Shaun Tells Lea He's in Love with Her - The Good Doctor

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  • Опубліковано 23 лют 2020
  • After getting some closure with Carly, Shaun (Freddie Highmore) musters the courage to tell Lea (Paige Spara) that he loves her and wants to be her boyfriend. But is that what Lea wants? From 'Autopsy,' season 3, episode 16 of The Good Doctor. Watch The Good Doctor MONDAY 10|9c on ABC, streaming, on demand, and Hulu.
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  • @yamilaq
    @yamilaq 4 роки тому +7566

    That tear in Shaun's eye... God... Just give Freddie an Oscar or something

    • @menace4726
      @menace4726 4 роки тому +111

      yamila quinteros the actor for Lea did well in the scene as well

    • @weasley2o13
      @weasley2o13 4 роки тому +103

      He wins every time the camera lands on him. Every. Single. Time.

    • @a_noelle8595
      @a_noelle8595 4 роки тому +26

      For a tear? Carly and Leah both balled their eyes out. What makes his tear award-worthy?

    • @solparadox
      @solparadox 4 роки тому +11

      TV shows dont get Oscars

    • @silverdrumvideo
      @silverdrumvideo 4 роки тому +8

      Emmy

  • @narutonaruto2341
    @narutonaruto2341 4 роки тому +6708

    And it was at this moment Shaun decided to open a motel with his mother.

    • @iambmattward
      @iambmattward 4 роки тому +117

      Now that you mention it, I really want to see Vera, Max, or Olivia guest star on The Good Doctor. 😂

    • @iClone316
      @iClone316 4 роки тому +126

      And change his name to Norman lol

    • @kauryisabelfeliz602
      @kauryisabelfeliz602 4 роки тому +9

      🤣

    • @flashfive12
      @flashfive12 4 роки тому +25

      Lmfao I’m crying😂

    • @akshitthakur6833
      @akshitthakur6833 4 роки тому +8

      Lol

  • @tamarinddigges9474
    @tamarinddigges9474 3 роки тому +1462

    Freddie's acting is just so good it's insane. He seriously deserves more recognition for his gift

    • @Discordfriendly
      @Discordfriendly 2 роки тому +6

      Fr

    • @the_manchovie1795
      @the_manchovie1795 2 роки тому +1

      About as good as Dustin Hoffman's

    • @kenadams3306
      @kenadams3306 Рік тому +1

      You are a gem. Ultimate hype man energy. Love you, whoever you are.

    • @adamwhite1556
      @adamwhite1556 7 місяців тому +1

      What about the girl that plays Lea as well. She is also a superb actress.

  • @lukedaley17
    @lukedaley17 4 роки тому +803

    It was really brave of Shaun to tell Lea how he feels about her.

    • @evanwilcox82
      @evanwilcox82 4 роки тому +15

      I am so proud of Shaun because he has exhibited bravery in the face of adversity many times of the course of the show. His character has made me take a look into my own life and draw inspiration. Phenomenal writing and acting.

    • @ltrillium1000
      @ltrillium1000 25 днів тому

      it was just as brave for her to say no

  • @Sarnatuile
    @Sarnatuile 4 роки тому +3845

    As someone with autism, this hits incredibly hard. Mostly due to the realism. Lea's reasoning is completely fair and solid. It's also really pure and real.
    I broke down crying because of the end when Shaun said ''is it because i have autism''. I feel this way a lot of the time.

    • @lessawlee
      @lessawlee 4 роки тому +64

      I hope you find someone amazing one day

    • @Whatever2012ish
      @Whatever2012ish 4 роки тому +22

      Yeah but reading what you type it seems you understand and are able to process information clearly. You might be in the spectrum of having mild autism. Shaun a different story he has autism that not severe but of course it affects his daily living and how he processes everything, not only that but he has experience traumatic event in his life such as his pet dying in front of him, his abusive father and how he watch his brother died.cant really relate the spectrum of autism compare to Shaun

    • @felizliz742
      @felizliz742 4 роки тому +13

      It is very sad... This kind of situations.... But they are perfect for eachother, I am very Lea in real life, I am a mess... Easy to be hurted, very sensible... I hate lies and I think Shaun always tells the truth, is really honest, and always does his best... This are all virtues in a persona with autism.

    • @arjunaich5399
      @arjunaich5399 4 роки тому +9

      Don’t worry bro, i feel you. I don’t have autism but i know how you feel. I have my problems and i feel this way sometimes

    • @QuayNemSorr
      @QuayNemSorr 4 роки тому +17

      I have autism as well. I relate to his pain and struggle. The episode in the beginning of the season where he has a meltdown at Glassmans office crying that he is destroying everything left me in tears.

  • @GirlyGamer821
    @GirlyGamer821 4 роки тому +2783

    My husband is autistic and I had these same thoughts when we first got together. There's nothing wrong with those thoughts. You think about how someone's disability will affect your life and if you are willing to face the worse case scenario. I decided I could. Lea seems unsure. I hope they actually have a dialogue about it because I think I would be really powerful.

    • @RoyalMasterpiece
      @RoyalMasterpiece 4 роки тому +138

      Lea also seems like she has never experienced unconditional love.

    • @paballodikobo8992
      @paballodikobo8992 4 роки тому +11

      Yes. ❤

    • @NatureXXLover
      @NatureXXLover 4 роки тому +15

      Sorry to ask. Do u have Kids? Are they in the spectrum? Asking because My son is autistic.. Just wondering

    • @GirlyGamer821
      @GirlyGamer821 4 роки тому +113

      @@NatureXXLover no kids for us yet. We are considering trying next year, though my husband is hesitant. Chances of our children being autistic are higher and it worries him. He was bullied as a child and worries if our child will experience the same. But he also thinks he will be able to have the most incredible bond with any child we have who is in the spectrum because of his own life experiences.
      All in all, as long as a child on the spectrum, and any child for that matter, has all the love and support they need it somehow all comes together wonderfully 🥰

    • @kevinwaag9976
      @kevinwaag9976 4 роки тому +33

      That's so interesting !!! The challenges, the prejudices, the fears.... overcoming all of the that? inspiring.!

  • @MsGiono
    @MsGiono 4 роки тому +4132

    I think she loves him too much that she's afraid to ruin their relationship.

    • @a_noelle8595
      @a_noelle8595 4 роки тому +267

      I've been saying this for a while. The friendship matters that much to her. No one respects it. But she's been in relationships and they've come and gone. She doesn't want that to happen with Shaun.

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 4 роки тому +84

      @@Sifat_Rashid Carly's not a whore don't start where's all this hate coming from!she stayed she still got hate she let Shaun go still got hate leave her alone!she do care about Shaun but Shaun didn't care about her the way he does Leah and that's not fair to Carly so stop.

    • @neecey2222
      @neecey2222 4 роки тому +29

      janderson947 regardless both of them are gonna get hate. It just depends on who you like more. I think they both have been good to Shaun. Carly’s been a good gf and Lea’s been a good friend.

    • @Sifat_Rashid
      @Sifat_Rashid 4 роки тому +25

      @@neecey2222 friends dont kiss and fall in love dude...lol

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 4 роки тому +7

      @@neecey2222 exactly,well until now it's just going to be awkward ..

  • @peterrodby2786
    @peterrodby2786 4 роки тому +343

    That pause by Lea between " I love you too" and "but" is the longest ten seconds of Shaun's life.

    • @alicenthightower5301
      @alicenthightower5301 2 роки тому +8

      Longest of mine too. ITS TOO LONG. and too tense as well

    • @TheTsar1918
      @TheTsar1918 2 роки тому +4

      Is it bad that, having never seen the show, and am a pure cynic when it comes to relationships, I knew that the ‘but’ was coming?

  • @ArsArcanum
    @ArsArcanum 4 роки тому +3631

    She's scared. it's understandable. His autism will make their relationship a challenge and she doesn't know if it's worth jeopardizing their relationship.

    • @Bekka_boo13
      @Bekka_boo13 4 роки тому +148

      she's a twat...If you truely love someone you don't care...

    • @waelliam1179
      @waelliam1179 4 роки тому +123

      @@Bekka_boo13 exactly, people defend her , i don't know why people like her so much

    • @Bekka_boo13
      @Bekka_boo13 4 роки тому +32

      Wael Liam can’t stand her...she’s what I call a head fuck!!!

    • @waelliam1179
      @waelliam1179 4 роки тому +80

      @@Bekka_boo13 in the first season i really thought that he will end up with Claire , because i already seen the korean story line , and then there was lea and i thought that's it , she is the one , even though i couldn't stand her after she broke his heart , then they introduced carly , and i don't really understand why people dislike carly so much , unlike lea she asccepted shaun the way he is and she was very patient with him , u don't find girls like that , then they made shaun looks like an ungrateful jerk , now he confessed to lea and she just walks away breaking his heart again

    • @waelliam1179
      @waelliam1179 4 роки тому +21

      Finaly poeple with the ability to see things the way they really are

  • @crowe2670
    @crowe2670 4 роки тому +873

    Lea understands that she has her own issues and knowing how Shaun has a hard time handling his negative emotions, she didn't want to be the cause of him having breakdowns. I'm sure they'll be together someday but as of now, they both have a lot of growing to do and that's totally understandable.

    • @Mean.Devil77787
      @Mean.Devil77787 2 роки тому +1

      No one cares

    • @crowe2670
      @crowe2670 2 роки тому +11

      @@Mean.Devil77787 This comment was from a year ago. Obviously you care enough to reply lmao.

    • @peytongustafson2580
      @peytongustafson2580 Рік тому

      Well, the show went on, and they're amazing together

    • @nickr.2850
      @nickr.2850 Рік тому

      ​@@Mean.Devil77787 you care enough to act like a little bitch, so I guess someone cares lol.

    • @ImAgentK
      @ImAgentK 5 місяців тому

      ​@@crowe2670No one cares

  • @charlestoth5026
    @charlestoth5026 4 роки тому +1627

    I have Autism and when I told my girlfriend that I have it, she doesn't see me as an Autistic man. She sees the real me through my heart. And even though they're not dating, Shaun and Lea are like me and my girlfriend. This show means a lot to me and Shaun is my hero because what I learn from him, I use it in my daily life. I'm not a surgeon but I use what he learns to my life and it helps me become a better man. Thank you, ABC, for green lighting this masterpiece. Thank you, David Shore, for creating Shaun. And more importantly, thank you, Freddie Highmore, for perfecting his Autistic speech patterns and mannerisms.

    • @fedoramcclaren4294
      @fedoramcclaren4294 4 роки тому +28

      I need to learn how you both do this, because I have such a difficult time in any close relationships based on autism.
      It isn't because of the autism itself, but what it entails, and how particular I am about how people communicate with me...
      It's tough.

    • @fedoramcclaren4294
      @fedoramcclaren4294 4 роки тому +8

      @@Rima27ify this is so sweeeet!!! I don't know you, But i appreciate you for being so kind and patient.

    • @Faithful1ne07
      @Faithful1ne07 4 роки тому +8

      Thank you for sharing your story! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @charlestoth5026
      @charlestoth5026 4 роки тому +8

      @@Faithful1ne07 It's my pleasure

    • @mrssmith7172
      @mrssmith7172 4 роки тому +6

      @@Rima27ify stay blessed

  • @samkpam
    @samkpam 4 роки тому +501

    Paige's acting is so underappreciated omg. And I'm pretty sure they both improvised most of this.

    • @whoisedie1127
      @whoisedie1127 3 роки тому +16

      If it is improvised, then that is hella impressive

    • @fartripper7598
      @fartripper7598 3 роки тому +49

      Paige Spara said that she was supposed to kiss his cheek and say “I’m so sorry, Shaun” before she walked out, but instead she just did what felt right for the scene. Both of their nonverbal acting is amazing in this scene

    • @trixieapacible3595
      @trixieapacible3595 3 роки тому +1

      So immersive right?

    • @Kovacsxmlbb
      @Kovacsxmlbb 2 роки тому +16

      @@fartripper7598 can see in this scene she wanted to give Shaun a kiss but decided against it and I think that adds more depth into the scene. Man this show is a roller coaster

    • @forrestwaves8214
      @forrestwaves8214 2 роки тому +14

      finally someone says it, even though i'm one year late, i think Paige is outstanding in all those heartbreaking scenes with Freddie

  • @kellharris2491
    @kellharris2491 4 роки тому +717

    Takening on a relationship with someone who has a disability is a challenge. And lea herself has her issues. I totally understand. She was honest about her doubts for the relationship.

    • @Trustyzaney
      @Trustyzaney 4 роки тому +22

      I agree. I wasn't even mad at her I just felt bad for Shaun. Not everyone is Saint Carly. Having a relationship with someone with a disability is a big responsibility especially when you have your own set of issues to deal with. Shaun just fell in love with the wrong person. He and Leah are great when they are together but how different would it be when they are in a committed relationship. They might end up being bad for each other. Great as friends but horrible as lovers.

    • @hotbabe8490
      @hotbabe8490 4 роки тому +11

      @@Sifat_Rashid why do u keep calling carly a whore??? what has she done?

    • @Trustyzaney
      @Trustyzaney 4 роки тому +1

      @Nicholas Jurai lol.. Possible..but for some reason I don't see shaun being that desperate

    • @lgm5064
      @lgm5064 4 роки тому +3

      It is a condition not a disability🙄

    • @lgm5064
      @lgm5064 4 роки тому

      @Nicholas Jurai 🤔

  • @Harry-bn5mp
    @Harry-bn5mp 4 роки тому +812

    As bad as I feel for Shaun, I completely understand her reasoning

    • @raymondhoogervorst3041
      @raymondhoogervorst3041 4 роки тому +57

      Same, she is afraid for the challenge, but I think they could do it. If anyone knows how to handle Shauns autism best, it's her.

    • @ArsArcanum
      @ArsArcanum 4 роки тому +4

      @@raymondhoogervorst3041 yep

    • @HopeUnquenchable
      @HopeUnquenchable 4 роки тому +12

      Red_Ray, IDK about that; speaking of women who “can handle his autism best,” both Carly and Claire seem to be stronger contenders for that. It’s just that Lea is the one _he_ loves, yet she’s the most unstable of the three ☝️

    • @claireakaforestgreenorgang9506
      @claireakaforestgreenorgang9506 4 роки тому +5

      @@HopeUnquenchable Carly is too uptight, snooty, hyperserious, etc.so for Shaun it's either Lea, or Claire, or someone new. Oops, Claire is with Melendez, so for Shaun it's either Lea or someone new. NOT CARLY!

    • @hamburg1306
      @hamburg1306 4 роки тому

      Not authentic to her character. Writers and producers pulling rug out from under them and by extension the audience.

  • @doodars9357
    @doodars9357 4 роки тому +226

    It’s better that she was honest, rather than lying and going out with him out of pity.

  • @IBEtripz
    @IBEtripz 4 роки тому +399

    If she didnt express herself and then just jumped into a relationship and they had problems everyone would say “u knew he had autism why did u get in a relationship if u knew u couldnt handle it” this had to happen first

    • @mariaserrano2953
      @mariaserrano2953 4 роки тому +18

      Tripz Tristan EXACTLY!! Can they not see both sides of the story?

    • @a_noelle8595
      @a_noelle8595 4 роки тому +20

      THIS!!!! But most people aren't looking at it maturely. They just want to rush the romance.

    • @neecey2222
      @neecey2222 4 роки тому +13

      Tripz Tristan on top of that. He just got out of a relationship. 🤔 they a lot to talk about before rushing into a relationship.

    • @neecey2222
      @neecey2222 4 роки тому +13

      Tripz Tristan this is a legit concern. We got a glimpse of how Shaun acts with Lea. I’m not completely sure he can handle it. It’s one thing being friends and it’s another thing being in a relationship. Carly and Lea are two different people. I can imagine how their relationship will go.

    • @rafaelserranohernandez6426
      @rafaelserranohernandez6426 4 роки тому +1

      OMG that is so true!

  • @zellar8054
    @zellar8054 4 роки тому +183

    Can’t help but think of “I may not be a smart man, but I know what love is.”-Forrest Gump

  • @dyronlackrage1857
    @dyronlackrage1857 4 роки тому +143

    The moment she said "but" that was it.

    • @cwp4eva
      @cwp4eva 4 роки тому +8

      Dyron Lackrage believe me when you tell someone how you feel and they say the word “but” it’s all over

    • @Rainbow8558
      @Rainbow8558 4 роки тому +4

      I was waiting that "but" thing...It just coudnt be perfect

    • @unsalted_pepper550
      @unsalted_pepper550 4 роки тому

      There's always a 'but'

    • @filmingstorm8760
      @filmingstorm8760 3 роки тому

      It was at this moment, that he knew he was fucked up

  • @annafarabee2814
    @annafarabee2814 4 роки тому +306

    I think lea is just unable to be in a relationship with anyone and she cares about Shaun so she doesn’t want to start something knowing she’s gonna mess up and hurt him. Lea doesn’t like anything that’s hard. She wants easy and not serious. Shaun would be hard and serious. She’s not good at commitment. I think after she loses him as a friend and really thinks bout it she will go to him and ask for him back

  • @sapphicsx
    @sapphicsx 4 роки тому +2443

    *AT LEAST SHE’S HONEST* women have a choice to say no.

    • @queenminks28xd64
      @queenminks28xd64 4 роки тому +70

      Yeah things can't be forced. Sean needs to let her come to him. He needs to go out and experience himself way more than just one girlfriend before leah. Leah is too much for him.

    • @harryk1126
      @harryk1126 4 роки тому +2

      @@queenminks28xd64 Lea or Leah?
      I'm confused now 😂

    • @icecubesbrother
      @icecubesbrother 4 роки тому +41

      Of course a woman can. But choosing not to be with someone you love is a hard choice and who you may choose who is convenient, or easy, tends not be as much emotion, or connection. If that doesn't work out, many women start to say there isnt any men available.

    • @WhatsCookingTime
      @WhatsCookingTime 4 роки тому +12

      Yeah of courseshe has a right to say no however in life fortune favors the bold and it's better to at least give it a shot

    • @quietstorm7684
      @quietstorm7684 4 роки тому +2

      @@harryk1126 Lea

  • @ignitetheinferno1858
    @ignitetheinferno1858 4 роки тому +1039

    Lea's not rejecting him because of his autism. She had zero problems in the past with it. She has always treated him as a person.
    What she _is_ doing is choosing to prioritize his happiness over what she wants.
    That's what she was trying to tell Shawn. "I know you love me, I love you too. But you need someone who is stable and predictable. But I'm not her and you would eventually grow to resent and hate me for it."
    This is one of those scenes that has awarded my faith in Lea.

    • @househead67
      @househead67 4 роки тому +16

      if "Lea's not rejecting him because of his autism", why didn't she answer his question though?

    • @ignitetheinferno1858
      @ignitetheinferno1858 4 роки тому +74

      @@househead67 because the autism is an issue. Not for her, but him. And Lea knows this.
      Despite all his progress, he still is extremely hampered by it. We've seen what happens when he becomes confused, frustrated or bad things happen. It's a lot harder for him to handle and he comes apart. We saw what happened after Carly broke up with him. And he even told Carly that he loved her, he loved Lea more though. Imagine what would happen if they hit rough times.
      And despite what they feel for each other, Lea understands extremely well that her personality will cause him more stress and issues than she's willing to put him through.
      So yes, Lea has an issue with it: what it can potentially do to Shawn if he gets involved emotionally with her. She refuses to hurt him like that.
      It's actually what she tried explaining to him as simply as she could but I don't think he understood it. That's why she didn't reply to his question, because she knew that he couldn't understand what she was trying to say.

    • @darflexswolez2266
      @darflexswolez2266 4 роки тому +15

      It's not you it's me. gtfoh 😂

    • @laisfrederick5470
      @laisfrederick5470 4 роки тому +3

      You said exactly what I as thinking. Thank you

    • @cozzycave
      @cozzycave 4 роки тому +9

      @@househead67 because the autism is something really hard to deal with (for Shaun and people around him), she was trying to say she is not good with solid relationships and Shaun's condition would ask for a solid one with someone who is not a complete mess. I understand Lea, because I'm just like her, I may love people but I better never get in a relationship with them cause I'm not a predictable and I'm always changing my mind about my feelings. I would never date someone with autism once I know would break his heart. It's not easy to be in the spectrum and it's not easy to be like Lea too. This relationship would be a mess, they need some time to figure out how to do it.

  • @rinatpeled5568
    @rinatpeled5568 11 місяців тому +18

    Page's acting level is no less than Freddie's...she is amazing!!

    • @briancarmon6627
      @briancarmon6627 11 місяців тому +5

      Thank you. She's so underrated. Her facial expressions are everything.

    • @tomtimcik4264
      @tomtimcik4264 8 місяців тому

      I agree. She is an outstanding actress.

  • @BatsonicAbie
    @BatsonicAbie 4 роки тому +59

    My boyfriend has autism, high functioning. It’s not always easy, but it’s nowhere near impossible. We love each other so much. Sometimes when we video chat, he just sits there and admires me. He’s the sweetest man I have ever met. The downside is that I have witnessed a couple meltdowns in the 13 months we’ve been together. I’m learning his triggers, and even how to calm him down from meltdowns. Being with him has opened my eyes so much, and I’m truly blessed to call him mine. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @Mean.Devil77787
      @Mean.Devil77787 2 роки тому

      No one cares

    • @BatsonicAbie
      @BatsonicAbie 2 роки тому +3

      @@Mean.Devil77787 No one asked you

    • @muhdsyakiib8798
      @muhdsyakiib8798 2 роки тому +1

      @@BatsonicAbie agreed

    • @mindmaster58
      @mindmaster58 Рік тому

      I'm an autistic filmmaker and made a shortfilm about autism. I hope you like it! ua-cam.com/video/dr4bX8qmed0/v-deo.html

    • @meganwalshe7
      @meganwalshe7 Рік тому

      This is so beautiful😩💛

  • @JOMNIplays
    @JOMNIplays 3 роки тому +31

    Feel bad for him, he was crying not cause he got rejected, but why he got rejected, and it was something he was really insecure about and can’t change

  • @moninaong1999
    @moninaong1999 4 роки тому +83

    Paige did a great job on playing Lea, this scene broke me (of course first time seeing Lea cry) I hope she can spend more seasons on the show 💛

  • @tomboyraider1015
    @tomboyraider1015 2 роки тому +17

    Lea is just so pretty in this scene! Even with tears in her eyes. Paige is just so gorgeous!

  • @kibriaemon6195
    @kibriaemon6195 4 роки тому +277

    I am actually glad the way everything went on. Everyone was 100% honest with everyone. I also liked that lea left without hugging becoz that hug would cause even more pain. And finally, carly....what a woman!...girlfriend or not i hope she remains a good friend to shaun becoz he needs her. The show has been a gem, although didn't like hugging with the gown on near the autopsy table and the fake liver he was holding...could have been a bit more realistic.

    • @Cherry2k3
      @Cherry2k3 4 роки тому

      kibria emon i knoww no hug soo thats a good sign lol hopefully she figures her messed out! 😂

    • @sea1262
      @sea1262 4 роки тому

      The original version is better I think

    • @Andre12241
      @Andre12241 4 роки тому +3

      @@sea1262 the acting is better here ngl. At least, that's my opinion

  • @travisgoonan7667
    @travisgoonan7667 4 роки тому +101

    As a person on the autism spectrum, this scene really makes me feel like crying. It may be fictional, but the struggles we go through, the emotional pain that we feel is all too real.

    • @jaypaint4855
      @jaypaint4855 2 роки тому +2

      Freddie Highmore really nails it

    • @mindmaster58
      @mindmaster58 Рік тому

      I'm an autistic filmmaker and made a shortfilm about autism. I hope you like it! ua-cam.com/video/dr4bX8qmed0/v-deo.html

    • @chris-cy5ed
      @chris-cy5ed 9 місяців тому

      I think there's nothing wrong with people or yourself at all it's just a way to make people think something is wrong when really all autistic is a made up word to stop People from knowing you as Geniuses with out a problem at all most everyone doesn't deserve y'alls kindness and angel sent spirit and replaced the word Genius with autistic because they dont want you to change the world and take the mean peoples power! No such thing as autism being bad or anything in My Opinion
      ,they matrix already tries to make people feel dumber down and mind controls pchsy-ops ,etc... they are scared of your power because you can save the world and a lot of people dont like what they dont understand if a WORD is attached to it they act like sheep and jus believe it instead of saying like me the word should be Angel's and Geniuses , ! Love❤ GoD bless

  • @Brandyiswonderfullymade
    @Brandyiswonderfullymade 4 роки тому +52

    Dr. Glassman already knew that she could break Shaun's heart , this will affect them too

  • @hendrickthedude4564
    @hendrickthedude4564 4 роки тому +145

    Aleast she was honest about being selfish. But i completely understand her reasons. I still feel for Shaun. Not being brought up the right life he wanted as a kid. And with especially being a kid. You need those life skills, adventures, fun, etc... it's just a learning curve for Shaun

  • @ashtonnikki22
    @ashtonnikki22 4 роки тому +356

    Wow such a great scene.
    You can tell Lea loves him. It may seem harsh but he needed to hear it. Lea isn't like Carly. Lea doesn't have her stuff together. She's still figuring her stuff out. An it is the honest truth he can't handle that. She loves him. But his autism does get in the way of him being able to handle someone like Lea. Plus the fact is she loves him to much to want to hurt him in that way.
    Yes rejection does suck. However he should be able to tell that it's not him. It's more her than anything. If she was more like Carly I don't think she'd be having such a battle with herself. Cause if the fans couldn't tell you can clearly see her wanting to say just fuck it but than she snaps back. Her voice cracks are everything.

    • @blackalphagaming8010
      @blackalphagaming8010 4 роки тому +20

      Well said. He needs to move the hell on and I hope carly doesn't take him back

    • @YC_001
      @YC_001 4 роки тому +4

      Gaming RəBORN not gonna happen most likely they will get together by the season finale

    • @a_noelle8595
      @a_noelle8595 4 роки тому +2

      @@YC_001 they who? Shaun and Carly or Shaun and Lea?
      You know what, either way, I'd be disappointed. Honestly. That would be disappointing for me to see him end the season getting together with either of these women.

    • @bigang1454
      @bigang1454 4 роки тому +15

      It's interesting that from an outside perspective, most people would look at this relationship and be tempted to think that Shaun's autism would be a huge burden for HER to bear. They might assume that she would be the one doing all the heavy lifting. But, clearly Lea doesn't feel that way. Quite the contrary, she looks at this situation and thinks that she is the one with problem not him, and that she would be too much for him (or anyone) to handle.
      But, relationships should never be onesided, anyway. People are supposed to lift each other up and share each others burdens, together.
      But, if you ask me, Shaun's autism isn't really the issue here. In fact, it might be the main reason that these two work so well together. Bottom line: Lea's scared. Call me crazy, but I think that she'll be given the opportunity to work through her fears. Same as Shaun.

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 4 роки тому +2

      @@Sifat_Rashid he's not with Carl !get over it stop trolling and pasting the same comment everywhere it's getting old.

  • @jareththegoblinking3191
    @jareththegoblinking3191 4 роки тому +82

    I understand she's scared and was honest with him but everyone gets scared of being in a relationship with someone, she should embrace what she feels for him and go for it

  • @sonarikasen3328
    @sonarikasen3328 2 роки тому +3

    The cinematography is so perfect. The door closes and Shaun's tear falls. Beautiful picturisation.

  • @princevegeta822
    @princevegeta822 4 роки тому +71

    The word "but" is an enemy of everyone hearing it...

    • @oshanepatterson5452
      @oshanepatterson5452 4 роки тому +1

      True, “But I have other plans, I already have a date with nick.” One of the worse words to hear from a girl.

  • @haneylenegarzon5937
    @haneylenegarzon5937 4 роки тому +138

    she loves him but she know that if they will be boyfriend and girlfriend she knows that shaun will be hurt. 😢

  • @butterflyhippie123
    @butterflyhippie123 4 роки тому +87

    This moment did not go how i imagined. Lea actually opened up and was honest with Shaun. Her doubts make a lot of sense. She didn't deny her feelings for Shaun. I'm very curious to know where things will go now in terms of their friendship.

  • @2bored2care23
    @2bored2care23 4 роки тому +8

    The direction in this scene is great. The awkward silence at the end instead of the typical dramatic blowout is way more realistic

    • @bigang1454
      @bigang1454 4 роки тому +3

      I agree! I'm not sure if you're aware of this, but Freddie Highmore actually directed this episode. I think he did an amazing job!

  • @MemoInLondon
    @MemoInLondon 4 роки тому +60

    On the bright side, one of the producers of the show has stated he also wants shawn to end up with lea, but its got to grow and it will take time, I'm sure they will find the way to work things out and conquer their fears together.

  • @camiloiribarren1450
    @camiloiribarren1450 4 роки тому +10

    It’s good to know that they both truly understand each other and that they know how the other person is. This is truly the most human and realistic way things can go until they can learn how to deal with themselves on their own. Truly heartbreaking but also self-aware

  • @tonypayne3903
    @tonypayne3903 3 роки тому +3

    HUGE congrats on reaching the 1 Million view mark! 6th Season 3 video to do it, and the FOURTH “Shea” video from S3!!
    I just love that whether sad, angry, hopeful, or happy, the story of Shaun and Lea resonates so strongly with so many!

  • @JohnsHobbyHut
    @JohnsHobbyHut 4 роки тому +70

    I really don't think she meant what Shaun thought... I do think she doesn't think she's good enough to be with him. You can see she loves him, but worries about hurting him. I mean, Lea is the complete opposite of Carly. Lea has seen how well Shaun and Carly worked together, and that's what is hold her back. By the end of the season, Lea and Shaun will most likely be together.

    • @mduar1000
      @mduar1000 4 роки тому +4

      BibliophileColorist exactly. She was literally listing her insecurities and implied how he’s so good that she feels she’s not on the same level

    • @raigencaziere4087
      @raigencaziere4087 4 роки тому +2

      Jesus CHRIST thank you for pointing out exactly what I'm thinking

    • @katy98x100
      @katy98x100 4 роки тому +2

      This season I dont think so, maybe next one 🤞🏻

    • @abinb100
      @abinb100 4 роки тому

      Wow they are together now

  • @Urbxx
    @Urbxx 4 роки тому +8

    Duuuude, what a heavy scene, it broke my heart. (They both played the characters so well!)

  • @amydanko7318
    @amydanko7318 4 роки тому +61

    Lea loves Shaun so much that if things didn't work out for them, she would be utterly destroyed. She's scared, and she doesn't think she's good enough for him. Look at how she talked herself down to Shaun--"I'm selfish, I'm so, so needy, I'm a total mess." But I believe they will et there. #Shea all the way!

  • @jhonames29
    @jhonames29 4 роки тому +51

    Shaun: i love u lea
    Lea: me too
    Shaun: yes
    Lea: SIKKKKKEEE

  • @KevGorge86
    @KevGorge86 4 роки тому +39

    This scene leaves me with a broken heart. My son and the center of my universe has autism-that and my interest in medical drama series shows drew me to this show. Definitely one of the best shows on tv in my humble opinion. I knew they had a closeness and new he had feelings for Lea but I was always team Carly. I can’t imagine my son coming to me with tears in eyes telling me a woman doesn’t love him specifically because he has autism. I think I would guy cry. I really am impatient to see what happens on the next episode.

    • @a_noelle8595
      @a_noelle8595 4 роки тому +6

      I think you're missing what isn't said but shown in these scenes. Lea absolutely isn't saying no to a relationship "just because he has autism". I also hope your child never has occasion to say this to you, or to feel that way. But that's not what's happening here. Lea loves Shaun and the thought of losing him in the way she's lost every boyfriend before scares her so she doesn't want to risk not having him in her life at all. She basically said, I know I'd be the problem. I know we'd end because of how "I am".

    • @HopeUnquenchable
      @HopeUnquenchable 4 роки тому +5

      A_Noelle, I can definitely relate to this: some people are just better people as friends than as lovers/in a romantic relationship. Something changes in the dynamic when they go from just being friends to being romantically attached: suddenly there are expectations that didn’t exist before, and expectations can so easily lead to resentment - either because those expectations are not being fulfilled, or because one or the other partner feels they’re being forced to fulfill expectations they can’t keep fulfilling.
      As pure friends, it’s a lot easier to just enjoy each other without demanding or expecting anything in particular: you give each other space, you’re there for each other whenever possible, but when it’s not possible, you don’t take offense because you respect each other’s separate lives and recognize that however/whenever either of you can enhance the other’s life, it’s not a foregone duty, but a gift 💝

    • @a_noelle8595
      @a_noelle8595 4 роки тому +3

      @@HopeUnquenchable Yes! This! You nailed it. Thank you.

  • @cluelessangel5292
    @cluelessangel5292 3 роки тому +2

    First clip ever I saw of this tv show. I'm hooked.

  • @LoveandLessons_Cambles
    @LoveandLessons_Cambles 4 роки тому +25

    It’s possible to love someone and be afraid of being with them because you are aware of your own flaws and toxicity.

  • @JOHNNYSGIRL1960
    @JOHNNYSGIRL1960 4 роки тому +31

    Can we give Paige Spara and Freddie Highmore an Emmy now? They are just so fantastic together. So much damn chemistry and so in sync...

  • @barbaratanzi
    @barbaratanzi 4 роки тому +23

    I love these two together (and not only the characters, I love their chemistry when they are on stage together), at this point I hope for a twist in the season finale because for me these two are soul mates!

  • @SimplySergMX_arts
    @SimplySergMX_arts 4 роки тому

    I cried in this episode, well I tear up pretty much on all of them episodes from day one. I love this show.

  • @archeantyl9452
    @archeantyl9452 4 роки тому +7

    Fantastic acting on both ends. Easily one of the most powerful scenes in the series

  • @alinareybey3263
    @alinareybey3263 4 роки тому +44

    Oh Shaun... this was a rough episode for him. 😞

  • @SJYNYC
    @SJYNYC 4 роки тому +17

    Some impressive acting from Paige Spara here. Anyway, I like how she self-aware and knows that she is selfish... but the irony is being concerned for Shaun getting hurt is very UNselfish. I think she will come around in time... the love is there.

  • @user000yt
    @user000yt Рік тому +8

    The part he says “you don’t want to be my boyfriend because I have autism” that’s hits hard

  • @everygorgeousmoment
    @everygorgeousmoment 4 роки тому +1

    This is crushing! Oh my god! I need to start watching this show - it's much better than I thought it would be!!

  • @rowanbarrie3692
    @rowanbarrie3692 4 роки тому +17

    A lot of people here are missing the point. Lea isn't rejecting him because he is autistic. She isn't saying she only sees him as a friend. She has issues of her own, and that's why. She is afraid of hurting him. Now is not the time to start jumping to conclusions. It seems like people don't want to give Lea a chance for character development or overcoming her own issues.

    • @tonypayne3903
      @tonypayne3903 4 роки тому +5

      Rowan Barrie
      THIS is what I’m talking about! Awesome answer! I really do hope that some serious character development is on the way for Lea. I think she’s more than earned it!!!

    • @claireakaforestgreenorgang9506
      @claireakaforestgreenorgang9506 4 роки тому +4

      @@tonypayne3903 Lea is soooooooooooooo much better than Carly personality wise; she just needs to "find herself", that's all. I can't stand Carly's hyperserious personality. Yes, she's too uptight & serious even by a doctor's standards.

    • @Anapaulasgd23
      @Anapaulasgd23 4 роки тому

      @@claireakaforestgreenorgang9506 true!!!

    • @rowanbarrie3692
      @rowanbarrie3692 4 роки тому +1

      Also, the Carly haters were annoying...but I have just about had it up to here with the Lea haters.

  • @joannematthews8270
    @joannematthews8270 4 роки тому +41

    I remember Claire warning him that he would get his heart broken more than once, and lose jobs more than once too (episode where Shaun gets fired). Still, rejection hurts like hell.

  • @Samyais25
    @Samyais25 4 роки тому +4

    I have asperger syndrome, i felt this so many times. I appreciate everytime someone's honest about me and how hard could it be for them to enter a relationship, but it still hurts all the time.

    • @mindmaster58
      @mindmaster58 Рік тому

      I'm an autistic filmmaker and made a shortfilm about autism. I hope you like it! ua-cam.com/video/dr4bX8qmed0/v-deo.html

  • @MsInteresting
    @MsInteresting 3 роки тому

    The Good Doctor tends to literally have everybody feeling emotional and in tears.

  • @tiagopatricio3805
    @tiagopatricio3805 Рік тому +3

    How far they've come!!!

  • @SublimeMarc
    @SublimeMarc 4 роки тому +85

    He looks like Norman Bates in this scene

    • @harshittyagi8221
      @harshittyagi8221 4 роки тому +4

      now he will 👗 like norma and🔪🔪🔪

    • @jamesdinkinslll
      @jamesdinkinslll 4 роки тому

      SublimeMarc Well, duh, because that is him and that's Freddie Highmore who played Norman Bates.

    • @brendavanin7754
      @brendavanin7754 4 роки тому

      @@harshittyagi8221 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @NawazAli09
      @NawazAli09 4 роки тому

      SublimeMarc hey dear does anybody have second seasons full episodes please share with me

  • @nidashaikh1412
    @nidashaikh1412 2 роки тому

    I love the beauty of this scene.......two people trying best to be in a relationship,coming to the out where they have let their vulnerabilities all out and still trying to go on.......it's just so raw n good

  • @augustriley6752
    @augustriley6752 2 роки тому +1

    I need someone to come and put my heart back together after watching this😢

  • @Cruzan9
    @Cruzan9 4 роки тому +16

    It's good to see her be real about this and not blow it off. As disappointing as it is to Shaun it's better that she's honest. I can see them experiencing different challenges than he did with Carly just like I can see them making it work. Maybe she'll get past her concerns and take a chance.

    • @claireakaforestgreenorgang9506
      @claireakaforestgreenorgang9506 4 роки тому +1

      @Cruzan9 I fervently hope so! I choose Lea over Carly because Lea is bubbly & fun. Whereas Carly is snooty, stuffy, hyperserious, uptight...it's obvious!!!!!! Yes, Lea needs to sober up a little bit, but not too much or she'll become just like Carly, & that will be awful.

  • @marlenec1600
    @marlenec1600 4 роки тому +10

    This was heartbreaking for the both of them. It is terrifying for anyone to say that you love someone but Shaun took the leap of faith. Lea left speechless at the very end when she normally has a lot to say speaks volumes. She really loves Shaun and was honest enough to admit that she is flawed and still has to get her life together. It’s not that she thinks Shaun couldn’t handle her selfishness and neediness and messiness. It’s more like her having doubts if she could handle being in a relationship with him. I’m sure they will find their way to each other eventually.

  • @kevenleigh9407
    @kevenleigh9407 11 місяців тому +2

    Everyone is talking abour shaun and the acting behind the character. But holly shit is leas actress so damb good at portraying those emotions.

  • @puddinstudios8139
    @puddinstudios8139 4 роки тому +15

    I just knew a "but" was coming

  • @kaiqin4289
    @kaiqin4289 4 роки тому +5

    She said I love you too... foreseeing the happy ending

    • @tvlife3759
      @tvlife3759 4 роки тому

      True

    • @pomerlain8924
      @pomerlain8924 4 роки тому +2

      Yep. And at that point, it wasn't an issue with Shaun. It was her. She thought her flaws (messiness, neediness, selfishness) would be too much for Shaun, and she didn't want to hurt him and ruin their friendship. It wasn't until she heard Shaun say the she made him more, that she realized that he could deal with all her flaws, as she made him a better person.

  • @kingdragold8697
    @kingdragold8697 4 роки тому +105

    Damn man knew she was gonna break his heart hope they end up together soon

    • @hotbabe8490
      @hotbabe8490 4 роки тому +5

      its karma!

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 4 роки тому +12

      She already said she only wanted to be friends, not a couple. Previously.

    • @saladfingersasmrparty9768
      @saladfingersasmrparty9768 4 роки тому

      hotbabe how?

    • @hotbabe8490
      @hotbabe8490 4 роки тому

      @@saladfingersasmrparty9768 he was dishonest with her! how many times did he say he loves carly and not interested with lea only to flipped so fast in the end! He broke carly's heart! Now both girls dumped him!

    • @saladfingersasmrparty9768
      @saladfingersasmrparty9768 4 роки тому +1

      hotbabe eh true I didn’t like how they made carly a “practice girlfriend”

  • @charlesweil8035
    @charlesweil8035 4 роки тому +3

    Freddie Highmore is such an incredible actor who deserves to win an Emmy for this brilliant role!!

  • @sumayyahfarah9138
    @sumayyahfarah9138 3 роки тому +1

    Broke my heart in a million pieces

  • @CarPsycho
    @CarPsycho 4 роки тому +9

    It's crazy to think I went to school with this woman. Washington high school Washington PA. She graduated in 2008 and I in 2009. I've done many plays with her while in school. I'm happy for her accomplishments.

    • @tonypayne3903
      @tonypayne3903 4 роки тому +2

      I'm jealous, but also very happy for you. It's always great when someone can be a positive light for your hometown & high school. I've read articles where she said acting is her lifelong passion, and so I greatly enjoy seeing dreams like that come true.

  • @najeshafrosefaisal771
    @najeshafrosefaisal771 3 роки тому +3

    Lea is such a real actress. she deserve to get more screen time.

  • @elizabethviolen7278
    @elizabethviolen7278 3 роки тому

    Thanks for this movie... I love it

  • @hotd0gbun
    @hotd0gbun 3 роки тому

    That tear that.....THAT GOD DAMN TEAR
    His posture his face I just wanna hug him and just squeeze him

  • @mandimoos
    @mandimoos 4 роки тому +45

    She loves him, she does, I think it’s going to come out in the end, but let’s hope it’s not too late

  • @tonypayne3903
    @tonypayne3903 4 роки тому +12

    As hard as the end of the scene was, I do admire Lea for asking Shaun to say what was on his mind. She must have known what he wanted to say, but she didn't give some preemptive friend zone speech, or tell Shaun "before you say anything....". Even if she wasn't ready to act on that love she had for him, it was clear that she DID care deeply about him!

    • @meekee0015
      @meekee0015 4 роки тому +2

      It's so good to know the NOW SHE'S READY to act on her love for Shaun and they will be a couple! They were meant to be together from the beginning. That was the show's ceators intention as well.

    • @tonypayne3903
      @tonypayne3903 4 роки тому +1

      I like how David Shore allowed this to grow into something special. Shaun & Lea just fit. Even through their struggles, it’s clear that the love is there!

  • @silvertemplar8061
    @silvertemplar8061 3 роки тому +2

    I think what ends up making it sadder, is that he just stands there solid, and unmoving and he is just holding back the tide of hurt and grief.

  • @adelchakib
    @adelchakib 4 роки тому +2

    This is the most heartbreaking friend zone i ever seeing i cried 😦😣😢😢😣😦

  • @czarnyb3398
    @czarnyb3398 4 роки тому +6

    That Lea's "mmm" after Shaun said "because i have autism?"

  • @QuEsT_X
    @QuEsT_X 4 роки тому +29

    The Jenny to his Forrest gump and we all know how this story will end. This was exactly like the forrest gump scene where forrest ask jenny to marry him but she shoots him down and we all know how that played out I think they are going in that direction with them

    • @CC-hj1xk
      @CC-hj1xk 4 роки тому

      QuEs T X. boXiNg: WOW! I never thought of it in that way before but I think you just might be right!

    • @QuEsT_X
      @QuEsT_X 4 роки тому +2

      @@CC-hj1xk she more than likely will do just as jenny did sleep with shaun get pregnant and will bail on him we've seen this too many times with these situations people who have complex disorders having children with women or men who like them and care for them maybe even love them but cant handle everything that comes with them leia has always been flakey can anyone honestly say she'd be a great wife, or mother or even long term partner to shaun no . I see by seasons end her and Shaun sleeping together and then she will leave and comeback pregnant

    • @payasiitos
      @payasiitos 4 роки тому

      QuEsT X. BoXiNg Lmao, this story is based on a Korean/Japanese drama, trust me, Lea ain’t leaving and they end up together in the end.

  • @MrVicman92
    @MrVicman92 4 роки тому +2

    Honestly... What a beautiful scene

  • @SAM90909
    @SAM90909 2 роки тому +2

    I cried after door closed.

  • @kai2bold29
    @kai2bold29 4 роки тому +4

    Shaun is very cute I feel so bad about the way she talked about herself Shaun is very good and nice person he comforted her

  • @dicloniusgames
    @dicloniusgames 4 роки тому +3

    Shaun swung for the fence and you've got to give it to him. It takes not only courage, but guts to tell someone that you love them, and which ever way it turns out, you've got to give Shaun credit as well as another phenomenal performance from Freddie Highmore.
    It's moments like this that make me appreciate the show for what it is, especially for being on the spectrum, I can somewhat relate to the character of Shaun Murphy.

  • @deemanofhisword
    @deemanofhisword 4 роки тому

    You're not even in the room and yet you can feel the emotion so clearly around you...😢

  • @tokamnich4709
    @tokamnich4709 4 роки тому +1

    'im a challenge for anyone... and you are you" the exact words that betrayed him

  • @stephenstromhenriksen4995
    @stephenstromhenriksen4995 4 роки тому +6

    hope that they can work this out since they both love each other. I want shawn to be happy and I also want lea to be happy too

  • @bladecruz8252
    @bladecruz8252 Рік тому +3

    Bruh he is the perfect man like bruh he is faithful honest kind smart why would you not want him other

  • @herilparis9508
    @herilparis9508 4 роки тому +2

    I understand her....I also felt same way with someone who wasn't autistic. When she said that she's a challenge for anyone, it hit me so hard. It reminds me of myself. I'm really a challenge for anyone...not just love but also friendships, family etc. It's just so hard...

  • @shan_alriel
    @shan_alriel 4 роки тому

    Dang, I'm too busy with school that I missed so many good episode of Good Doctor 😭😭

  • @Davey97
    @Davey97 4 роки тому +8

    I like the lack of relationships in the show. Things are less difficult without them. Its like what Shaun told Glassman,' I liked it better when it was just the two of us.'

  • @meekee0015
    @meekee0015 4 роки тому +5

    But after the hopelessness of the s03e16, there's the happy hope of the end of s03e20. "I love you with all my heart." and "You make me more Shaun".
    I wish all the Shaun and Lea shippers a happy, blessed Easter Festivities, and God's blessings in these sad lonely and infectious times. But heads up, their love will win as well as our root for them.

  • @carolrodriguez2902
    @carolrodriguez2902 3 роки тому

    This show hurts my feelings the actors the story pulls on my heart strings i can't😭

  • @sninolaw3103
    @sninolaw3103 2 роки тому +1

    i cant believe this moment can happen in my life, thought it's just a film .but the moment she said being her love can be difficult for me, she don't think i should keep... haizz

  • @hectormartinezcarmona6123
    @hectormartinezcarmona6123 4 роки тому +23

    Lea's problem is that she doesn't have the courage to start a relationship with Shaun. He told her, I love you, but she must get in order first, so that she can take the next step with Shaun. It's a great scene, when Freddie sighs when he hears what Lea says he is great, she also can't express her feelings. This series is great, it is more useful to see it in order to understand the spectrum of autism than all the therapies in the world.

  • @kevinwaag9976
    @kevinwaag9976 4 роки тому +8

    Damn Paige owned that scene!!!! and Freddie with the subtle work on the eyes ?! Seriously they need a grammy or something!! The amount of world breaking scenes Freddie has is enormous!!!!

    • @claireakaforestgreenorgang9506
      @claireakaforestgreenorgang9506 4 роки тому +1

      An Oscar, you mean, or an Emmy. One of the two. Grammy is for music. I know that because I am a music geek.

  • @NutsAboutHarry
    @NutsAboutHarry 4 роки тому +2

    This whole scene broke my heart 😭😭😭😭

  • @CDOro
    @CDOro 4 роки тому +11

    she just thinks shaun is better off without her, because she knows she'll be bad for him. Reality baby

  • @atakeuchi_
    @atakeuchi_ 4 роки тому +3

    This was good...this is one of the struggles of loving someone who has autism. As a parent who has sees this struggle in my little boy...this hit me so hard. Knowing that they see things as black and white and you have to stand there and watch them struggle with it because you don’t know how to explain it any other way. Ugh! Tears! But at the end of the day...you just have to love them...that’s all...there’s nothing else.