How do you make love ? All about LGBTQ+ Love life | Living as a LGBTQ+ in KOREA

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  • @K.asthetic
    @K.asthetic 2 роки тому +1035

    Ngl
    This squad is really hilarious and I love seeing their interactions so much

  • @Yue_mariin00
    @Yue_mariin00 Рік тому +127

    Yena at 3:25 softly touching Idea and going "That must be hard being outed" really got to my heart😭❤ she has such great big sister energy, i love her🥺

  • @StephenGLargy
    @StephenGLargy 2 роки тому +798

    I’m both heterosexual and “old”, but I love the honesty and courage displayed in these videos. Your choices are YOUR choices and I hope that you all find love and happiness. More importantly, I hope others who are less courageous can learn from your confidence and honesty. ❤️

    • @whyparkjiminnotridejimin
      @whyparkjiminnotridejimin 2 роки тому +24

      That's sweet🥰

    • @myeong-hee6041
      @myeong-hee6041 2 роки тому +23

      Aww, as a lgbtqia+ person, you’re comment really made my heart all warm. 💕

    • @poojaasharma
      @poojaasharma 2 роки тому +35

      Being LGBTQIA+ isn't a choice. Your comment is nice, I just had to point this out.

    • @hahahanulinka
      @hahahanulinka 2 роки тому +16

      @@poojaasharma I think he meant that you choose if you'll live in the closet or be true to your identity.

    • @StephenGLargy
      @StephenGLargy 2 роки тому +41

      @@poojaasharma, good point. ‘Choice’ was the wrong word. Better to say ‘…the person you are is the only person who counts’?

  • @womenarehot281
    @womenarehot281 2 роки тому +1089

    When Idea said that she was outed I was like 'same girlll 💅' but I will tell you that being outed is not fun especially if the boys in your class are homophobic

    • @akale2620
      @akale2620 2 роки тому +2

      Shouldn't being left alone by bois be exactly what you wanted anyway as a lesbian?

    • @6012reasol
      @6012reasol 2 роки тому +111

      @@akale2620 well yes, but they’d rather bully us than leave us alone

    • @womenarehot281
      @womenarehot281 2 роки тому +43

      @@akale2620 exactly what elodie said, they would just bully us not leave us alone

    • @crystalphoebeliew2725
      @crystalphoebeliew2725 2 роки тому +32

      Yeah as a bi woman I can confirm that. But what's worse is you receive hate from both LGBTQ+ and straight community.

    • @akale2620
      @akale2620 2 роки тому +1

      Can't relate. Never bullied anyone. I'd leave y'all alone.

  • @heatherlee2967
    @heatherlee2967 2 роки тому +625

    0:35 They didn't translate everything here: Terrah's mom got called to school cuz he kissed a boy on the cheek in pre-kindergarten

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu 2 роки тому +509

    These 4 are my new favourites. I like that they all talk openly. Normally people are awkward when they talk about sex stuff. But them are so comfortable with them as well. And also I like that all four of them respect everyone. It feels like a safe place. 💖

    • @Cluhx
      @Cluhx Рік тому

      Anyone kno the les girl insta?

  • @silverspoon386
    @silverspoon386 2 роки тому +388

    as heterosexual person, this kind of videos give me insight to understanding lgbtq+ people

  • @peerlesscucumber9522
    @peerlesscucumber9522 2 роки тому +123

    yena is so thoughtful and respectful of what she said or what she tried to pour her thoughts :( her and idea are my fave ppl from this whole lgbtq series

  • @reharm_reality
    @reharm_reality 2 роки тому +416

    I was thinking about Idea's nails when she was speaking too so when Yena grabbed her hand I was cracking up lmao

  • @maruxx3229
    @maruxx3229 2 роки тому +289

    But it's true, the feeling of vulnerability as a woman. 😭😭😭

    • @addicted2artlikethe_flints611
      @addicted2artlikethe_flints611 2 роки тому

      Life's can b rough and yes Living This Womankind /GirlKind Life 30+yrs ...different from Teen yrs 1996 to 2005 in Portland Oregon In North America...Only Problem as teen even 12yrs older men who horny ages 2?yrs up to 50/49 yrs. Certain 1s trying to get youngsters n their car _ Ewwww! NO!
      Keep Your Distance _ daring to even when teens only want to relax @ home listen to portable cd player outside house on the stairs while watching Varying Vehicles go by ..or all u wanna do is walk to store then walk through park enjoy the store bought treats icee drink and weather through public park . ( true facts __ )

    • @heinrich.hitzinger
      @heinrich.hitzinger 2 роки тому +1

      @panko 'True facts', methinks...

    • @nevergiveupbaby1720
      @nevergiveupbaby1720 Рік тому

      Everyone is vulnerable

  • @k-pop-k9057
    @k-pop-k9057 2 роки тому +163

    I’ve told my “friends” that I’m a lesbian (im Bi, I thought I was lesbian) and they almost told everyone in college as gossip or “well if you are lgbt then there is this girl who is…” Let me tell you it’s not fun. Especially when you live in an religious country plus homophobic😵‍💫

    • @bluerosesv5905
      @bluerosesv5905 2 роки тому +5

      Just know that we love every lgbt member (as a 15 year old Bi

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 Рік тому +4

      It can place our lives in danger. I'm comfortable in my country but being outed is not ok.

    • @nevergiveupbaby1720
      @nevergiveupbaby1720 Рік тому +4

      Yep at least you figured out they weren’t your friends before you told them anything else

  • @penguiiiiiiiiiin
    @penguiiiiiiiiiin 2 роки тому +54

    We need more of these videos. The younger generation needs to see that it's normal to be whoever you are, whatever you like. Thank you for bringing a great group of people together for such a fun conversation.

  • @RV-rs5zr
    @RV-rs5zr 2 роки тому +109

    I like the vibes that I get from this group.

  • @shannonflorer6187
    @shannonflorer6187 2 роки тому +85

    I love listening and learning from this group! They are so fun!

  • @shyzocas2381
    @shyzocas2381 2 роки тому +38

    when they said that she’s not a giver because she has acrylic nails but her middle finger has no nail 😭😭😭 caught

  • @agnesaugustin9313
    @agnesaugustin9313 2 роки тому +15

    This was some of the most interesting conversations I've heard.. they genuinely asked most questions that even I as a straight person has and it was amazing to get such unabashed responses.. The world is healing and its conversations like this that will lead it towards a better place

  • @simonesaldanha7110
    @simonesaldanha7110 2 роки тому +114

    This episode was so informative and funny at the same time😂😘

  • @helgaseele6203
    @helgaseele6203 2 роки тому +51

    All of them are so funny, smart, sweet and beautiful ❤️ Love their videos~ Great team!
    It's very interesting to see the world from other points of view than hetero.

  • @zamatif
    @zamatif Рік тому +17

    Nobody noticed Idea not having long nails on her right hand middle finger 🫣

  • @chandrabalisarkar7959
    @chandrabalisarkar7959 2 роки тому +46

    3:05 i totally get her point cause i got outed during one of my seminars... one of my batchmate disagreed with one of my povs and she thought my paper being bias maybe because I love sleeping around with the lesbian girl of the university... mind it my paper was on LGBTQ rep in film industry and the seminar was about gender and sexuality

    • @amye.8000
      @amye.8000 2 роки тому +5

      I get that that was the topic but assuming someone is sleeping around is wrong and then attributing it to your paper is invalidating the work you put into it. Sorry this happened.

    • @chandrabalisarkar7959
      @chandrabalisarkar7959 2 роки тому +1

      @@amye.8000 thank you for understanding... i'll work harder in future...

  • @elivile.
    @elivile. 2 роки тому +74

    As a bisexual transman, I cut my hair short(well, I shave it because I'm broke) because I just don't feel right having long hair. Sure, there are men that have long hair(i.e. metalheads, stoners, etc.), but long hair isn't for me. I prefer having shorter hair over long hair.
    And in regards for which I prefer percentage wise as bi; it's a 50/50 percent for me. I like men as much as I like women. I will say, however, that transgender men and women are attractive for me, too. I'm not excluding them at all.
    I came out as bisexual when I was 16, and then I came out as transgender when I was 20(however, I did in fact dress more masculine even before coming out in middle and high school; i.e. tomboyish looks and all that jazz). My family and friends support me wholeheartedly and I'm thankful for that. I'd truly hate having to be shunned for who I am as a person.

    • @elivile.
      @elivile. 2 роки тому

      @lemonssssssss4 It truly is!

    • @akale2620
      @akale2620 2 роки тому +3

      As a normal man, it's true. Short hair is easy af.

    • @bestenstarrie7951
      @bestenstarrie7951 2 роки тому +8

      @@akale2620 normal… we have a hidden transphobe right here

    • @elivile.
      @elivile. 2 роки тому +6

      @@akale2620 You should've just said straight cis man, my dude. rofl

    • @crystalphoebeliew2725
      @crystalphoebeliew2725 2 роки тому +1

      Glad to hear that mate

  • @swan8711
    @swan8711 Рік тому +2

    yena is so respectful when asking

  • @amteun
    @amteun 2 роки тому +59

    their group chemistry is next level, i love how natural they are about their shared experiences but also continue to be open about and learn from the different struggles of each other. i also like that they speak for themselves and not necessarily claim to represent the entire subcommunity, but it's still freeing to have somebody speak up about the things that may be taboo for others. i feel connected to them in a strange way, and i think queer people who feel lonely can definitely find comfort from this and straight people will have learned something too. i know this is their fourth (?) video together but this group dynamic is truly unmatched, i hope we can get them back on the show often!! 🤍

  • @renliu9722
    @renliu9722 2 роки тому +10

    i love this dynamic of these four and would love to see more of them 😍 they seem all very lovely and comfortable and funny! sending love to all of then and to staff 🥰

  • @naonabi
    @naonabi 2 роки тому +43

    IDEA LOOKS COOL

  • @daisneylacroix
    @daisneylacroix 2 роки тому +9

    The way they revealed their ages with the Digimon reference 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Jzaday
    @Jzaday 2 роки тому +2

    I just adore this group. So open and so respectful and finally a group that includes bi and trans people

  • @vmateo2842
    @vmateo2842 2 роки тому +16

    Yena and Terrah killed me, hilarious 😂
    LOVED the openness. Sex is the kind of topic my friends and I would even have at a restaurant packed with people, with no shame and restraints. I wish it would be normalized a bit more.

  • @clay_themultifan
    @clay_themultifan 2 роки тому +3

    i had all those worries back then, "coming out" ..
    all these people around me, my family, my relatives, my friends --- the biggest question in my self was "what if they wont accept me from who and what i am?" .. all my worries are gone when I came out to my mom and she just accepted me with an open arms, after that i didnt care anymore if other people cant accept me for what i am, what matters most was MY MOM ACCEPTED ME, thats enough for me ❤️

  • @xisnothappy
    @xisnothappy 2 роки тому +16

    I love this group. I'd like to see an all lgbt group again where there are more guys or 2:2 gender wise. This group is 3:1 girls to guy ratio. I'd like to see an opposite 1:3 with a lesbian, trans man, bi guy, and gay man. Or a lesbian, bi girl, trans man, and gay man. Or lesbian, Trans girl, Bi guy, and gay man. I think those combos could all be interesting in their own ways 😳

  • @miraclebug5250
    @miraclebug5250 Рік тому +2

    I'm honestly very straight but I love watching this group. It is almost like every time they are on I learn something new, which is what it think is best rather than just judging according to my "knowledge". LOVE THEM😘😘😍

  • @miniyoongles
    @miniyoongles 2 роки тому +8

    these four are my absolute favorite on this channel :))

  • @beebco
    @beebco 2 місяці тому

    I'm LGBTQ+ from America, it was very refreshing and fun to see some LGBTQ+ people from another country/culture, i loved it!

  • @reneeluv1986
    @reneeluv1986 2 роки тому +11

    Terrah is a whole ball of Fun 😃

  • @BookNerd4Music
    @BookNerd4Music 2 роки тому +6

    I'm really loving these four and learning from their experiences even though I'm much older than all of them

  • @biaswreckage
    @biaswreckage 2 роки тому +3

    love this rainbowwwww
    they had a good vibe even though they don't know each other I loved it

  • @mairaleao
    @mairaleao 2 роки тому +6

    I'm obsessed with this video. Wow. Amazing content! Please, do more things like that.

  • @Kiwi-ws4tu
    @Kiwi-ws4tu 2 роки тому +2

    I love this channel, because they answer questions so openly and make it funny, rather than akward or disgusting

  • @amaril-kb7131
    @amaril-kb7131 2 роки тому +3

    I thought this video is so interesting. I am a straight person and a lot of my questions were answered in this clip. I also had a lot of stereotypes and hurt some people subconscious with this. I didn’t want to make the same mistakes, so I never asked those questions I was so curious about. So thanks for speaking about it so openminded. I hope I will understand the hole community a lot better in the future.

  • @nitsa3173
    @nitsa3173 2 роки тому +3

    I like that they all talk openly.

  • @midzy4life
    @midzy4life Рік тому +1

    I need more of these 4 people together because I love them, their all so funny and beautiful
    Idea and Purum are also so pretty

  • @mcbapbabe
    @mcbapbabe 2 роки тому +1

    You are right girl....the perfect guys are either gay, transgendered and/or taken. These are smart people I would want to hang out with, never a dull moment.

  • @РашмиБТС
    @РашмиБТС 2 роки тому +2

    you guys are brave, and trust me these videos are probably gonna help the younger members of the community.

  • @kellypeters5379
    @kellypeters5379 2 роки тому +1

    When one of my friends came out to me and our other friends it was very emotional. We al already knew he was gay but he just never really said it,so when he finaly did we were all so happy.
    I am happy to say that after that he just became so much happier and more alive than he had ever been.
    He has a steady boyfriend now and they live together. I don't know if they want to get married, but I am happy that we live i country were they atleast can if they want to.
    I hope lgbtq+ rights in korea will improve soon.

  • @artsy.metamorphosis
    @artsy.metamorphosis Рік тому +1

    i really loved them, i would easily be friends with them if i met them, they are so lucid, with such good energy. (I'm bisexual, and I get emotional seeing that even in a conservative country they have the courage to be what they were born with. It is wonderful.)

  • @Laticia1990
    @Laticia1990 Рік тому +1

    give these four their own sitcom

  • @yeodeolb
    @yeodeolb 2 роки тому +13

    I love them. I wish I had more queer friends 🥺

  • @luna-thevives
    @luna-thevives 2 роки тому +2

    The whole video was educative in its own way. I never knew so many informations about the LGBTQ community before this

  • @ineffablemars
    @ineffablemars Рік тому

    Terrah seems like such a good guy! And his English is so good! They all seem so cool

  • @Come_AsYouAre
    @Come_AsYouAre 2 роки тому +1

    These guys are all so precious and warm w each other , bless themmm💕💕

  • @hulahula8614
    @hulahula8614 2 роки тому +1

    This video is informative and very fun to watch. These guys were so open in their conversation.

  • @zeirra.
    @zeirra. Рік тому +2

    Hey guys thanks for the video!
    I just wanna point out 2 things; first, the beautiful trans girl (sorry for forgetting your name) is SO nice and incredibly respectful and caring thank you for your kindness princess.
    The second thing I wanna point out to the people in the comments, you have to bare in mind that the circumstances and situations involving LGBTQ+ differ so much from a certain country/culture to another.
    For example; from what I've seen in these few vids of this group about the Korean LGBTQ+ culture and my own culture in the middle east I'd say it's safe to assume that homosexual people fit and act like a very stereotypical version of what you expect their gender/sexuality to be. I'd say maybe to try to feel more validation and prove themselves as the person they are. For example; gay men usually would behave in a certain way that might seem extreme in other countries where homosexuality is acceptable and not a big of a deal or where they don't feel challenged to prove they are gay. Some even have to act and/or dress more feminine in order to prove their sexuality as it is a somehow clear indication in these type of cultures that that man is not straight. Same goes to lesbians feeling obligated to look masculine and behave in a masculine way or even change their voices. To some people that might be just a part of who they are but to most they feel like they "have to" or they would be looked down upon or invalidated.
    So; these type of videos can help you learn a bit about homosexuality in the eyes of a certain culture but never assume that that's the case in general because in the western society two people can look like they're two female best friends but they could easily be two gay men and you'd have no idea because sexuality and gender DOES NOT have to LOOK a certain way. Also.. switching exists so good luck with that too.

  • @xisnothappy
    @xisnothappy 2 роки тому +8

    I used to think I was bi and when I told people that in middle school they said "ew thats weird..." 💀 which I honestly didn't expect cuz I live in the US and it was a girl who said that 🧐 idk I just expected a girl to be nicer about that 🤧

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 2 роки тому +2

      Are you a girl/afab? In my experience cishet girls would be weird about me being pan because they think I must be attracted to them.

    • @xisnothappy
      @xisnothappy 2 роки тому +4

      @@reharm_reality Yes but we were friends :( if she thought I told her for any reason other than telling my friend about me that's her problem 😰😭 I get what u mean tho that seems to be really common 🤧

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 2 роки тому +2

      @@xisnothappy That is definitely her problem and you deserve more supportive friends :((( but yeah it is really common hence why most of my friends are also queer

  • @susansharphaynes555
    @susansharphaynes555 Рік тому +2

    When a person is outed its so disrespectful #1 it's zero their business #2 a homophobic friend of my brother was stabbed to death for outing a gay man #3 You never know how much the outed person has dealt with being made fun of, bullied and ostracized!!RESPECT EVERYONE REGARDLESS OF SEXUALITY!!! #4 I Love you all!

  • @makotohideki9509
    @makotohideki9509 2 роки тому +2

    All of them look like nice and cool people, but I want Yena to be my friend so badly.

  • @gentleman2410
    @gentleman2410 Рік тому +1

    Very honest conversations. I really appreciate it!

  • @noahpuke4136
    @noahpuke4136 2 роки тому +1

    i wish the trans boy could be there too:( but the video was really good!! thanks to these ppl for sharing their stories for us to watch

  • @ononifechigor2241
    @ononifechigor2241 2 роки тому +3

    I was outed too in highschool when I was really confused...and confessed my feelings to a girl....and she told the whole class😂...and no one talked to me for the session 😂😂

  • @mandanam.m.1745
    @mandanam.m.1745 2 роки тому +2

    Yena seems like so much fun ❤

  • @breezybri4574
    @breezybri4574 Рік тому

    I loved this! And she is so right about percentages change with the person. I'm bisexual and my percentage is I'm 70% into females and only 30% into males.

  • @ss-ck1mi
    @ss-ck1mi Рік тому +1

    god!!! i love being gay💘😩our comunity is so hilarious

  • @mayyatiaung3066
    @mayyatiaung3066 2 роки тому +5

    I'm pretty sure this video has a good intention. But the subtitles(embeded captions) says gender identity when it supposed to be sexual orientation. They are two different things. Gender is who you are and sexuality is who you're attracted to, roughly speaking. There's 3 cis gender people and 1 trans person in the video. Sexuality is each of the LGBT acronym.

  • @U-Gozoo
    @U-Gozoo 2 роки тому +2

    Idea is so pretty 😍

  • @ineffablemars
    @ineffablemars Рік тому +1

    😂😂 “she’s not a giver (top)” and she shows her nails!!

  • @JimFeig
    @JimFeig 2 роки тому +2

    In the US straight girls often goto gay clubs with friends. I even brought my straight younger brother so he ended up getting all their attention.

  • @snwwkt
    @snwwkt Рік тому

    i’ve been outed in school and to my family and it really breaks you, for a while i’ve felt this paranoia about being betrayed again and it clings to me till this day. i full heartedly agree that it should be viewed as a crime

  • @lucasa1849
    @lucasa1849 2 роки тому +1

    If you're in an environment with people that would hurt you if they knew, outing can be very dangerous.

  • @SwissLotus
    @SwissLotus 2 роки тому +3

    I love this group so much!!

  • @atiny_multi
    @atiny_multi 6 місяців тому

    Okay but Idea is so pretty!!

  • @animos1271
    @animos1271 2 роки тому +2

    LGBT
    Yena and Terrah should have switched position haha
    L for Idea G for terrah B for Pureum and T for Yena

  • @oblivion97
    @oblivion97 2 роки тому +6

    I LOVE THIS FOUR, GREAT CONTENT

  • @frankynath5847
    @frankynath5847 2 роки тому +4

    I just love them so much! 😍

  • @namjooningOT7
    @namjooningOT7 8 місяців тому +1

    Ok im into that Preety bi girl Pureum, she seems cool

  • @ButterFlyMan622
    @ButterFlyMan622 Рік тому

    please do more interviews with the same ppl i LOVE ALL 4 OF EM

  • @Ribeiro332
    @Ribeiro332 2 роки тому +5

    A lot of people said about this so many times at the comments sections Gender identity and sexual identity are NOT the same thing

    • @m3ow97
      @m3ow97 2 роки тому

      Only one of them are a real thing

  • @elleisamultifan
    @elleisamultifan 2 роки тому

    i grew up in a pretty accepting and open family, ever since i was 4 if i would join contests in my school, my mom would contact my gay uncle, he does such an amazing job in make up and hairstyling that's why i grew up loving him even if i meet him only in those occassion, and we know few neighbors who are part of the community, my math tutor when i was 6 was lesbian too and i have always thought she's so cool because she was teaching me math🤣 one my bestfriends too in grade school was gay, so i really thought that it was just normal, that there are these many genders when i was young, so not until i turned 11 or 12 that i started to see and understand the issues in the society related to hate crime against them, i really DID NOT understand how these came to be since i have always thought that everyone knows there are girls who likes girls and boys who likes boys, as a younger me would put into words.

  • @catlover7015
    @catlover7015 Рік тому

    I’m glad that I’ve never been outed, but at the same time, it’s rather sad that I was so obvious about being aroace when I was younger and no one noticed because they didn’t know what it was. Like, in 5th grade or so a boy liked me (it spread throughout the class until people were asking me about it, he never confessed or anything luckily) and I told him that I felt I was too young, and I would date him when I turned 15 lol. I didn’t see any problem with that logic. And another time, my table at lunch was talking about crushes and someone asked me, and I just said that none of the guys were attractive and I couldn’t lie any of them since I’d known them from preschool. I was the personification of “why are none of the people at my school attractive??!!”

  • @Imitationist
    @Imitationist 2 роки тому +1

    I am interested to know if Idea is more receptive to be a giver or a taker when it comes to a relationship.
    Terrah has revealed his indirectly (with the top/bottom dynamic).

  • @sinikkatress6452
    @sinikkatress6452 2 роки тому

    It was very interesting for me as a heterosexuell person to get all this information.....I wish that many people could now about it......to understand better
    Thank you ! ❤️👍

  • @clay_themultifan
    @clay_themultifan 2 роки тому +1

    PDnim.. put all of them, even Jihoo, Dowon and Pani 😂 put them aaaalllll together in 1 show.. and wait i forgot his name, the other gay with Jihoo on a different concept.. 😂

  • @leerose8342
    @leerose8342 Рік тому +1

    I think something got lost in translation because gender identity is not at all sexuality. A gender identity is like trans woman, trans man, nonbinary, cis woman, cis man, etc. Sexuality is like bisexual, gay, lesbian, etc.
    Hope this helps ❤

  • @chandrabalisarkar7959
    @chandrabalisarkar7959 2 роки тому +1

    with each video I'm falling for Idea

    • @blaahhshs
      @blaahhshs Рік тому +1

      i fell for her in the first vid😻😻

  • @jazmingalloway3172
    @jazmingalloway3172 Рік тому

    Yo Terrah speaks English really good wow!

  • @Bansarishah-
    @Bansarishah- 2 роки тому +4

    I love this intrection

  • @Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss
    @Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss 2 роки тому +6

    I love them

  • @possibly_a_sign_from_God
    @possibly_a_sign_from_God Місяць тому

    0:55 So relatable as a bi person haha
    6:18 Yess exactly!

  • @foxesfromparis
    @foxesfromparis 10 місяців тому

    Yena's side profile is beautiful

  • @idalsuyeon
    @idalsuyeon 9 місяців тому +1

    idea n pureum are so JSDIDFJSDIFJ

  • @reginaaldana1311
    @reginaaldana1311 2 роки тому

    It would be very interesting if they included asexual and/or aromantic people in these talks

  • @kangbalus5891
    @kangbalus5891 2 роки тому

    They are really good in asking
    Wow

  • @Jarvis_Mari
    @Jarvis_Mari 2 роки тому +2

    My solution for the long nails is to leave my index finger and middle finger on my dominant hand shorter and get the rest long. 🤭
    But I couldn't help but laugh about the nail comment lol.

  • @erikad0511
    @erikad0511 2 роки тому +2

    Great vdo... I hope they become friends... idk why, other than I think it would be great if the LGBTQ+ community in Korea became bigger & even more visible. But I didn't follow what she was saying about why men couldn't come into the bar & abt pole dancing & strength...idk I'll just accept that as cultural & maybe language differences

    • @python5933
      @python5933 2 роки тому +8

      I think what she's saying "based on my understanding" is that when a guy entered a club specifically for lesbians and that said guy started a mess/fight the women will be vulnerable since it is known that guys are stronger (which is the bitterness of life, *sigh the vulnerability of being a woman)but in a gay club if someone started a fight they can just call out the ones doing pole dancing since they are strong too

    • @erikad0511
      @erikad0511 2 роки тому +1

      @@python5933 ohh... bc it takes great strength to pole dance? Ok, I get it now lol... room full of women are fearful if a fight should break out & it was started by the few gay men they let in, the women cant defend against those men? Thx for clarifying for me

    • @Tuulenkukka
      @Tuulenkukka 2 роки тому +3

      Hold on, gay men would go to a lesbian place and have an argument? I thought it would be a straight guy. I have heard of that happening in some clubs. Like someone is thinking of adult videos when thinking of lesbians and not understanding that lesbians have no interest in sex with men.

    • @erikad0511
      @erikad0511 2 роки тому

      @@Tuulenkukka the bar the woman works at let's no men in, seems like they just want their own "safe space" away from all dudes

    • @python5933
      @python5933 2 роки тому

      @@Tuulenkukka Well its mostly the straight men who starts the fight in these kind of clubs mainly due to their ego being hurt from being rejected by these women ,they should reflect on their selves and should not act their frustrations on these women because they're the one who approached first with other intentions aside from friendship even if they know that they are not the gender preference of these ladies(most of them see it as a challenge but if they got rejected even for a lot of times, they then get angry). As for the gay men I actually never heard of them starting a fight in these kind of clubs unless they are being triggered , they actually act as an ally , they respect and understand each other better.

  • @ChanelleofAthens
    @ChanelleofAthens Рік тому

    Yena is so beautiful oh my gosh😮

  • @nandaschomakers6472
    @nandaschomakers6472 2 роки тому +1

    Really interesting this talk thanks!

  • @hazellguzman9020
    @hazellguzman9020 2 роки тому +2

    You’re not alone

  • @GDricequeen
    @GDricequeen Рік тому

    Keep up the great content super cute 🏳️‍🌈☺️

  • @conanmyselfandi
    @conanmyselfandi 2 роки тому +1

    Ok I'm in love with Pureum

  • @wheeinisbae6568
    @wheeinisbae6568 2 роки тому

    I love these 4 sm

  • @roseandblackpinkblinkblink750
    @roseandblackpinkblinkblink750 2 роки тому +2

    Yes yes and yes

  • @hannah_rai178
    @hannah_rai178 2 роки тому

    Yena is so pretty 😍