I left into hiding 4weeks before the wedding coz the red flags were becoming bloody red .17yrs later I dont regret my decision .Narcissist are so good to other people to shield their toxicity
Marriage desperation gets and keeps women in very toxic scenarios. “Men of god” average worst abusers and they know the church is where they will get billable naive desperate women who jump into marriages ignoring all red flags. God doesn’t call us to be dumb. He calls us to use our spirit of discernment.
I hear everything she is saying neh but I can't wrap my head around this... You married into a family who's culture encourages leaving your kids behind😢. What kind of practice is this? What is the reason? What is your child supposed to do when mum or dad leaves them to build a home with another man or woman in a different location? Die? Hang in there? Be strong? See what they do with their lives? Please, may those who know more about this please balance me. How is God approving of a union that is going to leave his innocent children neglected and stranded. Children never asked to be born. Please stop leaving them with gogo's and uncles for marriage, please😢.
The rationale about it is , the child born of another man before marriage is better of with the grandparents because the mother is going out to try life , which will likely affect the child negatively ( in the eyes of elders) . Elders presume that the child may not be well accepted by the mother's in laws because the child isn't theirs.
I don't think from the beginning you heard God saying yes maybe your consciousness was the one convincing you my sister no no this can't be. This one was sent straight from hell. So many people who where against this including your mom can't be wrong and it was eventually proven.
Many young people who met their partners this way have either ended up in divorce or some are enduring loveless and abusive marriages by spouses who claimed to have been sent by God to marry them. Many such men are known to be problematic in their outlook and behaviour, yet pastors have allowed them to go on and marry innocent women! I wish she had listened to her family!😢
I think your husband was a narcissist my sister, that what im picking up spiritually,bt there must be a reason why he targeted you. Probably God was trying to teach you discernment and to trust the inner voice when it speaks to you, cause it did warn you but you didn't listen. Im so happy you're healing
Horrible, Horrible experience 😢 ma'am but beautifully narrated. Unfortunately besides Pastor Chris who was mentioned in passing i didn't get even one good person in the story but the narrator...
The bible says the blessing of the Lord ADD bo sorrow so please you didn't hear God say go ahead and marry, your soul and emotions told you to marry, DONT LIE AGAINST the Holy Spirit. God cant ask you to go into a covenant that is special to Him for Him to FAIL the people rhat heard from God were the ones that said dont marry NOT YOU Please dont exalt yourself, accept that you didn't hear God but your fleshly needs, let's humble ourself and have repentant hearts, cos now you making your HOLIER THAN THOU, I had a child before marriage, I was a christian, God spoke to me to Marry then marriage fails oooo God said it would be hard still marriages failed, making God a confused liar. I rebuke you.
Agreed this man is a narcissist. But I really hope you too have learned something from this. Like honestly ask yourself why you allowed this to happen to you. You need to address that, and work on healing that part of yourself. We all need to love ourselves a little more as women maan, so that we can have the courage to walk away when treated this bad.
Why are you showing your husband to be your ex picture? Absolutely wrong wrong wrong! Confessing that you have a child that was enough but showing him the picture hai no iam a man it will not sit well with me!
I left into hiding 4weeks before the wedding coz the red flags were becoming bloody red .17yrs later I dont regret my decision .Narcissist are so good to other people to shield their toxicity
Truth
What a mature woman I really learned a lot❤
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I love this. You are God's favor personified. Thanks for edifying us with your testimony sister Annah.
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You are such a living testimony
Amen
We see the red flags, then believe we can change and heal the broken. Wrong move.
Yah
Thank you for your testimony🙏🏽
It's like you're narrating my story. I went through the same route. I left after 4yrs as he cheated after tolerating all the narcissistic behavior
It's hard dealing with a narcissist because they always act like you are the problem, healing to you Sis 🫂😍
Marriage desperation gets and keeps women in very toxic scenarios. “Men of god” average worst abusers and they know the church is where they will get billable naive desperate women who jump into marriages ignoring all red flags. God doesn’t call us to be dumb. He calls us to use our spirit of discernment.
Then she makes it seem that God failed yet she is so perfect that she heard God, which failing lying god did she hear
Indeed, you are a living testimony, my sister 🙏
Amen
Living testimony indeed ✨️
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Beautiful ending with herself..
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What a story ❤❤❤❤,
A Healed Queen❤
Oh yes
You are a living testimony mommy ❤❤
Thank you 😊
The willingness to endure and stay after everything puzzles me, faith is really a powerful thing. Am glad though you eventually left.
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The guest is so eloquent ❤❤❤
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God restores 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Amen
Prayer is a seed he is suffering the consequences and all your previous pains.❤ you mogal.
Eish
Happy ending 🎉🎉
Indeed
Amen 🙏🙏
Amen 🙏
Who is this lady? I need her advice 😊, something to do with education career
It is good to Allow the guest talk without too much interruption 😢
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Amen 🙏🙏 glory to God
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I hear everything she is saying neh but I can't wrap my head around this... You married into a family who's culture encourages leaving your kids behind😢. What kind of practice is this? What is the reason? What is your child supposed to do when mum or dad leaves them to build a home with another man or woman in a different location? Die? Hang in there? Be strong? See what they do with their lives?
Please, may those who know more about this please balance me. How is God approving of a union that is going to leave his innocent children neglected and stranded. Children never asked to be born. Please stop leaving them with gogo's and uncles for marriage, please😢.
The rationale about it is , the child born of another man before marriage is better of with the grandparents because the mother is going out to try life , which will likely affect the child negatively ( in the eyes of elders) . Elders presume that the child may not be well accepted by the mother's in laws because the child isn't theirs.
Hey beautiful lady....you tried....am so happy for you....I trust you nicely reconnected with your own family...
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I had to come back again...this is not God and this is not the work of Devil.
THIS IS BAD DECISION AND BAD JUDGEMENT.
IYOOOH 😮😮😮😮😮😢
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I don't think from the beginning you heard God saying yes maybe your consciousness was the one convincing you my sister no no this can't be. This one was sent straight from hell. So many people who where against this including your mom can't be wrong and it was eventually proven.
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She speaks so well😢
Indeed ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Where on earth will you get a teaching post from? Bathong? He was not normal, jho!
I love you, e tlo bolaya batho strue!
Straight 😪
Many young people who met their partners this way have either ended up in divorce or some are enduring loveless and abusive marriages by spouses who claimed to have been sent by God to marry them. Many such men are known to be problematic in their outlook and behaviour, yet pastors have allowed them to go on and marry innocent women! I wish she had listened to her family!😢
Thank you so much for watching ❤️❤️
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Iyoooh...this is a lot
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The narrative of a battered and bruised woman is tiring honestly, women are always presented with choices.
Yooh Thenjiwe okay
Desperation is a road to depression 🤞
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Joooooo mokgotsi 😮😮😮😮
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Interviewer : let the person tell her story in the beginning before asking questions that would form the end later .
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But she is asking valid questions....this is an interview remember.....
I think your husband was a narcissist my sister, that what im picking up spiritually,bt there must be a reason why he targeted you. Probably God was trying to teach you discernment and to trust the inner voice when it speaks to you, cause it did warn you but you didn't listen. Im so happy you're healing
Thank you 😊
The marriage was disaster from day 1 shame😢but we learn frm our mistakes,it's true when they say what doesn't kill u makes u stronger...
True
The man was not wrong to run his wedding his way, family comes first before church.
It's not he's wedding. Their wedding. He cannot do things he's way alone
He was wrong. It was their wedding not his. And you cannot run your wedding without involving the church. This sister married a monster
Horrible, Horrible experience 😢 ma'am but beautifully narrated. Unfortunately besides Pastor Chris who was mentioned in passing i didn't get even one good person in the story but the narrator...
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But love yourself more Madam, marriage was never an achievement 😢
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I’m just wondering how was the honeymoon if treatment was like that 😢
Ja neh💔
Kao jaja ous Anna, how on earth would you quit your job for a man😫!
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I know so many woman that did that and are being abused still. Things we do for mjolo neh 😢
I know they say”never say never” but Mina NEVER shame
But showing off ex bf Pic wasn't good
Why is that?
I'm not surprised, when things go wrong in a marriage it's always a man's fault.
Ok
All this debts while buying people cow he was really a problem
Yah
Nxese sisi
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The bible says the blessing of the Lord ADD bo sorrow so please you didn't hear God say go ahead and marry, your soul and emotions told you to marry, DONT LIE AGAINST the Holy Spirit. God cant ask you to go into a covenant that is special to Him for Him to FAIL the people rhat heard from God were the ones that said dont marry NOT YOU
Please dont exalt yourself, accept that you didn't hear God but your fleshly needs, let's humble ourself and have repentant hearts, cos now you making your HOLIER THAN THOU, I had a child before marriage, I was a christian, God spoke to me to Marry then marriage fails oooo God said it would be hard still marriages failed, making God a confused liar. I rebuke you.
I don't believe this, a man of God can't beat his wife.
You must be living under the rock
Its all the man of God that abuse wifes and kids. They also abuse the congregation financially
Everyone belongs to God
@@user-kp9ll1qu5n Some choose to worship devil or ancestors.
Are you for real?
Agreed this man is a narcissist. But I really hope you too have learned something from this. Like honestly ask yourself why you allowed this to happen to you. You need to address that, and work on healing that part of yourself. We all need to love ourselves a little more as women maan, so that we can have the courage to walk away when treated this bad.
Exactly, Healing begins there...why we allow pain 😢
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This woman gives me like Owami (my husband this n that) look like shes blaming everything to her ex ...can we hear ex husband story also....
Hopefully the husband may come one day 🙏
Why are you showing your husband to be your ex picture? Absolutely wrong wrong wrong! Confessing that you have a child that was enough but showing him the picture hai no iam a man it will not sit well with me!
@nomtha9695 and there's a scripture that says not every is matured for marriage
The son had a father eventualy they were going to meet
The interviewer Queen needs to talk less .😢
The interviewer Queen is doing her own style of podcasting by having a conversation with her Guests.
Sorry for the inconvenience caused 😘
This guy was in a cult.He gave up ur kids as sacrifice
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