This is sad. I used to date a woman like this for a bit. She made over 100k and felt my profession wasn’t good enough. She broke it off with me because her friends told her too. A few weeks later she came back and realized she made a mistake I said I wasnt interested. Two years later I’m engaged to a queen who values me, we about to buy a house and she got knocked up by some bum and is still single. You can’t make this stuff up!!!
Very nicely summed up, probably would put the accountability of a child first in that roster. It’s like the literal bubble that encapsulates the other two. Like a snow globe of chaos lmao
When a woman says "I hear you," she means she can see the logic of what you're saying, but will still disagree with it because it doesn't make her feel good.
@Rudy The Red Pill Beta very good observation. If it could be mature and not spill into opening up old arguments it could be something. But you know it would just turn into a woman avoiding accountability.
This man was amazing. He was an asset to all people. He was not rude or unkind. He was strongly realistic. He brought his subject down from the clouds.
“Ask a women what kind of man she wants she’ll write a book. Ask her what she brings to the table in a relationship, it won’t even fit on the back of a stamp.” -K.S.
Not true. This is stereotyping. I've been married for 12 years. My man pays bills and I use my money to manage our household. My husband will never say he needs and I don't have his back. . I have a great man and I'm not trying to make him leave over foolishness. My man is good to me and I will always reciprocate the same behavior. I love me some him. Marry the right person and your good. I believe in black marriage and happiness.
Right after this one i think Kevin made a great point about how its bullshit that they think they are "settling" for average men when you dont "settle for average" you settle for below average. A decent average guy whos loyal and loves you is a PRIZE
she has 3 options 1. Buy a dog & die alone 2. Date younger a man in his late 20’s or early 30’s and MAYBE they’ll take her serious. 3. Become a spinster until she completely ages out .
😢😢 I cry every time I remember this man is dead. He was soooooo needed in the black community. Now we have to watch these girls take glory in being 304s and also watch them endure the bitterness that their later years will bring.
When my ex-wife told me that her mom didn’t sent her to college just to clean and cook! I filed the divorce and got my peace of mind. Enjoying my retirement 🎣🎣🎣
Young women need to watch this! We may have a lot of options while we are young and in our prime but it can all be wasted if we don’t make the right choices .Then turn 38 and single af.
Excelent. But most modern girls that are in early 20s até already destined tô be Alone at 38 and fornever. Too much rockstar status nowadays, they cant choose. And no sane dude are gonna take seriously a girl that slept around for years and os proud tô be a slut.
Yes girl. I am 25 & married. Didn't know how crucial these times were but it makes sense why I naturally had the urge to get my husband as soon as possible whoever he was.
Lol, I had a college GF ditch me for a more prettier guy when I was pouring myself into running a startup company. Years later she was calling and trying to get back together. Graduating college without having found a husband and had evolved her into valuing "earner" guys over guys with Ryan Gosling dimples, apparently. Wow, what an attitude adjustment! Too bad it came so late, and she had never shown an ounce of empathy or even interest in what it cost me to become an earner back when I could've used it. I had to tell her I'm not your fallback "safe" guy. PS, Ladies, if your man has to come up with 40k every 2 weeks to make payroll and his receivables to cover that are coming in late, that is MORE IMPORTANT than the argument you had with your roommate. It literally and objectively IS. High value women get that shit.
She claims to be “cool” and “fun” but her Exes “go back” to their ex girlfriends and marry them. When the problem seems to be everyone else, it’s most likely YOU.
The problem she is having is that men are waking up and don’t see women as the prize they once were. More men are realizing you could spend the time on yourself and your hobbies which doesn’t bring you drama, headaches, or financial liability.
It seems like modern American women are doing everything they can to make themselves unattractive to men (crazy hair, tattoos all over the place, piercings, and a nasty attitude).
I think that's true for the other side. I think SOME women stop putting SOME men on pedestals too and decided to get degrees and hobbies to focus their attention but where does that leave you and them Alone. There has to be a happy medium for black people.
It's what I've been doing. It's funny because my ex randomly hit me up a couple days ago. And she was the one that dumped me. I basically told her I am on my purpose and not worth it coming back into my life. She aint happy.
Girl, if you are NOT a virgin I am NOT waiting, because I am NOT going to pay the price of admission (in time, dinners, dates, etc...) for something that someone already got.
She's wondering why she's not a wife and confused. But she has turned down three engagements. You're not a wife because you don't want to be married. Simple
"I'm too good for them, I deserve better because I'm a wonderful person" I bet if you asked her exes they'd say "she isn't a wonderful person" she thinks she is" My last gf said the same thing...I'm laid back, cool, chill, easy going. She was the most difficult, self centered, arrogant, narcissistic self absorbed twat I've ever met. To sum it up: I said "you're as rigid as a steel i beam" She said "i'm bendy like a willow" I said "ok, you're so flexible, didn't you complain just last week that there weren't any grill marks on your bbq chicken breasts"? She: so I like them that way. Me: if you were truly flexible, it wouldn't matter right? Her: grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr That's the problem: they can't see the forest for the trees.
@@Underratedcommentator Yup, I didn't know what a narc was until after I typed in google "what does it mean when your gf does ______" and 4 million hits "signs you're dating a narcissist" lol
"No matter what reason a woman gives for leaving you, the real bottom line is because she thinks she can do better than you." I don't remember definitely where I heard that, but I've never forgotten it.
@Darryl Brown It's crazy because I just read where Gary Owen's wife is divorcing him. He's the white comedian who made most of his material ABOUT being married to a black woman. At 40 years old and after 18 years, this dummy thinks she's going to find a better man than the one she's with. If she does, I hope she also buys a lottery ticket at the same time.
I grew in Westchester N.Y one of the wealthiest counties in America. My mother & father often tell me how meeting my mother he didn't have 2 quarters to rub together. Dirt poor in South Carolina. He met my mother married her in a month & took her with him when he attended Howard University. They built a life that I get to enjoy! Today's women want what takes 40 years to build from a 20-year-old.
@@FRESHALEX760 No! Reread my post! My dad got accepted into Howard University in D.C. from South Carolina. And brought my mother with him to University. And started building which ended in Westchester & having me! They didn't start in Westchester it took them decades to get to Westchester! Example they married in their late teens early 20's. They didn't have me until they were 30. In between, they were building a life.
@@willwright2099 I read it, but you left KEY details out, that’s why I question how you ended up in WC when y’all were from the south, but you clarified it....
The more of his videos that I watch, the more I TOTALLY understand why he (sadly) passed away from a heart attack (or stress). These women are SO damn frustrating, they just about give me a heart attack and I’m not even in the conversation! He was. And he CARED!! Can you imagine how much this hit him? How patient he had to be? The man was a f*^king Super Hero!!! These women dug under his armor/power and caused his death (metaphorically). 😢☮️
The women petitioning to get him removed off UA-cam is almost matching his momentum. They bring more women to the channel by trying to get rid of him. We all know that people cannot just drive by an accident, they have a natural draw to see for themselves.
Actually, it's kind of good that she has not married a Yonex yet. Without that therapy she would make a mess of it all. I do agree that she could have been help to the next generation had she been sane and logical. She is neither.
I dated a chick like this 1yr ago, before the holidays, before I knew ANY relationship theory- some of us guys learn the hard way, forced to look within and finally do the work after a bad break up. I was 35, she was 33 (remember, I didn’t even know about the danger zone or else would have never considered her). Looking back on it now- I allowed her to become masculine, I was so green. She was into me in the beginning! We dated 4 months, only saw each other on the weekends. In hindsight, piecing together her deception, her tattered story, and using the theory I learned from KS, AMS, Darius M, Rory XL, and some CW, it was a recipe for epic disaster. The good out of this is that I keep masculine frame now, I vet potential serious partners, discard immediately, or do not even consider when they display masculine energy. Currently, I am vetting a young woman I met during a work assignment near the Philippines. She’s showing positive signs- submissive, making my apt, spending money on dinner, making future plans. We’ll see where this goes.
If she marries that man better meet every expectation/fantasy that she has ever had because he will not ever be good enough for her and she will let him know it daily.
Turning down 2 engagements, and a 3rd one = means someone thought you were good enough to marry, with your flaws but you didnt think they were good enough, with their flaws..
In my early 20s, I would just get bypassed and rejected (by women like her). I thought there was something wrong with me because I came from a very low tier. It took me in my mid-30s to realize I was on an Alpha status. It angers me that so many in my community pounded in me that I was a beta. I am married now, have a house on the way, and have been investing. One heck of an unwanted circus ride. SMH.
Isn’t it funny how that works? I was the same way. In my 20s I got passed over so many times. Now in my 30s (and my prime) I have women in their early 20s wanting me. Life is getting good 😊
back in my younger days I loved older women because I thought they were more mature. until one of my older homeboys told me that, that's not really true. and boy was he right.
It's because a lot of these women listen with their emotions. They don't listen to what he's saying; instead, they hear what they want to hear and vilify him because of it. Case and point, I've never heard a woman come on his show and refute any of the facts he provides; they come on there with incorrect information and try to argue points he never said or didn't make.
Kevin is right about what he says because so many industries make money off of single women. Beyonce and Oprah have done irreparable damage as both women are with high-value men and they ain't going nowhere.
She has a masters degree, she went to school with the top 15% of guys, had classes, study groups, group projects, internships and still couldn't land one.
@@faolin4789 let's be honest. Most women that complain about bad sex typically just lie there and contribute less than a sex doll. It most likely wasn't enjoyable for him either.
I was once…engaged to a woman like this. Utterly unaware, and completely identifying with her education and profession. She was uncooperative and condescending. Once I saw how she treated servers in a restaurant…I caught a glimpse of my future and was OUT!
You sure as hell dodged a bullet there brother! I hope and will pray that you find a lady with the kind of attributes that you can spend your life with her appreciating and reciprocating.
She's basically the analogy of the guy being stranded out at sea. He prays for god to help him. A ship comes by to save him and he tells them, "No thank you. God will save me." Another ship comes by and he tells them, "I'm okay! God will save me!" He dies and goes to heaven. He asks god, "Hey, why didn't you save me?" And god replies, "I sent two ships.'
Genesis 2:18 - “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper as his partner.” - PARTNER not a prize, and not a cherry and certainly not entitled.
Wow. After 25 minutes, Kevin got her to reveal her true intentions of being alone. That's why all her relationships failed, she wants to waste men's time until she dates God himself. Therapy was rightly recommended Kevin. These women REALLY can't or won't see the man's perspective when dating.
I'm definitely willing to see and apply the man's perspective. And I'm willing to seek therapy to improve myself. And I have no desire to be with a perfect person as perfection does not exist. I have a lot to learn for sure.
This woman acts, as we say in my neck of the woods, “squirrelly”. I watched this live last night, and I can’t explain why, but I feel like she wasn’t being truthful. I think she is mixing in some truth to make it seem more palatable.
I love this channel I’m a 24 year old AA female and, I learn so much from this channel. I’m learning how to be more feminine, less picky, how to submit to a man and let him lead by being the man. Thank you so much, I hope more young black women watch this channel and take your tips/advice along with finding a man that can lead. ❤️
Well at least you have taken your time to find out more about your target/goal and what it is he wants. Just keep at it and you will be married, its only a matter of time.
@loveunique , I totally understand.Learning to co exist with a man is important. Being more feminine is being a wear of how others experiences you, communication and cooperation. I see my mom at 68 and not being married, body breaking down before retirement age , being difficult to deal with , having unhealthy emotional incest with their children, recognizing her opportunities have stopped, going to doc appointments alone, the men she be interested in arent interested in her, willing to leach off anyone for financial gain ( because she had this since of independence of not needing a man because of government assistance), last not building anything on this earth. Is eye opening and sad to watch.
I appreciate this women coming and having genuine conversation, I think she was honestly trying to identify the gaps in thinking and Kevin did an awesome job with it
At 5:04 she said “depending on the man” when KS asks her about making a man wait. Perfect example of breaking the rules for the bad boy and putting rules on the good guy. Modern woman in action.
Somebody else pointed out she left her first engagement because the sex was trash, yet it was her hs sweetheart so she had nothing to compare to unless she cheated lol
@@karlg1535 I mean that logic is pretty whack, she could have lost her v in middle school, and besides you can tell if sex is good or not just by having talks with your friends.
I'm a wife and a stay home mom. In my culture (Southeast Asia) we dont put women on pedestal even I was virgin. My American fiance (husband now) proposed me in front of my traditional parents. We have been married for 12 years and more to come. Most modern American women are clueless about relationships and marriage that's why the divorce rate is so high and marriage number plummets, please wake up ladies.
@Kano that whole gf thing is the problem in itself, wtf is a girlfriend/boyfriend anyway??? You’re either married or not, and if you’re not married then anyone is fair game
Literally my situation right now. This thought process is ruining the black community. She’s smart enough to realize the negative, but uses them as weapons to walk away. She is the cool female who meets the cool guy and doesn’t get taken serious. Praying she gets it right.
I understand your logic there however I counter that the traditional way (including traditional laws) is optimal for raising children which is the whole point for all intents and purposes behind traditional marriage. Insure paternity, raise healthy offspring, and pass on legacy to the next generation.
I mention this to women and they get offended by it, but to be honest about, most women in today world's need help badly. The ones I know that go to therapy never talk about their relationship life at all. Too afraid to do so.
If this woman is this beautiful at 38, I can only imagine how gorgeous she might have looked in her 20's. The options of men she had at her disposal where limitless. Too bad she squandered opportunity after opportunity because having soo many options stopped her from making a choice at all.
In a man’s eyes, a woman is 1 in a million. In a woman’s eyes, a man is 1 of a million... Men love unconditionally, Women “might” love you only under the conditions that you provide something.
She's basically saying she been getting pumped and dumped by the ones she desires and as a result it distorted her perception of reality and the level of men that she was really qualified for to begin with.
But @ 38 you think this girl would have learn her lesson now right? I guess not! It clearly shows that she is going for guys that do not value her the way she values herself.
Yes. Pump and dump the hot guys which she knows she won't get 5 minutes of their time if she doesn't sleep with them that night. Meanwhile, make the good guys wait months for sex. The problem, good guys start realizing this. They value you based on what others are paying for you and they value themselves based on what you do for others. They aren't thinking "She must really like me because she's waiting 3 months to sleep with me." they are saying "Chad got her in a week, so she'd bail on me for him in a heartbeat." Sorry lady, once you've giving it up on the first date once... that's your value from then on. Maybe when you are 25 you might be able to claim you've never been with anyone else or waited months with the 2-3 relations you've had previously. However, no guy is going to buy that from a 38 year-old.
"The sex wasn't good." Do people not realize that this can change? Technically, this has the same skill vs talent dynamic as any other endeavor. It starts with communication. Tell the guy what your preferences are. Or teach him a new trick if you need to. And be willing to acquiesce to his requests too. And figure not every encounter will reach new heights. Some might be routine. Most might be routine, especially in a long term relationship. Sheesh!
That high school/college sweetheart she was engaged to dodged a bullet when she broke off the engagement. She's 38 talking to KS with her dog snoring in the background and no prospects. Sad.
@@hv3115 Ding ding! I've also met my fair share of monogamous guys who are trash at sex, and have little inclination to get better. Why would you stay married to that? You'd eventually cheat. The one thing I respected was when sis was honest about sexual compatibility. "To thine own self be true."
@@hv3115 sometimes no matter how big you are she still will cheat regardless cause they are emotional delusional narcissistic emasculating creatures. No matter how you put it. They don't care about no man. Even if you're going through something they don't take accountability and always make it about them instead of simple communication.
She admitted she’s a jump off. “I’m cool” “I’m agreeable” “Guys really like hanging around me” “once they hang out a few times, then they go back to their exes and begin a relationship!” There’s nothing exceptional about her. She’s very attractive physically, stops there.
Rest in peace to this brother 🙏🏿 All he was trying to do was help his people and they went against him so hard. I had to listen to him for myself to see what he was about and he was always on point
Cause theyre scared of Kevin n his boldness, notice the constant stuttering and pauses...they finally dont wish to look uneducated, crazy it took all of this exposing and examples of reality for any of them to start thinking that way...imo breaking down women clearly kinda works if you know how to be calm and move like the Godfather...im takin mad notes 🙏🏽😈
@@AliciaDJaDavis You do know a man at your level, income and age with a passport can find thousands of 20yr old females south of the USA. All she has to be is a housewife, no MS degree needed.
Damn Kevin makes me laugh so much. When I was 17 years old my father started getting on me about finding a suitable man to settle down with because he wanted to make sure I was taken care of once he was gone from this earth. I am Jewish so we have cultural expectations in terms of Marriage and Suitability, but I thought he was being a little old school at the time. I married at 20 had a child at 21, another around 26 and now that I am 30 I realize his inherit wisdom.
Smart Jewish man! He Hade priorities in his life! He knows that his Jewish gal is not "agroyce metsia" and he prefers his thougther crying now alone instead of both crying later.
Most young adults (but especially women) and women under 55 are in reality adult toddlers >>> being in any way responsible or being held accountable for their actions is not even a consideration in their scrambled minds.
Grewing up my mother constantly said she dont need a man. Now being 30 shes always calling me over to tighten screws an move furniture around an now thinking about it, this is the job for your man. But you always said you dnt need one. While you were raising a young man
Its sad that women dont see the damage they are doing to sons. They make them feel worthless, unimportant and unloved by society. I honestly think single mothers raising sons are the reason so many turn to gangs to feel a sense of worth. All we ever hear is how we aren't needed...then society wonders what is wrong with us
@@MkNasty911 exactly, as guys we like to be useful but when you hear your not needed every day you turn to other avenues to get a sense of belonging, still no excuse to commit crimes but I see where you coming from
Exactly bro. Black women are hands down the most beautiful women on earth. Check em after 40😍. But the most irrational snd impossible to deal with. Continuously moving the goal post and zero accountability toward black men
Ya'll noticed how she tried to judge men based on whether they court or just sleep with women, only to go on and admit that she gives it up after a week for some men and wait months for others.
My grandparents weren't the most educated but they were wise and experienced. Owned a few juke joints plus a family farm. My grandma has 4th grade education but can sew/make clothes, operate heavy equipment, raise animals, discipline in finance but above all a great housewife-mother-grandma-great gma and an awesome down south soul food cook. She put her husband first and together they did right by their children and future generations. 3kids- 30 plus grand kids, plus several great grands all doing good. That's what they take pride in their big smart strong men and sweet soft spoken-firm beautiful ladies they reared up.... We lost a true treasure in Kevin it's a shame the ones who want to help get ridiculed the most. If we can't have rational conversations as adults and speak about what's plaguing our community as a whole then how can we heal the wound completely. The sad part is they never talked about how he held men to a higher standard and all he did was give women the real game. I bet Steve Harvey had a nice time cashing them checks from them book sales that all them women bought but not once he mentioned the truth in thinking like a man. He gave y'all what y'all wanted to read. But nevertheless I care for my family and only do right by mine as we all should be as a collective we gotta be better
I respect the idea of a woman being selective and waiting to have sx. However, if she is making me wait but she has given it up right away to my predecessors that is definitely a red flag.
In some other sense, are you saying if a woman doesn't make the same mistake she's made with others with you, then it's a red flag? But then, she said the shortest was 2wks and he longest was 3 months, so I dunno if that makes any difference at all.
@@godd226 She did it on purpose in the past. Ain’t no mistake. She was told by her parents not to do that. If she wasn’t, she has awful parents, and you shouldn’t marry into that family anyways.
@@bucsfan2565 I like your comment. Yeah, I don't think it's a mistake either, technically. Let's rephrase that and say she's not made good decisions in the past. However, I suppose the way she proves this is to date with the intention of marriage and to withhold sex, and in my opinion, not for just three months, but until marriage. What do you think?
I wanna be like you, I’m 29 about to be 30. I have a boyfriend and hopefully will be married before March (didn’t propose because I have to meet his parents, they live 2000 miles away)
I just met a wanna be divorcee lawyer at a function tonight, no joke. She's literally becoming a lawyer because she don't wanna be "burned in divorce court" her words 😅 God help this nation.
@@irodrod knock it off. She isn’t crazy😂🤣! Y’all try too hard to beat these ladies beliefs down. She is sweet and attractive, she has a great deal of choice and there lies the problem. Her problem is she needs to accept that she really doesn’t want to be married. She feels like she is compelled to do it to fulfill societal norms.
A woman taking advice from another woman(even their mom, sometimes) about how to be happy in a relationship is insane. If a woman hasn't figured out by 30, that other women are her enemy, she's inept. Women will do everything in their power to sabotage the others happiness, and any advice is the best weapon. My last love took advice from her widowed, miserable, drunken aunt about our relationship. She feels her mistake, every time she see's me, but she went way to far.
It really bothers me that ppl act like suggesting therapy is offensive. We ALL could benefit from therapy. We’ve all experienced some sort of trauma and trauma literally reshapes the brain. Therapy is like going to the gym for your mind. It’s not a bad thing.
The common theme is education, dog, and job is what women focus on like her meanwhile drying up and getting fat because no man to say how beautiful she is each morning. Pets don't talk it's funny how women love them so much because they talk for the pets to themselves. 😂
@@TheCut2009 so true! Lots of these women relish in having this kind of lifestyle too. It’s funny how ridiculous that shit is but also such a sad and pathetic state of affairs these modern times we’re in.
This isnlroof this lady is in arrested development. Emotionally she's stuck at a very very younge age. I'd say around 11. She may have a mime t where she hits age 14 for about 2 mins then the circuits begin to smoke and overload then she drops to a toddler age where it's all about them and no one else. Justifies the selfishness.
lots of people present themselves to the world as the nicest person you will ever meet but behind closed doors they treat the people close to them like crap
This is sad. I used to date a woman like this for a bit. She made over 100k and felt my profession wasn’t good enough. She broke it off with me because her friends told her too. A few weeks later she came back and realized she made a mistake I said I wasnt interested. Two years later I’m engaged to a queen who values me, we about to buy a house and she got knocked up by some bum and is still single. You can’t make this stuff up!!!
Yeah bro some women don’t wanna win, they just want to look good losing. Glade you’re doing great tho.
Happy for you. Keep growing your career for your kids security.
Write all the details down, because in decades, when the pendulum swings the other direction, they'll want your story for the Lifetime Network.
W
what a fucking WIN
Women want the authority of a man🤦🏽♂️the advantages of a women🤷🏽♀️ and the accountability of a child 👶🏽
and the responsibilities of none of them
Best quote of the day
Women are strong and independent lol
Very nicely summed up, probably would put the accountability of a child first in that roster. It’s like the literal bubble that encapsulates the other two. Like a snow globe of chaos lmao
That's real
They get engaged and break it off then say men have commitement issues.
That part
“Rules for thee not for me” mentality
Accurate point
Some men with commitment issues engage women just to “save” them for whenever they feel like getting married. Not every engagement is created equal.
They have problems with how long it takes for us men to become committed but they have problems staying committed
RIP Mr. Samuels. Always got to the point, never accepted BS.
“If Black women were actually the Christians they say they were, most of these issues would self correct”! 💯
🤔😳🙏what you said is so deep. It should have over 2K likes.
Facts 💯 bro
Quote of significance from this video.
@@whisper2284 It's what Kevin said btw.
That's deep on so many levels!
When a woman says "I hear you," she means she can see the logic of what you're saying, but will still disagree with it because it doesn't make her feel good.
The language of Womanese
Yup, because they’re emotional thinkers and idealists while the man is more logical and realistic.
she all over with her speech first thing she said is what she wants but cant even listen
That sounds about right
Yes
Man if Kevin would call their ex's live and ask them questions, that would be next level of epicness lol
You got one there 😂😂
Dude that would take the show to the next level 😂😂😂
That would be a Priceless Convo Fam...
😂
@Rudy The Red Pill Beta very good observation. If it could be mature and not spill into opening up old arguments it could be something.
But you know it would just turn into a woman avoiding accountability.
This man was amazing. He was an asset to all people. He was not rude or unkind. He was strongly realistic. He brought his subject down from the clouds.
“Ask a women what kind of man she wants she’ll write a book. Ask her what she brings to the table in a relationship, it won’t even fit on the back of a stamp.” -K.S.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😆 Damn
Not true. This is stereotyping. I've been married for 12 years. My man pays bills and I use my money to manage our household. My husband will never say he needs and I don't have his back. .
I have a great man and I'm not trying to make him leave over foolishness. My man is good to me and I will always reciprocate the same behavior. I love me some him. Marry the right person and your good. I believe in black marriage and happiness.
@@shavonnbussie9354 Me, me, me, me. We're talking in general terms here lady.
They can't even answer that question
She turned down two engagements, willing to adopt, add to the negative statistics of single motherhood, & die alone rather than settle. Crazy.
Right after this one i think Kevin made a great point about how its bullshit that they think they are "settling" for average men when you dont "settle for average" you settle for below average. A decent average guy whos loyal and loves you is a PRIZE
@@jlogan2228 Exactly, but most of these broads don't realize that until it's too late! If at all.
@@blackthunder4406 No guidance.
she has 3 options 1. Buy a dog & die alone 2. Date younger a man in his late 20’s or early 30’s and MAYBE they’ll take her serious. 3. Become a spinster until she completely ages out .
Very crazy
"Why are women not willing to settle for an average guy.... but willing to settle for dying alone"? That hit hard 🔥
Because it's difficult for women to find an equal when they think themselves god
they need yesheua
@@davidcolander6227 Indeed.
Yeah and shes so fine i dont know how shes single. Her personality is awesome too. Her eyes and face expressions are top notch
I feel you. I copy this opinión in my fb and I just got an female friend complaining about.
😢😢 I cry every time I remember this man is dead. He was soooooo needed in the black community. Now we have to watch these girls take glory in being 304s and also watch them endure the bitterness that their later years will bring.
You don't have to and you don't need to endure their bitterness, have self-respect and walk away and ignore those women
1st mistake: Listening to *_ANYTHING_* that Steve Harvey has to say!
Facts
People like Harvey
Get a platform and women listen to everything
For real. That dude has the worst record with women.
😂😂😂
I am a woman and I would never 👎🏽
When my ex-wife told me that her mom didn’t sent her to college just to clean and cook! I filed the divorce and got my peace of mind. Enjoying my retirement 🎣🎣🎣
Savage 🤣
My man!! Maintaining that masculine frame💪.
Not all heroes wear a cape! 🦹♂️
Good for you 🤣
Good choice! Glad you understand! Hope she does now.
You are the real BOSS
Young women need to watch this! We may have a lot of options while we are young and in our prime but it can all be wasted if we don’t make the right choices .Then turn 38 and single af.
Good for you young sister
Preach Sista
Excelent. But most modern girls that are in early 20s até already destined tô be Alone at 38 and fornever. Too much rockstar status nowadays, they cant choose. And no sane dude are gonna take seriously a girl that slept around for years and os proud tô be a slut.
Yes girl. I am 25 & married. Didn't know how crucial these times were but it makes sense why I naturally had the urge to get my husband as soon as possible whoever he was.
So true!!
Lol, I had a college GF ditch me for a more prettier guy when I was pouring myself into running a startup company. Years later she was calling and trying to get back together. Graduating college without having found a husband and had evolved her into valuing "earner" guys over guys with Ryan Gosling dimples, apparently. Wow, what an attitude adjustment! Too bad it came so late, and she had never shown an ounce of empathy or even interest in what it cost me to become an earner back when I could've used it. I had to tell her I'm not your fallback "safe" guy.
PS, Ladies, if your man has to come up with 40k every 2 weeks to make payroll and his receivables to cover that are coming in late, that is MORE IMPORTANT than the argument you had with your roommate. It literally and objectively IS. High value women get that shit.
Can't believe we're not gonna hear anymore wisdom from him! RIP 😔🙏🏽
Lost Legend ✨
He will live on with UA-cam. I never heard of him until after his death. He really cared about the black community in a fatherly way.
@@solutionsforabrightfuture3579 Yes. He will be missed! 🙌🏽
We *needed* his platform this is probably too early to talk about... but someone has to take over where he left off.
@@jtonxbox1433 agreed! And I think there are a lot of people trying to take his spot!
She claims to be “cool” and “fun” but her Exes “go back” to their ex girlfriends and marry them. When the problem seems to be everyone else, it’s most likely YOU.
They said " damn I didn't know how good I had it" 😂
@@bricklayerlzdp9825 hahahahah I SWEAR TO GOD, YES
Not really good to be the person who remind your partner how much he/she misses his/her ex(e)
She’s a reality check for those poor guys
"He would say I was cool." "Until you dumped him .." SMACK!
The problem she is having is that men are waking up and don’t see women as the prize they once were. More men are realizing you could spend the time on yourself and your hobbies which doesn’t bring you drama, headaches, or financial liability.
It seems like modern American women are doing everything they can to make themselves unattractive to men (crazy hair, tattoos all over the place, piercings, and a nasty attitude).
I think that's true for the other side. I think SOME women stop putting SOME men on pedestals too and decided to get degrees and hobbies to focus their attention but where does that leave you and them Alone. There has to be a happy medium for black people.
True, true, true
It's what I've been doing. It's funny because my ex randomly hit me up a couple days ago. And she was the one that dumped me.
I basically told her I am on my purpose and not worth it coming back into my life. She aint happy.
@Mario King just went through the same thing my brother
Girl, if you are NOT a virgin I am NOT waiting, because I am NOT going to pay the price of admission (in time, dinners, dates, etc...) for something that someone already got.
Can’t she just lie about being one? I mean how would you find out
@@slovelyyx7718 From how she carries herself.
@@slovelyyx7718It’s super easy to find out.
For free
@@slovelyyx7718pretty easy , she can lie about body count but not about being a virgin
She's wondering why she's not a wife and confused. But she has turned down three engagements. You're not a wife because you don't want to be married. Simple
CAUSE SHE CRAZY
"I'm too good for them, I deserve better because I'm a wonderful person"
I bet if you asked her exes they'd say "she isn't a wonderful person" she thinks she is"
My last gf said the same thing...I'm laid back, cool, chill, easy going. She was the most difficult, self centered, arrogant, narcissistic self absorbed twat I've ever met.
To sum it up: I said "you're as rigid as a steel i beam"
She said "i'm bendy like a willow"
I said "ok, you're so flexible, didn't you complain just last week that there weren't any grill marks on your bbq chicken breasts"?
She: so I like them that way.
Me: if you were truly flexible, it wouldn't matter right?
Her: grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
That's the problem: they can't see the forest for the trees.
🔥
@@muskokamike127 BPD/narcissist
@@Underratedcommentator Yup, I didn't know what a narc was until after I typed in google "what does it mean when your gf does ______" and 4 million hits "signs you're dating a narcissist" lol
"No matter what reason a woman gives for leaving you, the real bottom line is because she thinks she can do better than you." I don't remember definitely where I heard that, but I've never forgotten it.
@Darryl Brown It's crazy because I just read where Gary Owen's wife is divorcing him. He's the white comedian who made most of his material ABOUT being married to a black woman. At 40 years old and after 18 years, this dummy thinks she's going to find a better man than the one she's with. If she does, I hope she also buys a lottery ticket at the same time.
Chris Rock talked about this in one of his routines. "Did you ever catch your woman lookin' at you funny? It's because you weren't her first choice."
She's never your girl, it's just your turn.
FACTS!!!!
Yes, and better can be by herself. ALONE!!!
I grew in Westchester N.Y one of the wealthiest counties in America. My mother & father often tell me how meeting my mother he didn't have 2 quarters to rub together. Dirt poor in South Carolina. He met my mother married her in a month & took her with him when he attended Howard University. They built a life that I get to enjoy! Today's women want what takes 40 years to build from a 20-year-old.
What does your mom and dad do for a living to afford living in westchester ?
@@FRESHALEX760 My Dad is a Corporate Lawyer & my mom is an Accountant Controller
@@willwright2099 so y’all moved from to NC to NY, With those jobs ?
@@FRESHALEX760 No! Reread my post! My dad got accepted into Howard University in D.C. from South Carolina. And brought my mother with him to University. And started building which ended in Westchester & having me! They didn't start in Westchester it took them decades to get to Westchester! Example they married in their late teens early 20's. They didn't have me until they were 30. In between, they were building a life.
@@willwright2099 I read it, but you left KEY details out, that’s why I question how you ended up in WC when y’all were from the south, but you clarified it....
The more of his videos that I watch, the more I TOTALLY understand why he (sadly) passed away from a heart attack (or stress). These women are SO damn frustrating, they just about give me a heart attack and I’m not even in the conversation! He was. And he CARED!! Can you imagine how much this hit him? How patient he had to be? The man was a f*^king Super Hero!!! These women dug under his armor/power and caused his death (metaphorically).
😢☮️
Imma still blame the govt
He was eliminated
Men that pedestalize women get treated like s*** I know I was one of them.
No lies told.
same
Same
Been there many times . Learned and from it and kept it moving forward.
Damn. Stop worshipping a gender! Worshipping women is as nasty as those feminists who hate men!
Yoo this guy is doing all single guys and honestly all of society a fucking massive favor. Thank you Kevin, subbed and liked!!
The women petitioning to get him removed off UA-cam is almost matching his momentum. They bring more women to the channel by trying to get rid of him. We all know that people cannot just drive by an accident, they have a natural draw to see for themselves.
He is exposing something we've all seen an known about in our familes but has never been displayed like this.
He is really doing a huge service.
@@rm5282 stfu no there's not!!??? 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@HiHello-wz6bx he is able to articulate with pure precision 😂😂😂
Facts
I can see why KS is so frustrated. A woman like this should be a married mom raising the next generation, not fumbling around in relationships.
Actually, it's kind of good that she has not married a Yonex yet. Without that therapy she would make a mess of it all. I do agree that she could have been help to the next generation had she been sane and logical. She is neither.
Honestly like Nas said…….shes in her second childhood. Shes not gonna tell Kevin that shes out here throwing it back.
@@SolitudeofaTiger deep
I dated a chick like this 1yr ago, before the holidays, before I knew ANY relationship theory- some of us guys learn the hard way, forced to look within and finally do the work after a bad break up.
I was 35, she was 33 (remember, I didn’t even know about the danger zone or else would have never considered her). Looking back on it now- I allowed her to become masculine, I was so green. She was into me in the beginning! We dated 4 months, only saw each other on the weekends.
In hindsight, piecing together her deception, her tattered story, and using the theory I learned from KS, AMS, Darius M, Rory XL, and some CW, it was a recipe for epic disaster.
The good out of this is that I keep masculine frame now, I vet potential serious partners, discard immediately, or do not even consider when they display masculine energy.
Currently, I am vetting a young woman I met during a work assignment near the Philippines. She’s showing positive signs- submissive, making my apt, spending money on dinner, making future plans. We’ll see where this goes.
@@bennyanthro4891
All the best
NOTHING about her says agreeable. She’s “fun” not marriage material. A great side chick
When she said she is ageeable she was disagreeing. Check it again. 😅
It would have to be waaaaaaaay on the side!!
@@cgill4269 wouldn't touch her with a 5 feet long stick
If she marries that man better meet every expectation/fantasy that she has ever had because he will not ever be good enough for her and she will let him know it daily.
She won't sleep with the men this is why they don't like her
Turning down 2 engagements, and a 3rd one = means someone thought you were good enough to marry, with your flaws but you didnt think they were good enough, with their flaws..
Bingo.
Amen!
She thought she could do better
@@thebridge5483 as it's said the grass us not always greener on the other side.
She’s holding out for that Greek God😂
I am soooooo glad I realized in my 20s I was the problem and got therapy!!!! 15 great years that I almost gave away.
Congratulations
commendable!
congrats and respect
Ggs
Happy for you🤟🏻🤟🏻
I like how Kevin has his mouse cursor on Mute button lol
FIRST!!!
Good eye :)
🤣⚰️
😂😂!!
If we only we have this much power in real life 😂
I really miss these conversations every week listening to Kevin Samuel 😢.
She makes a man wait "depending on the man." She makes rules for betas and breaks them for alphas.
Most underrated comment🔥👌🏾
Alpha f*cks, beta bucks!
They all do
we all do.
Most women do that and then they get made the alphas treat them like crap.
She has the goofiest vibe. I can't take her seriously, especially at 38.
Childish behavior mentality 38yrs mindset of 18 years ...
She is the one to talk to the 🎤. You smell me 😂
She is a little goofy......something is missing up there.
She seems crazy, a lot of erratic movements of the hands, eyes, neck and head.
Thats real talk
Married to the system! On point.
The Government has replaced the father, husband, & God. You don't need a man, you just need Uncle Sam.
The masonic system
A horrible shame
Thank u
FACTS!!!!!
The ugly truth
In my early 20s, I would just get bypassed and rejected (by women like her). I thought there was something wrong with me because I came from a very low tier. It took me in my mid-30s to realize I was on an Alpha status. It angers me that so many in my community pounded in me that I was a beta. I am married now, have a house on the way, and have been investing. One heck of an unwanted circus ride. SMH.
Isn’t it funny how that works? I was the same way. In my 20s I got passed over so many times. Now in my 30s (and my prime) I have women in their early 20s wanting me. Life is getting good 😊
This man is such a good judge of character. He knows what questions to ask
We need you on the hot seat Emira
@@palo5959 hell yeah😂😂
That's true, a simple conversation can tell me things the person doesn't realize about themselves.
"All problems can be solved through the process of questions and answers".
Neely Fuller Jr
He has a framework. That’s why he knows what to ask.
back in my younger days I loved older women because I thought they were more mature. until one of my older homeboys told me that, that's not really true. and boy was he right.
Facts. It’s true. I just like sex with older women Cuz usually it’s no strings attached. They make better side chicks sometimes
That was thought also... And they are Mature in comparison....
They tend to try to manipulate the younger men they are with.
Older women are like raisins. Younger women are like grapes. Thats my experience.
@@graysiren They do try to manipulate, but they're very direct about it. Once stand your ground they will do tend Cooperate.
This guy gets a bad rep, he’s not bashing these women. He’s legit trying to help
It's because a lot of these women listen with their emotions. They don't listen to what he's saying; instead, they hear what they want to hear and vilify him because of it. Case and point, I've never heard a woman come on his show and refute any of the facts he provides; they come on there with incorrect information and try to argue points he never said or didn't make.
He held men to task, too.
I dated a woman like this a long time ago. She's married to a woman now.
Because a woman is the only one to put up with that.
😂😂
This guy is awesome. Sad he's gone.
Dealing with those womens, take his lifespan. so sad
@@rastaman7179 that or the "medicine".
@@michaelwaxter9622 what
A man who is pushing infidelity? Yeah a great man!
Mr. Samuels is doing more good for women that Steve Harvey could ever imagine doing... bravo sir!
Kevin is right about what he says because so many industries make money off of single women. Beyonce and Oprah have done irreparable damage as both women are with high-value men and they ain't going nowhere.
Steve Harvey simped for his present wife... a high miler from a criminal background with kids.
She has a masters degree, she went to school with the top 15% of guys, had classes, study groups, group projects, internships and still couldn't land one.
She acts like a perpetual college student. It's annoying.
Like the original godfather Patrice O’Neal once said….”You just sit there on your monkey!”
Lol!!!
All Hail Lelouch!! Lol
@@faolin4789 let's be honest. Most women that complain about bad sex typically just lie there and contribute less than a sex doll. It most likely wasn't enjoyable for him either.
The Level Kevin is Operating At is Impeccable 🔥
On me... Bro was cooking RIP KEVIN 🙏🕊️
I was once…engaged to a woman like this. Utterly unaware, and completely identifying with her education and profession. She was uncooperative and condescending. Once I saw how she treated servers in a restaurant…I caught a glimpse of my future and was OUT!
You sure as hell dodged a bullet there brother! I hope and will pray that you find a lady with the kind of attributes that you can spend your life with her appreciating and reciprocating.
Sounds like a cop, they are the most condescending.
Yep, that's a clear sign.
@@johnpopoff7950 you are there
The server part is a dead give away
She doesn’t take life seriously. That’s why she’s single and still riding the cc.
What up Ave
Yup at 38
@@eyeswideopen7199 whudd up fam
@Henry Henderson's CC = C*ck Carousel
That ball on top of her head is not helping.
She's basically the analogy of the guy being stranded out at sea. He prays for god to help him. A ship comes by to save him and he tells them, "No thank you. God will save me." Another ship comes by and he tells them, "I'm okay! God will save me!" He dies and goes to heaven. He asks god, "Hey, why didn't you save me?" And god replies, "I sent two ships.'
Haha yeeup. It’s “Save Me” but what they really mean is “Roll Out The Red Carpet For Me”! 😂✌️
lol perfect
Wow!
This one is right on the money, I'll have to save this.
I use this analogy quite often.... God will eventually give up if you keep rejecting his help. Good stuff.
Genesis 2:18 - “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper as his partner.” - PARTNER not a prize, and not a cherry and certainly not entitled.
The word I Hebrew is not "partner," it's "êzer" which means Aide or Helper. Ya'll need to leave these knew translation bibles alone.
@@kevynanderson4711 "Help meet" in KJV
Wow. After 25 minutes, Kevin got her to reveal her true intentions of being alone. That's why all her relationships failed, she wants to waste men's time until she dates God himself. Therapy was rightly recommended Kevin. These women REALLY can't or won't see the man's perspective when dating.
I'm definitely willing to see and apply the man's perspective. And I'm willing to seek therapy to improve myself. And I have no desire to be with a perfect person as perfection does not exist. I have a lot to learn for sure.
@@AliciaDJaDavis Salute To You Ma’am on your perspective.
@@AliciaDJaDavis as per my observation you must too afraid of marriage or ending up marrying with someone you are not compatible with.
@@AliciaDJaDavis But not much time to learn it...
The effect of Disney films
This woman acts, as we say in my neck of the woods, “squirrelly”. I watched this live last night, and I can’t explain why, but I feel like she wasn’t being truthful. I think she is mixing in some truth to make it seem more palatable.
Education will teach you to spruce up a bullshit topic
@ Missy Richmond 🎯.
@@dregamesta I suppose.
@@mal6780 I’m glad I wasn’t the only one who thought this.
@@dregamesta I believe the term is called "sugar coating shit" lmfao ha ha ha 😂
I love this channel I’m a 24 year old AA female and, I learn so much from this channel. I’m learning how to be more feminine, less picky, how to submit to a man and let him lead by being the man. Thank you so much, I hope more young black women watch this channel and take your tips/advice along with finding a man that can lead. ❤️
@Vic Wilson I have not met anyone as of yet pls.
Well at least you have taken your time to find out more about your target/goal and what it is he wants. Just keep at it and you will be married, its only a matter of time.
Play it how it go my bby 🤝🏽
@loveunique , I totally understand.Learning to co exist with a man is important. Being more feminine is being a wear of how others experiences you, communication and cooperation. I see my mom at 68 and not being married, body breaking down before retirement age , being difficult to deal with , having unhealthy emotional incest with their children, recognizing her opportunities have stopped, going to doc appointments alone, the men she be interested in arent interested in her, willing to leach off anyone for financial gain ( because she had this since of independence of not needing a man because of government assistance), last not building anything on this earth. Is eye opening and sad to watch.
@@abderrahimyoestoy3100 that was corny lol
I appreciate this women coming and having genuine conversation, I think she was honestly trying to identify the gaps in thinking and Kevin did an awesome job with it
I think she honestly wanted to hear it wasn't her that had the problem but the quality of men that she was surrounded with.
At 5:04 she said “depending on the man” when KS asks her about making a man wait. Perfect example of breaking the rules for the bad boy and putting rules on the good guy. Modern woman in action.
Somebody else pointed out she left her first engagement because the sex was trash, yet it was her hs sweetheart so she had nothing to compare to unless she cheated lol
@@karlg1535 So true
@@karlg1535 I mean that logic is pretty whack, she could have lost her v in middle school, and besides you can tell if sex is good or not just by having talks with your friends.
Although she never specified I do feel why you saying that
@@karlg1535 ya logic isn’t 100% there. Too much assumptions and no evidence not even circumstantial
She said “what makes me not a wife?”
Lady you!!!! You broke off multiple engagements you made you not a wife 😂😂😂
Hahaha exactly
Word 🤯🤯🤯 Nuckin' Futs
🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Yooo this comment took me out lol
Seriously, it’s like talking with children all the time.
I'm a wife and a stay home mom. In my culture (Southeast Asia) we dont put women on pedestal even I was virgin. My American fiance (husband now) proposed me in front of my traditional parents. We have been married for 12 years and more to come. Most modern American women are clueless about relationships and marriage that's why the divorce rate is so high and marriage number plummets, please wake up ladies.
You're to late Lily. They will never wake up, nor do we care if they do.
@@hpoels851 cause the womenists
Yea and then when you try to educate them they wanna throw hissy fits...
@Joe Berrera Wow 😳
@Kano that whole gf thing is the problem in itself, wtf is a girlfriend/boyfriend anyway??? You’re either married or not, and if you’re not married then anyone is fair game
Literally my situation right now. This thought process is ruining the black community. She’s smart enough to realize the negative, but uses them as weapons to walk away. She is the cool female who meets the cool guy and doesn’t get taken serious. Praying she gets it right.
“Why are you willing to settle for death by yourself but not willing to settle for a man?” Hell of a question @KevinSamuels
It was...
Right! Dope question that hasnt been answered 🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷
@@meb4324 I don’t think she saw it that way until he said so
The answer is over inflated ego's.
@@illrizzocgg1009 💯EXACTLY
"Why is getting with a Man so complex?"
Because no matter what a Man can bring to the table a Woman's nature is to ask "What else you got?"
because today's women are never satisfied......it all started in the 80's with a book "don't settle" and they took that shit to heart.
@@muskokamike127 now it’s the men’s turn to not settle lmao
This 👆
The more feminine and soft the woman is, the more polite and careful Kevin acts. That's how it's supposed to be for a great man!
Yes!
Yup. And as men we should treat women ACCORDINGLY.
Agreed. In a small way, he has changed the way I interact with women.
@@wizardprang same here. My 2 sisters can’t stand my ass now. It’s all about accountability now 😂
I noticed that here too
Perfect!! You won’t have anyone fighting to change your mind!! 😂😂😂
"Black women are married to the system" you got the right 100%
Marriage is punishment for most guys.
ALL, lol.
“All men”... fixed😂 shits a bad contract
Not if your after a green card 😃
I understand your logic there however I counter that the traditional way (including traditional laws) is optimal for raising children which is the whole point for all intents and purposes behind traditional marriage. Insure paternity, raise healthy offspring, and pass on legacy to the next generation.
@@AveMcree not if you live outside the western world
“Have you had therapy yet?”
“Why? To find a man?”
Oof. She still doesn’t get it.
Typical angry BW.
Way beyond missing the point.
I mention this to women and they get offended by it, but to be honest about, most women in today world's need help badly. The ones I know that go to therapy never talk about their relationship life at all. Too afraid to do so.
1:52 Not gonna lie. That "cherry-pedastal" analogy was crazy. Very concise and accurate.
If this woman is this beautiful at 38, I can only imagine how gorgeous she might have looked in her 20's. The options of men she had at her disposal where limitless. Too bad she squandered opportunity after opportunity because having soo many options stopped her from making a choice at all.
🤦🏾♂️ for real, it’s just so disappointing.
A pretty face does not a nice body make.
I don’t see it. She looks like a 6 to me. Maybe it’s because I’m not black.
@@MrKrushgutz I’m black and I think she is a 6
@@MrKrushgutz non ETHINIC ppl are usually not attracted to us.
In a man’s eyes, a woman is 1 in a million.
In a woman’s eyes, a man is 1 of a million... Men love unconditionally, Women “might” love you only under the conditions that you provide something.
Man are fallen and women are corrupted...it is a singleness problem...
Exactly. Men are willing to die for the same women who will drop them because “it just wasn’t right”.
They want to be pedestalized, then lose respect for any man who pedestalizes them.
This is one of the wisest comments I've seen and I couldn't agree more 👍🏿👍🏿
🤣😂 umm 🤔 sorry but that’s not true sir.
Her engagements came when she was 20 & 24. Now at 38, she is out of the marriage options, especially from the top 15% guy she wants.
Top 15%? Try top 50+%
@First Amendment toxic honey trap
@@easyDoes1T85 I don't know. So long as there wasn't any strings I'd fall into her trap 😉🤣
I would have taken the second chance , no cap
Leftovers.
This might be my favorite video of his. Respectful and tangible.
She's basically saying she been getting pumped and dumped by the ones she desires and as a result it distorted her perception of reality and the level of men that she was really qualified for to begin with.
So true. But OUCH!
Bingo
But @ 38 you think this girl would have learn her lesson now right? I guess not! It clearly shows that she is going for guys that do not value her the way she values herself.
Pump and dump. ⚡️⚡️⚡️
Yes. Pump and dump the hot guys which she knows she won't get 5 minutes of their time if she doesn't sleep with them that night. Meanwhile, make the good guys wait months for sex.
The problem, good guys start realizing this. They value you based on what others are paying for you and they value themselves based on what you do for others. They aren't thinking "She must really like me because she's waiting 3 months to sleep with me." they are saying "Chad got her in a week, so she'd bail on me for him in a heartbeat."
Sorry lady, once you've giving it up on the first date once... that's your value from then on. Maybe when you are 25 you might be able to claim you've never been with anyone else or waited months with the 2-3 relations you've had previously. However, no guy is going to buy that from a 38 year-old.
"The sex wasn't good." Do people not realize that this can change? Technically, this has the same skill vs talent dynamic as any other endeavor. It starts with communication. Tell the guy what your preferences are. Or teach him a new trick if you need to. And be willing to acquiesce to his requests too. And figure not every encounter will reach new heights. Some might be routine. Most might be routine, especially in a long term relationship. Sheesh!
That high school/college sweetheart she was engaged to dodged a bullet when she broke off the engagement. She's 38 talking to KS with her dog snoring in the background and no prospects. Sad.
When a woman says that it is code for the man has a small one.. not enough to satisfy her .. and that isn't something that is going to change.
@@hv3115 Ding ding! I've also met my fair share of monogamous guys who are trash at sex, and have little inclination to get better. Why would you stay married to that? You'd eventually cheat.
The one thing I respected was when sis was honest about sexual compatibility. "To thine own self be true."
@@hv3115 i agree bro. So why accept the engagement ring? She already knew what it was. She not good ppl, she's garbage and extremely shallow.
@@hv3115 sometimes no matter how big you are she still will cheat regardless cause they are emotional delusional narcissistic emasculating creatures. No matter how you put it. They don't care about no man. Even if you're going through something they don't take accountability and always make it about them instead of simple communication.
She admitted she’s a jump off. “I’m cool” “I’m agreeable” “Guys really like hanging around me” “once they hang out a few times, then they go back to their exes and begin a relationship!” There’s nothing exceptional about her. She’s very attractive physically, stops there.
She’s not stable. Any person that comes on this show isn’t stable
She looks like mc dowell the father from coming to America. Shes not that attractive.
You can’t make this shit up.
Exactly, Dorian?
@@tylerromero6572 yo said the father from good times
Rest in peace to this brother 🙏🏿 All he was trying to do was help his people and they went against him so hard. I had to listen to him for myself to see what he was about and he was always on point
That slap sound and military funeral sound be having me weak 😂
I feel the sadness each time it's needed
That dog bark funeral remix sent me
No man's land is my favorite, because, a lot of the older women think they still have it going on AND she's a great example.
I know this is late, but the funeral bugle music is called Taps. Just a fun fact
I seen one of his shows where he slapped the lady and she was like quitting slapping me lol he said no! And slapped her again! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
These women come on here and try to say the right thing to not get hung up on instead of keeping it real.
Cause theyre scared of Kevin n his boldness, notice the constant stuttering and pauses...they finally dont wish to look uneducated, crazy it took all of this exposing and examples of reality for any of them to start thinking that way...imo breaking down women clearly kinda works if you know how to be calm and move like the Godfather...im takin mad notes 🙏🏽😈
@@LliamMoore yes...wish I knew this yrs ago but life is all about growth and understanding.
I assure you, I kept it real. I was surprised he spoke to me for so long to be honest. It was not my intention.
I believe she was truly being honest with her situation and his evaluation. First time i have seen someone really listen and take things in.......
@@AliciaDJaDavis You do know a man at your level, income and age with a passport can find thousands of 20yr old females south of the USA. All she has to be is a housewife, no MS degree needed.
"Why'd you break it off the first time?"
"He was my best friend!"
Her in two years:
"I just want to find my best friend to marry!"
He gonna happy af with his woman and new best friend.
lol lol
She means he was ONLY her best friend. She wants a best friend who rail her good as well
@@MylesKillis 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣rs
Did I just see Kevin make this girl rethink her whole position in life? Ow!!!💯💯💯
Damn Kevin makes me laugh so much. When I was 17 years old my father started getting on me about finding a suitable man to settle down with because he wanted to make sure I was taken care of once he was gone from this earth. I am Jewish so we have cultural expectations in terms of Marriage and Suitability, but I thought he was being a little old school at the time. I married at 20 had a child at 21, another around 26 and now that I am 30 I realize his inherit wisdom.
Be glad u had a pops like him. Very happy
Great father. I hope I can be so good to my daughter
Early marriage (after 18) is a sign of healthy society.
@@ghirmaiyy we must have a really unhealthy society because compared to my peers, they are either getting married late in life or not at all.
Smart Jewish man! He Hade priorities in his life! He knows that his Jewish gal is not "agroyce metsia" and he prefers his thougther crying now alone instead of both crying later.
Those eyes are moving all over the place to process these questions
Yo, I noticed that too. I true indication that she is lying and looking for answers she think everyone want to hear.
That means she’s lying, being deceptive, or selective of information.
BACKTRACK city ..... this chick is the worst
Her facial expressions are hilarious 🤣
She is bugged out of her mind
I see why she is single... she’s lost and extremely misguided to be damn near 40. She’s like a 12 yr old in an adult body.
Most young adults (but especially women) and women under 55 are in reality adult toddlers >>> being in any way responsible or being held accountable for their actions is not even a consideration in their scrambled minds.
It's called Total Delusion. These women eat up disney movies and the media.
Dam I missed that. I thought she was younger then that 😬
Rightttt .. she acting like kid with a " I'm a Queen complex " , she is nuts.
Thats most my sisters
"I'm very agreeable!" As she is contrary to everything he is saying... arguing and qualifying every answer.
Grewing up my mother constantly said she dont need a man. Now being 30 shes always calling me over to tighten screws an move furniture around an now thinking about it, this is the job for your man. But you always said you dnt need one. While you were raising a young man
My mom said the same thing but every 6 months or a year, she has a man. Lol
It’s called son husband’s.
It’s sad that women say they don’t need a man to their sons . How is that supposed to make a son think about his value to a woman?
Its sad that women dont see the damage they are doing to sons. They make them feel worthless, unimportant and unloved by society. I honestly think single mothers raising sons are the reason so many turn to gangs to feel a sense of worth. All we ever hear is how we aren't needed...then society wonders what is wrong with us
@@MkNasty911 exactly, as guys we like to be useful but when you hear your not needed every day you turn to other avenues to get a sense of belonging, still no excuse to commit crimes but I see where you coming from
Damn, it’s unfortunate that SOOOO many good looking, functional sisters in the community are in this exact same seat.
It is unfortunate. But it's our reality. I'm the woman in the video so that's why I'm commenting.
@@AliciaDJaDavis it's interesting you reminded me of many women I dealt with in the past. I wish you well.
Exactly bro. Black women are hands down the most beautiful women on earth. Check em after 40😍. But the most irrational snd impossible to deal with. Continuously moving the goal post and zero accountability toward black men
@@AliciaDJaDavis you are beautiful! Don’t give up Queen
Cuz they’re slow
Ya'll noticed how she tried to judge men based on whether they court or just sleep with women, only to go on and admit that she gives it up after a week for some men and wait months for others.
My grandparents weren't the most educated but they were wise and experienced. Owned a few juke joints plus a family farm. My grandma has 4th grade education but can sew/make clothes, operate heavy equipment, raise animals, discipline in finance but above all a great housewife-mother-grandma-great gma and an awesome down south soul food cook. She put her husband first and together they did right by their children and future generations. 3kids- 30 plus grand kids, plus several great grands all doing good. That's what they take pride in their big smart strong men and sweet soft spoken-firm beautiful ladies they reared up.... We lost a true treasure in Kevin it's a shame the ones who want to help get ridiculed the most. If we can't have rational conversations as adults and speak about what's plaguing our community as a whole then how can we heal the wound completely. The sad part is they never talked about how he held men to a higher standard and all he did was give women the real game. I bet Steve Harvey had a nice time cashing them checks from them book sales that all them women bought but not once he mentioned the truth in thinking like a man. He gave y'all what y'all wanted to read. But nevertheless I care for my family and only do right by mine as we all should be as a collective we gotta be better
I respect the idea of a woman being selective and waiting to have sx. However, if she is making me wait but she has given it up right away to my predecessors that is definitely a red flag.
I'll ask them straight up "Are you ill, or something?" if I hear that "I wanna take my time" shit.
In some other sense, are you saying if a woman doesn't make the same mistake she's made with others with you, then it's a red flag? But then, she said the shortest was 2wks and he longest was 3 months, so I dunno if that makes any difference at all.
@@godd226 I wouldn't call it a mistake.
@@godd226 She did it on purpose in the past. Ain’t no mistake. She was told by her parents not to do that. If she wasn’t, she has awful parents, and you shouldn’t marry into that family anyways.
@@bucsfan2565 I like your comment. Yeah, I don't think it's a mistake either, technically. Let's rephrase that and say she's not made good decisions in the past. However, I suppose the way she proves this is to date with the intention of marriage and to withhold sex, and in my opinion, not for just three months, but until marriage. What do you think?
“Black women are the most educated, what it really means is black women are most enrolled”
& what are white women?
Dem degreez.
@@floridashottest2538 married
@@floridashottest2538 Not much better. The statistics are almost on par. 50% divorce with about 80% filed by women...
Exactly I’ve been saying this since that phrase came out. They’re most enrolled in the medical field aka CNA
I’m a married 29 year old. And I love how he puts everything into reality. Thanks !
I wanna be like you, I’m 29 about to be 30. I have a boyfriend and hopefully will be married before March (didn’t propose because I have to meet his parents, they live 2000 miles away)
@@princessgumbo You following the advise Kevin is preaching?
@@m1stern00by I also know when to stfu lmao, I’ve never been a confrontational person but I am an honest one.
@@princessgumbo Thats good just keep it up
"He did not challenge me intellectually." Ma'am! That's what your friends are for! 😂🤣😂
I just met a wanna be divorcee lawyer at a function tonight, no joke.
She's literally becoming a lawyer because she don't wanna be "burned in divorce court" her words 😅
God help this nation.
That is not a good sign.....,
What girl is losing in court?
@@wi4305 I never said "she was losing"
she sounds like a thief
@@wi4305 unless it can be proven they are an unfit mother, none!
"Don't give me the college answer, give me the truth."
Plato level!
A lot of single, been engaged, hit the wall women with all the great relationship advice? The two engaged guys dodged a bullet!
She is crazy
Amen
Yes. She is crazy. You notice the eye movements?
Ditto that.
@@irodrod knock it off. She isn’t crazy😂🤣! Y’all try too hard to beat these ladies beliefs down. She is sweet and attractive, she has a great deal of choice and there lies the problem.
Her problem is she needs to accept that she really doesn’t want to be married. She feels like she is compelled to do it to fulfill societal norms.
Wow, two years later and I still know a dozen women just like this. They’re now in their 40’s. Still single but now mothers linked to each other.
A woman taking advice from another woman(even their mom, sometimes) about how to be happy in a relationship is insane. If a woman hasn't figured out by 30, that other women are her enemy, she's inept. Women will do everything in their power to sabotage the others happiness, and any advice is the best weapon. My last love took advice from her widowed, miserable, drunken aunt about our relationship. She feels her mistake, every time she see's me, but she went way to far.
This is most of my feminist coworkers. Just a bunch of lies to be "right".
Facts and its always like "why are you lying who are you lying to? are you trying to convince yourself ?? cause your not convincing me"
Ask for new coworkers lol
Note: Derrick Janx subscribers are slowly dwindling and the godfather K.S is EXPONENTIALLY growing, I wonder ;)
It’s only a matter of time before he too accuses Kevin of plagiarizing his material. 😆
@KnineATheart ` not outside meow meow 😂😂😂😂I like that one ☝🏾
@KnineATheart ` not only that but in their home
Derrick was actually caught cheating.smfh.
Steve Harvey will b d next
It really bothers me that ppl act like suggesting therapy is offensive. We ALL could benefit from therapy. We’ve all experienced some sort of trauma and trauma literally reshapes the brain. Therapy is like going to the gym for your mind. It’s not a bad thing.
They actually believe that we are not worthy of them. But the truth is, they aren't worth what a man would bring into their lives.
For real it’s sad
“My dog is snoring.” That’s all I needed to hear 💀
Woof woof lols 😂
The common theme is education, dog, and job is what women focus on like her meanwhile drying up and getting fat because no man to say how beautiful she is each morning. Pets don't talk it's funny how women love them so much because they talk for the pets to themselves. 😂
@@TheCut2009 so true! Lots of these women relish in having this kind of lifestyle too. It’s funny how ridiculous that shit is but also such a sad and pathetic state of affairs these modern times we’re in.
😂🤣😂
That goes right along with the smoke alarms lol
She’s almost 40 with the maturity of a 20 year old.
I agree! There isn’t any depth in her conversation with Kevin. She’s picky for absolutely no reason. It’s like he’s talking to a teenager.
@@queen4u281 She thinks that she's cute. Metaphorically and literally.
This isnlroof this lady is in arrested development. Emotionally she's stuck at a very very younge age. I'd say around 11. She may have a mime t where she hits age 14 for about 2 mins then the circuits begin to smoke and overload then she drops to a toddler age where it's all about them and no one else. Justifies the selfishness.
Try 16
She’s attractive but spacey, sooo just Smash & Dash, a few times & keep it moving. IMO
lots of people present themselves to the world as the nicest person you will ever meet but behind closed doors they treat the people close to them like crap