கற்பை தன் உயிரினும் மேலாக மதித்து வாழும் ஒரு பெண்ணை ஒருவன் சீன்டிவிட்டால் அந்த பெண் தன் கற்பிற்கு தந்த முக்கியத்துவத்திற்கு சமமாக அந்த ஆணின் செயலுக்கு தகுந்த தண்டனையை தரளாம் தவறில்லை. ஆனால், கற்பை கல்லூரிகளிலும், கடைதெருக்களிலும் விற்கும் பொருளாக அல்லது இலவசமாக பரிமாறும் பொருளாக எண்ணி தறி கெட்டு வாழும் தரம் கெட்ட பெண்கள் கூறும் புகாருக்கும் தண்டனை கொடுப்பது எந்த விதத்தில் நீதியாகும்? அந்த பெண்ணை பொறுத்த வரையில் அவளது கற்புக்கு அவளே முக்கியதுவம் கொடுக்காத போது இந்த பெண்களின் சந்தர்ப்பவாத வார்த்தையை ஏற்றுக்கொண்டு ஆணின் மீது குற்றம் கற்பிப்பது எந்த விதத்தில் நியாயமாகும்? கற்பழிப்பு புகார்களை கூறும் பெண்ணின் நடவடிக்கைகளையும் விசாரித்து ஒழுக்கமான பெண் என்றால் ஆணிற்கு அதிகபட்ச தண்டனையும், தறிகெட்டு அழிந்தவளாக தெரிந்தால் ஒரு ஆண் மற்ற ஆண்மீது தொடுக்கும் வன்முறை தாக்குதலுக்கு உண்டான தண்டனையே மட்டுமே தரப்பட வேண்டும். இங்கே நம் முன் இருக்கும் கேள்வி..... 1. இந்த சின்மயி “பெண்கள் தங்களது கற்பை பாதுகாத்து வாழ வேண்டும்” என்று எப்பொழுதாவது பெண்களுக்கு வலியுருத்திய வரலாறு உண்டா ? 2. தனது சம்மதத்துடன் தன்னை தொடும் எத்தனை ஆண்களை வேண்டுமானலும் அனுமதிப்போம் என்று கூறும் பெண்கள் நிச்சயமாக கற்பு என்பதை உதிரும் முடிக்கு சமமாக கூட மதிக்க மாட்டார்கள். ஆனால் அதே பெண்கள் தங்களது சம்மதம் இல்லாமல் தொடும் ஆண்களிடம் அலப்பரைகள் செய்வதன் நோக்கம் பேரம் சரி வர படியாததால் மட்டுமே இருக்க முடியும். அந்த பேரம் பணமாகவோ, அந்தஷ்தாகவோ, ஜாதியாகவோ, வேறு எதுவாகவோ கூட இருக்கலாம். இந்த காம சந்தையில் அதர்க்கான மார்கெட் வாய்ப்பை உருவாக்குவது தான் இந்த Me too வின் நோக்கமா ? அதர்க்கான விளம்பர தூதுவர் பணியை தான் இந்த சின்மயி செய்கிறாளா ? ஒருவர் தனது காதலை உரியவரிடம் தெரிவித்து அவரது சம்மதத்தை அறிய முற்படுவது நியாயமான வழி முறை தான். அதே போல இந்த மாறி வரும் கால சூழ் நிலையில், காமுகிகளும் பரவலாக பரவி உள்ள இந்த சமூகத்தில் ஒரு ஆண் தனக்கான காம வேட்கையை அடுத்த பெண்ணிடம் தெரிவிப்பதும், அந்த பெண்ணின் சம்மதத்தை அறிய முற்படுவதும் நியாயமான வழி முறை தான். கற்பை தன் உயிரினும் மேலாக மதித்து வாழும் பெண்களை தவிர வேறு எந்த காமுகிகளுக்கும் இதனை தவறு என்று முறையீடும் தகுதி இல்லை. இன்றைய பெண்களின் சம உரிமை தத்துவம் என்பதே சீதைக்கு ஏற்ற ராமனை உருவாக்குவது அல்ல. கோவலனுக்கு ஏத்த மாதவிகளை உருவாக்குவது தான். ஆணும் பெண்ணும் சமம் என்று கூறும் நல்லவர்கள் கோவலனுக்கு உள்ள அதே சட்டத்தை மாதவிகளுக்கும் பின் பற்றாமல் மாதவிகளை மட்டும் அதி முக்கியதுவம் கொடுத்து பாதுகாப்பது ஏன் ? இன்றைய காம சந்தையில் மாதவிகள் மிக முக்கிய உயிருள்ள போதை பொருளாகவும், அந்த போதை பொருளுக்கான மார்கட் மதிப்பை உயர்த்துவதும் தான் இந்த அலப்பரைகளின் அடிப்படை நோக்கமா ?
@@rajanbose1 vadakai veetula irukurom athanala yaarukitaium sollalanu solura thavudiya,vadakai veetula irukura elarum adjust panuvagala unna mari illa un amma va mari?? Apo iva kasuku adjust panna thavudiya thana???
Her speech is very clear. I support you Chinmayi. She doesn’t have to spend so much personal time for this issue if it was a lie. There is truth in her statement.. stay strong. #women support..
For those who doubt her, listen to the lyrics Vairamuthu wrote when describing a woman. It tends to get very anatomical up to a level where the poem loses its beauty.
After explaining everything so deeply and going through all of that, she still smiles at the end saying she is happy that the society is changing........ great courageous and fearless woman ! I wish i could give this video a 1000 likes just for her smile and positive attitude at the end !
I was child abused by my uncle.its a very terrible nightmire for me.i didn't tell to anyone in family bcoz for my aunt and for my cousin he dnt have job useless only for my cousin I didn't disturb their life.very scared nd I tried to avoid him in childhood days i would prefer to stay calm in home.even harrassed by strangers in crowded temple. Now I m married still I feel chills in my vein..pls leave children alone. Childhood Life is precious.dnt mess with them.
@@dds2839 where was Jesus when the abuse went on.. why people say he will come after the abuse happened.. stupidity.... If you power yourself, you will save yourself. You don't need anyone
Respect towards this person increased to the peak!! Be strong chinmayi!!! I'm glad that you're not giving a damn about all these memes or haters.. reading all these comments shows how people understood and gained more respect towards you after this video.. thanks for speaking out..
madhumitha13 The people who replied above you are here are indoctrinated political cadres. Most common people are in support of Chinmayi. If Vairamuthu has nothing to fear, then let him file a defamation case, instead of hiding behind twitter and saying only cryptic tweets.
Proud of you chinmaye....love you girl..even I was a victim! Where my family members were torchering me.. now I spoke open to mom ...and those idiot said m blaffing n m also attitude girl # me too
When I was 12, my uncle molested me. I have told people and my family after 10 years. I didn't tell anyone earlier because my uncle is a reputated man and so I kept quiet until few of my cousins opened up about their tragic incidents with him as well. Seriously guys, some people like me just can't make the first move. It is definitely hard. 😟
Yeah, same happened to me... but I told my mom immediately.. he has 2 boy kids.. My mom told him one thing that if you had a daughter, you used to do the same.. thank god, God did not give you a girl baby, she would have suffered otherwise.. it was a slipper shot for him... bcuz i treated him like a father..We didn't reveal this outside bcuz he has kids and his own kids will feel ashamed to face him and may be ashamed of thinking that their own father is cheap if the truth comes out... They respect him a lot... We thought not to spoil his family and kids career.. and cut his relationship forever..
U r ryte...this tis ryte tym to expose all the secret.....if she told 15 years bk no1 wil knw about tis issue lyk wat we knw today b'coz no social media lyk nw. ...gd lesson to pple who try to miz use their power......we support u Chinmaiye....
People who are accusing her of doing this for publicity: do you really think this is the type of publicity someone would want? I love Vairamuthu’s work. There are times where I have supported his unpopular opinions. I have admired him so much as a young tamil girl. Abuse of power is such a bad thing, especially threatening someone else’s future. He threatened to end her career. As someone who is hailing from a poor background he should not do things that can stop someone else’s growth. I expected more from him. I’m so disappointed with him.
First the society should change.. they should not accuse a girl for man's mistake.. "selai mul viluntha" dialogues should be abolished.. . Yen vetti kiliyaathaa? Loosugala.. Selaiya kilikra maathiri mul iruntha.. antha mul chediya vetti eriyanum..
It's not trusting her but why she cameout through me-too movements. It's funded by west. It's a scam and banned. Did she get paid. And howmuch? In millions dollars?.
I support u chinmayi, this is not ly happening in media, it's happening even fr a normal grl who's Standing alone in the road!! Namma naadu appdi kevalamana naadu!! Police a kooda namba mudila #metoo
I remember my friend told me "her uncle touched her with wrong intentions but when she said her mother about this mother asked her not to share about this to anybody". She said she was more hurt coz of her mother's comment. I was speechless. That's the reality.
Yeah, same happened to me... but I told my mom immediately.. he has 2 boy kids.. My mom told him one thing that if you had a daughter, you used to do the same.. thank god, God did not give you a girl baby, she would have suffered otherwise.. it was a slipper shot for him... bcuz i treated him like a father..We didn't reveal this outside bcuz he has kids and his own kids will feel ashamed to face him and may be ashamed of thinking that their own father is cheap if the truth comes out... They respect him a lot... We thought not to spoil his family and cut his relationship..
@@senthilril8401 Yeah, thanks to my mom actually... 😇 I'm proud of her.. she didn't think that her relationship with her own brother will be ruined forever and didn't keep her mouth shut.. or she didn't believe him blindly and warn me like he is my brother, he is gud and he would have not done that... She was able to understand me.. My mom has given me that space and so i was able to tell her the next second.. I wish every parents shud give the space and listen to their kids.. then most of such problems will be solved... Girls will be strong enough to bring out such problems
Now I am 27 years old,Niga solurathu correct than,boys also face same issue,myself also facing same issue,in my 10 years old pakathu la iruka maligai kadai owner ena abuse pananr,enaku apo enanu kuda theriyathu,now I realize everyone facing the issue,pls teach boys also good touch and.bad touch.
Selfish , Self centred society... if the society doesn't change soon ... and respects and looks at women equally, socially it will get degraded and then economically women's contribution will not be there.. another external invasion will happen... might be from China this time and will teach a lesson for this society
Thanks chinmay for speaking out."Me too" faced this sexual abuse at the age of 5 yrs, by God's grace i ascaped. I've never shared with anybody now iam 43 yrs old. Its happening everywhere 🙁 May God bless u stay strong👍
Super chinmayi we believe u dont feel about negative comments they are vairamuthu family members or supporters that negative person have to shine more with help of vairamuthu so they support him
அதிகம் பணம் புகழ் கொண்டவர்கள் திமிராக இப்படி செய்வது எல்லோருக்கும் தெரியும் இந்த காம கொடூரர்களை திருத்த வொரு வாய்ப்பு மீட்டு பணம் அளவுக்கு அதிகம் இருந்தா பொது மக்களுக்கு ஏழைகளுக்கு நன்மை செயுங்கள் உங்கள். புகழ் பெருகும்
I can clearly see she is saying the truth ..... Chinmayi I appreciate your efforts in bringing this issue right now ..... It's never too late to get justice.... You are creating an awareness about abuse towards kids,women and even men .... Stay strong and believe that majority of the people are supporting you .... MAY GOD BLESS YOU ....
In US, from preschool good touch bad touch is being taught for both boys and girls. I repeatedly tell my little sons at least once in a month and I constantly ask questions to them. In a park or when they go to extra classes I warn them about strangers. I feel it is parents responsibility
So bold of you to share this ! But the after effects of standing up against any small degree of harassment is that, when the offender plays innocent people start looking at you differently..like you’ve done something wrong or like you’ve blown things out of proportion . Well it has happened to me in my work place and good genuine people also started distancing themselves from me , very obviously...thinking I was “trouble” and over reactive . I hope everyone’s outlook on issues like this changes
It clearly shows that she is true. But ayya vairamuthu oru tweet poatu end card paotaru. If u r humuliated unnecessarily then u would b furious and want to smack that person. Here vairamuthu ethuvumey pannama irukar. He dint expect that chinmayi will reveal this matter. So sad vairamuthu. Oodavum mudiyathu Oliyavum mudiyathu.. BIG BOSS 3.
So many years women and children have been sexually abused and intimidated by powerful people, people in power and authority. It takes a lot of courage to unmask such culprits. Really appreciate you...
If a lyricist can do such sexual assault to a women in the industry,Now imagine what the actors with those huge fanbase can do to those poor women in the same industry? :\ you really think those actress can open up and say the truth? even if she says so -those so called stars will use their influence to shut her life for good saying she is not professional---and his huge fanbase will start to abuse her - thinking they are supporting their favourite actor. That's the exact reason why men or women fear to speak up against those so called stars in any industry.
This guy has been cheating in the name of 'tamil thai' . You shame our tamil language pretend to be great poet of the century but you are man of low morality.
After so many years, at my 25, I told my parents that i was molested by my close relative. My father did not bother rather laughed teasingly and said that "ithai ellam oru vishayama poi velila solladha". I was quite upset. I can't blame my father because he cannot understand. I felt like only another victim can understand the pain. When my mom rescued a 3 year old kid while the kid was being molested in the day light in front of a shrine, my relatives scolded my mom " nee un velaiya parthuttu summa irukka vendiyadhu thaane". Its painful.
It father can very well understand... he doesn't bother or doesn't want to take any efforts... he says away from responsibilities... he must be an escapist
Selfish , Self centred society... if the society doesn't change soon ... and respects and looks at women equally, socially it will get degraded and then economically women's contribution will not be there.. another external invasion will happen... might be from China this time and will teach a lesson for this society
I understand her behavior at her wedding to be for the society. But I definitely do not understand her mom's. My mom would not have been able to look at that man's eyes let alone laugh and talk. Maybe a forced smile for the society is all she could have managed.
You are honest.....WELL SAID.. She has knowingly encouraged these kind of culprits...thats..the only thing confusing.. Since her mother was able to refuse at that time...HOW COME SHE ALLOW HER TO GET BLESSING FROM HIM..COME ON.. HOW CAN I GO ALONG WITH HIS SONS As a friend..and invite them.. UNNECESSARY... she shouldn't have allowed this kind of person to do nonsense with other girls
It's not that simple! Societal pressures expect you to put on an act! It has happened within family members and you are expected to still behave normally! Sadly we do end up doing so, many times despite our wish to expose them! So let's please not shame her but understand that many things need to change in the society
I haven't shamed her in anyway nor am I saying such a situation did not happen. I do understand that society makes us behave a certain way. Society did not ask her mom to laugh and talk. It would have accepted a smile. The body language of that particular portion of video seems odd. I believe her totally when she says he misbehaved with her, but their reaction after the mishap makes me wonder if there is more to the story.
Maathangi Narayan if u don't like a person but u haven't opened up to anyone but have done it to your mom ,even Ur dad doesn't kw that ! But when that person is present with your father and others how will u show hatred towards him ? In case of chinmayi ,consider her marriage day ! There were lots and lots of people there were media persons covering it and more over it is her big day she would never have wanted to spoil it ! And the main thing to note is that she never decided to open it up at that time ! Consider another scenario if her mom would have showed some kind of odd behaviour that would have also become a viral news !
நல்லவன் போல் நடிப்பவனைவிட "நான் இப்படித்தான், என் வாழ்க்கை இவ்வாறுதான். எவன் எது பேசினாலும் எவன் எதைப்பற்றியும், என் வாழ்க்கையைப்பற்றி பேசினாலும் எதற்கும் கவலைப் படப்போவதில்லை" திறந்த உலகில் திறந்தவனாக வாழும் கமல்ஹாசன் போன்றவர்கள் எவ்வளவோ மேன்மையுடைவர்கள்.
The people in general look to judge immediately. Women were always taken for granted in any field. I'm glad women are speaking out, doesn't matter what time they do. But everyone who are commenting about chinmayee or vairamuthu. Stop for a moment and think if any of you guys have been on either of the side and if so speak up. I'm sure no one here has the authority to comment or judge about chinmayee or vairamuthu. I am voicing out for the campaign and support it. Ask women or men to speak up and stand for the cause and men/ women to stop sexually abusing.
Only just today I saw ur speech,true iam a now 43 year man but in my childhood i have under gone this I ll always support and be with u,well done chinmai
Chinmayi excellent expose against Vairamuthu but pls avoid blaming entire Tamil society because I also belong to Tamil society and I support your expose.
Chinmayi we support you for your bold step taken on vairamuthu. Children, girls and women are faced and facing this problem in one or other way but they are scared of society. Don't care for any negative talks .Go Ahead we all are with you.God bless you.
Takes a lot of courage to admit this in public and people should acknowledge that. Don't drag politics into this and divert the focus. The idea is to make people aware of these sexual predators, so aspiring singers and artists can be wary of such people' s motives. I stand by her.
@chinmayi Only people who have gone through all shit and stayed quiet all the time can understand #metoo . We all strongly support Chinmayi and anyone who is instilling courage to all victims to come and speak out.
Well spoken Chinmayee. For justice will prevail. And this is not about a man vs woman like it is most often portrayed, It is .power vs powerless. With technology the powerless are empowered. I wish you all the best. I support you.
sis I hv been sexually harassed in my childhood 😒 nd even in my schooling. In my schooling I told to few of my classmates about the incident . Bt as few people hurted u by words , few of my classmates hurted me by words 😭😭😭😭😭. Bt I trust in God. God heard my tears.thank God the person who sexually harassed me left the school. It happened lik a miracle. So God is seeing everything, God ll gv u justice. Don worry sis. I can understand ur pain sis. I ll keep praying for u.
Still calling Vairamuthu AIYA...... I don't think she is lying!!.... Stay strong !!!
I said she is calling her " Aiyya " Inspite of her claims against him....... a sign of maturity .... That's what I am insisting here!!!
Rajan Bose
... She has answered that in this video watch it with patient bro.......
கற்பை தன் உயிரினும் மேலாக மதித்து வாழும் ஒரு பெண்ணை ஒருவன் சீன்டிவிட்டால் அந்த பெண் தன் கற்பிற்கு தந்த முக்கியத்துவத்திற்கு சமமாக அந்த ஆணின் செயலுக்கு தகுந்த தண்டனையை தரளாம் தவறில்லை.
ஆனால்,
கற்பை கல்லூரிகளிலும், கடைதெருக்களிலும் விற்கும் பொருளாக அல்லது இலவசமாக பரிமாறும் பொருளாக எண்ணி தறி கெட்டு வாழும் தரம் கெட்ட பெண்கள் கூறும் புகாருக்கும் தண்டனை கொடுப்பது எந்த விதத்தில் நீதியாகும்?
அந்த பெண்ணை பொறுத்த வரையில் அவளது கற்புக்கு அவளே முக்கியதுவம் கொடுக்காத போது இந்த பெண்களின் சந்தர்ப்பவாத வார்த்தையை ஏற்றுக்கொண்டு ஆணின் மீது குற்றம் கற்பிப்பது எந்த விதத்தில் நியாயமாகும்?
கற்பழிப்பு புகார்களை கூறும் பெண்ணின் நடவடிக்கைகளையும் விசாரித்து ஒழுக்கமான பெண் என்றால் ஆணிற்கு அதிகபட்ச தண்டனையும், தறிகெட்டு அழிந்தவளாக தெரிந்தால் ஒரு ஆண் மற்ற ஆண்மீது தொடுக்கும் வன்முறை தாக்குதலுக்கு உண்டான தண்டனையே மட்டுமே தரப்பட வேண்டும்.
இங்கே நம் முன் இருக்கும் கேள்வி.....
1. இந்த சின்மயி “பெண்கள் தங்களது கற்பை பாதுகாத்து வாழ வேண்டும்” என்று எப்பொழுதாவது பெண்களுக்கு வலியுருத்திய வரலாறு உண்டா ?
2. தனது சம்மதத்துடன் தன்னை தொடும் எத்தனை ஆண்களை வேண்டுமானலும் அனுமதிப்போம் என்று கூறும் பெண்கள் நிச்சயமாக கற்பு என்பதை உதிரும் முடிக்கு சமமாக கூட மதிக்க மாட்டார்கள். ஆனால் அதே பெண்கள் தங்களது சம்மதம் இல்லாமல் தொடும் ஆண்களிடம் அலப்பரைகள் செய்வதன் நோக்கம் பேரம் சரி வர படியாததால் மட்டுமே இருக்க முடியும். அந்த பேரம் பணமாகவோ, அந்தஷ்தாகவோ, ஜாதியாகவோ, வேறு எதுவாகவோ கூட இருக்கலாம். இந்த காம சந்தையில் அதர்க்கான மார்கெட் வாய்ப்பை உருவாக்குவது தான் இந்த Me too வின் நோக்கமா ? அதர்க்கான விளம்பர தூதுவர் பணியை தான் இந்த சின்மயி செய்கிறாளா ?
ஒருவர் தனது காதலை உரியவரிடம் தெரிவித்து அவரது சம்மதத்தை அறிய முற்படுவது நியாயமான வழி முறை தான்.
அதே போல இந்த மாறி வரும் கால சூழ் நிலையில், காமுகிகளும் பரவலாக பரவி உள்ள இந்த சமூகத்தில் ஒரு ஆண் தனக்கான காம வேட்கையை அடுத்த பெண்ணிடம் தெரிவிப்பதும், அந்த பெண்ணின் சம்மதத்தை அறிய முற்படுவதும் நியாயமான வழி முறை தான்.
கற்பை தன் உயிரினும் மேலாக மதித்து வாழும் பெண்களை தவிர வேறு எந்த காமுகிகளுக்கும் இதனை தவறு என்று முறையீடும் தகுதி இல்லை.
இன்றைய பெண்களின் சம உரிமை தத்துவம் என்பதே சீதைக்கு ஏற்ற ராமனை உருவாக்குவது அல்ல. கோவலனுக்கு ஏத்த மாதவிகளை உருவாக்குவது தான்.
ஆணும் பெண்ணும் சமம் என்று கூறும் நல்லவர்கள் கோவலனுக்கு உள்ள அதே சட்டத்தை மாதவிகளுக்கும் பின் பற்றாமல் மாதவிகளை மட்டும் அதி முக்கியதுவம் கொடுத்து பாதுகாப்பது ஏன் ?
இன்றைய காம சந்தையில் மாதவிகள் மிக முக்கிய உயிருள்ள போதை பொருளாகவும், அந்த போதை பொருளுக்கான மார்கட் மதிப்பை உயர்த்துவதும் தான் இந்த அலப்பரைகளின் அடிப்படை நோக்கமா ?
Ur right she must be telling the truth coz she is calling him aiya. Thisnia a very good evidence and a very stronge one too.
@@rajanbose1 vadakai veetula irukurom athanala yaarukitaium sollalanu solura thavudiya,vadakai veetula irukura elarum adjust panuvagala unna mari illa un amma va mari?? Apo iva kasuku adjust panna thavudiya thana???
Her speech is very clear. I support you Chinmayi. She doesn’t have to spend so much personal time for this issue if it was a lie. There is truth in her statement.. stay strong. #women support..
Yes correct.....
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Keep on saying like this. Now her career is over. Nothing is left. You don't understand the politics behind this...
@Sai Keerthana Krishna Kumar
Just by hearing rumours you can't judge anything dude...
@@senthilril8401 What politics? Could you please explain us?
For those who doubt her, listen to the lyrics Vairamuthu wrote when describing a woman. It tends to get very anatomical up to a level where the poem loses its beauty.
After explaining everything so deeply and going through all of that, she still smiles at the end saying she is happy that the society is changing........ great courageous and fearless woman ! I wish i could give this video a 1000 likes just for her smile and positive attitude at the end !
Big joke 🤣🤣🤣
she is ok.. dont forget she had her mom support. some of us didnt have any support
Bold and strong woman, you are incredible ❤️
Rajan Bose
Asingamaa paesaatheenga. Thambi sethuta silmisam panna maataangala? Ethana kilavargal intha maari pannirukkaanga theriyuma?
She is not bold...
she is ok.. dont forget she had her mom support. some of us didnt have any support
I was child abused by my uncle.its a very terrible nightmire for me.i didn't tell to anyone in family bcoz for my aunt and for my cousin he dnt have job useless only for my cousin I didn't disturb their life.very scared nd I tried to avoid him in childhood days i would prefer to stay calm in home.even harrassed by strangers in crowded temple. Now I m married still I feel chills in my vein..pls leave children alone. Childhood Life is precious.dnt mess with them.
May you be healed of your childhood scars in Jesus name
@@dds2839 where was Jesus when the abuse went on.. why people say he will come after the abuse happened.. stupidity.... If you power yourself, you will save yourself. You don't need anyone
We are god or goddess
Aishu me too
. I didn't know i was abused in till I was a weed it was wrong
I had gone through the same...
What clarity ! The way you explained the situatio. .so proud of u ..i support you
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Ok she was molested but why she sung further with him? Why still she is not filing case till today
She is abused that’s true, it’s suppression coming out, but she shouldn’t have sung further with him and filed a case now
Respect towards this person increased to the peak!! Be strong chinmayi!!! I'm glad that you're not giving a damn about all these memes or haters.. reading all these comments shows how people understood and gained more respect towards you after this video.. thanks for speaking out..
She is a cheap woman
Error We love your song ...Sivaney Sei'Van..Sivan ,Sakti Thuney
..🙏💥 ...U powerful singer .
Chinmayi you are amazing. Very true . God bless you mam.
If she Tru ask her to show evidence she is dipshit
Publicity
சுகயாகன் காணொளி Your mother or daughter tells you this..would you ask her for proof?
madhumitha13
The people who replied above you are here are indoctrinated political cadres. Most common people are in support of Chinmayi. If Vairamuthu has nothing to fear, then let him file a defamation case, instead of hiding behind twitter and saying only cryptic tweets.
Blind Sword Am not supporting Vairamuthu!!!! I support Chinmayi. My comment is to the person who asked for proof
Proud of you chinmaye....love you girl..even I was a victim! Where my family members were torchering me.. now I spoke open to mom ...and those idiot said m blaffing n m also attitude girl # me too
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Who did torture?
Oru ponnu evlo strong ah sollum podhu epdi adhu poiyaa itukum...thank you mam your bold speech.............kadavul itukaru
I appreciate your courage sis..... Cinema industry should take legal action for them..... We need justice ....
When I was 12, my uncle molested me. I have told people and my family after 10 years. I didn't tell anyone earlier because my uncle is a reputated man and so I kept quiet until few of my cousins opened up about their tragic incidents with him as well. Seriously guys, some people like me just can't make the first move. It is definitely hard. 😟
Yeah, same happened to me... but I told my mom immediately.. he has 2 boy kids.. My mom told him one thing that if you had a daughter, you used to do the same.. thank god, God did not give you a girl baby, she would have suffered otherwise.. it was a slipper shot for him... bcuz i treated him like a father..We didn't reveal this outside bcuz he has kids and his own kids will feel ashamed to face him and may be ashamed of thinking that their own father is cheap if the truth comes out... They respect him a lot... We thought not to spoil his family and kids career.. and cut his relationship forever..
At least you need to educate your kids
@@vishJoyventures
Sema
U should act deaf to negative comments
What she is saying is true.
U r ryte...this tis ryte tym to expose all the secret.....if she told 15 years bk no1 wil knw about tis issue lyk wat we knw today b'coz no social media lyk nw. ...gd lesson to pple who try to miz use their power......we support u Chinmaiye....
Agree with you.
She is an opportunist...
People who are accusing her of doing this for publicity: do you really think this is the type of publicity someone would want? I love Vairamuthu’s work. There are times where I have supported his unpopular opinions. I have admired him so much as a young tamil girl.
Abuse of power is such a bad thing, especially threatening someone else’s future. He threatened to end her career. As someone who is hailing from a poor background he should not do things that can stop someone else’s growth. I expected more from him. I’m so disappointed with him.
So you believe this lady blindly?
First the society should change.. they should not accuse a girl for man's mistake.. "selai mul viluntha" dialogues should be abolished..
. Yen vetti kiliyaathaa? Loosugala..
Selaiya kilikra maathiri mul iruntha.. antha mul chediya vetti eriyanum..
@@birundha27 well said
It's not trusting her but why she cameout through me-too movements. It's funded by west. It's a scam and banned. Did she get paid. And howmuch? In millions dollars?.
@@coolguy0719 dei loosu, everyone in the industry knows what kind of character he is.
Super ma.... u r strong... honest...
Thuu chi odi po
Yaru suresh,?
u r correct madam 98% nadakudhu. mostly women etha sona alaru ana soluvaga, future ala patha sola Mataga we support u mam
It's true sir
You are a grate Singer. நல்லவங்கள இறைவன் காப்பார். நீ கலைத்தாய் காப்பார் இறைவனை நினை.
Vayagra muthu should be punished i support chinmayi
Vayagara muthu😂😂😂
Maha Lakshmi ye nee oru Maha nadi ammaa
@@suhail_Ahamed142 poda vairamuthu .
Hey enaku oru dought laksmi
பூனூல்தேதே மூடிகின்னு போடி
I support u chinmayi, this is not ly happening in media, it's happening even fr a normal grl who's Standing alone in the road!! Namma naadu appdi kevalamana naadu!! Police a kooda namba mudila #metoo
Even police kudava..aiyoo..kadavule india va kaapathu...
My favorite singer always. No worries mem. We know that you are Honest always and agree what you said
Very clear in her voice for justice.
Voice clear but car sound also comes
I remember my friend told me "her uncle touched her with wrong intentions but when she said her mother about this mother asked her not to share about this to anybody". She said she was more hurt coz of her mother's comment. I was speechless. That's the reality.
Yeah, same happened to me... but I told my mom immediately.. he has 2 boy kids.. My mom told him one thing that if you had a daughter, you used to do the same.. thank god, God did not give you a girl baby, she would have suffered otherwise.. it was a slipper shot for him... bcuz i treated him like a father..We didn't reveal this outside bcuz he has kids and his own kids will feel ashamed to face him and may be ashamed of thinking that their own father is cheap if the truth comes out... They respect him a lot... We thought not to spoil his family and cut his relationship..
Did it happen to you or your friend?
@@vishJoyventures
Super yar...
@@senthilril8401 Yeah, thanks to my mom actually... 😇 I'm proud of her.. she didn't think that her relationship with her own brother will be ruined forever and didn't keep her mouth shut.. or she didn't believe him blindly and warn me like he is my brother, he is gud and he would have not done that... She was able to understand me.. My mom has given me that space and so i was able to tell her the next second.. I wish every parents shud give the space and listen to their kids.. then most of such problems will be solved... Girls will be strong enough to bring out such problems
@@vishJoyventures
If what Chinmayi said is true then her mom should have done the same. I'm really proud of your mom...
Now I am 27 years old,Niga solurathu correct than,boys also face same issue,myself also facing same issue,in my 10 years old pakathu la iruka maligai kadai owner ena abuse pananr,enaku apo enanu kuda theriyathu,now I realize everyone facing the issue,pls teach boys also good touch and.bad touch.
Dey you need not tell this here
Who's Watching This After Vairamuthu's Hold Award? Polimer🖐️
We love you Chinmayi♥️ you’re not alone❣️❣️
lets share harrasment in my new channel..i will start new youtube channel...dont hide ur self ...
Bunch of morons
Selfish , Self centred society... if the society doesn't change soon ... and respects and looks at women equally, socially it will get degraded and then economically women's contribution will not be there.. another external invasion will happen... might be from China this time and will teach a lesson for this society
@@yaayee2886 they will share wherever they want.. don't try to make everything a business
@@birundha27 I'm. Died ready.. Now u answer?
Thanks chinmay for speaking out."Me too" faced this sexual abuse at the age of 5 yrs, by God's grace i ascaped. I've never shared with anybody now iam 43 yrs old. Its happening everywhere 🙁
May God bless u stay strong👍
It happens to almost all. Iam 67
Super chinmayi we believe u dont feel about negative comments they are vairamuthu family members or supporters that negative person have to shine more with help of vairamuthu so they support him
அதிகம் பணம் புகழ் கொண்டவர்கள் திமிராக இப்படி செய்வது எல்லோருக்கும் தெரியும் இந்த காம கொடூரர்களை திருத்த வொரு வாய்ப்பு மீட்டு பணம் அளவுக்கு அதிகம் இருந்தா பொது மக்களுக்கு ஏழைகளுக்கு நன்மை செயுங்கள் உங்கள். புகழ் பெருகும்
You go girl! I am with you as a mental health social worker! I trust you.
I can clearly see she is saying the truth ..... Chinmayi I appreciate your efforts in bringing this issue right now ..... It's never too late to get justice.... You are creating an awareness about abuse towards kids,women and even men .... Stay strong and believe that majority of the people are supporting you .... MAY GOD BLESS YOU ....
Support chinmayi..
saying vairamuthu ayya ...still she has respect for vayagra-muthus position....
Kilicha
In US, from preschool good touch bad touch is being taught for both boys and girls. I repeatedly tell my little sons at least once in a month and I constantly ask questions to them. In a park or when they go to extra classes I warn them about strangers. I feel it is parents responsibility
She is honest..
Genuine speech. We will support you sister... Don't worry.
Chinmayi I like your guts. There is a lot for you to lose but still, you didn't care about that. Kudo to you for coming forward. Proud of you!!
So bold of you to share this ! But the after effects of standing up against any small degree of harassment is that, when the offender plays innocent people start looking at you differently..like you’ve done something wrong or like you’ve blown things out of proportion . Well it has happened to me in my work place and good genuine people also started distancing themselves from me , very obviously...thinking I was “trouble” and over reactive . I hope everyone’s outlook on issues like this changes
She is either a coward or opportunist
It clearly shows that she is true. But ayya vairamuthu oru tweet poatu end card paotaru. If u r humuliated unnecessarily then u would b furious and want to smack that person. Here vairamuthu ethuvumey pannama irukar. He dint expect that chinmayi will reveal this matter. So sad vairamuthu. Oodavum mudiyathu Oliyavum mudiyathu.. BIG BOSS 3.
Super
@@malathibhaskaran5453 thanks 😊😊
OMG 😢Yella idathilum pengalukku secure illa😫😫
Poi saavu d tevdiya
@@சட்டகல்லூரிமாணவி Nee thana sonna un pundaiku security ilanu..Poi sethuru..ethuku perutha soothu vechiktu vaalura
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@@keerthanakeerthi3497 иєє ρσι ѕανυ∂ιι тнєνυ∂ιуα кαи∂αяєσℓι😂😂
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We support you Madam.. Stay strong💪
super chinmai
So many years women and children have been sexually abused and intimidated by powerful people, people in power and authority. It takes a lot of courage to unmask such culprits. Really appreciate you...
Great ..I support u sister 🙏🙏
Kids like : Vairamuthu
Mens like : Madurai Muthu
Legends like : Gp Muthu
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Yow intha idathula unakku ithallam thevaya
@@j.k.s3811 😌🤣
@@iamajitkumar5449 naan comedy pannala ya!😭😭😭😭
@@j.k.s3811 seri. Irnthitt pottum athk ippo ennagra
Dea vairamuthu if u talk about girls anymore, u die laa
Chinmayi sis we support u... don't worry b strong and tell all about kamaverii vairamuthu
She is one waste
I support you sis. Stay strong 💪
If a lyricist can do such sexual assault to a women in the industry,Now imagine what the actors with those huge fanbase can do to those poor women in the same industry?
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you really think those actress can open up and say the truth?
even if she says so -those so called stars will use their influence to shut her life for good saying she is not professional---and his huge fanbase will start to abuse her - thinking they are supporting their favourite actor.
That's the exact reason why men or women fear to speak up against those so called stars in any industry.
Low Memory You said it right. But there are some people who instead of understanding her pain are asking her why she opened up after so many years.
Very powerful speech...so practical
She is brave.... And seems honest
பாரதி கண்ட புதுமைப்பெண்ணே வாழ்க வளர்க மிகவும் கவனமான பொறுப்பான பதில் வாழ்த்துக்கள்
You are very true. Stay strong god will bless you
Love you chinmayi. தடங்கலில்லாத பேச்சு நிச்சயம் உண்மை உங்கள் பக்கம் இருக்கிறது நம்புகிறேன்.
I support u.
You have all my respect chinmayi ❤️
I can see you smiling Chinmayi! I know you are strong 💪🏼 Lots of love to you my darling ❤️ Greetings from Malaysia 🇲🇾
This guy has been cheating in the name of 'tamil thai' . You shame our tamil language pretend to be great poet of the century but you are man of low morality.
Chinmayi Akka ❤❤❤ Strong Woman
After so many years, at my 25, I told my parents that i was molested by my close relative. My father did not bother rather laughed teasingly and said that "ithai ellam oru vishayama poi velila solladha". I was quite upset. I can't blame my father because he cannot understand. I felt like only another victim can understand the pain. When my mom rescued a 3 year old kid while the kid was being molested in the day light in front of a shrine, my relatives scolded my mom " nee un velaiya parthuttu summa irukka vendiyadhu thaane". Its painful.
omg.. i didnt realy share wf him, i dont feel he wld stand strng or wld gv me emotional support. but yours is realy worst. pls heal
It father can very well understand... he doesn't bother or doesn't want to take any efforts... he says away from responsibilities... he must be an escapist
Us relatives who scolded us mother are monsters.. don't know how they were born as human beings in this birth
Selfish , Self centred society... if the society doesn't change soon ... and respects and looks at women equally, socially it will get degraded and then economically women's contribution will not be there.. another external invasion will happen... might be from China this time and will teach a lesson for this society
@@birundha27 alot like that nowadays. but expect avvaiyar kalem dedication from me
Very well said. Just ignore who talks about you negatively.
Stay strong mam🔥🔥
I understand her behavior at her wedding to be for the society. But I definitely do not understand her mom's. My mom would not have been able to look at that man's eyes let alone laugh and talk. Maybe a forced smile for the society is all she could have managed.
You are honest.....WELL SAID..
She has knowingly encouraged these kind of culprits...thats..the only thing confusing..
Since her mother was able to refuse at that time...HOW COME SHE ALLOW HER TO GET BLESSING FROM HIM..COME ON..
HOW CAN I GO ALONG WITH HIS SONS As a friend..and invite them..
UNNECESSARY... she shouldn't have allowed this kind of person to do nonsense with other girls
It's not that simple! Societal pressures expect you to put on an act! It has happened within family members and you are expected to still behave normally! Sadly we do end up doing so, many times despite our wish to expose them! So let's please not shame her but understand that many things need to change in the society
I haven't shamed her in anyway nor am I saying such a situation did not happen. I do understand that society makes us behave a certain way. Society did not ask her mom to laugh and talk. It would have accepted a smile. The body language of that particular portion of video seems odd. I believe her totally when she says he misbehaved with her, but their reaction after the mishap makes me wonder if there is more to the story.
Maathangi Narayan if u don't like a person but u haven't opened up to anyone but have done it to your mom ,even Ur dad doesn't kw that ! But when that person is present with your father and others how will u show hatred towards him ? In case of chinmayi ,consider her marriage day ! There were lots and lots of people there were media persons covering it and more over it is her big day she would never have wanted to spoil it ! And the main thing to note is that she never decided to open it up at that time ! Consider another scenario if her mom would have showed some kind of odd behaviour that would have also become a viral news !
U r fighting for a good cause so we all support u sister go ahead 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼🙏🙏
Superb mam... respect to u! Best wishes...
#Chinmayi Army ❤️
Kooomutta navin
Modhala indha army na pera olikanum. Real army ku kevalam
Thuu 💩
Yetukkudaa kadavulehh
@@ajiththanan2842 thuuuuu
The person who tells the truth always speak clear & straightforward and can see truth in her eyes...
நல்லவன் போல் நடிப்பவனைவிட "நான் இப்படித்தான், என் வாழ்க்கை இவ்வாறுதான். எவன் எது பேசினாலும் எவன் எதைப்பற்றியும், என் வாழ்க்கையைப்பற்றி பேசினாலும் எதற்கும் கவலைப் படப்போவதில்லை" திறந்த உலகில் திறந்தவனாக வாழும் கமல்ஹாசன் போன்றவர்கள் எவ்வளவோ மேன்மையுடைவர்கள்.
The people in general look to judge immediately. Women were always taken for granted in any field. I'm glad women are speaking out, doesn't matter what time they do. But everyone who are commenting about chinmayee or vairamuthu. Stop for a moment and think if any of you guys have been on either of the side and if so speak up. I'm sure no one here has the authority to comment or judge about chinmayee or vairamuthu. I am voicing out for the campaign and support it. Ask women or men to speak up and stand for the cause and men/ women to stop sexually abusing.
Only just today I saw ur speech,true iam a now 43 year man but in my childhood i have under gone this I ll always support and be with u,well done chinmai
She is a big liar
Very true.. society is changing a lot.. as u said this is the right time to showcase this.. i support you.. stay strong and beautiful as always..
Chinmayi Akka ,Hope you get justice..... We are with you
I appreciate your courage akka. ....
Salute you for your courage Chinmayi..I support you
Chinmayi excellent expose against Vairamuthu but pls avoid blaming entire Tamil society because I also belong to Tamil society and I support your expose.
Vairamuthu illa kaamamuthu 😀😀
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ASHWIN CENA illa vyagaramuthu..
@@maha9179 ama sis
😂😂
Vyagara Muthu.....
All ur points are valid, great
Chinmayi we support you for your bold step taken on vairamuthu. Children, girls and women are faced and facing this problem in one or other way but they are scared of society. Don't care for any negative talks .Go Ahead we all are with you.God bless you.
Yes mam I appreciate your courage.
You have done an amazing job ...keep going.
I support Chinmaye
We believe you. But please use SEATBELT. your safety is important everywhere including in car
I really appreciate you to coming forward to tell abt harassment. 👍👍👍👍👍. Stay positive till last min. V keep supporting for u dear.
Very bold speech.... clear attitude..... superb chinmayi...
Salute you mam.. you encourage many girls to open up their problems.. very proud of you.. bravo
Well said Chinmayi... 👏👏💯
We are with you.... We are strong 👍👍👍
Sucha bold move..loads of love👍
Takes a lot of courage to admit this in public and people should acknowledge that. Don't drag politics into this and divert the focus. The idea is to make people aware of these sexual predators, so aspiring singers and artists can be wary of such people' s motives. I stand by her.
Clear information ........very good and bold
proud of u sis..... ur so honest nd true...ur sister's always support u....
The way chinmayee spoke was very bold and matured.. and what she said about girls and what society look at the victim.
She is diverting everything
Kudos to you Chinmayi for your Braveness.
Semma guts.. brave talk
Absolutely true... jus stay Strong Chinmayee...
dnt take any negativity... ppl r thr to support u...
We will support you sister 🖒🖒
What a beautiful speech u have given chinmayi. I really appreciate you for your bold comments
@chinmayi Only people who have gone through all shit and stayed quiet all the time can understand #metoo . We all strongly support Chinmayi and anyone who is instilling courage to all victims to come and speak out.
Support you chinmaye... Be strong in your stand
வெள்ளை வேட்டி, வெள்ளை சட்டை, போட்டவன மொத்ததில் நம்பாதீங்க.
VELLAI MUDI EPPADI.
Point
Crct crct
Adhu Kuda vasagi vazhukai vilundhavanai m serdhukonga
It really a big thing to open up ..👌very inspirational
Reason for opening up
u speach everything is 100 % right
Supporting Chinmayi is the only option... coz she is the most inspiring character I've ever seen...
Well spoken Chinmayee. For justice will prevail. And this is not about a man vs woman like it is most often portrayed, It is .power vs powerless. With technology the powerless are empowered. I wish you all the best. I support you.
sis I hv been sexually harassed in my childhood 😒 nd even in my schooling. In my schooling I told to few of my classmates about the incident . Bt as few people hurted u by words , few of my classmates hurted me by words 😭😭😭😭😭. Bt I trust in God. God heard my tears.thank God the person who sexually harassed me left the school. It happened lik a miracle. So God is seeing everything, God ll gv u justice. Don worry sis. I can understand ur pain sis. I ll keep praying for u.
Why are you people being cowards yar?