ASMR Girlfriend Roleplay : Love Works - Abuse Doesn't [Trauma Response] [One-Sided Argument] [LGBT]

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
  • Your unhealthy coping mechanisms are no longer serving you...
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    Written, Recorded, and Graphics by Mistress Audio.
    Here I go with reusing an old title of a story of mine for something entirely different!~ Although to be fair it used to be Sex Works - Abuse Doesn't lmao, written for a character y'all don't know about. This is the kind of emotional maturity I needed when I was going through a similar time, and it's how I will hold and conduct myself for the rest of my life. I urge all of you to get the help you need to become the best versions of yourselves, because it truly made such a difference in my life to do so. Really listen to what I say in this one, I urge you to really look at your position in the dynamic too. Are your coping mechanisms just hurting those closest to you now? Just think about it. I love you all, but sometimes these coping mechanisms don't serve you now and you need to shed them, otherwise nothing will ever change. Just promise me you'll work on this~...So yeah, anyway, this is a video, and this is a description. What it do? Be sure to listen to your chaperone, and stick with your buddy.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 10

  • @Ellarosebordeaux
    @Ellarosebordeaux 23 дні тому +4

    Such a heavy but important one! ❤

  • @Emily_North
    @Emily_North 23 дні тому +11

    Comment For Engaygement🏳️‍🌈

  • @the_raptor_boi7364
    @the_raptor_boi7364 5 днів тому +1

    Is it possible to have you base one of you getting seasick on a cruise or simply any sea faring vessel with your girlfriend? Would be interesting to see how you will pull that off

  • @Randomgirlwithadhd
    @Randomgirlwithadhd 22 дні тому +1

    how wasn't I notified that u posted a new video! I'm pissed but shocked at the same time 🙂.

  • @RebleGreyWarden
    @RebleGreyWarden 22 дні тому +2

    I appreciate you 🫵

  • @milano.cookie
    @milano.cookie 6 годин тому

    Ok but fr i hate people like this. Like u don’t know how I feel so I don’t want YOU to tell ME MY OWN FEELINGS JUST SO YOU CAN ACT LIKE THE VICTIM ALL THE GODDAMN TIME💀💀💀

    • @MistressAudio
      @MistressAudio  6 годин тому

      @@milano.cookie You talking about me or the listener friend? Cuz I assure you, there's no me being a victim here. This is how my brain works, it is literally just a play by play of how I work. Trauma to an autistic brain is interesting, and it makes you see things differently than if you were just autistic or just traumatised. My thought and feelings are totally abstract and an extant version of me, I don't think or feel in words, they are all their own entities as far as I'm concerned. I have gotten through my shit and am a far better person for it, and it took a lot of work to get to this point. A lot of the time, and not in every situation obviously, I can read people better than they can themselves, and this is a fact backed up experience. I wouldn't dare use that skill on someone I didn't intrinsically know, because if I don't know you, then I don't KNOW you. So I can't say I know you, because we just met, so I wouldn't try looking at your mind like that. I have been with people who are like the listener, and you know what I did? Not this. I kept my mouth shut, and then their coping mechanisms for their own trauma gave me my own trauma, because they didn't have the drive to help themselves and expected me to do it for them. Im obvioisly not saying thay all people who havr been hurt do this, im just saying that work needs to be put in so you dont in turn hurt those you care about. I let my own trauma hurt my exes too I absolutely know that, but I worked so hard to be as mentally well of a person as I could despite it all, and just because I had a reason, doesnt mean I was justified. People I've been with have done it and so have I, so I absolutely know this fact well. This is the point this video is making. No amount of trauma allows you to treat your partner the way the listener was here, because as you heard, she was calling me uneducated. That's also something I've dealt with, and a label that I carry with some trepidation. I'm not educated like a lot of people, but I know what I'm good at, and generally speaking, that is being able to read people who I know. I also wouldn't react if this was the first time the listener had done this, but it wasn't the first time. That's why I didn't raise my voice or talk down to you, because that's how I would deal with this situation now, and how the listener deserves to be helped. I truly didn't mean any harm by this. This video was truly just trying to help people so abused people don't accidently hurt people in their lives because of their coping mechanisms, because most of the time thats all it is: an accident. But if not worked on, it can become a deliberate thing that just continues the cycle. Im sorry if I hurt you or if my intention with this video was lost in translation, but that's what I was going for. Hope all is well there ☺️

  • @Amir-graham
    @Amir-graham 23 дні тому +4

    🏳️‍🌈❤❤🌹