25 Year Old Single Mother And Being Out of Control ©

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  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 роки тому +486

    Once upon a time a man asked a beautiful woman to marry him.
    She said, "No."
    And he lived happily ever after.

    • @antvaughns3031
      @antvaughns3031 3 роки тому +19

      Priceless 🤣

    • @LittleHenry90
      @LittleHenry90 3 роки тому +10

      This man got some Matrix bullet dodge skills😉

    • @noctisluciscaelum2960
      @noctisluciscaelum2960 3 роки тому +23

      He became a millionaire and she hated him for her turning him down.

    • @CaiebesPunk
      @CaiebesPunk 3 роки тому +3

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @abeni8safiya
      @abeni8safiya 3 роки тому +5

      BRILLIANT!!!

  • @_anansi2146
    @_anansi2146 3 роки тому +2104

    "Being a mother at your age you are obviously overwhelmed"
    "Mommy"
    This show writes itself wow

  • @JustGio1111
    @JustGio1111 3 роки тому +1979

    Anyone else get the feeling she’s just smiling through the stress and pain?

    • @imandalton4227
      @imandalton4227 3 роки тому +68

      Absolutely

    • @allaboute8560
      @allaboute8560 3 роки тому +33

      Yep

    • @shanesean5211
      @shanesean5211 3 роки тому +125

      And she's very pretty..... such a waste man.... it's very sad

    • @mizzchoc10
      @mizzchoc10 3 роки тому +50

      She needs a break to be honest. I get like that when I have been up all night studying for a final exam. I can't imagine her situation. She needs to forget about men for now and focus on herself. The baby daddy aint shit for her to carry all the burden. he needs to take care of the kid and coparent.

    • @douchebaggio2349
      @douchebaggio2349 3 роки тому +30

      @@mizzchoc10
      Your assuming alot about the child's father with zero info on him.
      Edit:
      I agree with everything else though.

  • @keithnetzel4210
    @keithnetzel4210 3 роки тому +227

    This is why a two parent household is so important and essential to raising kids.

    • @Applecompuser
      @Applecompuser 2 роки тому +3

      Its probably a bit easier emotionally for the father to discipline but its really no excuse.

    • @Nolovelostboo
      @Nolovelostboo 8 місяців тому +2

      You can have two parents in a home and one of them still be irresponsible. There's a lot of women who don't put out men they shouldn't have kids with

    • @heavyizthacrown-5842
      @heavyizthacrown-5842 4 місяці тому

      Not if there’s a man present

    • @sshreddderr9409
      @sshreddderr9409 17 днів тому

      @@Applecompuser women cannot do it, they are not psychologically made to do that kind of stuff. its a fathers role to discipline. really, single motherhood should be illegal, like it used to. women should not be able to withdraw from their responsibility. it should be a fault based divorce, and the children should always go to the father. women should never be in control of their own lives, let alone the future of a child. women are children themselves, and are evolved to be patronized. women should not be able to legally own things, and they should not be able to work unless the husband signs the contract, and then the money should go to the mans account. women should have zero control over anything including their own life. it should be something that the husband negotiates with the male family members of the woman.
      the elephant in the room is that women will always destroy everything they touch because they were not meant to have any autonomy over their own lives. nature has a fine balance and if you take out a card from the card house, everything comes crashing down.

  • @centerofgravitymedia3514
    @centerofgravitymedia3514 3 роки тому +3324

    KS helped me filter these women even further . my tolerance is at an all time low

    • @MrFebrezeMD
      @MrFebrezeMD 3 роки тому +129

      Facts

    • @Youinnerstandme
      @Youinnerstandme 3 роки тому +90

      Absolutely

    • @MrYuckabuck
      @MrYuckabuck 3 роки тому +278

      I feel the same way, a lot of these women have become so unattractive to me it’s ridiculous.

    • @vGEMZv
      @vGEMZv 3 роки тому +149

      It’s so easy to spot now

    • @kmt8958
      @kmt8958 3 роки тому +58

      Same

  • @moormagic1
    @moormagic1 3 роки тому +1526

    My mother always said, "No child is cute after 9:00 PM."

  • @maia3420
    @maia3420 3 роки тому +1155

    She’s not old enough to mother teenage boys. You think a teen boy doesn’t notice a 25 year old woman “that way”?

    • @thund3r682
      @thund3r682 3 роки тому +165

      Yeah a 9 year difference between a step mom is not it especially when they teenage boys.

    • @1mic513
      @1mic513 3 роки тому +161

      Bad part is a lot of them are noticing the teen boys back- seriously- crazy but true

    • @stayquietregretful552
      @stayquietregretful552 3 роки тому +115

      I don't think she realizes the age gap is weird. Her mate is 8 years older than her and the mate's sons are around 10 years younger than she🤯🤯🤯.

    • @maia3420
      @maia3420 3 роки тому +33

      @@stayquietregretful552 Yup same distance between parent and child really. I don’t have an issue with age gap relationships but if there’s children involved they ought to be adults and moved out at that point.
      My own parents had a much bigger gap than this but even then the gap between my mother and my dad’s oldest male child was 13-14 years and they were still small children.

    • @PaulHunt
      @PaulHunt 3 роки тому +45

      This is a great point! I wish Kevin would have talked about that. She's only 9 years older than his oldest child.

  • @orangeblossoms88
    @orangeblossoms88 3 роки тому +868

    "Relationships are not supposed to be complicated... they're supposed to be simple and boring like white bread" 👏🏼 🙌🏼

    • @patchuko82
      @patchuko82 3 роки тому +17

      So true

    • @deangelocrymes2113
      @deangelocrymes2113 3 роки тому +14

      That's really truth

    • @deangelocrymes2113
      @deangelocrymes2113 3 роки тому +15

      @Robert Bessares all this fantasy foolishness that's pumped into ppl.. all they wanna do is get a divorce the minute they don't feel happy!! Lol whatever happen to responsibility...guess that don't count for nothin..in 2021.. get up and do what you like..hmmm🤔 not you personally!!

    • @realmontana6838
      @realmontana6838 3 роки тому +26

      But women bring the complications…

    • @ecmswagger
      @ecmswagger 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah spaghetti with toast is way more complicated as she proves 😂

  • @Cromartie717
    @Cromartie717 3 роки тому +589

    I like how Kevin is patient with the baby and giving her time to get things in order even though she shouldn't have called.

    • @imandalton4227
      @imandalton4227 3 роки тому +113

      The child in the background helps make his point

    • @Juvaunie
      @Juvaunie 3 роки тому +10

      You mean get things in chaos😂

    • @dabobthorton6169
      @dabobthorton6169 3 роки тому +48

      He was allowing it to make an example out of it

    • @20skr20
      @20skr20 3 роки тому +12

      Cause Kevin doesn’t hate women .... proof ...

    • @Just1n-Rhodes
      @Just1n-Rhodes 3 роки тому

      Thanks for commenting, I will refer you to my trade analyst and accountant to make good income , go more on Digital Assets BTÇ..

  • @ThisBraveHeart
    @ThisBraveHeart 3 роки тому +1131

    “Relationships are not supposed to be complicated. They’re supposed to be simple and boring. Plain, like white bread.” -KS

    • @nicmkend
      @nicmkend 3 роки тому +31

      Let the church say, AMEN

    • @ThisBraveHeart
      @ThisBraveHeart 3 роки тому +29

      @Status DMG that’s exactly how my relationship with my husband is. Our life is incredibly simple besides the fact that he’s in the military and getting ready to deploy. When we do get to spend time together we’re playing with our kiddos, smoking and cooking food or just spending time relaxing together. Couldn’t imagine it being any other way honestly.
      Btw, those air fryers are a game changer lol!

    • @Spokentruths725
      @Spokentruths725 3 роки тому +5

      @@ThisBraveHeart not to be rude or intrusive but do you mean smoke weed? Just curious how you do it while being a parent. Do you hide it from the kids if they are young?

    • @451whitworth4
      @451whitworth4 3 роки тому +16

      @@Spokentruths725 I think she smokes food (meat)

    • @baobabguy4477
      @baobabguy4477 3 роки тому +6

      @Status DMG air fryer huh? Welcome to elite status.

  • @efrain926
    @efrain926 3 роки тому +2100

    Baby momma's stay with men like that because it feels good to have someone around that's a bigger train wreck than her.

    • @Youinnerstandme
      @Youinnerstandme 3 роки тому +130

      Couldn’t put that any better

    • @yogo9543
      @yogo9543 3 роки тому +43

      Bingo

    • @BG33917
      @BG33917 3 роки тому +27

      That’s a fact

    • @stevietstevens9384
      @stevietstevens9384 3 роки тому +14

      Real talk!

    • @AuContraireMonFraire
      @AuContraireMonFraire 3 роки тому +253

      Facts. Women get with men like this because if they get with a functional man that has his shit together, it will force herself to abide by his standards and have some accountability. Effectively taking away the role that most women love to play: the victim.

  • @chellec7347
    @chellec7347 2 роки тому +77

    Rip KS. I recently left my ex alone . I’m twenty five while he was 35 . I have no children while he had three that were ten, six and five with a controlling bm. I felt like he was trying to groom me into the kind of person he wanted while I was miserable dealing with a narcissist with all that baggage . This video helped me a lot .

    • @draco2xx
      @draco2xx 2 роки тому +14

      why were u with a man with 3 kids to begin with, you are insane. you are better off single, you have options and you deserve better

    • @oluwaogundiran
      @oluwaogundiran 2 роки тому +5

      @@draco2xx So wrong to go that far with your comment. Actions are part of living, and we do not get to evaluate many a mistake until we step into them. To each his own.

    • @kevindunlap5525
      @kevindunlap5525 Рік тому

      We don't want your children, and a real man certainly doesn't expect you to have to raise ours.

    • @thesupervisor3270
      @thesupervisor3270 Рік тому +9

      @@oluwaogundiranwell he’s right! Stop sugarcoating shit for these women they need to hear the harsh truth

    • @chellec7347
      @chellec7347 Рік тому +6

      @@draco2xx I’m 27 now . All I can say is that I was convinced I was what he wanted . Dumbest yet the most humbling experience of my life . Not insane tho . I’m happy to say I’ve learned . My bf now is the same age as me with no children just like me. He just finished trade school a few months back . That experience made me realize what I want and what I don’t want forsure .

  • @MrSaintWofford
    @MrSaintWofford 3 роки тому +332

    After watching this I want to hug my parents for showing me how it is suppose to be done.

    • @Jolly123123123
      @Jolly123123123 3 роки тому +3

      I feel that.

    • @MrSaintWofford
      @MrSaintWofford 3 роки тому

      @Tee sorry to hear about your dad and i absolutely will!!

    • @Godjayel
      @Godjayel 3 роки тому +2

      Man bro you said it

    • @MrSaintWofford
      @MrSaintWofford 3 роки тому

      @MrEyeswideopen7 Shame Insults Guilt and the Need to be right doesn’t work over here.

    • @A.I.-
      @A.I.- 3 роки тому +2

      I was thinking along the same line... Part of these mess are the parents faults. And on the other end, you don't choose your parents. You don't choose your genes.
      You see these many times; dumb people always getting themselves into trouble. What else are you suppose to do to help these people? And the harshest part of life is that it compounds into bigger problems; You do one dumb thing and then another and then another. And then you have a big mess that can't be undone.
      If you're not smart on how to go about life; Life will sh!t on you, mercilessly.

  • @mercer840
    @mercer840 3 роки тому +824

    We know how this will go:
    1 - Very soon she will have another baby from him
    2 - The relationship will fall apart
    3 - She will be a baby mama with 2 kids from 2 different fathers
    4 - She will look for a HVM (with a laundry list) to come to rescue them 3

    • @teewilliams4520
      @teewilliams4520 3 роки тому +28

      So spot on.

    • @V-MAX_9
      @V-MAX_9 3 роки тому +64

      This is the "experience" and wisdom women think they're gaining in their 20s.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 3 роки тому +3

      1000%.

    • @Julius29C
      @Julius29C 3 роки тому +18

      She was young and dumb,give her the time to make more excuses.🤣🤣

    • @michaelhatcher873
      @michaelhatcher873 3 роки тому +4

      Facts

  • @jonathanhampton8379
    @jonathanhampton8379 3 роки тому +1279

    These are the shows the detractors never mention. When he’s patient, no sound effects, no “harsh tone”, and seriously trying to help a black woman. We appreciate the work KS.

    • @missrussell9134
      @missrussell9134 3 роки тому +58

      I watched this video more than once and now this is exactly what I'm thinking. I can see that he had genuine concerns for her and the compassion he displayed even while showing her that she is on the wrong path.

    • @jonathanhampton8379
      @jonathanhampton8379 3 роки тому +5

      @@missrussell9134 Thank you Miss Russell. We appreciate your willingness to be open towards it. Wish you the best in all you do 🙏🏾

    • @g_slim
      @g_slim 3 роки тому +36

      Great comment.
      He gave her a free therapy session.

    • @Jukeboxster
      @Jukeboxster 3 роки тому +21

      They don't want to believe that anyone finds his advice useful, so why would his detractors ever view these videos? How would they continue the "who hurt you" or "you don't like black women" narrative?

    • @paulorr9262
      @paulorr9262 3 роки тому +13

      Agreed. She is a nice looking young lady who is run ragged.

  • @tiamaria3123
    @tiamaria3123 10 місяців тому +10

    I'm a Jamaican woman...who has recently learnt of this man through people...who has lots of "BAD" and Disappointing comments about him..and believe me...I find his teachings as they are, "DEEP LESSONS" though they may hurt some what...but should you seek the lessons you will find the learnings...a.k.a WISDOM in disguise... I have found deep RESPECT for him ..R.I.P.

  • @poincianacouponing1622
    @poincianacouponing1622 3 роки тому +1960

    She went from “we are both single parents and no one is perfect” to “how do I leave” in like 10 minutes. 🥴

    • @andrewanderson5948
      @andrewanderson5948 3 роки тому +271

      Lol she was capping for half of the call wasting our time . KS sees right through these females games that's why he so short with them.

    • @pats6658
      @pats6658 3 роки тому +172

      Everything out of these chicks mouths be lies and games. They need to be controlled.

    • @malonetravis5785
      @malonetravis5785 3 роки тому +8

      mind boggling

    • @DemureDarlings
      @DemureDarlings 3 роки тому +15

      @@pats6658 Need to be under the leadership of a GREAT LEADER!

    • @wc3362
      @wc3362 3 роки тому +50

      @@pats6658 Islam seems to have them in check, and I'm not even Muslim

  • @t0ny_708
    @t0ny_708 3 роки тому +1043

    Why does it upset me so much when these mothers come on this show at all hours of the night to talk about themselves while their kids are in the background desparately trying to get their attention.

    • @Crowbar11115
      @Crowbar11115 3 роки тому +136

      Because it SHOULD upset you.
      I had to get super real with a GF one time...she spent so much time on her hair and makeup that she was legit missing out on time with her kids. We're talking almost 2 hours at a stretch basically every day. I did the math and the equates to 31 DAYS a year. That's a whole damn Month!
      She was missing out on an entire Month with her kids every year because she was so caught up on herself.
      Guess what she did next?? Tried to get into Modeling which required MORE time doing hair and makeup.
      Some of these Women prefer attention over time with their own children. It's horrible behavior.

    • @ArcaneAnouki
      @ArcaneAnouki 3 роки тому +18

      I'd suppose its because you have a parental instinct. How novel!

    • @thesailorsdaughter414
      @thesailorsdaughter414 3 роки тому +7

      You’re not alone smh

    • @AffluentBlacks
      @AffluentBlacks 3 роки тому +32

      There are even worse moms, like the ones who would just leave their kids alone while they go to the club or even go out of town for a weekend 👀

    • @cindylouwho620
      @cindylouwho620 3 роки тому

      Sad sad sad

  • @darkstarmatter1388
    @darkstarmatter1388 3 роки тому +648

    There's nothing wrong with a t-shirt company. My son has a t-shirt company. He turns 10 this summer.

  • @BeautyWithShayOfficial
    @BeautyWithShayOfficial 3 роки тому +22

    She’s so beautiful. Him and his teenage sons will steal her youthfulness. That’s a huge responsibility at 25. I’m almost 25 in a month, and I would never. Let that man go, girl. You can get better. You will and you deserve it💯💯you can tell she’s crying on the inside. Her tears wanted to pour out while Kevin was showing her, her worth. Any man with his shit together and willing to help her raise her daughter correctly will be lucky and thankful to have her. She seems like a decent young lady. I hope she has left this situation. Seriously.

    • @Mark-go7qm
      @Mark-go7qm 3 роки тому +6

      Thankful to have her ? Lol can you make an another joke

  • @TheDCGuitar13
    @TheDCGuitar13 3 роки тому +440

    Moms on the phone and the kid is screaming. Fathers aren’t an option ladies. Marry before you carry. You’re only handicapping your child by bringing them to this world just to fulfill your ego.

    • @DodgyDebb
      @DodgyDebb 3 роки тому +6

      TRUE WORD❤️

    • @notlookinforahug
      @notlookinforahug 3 роки тому +8

      100 percent correct. She is failing like most single mothers.

    • @josegonzalez6276
      @josegonzalez6276 3 роки тому +1

      Great comment

    • @1luvcity
      @1luvcity 3 роки тому +1

    • @hilaryb8212
      @hilaryb8212 3 роки тому +5

      💯💯💯 that's y I'm 29 single, and never been pregnant. Waiting for the💍👰🏿‍♀️💒

  • @two-moonz2953
    @two-moonz2953 3 роки тому +282

    I love the way Kevin always strips them of their masks. Male or female. By the end of the interview we see the real person asking for advice. No more bubbly laughter, head bobbing. No more flirting. Just them. The real person just showed up. You can see it in the eyes. It makes me question my own life. Kevin has a gift. Thank you.

    • @KayMyName
      @KayMyName 3 роки тому +3

      On God

    • @tejhandiallo2768
      @tejhandiallo2768 3 роки тому +7

      Or maybe the women get tired of being interrogated and insulted over dumb shit for 20 minutes straight

    • @two-moonz2953
      @two-moonz2953 3 роки тому +32

      @@tejhandiallo2768 Hey, no one makes them call in. That's their choice. Or is that someone else's fault?

    • @sunnyflower6143
      @sunnyflower6143 3 роки тому

      So true!

    • @Erniepotts
      @Erniepotts 3 роки тому +2

      I wish I had this gift.

  • @SavageClout
    @SavageClout 3 роки тому +868

    The fact that she thinks it’s ok to bring a man who she’s just met with 2 sons around her 3 year old daughter just scares me. You barely know him. Watch who you bring around your children !

    • @metalliclark86
      @metalliclark86 3 роки тому +97

      These single moms treat HUMAN BABIES worse than I treat my house cat. Maybe that's why you don't see many cats involved in school shootings or drugs lol

    • @FeelingFitFabFun
      @FeelingFitFabFun 3 роки тому +16

      Amen!

    • @vincent763
      @vincent763 3 роки тому +36

      Father not in the kids life so she has no respect for who’s around the kid. Sad situation

    • @deeflo6731
      @deeflo6731 3 роки тому +14

      You can't make this stuff up.. wow wow wow..

    • @SavageClout
      @SavageClout 3 роки тому +16

      @Angela Grizzard a year is still not enough in my opinion and they don’t even live with each other

  • @artwillvideos
    @artwillvideos 3 роки тому +58

    18:35 “…for as long as I’ve been adopted for.”
    I think that little nugget of knowledge audio-glitched past KS in the moment, because on top of everything else, THAT can explain a lot. She seems like a sweetheart, and life has taught her to hold on to whatever you can.

  • @bretmelton7116
    @bretmelton7116 3 роки тому +569

    Kevin was actually very gentle on her. I know a lot of people do not like his style. But he was not demoralizing to this girl at all. He spoke to her in a manner that she needed to hear. It took a long time before she even started listening. It was a lot of giggling and simple-minded answers in the front of the conversation

    • @obi.shinobi
      @obi.shinobi 3 роки тому +60

      Kevin's interaction with people is a reflection of their interaction with him. If they are calm and polite, he is calm and polite with them. If they are rude, he is rude to them.

    • @kreed82
      @kreed82 3 роки тому +18

      If she was ugly it would have been very different

    • @kreed82
      @kreed82 3 роки тому +9

      @@obi.shinobi not always If the caller has a trifling character he goes in

    • @obi.shinobi
      @obi.shinobi 3 роки тому +13

      @@kreed82 yea exactly... "trifling" if they are trifling he will be trifling also

    • @danzeljohnson3341
      @danzeljohnson3341 3 роки тому +5

      I think it was because you can hear kids in the background and Kevin changes his tone when it’s bullshit being spoken. She’s just ignorant

  • @morrymoreturns9813
    @morrymoreturns9813 3 роки тому +403

    Sad... she’s just 25 with a kid and the real father already left. She’s dating a older guy who already has kids because she prolly feels like he’s the only one who can help her. She doesn’t exactly understand how bad her situation is. She needs to try to find the real baby father but if he’s a Pookie and Ray Ray then he definitely isn’t coming back.

    • @shaythareal2382
      @shaythareal2382 3 роки тому +75

      She probably only with him cause he owns a company 😂😂 you know how these women are these days

    • @Melace002
      @Melace002 3 роки тому +14

      @@shaythareal2382 true it doesn’t matter what it is

    • @brianwonderbread8854
      @brianwonderbread8854 3 роки тому +5

      Pretty much

    • @coreytumulty816
      @coreytumulty816 3 роки тому +67

      She probably has more in common with his teenage kids than she does with him.

    • @Macheako
      @Macheako 3 роки тому +7

      @@shaythareal2382 of course!!!! Women LOVE money!!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @CalvinHolysticChristianCoach
    @CalvinHolysticChristianCoach 3 роки тому +556

    Kevin told this young lady what her father should have. This brother is a treasure chest of wisdom. Most just won't accept it

    • @D4RKH1M0THY
      @D4RKH1M0THY 3 роки тому +12

      Yeah he is Kevin need to be on TV and uncensored

    • @barackthecomposer6642
      @barackthecomposer6642 3 роки тому +8

      Yes my brother.
      He is basically attempting to father these women; but is being rejected by many of them.

    • @alg5169
      @alg5169 3 роки тому +1

      Dude is a homosexual. How's he a treasure

    • @IAmaRe3578
      @IAmaRe3578 3 роки тому +2

      Why do you say he is a homosexual ?

    • @IAmaRe3578
      @IAmaRe3578 3 роки тому +2

      @@alg5169 why do you say he is homosexual?

  • @marcijones4084
    @marcijones4084 3 роки тому +98

    This so heavy. She’s gorgeous, this man knows she’s the best he’s ever come in contact with. Kevin is being so delicate with her even though she came in strong and wrong. Therapy would help her reach her potential

    • @ms.camillewarrenempress31
      @ms.camillewarrenempress31 3 роки тому +2

      Yep !!

    • @marjoriedavis-barnes3625
      @marjoriedavis-barnes3625 2 роки тому +1

      HER FUTURE IS BRIGHT IF SHE LISTEN AND LEARN HER WORTH, SHE'S BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY

    • @JS-rz5gx
      @JS-rz5gx День тому

      She's attractive but far from gorgeous - I'd give her a 6.5.
      Subtract some points for being a solo mum and being dumb as a post and she's a solid 4.

  • @DogumentaryTV
    @DogumentaryTV 3 роки тому +1301

    I hope she figures things out and course corrects, I'm rooting for her.

    • @Skye2000x
      @Skye2000x 3 роки тому +67

      @riser you are a really bitter and negative person

    • @LGNanarchy
      @LGNanarchy 3 роки тому +15

      @@Skye2000x Did that trigger? Stop being such a beta male, bro.

    • @tiegideon9816
      @tiegideon9816 3 роки тому +52

      @@LGNanarchy Not wishing the worst for your own people makes you a “beta” now lol. Right

    • @sunnyflower6143
      @sunnyflower6143 3 роки тому +1

      Amen.

    • @BlackJVidz
      @BlackJVidz 3 роки тому +2

      Good to see you on here. Love your documentaries.

  • @chewbaka7369
    @chewbaka7369 3 роки тому +919

    Dang imagine he wakes up from a nice nap to see 100 messages about his girl talking about him to KS on UA-cam 😆

  • @silenthashassin8912
    @silenthashassin8912 3 роки тому +193

    I'm still curious in regards to what type of candy was a infant asking for at 10 o'clock at night.

    • @morrymoreturns9813
      @morrymoreturns9813 3 роки тому +21

      LOL the baby was asking for “where’s my actual daddy, Momma?”

    • @antoniotula262
      @antoniotula262 3 роки тому +13

      Redbull chews 😯

    • @shaythareal2382
      @shaythareal2382 3 роки тому +18

      Seems like she doesn’t know how to discipline her child, so she just gives her whatever she wants to keep her quiet

    • @imandalton4227
      @imandalton4227 3 роки тому +4

      Ridiculous

    • @ChrisfromDevelopment
      @ChrisfromDevelopment 3 роки тому +1

      @@antoniotula262 I need those lol 😂

  • @rwilliams951
    @rwilliams951 3 роки тому +17

    You alright Kevin , thank you for talking to that young lady like a father which is surely what she needed. I pray for her sake she listened and follows your advice. 🙏🏽👑💯

  • @ojames1983
    @ojames1983 3 роки тому +385

    She went from all fun and games attitude to serious and listening. Kevin broke it down to her like a strong father figure. 👏🏾 She needs therapy for real - her self esteem is in the toilet.

    • @sydtaylor4022
      @sydtaylor4022 3 роки тому +3

      we all need therapy so does kevin you just see a person whos actually being honest i commend her thats hard to do

    • @ojames1983
      @ojames1983 3 роки тому +3

      @@sydtaylor4022 Kevin has already did his self work and therapy so no he doesn’t but yep

    • @sydtaylor4022
      @sydtaylor4022 3 роки тому

      @@ojames1983 have you met him personally i hope your right but unless u live with someone u dont know anything about his self work

    • @ojames1983
      @ojames1983 3 роки тому

      @@sydtaylor4022 stop talking out the side of your neck. 💀💀

    • @DivinelyMadeCece
      @DivinelyMadeCece 3 роки тому +3

      @@ojames1983 self work doesn't stop though, you gotta keep going and doing root work to deal with issues that sometimes professional help can't do for you. Bad habits doesn't stop overnight or with a couple of months

  • @mainmam620
    @mainmam620 3 роки тому +714

    " this is too much.. You're literally running around your apartment trying to find a decent cell signal, avoiding your daughter at 10'o'clock when she should be in bed..." DEAD🔥🔥💀 😭😭😭😭

    • @davidca96
      @davidca96 3 роки тому +18

      I love it, its become hilariously predictable now

    • @jarellbrown6974
      @jarellbrown6974 3 роки тому +11

      @@davidca96lol man you ain't lying and it truly is predictable for her to be in a situation like this and it's like I understand that it didn't work out with her child's father but the black community has to stop making families and not finishing them.

    • @guyfromdubai
      @guyfromdubai 3 роки тому +6

      @@jarellbrown6974 Its not despicable, she made those choices, she has to live with the consequences

    • @jarellbrown6974
      @jarellbrown6974 3 роки тому +5

      @@guyfromdubai that's true and she does have to live with the consequences since she's still wet behind the ears.

    • @joeysoG
      @joeysoG 3 роки тому +2

      FACTS though😂

  • @ghostofdanielrobitaille5845
    @ghostofdanielrobitaille5845 3 роки тому +592

    This is EXACTLY what a 20ish year old mom would do. Them kids don't EVER be sleep when they supposed to. Always up wanting candy and juice 🤣

    • @kylarush
      @kylarush 3 роки тому +26

      So damn true 😂

    • @CharisBrinkley
      @CharisBrinkley 3 роки тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Swagalious689
      @Swagalious689 3 роки тому +37

      Yeah but dads 30 years old and shoulda just told them to hop in bed. When dad says get in bed if you're a kid its game over its bed time.

    • @Wanderer25
      @Wanderer25 3 роки тому +22

      That's a smash and release type of chick. No patience for that chaotic mess.

    • @bruthakam6180
      @bruthakam6180 3 роки тому +28

      Babies having babies 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @brettski2532
    @brettski2532 2 роки тому +61

    😱Is This How It Would Be Dating A Single Mom?? OMG!😱

    • @cgill4269
      @cgill4269 9 місяців тому +2

      It’s worse in some cases!! Try sleeping over with their kids living at home.. it was very weird the first dozen times!!
      And then there’s what we had here: that’s very, very, VERY annoying!

    • @PureBusiness-ef7xu
      @PureBusiness-ef7xu 3 місяці тому +3

      @@cgill4269Friends with benefits is always the better option. They go for it anyway so why not exercise it?

    • @cgill4269
      @cgill4269 3 місяці тому

      @@PureBusiness-ef7xu great point!

  • @DeaconGoss
    @DeaconGoss 3 роки тому +196

    I wish some of these young ladies would understand just because a guy will sleep with you doesn’t mean he’ll ever marry you. Too many judge themselves based on the looks/type of man that will sleep with them:

    • @coreytumulty816
      @coreytumulty816 3 роки тому +15

      They are literally incapable of distinguishing between the 2. Even though 90% of the men they slept with their life have ghosted afterwords and proved otherwise.

    • @CPI99
      @CPI99 3 роки тому +3

      I don’t know what’s hard about that. People’s perception got messed up now they think they’re the exception in every way. It just don’t work like that

    • @ghariiscool
      @ghariiscool 3 роки тому

      Very true

    • @kimberlylusby3365
      @kimberlylusby3365 3 роки тому +3

      @Status DMG
      Why not just wait until you are married. Why risk making babies with a women that is not your wife.

    • @kimberlylusby3365
      @kimberlylusby3365 3 роки тому

      @@VershyTheQueen
      Exactly.

  • @JEFE310
    @JEFE310 3 роки тому +291

    This shows me how important a father's role in the home is necessary. These conversations has shown me how to identify the problems and dysfunction in our women. She really wanna cry. She needed this conversation. Sis get some help.

    • @MsRocks-tc3uc
      @MsRocks-tc3uc 3 роки тому +12

      Listen! I thank my dad every day. If more fathers were in the home, it wouldnt be so many broken men and women.

    • @gws259
      @gws259 3 роки тому +3

      All jabs aside she look like tears there an needed foward talk

    • @ReaperGang2x
      @ReaperGang2x 3 роки тому +1

      Yea as hard as I wanted too critique her I felt for her. ☹️

    • @indramami9080
      @indramami9080 3 роки тому +11

      A father is THEE MOST IMPORTANT ROLE MODEL/EXAMPLE in a woman’s life. 💯🙌🏼

    • @middletech
      @middletech 3 роки тому

      Poverty rate of child would be cut in half if custody was given to the father.

  • @Marktheproducer
    @Marktheproducer 3 роки тому +255

    Wow. Her whole tone changed once she went into her bathroom. She called because she wants a way out. And needs therapy for sure. Praying she takes KS advice and becomes better.

    • @DizzKoMane
      @DizzKoMane 3 роки тому +6

      That part

    • @9525joe
      @9525joe 3 роки тому +30

      Yeah man, actually hit me hard. She knows her situation is terrible and was tryna play it off like it’s not that bad. That’s the real reason she called. And imagine being her man and thinking everything is good, you really never know what’s going on in these women‘s head/heart. They can pretend like no other.

    • @mrbigg151
      @mrbigg151 3 роки тому +12

      Females generally have a serious fear of failure, where men learn from their failures. She wants to "look good" for her friends/family, but can't hold her own. They both had kids at a young age, and are still living in the childlike mindset.

    • @ericjones499
      @ericjones499 3 роки тому +2

      She’s got daddy issues....

    • @stilman3780
      @stilman3780 3 роки тому +6

      She knows what Kevin said was the truth. She knew that when she called. She was hoping he would tell her the same feel good logic she tells herself. When Kevin broke it down her sadness was confirmation of the "I knew it" feeling she had within.

  • @tashanapink7688
    @tashanapink7688 3 роки тому +157

    As women, especially single mothers, deep down we know these things. We know every last thing KS is saying. We just been accepting less than because we feel bad about our decisions and our self worth has been depleted. I’m heartbroken 💔

    • @keronfarrier2198
      @keronfarrier2198 3 роки тому +8

      That's deep

    • @dd470_
      @dd470_ 3 роки тому +12

      I hope you’re able to flourish in ways you never expected.

    • @Waagghhboy
      @Waagghhboy 2 роки тому +12

      Thanks for being honest. It's definitely hard to look at ourselves

    • @llckarther87ll
      @llckarther87ll 2 роки тому +11

      Well Chad and Tyrone doesn't want commitment either, so you girls must choose wisely your pretender
      Not the bottom or the top, men that are at your level

    • @awil4320
      @awil4320 2 роки тому +4

      Yea that was Hella deep sis.

  • @jd3127
    @jd3127 3 роки тому +646

    As a father that makes sure his toddler is in bed by a specific time, hearing how active her 3 year old is at 10 PM is triggering for me. I hope she’s able to bring order to her life and household soon!

    • @damnright1968
      @damnright1968 3 роки тому +18

      Yes, sitting here after 7pm and knowing that my 2 year old is in bed already and hearing a 3 year old up at 10pm just shocks me.

    • @kaktusdesiberie7196
      @kaktusdesiberie7196 3 роки тому +8

      @@canecorsomom2023 I have 5 children and until the first went to school they stayed up late with my husband and me. We ate late because my husband is Mediterranean and that’s what he likes and my kids are well behaved, have good grades and pretty normal. I’m sure her baby ate her meals and had her snacks, people, especially American people, need to understand their lifestyle is not the norm across the globe neither an absolute truth.

    • @MatthewRonaldWiebe
      @MatthewRonaldWiebe 3 роки тому +10

      I got three kids with my wife, and while we have some flexibility with bedtime and nap time (we start no new activities after 7PM) there's a hard lights out time for my kids at 8:00PM. I get anxiety around parents who don't drop what they're doing to engage their kids.

    • @PGO_Gaming
      @PGO_Gaming 3 роки тому +3

      There is no order without the man to establish it. If you're a father that makes sure their toddler is in bed by a specific time, why would you expect, essentially a single mother to bring order to a household?

    • @HIS_StoryonLove
      @HIS_StoryonLove 3 роки тому +2

      @@canecorsomom2023 same... this is a no-brainer how ridiculous this is.

  • @mrbarbadosfrombirthonelove2344
    @mrbarbadosfrombirthonelove2344 3 роки тому +157

    Kevin is the black Superman....trying to save our ppl minds one day at a time.... Big respect

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 роки тому +2

      💯

    • @Just1n-Rhodes
      @Just1n-Rhodes 3 роки тому +1

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    • @Just1n-Rhodes
      @Just1n-Rhodes 3 роки тому

      I hope you contact him for proper guidance on your journey to financial freedom..
      +1 ..6..2..6-..9.,4..0.-3..8..8..6(Whatsapp contact).

  • @JM-ps8cb
    @JM-ps8cb 3 роки тому +736

    This video is heavier than most I’ve seen on this channel. She almost breaks down and cries at multiple points in this video, but she holds it back, and puts on a smile... I’m glad Kevin gave her the time he did and the advice he did, even tho she was having connection issues and having to deal with her child.

    • @jesseoglesby7480
      @jesseoglesby7480 3 роки тому +30

      A good looking young lady. I hope she follows Kevin's advice and meets a guy who wants her as a wife and not just a Booty Call.....

    • @satyro8186
      @satyro8186 3 роки тому +4

      Point out exactly where she was about to cry
      I believe you're misreading the situation

    • @daveelcock9476
      @daveelcock9476 3 роки тому +17

      @@satyro8186 no he ain't, I could see it too, but she held it together, That guy better marry her, she must love him to stick around when he ain't able to handle her financially ,cause after this session she's out and she won't have a problem getting a man who can.

    • @georgiapeach2020
      @georgiapeach2020 3 роки тому +11

      You're so right. She wanted to cry.

    • @canreach100subswithnovideo3
      @canreach100subswithnovideo3 3 роки тому +13

      Yep. She was smiling through unshed tears.

  • @fabriceizzo2922
    @fabriceizzo2922 3 роки тому +53

    Women who grew up in broken homes tend to rush into relationships as soon as they can desperately trying to create a better home than they had grown up.
    They make a lot of mistakes and compromises along the way, like having a child out of wedlock.

    • @InspirebyKhan
      @InspirebyKhan 3 роки тому +1

      Very true, very sad and unfortunately I see it much too often.

  • @hotmess9640
    @hotmess9640 3 роки тому +745

    “We both connected because we have kids”
    “Is this the victim oppression olympics” I literally fell on the floor like a dead body LMFAO

    • @azballer137
      @azballer137 3 роки тому +10

      Lmfao!

    • @LogikalMindset
      @LogikalMindset 3 роки тому +10

      😂😂😂😂

    • @dannieisKING
      @dannieisKING 2 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭

    • @RealSerie26
      @RealSerie26 2 роки тому +2

      Lol. It should be the complete opposite. She loves baby momma drama and the reduced disposable income.

  • @tamaralong8519
    @tamaralong8519 3 роки тому +491

    “Unless he owns Hanes, I don’t know what you plan on doing with that...” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @honeybee1226
      @honeybee1226 3 роки тому +10

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @JohnSmith-xl8er
      @JohnSmith-xl8er 3 роки тому +10

      Dammit man

    • @b.graham
      @b.graham 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @badbeat7108
      @badbeat7108 3 роки тому +12

      Glad y'all commented what's wrong wit a t shirt company?? I guessed Kevin was low key hating.

    • @tamaralong8519
      @tamaralong8519 3 роки тому +10

      @@badbeat7108 You must own a t-shirt company

  • @kingtee1607
    @kingtee1607 3 роки тому +145

    This young sista smiles on the outside but she is at her breaking point

    • @kirkhugginsjr9317
      @kirkhugginsjr9317 3 роки тому +13

      Her eyes give it away

    • @summerlyric506
      @summerlyric506 3 роки тому +1

      Yep. Coming home from work and her daughter is not put to bed. That's no true support.

  • @PapiChulo3600
    @PapiChulo3600 3 роки тому +16

    She has a great energy. Hopefully she gets out of that chaos and finds a better place.

  • @healingheart4994
    @healingheart4994 3 роки тому +413

    When his kids turn 18, he will be gone. He has been raising his kids all his life, he will not start all the way over with hers. Facts

    • @christiwright2249
      @christiwright2249 3 роки тому +8

      You don’t know that...

    • @Uryū_Ishida3
      @Uryū_Ishida3 3 роки тому +41

      @@christiwright2249 we do now that lady wake up from your little fantasy world

    • @davidwilson6681
      @davidwilson6681 3 роки тому +19

      eh, I feel like the single fathers I know are more grounded than that. I think he might be the best she can get, honestly

    • @robertlunderwood
      @robertlunderwood 3 роки тому +11

      @@davidwilson6681 And he'll still be gone once his kids are grown.

    • @nequestions1996
      @nequestions1996 3 роки тому +6

      No way my greedy azz daughter could ever make it to 10pm without eating.

  • @JoshAllen702
    @JoshAllen702 3 роки тому +397

    Imagine being a teenage boy with a "stepmom" that look like this, young minded and only a few years older than you ...oh boy...😰

    • @BatmanBeyondBelief
      @BatmanBeyondBelief 3 роки тому +84

      They make videos about this kinda stuff lmaooooooo

    • @infozone9601
      @infozone9601 3 роки тому +25

      That old timer a fool for wifing this up.

    • @BloodofEli
      @BloodofEli 3 роки тому +72

      @@infozone9601 old timer??? He's 33 literally in his prime.

    • @TheTsugnawmi2010
      @TheTsugnawmi2010 3 роки тому +3

      @@BloodofEli 33 is not a mans physical prime. The comments are clearly talking about physical traits.

    • @bank80
      @bank80 3 роки тому +50

      @@TheTsugnawmi2010 Actually 33 is still physical prime for a man.

  • @HaveUMetNicole01
    @HaveUMetNicole01 3 роки тому +173

    This is embarrassing 😔🤦🏾‍♀️ I feel bad for her and the life cycle she will continue.

    • @fc775
      @fc775 3 роки тому +4

      I don't feel bad she was adult and made her decision.. Learn from others mistake

  • @theidiotwhosnotstupid5424
    @theidiotwhosnotstupid5424 3 роки тому +46

    Bruh, Kevin's gonna need therapy more than any of us at this rate 😂😂 😭😭

    • @mdean22
      @mdean22 2 роки тому

      🏃🏿‍♂️

  • @christopherhenson5509
    @christopherhenson5509 3 роки тому +222

    Damn, she has a tattoo on her chest, and thinks that she's special, and has a baby up past 10 PM
    And the father of her baby is "around" meaning, there's no responsible parent in the equation
    That woman is over her head!

    • @antoniotula262
      @antoniotula262 3 роки тому +32

      Only thing missing is smoke alarm beeping

    • @dickmarx1298
      @dickmarx1298 3 роки тому +8

      She's absolutely special.
      Wearing a helmet, eating crayons, riding the short bus kind of special.

    • @carlforpresidentanthony4574
      @carlforpresidentanthony4574 3 роки тому +7

      Nurse 👩‍⚕️...Chest Tattoo?? 😳...da fugg 🥺

    • @cw5024
      @cw5024 3 роки тому +7

      @@darbyohara i think she was doing that because i believe she said that the 30 yr old man was around. Once she went to the bathroom she started to get serious and looked as if she really wanted help on how to get out of her current situation. Then she went back into the living room and became fake again

    • @Bidness100
      @Bidness100 3 роки тому +1

      @@darbyohara 💯

  • @MrGrp30
    @MrGrp30 3 роки тому +103

    "Relationships are not suppose to be complicated, plain like white bread." Love it! ❤ Well said Mr. Samuels.

    • @herbsaint636
      @herbsaint636 3 роки тому

      Yes exactly

    • @blademanx
      @blademanx 3 роки тому

      sure, sure, if only it were that simple.....

    • @MrGrp30
      @MrGrp30 3 роки тому

      @@blademanx Amen to that!

    • @CarMiNe6361
      @CarMiNe6361 3 роки тому +2

      @@blademanx it is that simple. People just love to make what should be simple, miserably complex.

  • @astrodude9146
    @astrodude9146 3 роки тому +337

    Bro when he said why is your 3yr old still up at 10 that shit literally clicked with me, my mom always made sure I had a schedule. Anyone can have kids not everyone can be a parent. Find people who have order in their life.

    • @Skye2000x
      @Skye2000x 3 роки тому +6

      She is working late. She will develop a schedule. Stop judging.

    • @Skye2000x
      @Skye2000x 3 роки тому +12

      @@ShaunHensley as a mum trust me I know exactly what is okay and not. And sometimes if the kid stays up until 10 it’s okay! I bet that 3 year old had nap during the day. There is called flexibility. Routine are the best ! Wont always work . You will thrive to make it work. Stop judging especially if you don’t have a child! Btw I know dads having their kids up way to late . They are solo too. Men even worst at routines.

    • @fatimahrahman6158
      @fatimahrahman6158 3 роки тому +5

      At 3 years old, they need 12 hours sleep. I guess she awakens at 11:00 AM!

    • @fatimahrahman6158
      @fatimahrahman6158 3 роки тому +7

      @@Skye2000x Raised two.8:30 bedtime until they were 8. Then it was 9:30 Pm. They now wake up at 5:30 AM as they run their own companies...

    • @trishc93
      @trishc93 3 роки тому +9

      Yea.. I felt that. I have a 4 year old & my mom jokingly calls me the warden because my son has had a bedtime since he was 6 months! Lol he’s fed & in bed by 8:30-9 at the latest! I do not play! I need my me time lol kids definitely need a routine & structure!

  • @japekto2138
    @japekto2138 3 роки тому +22

    One of my cardinal rules is keep things simple, including relationships. Not necessarily the easiest, but clear. I'm happy to see Mr. Samuels mention it.

  • @Crowbar11115
    @Crowbar11115 3 роки тому +259

    More proof that her looks are basically a smokescreen. The looks mean WAY less than the attitude, drama, delusions...

    • @damonglasse836
      @damonglasse836 3 роки тому +2

      Correct

    • @Ajxni
      @Ajxni 3 роки тому +2

      yeah thats true but any woman who come on this show before they even talk niggas are quick to put a number on them in the live chats lol. thats just how it is .

    • @renegade595
      @renegade595 3 роки тому +2

      @@Ajxni so disappointing but fax.

  • @TheMABExperience
    @TheMABExperience 3 роки тому +540

    The expression on Kevin's face throughout this video is the face every guy makes when a decent chick becomes another single mother statistic. The kid crying in the back did it for me. 😂

    • @velazquezn
      @velazquezn 3 роки тому +31

      7:45 You can read Kevin mind almost exploding, "...candy before go bed at 10PM..."

    • @amirasiya07
      @amirasiya07 3 роки тому +30

      It was total disarray in that household....ain’t no Man there in that home. Because a man would make sure them kids was feed and in the bed by 8:30p

    • @Afrocypher9590
      @Afrocypher9590 3 роки тому +3

      Bruh on God 😂🤣💀

    • @esalaam89
      @esalaam89 3 роки тому +1

      Factz

    • @d.c.4706
      @d.c.4706 3 роки тому +8

      May I ask what makes her “decent”? I’m just trying to understand what dudes consider “decent”. Are you referring to her physical appearance?

  • @manzinin1070
    @manzinin1070 3 роки тому +254

    "How do you walk away from this situation..." She finally asked the real question she came for

  • @tayhovah
    @tayhovah 3 роки тому +278

    She's actually not like the rest, she has a legitimate chance at turning this thing around and having an amazing life.

    • @careypaulwilliams1663
      @careypaulwilliams1663 3 роки тому +16

      I never read comments before i post. You are the only person besides myself who sees the potential of her situation.

    • @top5bulletxo920
      @top5bulletxo920 3 роки тому +4

      why do you say that?

    • @mcuembedded
      @mcuembedded 3 роки тому +20

      @@top5bulletxo920 Probably because she's kinda childish. Not a warrior with pitchforks yet, so good guidance can help. You can usually spot the pitchforks instantly... and those are the cases with 0 hope.

    • @top5bulletxo920
      @top5bulletxo920 3 роки тому +14

      Pratik Panda yeah true, plus she’s very cute as well so she’ll probably have a lot more men coming her way then the average looking woman. She just needs to learn from her mistake & I’ll think she’ll be alright.

    • @mcuembedded
      @mcuembedded 3 роки тому +5

      @@top5bulletxo920 But again, the issue is that she won't be who she is. She will be who her friends are... and that screws up the heads of 40 year olds too with decades of life experience. What are the chances of her finding normal friends?

  • @roneymcintyrejr9714
    @roneymcintyrejr9714 3 роки тому +239

    In private conversations amongst their peers, a justification for poor decisions is "The sex was good." When confronted with logic, the justification is "Love is blind." 🤦

    • @bobright1617
      @bobright1617 3 роки тому +14

      Good enough to ruin their lives and their kids and possibly the whole bloodline, smh

    • @roneymcintyrejr9714
      @roneymcintyrejr9714 3 роки тому +4

      @@bobright1617 Multi-generational Welfare Mentality and logic.

    • @joejoerunya8908
      @joejoerunya8908 3 роки тому +7

      Exactly.. he had swag

    • @manniefresh3425
      @manniefresh3425 3 роки тому +4

      @@bobright1617 yes, hedonism at its best

    • @t.robertjohnson7274
      @t.robertjohnson7274 3 роки тому +4

      Absolutely. Spot fucking on.

  • @josephwatts9013
    @josephwatts9013 3 роки тому +287

    “Relationships are supposed to be simple and boring”
    I feel much better now that I realize this truth!

    • @MakesiJosephRiddimRider
      @MakesiJosephRiddimRider 3 роки тому +12

      Truth... everyone looking for that fire and running up their body count

    • @adamp.8571
      @adamp.8571 3 роки тому +24

      Sadly this is probably the number one reason women leave. I’m more afraid to bore a woman than to cheat on her. A woman most likely take you back if you cheat. There IS NO COMING BACK if a woman is bored.

    • @nubienatty
      @nubienatty 3 роки тому +1

      Yet we chase these fantasies of fun loving adventures

    • @Christina-oq4td
      @Christina-oq4td 3 роки тому +5

      @@nubienatty The entertainment industry put them their. It’s what sells ALL their products. Stop watching.

    • @chadj4237
      @chadj4237 3 роки тому +11

      @@adamp.8571 if she’s bored she can go to the zoo for all I care. It’s not our job to take them on emotional rollercoasters when we just wanna chill. Stability to those types of women means there’s no passion. And they hate when guys are too chill to join their circus of bullshit

  • @breslibrary
    @breslibrary 3 роки тому +140

    Facts.. No 3 year old should be up that late.. But she blew that off because it's so normal to her.

    • @Rivers198
      @Rivers198 3 роки тому

      @Eetzjuss Toogood selfish immature behavior

    • @keltonmaloy9499
      @keltonmaloy9499 3 роки тому +11

      These modern single women kids be up till midnight on a school night, no discipline or structure in the house allows caos to take over.

  • @Auvibee
    @Auvibee 3 роки тому +8

    This one touched me. Praying for her and her daughter.

  • @jayatonement
    @jayatonement 3 роки тому +85

    These videos MAKE me wanna stay focus on my grind,no cohabitation,work out and invest everything in myself. Fr

    • @hybridownzDK
      @hybridownzDK 3 роки тому +7

      Facts I would go back to my home country to find a woman to have my child in the future cos they are not like these western women.

    • @matchhunter6941
      @matchhunter6941 3 роки тому +3

      Cohabitation =less s*x !!

    • @lordzooq8987
      @lordzooq8987 3 роки тому

      When I finally decide to settle down in damn sure not wifing an american woman

    • @princewellingham9182
      @princewellingham9182 3 роки тому

      🎯

    • @ironlionllc3725
      @ironlionllc3725 3 роки тому

      Not In My Trap My Boy lmao 😂

  • @jonathanmarvens
    @jonathanmarvens 3 роки тому +290

    Her situation is like a Chinese parade: red flags everywhere 🥴

  • @feliciagray5781
    @feliciagray5781 3 роки тому +145

    When he said you live a chaotic life, you can see her whole demeanor change and tell it got real for her fast.

  • @As_A________Commenter
    @As_A________Commenter 3 роки тому +22

    “Relationships are not supposed to be complicated” One thing I have learned, and this applies to men and women, some people seek the drama because it’s about the only interesting thing in their lives. The drama puts them in the spotlight, and they crave the attention of friends and family. Social media has kicked this into overdrive because now even complete strangers can bear witness. These types will never find a “nice guy/girl” because the idea of peace and normalcy seems boring, and they have to be judged on merit and accomplishment instead.

  • @thehoraypodcast4688
    @thehoraypodcast4688 3 роки тому +292

    We really have to stop associating trauma bonding with compatibility and love..

    • @ceded6543
      @ceded6543 3 роки тому +5

      THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @stetsonwashington
      @stetsonwashington 3 роки тому +3

      Posting this !!

    • @amirasiya07
      @amirasiya07 3 роки тому

      WHOOOO....G-A-M-E💥

    • @kcgold711
      @kcgold711 3 роки тому +3

      Facts us women do have a issue with doing that seeing someone's issues and using supporting them as if that will give you love.

    • @libertybelllocks7476
      @libertybelllocks7476 3 роки тому +3

      Women who have been ran through and ruined their normal bonding capabilities can only form a bond through trauma. And once that trauma hits it peak there will absolutely be no way to bond with anyone else.

  • @LFRFAMILY
    @LFRFAMILY 3 роки тому +1195

    *She is a Lil Cute ill guided young lady dating a reformed Dough Boy. Facts*

    • @jonlosius7939
      @jonlosius7939 3 роки тому +48

      Dough Boy Graphic Tall Tee will be what’s hot this decade. Her man is playing the Nostradamus game.

    • @delbertjohnson7232
      @delbertjohnson7232 3 роки тому +97

      Bruh i was thinking the same thing. He prob still at the trap.

    • @jimmythemuscle9612
      @jimmythemuscle9612 3 роки тому +8

      That sums it up

    • @andrejamal5438
      @andrejamal5438 3 роки тому +8

      I can bet that

    • @MainEvent628
      @MainEvent628 3 роки тому +5

      @@jonlosius7939 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @intelligentthinker8085
    @intelligentthinker8085 3 роки тому +113

    She is very humble but does need guidance. She will be ok if she takes his advice.

  • @robertburton2915
    @robertburton2915 3 роки тому +9

    This lady impressed me as she answered most questions and was honest after a bit about what she wanted to ask. She didn’t get defensive when confronted with the truth or critqued. In my experience, people often take a few minutes to get to the question they really want to ask. Do feel sorry for the guy, but doubt she is the first to jump off that train.

    • @peacelove7437
      @peacelove7437 3 роки тому

      She acts & has a mindset of a 15 year old . Lol

    • @upstatecommunications9031
      @upstatecommunications9031 8 місяців тому

      She’s immature. Most 25 year olds are. But she’s not combative or arrogant. She does have some potential

  • @timothywilson4903
    @timothywilson4903 3 роки тому +435

    You can apply Kevin's wisdom to any relationship, regardless of race, sex, creed etc. He's not afraid to speak the truth. Honestly, it's refreshing as hell cuz I feel like most people in his position have been sugarcoating shit for too long

    • @barrydaryle7817
      @barrydaryle7817 3 роки тому +8

      Facts

    • @will4evermoore
      @will4evermoore 3 роки тому +6

      You are right I apply to my own relationship and question my life

    • @barrydock7100
      @barrydock7100 3 роки тому +5

      The truth always cuts through the bs . She can barely hold a conversation without laughing. Her hands constantly in her face what's that about?

    • @anraegodley-cooper6321
      @anraegodley-cooper6321 3 роки тому +1

      NAILED IT

    • @earlem9771
      @earlem9771 3 роки тому

      That goes without saying

  • @Layziethug5
    @Layziethug5 3 роки тому +249

    Wow... she thinks she adds to a man’s life, but she can barely handle her own child long enough to have a whole conversation. She would be a liability just for that.

    • @lordzooq8987
      @lordzooq8987 3 роки тому +2

      I'm starting to realize modern w are all liabilities tbh. Just pump and dump because honestly they're not wife worthy.

    • @simetalmusic
      @simetalmusic 3 роки тому +2

      not even a liability, not to be dealt with from the jump.

  • @billbandoh5818
    @billbandoh5818 3 роки тому +1243

    Tears are literally coming down my face when she said “I’m sorry her dinner is almost ready... a 3 year old eating dinner at 10pm”. 😪

    • @PassportG
      @PassportG 3 роки тому +103

      Sad bro. Wtf 😔

    • @madame_fryson
      @madame_fryson 3 роки тому +53

      Sooo 😞 sad‼️

    • @kenilousjackson9488
      @kenilousjackson9488 3 роки тому +94

      With a 33 year old man

    • @marquiseleach3611
      @marquiseleach3611 3 роки тому +97

      Who runs a t-shirt company with 2 kids

    • @995black
      @995black 3 роки тому +69

      The baby probably ate already and when her mom got off she probably asked her child was she hungry

  • @mindfortress105
    @mindfortress105 3 роки тому +104

    "I'm young, I have a future" That future was sealed the moment you gave birth

    • @RJFROMTHEBAY
      @RJFROMTHEBAY 3 роки тому +2

      Facts

    • @jay-t1030
      @jay-t1030 3 роки тому +1

      The moment she got pregnant*

    • @mindfortress105
      @mindfortress105 3 роки тому +4

      @@jay-t1030 there are options to solve that

    • @moses0686
      @moses0686 3 роки тому +2

      She still has a chance.

    • @fresh1463
      @fresh1463 3 роки тому +3

      Wow I guess everyone should have loads of abortions and not take responsibility of their child

  • @FrancescaFrancesca
    @FrancescaFrancesca 3 роки тому +433

    Its killing me each time Kevin says "with a T-Shirt company" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @triste4-21
    @triste4-21 3 роки тому +226

    I'm not black or female but damn, I'm glad I came across your videos. Changed my life.

    • @lucasmazzoli4426
      @lucasmazzoli4426 3 роки тому +9

      @Reloaded Past man like big herc, big respect from 🇬🇧

    • @powermiller855
      @powermiller855 3 роки тому +13

      Keep watching men and women need to learn this especially older videos

    • @iGodTalks
      @iGodTalks 3 роки тому +1

      FACTS ♠️

    • @itsallgood6146
      @itsallgood6146 3 роки тому

      Why?

  • @mikesmith1181
    @mikesmith1181 3 роки тому +269

    She just got off work and needs to play with her kid.
    Take note how it is all about HER. Not what is best for the child.

    • @metalliclark86
      @metalliclark86 3 роки тому +16

      Is it ever any different?

    • @reesemonique
      @reesemonique 3 роки тому +17

      AND that she had dinner cooking at 10pm, so that baby aint eat all day 🤦‍♀️

    • @kikistylzz
      @kikistylzz 3 роки тому +6

      Play with her child?? It’s 10pm!!! Her kid should be in bed. What she needs to do is find suitable child care that will have her baby in bed by the time she gets home so she can shower and go to sleep that way she is well rested to play with her the next day.

    • @charellesexii6555
      @charellesexii6555 3 роки тому +2

      She just got off and need to put the kid to bed

    • @ZachDaHater1
      @ZachDaHater1 3 роки тому +3

      She probably does that every night, she was cooking dinner for the kid but wanted to take a little time and finally get around to calling KS. I wouldn't judge her harshly because of that. I'm sure she's a great mother doing the best she can.

  • @OldSchoolJules
    @OldSchoolJules 2 роки тому +11

    At first I thought she was just being ridiculous. But once she went into the other room after her man left and got real, I kind of felt her pain. Wow.

  • @awakenwithmychal5390
    @awakenwithmychal5390 3 роки тому +332

    This is what I don't like about women. She's trashing him behind his back but won't be straight with him in a honest conversation!

    • @jimmythemuscle9612
      @jimmythemuscle9612 3 роки тому +16

      🎯

    • @TheRealAwestBeats
      @TheRealAwestBeats 3 роки тому +17

      Her man need to dump her! Asap

    • @Knight_Jon_Artorias
      @Knight_Jon_Artorias 3 роки тому +23

      Women didn't evolve to be confrontational. That's why they aren't straightforward with their ideas and opinions. That's a typically masculine trait.

    • @Diesel-le5fx
      @Diesel-le5fx 3 роки тому +12

      @@Knight_Jon_Artorias To late for that now. They're independent and all about feminism and wanting to be equal. They would challenge your statement now no matter how much sense it makes. Lol

    • @dueldab2117
      @dueldab2117 3 роки тому +5

      Actually it’s his fault for being a loser and feeling that he deserves a woman. Even a broken down one.

  • @jdruckus6640
    @jdruckus6640 3 роки тому +146

    I have to show my son these videos when he is old enough to understand. This is some real schooling here.

    • @Bangin0utWest
      @Bangin0utWest 3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely brotha

    • @bobbylong8073
      @bobbylong8073 2 роки тому

      Today's children are very wise. Teaching starts in the womb. Educate your child now please. We need to talk to children as young adults, but with corrections. The parents should run the house at all times, with proper instruction you see a young gentleman or lady whose ready for the world. You're good parent... parents please don't hold back the knowledge. Educated children make great students...teachers fight over them for the right to teach them....

    • @marjoriedavis-barnes3625
      @marjoriedavis-barnes3625 2 роки тому

      REAL SCHOOLING!!!

    • @mrjasonsamuel23
      @mrjasonsamuel23 9 місяців тому

      I'm 40 and I wished I had this in my 20's

  • @myrahj1482
    @myrahj1482 3 роки тому +672

    Kevin said candy but babygirl was asking for spaghetti 🍝 "Mommy I want Shetti" which is just as bad because she's hungry at 10pm and this Mom couldn't figure out to feed & bath the baby BEFORE calling. Our community needs so much help🙏🏽

    • @davisdavis9085
      @davisdavis9085 3 роки тому +9

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀👀👀👀🙊🙊🙊🛑🛑🛑🛑🤣😂😂😂

    • @matthewjohnson3302
      @matthewjohnson3302 3 роки тому +14

      A little judgmental

    • @jgee9015
      @jgee9015 3 роки тому +13

      She dont REPRESENT every black family

    • @jacobpotter2237
      @jacobpotter2237 3 роки тому +7

      @@jgee9015 the majority.

    • @crackcassidy9833
      @crackcassidy9833 3 роки тому +4

      And they say women aren't funny🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @tyrone8402
    @tyrone8402 2 роки тому +5

    Gosh she is stunningly beautiful, I hope things work out for her. I like her energy, willingness to learn, and her humility.

  • @Veganphobic
    @Veganphobic 3 роки тому +61

    My wife bbq ribs and salmon yesterday.
    I’m so happy right now at work today eating on break watching this thank you Jesus!!!

  • @CourtneyCheese
    @CourtneyCheese 3 роки тому +40

    Papa Kevin came out on this one 🥺❤️❤️❤️ This was filled w so much patience, wisdom, and was straightforward. He cuts thru allllllll the bs and gets down to the bare bones.. When ppl say bad stuff abt KS, I just keep scrolling bc ik they're either triggered bc he's right or simply haven't really tuned into more than a thirty second clip online .. God bless you Kevin !!!

  • @bjornblackwood3111
    @bjornblackwood3111 3 роки тому +454

    “I’m an RN”
    “Another goddamn nurse”
    😂😂😂😂😂😂 toooooo accurate

    • @dickmarx1298
      @dickmarx1298 3 роки тому +43

      None of them actually want to be nurses, they just become nurses so that they can be around high value men and try to snag one for themselves.
      I.e. doctor, surgeon, administrator,

    • @LetGoStressFree
      @LetGoStressFree 3 роки тому +12

      Respectable field

    • @JCollex
      @JCollex 3 роки тому +14

      I'm crying LMAoo bruh If I had a dollar for how many warped thinking nurses I've dealt with my entire life. the response was so accurate.

    • @craigadair128
      @craigadair128 3 роки тому +17

      I am not sure what his heartburn is with nurses. It actually is a good profession that pays relatively well.

    • @tekoa1998
      @tekoa1998 3 роки тому +7

      @Kevin Samuel's I’ve been following you but what is the deal with Nurses? Please advise.

  • @SuperSaiyanEagle
    @SuperSaiyanEagle 2 роки тому +8

    Holly shit dude this was sad. Homeboy was patient af and probably felt sorry for her. Hopefully it all works out for her baby and her.

  • @stanleywallace2692
    @stanleywallace2692 3 роки тому +106

    I hate when people say that getting a medical assistant certificate is going to college...That’s not going to College...That’s a medical training program🙄...she’s not even close to being a nurse...It annoys me because people like me went to school for 4 years and actually have degrees and we put the work in and those who have masters degrees too...I’m just tired of hearing that narrative

    • @robsawyer8034
      @robsawyer8034 3 роки тому +5

      Thank you, I said the same exact thing.

    • @stanleywallace2692
      @stanleywallace2692 3 роки тому +17

      @@robsawyer8034 Do you know how many women I’ve dated and I ask them “hey did you go to college” they’ll say yes and then tell me they have a medical assistant degree or a medical coding degree🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @leslieclarkson2291
      @leslieclarkson2291 3 роки тому +1

      @@stanleywallace2692 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @stanleywallace2692
      @stanleywallace2692 3 роки тому +2

      @@leslieclarkson2291 no seriously can you answer why women do this it’s absurd🤣...

    • @ayodejijames3769
      @ayodejijames3769 3 роки тому +10

      @@stanleywallace2692 validation, they all want to be accepted by society, inferiority complex. They talk about being independent and stuff and powerful. But dont give a damn about them and they'll cry themselves to sleep every day.
      That's why they'll constantly lie just to make sure they are noticed or feel relevant. College my ass

  • @moneymonarch8102
    @moneymonarch8102 3 роки тому +177

    At first I thought her sense of humor was endearing but then the more Kevin went in and she kept smiling the more it became sad

    • @pooh4025
      @pooh4025 3 роки тому +6

      She was pretending because the guy was still in the house.

    • @spiritualak5147
      @spiritualak5147 3 роки тому +7

      She just goofy asf

    • @pauldwalker
      @pauldwalker 3 роки тому +18

      it’s a defense mechanism

    • @dannybaldwin7343
      @dannybaldwin7343 3 роки тому

      @@spiritualak5147 that's our future 😁

  • @jerichothe8584
    @jerichothe8584 3 роки тому +1086

    I like the way Kevin waited patiently while her kid acted up in the background, just to show the men what's in it for them when dealing with a baby mama 😂

    • @gussi123
      @gussi123 3 роки тому +50

      I thought this was going a different direction. 😂😂😂😂

    • @MrDIZ561
      @MrDIZ561 3 роки тому +10

      Home wrecker

    • @jay4341
      @jay4341 3 роки тому +26

      Man just watching the kid go crazy cemented this!!!

    • @oliverclytus7559
      @oliverclytus7559 3 роки тому +25

      Facts she literally demonstrated what life with her will be like. Don’t get me wrong if you date a woman with kids they’re a package deal. But is he willing to put up with her questioning the way he talks to the kids especially if she has a son. They got Dee eye to eye on that or it won’t work

    • @paulorr9262
      @paulorr9262 3 роки тому +8

      Boom. Exactly. Eye opening for sure. I did that once. Never again.

  • @MotivatedI
    @MotivatedI Рік тому +2

    I dated a single mother with a four year old son who she wanted to watch tv till 1am. I tried to bring in sense but I was attacked. She wanted the son to watch tv so he doesn’t bother her. I left amicably with those reasons. I wish her well but hearing her and the daughter at 10pm who isn’t well mannered to be even in bed at hour brought me some PTSD

  • @synastry2013
    @synastry2013 3 роки тому +182

    He gave her great advice. I feel sorry for that young lady. I hope things work out for her and her baby girl.

    • @sweetwonkahallelujah7016
      @sweetwonkahallelujah7016 3 роки тому +6

      If I got 2 kids and she got just 1 and she younger than me and supportive...either I would marry her now or wait until my kids independent and live my life without her...raising another kid is serious work

    • @marjoriedavis-barnes3625
      @marjoriedavis-barnes3625 2 роки тому +1

      ME TOO

  • @hoodtohollywood
    @hoodtohollywood 3 роки тому +214

    She's confused, heart broken and looking for some strength from somebody to help her shake the man she with. She has future at least her attitude doesn't stink

    • @MrYuckabuck
      @MrYuckabuck 3 роки тому +9

      Her mother did her a huge disservice

    • @oshinofalakoju5749
      @oshinofalakoju5749 3 роки тому +1

      Completely agree with this comment

    • @ms.camillewarrenempress31
      @ms.camillewarrenempress31 7 місяців тому

      People like this don’t have no goals or ambition for themselves but waiting on a man to save them no purpose driven about herself just waiting on a man to help her !!!!

  • @OG_Suave
    @OG_Suave 3 роки тому +95

    Her being adopted definitely plays into her lack of confidence and self-esteem. Crazy how a beautiful young woman settles this much, and there’s busted older women who wouldn’t even give the T-shirt guy a chance lol

    • @pïnnëdbyStephenGardnër-q1f
      @pïnnëdbyStephenGardnër-q1f 3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for commenting, I will refer you to my trade analyst and accountant to make good income , go more on Digital Assets BTÇ.

  • @rhammond1963
    @rhammond1963 2 місяці тому +4

    Its 10pm and the child is up like a live wire.

  • @frankzappa6391
    @frankzappa6391 3 роки тому +760

    She is locked in the bathroom with the kid screaming outside. This is just wild.

    • @enermaxstephens1051
      @enermaxstephens1051 3 роки тому +19

      @Joshua Merwine Undisciplined kids will behave that way though

    • @chuckbareika5478
      @chuckbareika5478 3 роки тому +36

      This is the trash raising these kids nowadays

    • @ZAAA1234
      @ZAAA1234 3 роки тому +10

      She obviously has her mom or someone in the other room with her child. And if you don't have a child than you wouldn't understand how hard it is to raise one.

    • @ZAAA1234
      @ZAAA1234 3 роки тому

      She obviously has her mom or someone in the other room with her child. And if you don't have a child than you wouldn't understand how hard it is to raise one.

    • @frankzappa6391
      @frankzappa6391 3 роки тому +7

      @@ZAAA1234 1) You don’t even know the girl nor know whether or not her mom is there.
      2) You can’t argue the complexity of a situation when you readily chose to have a child. Like Kevin says, it makes no sense to have a kid before you have a significant other.

  • @mr.brooks3748
    @mr.brooks3748 3 роки тому +368

    Im so glad he didnt go off on her and all that because you can tell she's not like the other women on here. Being adopted and around unhealthy relationships she's not bitter she just wants love and support but doesn't know healthy true marriage material love. This one was different. I feel for her. Salute to kevin on this one for recognizing that off the jump

  • @djgvo1822
    @djgvo1822 3 роки тому +215

    She came in here with so much energy, was happy about her 33 year old man and his 2 kids. When Kevin started breaking things down, her moral went down as well lol. The look on her face said it all. Can’t make this shit up

    • @thebull683
      @thebull683 3 роки тому +15

      This is the theme of every video. They come on here flirty as hell but the smile slowly fades

    • @MrSamadolfo
      @MrSamadolfo 3 роки тому +7

      😏 Win by 'Faitality'

    • @ebonieosborne170
      @ebonieosborne170 3 роки тому +3

      Yes I saw that morale dip down Fa Sho 😁

    • @BountyRogueCinemax
      @BountyRogueCinemax 3 роки тому +6

      She was very proud of him, said he was a father figure' and then went to the bathroom to whisper she wants to get rid of him and break it off. Lmao bro I'm good of women man I'm good single

    • @stilman3780
      @stilman3780 3 роки тому +4

      She knows what Kevin said was the truth. She knew that when she called. She was hoping he would tell her the same feel good logic she tells herself. When Kevin broke it down her sadness was confirmation of the "I knew it" feeling she had within.

  • @jrtstrategicapital560
    @jrtstrategicapital560 3 роки тому

    Kevin…your doing a great community service by educating these young women (men too) and others of their fallacy that being a baby mama is wonderful. It becomes a vicious cycle ..and the innocent kids are truly victimized thru hungry, poverty, living alone while their parent is working, no father etc…. How did this “selfish” act of procreation become so popular. In my generation, it was too shameful to be a baby mama…when did it become accepted as normal or rather normalized dysfunction? Truly a sad condition.. I’ve been watching your videos and thankful your doing a wonderful job .