moving out of my parents house as a 20-something african girl | let's unpack🤭🏠

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  • Here is the long awaited moving out q&a! I answered all your juicy questions concerning the moving process, how much I needed, how I broke it down to my parents etc. I hope you find it useful in one way or another. Enjoy!! ✨
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 64

  • @lysazm1934
    @lysazm1934 2 місяці тому

    Moved out in November Last year. I told my mum about it and my reasons for moving. There were tears but she acknowledged. My grandma though!!! "you're too young to be living alone. you're supposed to move when you get married. You don't want to be around me, that's why you're moving out".
    But I did and I am proud of myself for it. You were part of the inspiration actually.

  • @florencemwape84
    @florencemwape84 3 місяці тому +10

    This is really helpful for those of us who just left uni, do what you gotta do, people will always talk.

    • @NyembaTembo
      @NyembaTembo  3 місяці тому +2

      Yup! Tbh the biggest thing is being able to support yourself financially. If you can manage, shut out the noise and go for it🙌🏾

  • @Soulcare_chats
    @Soulcare_chats 3 місяці тому +4

    I love how real this video is especially the part about breaking it to your parents. Went through a similar experience when I told my parents I was moving to another town for a job……I felt like I was making the biggest mistake of my life to the point where I even thought something bad will happen on my way there and I cried most of the journey that strained our relationship but it’s all good now.I’ve come to understand that our parents are human beings with fears and we won’t always agree my only hope is they support a child even when they take the less traveled road. I guess you get to understand them as you grow

  • @upendongoma753
    @upendongoma753 3 місяці тому +4

    Really proud of you for standing your ground and trusting the peace that God gave you about making the decision❤

    • @NyembaTembo
      @NyembaTembo  3 місяці тому

      Thanks so much🥹🫶🏾

  • @changwethedoll705
    @changwethedoll705 3 місяці тому +3

    Love watching your growth 🥹 you’re so soft spoken and introspective ❤️ thank you for sharing your experience so refreshing ❤️

  • @PatriciaMusela
    @PatriciaMusela 3 місяці тому +1

    I think I needed this video the most. I moved out like 3 months ago, though my moving was coz of a transfer from work. It has been the most stressful journey of my life, the stressing part is dealing with annoying landlords. Those people just come out of nowhere and will say, "can you remove everything from your house and put them outside, we want to renovate our house" like come one, can you atleast act normal? I'm currently looking for another house to move into right now, coz I swear I've been stressed, I just don't have time to cry coz I'm too busy with work and life 😂😂
    This video has helped me to keep moving and find peace, though I know I will only find that peace when I move to another house.. Thanks girl for your content 💕💕

  • @BeeneNgululu
    @BeeneNgululu 3 місяці тому +2

    So inspiring and refreshing. The parent tea had me with popcorn in hand because yoh😂🍿

  • @AlesSpot
    @AlesSpot 3 місяці тому +3

    As a person That's been subscribed to this channel for about 4 years now, I believe we (subscribers) need to have a fan name. Idk if it's just me but it's been on my mind for a minute 😭

  • @mayaba.lbbune6456
    @mayaba.lbbune6456 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm not even close to moving out but, I still thoroughly related to this. Thank you for sharing

  • @tevinmukemu8442
    @tevinmukemu8442 3 місяці тому +1

    Heavy on the "I just cried till I was fine". The most real reaction lol

  • @mulakomubiana6572
    @mulakomubiana6572 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for teaaaa!!!this was really helpful☺️I have been planning on moving out for quite some time now and this just encouraged me

  • @joymasabarakiza2218
    @joymasabarakiza2218 3 місяці тому +1

    This was so informative! Thank you💕

  • @msf8297
    @msf8297 3 місяці тому +1

    my parents refused me to move out. waited for them to be at work and i was OUT!

  • @MumbaLaura
    @MumbaLaura 3 місяці тому +4

    Not them ignoring your key message 😂😂 25:49

  • @tevinmukemu8442
    @tevinmukemu8442 3 місяці тому

    This was really helpful and well elaborated, I love how African parents are the same lol

  • @Tashas_Travels
    @Tashas_Travels Місяць тому

    I would also suggest getting a cooker/stove first 16:10 and then a washing machine.
    But let me tell you, getting a washing machine is the best decision/investment you will make, it really saves time and also your “back” will thank you. I dont regret buying mine.😂😂😂

  • @ashleywomba
    @ashleywomba 3 місяці тому +1

    I can’t wait for the “peace” too 😂😂😂

    • @NyembaTembo
      @NyembaTembo  3 місяці тому +1

      You’ll enjoy it, trust me! 😂

  • @bwiyanechelelwa5600
    @bwiyanechelelwa5600 3 місяці тому +1

    You so prettyyyyyy ❤️

  • @sibesomukelelabo-pm5ic
    @sibesomukelelabo-pm5ic 3 місяці тому

    It's Tembo Tuesday yayy!
    💕

  • @makuwamambwe3736
    @makuwamambwe3736 3 місяці тому

    We are within! ❤❤❤

  • @didianakalobwe5524
    @didianakalobwe5524 3 місяці тому +2

    Really helpful insights.....soon be me

  • @JacklineMwila
    @JacklineMwila 3 місяці тому

    This was fun to watch 😊😅

  • @ceciliamukuka
    @ceciliamukuka 3 місяці тому

    I can’t wait to move out ciao 😂❤

  • @NGEVEMUSOLE
    @NGEVEMUSOLE 3 місяці тому

    Wish this video would last for ever 😂❤

  • @langilaaaaa1870
    @langilaaaaa1870 3 місяці тому

    Happy Tembo Tuesday!✨

    • @NyembaTembo
      @NyembaTembo  3 місяці тому

      Thanks and same to you!! 🤗🤗

  • @emmariaskitchen
    @emmariaskitchen 3 місяці тому

    I agree with the K30000. Moving is very expensive and you really don’t want to starve yourself to death whilst in your house. I think I even spent more than that

    • @NyembaTembo
      @NyembaTembo  3 місяці тому

      Yeah, I spent waayy more than that too, but I think it’s a good benchmark👌🏾

  • @ashleywomba
    @ashleywomba 3 місяці тому +1

    Same 😅 I like being alone too

    • @NyembaTembo
      @NyembaTembo  3 місяці тому +1

      There's just something about it!! 🥲

  • @KayxTee11
    @KayxTee11 3 місяці тому

    “I just cried till I was fine.” Lmaooo real💀

    • @NyembaTembo
      @NyembaTembo  3 місяці тому

      Gotta do watchu gotta do💀🤚🏾

  • @melissaphiri9270
    @melissaphiri9270 3 місяці тому

    Serving us always give us 🥹🥹😮‍💨😮‍💨

  • @yourfavmd
    @yourfavmd 3 місяці тому

    “Kukaba ifyakulanda landa anyway” so real 🤣🤣

  • @KayxTee11
    @KayxTee11 3 місяці тому +1

    Let’s unpack chile🤭💀

  • @ashleywomba
    @ashleywomba 3 місяці тому

    So happy for Nyembsss and I think I wouldn’t feel guilty too because why would I 😂😂😂

    • @NyembaTembo
      @NyembaTembo  3 місяці тому

      Exactly😂😂 thank you🫶🏾

  • @lydiambewe2854
    @lydiambewe2854 3 місяці тому

    Your mom was like, "You are wasting my time and left the room crazy 😅😅😅

  • @ginasikazwe1437
    @ginasikazwe1437 3 місяці тому

    Here🎉

  • @Ordinary_Christian
    @Ordinary_Christian 2 місяці тому

    I've been told several times ati I will only move out on my wedding day 😓💀

  • @kundachibuye7370
    @kundachibuye7370 3 місяці тому

    Where did you have your couch made?

  • @vlogsbyprecious
    @vlogsbyprecious 3 місяці тому

    Yayyy🎉

  • @kikimo1592
    @kikimo1592 3 місяці тому

    We will always choose the bear at this point 🤣

  • @kondwani0206
    @kondwani0206 3 місяці тому

    At this point I’m scared of Mama T😂obvious she’s the parent who would tell you to go back where you slept when you comeback from groove😅

  • @chisengashula1935
    @chisengashula1935 3 місяці тому

    If you know,you know 😭😭😭🤧😂

  • @towelamakashi
    @towelamakashi 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @KayxTee11
    @KayxTee11 3 місяці тому

    Present

  • @splashbroz5419
    @splashbroz5419 3 місяці тому

    Are you the first born? Obviously they were so scared to let you go if you are? Only parents understand the feeling.❤

  • @chalimulenga5744
    @chalimulenga5744 3 місяці тому

    A washing machine isn’t even a must you can just call someone for peacework 🤣🤣 you need a cooker before anything

  • @Ilonasworld
    @Ilonasworld 3 місяці тому

    I guess African parents will just be that😢

  • @__lala68
    @__lala68 2 місяці тому

    can you please share your estate agents contact or the company name.