SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND THE ENTIRE TIME! | Dating in Santo Domingo Dominican Republic

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  • @Worldtraveler655
    @Worldtraveler655 14 днів тому +15

    Damn!! These DR girls ain’t no joke. They the best actresses, she wanted to be in the long distance relationship so she could get your money while she living another life!!

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  14 днів тому +2

      @@Worldtraveler655 it’s eat or get eaten outside sometimes

    • @SmarticalBoy12
      @SmarticalBoy12 14 днів тому +1

      Facts but if you flow my rules; you will never get played. 100% facts
      Do not chase women. All Dominican women are not the same however those in the tourist section selling their bodies are not their for love. Don’t be fking STUPID.
      Your their to FUCK they trying to make a BUCK. They don’t love you and never will.
      Stop simping over women
      A man should always be focused on personal growth, elevating, developing , improving his finances, acquiring shelter and fitness. Don’t give your time, energy and strength to chasing women. You will loose your drive, determination and resources.

    • @Worldtraveler655
      @Worldtraveler655 14 днів тому

      @@SmarticalBoy12💯 they see us as licks and these girls take lying to another level and they are real good with the fake Latin affection, they always looking for a WU papi

    • @Worldtraveler655
      @Worldtraveler655 14 днів тому

      So you don’t wonna be a step dad in America but you go to these foreign countries and wonna be one! They all ungrateful

    • @magiala5577
      @magiala5577 12 днів тому

      Caribbean women in general. Just stay away from those islands.

  • @TopBossBigNationz
    @TopBossBigNationz 14 днів тому +16

    💯. She definitely had dude the whole time. Every girl on the island has a boyfriend. Every girl

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому +1

      @@TopBossBigNationz TopBoss , yeah it’s all good. She served her purpose lol

    • @TopBossBigNationz
      @TopBossBigNationz 13 днів тому +1

      @ that’s all that matters

    • @celiasennon1494
      @celiasennon1494 12 днів тому +1

      they have to eat and survive

    • @TopBossBigNationz
      @TopBossBigNationz 12 днів тому +2

      @ yes but they don’t have to lie about being single. That’s a form of manipulation

  • @OfficialmusicJaycalidad
    @OfficialmusicJaycalidad 12 днів тому +1

    To answer your question of , “why me?” Well, it’s sad , but the reality is, in most third world countries women are just surviving. Even if they do meet somebody who vibes with them, the everyday reality makes them feel like they have to take every opportunity to advance. You were one of the many. Keep doing your thing. 👍

  • @visualhype272
    @visualhype272 14 днів тому +11

    Friend love? Yet you paying for dinners, dates and sending gifts.
    Nah fam this was your NOVIA 😅. You sound like you care a little too much for it to be nothing serious/ or more than a friend.
    I think the issue was not that she lied but that you became too comfortable.

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому +1

      @@visualhype272 I for sure got too comfortable I’d agree with that. I was having my fun and disregarding her needs. So, I agree

  • @leroyberry5618
    @leroyberry5618 14 днів тому +4

    It's all good just keep more on rotation in DR.

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому +1

      @@leroyberry5618 ✊🏾💯

    • @tonydeboss3838
      @tonydeboss3838 5 днів тому +1

      ​@@vacationtimewithryan yep he right, you should keep 5-10 chicas in the DR on deck like meeee 😂✌🏾

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  5 днів тому +1

      @@tonydeboss3838 🤣🤣✊🏾

  • @PlayforkeepsTraveler
    @PlayforkeepsTraveler 13 днів тому +1

    Keep going my brother!! love these stories an stuff!! keep going ignore tha haterz

  • @SmarticalBoy12
    @SmarticalBoy12 14 днів тому +6

    Don’t chat with them every day. If they don’t get what they want they will disappear and reappear.
    Don’t send no money. 💰 no beat no treat

  • @howardtynes1047
    @howardtynes1047 14 днів тому +3

    Once again, a very important topic. In the area of dating , and being placed in the friend zone, as you mentioned a sad day, absolutely no, a fantastic day, to smile, because it happened,and enter another, challenging chapter, in your life, you are extremely intelligent, and still traveling the world, and where is that old friend of yours, still in the same position, remember you , will be here , some time this month,in the sunshine, enjoying life, it was just another stepping stone, of experience, however, most important, there is plenty more, to explore , remember the film, Casino Royale,she had a straight and misled,him, something, the closes one to you , can be the most dangerous, have a safe flight, and very important content, to inspire, individuals dating abroad.

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому

      @@howardtynes1047 thank my brother always . I appreciate your feedback and wisdom every time . Blessings brother 💯✊🏾

  • @KingJuan42
    @KingJuan42 13 днів тому +1

    Love the stories brother keep them up 💯 🫡

  • @jamesjones2173
    @jamesjones2173 14 днів тому +3

    Those Dominicans girls be playing a lot of games out there. I know I had experience this last year in puerta plata

  • @jcward34
    @jcward34 13 днів тому +4

    You said "9/10 times you're getting played if you're sending money". No, 9/10 you're getting played period because if you don't send money someone else is giving it so she can eat whether she has a job or not, plus her bedroom needs. They always leave the door halfway open for a breadwinner or a bigger breadwinner. I'll be in Santiago in a few weeks maybe we can link up and hit a few spots.

  • @SmarticalBoy12
    @SmarticalBoy12 14 днів тому +3

    No beat No Treat and no Beat No Eat

  • @quinlanbutler213
    @quinlanbutler213 14 днів тому +2

    I feel the salt Homie, even though y’all weren’t together I can tell you appreciated the bond and honesty on a principle level which is why it’s a bit disappointing, especially if there’s speculation about whether their was a boyfriend the whole time. However, whether their was or wasn’t she wanted the relationship and needed to do what she needed to do including not tell you directly but letting the WhatsApp do the talking. Basically her way of telling you cuz truthfully she probably just couldn’t and you’re not there. It’s all an emotional roller coaster she want you to get caught in. She emotional making emotional decisions and trying force your hand or give you the nut check. Just keep it playa my G, she’ll be back but remember the principle at hand cuz as soon as things turn the other way she ll be talkin bout the bond yall had. The emotions take over principle matters, this is what they do.

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому

      @@quinlanbutler213 great feedback and I appreciate every word my brother. Sometimes we gotta charge it to the game an keep pushin ✊🏾💯

  • @lj6916
    @lj6916 14 днів тому +8

    You keep saying not your girl but you sure have a lot real feeling for her . I told you there is no real love for us in the D R.

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому

      @@lj6916 ay my brother , I’m just out here enjoying the experiences

  • @Marcusmark911
    @Marcusmark911 11 днів тому +3

    You're trying to have your cake and eat it. You were dating other chicks and telling her about it. She wanted a relationship, but you said "no" because you don't want to have a long distance relationship, so there is no basis for your reaction. Once a woman puts it out there like that ,she is about to make a decision. Besides, you know if you don't live there, it's just your turn. She didn't owe you any explanation whether she has a bf or not. She didn't play you. She explored her options. Keeping it 100!

  • @wysemanacc84
    @wysemanacc84 12 днів тому +3

    She does not owe you any honesty or transparency if you are not in a relationship. This was all friendship with no boundaries in place. The other Homie won the toto because he is paying and taking care of her lol. Your activity was casual with no financial benefit for her. This is a typical young men mistake in a third world country. They have extreme needs and hopefully you can grow from this experience.

  • @desmondgrimes985
    @desmondgrimes985 13 днів тому +2

    Those girls are very bright so watch it😅

  • @gethmus
    @gethmus 14 днів тому +17

    Simp story lol 😅

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому +5

      @@gethmus yall dont even know what a simp is. Because if you knew , you would understand I got the best of her! She gave up everything and I gave her next to nothing . Where’s the simp?? She tried to play me into a relationship and she didn’t get what she wanted and she didn’t get money from me. A couple cheap food dates . lol losers like you . Just talking to talk. Be the lamest dudes in real life

    • @lastdondadda3385
      @lastdondadda3385 13 днів тому +3

      Super simp. He fell in love with the work😂

    • @Ambitious_973
      @Ambitious_973 13 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Ambitious_973
      @Ambitious_973 13 днів тому +2

      Yall just be throwing that word out without knowing the meaning 😂😂

    • @chefmarco305
      @chefmarco305 12 днів тому +1

      @@vacationtimewithryanbro don't feed the trolls. Comments like that you should have never responded bro stay frosty 🫡

  • @Mr_Damion_Scott
    @Mr_Damion_Scott 13 днів тому +2

    Like you stated in the beginning.. it wasn't your girl... so It is what it is... If she did or didn't isn't really important.
    Women want instant results and stability. If you're not providing just move on.

    • @wysemanacc84
      @wysemanacc84 12 днів тому +1

      I don't know why this young men feels entitle to this girls honesty or transparency lol. She does not owe you anything if you are not taking care of her needs. A typical young men mistake.

  • @anthonythegreat72
    @anthonythegreat72 14 днів тому +3

    Bro, they all do. And the boyfriend knows they getting that money. I was hitting two different girls out there before I found their real Facebook pages.

  • @1mikesofocused42
    @1mikesofocused42 14 днів тому +3

    stick around long enough they tell on themselves

  • @airportbound
    @airportbound 13 днів тому +4

    First mistake is trying to impose your western standards and values on Dominican women...i dont care what you think the definition of a relationship is, but in DR they dont see it the same way. Everything is casual when it comes being involved with a woman, its a revolving door..when you understand this, you will be alright...dont invest in just ine Dominican woman or you will suffer

    • @anthonywilson8366
      @anthonywilson8366 13 днів тому

      What do you mean by this , are all women there permiscuous

  • @antoniotula262
    @antoniotula262 13 днів тому +1

    These ladies have decades of experience dealing with Europeans, Canadians & about 20yrs dealing with us. They're grandmothers now that i knew in their 20s. It's about the money. Anything else is incidental. Yes, they'll have kids with you..and others too. You're part of their budget & on their rotation. Not much gray area, you will pay.

  • @Gonzalo.Escobar
    @Gonzalo.Escobar 13 днів тому +2

    Biggest simp award goes to you. You gave her something more valuable than money and that is your time and your emotions 😂 you clearly have feelings for her while she’s getting her back plowed by Javier 😂😂😂

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  5 днів тому

      @@Gonzalo.Escobar yup I lost time clapping . Your right . What a loser I am 🤣🤣

  • @Jermaine-yp9ip
    @Jermaine-yp9ip 13 днів тому +3

    Bro these Dominican women know the Black man is a broken man and that most of the time he will do anything for love and the women being in a financial dilemma will act accordingly and play them head games anytime and anywhere

    • @Worldtraveler655
      @Worldtraveler655 12 днів тому

      They not working on themselves and figure they the problem

    • @dwaynebell7705
      @dwaynebell7705 12 днів тому +3

      Speak for yourself my guy! Black men are not broken we just deal with terrible women who don't have our back.

    • @Jermaine-yp9ip
      @Jermaine-yp9ip 12 днів тому

      @@dwaynebell7705 the Blackman in America is a broken man because he’s been MADE IN AMERICA AND THE BLACK WOMAN HAS ALWAYS HAD THE BLACKMANS BACK WHETHER YOU WANT TO ADMIT THIS OR NOT

  • @wolf30324
    @wolf30324 14 днів тому +5

    What do you expect.....from the women in the DR....Boy friend allows it, because of the money need.

  • @elp1269
    @elp1269 14 днів тому +1

    No sweat, play dumb and keep hitting it, unless your feelings are hurt.

  • @aaramonyqueens5681
    @aaramonyqueens5681 14 днів тому +1

    Hi Ryan 👋

  • @mrmo4059
    @mrmo4059 5 днів тому

    Dealing with a single mother is always a failure

  • @ETS-Travel-Adventures
    @ETS-Travel-Adventures 14 днів тому +4

    Bro just admit it you got caught and ur in denial big time but to be honest I don’t think them DR woman are really interested in us they just going a long for the ride until that wanna get off at the next stop if you ask me 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому

      @@ETS-Travel-Adventures I respect your perspective on that , could be bro ✊🏾💯

  • @aaronthomas4054
    @aaronthomas4054 14 днів тому +2

    Why do you think she posted it that in her WhatsApp if she know that you would see it? She is going to mess up the bag like that. I think they smarter than that but I could be wrong

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  14 днів тому +4

      @@aaronthomas4054 I asked myself that question. I said to myself she must be tired of waiting on me to give her a relationship. And she’s tired of playing the “long game” and she must of wanted me to see it

    • @Faithishopeunseen
      @Faithishopeunseen 14 днів тому +1

      💯

    • @Corte157
      @Corte157 14 днів тому +1

      ​@@vacationtimewithryan she forgot to remove you from seeing it.

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому

      @@Corte157 lol could be

    • @wysemanacc84
      @wysemanacc84 12 днів тому

      She is absolutely on point with the bag on the other homie. This dude was tight on money and the other homie was taking care of business. She has to eat period.

  • @timbelton2102
    @timbelton2102 6 днів тому +1

    The baby's father always have access

  • @brandonleverett3748
    @brandonleverett3748 12 днів тому +1

    Hey man , Omar ( the wire ) said you either play or get played. End of lesson bro. Pick a position bro. Don’t be mean , don’t hurt , but bro pick one or the other!

  • @Kendo144k
    @Kendo144k 14 днів тому +4

    I’m sorry… I don’t know what “she did wrong”, you told her you ain’t looking for nothing serious and they out the whole video you kept saying yall was just friends. So why would give a damn she has a “boyfriend” now. 😂😂

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому

      @@Kendo144k I don’t really care too tough but it’s the lies that confused me. As I was saying in the videos I told her about dates I went on and girls I was talking to. And she acted like she wasn’t talking to nobody. But ultimately I don’t really care I didn’t want anything serious from her.

  • @Robert-ur8mi
    @Robert-ur8mi 12 днів тому

    Another L for you passport bros!😂😂😂

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  5 днів тому

      @@Robert-ur8mi it’s a W because you commented. That helps me make more money. Thanks bro 😎

  • @jamiefox9245
    @jamiefox9245 13 днів тому

    Ole Cake ahh 🥷 😂

  • @dwaynebell7705
    @dwaynebell7705 12 днів тому

    Its not your girl its just your turn:)

  • @josephbranch2342
    @josephbranch2342 11 днів тому +1

    She wanted to see if your better than the dude she was with. You didn't make the cut. Why should she waste time with you if you don't bring anything to the table.

  • @randomwander6389
    @randomwander6389 10 днів тому +1

    At least she never see you as a atm. Her boyfriend most likely the one giving her money while she was talking to you .

  • @straypython2383
    @straypython2383 13 днів тому +2

    These stories are hilarious, not sure why dudes put themselves in these emotional situations, if you didn’t love her and was just in it to kick it then she can have as many BF’s as she wants.

  • @ericpullen3717
    @ericpullen3717 12 днів тому

    And she have about three boyfriends in Dominican Republic and maybe 4 American boyfriends thinking they're the one enjoy the game and lie it's exciting the lies never stop but when her lies get sloppy leave because now she's about to get toxic and boring

  • @YHWHWILLBEDONE
    @YHWHWILLBEDONE 5 днів тому +1

    With all due respect, the only one that sounds like they didn't keep it real was you. It sounds like she kept it real with you 100%. You said yourself you basically had a friendship with benefits.
    She caught feelings and wanted to be more than a freind w benefits. At no point in time as a friend does she owe you an explanation of who she's seeing.
    Like I said with all due respect. It sounds like you weren't honest about how you fealt about her and was trying to play ot to cool. You look a reasonably intelligent man. You and I know a women worth anything with options. Is not going to wait around for ever hoping you someday choose her, while continuing to deny other suiters, that doesn't make any sense. If you had feelings for her beyond friends w benefits you should have said so. If not then this is how that ends.

  • @legend1849
    @legend1849 12 днів тому

    Idk what these fools think.. They're just after the money..

  • @NathanialTheGreat
    @NathanialTheGreat 14 днів тому +1

    Bro you was doing family s**t and expect her to not want a relationship with you. Then you only talk to her on and off and you don’t think she would link up with somebody else. But if she was nothing serious for you, then why does it matter if she does have a man

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому

      @@NathanialTheGreat I don’t care if you has a man I’m not trippin . It’s the lies I am confused about because we had a friendship based on keeping it real. I told her about girls and everything . However ultimately I don’t really care. I enjoyed every second of it lol

    • @NathanialTheGreat
      @NathanialTheGreat 13 днів тому +1

      @ yeah you right! If yall don’t as cool like that. She could’ve just kept it real. Honestly though! Now that I think about it. It seem like she was trying to force your hand. All the shit she was doing on WhatsApp seem extra. Well! She played herself

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  5 днів тому

      @@NathanialTheGreat yeah exactly I agree

  • @ericpullen3717
    @ericpullen3717 12 днів тому

    Wait why would you care if she lied my brother its ok you were about to make her your wife no trolling I'm a proud and i know you were about to wife her up ain't nothing wrong with simping and you didn't lose her and she damn sure aint fresh

  • @silvias550
    @silvias550 14 днів тому

    😂😂😂😂

  • @ytbenavraham9553
    @ytbenavraham9553 11 днів тому

    Brothers, listen, what's wrong with you guys. Keep your love for your kids. These women are for the streets. She's for the streets. It's not yours it's just your turn.
    You guys dont listen to the OGs. Use it like it is. A used car with high mileage. She had the understanding, you didn't
    You should be lucky they didn't poison you and cut your juevos off. Time is money, bro. So you paid for it.
    Watching status, checking text messages, phone calls, etc, is a $itch move.

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  5 днів тому

      @@ytbenavraham9553 watching status is a $*# move ? 🤣🤣🤣 yall so funny

  • @Swole220
    @Swole220 13 днів тому +1

    100

  • @fredsanchez5470
    @fredsanchez5470 13 днів тому +2

    I married one bought her a car a house worked on her green card and she brought a dude into our house while I was working in the states

  • @crypto_guapo
    @crypto_guapo 11 днів тому

    No shit Sherlock!!!

  • @MrGMAN92985
    @MrGMAN92985 13 днів тому

    Learn how to spell (Liar) its not lair smh

  • @Corte157
    @Corte157 14 днів тому +2

    Yo bossy. Link up. Tell Big Jay to send you Cortez contact.

  • @DB-jj9qp
    @DB-jj9qp 14 днів тому

    Dudes come to RD but leave their common sense in the USA. Dudes know
    FACT 💯 they're not able to attract these types of women in USA so why think they are attracted to you in RD !!!!
    How you're in LOVE with a woman you really don't know 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @vacationtimewithryan
      @vacationtimewithryan  13 днів тому +1

      @@DB-jj9qp I wasn’t in love with her, never said that. And second , I’ve attracted prettier women than her in USA . Keep assuming buddy . I can tell by your words alone you lame because men don’t assume like that . You know nothing about me or my life in the USA . Keep hiding behind faceless channels and making assumptions that’s your life 🤣🤣🤣😆

  • @JesusRincón-x6y
    @JesusRincón-x6y 12 днів тому

    Haiti is beautiful, go home your people need you.