Insta is a virtual world. My advice for young men is not to waste time & energies on Social media. Focus on your career goals & success. That is what a man is.
In my opinion! Attracting a woman requires genuine confidence, respect, and a calm demeanor. Instead of forcing interest, focus on personal growth, stay composed in her presence, and show empathy without losing self-esteem. Women are drawn to men who are thoughtful, direct, and display self-assuredness, making their company naturally intriguing and irresistible.
Just be yourself, and keep your calm if things don't go as planned. I also recommend reading first date playbook: a step by step guide to a great start. It will help you to understand how women think, and you will have some tricks in your sleeve if things go south.
Best 2 pieces of advice I can give, since ive been with my fair share of women. 1. Nobody is a 10. Always improve. Dont strive to be a 9.9, strive to be a 9.9 of yourself. Be fit. Happy. Funny. 2. Dont go after girls you like. Go after the girls that like you.
14:30 "A man selecting his woman wisely is him creating his brand." A brutal reduction of women right there Might be true at high level social gatherings, but must we bring the circus into our private life?
Here is the real advice. Do what you love. That puts your head in the correct space. Workout. After working out run your errands. The women that make themselves available to you at that time are for you. Try it for a month... 🎉
People think about this stuff way too much. If you need to work this hard at it, maybe it just isn't for you... use an escort or something. If you insist on kids, you will have to just keep lowering your standards until to get a catch. You will likely just waste a lot of time and money on various online pickup courses. The very worst part of it is this - you can get the woman of your dreams and after a few weeks of her, when you have an abundance of access and are totally secure in the relationship... it just won't feel that exciting anymore.
Indeed, once you make yourself the high value Chad and see all women coming for you like little schoolgirls (while half of them are married..) that is when they go back being among the last of priorities.
Totally agree this describes me I'd never waste money on courses 😅. It's either meant to be or not with women and you realise it from a young age. No amount of shitty courses is ever going to change yourself. My mate could naturally get any woman walking into bars and nightclubs when we were in our late teens/early twenties. If you can't reciprocate the same get over it asap and put yourself in different situations I dwelled on it too much in the past and it made me unhappy. Weirdly now I'm 31 I attract more women but just not that interested in them no more.
Boys, never ever listen to these woman or these red pill dudes . Talk to a grown man that’s married, has children, is doing well financially and above all is a Godly man.
Many "grown men" that’s married, has children, is doing well financially have been taken to cleaners by their Godly wives because they lacked the knowledge and guidance presented in the manosphere circles.
Why do so many people want to find a particular "type" in the first place? I know what character traits I find attractive. I am also aware of which cultural and social values I want to have in common with a partner. This notion of desiring a "type" reminds me of this saying: "Looking for a stereotype will keep you a monotype ". So, wassup??
12:00 Remember guys, this is HER ADVICE FROM HER MOMENT AT HER AGE. Go ask 18yo Sadia what she wants in a man and she'll have COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS TO SAY! Western female desire cycle: 15 - 25 Fun/Hot Guy 25-35 Mr Provider good with kids 35-45 Travel Guyssss 45-65 Gentleman Provider
I would like to add that a lot of times especially in certain cultures, women are trained to stay silent as young girls. In my culture there’s a saying told to women..it translates to “you are prettier when you stay quiet”😂 we often get told “no man is gonna want you if you run your mouth.” A lot of girls are taught to suppress their feelings to keep the peace and unfortunately this leads to resentment and anger with our husband’s as we get older because of the conditioning as young girls. Also if you were raised in a home where children are better seen and not heard you learn that your voice doesn’t matter and that bleeds into your relationships…
Because men are hypergamous in a sense that they'll pursue the most innocent woman he can find around to stablish a long term relationship. When women open their mouths too much, that potentially reveal how they are bitter, sneaky, traumatized, etc., thus reducing their desirability in the eyes of potential long term male partners.
1. Seasons? You mean hoe phase 😂 2. "I was into a specific type of guy, then that changed" - Translation - "I was into Chad Tyrone and Pookie and now I'm aging out. The guys i want don't want me" 3. Most of this is a monumental waste of time. A man can work on his character while focusing on fulfilling things in his life for himself. An actual good woman will cross paths with him while he's doing something he enjoys. She enjoys it as well making for a better pairing than just finding some random woman at a trashy bar or club. If you just wanna smash though then yeah, those latter places are great for that. Just don't cry about them later like some of these goofys do in their videos after choosing rotten women. 4. Buying a course on masculinity from a woman is like buying bait from a fish.
So, women don't have to work on themselves A lot of women need to change Why does it always have to be the men who have to change I agree that some men need to change for whatever the reason is Just because he rich does not mean you know him at all How can a man be selective if most women don't like or want the average man Don't they say it a number game and you have to hit on as many women as you can and hope that you hit on a woman that will give you a chance no matter if that for a date, sex or whatever because nowadays it hard as a guy to even get a woman to look at the average guy As a guy how am I supposed to know if she the one if most women won't give the average guy a chance to know which woman is right for him
Men who have fulfilled their potential get to skip the queue, get access to the prettiest girls who are in their prime. BUT, it's possibly the worst choice a women can make for her long term happiness and/or psychological well-being. Why isn't this topic more talked about? It's the reason behind why so many successful people end up in broken relationships, families, or have a new partner every few years/months. In general it's a horrible choice for a pretty girl who's looking for a loving, caring, successful long-term relationship to date high net-worth individuals, or very successful (sports) men.
I must be very different. I need a very intelligent woman in my life. It took me a long time to figure that out. Many men are afraid of intelligent women because most men gather much of their self esteem from their intelligence and their accomplishments through their mental work. Thus there is a strong tenancy to see intelligent women the way they see other intelligent men - competition. My view is that if we are working together, I want the most intelligent men and women to work with. Simple change, powerful results. Sadia, of course you are intelligent and thus I find you attractive. I am not pursuing you for many reasons.
BTW when they say looks arent a priority, they mean theyll settle for an 8 instead of a 10 The average man still gets treated like shit regardless of what "season" they are in lmao
That goes without saying, for women 80% of men are invisible, actually the average is a top 10% guy in real life she will settle for, in online dating it is sub 1%. Of course none of those guys will give him monogamous relationship, that is when they cry about men..
@@bandita2068that doesn’t make sense. Why would an average woman be able to attract a top 1% man without value to do so? This fear mongering has to stop
@@MichaelVance-el5mz everybody has their preference, women want that 6ft with the big figures and men want that super model. I think everyone has just turned their preferences to deal breakers...so its all a mess now.
16:10 Men do not want a woman who has been through multiple seasons. Interestingly enough, women desire the man for all seasons. This man is the rock on which a home can be built that will last generations.
WOW. I absolutely love the seasons description for women. Indeed. Totally my experience. I am 63 and my current boyfriend is 29. He is the kindest., romantic, loving, intelligent and thoughtful person. I’ve never dated younger before. It works bc we stimulate each other with the exchange of ideas, similar interests and a shared love of playful fun. He turned me on to UFC. I share cooking with him. Art. Music. So much we give to each other! And I’ve never laughed so much in my life, 😊
This explains why the more sex i started having the less sex i started having, now to none. i say what i want even though i know women might not like it and porn has made me stop having sex with less attractive women because i can find a new model everyday. there's pros and cons to everything. we gotta find what works for us i guess
11:30 Remember guys, NEVER ASK A FISH HOW TO CATCH A FISH. She says, The number one thing to be is Selective with women. Right? DO THE OPPOSITE. Treat ALL OF THEM like NONE of them are special, ESPECIALLY THE HOT ONES! And THEY will chase YOU. If you're high value and can keep her attention. You can do anything you want with women except bore them. We live in a circus, women have all the popcorn and corn dogs they can eat, what they want is to F*ck the clowns. Clown World. Be the Clown you were meant to be. Embrace Absurdity!
yeah i didn't understand how she rationalized women being with different men as "seasons" but men having different types or smashing different women is somehow not high value
Guys, just start a podcast, get a million followers and make some real money like Adam says, and it'll be so easy for you. Idk why you guys are making it difficult.
both of those women hang with multimillionaires. chances are they won't even talk too you unless you have 5 mil and thats just first base---no money. no honey
Insta is a virtual world. My advice for young men is not to waste time & energies on Social media. Focus on your career goals & success. That is what a man is.
Totally agree I wasted too much time chasing women looking back.
Bro. If you have game, you're fit, and attractive. All you need is to be in the right place or at the right time.
Yeah almost there
@@sevenstars4817 Keep grinding brother, and Enjoy the benefits once your make it. God bless
Yes sir
Same thing for getting mugged
@@joepharmasst sure i guess lol
In my opinion! Attracting a woman requires genuine confidence, respect, and a calm demeanor. Instead of forcing interest, focus on personal growth, stay composed in her presence, and show empathy without losing self-esteem. Women are drawn to men who are thoughtful, direct, and display self-assuredness, making their company naturally intriguing and irresistible.
I wouldn't even say it requires calm demeanor and respect. A lot of women love violent men.
Looks or money. The rest is BS. If you don't have one or both of those you're screwed.
Just be yourself, and keep your calm if things don't go as planned. I also recommend reading first date playbook: a step by step guide to a great start. It will help you to understand how women think, and you will have some tricks in your sleeve if things go south.
Understand how woman think? 😂. Seriously there’s no point in trying to understand them.
@@RobertM-dg6lethey can’t even understand themselves 😂
Credit must be given when credit is due: Sadia really knows her craft. Definitely the best that i have seen so far on UA-cam. Kudos
Best 2 pieces of advice I can give, since ive been with my fair share of women.
1. Nobody is a 10. Always improve. Dont strive to be a 9.9, strive to be a 9.9 of yourself. Be fit. Happy. Funny.
2. Dont go after girls you like. Go after the girls that like you.
The days of average men dating attractive women without wealth and status is over with smart phones and social media
Why were they able to date them in the first place?
Dating maybe not Intercourse .
@ dating involves intercourse. So there goes that argument
14:30
"A man selecting his woman wisely is him creating his brand."
A brutal reduction of women right there
Might be true at high level social gatherings, but must we bring the circus into our private life?
Here is the real advice. Do what you love. That puts your head in the correct space. Workout. After working out run your errands. The women that make themselves available to you at that time are for you. Try it for a month... 🎉
💯
Only do what you love? What if you HAVE to do something you don't love, are you not going to do it?
I love playing video games and eat Ice cream and sleep and I am 5 feet tall. (satire) No women chasing me... :(
@@bandita2068 you are called to be a priest
or, a monk
Fasadia khan and the adam the simp, what a match made in
People think about this stuff way too much. If you need to work this hard at it, maybe it just isn't for you... use an escort or something. If you insist on kids, you will have to just keep lowering your standards until to get a catch. You will likely just waste a lot of time and money on various online pickup courses. The very worst part of it is this - you can get the woman of your dreams and after a few weeks of her, when you have an abundance of access and are totally secure in the relationship... it just won't feel that exciting anymore.
Dude, loved your pragmatic approach on this.
Indeed, once you make yourself the high value Chad and see all women coming for you like little schoolgirls (while half of them are married..) that is when they go back being among the last of priorities.
Totally agree this describes me I'd never waste money on courses 😅. It's either meant to be or not with women and you realise it from a young age. No amount of shitty courses is ever going to change yourself. My mate could naturally get any woman walking into bars and nightclubs when we were in our late teens/early twenties. If you can't reciprocate the same get over it asap and put yourself in different situations I dwelled on it too much in the past and it made me unhappy. Weirdly now I'm 31 I attract more women but just not that interested in them no more.
Well said…
Sadia is the dream woman
Masculinity is demonized nowadays. Stay true to one's self. Be direct with honest intentions. Fear nothing but God. Keep going Kings! I salute you.
All about power….all of it.
This one really hit the mark....good one.
Sadia you are so smart. Everything u speak its true. I agree with many things.
I agree 100% with the seasons thingy with women.
Regarding 20-50 years ago...so true! You almost had to earn it!!🙀 Which IMO made it more fun! 👍
Boys, never ever listen to these woman or these red pill dudes . Talk to a grown man that’s married, has children, is doing well financially and above all is a Godly man.
Many "grown men" that’s married, has children, is doing well financially have been taken to cleaners by their Godly wives because they lacked the knowledge and guidance presented in the manosphere circles.
Why do so many people want to find a particular "type" in the first place? I know what character traits I find attractive. I am also aware of which cultural and social values I want to have in common with a partner.
This notion of desiring a "type" reminds me of this saying: "Looking for a stereotype will keep you a monotype ".
So, wassup??
💯💯💯💯
he did a good job illustrating the problem for men !
12:00 Remember guys, this is HER ADVICE FROM HER MOMENT AT HER AGE.
Go ask 18yo Sadia what she wants in a man and she'll have COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS TO SAY!
Western female desire cycle:
15 - 25 Fun/Hot Guy
25-35 Mr Provider good with kids
35-45 Travel Guyssss
45-65 Gentleman Provider
😂😂😂😂🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Faxxx😂
I would like to add that a lot of times especially in certain cultures, women are trained to stay silent as young girls. In my culture there’s a saying told to women..it translates to “you are prettier when you stay quiet”😂 we often get told “no man is gonna want you if you run your mouth.” A lot of girls are taught to suppress their feelings to keep the peace and unfortunately this leads to resentment and anger with our husband’s as we get older because of the conditioning as young girls. Also if you were raised in a home where children are better seen and not heard you learn that your voice doesn’t matter and that bleeds into your relationships…
Because men are hypergamous in a sense that they'll pursue the most innocent woman he can find around to stablish a long term relationship. When women open their mouths too much, that potentially reveal how they are bitter, sneaky, traumatized, etc., thus reducing their desirability in the eyes of potential long term male partners.
That's true though. No guy likes a big mouth.
What's your culture?
I’m super selective.
Be David Beckham... got it
1. Seasons? You mean hoe phase 😂
2. "I was into a specific type of guy, then that changed" - Translation - "I was into Chad Tyrone and Pookie and now I'm aging out. The guys i want don't want me"
3. Most of this is a monumental waste of time. A man can work on his character while focusing on fulfilling things in his life for himself. An actual good woman will cross paths with him while he's doing something he enjoys. She enjoys it as well making for a better pairing than just finding some random woman at a trashy bar or club. If you just wanna smash though then yeah, those latter places are great for that. Just don't cry about them later like some of these goofys do in their videos after choosing rotten women.
4. Buying a course on masculinity from a woman is like buying bait from a fish.
correct!
How to become member ..what is the procedure
So, women don't have to work on themselves
A lot of women need to change
Why does it always have to be the men who have to change
I agree that some men need to change for whatever the reason is
Just because he rich does not mean you know him at all
How can a man be selective if most women don't like or want the average man
Don't they say it a number game and you have to hit on as many women as you can and hope that you hit on a woman that will give you a chance no matter if that for a date, sex or whatever because nowadays it hard as a guy to even get a woman to look at the average guy
As a guy how am I supposed to know if she the one if most women won't give the average guy a chance to know which woman is right for him
Good Point
Tips for attracting an undercover bitter and twisted woman with delusions of grandeur like this - not
interested.
Well put
People put women on pedestals so easily
Men who have fulfilled their potential get to skip the queue, get access to the prettiest girls who are in their prime. BUT, it's possibly the worst choice a women can make for her long term happiness and/or psychological well-being. Why isn't this topic more talked about? It's the reason behind why so many successful people end up in broken relationships, families, or have a new partner every few years/months. In general it's a horrible choice for a pretty girl who's looking for a loving, caring, successful long-term relationship to date high net-worth individuals, or very successful (sports) men.
Never chase women...
A woman is a side quest for a man.
I must be very different. I need a very intelligent woman in my life. It took me a long time to figure that out. Many men are afraid of intelligent women because most men gather much of their self esteem from their intelligence and their accomplishments through their mental work. Thus there is a strong tenancy to see intelligent women the way they see other intelligent men - competition. My view is that if we are working together, I want the most intelligent men and women to work with. Simple change, powerful results. Sadia, of course you are intelligent and thus I find you attractive. I am not pursuing you for many reasons.
BTW when they say looks arent a priority, they mean theyll settle for an 8 instead of a 10
The average man still gets treated like shit regardless of what "season" they are in lmao
That goes without saying, for women 80% of men are invisible, actually the average is a top 10% guy in real life she will settle for, in online dating it is sub 1%. Of course none of those guys will give him monogamous relationship, that is when they cry about men..
@@bandita2068that doesn’t make sense. Why would an average woman be able to attract a top 1% man without value to do so? This fear mongering has to stop
How do we find the answer to his last question?
You don't need the course... Just stop picking women based on superficial traits and you'll be ok
well women are the ones who want the 666...so that is on them. We women regardless...well most of us do.
Bingo
@@MichaelVance-el5mz everybody has their preference, women want that 6ft with the big figures and men want that super model. I think everyone has just turned their preferences to deal breakers...so its all a mess now.
Men's only requirement is be > healthy (mentally and physically) there is nothing superficial about that...
@@bandita2068
Its unrealistic in an era of lazyness.
Here's what really works... Don't care to want a woman in your life else be prepared for a lifetime of punishment.
im gona go . . .
clean my feet now.
don't forget the backside
16:10 Men do not want a woman who has been through multiple seasons. Interestingly enough, women desire the man for all seasons. This man is the rock on which a home can be built that will last generations.
News flash. My late attractive wife loved my chest hair. Made her feel she was with a man. This is so ridiculous.😂
I wonder if this advice would apply fifty years ago!
Less complicated times
LOT'S OF LOVE LADY #SADIA ❤️💯
What podcast is this from?
Joe Rogan and bears.
WOW. I absolutely love the seasons description for women. Indeed. Totally my experience.
I am 63 and my current boyfriend is 29. He is the kindest., romantic, loving, intelligent and thoughtful person. I’ve never dated younger before. It works bc we stimulate each other with the exchange of ideas, similar interests and a shared love of playful fun. He turned me on to UFC. I share cooking with him. Art. Music. So much we give to each other! And I’ve never laughed so much in my life, 😊
This explains why the more sex i started having the less sex i started having, now to none. i say what i want even though i know women might not like it and porn has made me stop having sex with less attractive women because i can find a new model everyday. there's pros and cons to everything. we gotta find what works for us i guess
By that time she already has been run through by many who came there before you.😮
💯💯
Play song ain't no thing like the real thing baby
11:30 Remember guys, NEVER ASK A FISH HOW TO CATCH A FISH.
She says, The number one thing to be is Selective with women.
Right?
DO THE OPPOSITE.
Treat ALL OF THEM like NONE of them are special, ESPECIALLY THE HOT ONES! And THEY will chase YOU.
If you're high value and can keep her attention.
You can do anything you want with women except bore them.
We live in a circus, women have all the popcorn and corn dogs they can eat, what they want is to F*ck the clowns.
Clown World. Be the Clown you were meant to be.
Embrace Absurdity!
yeah i didn't understand how she rationalized women being with different men as "seasons" but men having different types or smashing different women is somehow not high value
These people had it easy they old! Back in the them days it was easier
8:24 what an absolute load of crap 😂
I don't know if it's just me, but adam never brings substance to any conversation he has.
that is what life artist extroverts do, talk forever and saying nothing , but creates the feeling in a lot of dumb women they are confident
Seasons are the reasons for the bodies 😂
21 years old men should just pay it.
What does that mean?
Prossytution.
Guys, just start a podcast, get a million followers and make some real money like Adam says, and it'll be so easy for you. Idk why you guys are making it difficult.
Exactly. Having problems with women are only for broke guys.
Seasons? You mean like racking up bodies... 🤔
😂😂😂💯
This dudes emphasis on Sadia being beautiful hmmmmm. Anyway beautiful weather😂today
Sadia is cute
And she knows it.
that is not a big deal in the age of makeup, she is smart, which makes her dangerous
In 2024 almost nobody is interested anymore.
Book a flight to an Asian country. Passport Bro's
Nope they are even worse goldiggers. And expect you to support their family.
How about if we just... do not?
Women in this day and age are a liability.
💯💯🎯
Wetern women and the self confusion. When women want to play games we win by not playing at all. Western women are not to be taken seriously.
Exactly 💯💯💯💯🎯 !
Ya, if a guy shows up in crocs.....dont bother.....
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Do not expect the whole truth from women 😂 it's either you big and strong or you are rich and well dressed🎉
both of those women hang with multimillionaires. chances are they won't even talk too you unless you have 5 mil and thats just first base---no money. no honey
This guy is all about himself 😂
Adam is such a creep when hes trying to flirt
This dude is how old and still talking like this? Sounds so childish. 🤔
this might be the most useless thing for older men as far as advice....lol
🌈💜🧚🎙️🦸💜🌈
This guy is a full zio
What is a zio?
@@HerveMendell zionist. I don't think Sadia would be talking to him if he was a zio because she loves palestine