Cultural Appropriation: Can A Non-Chinese Person Wear A Qipao or Changshan?

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    Alan had the idea of wearing Peaky Blinders suits for a week to see how it would feel like, which made me want us to wear traditional Chinese clothing. Then I realized how, uh, weird that could get for Alan. So I dove into the concept of cultural appropriation as it relates to clothing, specifically Chinese clothing.
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  • @tealittle2972
    @tealittle2972 3 роки тому +1265

    I am Chinese and I welcome anybody to try our traditional clothing including qipao and Hanfu, as long as there is no purposeful offence.

    • @HAYAOLEONE
      @HAYAOLEONE 3 роки тому +44

      I'm not Chinese and I support 100% the young Chinese people trying to make Hanfu 'fashionable' again.
      It's very beautiful.
      But as a non Chinese, I would not dare wearing Hanfu.. It would be too much for someone not immersed at all in the culture and with zero Chinese blood.
      'Mixed' fashion is OK I think. And the 'working clothing'/everyday practical clothing of simple life/activities.
      Lots of universal wisdom in the everyday solutions of various peoples.

    • @HAYAOLEONE
      @HAYAOLEONE 3 роки тому +1

      @@morriganbermejo4042 ?

    • @HAYAOLEONE
      @HAYAOLEONE 3 роки тому +4

      @@morriganbermejo4042
      A 'country' is a land + a Nation.
      Nation means related by birth. Blood.
      Like it or not, that's what it was, is and always will be.
      I'm simply telling you.
      'Racism' means nothing.
      The word was invented very recently in Human History by very strange people in very troubled times.
      Simply telling you, again.
      Humans always loved, were neutral or balanced, hated or were indifferent to other humans living far away or just the other side of the mountain/valley/river.
      Simply telling you.
      Now on topic.
      Of course having 'some' blood or 'a pass' from the people you want to dress like, is perfectly sane and respectful.
      Don't get what you're trying to say..
      +

    • @baqikenny
      @baqikenny 3 роки тому +4

      well this part is where non-binary collective society thinking clashes with the typical binary individualistic thinking in western influenced society.

    • @HAYAOLEONE
      @HAYAOLEONE 3 роки тому +1

      @@baqikenny You comment makes no sense.
      BTW :
      "The Tao begets One,
      One begets Two,
      Two begets Three,
      Three begets (...)"
      +

  • @ChesterRico
    @ChesterRico 3 роки тому +561

    This seems like another case of Americans confusing themselves and each other.

  • @princessinfrills
    @princessinfrills Рік тому +97

    I have seen a gorgeous hanfu and wanted to wear it, but because I got so scared of being called out for cultural appropriation I did my research prior to be sure that Hanfu weren't sacred clothes like a Native headdress. And then I fell into the rabbithole of wanting to learn more and more. I'm so happy that people are seeing that fashion could be used as a bridge between different cultures!
    Results: I bought my hanfu (it's a Ming Dynasty one and I could find a gorgeous yunjian to wear with it) and I started my process of finally learning mandarin, it's hard but it'll be better eventually!

    • @yuchitairans2-035
      @yuchitairans2-035 9 місяців тому +5

      Sounds awesome!

    • @jt.633
      @jt.633 8 місяців тому +1

      I support you bc you like hanfu so youve got great taste

    • @aeo-dy6ge
      @aeo-dy6ge 4 місяці тому +1

      where did you get it? im looking to get some too but don't know where to start

  • @denisa_the_jedi
    @denisa_the_jedi 3 роки тому +601

    I wanted to give one of my American friends a Romanian traditional attire because she was very appreciative of it when she visited my country with her husband. She said she would love to see how it feels to wear one of the attires, so I handmade one for her. The process took me an entire year.
    Next time they visited I had the attire ready and I wanted to give it to her.
    I want to point out that we as a people don't mind when foreigners wear our traditional attire, we totally encourage them to wear it if they like.
    When she saw what it was, she started to argue with me that I am forcing her to appropriate my culture and what I'm doing is very wrong, that nobody should wear another culture's clothes.
    She stopped talking to me then, and a few months later I gave the attire to another foreign friend who was far more grateful for it.
    I don't know about others, but I don't mind when someone wants to wear traditional Romanian suits and this encounter was the first time I came across the "cultural appropriation" thing.
    Edit: I'd like to wear Hanfu one day, those are amazingly beautiful garments!

    • @michellemoo4412
      @michellemoo4412 3 роки тому +8

      I think the clothing that was referenced in the video was actually 旗袍 (qi pao), which was the ethnic clothing of the Manchu, not Han Chinese. There was an earlier comment that explained this more in depth:
      wakaka bravo

    • @denisa_the_jedi
      @denisa_the_jedi 3 роки тому +41

      @@michellemoo4412 I know, I just wanted to share my experience, which didn't involve qipao, and I am more fond of the hanfu than the qipao (though I own one qipao dress).

    • @verybarebones
      @verybarebones 3 роки тому +84

      Hot damn the disrespect of rejecting a Handmade!! Dress!! Due to American values!! That sounds like a fantastic gift and im glad it went somewhere where it was valued.

    • @glaceyawn
      @glaceyawn 3 роки тому +49

      That’s weird of her to completely stop talking to you because of that... You’re even from said Romanian culture and you’re telling her it’s okay. sorry you had to deal with that

    • @beepollinatingplasticflowe136
      @beepollinatingplasticflowe136 2 роки тому +36

      Sometimes people who are trying to be respectful about cultural appropriation seem to become racist by accident, saying only certain people are allowed to wear certain clothes..

  • @rainyday3128
    @rainyday3128 3 роки тому +50

    I got banned from a group earlier today for saying I wanted to wear hanfu as a white woman... even though my boyfriend is Chinese and wants me to wear what I want. No ones going to be happy, I’m just going to wear the hanfu

    • @idontknowmyname.9202
      @idontknowmyname.9202 3 роки тому +18

      as an asian (chinese + lao + thai) can I say something? you can wear it! and I'm even more glad that there are other race appreciate our culture. as long as you're not gonna mock the culture - It's. Totally. Fine!!! 🎉💋

    • @rainyday3128
      @rainyday3128 3 роки тому +12

      @@idontknowmyname.9202 ah I didn’t expect a response! And trust me, I absolutely love the beauty of Chinese culture. It actually really upset me to be told I was trying to take the culture for my own when, really, it only occurred to me because of my boyfriend’s nationality. I think some people are confused between appropriating and appreciating and assume cause I’m white I don’t understand the cultural importance of what I’m doing.

  • @zelulu1000
    @zelulu1000 3 роки тому +623

    I'm African and absolutely love the this Chinese dress and wanted one. This attire is gorgeous, elegant.

    • @9Tailsfan
      @9Tailsfan 3 роки тому +104

      Honey go treat yourself and get one. If you want a good quality one, get one that's made of silk brocade or at least good rayon fabric. If you buy brand new' expect to pay $50 or more. You can save a little money if you buy used. And I advise buying in person if you can. That way you can try it on before you buy. Chinese sizes are small compared to American sizes.

    • @jessylnc8407
      @jessylnc8407 3 роки тому +29

      You should! The design emphasis on the curve on body, if you do want one, make sure to have a tailor made or a size that fits your size well

    • @mischke7430
      @mischke7430 3 роки тому +25

      Omg I'm also African and I want to do the same😊^o^

    • @missmatchablossom
      @missmatchablossom 3 роки тому +7

      I agree it is gorgeous ❤👏🏽

    • @daisuke910
      @daisuke910 3 роки тому +21

      You should get samfu (for guys) or cheongsam (for ladies) 👍🏼. In Malaysia, we wear each other culture clothes and we don't have this problem. Our country has three distinct culture: Malay (baju melayu, batik shirt, baju kurung, kebaya), Chinese (samfu, cheongsam) and Indian (saree, kurta, dhoti). I don't know what the fuss if someone wants to feel good wearing other culture clothes.

  • @keithkoganeislife3144
    @keithkoganeislife3144 3 роки тому +428

    I agree! I am native myself and the headdress is quite distasteful. But we love when other people wear things such as our bead work, Moccasins, or when have an aesthetic like having artistic designs on a shirt we love it! I love that someone has taken an interest in my culture. People need to realize that what we call cultural appropriation has how we have survived as a species and have new cultures were created. Such as Japanese culture, they took in so much stuff from China and they were able to make it their own. In my mind for the most part, cultural “appropriation” is a good thing and it’s how we survive and learn new things.

    • @sounsure9108
      @sounsure9108 3 роки тому +28

      I like your thoughts I had friends who were hired to work in the North of Canada in an inuet community and the were subtly expected to purchase traditional winter clothes especially for their young child in order to support the local economy, selling traditional garments was some folks livelihood

    • @OnlyMichaelJackson
      @OnlyMichaelJackson 3 роки тому +27

      Perfect comment. We have twisted the meaning of cultural appropriation so much that its doing more harm than good.

    • @underthesea123100
      @underthesea123100 3 роки тому +11

      I'm from Scotland and I have always had an appreciation of Native culture , I love the clothing and patterns , artistic designs on tops , fringe and beading jewellery , I own a lot of clothing like this and even have a pair of Minitonka Mokassines boots , I see a lot on youtube about how this could not be appropriate , I don't know why but is it ? Do you like when fashion designers and brands take inspiration from you're culture ?

    • @keithkoganeislife3144
      @keithkoganeislife3144 3 роки тому +10

      @@underthesea123100 of course! Because that’s how it’s going to to help spread the culture. There will be people who like it and want to seek out the real thing. It will help create more awareness of it and even if it’s just one person, that’s one more person that knows of indigenous culture. And I mean I think you would know about cultural attire being commercialized, I mean the Scottish kilt and plaid in general is everywhere.

    • @spirobos1135
      @spirobos1135 3 роки тому

      @@keithkoganeislife3144 I got a quick question. Do you know of any stores that sell authentic native shoes and clothing? Preferably made by a native artist themselves?

  • @luise4530
    @luise4530 3 роки тому +213

    I consider clothing as a form of art, I think it would be beautiful for us all to share that and learn more about each other and our backgrounds, just always respect each other

  • @jkkim8433
    @jkkim8433 3 роки тому +72

    Once me and my grandma were watching TV reporter talking about similar situation with korean hanbok (I am korean) and my grandma said: "why does this people care about this? Don't they have other problems? Find a job, people!"
    LOL

  • @Lizard14
    @Lizard14 3 роки тому +95

    It's weird watching this knowing that I did wear a qipao for my middle school prom when I was 14, I knew nothing about it other than it was chinese and looked really pretty, had a lot of fun with it. Since it was 2005, no one really cared and I got a lot of compliments.

    • @violettorres1117
      @violettorres1117 Рік тому +5

      I hope to wear a Qipao for my prom soon, I am scared because there are a lot of Chinese/Asian students at my school and I am not of Chinese descent.

    • @jadashields5166
      @jadashields5166 8 місяців тому

      You know what I feel like the Chinese dress was inspired by Western classic look but they try to make it look or represent as Chinese classic style but really it the same as the western classic fashion it is not a culture style is just a luxury fashion classic type style. I'm not asian but if you look closely to American classic fashion vs Chinese classic fashion there literally the same just America fashion and china fashion

  • @wendygem6979
    @wendygem6979 3 роки тому +181

    As a Chinese, I'm actually happy to see non-Chinese people wearing Chinese traditional clothes, as it's way to show they appreciate our culture. But I definitely hate that non-Chinese wear them and claim they are from their culture, like what a lot of Koreans do today. This is called culture appropriation.

    • @hvuu1628
      @hvuu1628 2 роки тому

      korean dispute. lol. you need to hand over your chinese card if you think it is ok for non chinese to wear anything chinese. the korean just confused their understanding how the chinese had influenced their traditional wear.
      it's never about cultural appropriation. it about preservation.

    • @ryanjacobson2326
      @ryanjacobson2326 2 роки тому +1

      If a Korean wore this attire but didn’t make a claim, would you still be ok with it?

    • @hvuu1628
      @hvuu1628 2 роки тому +1

      @@ryanjacobson2326 maybe. a lot of consort from ancient korea wore chinese clothing in the imperial palaces.

    • @ryanjacobson2326
      @ryanjacobson2326 2 роки тому +9

      @@hvuu1628 what I found “Tang dynasty hanfu influenced the Japanese kimono, while the Ming dynasty influenced the Korean hanbok.” So, honestly, if someone’s attire was inspired by another’s I don’t think it makes sense to vilify them for claiming it was their culture. We need more kindness in this whole world. Creating hatred over clothing is really silly. And sad.

    • @hvuu1628
      @hvuu1628 2 роки тому

      @@ryanjacobson2326 and all is influenced by the xia and spring and autumn era. point being its all rooted from china. kindness is why we have so much stolen identity. we actually need to set the record straight. kindness creates more victims that leads to hate. it's naive to play nice.

  • @tsukasa1608
    @tsukasa1608 3 роки тому +342

    The thing is, many Overseas Chinese included Chinese American, had lost track with their culture that they thought qipao or changshan is their traditional fashion, but most people in China categorised them as retro fashion, especially qipao, which was invented around 1920s, with elements driven from Manchurian robe and Western body hugging style, and yes Chinese women do wear qipao to parties, past or present. Some Han Chinese might view qipao or changshan as a symbol of oppression as those two garment were driven from Manchurian's clothing, which was forced upon Han Chinese during the Qing Dynasty together with the Queue Order, those who don't complied will received death as result. Now in China people are reviving and promoting 汉服/Hanfu, literally clothing of Han Chinese, which could be trace back to even before Han dynasty and continued to evolve and wore by Han Chinese throughout history until the early-Qing dynasty.

    • @lrose1310
      @lrose1310 3 роки тому +21

      True, but many of the early Chinese diaspora came from the era where Manchurian fashion was the norm. So to many oversea Chinese, I'm guessing that's why they would feel the changshan and other manchurian fashion would be the traditional wear, whereas western fashion would have been the non traditional fashion at the time. The two cultures diverged at a point. It's probably for the same reason European Americans wouldn't consider medieveal or rennaissance European fashion traditional White American fashion, because of the long disconnect from that culture.

    • @aygulmemet4201
      @aygulmemet4201 3 роки тому

      Wait then what about tangzhuang?

    • @tsukasa1608
      @tsukasa1608 3 роки тому +10

      @@aygulmemet4201 modern "tangzhuang" was designed in 2000 for APEC, based on Manchurian's magua. If you study the fashion of Tang dynasty you'll find out that "tangzhuang" looks nothing like what they wear during that period.

    • @brainwashington1332
      @brainwashington1332 3 роки тому +21

      @@aygulmemet4201 Hanfu is the traditional attire of the Han Chinese. That is also where the Japanese Kimono and Korean Hanbok came from. Hanfu, the long flowing robes with wide sleeves is at least 3000 years old.

    • @aygulmemet4201
      @aygulmemet4201 3 роки тому +3

      @@tsukasa1608 Oh, I understand now. The "tang" in tangzhuang didn't come from tang dynasty, but instead from "tangren", which means chinese people, am I correct?

  • @xmonax7822
    @xmonax7822 3 роки тому +201

    For me its ok for foreigner to wear traditional Chinese clothing like qipao or Hanfu when they know the meaning of what their wearing. But I wouldn't like it if someone would wear the Emperors dress 龙袍, crown/hat 皇冠 or any other dresses for a formal event. 像册封典礼之类的衣服

    • @len2003
      @len2003 3 роки тому +36

      Yes! I think that if you want to wear something that's from a culture you don't know about, it would be great to inform yourself about what is appropriate to wear and what is not.

    • @jiaying4277
      @jiaying4277 3 роки тому +18

      赞成。As long as the motifs and colours are appropriate, the origin/meaning of the dress is appreciated, I don’t think it’s a big deal for people of other cultures wear it.

    • @verybarebones
      @verybarebones 3 роки тому +5

      Well why would they wear an emperor garment though, that just sounds like cosplay. Perhaps for recording a drama?

    • @schmidth
      @schmidth 3 роки тому +2

      @@len2003 Why? Who cares? It's just clothing. Origin is irrelevant.

    • @len2003
      @len2003 3 роки тому +19

      @@schmidth because certain cultures have been repressed through history and their clothing and hairstyles and cultural traditions have been snatched and erased from them bc of that. It's not just clothing. Traditional clothing represents it's own culture.

  • @gennafer
    @gennafer 3 роки тому +60

    I think the instinctive reaction of outrage is more like the anticipation of insult. It's because generally when we do see people dressed in a style of a different culture it is usually as a Halloween costume or something else insulting. I think if more people did dressed like that because they liked it and are just going out it would become normal to just see it around and people wouldn't feel like they have to be on their guard. I personally want to start wearing more of my culture (Vietnamese) clothes just as everyday wear in America, because it is beautiful and you don't even see Vietnamese people wearing it much here except for weddings.

  • @sitikhadijah-co4fd
    @sitikhadijah-co4fd 3 роки тому +37

    I am malaysian. In my country non chinese wear qipao or changshan is common thing. Its never became an issue to us. Usualy we wear other race costume during their biggest even. We wear qipao during chinese new year and sari for diwali. We wear their costume to show our respect and friendship. They really happy we wear their costume

    • @marshmallows394
      @marshmallows394 3 роки тому +3

      exactly! there’s a difference between cultural appreciation and cultural appropriation which a lot of western people do not understand yet.

    • @nomotivay
      @nomotivay 3 роки тому +1

      ayy 1malaysiaa

  • @khushbuyadav8542
    @khushbuyadav8542 3 роки тому +24

    as an indian i totally understand this. most people who have an issue are not even from the said culture or have been born and brought up abroad. if you ask any native they’d be more than delighted to see other people appreciating and wearing their dresses.

  • @wakakabravo7998
    @wakakabravo7998 3 роки тому +162

    Ironically qipao and changshan are not culturally belong to Han Chinese. It actually belong to the manchu people. During qing empire, the manchu forcing the Han people to wear as force assimilation or they will get a harsh treatment. Which is why nowadays more Chinese from mainland China wear a hanfu which is more Han Chinese traditional clothing way back to Han dynasty. So technically qipao and changshan should be considered as symbol of oppression towards Han people just like how in America where white people forcing native American to assimilate by wearing western clothing.

    • @chizzieshark
      @chizzieshark 3 роки тому +30

      Only partially agree with this.
      1. We can't deny that the Qing dynasty had a massive influence on ethnic Han Chinese culture and dress. To erase that part of our history would be disingenuous.
      2. Early Qing dynasty clothing actually drew inspiration from the late Ming dynasty - you can see this in the shape of the "aoqun" and emergence of the Mandarin collar towards the end of the Ming dynasty.
      3. The qipao and changshan are not really Manchurian or Qing dynasty clothing, although they are adapted from them. The qipao is actually a cross between changshan and Western tailoring methods, resulting in a completely new dress style. Ironically the qipao is a perfect example of cultural appropriation.

    • @mouschiu
      @mouschiu 2 роки тому

      Manchurian clothing is based off of Han Chinese tailoring methods. They took heavy influence from China…

    • @hweiii
      @hweiii 2 роки тому +10

      I get where you're coming from but the Manchu are also Chinese, a different people group from the Han but Chinese nonetheless...

    • @mouschiu
      @mouschiu 2 роки тому +1

      @@hweiii excellent point. The concept of the Chinese people is all inclusive of the many ethnicities within China. It‘s a mostly invented idea.

    • @Tran-ll2it
      @Tran-ll2it 2 роки тому +3

      While it did start out that way, over the course of the entire dynasty many Han people took comfort in qipao and changshan as their clothing and took pride in it, and brought that with them when they immigrated and passed it down to their children as well. As a member of the Chinese diaspora I think the changshan is very nice and would like to have one myself one day. Of course the “hanfu” revival movement has a lot to respect as well, beautiful exquisite clothing.

  • @SauleNewell
    @SauleNewell 3 роки тому +122

    This is so benevolent and kind it's really rare to see that on youtube. I loved your conclusions

    • @MeritStoreOfficial
      @MeritStoreOfficial  3 роки тому +16

      Thank you! It feels good to see someone recognize my intentions. Cheers.

  • @TheMagicCrafter
    @TheMagicCrafter 2 роки тому +15

    Holy crow. Thank you so, so much for this video. Since I was a kid, I always had an interest in Chinese stories, art, outfits and history (the story of the Four Dragons is still my favorite tale!). I've always admired hanfu and have been wanting to incorporate some hanfu pieces into my wardrobe- it is so elegant! But I've been afraid to buy any of it, since I'm terrified that people will lash out at me. Thank you for the reassurance. 💜

  • @colorfullyme
    @colorfullyme 3 роки тому +21

    I have been studying Mandarin for several years, major in East Asian Studies at university, have visited Mainland China and Hong Kong, lived in Taiwan for a year, and of course have a deep appreciation for Chinese culture. Still, I felt like I shouldn't wear any Chinese garments because I am white. I did not want to offend anyone. This video changed my perspective. Now I realize that it might actually enable me to share my interest with others and to have some difficult but necessary conversations. Thank you for your perspective!
    On a similar note, I dressed up as a "Chinese princess" one year for Halloween, and such costumes are usually deemed offensive nowadays. I showed a picture to a close friend though, and she found it adorable. Actually, that would have been a great opportunity for my parents to get some books from the library and try to make a historically accurate costume, ideally of an actual person. That did not happen because my parents were too busy working, but my interest was obviously sincere. I hope we can all learn to embrace our natural, childlike fascinations with other cultures. It is easy to tell when someone is motivated by love rather than attention seeking or disrespectful.

  • @ashitaka3452
    @ashitaka3452 2 роки тому +6

    when I visited China I wore a hanfu because I found it very elegant and lovely.many Chinese people complimented me and talked to me about the culture behind the style, it made me so happy and so connected with Chinese people and their culture .

  • @aleksandra7420
    @aleksandra7420 9 місяців тому +4

    I’m Russian and I have this idea of sewing a dress inspired by Hanfu for a while. I have such a perfect design in my head! Thank you for allowing people to be inspired by your culture. I only start my research, but I already learned a lot about the difference between Chinese, Japanese and Korean traditional clothing. Before I barely could recognise which one belongs to which country. I hope to learn more.

  • @meh5421
    @meh5421 3 роки тому +65

    0:42 if you look through that user's twitter history, you can find out that he said some really racist stuff against black and white people including multiple times he used the n-word. I think that shows what kind of person he really is

    • @mysryuza
      @mysryuza 2 роки тому +5

      That’s very ironic

  • @foxemartin
    @foxemartin 3 роки тому +51

    I studied cultural anthropology and spent my last semester studying in Chengdu. I obviously can't speak as someone belonging to the culture; in the time I spent there, I saw ads in English offering tailoring for custom qipao. I saw all flavors of people wearing them with no resulting anger. I just never got the impression anyone cared. When I was in school, cultural appropriation had a more neutral connotation. Now it solely represents cultural exploitation and disrespect. For too long in this country, minorities have been abused and traumatized; it makes sense to be protective of one's cultural associations. But now social conflict theory is the normative lens while there's more than one discourse for examining cultural exchange. There reaches a point where accusations of cultural appropriation repress genuine and respectful cultural exchange. And that's not right.

    • @tealittle2972
      @tealittle2972 3 роки тому +5

      Totally agree. It's just overseas Chinese have different sensitivities from Chinese in China. Especially in America, identity is always interwind with politics so they care a lot about their cultural identity I guess. I personally embrace diversity and welcome anyone to try my culture if that person shows interest.

    • @aygulmemet4201
      @aygulmemet4201 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah people in china don't care as long as you're not wearing something traditionally japanese and then call it chinese, or the opposite

  • @janellekayla4506
    @janellekayla4506 3 роки тому +8

    I am African American and I recently bought a qipao because it’s so beautiful but I didn’t want to be disrespectful to anyone so I had to make sure I knew more about it, this video absolutely helped me feel better about wearing it thank you!

    • @jadashields5166
      @jadashields5166 8 місяців тому

      I mean heck it ain't like there own ppl be disrespecting and wear it however they want to so I would

  • @angeliqueroux3017
    @angeliqueroux3017 2 роки тому +15

    When you fell in love with a Chinese-inspired dress and gotta make sure you can wear it before buying it. This makes me so happy. The knots, the embroidery, the artistic history. 😍😌 Thank you for putting this video out into the world and giving us permission to enjoy, explore & appreciate Chinese culture & artisanal beauty openly without shame and fear.

  • @sofinabromson1051
    @sofinabromson1051 3 роки тому

    Beautifully said! ✨ Thank you for this video. I was searching for a discussion about this topic and you covered that nicely.

  • @AyaWorthless
    @AyaWorthless Рік тому +6

    I know this video is kinda old, but I agree with you 100%, I am African American or black, I'm from America and current I'm doing research on the Hanfu, Qipao and other traditional Chinese clothes for a drawing and I've been in love with Chinese culture since I was little, the food, the architecture, the traditions, the poetry and the history always fascinated me. I'd love to one day wear a flowing Hanfu to show my love and appreciation to the culture and people within it and I want to learn Chinese (though this would be very hard q_q;;)
    People need to realize that culture isn't supposed to be relegated to one part of the world, it's supposed to be shared unless not (Like the Native American headdress) it's supposed to be learned, taught and shared, at least in my opinion-

  • @heynhamnham
    @heynhamnham 3 роки тому +40

    I have two qi pao styled tops, but I'm too scared to wear them for 2 reasons: they're too revealing and me being called out for cultural appropriation...
    I'm really shy and when people start discussing with me I get really nervous and cry. Just bought them because they looked really well made and good looking, but I did my research about it later on.

    • @Jasmin-jk6xf
      @Jasmin-jk6xf 3 роки тому +8

      I can feel you...I wish you can find the confidence to wear them outside :) They surely will look great on you! If I would see u on the street wearing a quipao I would smile and think what a great piece of garment you are wearing :)

    • @marshmallows394
      @marshmallows394 3 роки тому +7

      if your tops are not sexualized in any way (looks sexy or provocative or styled in that way), you’re completely fine to wear it! :)

    • @marshmallows394
      @marshmallows394 3 роки тому +4

      @@AlexaMonroe-fk6yc oh no that’s definitely ok don’t worry

  • @vincesoliven4071
    @vincesoliven4071 3 роки тому +27

    Agree with you. While it seems increasingly common to be quick to judge, we must learn to consider the context and factors involved in the decision made. We've gotta be veer away from being more opinionated than informed. This goes for clothing choices, and honestly, everything else.

    • @MeritStoreOfficial
      @MeritStoreOfficial  3 роки тому +8

      I like that. Informed vs. opinionated. Not to say that one shouldn't have opinions, but maybe we need all the information before we come to a judgmnent.

  • @clmoss1
    @clmoss1 3 роки тому +15

    This really helped my perspective of the sort of silliness and preformative nature on social media.
    Also very likeable person very level headed :)

  • @beckyann7572
    @beckyann7572 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much for explaining this to me, my daughter was trying to explain this to me and now I have a better understanding. New to your channel and subscribed.

  • @gabriellebagii4847
    @gabriellebagii4847 3 роки тому +19

    omg, that's all I was needing to hear! I've been researching hanfu for my chinese study group and really wanted to reproduce one to show them, but I was so worried it would be cultural appropriation

    • @jiaying4277
      @jiaying4277 3 роки тому +7

      That’s amazing! If you decide to go through with your plan, I assure you it’s cultural appreciation, especially with all the research, studying and effort going into reproducing it.

  • @Isrella
    @Isrella 3 роки тому +26

    Omg I love this guy!!!! So glad i stumbled on your channel

  • @iloveVLJH
    @iloveVLJH 3 роки тому +17

    Wear whatever you want! Learn about my culture, please. I love seeing people of difference races wear my traditional garment. But please don’t insult it by making it into a sexy crop top or pulling your eyes back. It’s all about respect (:

  • @kevinzhao9524
    @kevinzhao9524 3 роки тому +47

    Is wearing clothing usually associated with the culture of other ethnic groups legal in the country you are in? If yes, then they can wear whatever they want, nobody has any buisness enforcing or regulating this. A culture is not the personal property of a person or a group. Also, saying that a person of non-chinese descent cannot wear a qipao because of their ethnicity is literal discrimination based on ethnicity.
    About your mention of the traditional native clothes, yes copying them would be distasteful but unless what they are doing is directly inciting violence, then the native peoples in question can only criticize.

    • @ak-tn1ed
      @ak-tn1ed 2 роки тому +16

      Im native and I think wearing native traditional clothes is fine as long as people genuinely are interested and respectful. The headdress is only distasteful because it’s very sacred and has to be earned. Native men put their lives at risk to earn them, some even die in the process. Not to mention only men can wear them. It’s like putting on a fake military uniform with a bunch of medals and walking around in it and sexualizing it when those soldiers put their lives at risk to earn those.

    • @tuluppampam
      @tuluppampam 8 місяців тому

      ​@@ak-tn1edthis basically circles back to the understanding of the piece of garment
      It's cultural appropriation when disrespectful and distasteful, while it's appreciation when tasteful and appropriate

  • @sutomuarashi
    @sutomuarashi 3 роки тому +33

    it’s fine, with the exceptions of:
    sexualizing it
    not understanding the background
    wearing it as a costume
    updated opinion upon doing research
    the cheongsam/qipao dress as we know it was pretty inspired by westies and ppl hoped they could have a fair government (they kinda idolized westie government at the time or some shit idk) so it was literally inspired by that
    also the short dresses are cute af (they r cold though lmao) but actually have more meaning than just "oh its cute and i wont trip!1!" it was worn by women who were kinda done with norms
    when the garment was banned all together some dressmaker dudes escaped to other countries and sold those dresses so historically no one gave to damns
    anyway love u ppl bye

    • @madelineshrimp
      @madelineshrimp 3 роки тому

      well said

    • @rein0123
      @rein0123 3 роки тому

      Why is it not alright to wear it as a costume? There are some chinese cosplays.

    • @joeymerlis
      @joeymerlis 3 роки тому +7

      @@rein0123 Because most of the time when it's worn as a costume, the clothing is not made or worn in a proper way. If you're cosplaying a character, that's fine because the character would've had a specific costume.

    • @rein0123
      @rein0123 3 роки тому

      @@joeymerlis i guess? To be honest doesnt look like there has many ways qipao can be worn though.

    • @joeymerlis
      @joeymerlis 3 роки тому +7

      @@rein0123 Firstly, Qi Pao(旗袍) is not the only traditional clothing that we wear. There are many others such as Chang Shan(長衫), Zhi ju(直裾), Qu ju(曲裾), Chang Yi (氅衣) Ru Qun(襦裙) and so many more. They all have the occasion, time and ways to wear. Some require a different set underneath the clothing, some can only be worn by certain people and some needs to be worn in layers with knots. Of course, there are simplified versions so that more people are able to wear them without the fuss of wrapping in different directions and tying knots everywhere, but please do understand that is part of the clothing. Some mistakes could be really awkward because it is worn in a way a dead person would.
      Secondly, Qi Pao is pretty simple to wear compared to other styles of clothing, however, the clothing itself represents modesty and grace. So, to wear a Qi Pao means to act accordingly to those qualities, if that makes sense. Such as standing and sitting straight (shoulders back, butt not sticking out etc), legs straight (not twisting legs in a weird way, sometimes you see people doing that on public transport), not lifting the legs too high. And certainly not doing that weird pose like the girl in prom -_-; We don't do that here.
      I hope this is helpful:)
      TL;DR Wear it like a lady ;)

  • @shadistrawberry
    @shadistrawberry 3 роки тому

    I'm writing an essay on cultural appropriation which I have to curate a UA-cam playlist for and I was so happy to come across this incredibly nuanced video! I liked it so much I subscribed, thank you so much for making it.

  • @a.20679
    @a.20679 2 роки тому +2

    I feel so pleased to hear that. I own a kimono from Japan from a previous trip and still have difficulty to wear it outside freely even if I try to modernize the wearing through the help of the kimono enthusiastic community on IG. I love Qipao and Ao Dai from Vietnam as well. I think as you said it so great to share and appreciate a garment for all the craft makers behind and the noble fabrics that are disappearing these days for fast fashion. Thank you for this video!

  • @ernestguzman4962
    @ernestguzman4962 11 місяців тому +1

    His comments about seeing someone wearing something unusual leading to curiosity which then leads to learning more about human history, for me, are spot on.

  • @salastyrio
    @salastyrio 3 роки тому

    yo! this is super interesting, I checked out your channel and website and will DEF be looking at it in more detail great content I love it

  • @sarahfeyas7520
    @sarahfeyas7520 3 роки тому +1

    I appreciate you taking the time to explain your thoughts!

  • @Skullkidjynx
    @Skullkidjynx 3 роки тому +49

    At first the thumbnail made me think you were a woman, you have beautiful hair!

    • @MeritStoreOfficial
      @MeritStoreOfficial  3 роки тому +34

      HAHAHA! Thank you. One time I was at a music festival and this drunk Aussie guy kept trying to talk to me and then halfway through the set he turns around and says, "OI! I THOUGHT YOU WERE A GIRL!"

    • @yvetteinman3914
      @yvetteinman3914 3 роки тому +4

      @@MeritStoreOfficial You're just a beautiful man but, I could clearly see you are a man!

  • @calebhafen
    @calebhafen Рік тому

    This is rad - I love the openness. I love exploring grey areas rather than black and white and I think you helped me follow your journey through grey :) Learned a lot.

  • @sanravi9886
    @sanravi9886 3 роки тому +1

    very good topic brother. Thoroughly enjoyed it

  • @MzAnnyLin
    @MzAnnyLin 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Great video and well said. I love traveling and learning about other cultures on food, clothing, jewelry, etc. Me owning a piece of their work is me appreciating their culture. Also, i love seeing people from all cultures wearing a chipao, and I agree it can lead to more conversations, whether good or bad, it educates people on the subject. ❤️

  • @kristeno1402
    @kristeno1402 3 роки тому +18

    I love how this was said. I have veeeeeeeery lil korean in me and often I get slighted and called a white girl (being half Irish makes sense). But it makes it incredibly hard for me to want to wear anything of what I’m made up. I hugely respect all cultures, and try my damndest to never offend. But often am offended because I’m too white, or I don’t look asian.
    What are your thoughts on modern cheongsam? Though I am not of decent, would this be offensive?

  • @connormelton1635
    @connormelton1635 3 роки тому +5

    I am Afro-brazillian and wear tangzhuang shirts regularly and incorporate a lot of east asian elements in general into my daily fashion. Though learning about and indulging in East Asian culture is a MAJOR hobby and past time for me and I spend a lot of time researching before deciding how to wear any item of cultural clothing. Doing it correctly is important to both me and the experience imo. I don't quite have the confidence to wear my flashier and outwardly asian clothes like my kimonos or changshan out in public but I hope one day stigma will change and we'll be able to wear eachothers cultural clothes freely in everyday life. I think your opinion is the right one. If a chinese brother or sister wants to do something like get dreads or wear a dashiki I 100% support them.

  • @krk6216
    @krk6216 9 днів тому

    Thank you so much for the nuanced take and your willingness to share with your coworker. I can tell you want to foster community and that is so wonderful ❤❤ I’ve experienced gatekeeping from others about their culture when all I wanted was to understand them and their home better. I wanted them to feel seen and heard in our community

  • @overthedosage
    @overthedosage Рік тому

    I really appreciate you making this video! I've been wanting to get into cosplay and the particular series I was looking at is a Chinese xianxia-based and even /as/ an Asian, I was worried about cultural appropriation, as I was born in the West without much education about my culture's ancient history. It made me uneasy when I saw a very particular video from someone condemning non-Chinese persons from wearing Chinese traditional clothing in general, which made it felt like /I/ shouldn't do so. Your video & the comments below helped with quelling those uneasy feelings, so thank you!

  • @discipleofsound4565
    @discipleofsound4565 3 роки тому +7

    A little late to this party, but I just have to say "well said." One of my favourite feelings is when people light up with joy when I show interest in their culture. I'll never forget going to a Middle Eastern restaurant and exchanging some simple Arabic with the owner; he hugged me, and was excited that I showed interest in his culture.
    The world is too interesting not to share. Be respectful, but be open.

  • @courtneytowen
    @courtneytowen 2 роки тому

    thank you for this video! i've never heard someone speak about the difference between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation. it makes total sense to me that some garments have a specific meaning and should be worn by the people who belong to the culture those clothes come from and other garments don't have the same sacred meaning. it's a good reminder that we should look into the significance behind certain clothes before wearing them if we know they come from a culture we aren't fully educated on.

  • @apolloandwarrior_3229
    @apolloandwarrior_3229 2 роки тому +2

    I know this is a bit late but currently I've been in the works of designing my prom dress. I have done so much reasearch on what makes a qipao, it's not even funny. It's kind of an oath to my favorite game "Love Nikki" which really got me interested and invested into Chinese culture.
    They often have events surrounding Chinese holidays, mid autumn festival, Chinese new year. And they even have an event for Thanksgiving! An American only holiday. But it's where I first learned of the qipao and hanfu, both are styles of dresses that I adore

  • @maddiebeatz98
    @maddiebeatz98 2 роки тому

    Thanks for making this video I was wondering about this.

  • @sofitocco
    @sofitocco 2 роки тому +4

    I recently bought a few ruqun hanfu, and I'm so excited to wear them! I adore han-style clothing, and I love Chinese culture❤️

  • @user-fg6tn9ov7s
    @user-fg6tn9ov7s 2 роки тому +1

    Great video! But there is a thing that i would like to clarify: Tang Zhuang唐装 is not from Tang Dynasty. Here is some insight into the Tang Zhuang. Tang Zhuang is a modernized version of Ma Gua that were brought back during the Republic of China period. The Ma Gua 马褂 originated from Three Kingdom Period (220-280AD), however this type of clothes wasn't really popular until the Qing Dynasty, because the Man ethnic people would wear this kind of clothes/top whie riding horses, so people just name it Ma Gua(Horse Top, literally).

  • @missmatchablossom
    @missmatchablossom 3 роки тому

    I very much agree with this view point👍🏽👏🏽 thabk you for posting

  • @EileenElectra
    @EileenElectra Рік тому

    Thank you for making this video☀️

  • @aneesabahman3748
    @aneesabahman3748 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video! Accepting and sharing culture leads to increased understanding and empathy for one another. Our world needs more positive emotions.

  • @Nana-km4gw
    @Nana-km4gw 3 роки тому

    This video is very educating, thank you :)

  • @Handleitt1
    @Handleitt1 3 роки тому +6

    Culture appreciation is so beautiful. Thank you for this video.

    • @feyrie
      @feyrie 9 місяців тому

      I love cultural appreciation, because I don’t want the world to forget..

  • @bellarose1562
    @bellarose1562 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you I found a Chinese jacket at an antique store and I was afraid to wear it out. I am not now and I want to learn more about these clothes. I think they are so cool and awesome.

  • @aki-adriankyorlsilveeshire769
    @aki-adriankyorlsilveeshire769 2 роки тому +1

    I came here to think about if I can wear hanfu as everyday attire because I absolutely love the culture and the style, and I do as much research as I can (I'm in the sca where appreciation not appropriation is an absolute must)
    This was a very helpful video, thank you.

  • @mau4887
    @mau4887 2 роки тому

    You are one of the smartest people to ever speak on this! Thank you!

  • @myotiswii
    @myotiswii 3 роки тому +1

    On the 4:35 "peace sign", that is meant to be VN (it kinda is supposed to look like that) and I think it means vape nation.
    Yeah, and I have seen some gamers do the closing the hands like the girls do as a "gamer focus mode" pose or something among these lines.
    So I really think they were just doing silly poses for the photo.

  • @honeyaardvark4985
    @honeyaardvark4985 3 роки тому +6

    Tbh the whole culture appropriation issue is only an issue I see within the white (especially in the USA) community. In Malaysia, we sometimes wear the traditional costumes of other races to during national celebrations as a sign of acceptance and unity. To see people getting confused over something as simple as appreciation and appropriation is truly worrying.

    • @sarahwong6136
      @sarahwong6136 3 роки тому +1

      I think it's more towards distasteful or strange if someone's wearing something like cheongsam while not being Chinese in the U.S. As long as they don't fetishize it there's nothing wrong. It's definitely not cultural appropriation, but we're also more wary cause there's a history of racism and fetishization of our culture (not saying there isn't in other areas and cultures, just an explanation of why we might feel it's distasteful)

  • @analauradeoliveiragarcia6125
    @analauradeoliveiragarcia6125 3 роки тому +33

    Im not chinese but i use qipao and something like this because i love on the deepness of my heart the culture chinese 😍

    • @zango3134
      @zango3134 3 роки тому +4

      Yes it’s such a beautiful culture 🙏 I’m not surprised that Americans and other people might want to wear a qipao, because it’s a beautiful culture and not many other cultures are as elegant and stylish as the Chinese culture.

    • @oliviaolivia3326
      @oliviaolivia3326 3 роки тому

      Qipao is not Chinese, it is Jurchen

  • @AhsokaTanoTheWhite
    @AhsokaTanoTheWhite 3 роки тому +2

    I found this video as I was looking up if it would be socially acceptable to wear a Cheongsam shirt, I love China, I love the history, and I am currently learning Mandarin at the moment, I have been fascinated with China since I was 8 when Disney's Mulan came out (I know that this isn't a great place to start, but that's what started me on this journey, got me interested in the Great Wall of China, the history, culture, OH AND THE FOOD! How is Chinese food so much better than European food!? Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
    Oh and if any Chinese readers see this, 你们太好了 (probably pretty terrible, but I am still learning).

  • @carmenalicea9089
    @carmenalicea9089 3 роки тому +1

    Form and fit, beautiful aesthetics, lovely fabrics. That is what fashion is all about for people that enjoy looking amazing. We should be able to share what is beautiful about our styles. Like the bridge to bonding people.
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Xo

  • @Lathylalalo
    @Lathylalalo 3 роки тому +1

    This is crazy! This video just open my eyes to a whole new perspective! I am not Chinese, but I love their traditional clothing as well as culture. I do agreed with out said about the positive side; thats okay for a non-Chinese to wear qipao or Changshan! That’s the reason how I come across this video. I was doing my research on Chinese Manchu women’s robe (Qi top)! Still doing my search and I learned there is so many styles. Lol

  • @kittywithawetnose
    @kittywithawetnose 4 місяці тому +1

    As a person living in a multicultural country, Malaysia, I find culture appropriation weird to me. Wearing another culture's traditional outfit is NOT culture appropriation but appreciation. You bought it, you wore it, you enjoy it and there's nothing wrong with that. I would be proud to know that someone of other culture likes my culture and wants to explore it.

  • @scrumpledmilkskin
    @scrumpledmilkskin Рік тому

    This helps so much, thank you.

  • @katiewilkinson3262
    @katiewilkinson3262 Рік тому

    Thank you for this. I have always loved learning about other cultures and being inspired by their fashions, foods, dances, and music. In recent years I've come to fear expressing my appreciation for other cultures in fear of being accused of appropriating them.

  • @starlight3088
    @starlight3088 3 роки тому +1

    This was so relieving to hear! I have a Qipao and I’ve been wondering if I should wear it out when I have a chance but I didn’t want to give off a cultural appropriation vibe despite doing my research on the clothing

  • @nataliasharp7276
    @nataliasharp7276 3 роки тому

    I am so glad that I stumbled across this video. I love the Chinese culture so much and am actually in the process of creating my own hanfu but am highly concerned with the fact that I don't want to offend anyone with what I am doing. I did as much research as I possibly could before even deciding which style and materials to buy. So fingers crossed that my project is finished tonight so that I can wear it tomorrow night for the New Year's Eve celebration.

  • @chloeiverson1986
    @chloeiverson1986 3 роки тому +3

    THANK YOU!!! I am an asian-american apparel design student who would love to incorporate the shapes and styles of traditional asian into my designs for school. I was worried some people would think that my line is cultural appropriation. I was trying to do research which lead me to this video. I feel so much better knowing that other asian-americans feel the same way i do!

    • @faustinuskaryadi6610
      @faustinuskaryadi6610 2 роки тому

      There is no cultural appropriation by using Qipao as the base since it was symbol of Westernization during Republic of China Era, night club hostess used ti wear it in 1930s Shanghai. Nothing sacred about Qipao, but you should avoid Imperial Chinese royals clothing because it has very deep philosophy.

  • @certifiedtrash2298
    @certifiedtrash2298 3 роки тому +5

    I'd love to wear a Hanfu one day because I just thing it's absolutly stunning.

    • @idontknowmyname.9202
      @idontknowmyname.9202 3 роки тому +1

      there are a lot of gorgeous hanfu on Taobao! you should try to order some 💝✨

  • @kazvonlowenhof4656
    @kazvonlowenhof4656 2 роки тому +3

    As a Chinese lives in Asia, I'm absolutely alright for non-Chinese to wear qipao or hanfu. If they like it, just do it. Why would we need to think so much? I'm even thrilled and happy to see non-Chinese to wear qipao or hanfu. I don't care if they wear it for fun, prom, daily wear. Whatever. If they are happy with it then just let them be. So long they don't wear it for ill intention. And so long they aren't naked.
    I even encouraged my European friends to wear hanfu since they love it and I even helped them to provide hanfu pattern to sew their own hanfu.
    不必想太多。生活很简单。如果他们喜欢穿, 穿吧。haiya...

  • @emilandersson4366
    @emilandersson4366 3 роки тому

    Great points. I think intention is key. Planning a wedding to my Chinese/Malaysian/Singaporean girlfriend and in this we are both learning through clothing and traditions how to bring our families and friends closer. The first day will be traditional Chinese, with tea ceremony and auspicious traditions. But would encourage our Swedish friends to wear folk dress or appreciate her Japanese friend sporting her kimono. Would in everyday life stretch to a mandarin collar on my shirts, both for the style and comfort, but also since similar collars existed in my Swedish grandfathers youth and love them cause they remind me of him.

  • @gabriellechilton5902
    @gabriellechilton5902 3 роки тому

    Great content. Thank you. Great subject. I love culture.

  • @maxinecoleman721
    @maxinecoleman721 3 роки тому +1

    I started doing a little research on traditional Chinese garments from all eras can you recommend some good source material so I can learn even more about them. I'd really like to learn more about all tradition garments not just the Qipao.

  • @cabinboyknits1816
    @cabinboyknits1816 2 роки тому

    Great episode.

  • @soniaiberti2602
    @soniaiberti2602 7 місяців тому

    100% AGREE with your thoughts. Thanks for sharing them. LOVE from Italy ♥️♥️♥️

  • @valentinabedoyallanos3819
    @valentinabedoyallanos3819 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video. It has been so useful for me, as my best friend gifted me a Qipao to wear at a family celebration (the quinceañera of a cousin of mine) and I had been debating in my head for weeks whether or not it was appropriate for me (a Latina woman with no traces of Asian heritage) to wear a cultural garment as the Qipao at all, let alone at a Latinamerican party; I have always regarded asian culture with fondness and appreciation, when I saw the dress I thought it was absolutely beautiful and fell in love with all the fine details of it; and I totally agree with you, the simple fact of owning this dress led me to do so much research on Chinese culture and traditions while trying to understand its significance culture-wise. I was afraid that I'd be mindlessly appropriating an aspect of a foreign culture that might be sacred to it and thus inappropriate for me to wear. This video has brought me lots of clarity, and I am deeply appreciative of your objective take on the matter. Thanks a lot

  • @zuhrealeynaede4472
    @zuhrealeynaede4472 2 роки тому

    When I first saw a Changshan in Turkish TV news, an old journalist was wearing it and i fell in love with that imidietly

  • @Kim67749
    @Kim67749 3 роки тому +15

    I literally came here because I fell in love with the pattern and design of the dress but as a black person i dont feel comfortable to wear it.

    • @joeymerlis
      @joeymerlis 3 роки тому +6

      As a Chinese Asian, I'd say you should wear it XD try it out at new years, and if it weren't for covid, I would've recommended you to wear it during Chinese/Lunar New Years to China town too:)) Give it some research regarding colours and style if you're still not sure ;)

    • @sutomuarashi
      @sutomuarashi 3 роки тому +2

      bruh its just a dress
      wear it if u want

  • @simogi2845
    @simogi2845 9 місяців тому +2

    I agree with you. I also want to live in a world where we all appreciate cultural references of countries we might like. I am Italian, but I do wear clothing and jewelry from across the world. I make researches on what I wear, to have an understanding, sometimes deeper, sometimes just a quick overview... I am puzzled when people like me are attacked for being rude while wearing something from Kenya, Laos or Native Americans. I am doing nothing than enhancing the beauty of an artifact and an art piece and celebrating the culture that it refers to. We are all one world.

  • @ryanjacobson2326
    @ryanjacobson2326 2 роки тому

    Thank you! My daughter and son have worn these often as gifts from Hong Kong. Typically they’ve worn them for cultural day at school. My youngest wants her own. Also, my grandmother used to teach me about Chinese astrology and Chinese New Year. She wasn’t at all Chinese but Hispanic and part Irish cooking Asian meals weekly with a deep appreciation for the cultures. My kids want to wear traditional Chinese garments for the new year but we have a Chinese neighbor and I didn’t want to offend so we did check into this. I personally agree. We love many cultures and want to honor them to show solidarity and connection to the community around us. It seems silly to use it as a way to divide us.

  • @happinessandwealthbeing9817
    @happinessandwealthbeing9817 3 роки тому

    I think the point you mentioned about how using a garment from another culture can lead to learn more about the culture it happened to me personally. I have always admired asian culture, and I have studied its geography. I have a deep interest in art and fashion industry. I started modeling south East Asian clothes, then Mexican clothes, Colombian clothes, Chinese clothes to mention some. But like you said that was what at first brought my attention and eventually I started to do more research about their history and now I’m currently trying to learn mandarin.
    Regards, 🌹let’s unity our society, and see the uniqueness and beauty of each culture.
    💐

  • @acemjwaldor7796
    @acemjwaldor7796 3 роки тому +1

    Dude you are so....right on point with your thoughts. If it's done with disrespect then it is so wrong that they should be shamed. But if there's no disrespect intended then by all means go ahead. Do the research, join the world fashion. Let's not separate us over the little things. Love that you are explaining it from YOUR viewpoint, keep up the great conversation and help unite the planet by acceptance of each other.

  • @whofan1212
    @whofan1212 3 роки тому +2

    ive been tempted to cosplay from the untamed, specifically Lan wangji, and was wondering which parts if any i should not do. as im not chinese and am not overly familiar with the culture and cant find any articles myself. great video!

    • @verybarebones
      @verybarebones 3 роки тому

      Ask chinese people instead of Americans.

  • @sweetpapayasourpeach
    @sweetpapayasourpeach 2 роки тому

    Can I just say, "thank you thank you thank you"! I have nothing more to say since this video covers perfectly my exact thoughts on this topic only more eloquent than my own. I actually wanted to add some food for thought: what about mixed people? I'm half French half Malay and one of my brothers looks proper white where I look more Malay minus my height and long nose. What if someone saw my white looking brother, who is from the same set of parents, wearing traditional Malaysian clothing? Who are we to assume that it's not from his culture? I think a video on this topic with a portion of social experimenting and interviewing people on the street would interesting.

  • @chellchrome6698
    @chellchrome6698 Рік тому +2

    I'm Chinese and I wear Western clothes all the time, so I don't have any problems when a Westerner wants to wear Chinese clothes.

  • @beteljuice6629
    @beteljuice6629 2 роки тому

    The importance and reverence that my students treat their prom dresses with makes me feel like even though it's a party it is the party for a lot of teenagers. With everything going on with the variants, prom is up in the air and I have students who have completely mentally checked out because that is one of the most important of events of their senior year.
    There were girls who by the second week of school were setting up appointments to get dresses handmade when they found out that we don't know for sure if we're going to have a prom.

  • @nataliemason2454
    @nataliemason2454 3 роки тому

    i love your video, i have a beautiful blue qipao but i only wear it inside my home. its absolutely gorgeous but i am afraid to wear it anywhere else

  • @YUMMAEH1
    @YUMMAEH1 3 роки тому +4

    People just need to chill. I don’t have a problem with others wearing my culture clothing. I’d be happy about it

  • @gabriellaaraujo7421
    @gabriellaaraujo7421 2 роки тому +1

    I saw on a TV show a White woman use a qipao at a wedding and it was so beautiful, and since my sister's wedding is coming up I thought that I might look good in one because it was so elegant and pretty! I'm glad I found this video to understand better more about this awesome culture! Thank you so much!

    • @gabriellaaraujo7421
      @gabriellaaraujo7421 2 роки тому

      I don't know why white was with a capital W lmao. Just for context, I am Brazilian.

  • @khushbuyadav8542
    @khushbuyadav8542 3 роки тому +2

    i love chinese culture culture so much but i was doubtful if its ok for me to wear em. but now when i go to china i’m bringing a bunch of beautiful cloths along with other gorgeous handy craft.

  • @daisuke910
    @daisuke910 3 роки тому +2

    This is what happen when people in the US confuse with Halloween and normal day clothing. I understand that this stem from wearing black face during Halloween and the critics seeping into when people trying to be more understanding of other culture. I have mix parentage (Malay and Chinese) and I love when my friends wear my culture clothings.

  • @601salsa
    @601salsa 2 роки тому +1

    Ok question, I have learnt a lot from ancient Chinese history, eg the first seismograph, silk manufacture, traditional offgrid food preservation. I like trouser hand fu's (not sure if thats its exact term) and i am tying to figure out a way of minimising the amount of stuff i own but will last longer and still remain classic and versatile whilst dealing with my body weight issues and injury pain which limits my clothing options. is it wrong to try and figure out a way of getting the look of a hanfu trouser whilst reducing the amount of clothing i own and making it comfortable to deal with my medical issues?