tag teamed against her.. kinda rude. She was so into it and they just disregarded her like that. Not cool.
I agree with Adrienne. So I had a onesie gender reveal party and asked the guest to wear a onesie. My family showed up in onesies, all of my in laws and their kids showed up in regular clothes and had the nerve to taunt me. They stopped getting invited to our theme parties, my husband even wore one and was upset with them too, like they didn't come through for him either.
But in on the flip side. I've been invited to tutu and lingerie superhero etc party and I'll be the only one in costume. So at the lingerie party they had on pajamas sets and at the tutu party they had on sweats and jeans and at the superhero party they had on regular clothes.
I haven't found my costume party tribe but when I do, I'm ready for them.
Exactly 💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That must have been annoying to be one of the only few people to come correct at those theme parties. Smh. I hope you can laugh about it now.
@nella j not really I'm still hella annoyed like Adrienne. Because we went all our for decor and the pictures look confusing. We have on character onesies and face paint and they don't. It's my 10 family members on one side us and our children in the middle and his 8 family members on the other side looking dumb. And they kept insisting on taking pictures. I'm not gone lie they were urking my nerves
Yo who has planned a theme party and is to shy themselves to Wear the costume
😂😂😂
When Garcelle said "and when we get there, we have to eat her concoctions" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣with hand gestures....finished me ok!!!
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Same 🤣🤣🤣😭
What makes this funnier is that Garcelle was thinking of Selena Gomez and not Selena Quintanilla, which is who Adrienne was talking about. 💀 Selena Gomez has the weird food concoctions, not Selena Quintanilla. 😂
I think the best parties are those that are themed… whether it be an all white party or a party where its like a celebration of love and u dress up as power couples ! Adrienne’s Selena Themed Party was actually really was cute ! Like those who take one for the team and actually play the part help make the party a better experience !
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@@selinaking3379 🍓🎂?
I feel you Adrienne! It's so disheartening when people can't just put themselves aside for a single 👏🏽 night👏🏽 to support your work. Party planning is work! You really can't muster up enough whimsy in your crusty, jaded little soul to even *try* ?? Then your vibe is already off and your presence is no longer required 👋🏽😊
Poor Adrienne.. she needs Jeannie back 😂😂
don’t go to a theme party if you’re not going to participate, just stay home it’s so annoying! i know Adrienne miss Jeannie 😩😂
Definitely with Adrienne on the themed party event. I hosted a costume party once and not only did a guest not dress up, they acted like they didn’t want to be there. Like, if you’re going to not be in theme and be a debbie downer, stay home 😩
I agree with Adrienne for once !!!! If you don’t wanna participate in the purpose of the party don’t come.
Nobody considers how these children feel growing up without a father. 🥺
For those complaining saying that it costs money to buy an outfit/costume, please simply decline. Hosting a party/event can be expensive as well. Paying for food/caterer, drinks/bartender, and reservations for a venue, etc can be very expensive. The least one can do is follow instructions. If it's too complicated for you, please let the host know you cannot make it.
Exactly
I've had friends who constantly hold these idiotic themed parties. When I decline to come because it's a themed party, *THEY GET MAD!!* But if I come and don't waste money on a dumb ass costume I'll never wear again, *THEY GET MAD!!* So the best "themed" party would be one where dressing up is OPTIONAL. That way you have all the people there that you want with some of them dressed the way you want.
@@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 if they get upset that you decline, that becomes their issue. I definitely wouldn’t want you at my themed party if you calling it idiotic. Don’t mess up my vibe and the energy.
@@RP.123 what i was thinking
With both comments
You should just say you can't afford it.
Now y’all know dayum well Ade is the queen of theme parties!! Her events look bomb and very well executed. So I’m with her if you are not going to follow the theme then just decline. I think showing up without giving the hostess a heads up to see if it’s ok is disrespectful AF. Again I’m not always trying to wear this or that but then I politely decline. Don’t poop on someone’s hard work and vision!
You know a topic or a statement is hilarious when you hear the staff in the background of the studio laughing. It tickles me.
I think it’s selfish to have a child on purpose even though you know you can’t financially support them
I’m w Adrienne! It’s fun if you don’t want to dress up don’t come but it’s fun when everyone gets to dress up and you do something different
I have to weigh in on on the single mom's topic. I'm not a mom and I don't want to be BUT I read an interesting post on Reddit that has been stuck on my mind for a while. The post said that ALL people should ask themselves if they are ready to be single parents before they have kids because you never know what will happen with your partner. The topic came up when a married woman who was 26 with 3 kids was suddenly abandoned by her husband. She didn't know what to do. And the situation could easily be reversed too. What if the mother leaves the dad alone?
Everyone (regardless of gender) who wants to have a child needs to acknowledge and prepare for the worst case scenario. What if your partner leaves? What if they are mentally or physically incapacitated? What if they are suddenly not able to provide financial support? What if they die? No one wants to think about that but it does happen. And also, equally important, if something happens to YOU, who are you leaving your child with? We never assume that two people will split up or one of them will no longer be able to take of the child but we have millions and millions of examples of those very things happening. Most single parents did not start off single. So in summary, if you want to have a child, I think its 1000% valid to be ready to do it alone, even if you trust and love your partner, because so many things in this life are outside of our control.
This is true! This is absolutely true! You never know and you have to prepare for this.
This comment is 🔥 very good points.
Exactly 💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Exactly I don’t know why people find it hard to accept this
Wow thank you so much for your comment 👌🏾
I love these parties and I'm with Adrienne. Don't come if you're not gonna participate.
Loni got me laughing on this episode
I agree!! With Adrienne!! I love themes! And I will be so disappointed if people didn’t come in the theme. It takes away from the vision that the party planner had. Like if their party just go along with it or don’t come.
i completely agree with adrienne for the MOST part lol if you go to a themed party at least try to contribute . if youre smart & think smarter , not harder & everything still work out
I love these ladies! This episode is truly funny. Adrienne is clearly annoyed with Loni & Garcelle’s responses. As long as they keep it light and fun and still love each other at the end of the day despite disagreeing, I am here for this show! I love watching your conversations, ladies!!
I love how we can hear all the laughs in the background from the rest of the staff team 🤣💕✨
I was invited to a themed birthday event last year. As a new Mom with a post-partum body and knowing I needed to pump (breastmilk) while I was away, it was overwhelming to find an outfit in a short time that could fit and would be easy to pump in.
My friend told me to come anyway, but I didn’t wanna ruin her pictures and them by being the one friend not properly dressed. When she released the (professional) photos and video from the event, I’m glad I wasn’t there. Her aesthetic was giving! I would’ve embarrassed myself with evidence lol.
I feel you! I’m working on my post c section tummy and it hangs. Clothing is hard right now and it’s so hard to feel cute!
LONI GOT ME LAUGHING 😂 MY ASS OFF!!
She said looking like a marshmallow
OMG!! The second Topic Takeover about having children on your own was speaking to me!! I always saw myself as a wife and mother to 3-5 children all here by 35. I am now 34 and super single. I told myself that if I never end up married or with anyone I would do it alone and have been preparing my village already. I agree that if you want to do it alone and you have the means and support go ahead. I also agree that it won't be easy, but if you are doing it alone then you probably already know how difficult it will be.
If you don’t want to be in theme at a theme party then just don’t go. It’s very simple. No one is obligated to go to every party their invited to but don’t ruin the vibes for everyone else.
Theme/costume parties are awesome! I love that Adrienne is so passionate about them. I agree, if you don't want to participate, then don't come.
Loni had me rollin during the theme party topic
I'm with Adrienne... don't come to my theme party like you to good for a theme party.
Whoever is cracking up in the background is giving me life!!!
I’m with A. Ppl can be completely inconsiderate. Then don’t come!!!
Loni has proven herself to be very inconsiderate in a lot of areas. Breaking glasses in a home and replacing it months down the line as a “ gift”. Being flirtatious with other women’s husbands, now she won’t even simply put in the effort to follow a color theme for a party. 🤦🏾♀️
Im with Adrienne! Participate in the theme or don't come.
“It wasn’t the theme but it was cute”, that’s cute and funny shade right there Ade😅
I am with ADE 💯!!! She knows how to throw a Party! So if U want to be a party pooper don’t GOOOO!!
Adrienne deserved a lot more respect in this segment
Adriene is that one high maintenance friend! haha i like all the different personalities because it makes it fun to watch! and i agree, you dont want to dress up dont come! haha
I agree with Ade! Also sometimes I do get stressed about what to wear to certain themed parties....but then I ask the host what options work for the theme that still make me feel comfortable. There's a way to do it without being a downer and rude!
Loni legit had me laughing out loud this segment lol
Me too she's crazy showing up in purple 💜 🤪
Loni looks drunk or might be tired😂
A few years ago I hosted a Onesie Party at my house for me and my closest friends. EVERYONE showed up in costume & it was a fantastic night!!! We even had a food fight!! Lit As F 🔥❤
I'm with Ade on this one. Don't come to my theme party if you won't be serious. It's rude to the host, disrespectful to the guests who did follow the theme, and it's just tacky!
I love hosting theme parties and I appreciate it when everyone makes an effort. If you can't dress up then don't come. Totally agree with Adrienne on this.
I agree with Ade. If you can’t stick with the dress code/ theme then respectfully stay home.
Shout out to the wardrobe person/s, great job this season.
Love Garcelle's outfit. Looks like art.
@@kimgordon2854 😊 It kind of does tbh😄😏😏
I’m single and entering my 30s and really thinking ahead about my options. I want children but I am not going to rush into a relationship. I am not near the age that I would have a geriatric pregnancy but I don’t think it’s ever too early to have the real conversations with yourself about what you would do “if”. There is an entire movement of single mothers by choice that are financially stable.
I think if your theme is out of the scope of most people’s regular closet, then you should be fine with people coming out of theme because not everyone has the money to be able to go out and buy an outfit specifically for your party. And then you, as the host, can have like some small trinkets available that they can put on so they can feel like they’re participating in theme.
Edit* If you wanna be a stickler about your theme and make it not accessible to a portion of your guest list, don’t be mad when people don’t come and then don’t get mad when they stop inviting you because you’re throwing parties you know damn well several of your friends can’t attend.
Nah you should let them know, not show up looking completely out of place.
So true this is why I was always such a hater when it came to themed parties because I didn't have the time money or resources to dress up
Hosts already put alot of money into parties. As a guest, you can thrift outfits! I’ve definitely thrifted several outfits and dropped them off to the cleaners so they look brand new! No one would know my outfit was less than $20 but me lol.
@@indiyahblaque878 Two decades ago, as a struggling single mother of two, there have been so many years that I was invited to themed parties and didn't have the "less than $20" that you seem to think is no big deal. That's the point, Love. Most people who have these stupid themed parties get mad if you won't come, but then get mad when you come but can't afford an outfit. If you're hosting and spending a bunch of money on an idiotic themed party, then you have no right to be upset when some people cannot come.
@@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 girl bye. You definitely felt attacked unnecessarily. I never said anything about it not being a big deal. I shared my experience as something affordable that I did, and maybe it’s something they could consider. I’m a newly single Mom as well and I’ve also declined events because the dress code wasn’t something I had the energy to put into. If you’re in a situation where you can’t meet the dress code for budget reasons and would rather call the party idiotic because you can’t afford, stay home and be okay with that “Love”.🤗🙃
Sn. Who said the host would be mad because you’re not there? Lol 😂
I LLOOOOVVVVEEEEEEE A THEME PARTY!!! I had a toga party for my 50th birthday party and it was a BLAST!! And I was so happy and surprised how much people took to it, and had fun with it! And the few people who didn't dress in togas stuck out like sore thumbs! It was so cool to see the ingenuity, the originality of people's costumes-- it was absolutely fabulous and incredibly fun!! 🤩🤩 That was my 50th birthday party. A few years before my hubby wanted a 70's party for his 50th and again-- such a blast!! Super fun and people went all out!! 😂🤣😅😆 Platforms, bell bottom pants, leisure suits, flower power-- what can I say-- I guess we have the funnest group of friends in the world!! And we're all Christians so we served no booze at the party-- no diss to folks who drink, we just didn't want to be responsible for any drunk driving. Still Super fun!! Good food, great music and great friends equals a great party!! 🥳🥳🎉🎉🎈🎈PS-- a friend who brought a date to the party who we'd never met, said it was one of the best parties he'd ever attended! He danced and ate so much, it was so funny! She said he told his male friends that he definitely wanted to hang with her crew again! 😁😁
Throwback to Porsha & Kenya, when Porsha decided to dress up as Dorothy Dandridge instead of Halle Berry's role in B*A*P*S at Kenya's themed party, so she got kicked out by security. I've just seen that episode yesterday and it was iconic 😂
Garcelles hair!! 😍🤩
If somebody came to my theme party refusing to follow the theme they would be turned around in the driveway. Deuces!
Exactly A! I'm with Adrienne on this one
am with Adrienne on theme party issue, don't come if you are not willing to be part of the theme, theme parties are meant to be fun, don't be a party pooper.
I'm with Adrienne! PERIODT......
I agree Adrienne … just don’t come! That simple
I love me a good theme party. I’m the most indecisive person EVER so it makes it easier to put an outfit together.
I went in with a whole husband and by time she was 8 months old I was a single mother and the stress of going through a divorce with threats of a custody battle and the trauma of being physically assaulted by him was waaay more taxing than I believe doing it alone would have been. 🎶🎶 I wish I had a time machine🎶
Adrienne we're coming to have fun and party BUT not to wear a costume. Lol
Love watching these ladies. I enjoy this show. Keep up the good work
Garcelle is me! No I’m not coming! 😂🤣😂
If you know damn it’s a theme party show up in a costume otherwise just don’t go
I loveee love love theme parties !
I think it makes the pictures look more beautiful 🤩 and it’s such a memorable & more fun experience!
Let me tell you something if you got the funds and can afford to not have to be at a 9-5 and can dedicate your time to being a single parent then do what you want! It takes your time and money to raise a child, so if you got that I think you should do what you want! Man or women!
Wait, isn’t Adrienne the first to say during other topic conversations “It’s not that serious.”
But the theme is the theme. It’s the whole purpose.
If I had the energy to maintain keeping up a certain body image I would go crazy 😂 not because it’s bad but because it becomes a chore and less about meeting a goal ! Don’t overwork yourself ! We are human and can push ourselves to our limits ! But don’t overstimulate cuz what happens is if you overstimulate your body shuts down after a certain time when it’s not use to certain things happening that don’t usually happen and that’s my worry !
Then take it slow I guess but I know it's possible, I lost twenty five pounds in three months just by decreasing my eating portions and quitting junk food. No soda, no junk, no fast food, lots of veggies and exercise. I usually just eat more when I'm bored so it was more about self control. It's totally possible. I do admit I did earn back ten pounds a while later when I started eating junk food again, but that's on me lol, I backtracked, but the diet and exercise absolutely worked. xD
I'm laughing like crazy!!!
Adrienne" then don't come!"
Lol! Love you A!!!!!!!!
I agree with Adrienne!
I’m with you Adrienne !!
I’m with Adrienne. Why not show up dressed for the occasion? Rude! Especially when you have explicit directions/guidelines. Respect the host/hostess. If you don’t want to participate, don’t show up. If you don’t have it to dress up… no excuse bc there’s UA-cam & thrift stores you can use to research options you can get away with. At least try…. Sheesh. 😒 It’s not that deep to just join the fun. How often do you get to go to a themed event anyway? 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Lmaoo you saying its not that deep yet your saying just follow the rules & guidelines to a party to just hae is funny to me😄😄 its almost as if your comment seems stressed out to me lol
I think women that plan despite there being a situation where if they have found their purpose partner enable to have a miracle of raising a child… then it’s fine as long as you have an amazing support system… have the resources and the right plans set in place and then go from there ! Being in a relationship is not the end all be all for women who want children ! And that’s ok too
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Loni got me laughing at the theme party dress code 🤣 😂
And she thought she was cute” 😂😭
I love these topics! And the way you women address it. 😄
Oop! Why are you talking about me for! The whole having a baby without a man… These dudes I come across are not it. There’s people that are literally married and have a baby and end up divorced so I’m supposed to never have a baby just because I don’t have a faithful man. And I’m supposed to stay with the unfaithful man just so that I can have a baby. I’m with it
Garcelle is so real I love it
I'm with Adrienne in this one!
Loni looks drunk 😂😂 She's cracking me up
I thought some shades of blue is considered earth tones. It's not all nude colors... it's also gray and green too. Maybe Adrienne should have specified shades of brown!
TOTALLY AGREE with Adrienne! Don’t come! I’ve had themes party and people asked me a zillion questions 🙄
STAY AT HOME, please! Have fun for once In your life!! 🤣
Loni looks fabulously comfortable 😅
Blue as an earth tone 🤣🤣
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I'm with Adrienne on the theme party...
I don't go to a theme party, if I'm unable or unwilling to dress in theme.
If the host/hostess is someone close & he/she really wants me there despite the fact I won't be in theme, that's the only way I'm going.
The way I agree with Adrienne!
So theme parties are cool, but if it is a special theme, give people a good amount of time to find their outfit. Like my friend invited me to a party which wasn't theme at first but then tells me about an hour before it started it was a 70s party...I don't own anything 70sish, but couldn't back out because I was bringing a lot of the food and drinks. Ugh she was so mad that I showed up in regular nice clothes. To this day she still brings it up.
I got obsessed, so I got certified as a trainer. I love it!
I definitely love Garcella new hairstyle the makeup as well & Loni outfit looks so good on her & the makeup 💄. The first New Year show was amazing 🤩..
LoL 🤣 Adrienne, " so my thighs don't shake that much"". When you know you know.
😊😊🤭 yeah that was kind of funny🤭🤭
I agree with Adrienne..❤️💗❤️💗
Loni was devil's advocate 😅 She is seriously silly 😅🤣
ummm I know I'm not the only one, and I verified on google, but earth tones definitely include blues and greens (sorry Loni not purple lol) but yeah, earth tones are colors that are found in nature. Obviously not like the popping blues and greens but like a navy or olive or even like rust colors, stuff like that
Exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
We got you here in the comments, Adrienne! Respect the themed parties! I love themed parties too.
Blue is an earth tone lmbo!!! Water, sky….water lmbo
I'm with Adrienne! DONT COME! lol. People just like to do whatever they want to do, but you not gon do what you want to do at MY party. Be respectful. If it was your party, i would do the same for you
I love Garcelle🤣 but I love me a good costume/themed party
“The Village”is for the adults. Deep down in that child he wants to know who his Father is. He talks about, he thinks about it, she daydream about it and there is a secret sadness in his heart that Mom and “The Village will never understand. A kid wants to know.
Of course they want to know, but they’d be even worse off without the village.