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Women want the authority of a man🤦🏽♂️the advantages of a women🤷🏽♀️ and the accountability of a child 👶🏽
and the responsibilities of none of them
Best quote of the day
Women are strong and independent lol
Very nicely summed up, probably would put the accountability of a child first in that roster. It’s like the literal bubble that encapsulates the other two. Like a snow globe of chaos lmao
That's real
“If Black women were actually the Christians they say they were, most of these issues would self correct”! 💯
🤔😳🙏what you said is so deep. It should have over 2K likes.
Facts 💯 bro
Quote of significance from this video.
@@whisper2284 It's what Kevin said btw.
That's deep on so many levels!
When a woman says "I hear you," she means she can see the logic of what you're saying, but will still disagree with it because it doesn't make her feel good.
The language of Womanese
Yup, because they’re emotional thinkers and idealists while the man is more logical and realistic.
she all over with her speech first thing she said is what she wants but cant even listen
That sounds about right
Yes
RIP Mr. Samuels. Always got to the point, never accepted BS.
She turned down two engagements, willing to adopt, add to the negative statistics of single motherhood, & die alone rather than settle. Crazy.
Right after this one i think Kevin made a great point about how its bullshit that they think they are "settling" for average men when you dont "settle for average" you settle for below average. A decent average guy whos loyal and loves you is a PRIZE
@@jlogan2228 Exactly, but most of these broads don't realize that until it's too late! If at all.
@@blackthunder4406 No guidance.
she has 3 options 1. Buy a dog & die alone 2. Date younger a man in his late 20’s or early 30’s and MAYBE they’ll take her serious. 3. Become a spinster until she completely ages out .
Very crazy
This is sad. I used to date a woman like this for a bit. She made over 100k and felt my profession wasn’t good enough. She broke it off with me because her friends told her too. A few weeks later she came back and realized she made a mistake I said I wasnt interested. Two years later I’m engaged to a queen who values me, we about to buy a house and she got knocked up by some bum and is still single. You can’t make this stuff up!!!
Yeah bro some women don’t wanna win, they just want to look good losing. Glade you’re doing great tho.
Happy for you. Keep growing your career for your kids security.
Write all the details down, because in decades, when the pendulum swings the other direction, they'll want your story for the Lifetime Network.
W
what a fucking WIN
She makes a man wait "depending on the man." She makes rules for betas and breaks them for alphas.
Most underrated comment🔥👌🏾
Alpha f*cks, beta bucks!
They all do
we all do.
Most women do that and then they get made the alphas treat them like crap.
When my ex-wife told me that her mom didn’t sent her to college just to clean and cook! I filed the divorce and got my peace of mind. Enjoying my retirement 🎣🎣🎣
Savage 🤣
My man!! Maintaining that masculine frame💪.
Not all heroes wear a cape! 🦹♂️
Good for you 🤣
Good choice! Glad you understand! Hope she does now.
You are the real BOSS
Men that pedestalize women get treated like s*** I know I was one of them.
No lies told.
same
Same
Been there many times . Learned and from it and kept it moving forward.
Damn. Stop worshipping a gender! Worshipping women is as nasty as those feminists who hate men!
NOTHING about her says agreeable. She’s “fun” not marriage material. A great side chick
When she said she is ageeable she was disagreeing. Check it again. 😅
It would have to be waaaaaaaay on the side!!
@@cgill4269 wouldn't touch her with a 5 feet long stick
If she marries that man better meet every expectation/fantasy that she has ever had because he will not ever be good enough for her and she will let him know it daily.
She won't sleep with the men this is why they don't like her
I can see why KS is so frustrated. A woman like this should be a married mom raising the next generation, not fumbling around in relationships.
Actually, it's kind of good that she has not married a Yonex yet. Without that therapy she would make a mess of it all. I do agree that she could have been help to the next generation had she been sane and logical. She is neither.
Honestly like Nas said…….shes in her second childhood. Shes not gonna tell Kevin that shes out here throwing it back.
@@SolitudeofaTiger deep
I dated a chick like this 1yr ago, before the holidays, before I knew ANY relationship theory- some of us guys learn the hard way, forced to look within and finally do the work after a bad break up.
I was 35, she was 33 (remember, I didn’t even know about the danger zone or else would have never considered her). Looking back on it now- I allowed her to become masculine, I was so green. She was into me in the beginning! We dated 4 months, only saw each other on the weekends.
In hindsight, piecing together her deception, her tattered story, and using the theory I learned from KS, AMS, Darius M, Rory XL, and some CW, it was a recipe for epic disaster.
The good out of this is that I keep masculine frame now, I vet potential serious partners, discard immediately, or do not even consider when they display masculine energy.
Currently, I am vetting a young woman I met during a work assignment near the Philippines. She’s showing positive signs- submissive, making my apt, spending money on dinner, making future plans. We’ll see where this goes.
@@bennyanthro4891
All the best
She's wondering why she's not a wife and confused. But she has turned down three engagements. You're not a wife because you don't want to be married. Simple
CAUSE SHE CRAZY
"I'm too good for them, I deserve better because I'm a wonderful person"
I bet if you asked her exes they'd say "she isn't a wonderful person" she thinks she is"
My last gf said the same thing...I'm laid back, cool, chill, easy going. She was the most difficult, self centered, arrogant, narcissistic self absorbed twat I've ever met.
To sum it up: I said "you're as rigid as a steel i beam"
She said "i'm bendy like a willow"
I said "ok, you're so flexible, didn't you complain just last week that there weren't any grill marks on your bbq chicken breasts"?
She: so I like them that way.
Me: if you were truly flexible, it wouldn't matter right?
Her: grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
That's the problem: they can't see the forest for the trees.
🔥
@@muskokamike127 BPD/narcissist
@@Underratedcommentator Yup, I didn't know what a narc was until after I typed in google "what does it mean when your gf does ______" and 4 million hits "signs you're dating a narcissist" lol
"No matter what reason a woman gives for leaving you, the real bottom line is because she thinks she can do better than you." I don't remember definitely where I heard that, but I've never forgotten it.
@Darryl Brown It's crazy because I just read where Gary Owen's wife is divorcing him. He's the white comedian who made most of his material ABOUT being married to a black woman. At 40 years old and after 18 years, this dummy thinks she's going to find a better man than the one she's with. If she does, I hope she also buys a lottery ticket at the same time.
Chris Rock talked about this in one of his routines. "Did you ever catch your woman lookin' at you funny? It's because you weren't her first choice."
She's never your girl, it's just your turn.
FACTS!!!!
Yes, and better can be by herself. ALONE!!!
The more of his videos that I watch, the more I TOTALLY understand why he (sadly) passed away from a heart attack (or stress). These women are SO damn frustrating, they just about give me a heart attack and I’m not even in the conversation! He was. And he CARED!! Can you imagine how much this hit him? How patient he had to be? The man was a f*^king Super Hero!!! These women dug under his armor/power and caused his death (metaphorically).
😢☮️
Imma still blame the govt
He was eliminated
Young women need to watch this! We may have a lot of options while we are young and in our prime but it can all be wasted if we don’t make the right choices .Then turn 38 and single af.
Good for you young sister
Preach Sista
Excelent. But most modern girls that are in early 20s até already destined tô be Alone at 38 and fornever. Too much rockstar status nowadays, they cant choose. And no sane dude are gonna take seriously a girl that slept around for years and os proud tô be a slut.
Yes girl. I am 25 & married. Didn't know how crucial these times were but it makes sense why I naturally had the urge to get my husband as soon as possible whoever he was.
So true!!
She has the goofiest vibe. I can't take her seriously, especially at 38.
Childish behavior mentality 38yrs mindset of 18 years ...
She is the one to talk to the 🎤. You smell me 😂
She is a little goofy......something is missing up there.
She seems crazy, a lot of erratic movements of the hands, eyes, neck and head.
Thats real talk
I am soooooo glad I realized in my 20s I was the problem and got therapy!!!! 15 great years that I almost gave away.
Congratulations
commendable!
congrats and respect
Ggs
Happy for you🤟🏻🤟🏻
Married to the system! On point.
The Government has replaced the father, husband, & God. You don't need a man, you just need Uncle Sam.
The masonic system
A horrible shame
Thank u
FACTS!!!!!
The ugly truth
I love this channel I’m a 24 year old AA female and, I learn so much from this channel. I’m learning how to be more feminine, less picky, how to submit to a man and let him lead by being the man. Thank you so much, I hope more young black women watch this channel and take your tips/advice along with finding a man that can lead. ❤️
@Vic Wilson I have not met anyone as of yet pls.
Well at least you have taken your time to find out more about your target/goal and what it is he wants. Just keep at it and you will be married, its only a matter of time.
Play it how it go my bby 🤝🏽
@loveunique , I totally understand.Learning to co exist with a man is important. Being more feminine is being a wear of how others experiences you, communication and cooperation. I see my mom at 68 and not being married, body breaking down before retirement age , being difficult to deal with , having unhealthy emotional incest with their children, recognizing her opportunities have stopped, going to doc appointments alone, the men she be interested in arent interested in her, willing to leach off anyone for financial gain ( because she had this since of independence of not needing a man because of government assistance), last not building anything on this earth. Is eye opening and sad to watch.
@@abderrahimyoestoy3100 that was corny lol
I was once…engaged to a woman like this. Utterly unaware, and completely identifying with her education and profession. She was uncooperative and condescending. Once I saw how she treated servers in a restaurant…I caught a glimpse of my future and was OUT!
You sure as hell dodged a bullet there brother! I hope and will pray that you find a lady with the kind of attributes that you can spend your life with her appreciating and reciprocating.
Sounds like a cop, they are the most condescending.
Yep, that's a clear sign.
@@johnpopoff7950 you are there
The server part is a dead give away
I really miss these conversations every week listening to Kevin Samuel 😢.
back in my younger days I loved older women because I thought they were more mature. until one of my older homeboys told me that, that's not really true. and boy was he right.
Facts. It’s true. I just like sex with older women Cuz usually it’s no strings attached. They make better side chicks sometimes
That was thought also... And they are Mature in comparison....
They tend to try to manipulate the younger men they are with.
Older women are like raisins. Younger women are like grapes. Thats my experience.
@@graysiren They do try to manipulate, but they're very direct about it. Once stand your ground they will do tend Cooperate.
"Why is getting with a Man so complex?"
Because no matter what a Man can bring to the table a Woman's nature is to ask "What else you got?"
because today's women are never satisfied......it all started in the 80's with a book "don't settle" and they took that shit to heart.
@@muskokamike127 now it’s the men’s turn to not settle lmao
This 👆
These women come on here and try to say the right thing to not get hung up on instead of keeping it real.
Cause theyre scared of Kevin n his boldness, notice the constant stuttering and pauses...they finally dont wish to look uneducated, crazy it took all of this exposing and examples of reality for any of them to start thinking that way...imo breaking down women clearly kinda works if you know how to be calm and move like the Godfather...im takin mad notes 🙏🏽😈
@@LliamMoore yes...wish I knew this yrs ago but life is all about growth and understanding.
I assure you, I kept it real. I was surprised he spoke to me for so long to be honest. It was not my intention.
I believe she was truly being honest with her situation and his evaluation. First time i have seen someone really listen and take things in.......
@@AliciaDJaDavis You do know a man at your level, income and age with a passport can find thousands of 20yr old females south of the USA. All she has to be is a housewife, no MS degree needed.
She's basically saying she been getting pumped and dumped by the ones she desires and as a result it distorted her perception of reality and the level of men that she was really qualified for to begin with.
So true. But OUCH!
Bingo
But @ 38 you think this girl would have learn her lesson now right? I guess not! It clearly shows that she is going for guys that do not value her the way she values herself.
Pump and dump. ⚡️⚡️⚡️
Yes. Pump and dump the hot guys which she knows she won't get 5 minutes of their time if she doesn't sleep with them that night. Meanwhile, make the good guys wait months for sex.
The problem, good guys start realizing this. They value you based on what others are paying for you and they value themselves based on what you do for others. They aren't thinking "She must really like me because she's waiting 3 months to sleep with me." they are saying "Chad got her in a week, so she'd bail on me for him in a heartbeat."
Sorry lady, once you've giving it up on the first date once... that's your value from then on. Maybe when you are 25 you might be able to claim you've never been with anyone else or waited months with the 2-3 relations you've had previously. However, no guy is going to buy that from a 38 year-old.
I used to want to die alone because of my bad experiences with men, but now I'm currently dating someone who makes me happy, and we plan on getting married in the near future! I'm glad I took a chance with this one.
It was just emotions. If you really wanted that for yourself you wouldn't of given him a chance. This shows you shouldn't make decisions based on emotions only.
Poor guy dealing with Chad & Tyrones leftovers
Stop the cap
Go ahead and marry, the tax bracket is better, also buying a home and possibly a business from home, that's three tax credits right there. $8-18,000 and children, that's another big tax credit. Stop fukn the economy up shacking and living promiscuous, defaulting on loans, mothages, quitting jobs, letting cars be removed. It's the economy but everyone wants instant gratification and POOF it's gone.
@@MK-hw2ir and Keisha's leftovers, she just didn't get around to it.
Damn, it’s unfortunate that SOOOO many good looking, functional sisters in the community are in this exact same seat.
It is unfortunate. But it's our reality. I'm the woman in the video so that's why I'm commenting.
@@AliciaDJaDavis it's interesting you reminded me of many women I dealt with in the past. I wish you well.
Exactly bro. Black women are hands down the most beautiful women on earth. Check em after 40😍. But the most irrational snd impossible to deal with. Continuously moving the goal post and zero accountability toward black men
@@AliciaDJaDavis you are beautiful! Don’t give up Queen
Cuz they’re slow
In a man’s eyes, a woman is 1 in a million.
In a woman’s eyes, a man is 1 of a million... Men love unconditionally, Women “might” love you only under the conditions that you provide something.
Man are fallen and women are corrupted...it is a singleness problem...
Exactly. Men are willing to die for the same women who will drop them because “it just wasn’t right”.
They want to be pedestalized, then lose respect for any man who pedestalizes them.
This is one of the wisest comments I've seen and I couldn't agree more 👍🏿👍🏿
🤣😂 umm 🤔 sorry but that’s not true sir.
She admitted she’s a jump off. “I’m cool” “I’m agreeable” “Guys really like hanging around me” “once they hang out a few times, then they go back to their exes and begin a relationship!” There’s nothing exceptional about her. She’s very attractive physically, stops there.
She’s not stable. Any person that comes on this show isn’t stable
She looks like mc dowell the father from coming to America. Shes not that attractive.
You can’t make this shit up.
Exactly, Dorian?
@@tylerromero6572 yo said the father from good times
I see why she is single... she’s lost and extremely misguided to be damn near 40. She’s like a 12 yr old in an adult body.
Most young adults (but especially women) and women under 55 are in reality adult toddlers >>> being in any way responsible or being held accountable for their actions is not even a consideration in their scrambled minds.
It's called Total Delusion. These women eat up disney movies and the media.
Dam I missed that. I thought she was younger then that 😬
Rightttt .. she acting like kid with a " I'm a Queen complex " , she is nuts.
Thats most my sisters
I’m a married 29 year old. And I love how he puts everything into reality. Thanks !
I wanna be like you, I’m 29 about to be 30. I have a boyfriend and hopefully will be married before March (didn’t propose because I have to meet his parents, they live 2000 miles away)
@@princessgumbo You following the advise Kevin is preaching?
@@m1stern00by I also know when to stfu lmao, I’ve never been a confrontational person but I am an honest one.
@@princessgumbo Thats good just keep it up
"I'm very agreeable!" As she is contrary to everything he is saying... arguing and qualifying every answer.
She really needed this talk. It was a form of therapy.
Really is.
Wow, two years later and I still know a dozen women just like this. They’re now in their 40’s. Still single but now mothers linked to each other.
It's kinda funny how the "sexually incompatible" crap worked out for her. Today she has to settle for somebody to be with her so she doesnt die alone
She gon settle for that plastic.
@@DamienChukwuka 😂😂
The problem that Kevin doesn’t address is there are so many available Black men willing to sex these women whenever they need it. Having too much choice makes settling for marriage a huge sacrifice for women. A woman today can have 5 to 6 dudes to get her fulfillment. There’s a guy for sexual pleasure (might be broke and useless), a man for financial gain (might be older and married), a man to bring to a family or work function (he might be the non commitment guy), and a guy that helps her vent and talk through her issues (he’s too feminine for her). Women have too many options today.
@@whisper2284 That is true but for the most part that's not what women want and those options start dwindling as they age.
@Kobe Bryant you don’t even have to be good looking let’s be real, when a guy has bank in this day an age he gets to choose
This might be my favorite video of his. Respectful and tangible.
You can SEE in the way her eyes were darting back and forth that she was searching for answers and had NEVER taken inventory of herself.
her eyes makes me think she is bat ish crazy
She was starting to realize her entire life was a lie.
@@duanegarrett4900 She is.
Most of us never or hardly ever take stock of ourselves & even when told by others the first thing we tend to do is completely reject it all because we most likely didn't solicit their perspective of us
@@duanegarrett4900 I should have realized that sign by the crazy ish that I was with
"The sex wasn't good." Do people not realize that this can change? Technically, this has the same skill vs talent dynamic as any other endeavor. It starts with communication. Tell the guy what your preferences are. Or teach him a new trick if you need to. And be willing to acquiesce to his requests too. And figure not every encounter will reach new heights. Some might be routine. Most might be routine, especially in a long term relationship. Sheesh!
That high school/college sweetheart she was engaged to dodged a bullet when she broke off the engagement. She's 38 talking to KS with her dog snoring in the background and no prospects. Sad.
When a woman says that it is code for the man has a small one.. not enough to satisfy her .. and that isn't something that is going to change.
@@hv3115 Ding ding! I've also met my fair share of monogamous guys who are trash at sex, and have little inclination to get better. Why would you stay married to that? You'd eventually cheat.
The one thing I respected was when sis was honest about sexual compatibility. "To thine own self be true."
@@hv3115 i agree bro. So why accept the engagement ring? She already knew what it was. She not good ppl, she's garbage and extremely shallow.
@@hv3115 sometimes no matter how big you are she still will cheat regardless cause they are emotional delusional narcissistic emasculating creatures. No matter how you put it. They don't care about no man. Even if you're going through something they don't take accountability and always make it about them instead of simple communication.
At 23 minutes into this conversation, he told her the most important things she needed to hear!!
THIS IS sad; either she is truly delusional or she's so calculated so as to waste a man's time, even though she KNOWS she wants to be alone.
She’s delusional moving with stupidity. Look at her facial expressions ☺️. God protects babies and fools. These crash dummies say all the right things for you to hear , but they don’t mirror their actions. She’s basically knock it dwn till you get tired and keep it moving.
She even wasted Kevin’s time. You can tell she doesn’t take anything seriously.
I’m not saying it’s right but men does all the time!!
@@zenasalem6340 only if she is ugly shawty
I don't think she wants to be alone, and i think she wants her own kids too.. problem is she thinks she's too fine and no man is measuring up to her expectations.. seen many like her when i was growing up
Damn dude.... you are brilliant in your analysis of women's shortcomings.... the problem is all women think every guy is someone who they will be "settling" for, instead of just falling in love with a good man who will love them back
The worst part is they all feel like this way, no matter where they are in life..
"The common denominator in all your problems is you." It's true for her, and true for me.
“You always need to be above a man and the guys above you won’t deal with you”….that was deep…whoa lord.
I felt that..
Hi, the guys above her see what she is, she will not see what she is and the outcome is as Kevin tells it.
Classic.
Take care M.
These videos make me so grateful for my down-to-earth, moral, kind, and strong wife.
My grandparents weren't the most educated but they were wise and experienced. Owned a few juke joints plus a family farm. My grandma has 4th grade education but can sew/make clothes, operate heavy equipment, raise animals, discipline in finance but above all a great housewife-mother-grandma-great gma and an awesome down south soul food cook. She put her husband first and together they did right by their children and future generations. 3kids- 30 plus grand kids, plus several great grands all doing good. That's what they take pride in their big smart strong men and sweet soft spoken-firm beautiful ladies they reared up.... We lost a true treasure in Kevin it's a shame the ones who want to help get ridiculed the most. If we can't have rational conversations as adults and speak about what's plaguing our community as a whole then how can we heal the wound completely. The sad part is they never talked about how he held men to a higher standard and all he did was give women the real game. I bet Steve Harvey had a nice time cashing them checks from them book sales that all them women bought but not once he mentioned the truth in thinking like a man. He gave y'all what y'all wanted to read. But nevertheless I care for my family and only do right by mine as we all should be as a collective we gotta be better
“No I’m not insulted, I wanted to be a therapist.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀
😂😂😂🤣🤣
Thank God she is not
😂😂😂
Wouldn’t be a good one
They actually believe that we are not worthy of them. But the truth is, they aren't worth what a man would bring into their lives.
For real it’s sad
I feel like I'm running a marathon listening to this gal.
This is Golden. 👑 Samuels
Salute !
It's not settling. It's accepting a person's flaws as we all have them.
There’s no such thing as settling, if nobody settled 99% of folks would be single.
Hi, she picks the best dress can and accepts them, flaws and all.
Otherwise she will die alone with a cat!
Her facial expressions throughout the session was “damn he speaking facts!” 😂
facts hitting her like mike tyson uppercut
Her eyes darting back and forth were making me a little seasick.
This woman is a living embodiment of the Husband Store joke.
Few years ago there was joke making it's rounds that went as:
A store that sells new husbands has opened up, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates:
You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights. The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!
So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband.
On the first floor the sign on the door reads:
Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs
She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where the sign reads:
Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.
'That's nice,' she thinks, 'but I want more.'
So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:
Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking.
'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help With Housework. 'Oh, mercy me!' she exclaims, 'I can hardly stand it!'
Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.
She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor , where the sign reads:
Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
PLEASE NOTE:
To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opened a New Wives store just across the street.
The first floor has wives that love sex.
The second floor has wives that love sex and have money and like beer
The third, fourth, fifth & sixth floors have never been visited.
Lmao!
💯
Yoooooooooo . This straight FACTS ! 🤣💀
LMAOOOOO! I'm curious--in the wives store, what's the description for floors 3-5???
@@Midknight06 no one knows. But I will tell you what it’s not - wives that are feminists, overbearing, condescending, narcissistic, princesses and full figured.
Look what happens when the guest isn’t crazy and argumentative lol. Kevin was really reasonable and gave the hard truths respectfully. This conversation was a good listen 👌🏾
Such a beautiful black woman who gets rid of all of her chances at happiness.
If we were the slime balls we get made out to be, we’d be happy she was still out here and open, rather we feel sorry for her and more so for the men she’s done wrong. Another black family (wealth generation center) lost.
@@caseyjakemorris women who behave like this leave bodies in their wake. Good chance an orbiter "dissappeared" from her life after she led him on for years. She dgaf though.
@@deeplorable2913 beat broke and bloodied. GD shame man 😒
Kevin’s 100% correct. This type of woman we all should run from. Pride cometh before the fall
“Do you want your daughter looking back at you with your own eyes?”
Kevin is always respectful, truthful and firm.
Truth can hurt but it's cleansing and helpful.
Pain is cleansing
Her only problem is she listens to her unhappy married friends and she believes that because they’re unhappy in their marriage, then she certainly will be unhappy in her marriage. Get away from your unhappy married friends. Get away from your unhappy single friends.
When people get together and talk, the default for most people is to complain. So on the surface I'm sure it seems like these people are miserable and they must hate their partner. But no. They don't. They're just complaining. I highly doubt her friends are actually miserable in their relationships she's just reading it that way because women like to gas each other up without even realizing that's what they're doing. The friends are keeping her single vicariously live through her.. do you want to have a single friend to go out with occasionally. But they aren't leaving their marriage. If Beyonce was all about the independent nonsense she says, then she wouldn't still be married. Don't listen to your married friends who are telling you how horrible their life is but aren't changing it because they're just complaining. Truly miserable people change their situations. Don't be afraid to commit to someone because someone else you know is currently complaining to you about how difficult a marriage is.
"Men don't want to deal with The cherry is at the top attitude... You deserve to be on Do not date list." ― KS
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This video was powerful!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥KS gave her ass a major wake up call
Watching her smile everytime he goes "You're an attractive woman..." then as it slowly disapears as he gets into what else she is speaks volumes about how a woman gets invested and uninvested in relationships.
And I say again. The culture needs this man! 👊🏿
lots of people present themselves to the world as the nicest person you will ever meet but behind closed doors they treat the people close to them like crap
So many educated capable Black woman who can have great marriages but they are so focused on perfection instead of Marriage.
They expect us to be perfect, but to put up with all their issues and problems go figure, talk about double standards.
@Oldie But Goodie I think the issue is that too many people lie to women and tell them what they want to hear. They add fuel and gasoline to a fire, instead of putting it out with water. Therefore, when someone tells them the truth they have a hard time accepting reality. Then once women reach their 30's they start panicking and become very difficult to deal with. Blaming the world for their problems. Like Kevin said, most women find good people in their 20's, but they blow it.
They haven't a CLUE what it takes to be married for a lifetime. They do not want to work that hard. They want power & the freedom to spend money they didn't earn. All their lives they've been told they're "queens" & deserve it.
@@nelsonkingjr1 real talk....especially some churches they need to tell the truth from both aspects. Then over half the church wouldn’t be single or single mother’s.
One of the basis for my book SISTAH WHY YOU MAD? We are so "educated" but lack KNOWLEDGE in certain areas
Speaking Truth to Power!
This is another great one that needs to go viral. We are starting to see a shift in women’s attitude in real time. They’re starting to be more receptive and listening to the over arching points that Mr. Samuels is making.
Yes, we are....
And the answer to that is ....
Toooooooo late!
@@Markbell73 I wouldn't say too late. Masculinity and femininity is needed in this world. Right now the world LACK feminine energy and people are so cold.
@@ladiiyb I meant for most of these ladies over 30, whose attitude is starting to shift.
For them, the answer is toooo late!
Appreciate though. That was a good call. Love his exits.
Her: why do I need therapy to find a man?
Kevin: You need therapy, Period.
And she works in a clinic for children with family/mental issues. Has an issue with therapy for herself though...
Words of wisdom ladies! Without humility you lose, every single time. Impossible to please 💡 YASUHA💡 without being humble.
It amazes me when I hear women say I would only have children if he wanted them, but I bet if they split up, she wouldn’t give that kid to him since he wanted it she would keep it because now it’s a bargaining chip
I watch these videos and take in the advice! It’s still useful for a woman married for 8 years.
How?
Stop looking for attention from men outside of your marriage.
@@randomstuff2650 listening to the male perspective and self reflection.
@@noonecares808 .
Kevin, you’ve changed how I’m raising my daughter...
God bless you fam
Best Comment !
My guy fighting a losing battle with these woman better him then me
💯 Right, lol!
He's going to need therapy soon lol
@Kano lmaooo😂😂😂😂👌👌👌
This woman is just plain crazy. She may not belong to the streets but she don't belong in someone else's home either.
When I read her aura, its reads crazy on every page. Action packed with crazy. She's cute though 😂
That’s what I was thinking too.
It’s always the cute ones on goofy shit I think it’s crazy females think niggas really gon wait 3months to crack I’m out after the first month lucky I even waiting tht long tbh 😪🤷🏾♂️straight up we grown tf are we doing??
She is cute
Yes, Africa-cute haha
@@troy4108 bro a month? You're a better man than I. Tbh for me I give 3 hangouts. If she refuses to get in her knees by then im done 😤
This lady don't want to be committed to any man at this point she low key don't want to lose her youthfulness and beauty but when she fully hit the wall at 55 because she is still looking, then she will ask where all the good men gone.
She already hit the wall a long time ago. Women her age can have sex, but no one wants to deal with them anymore. And that's what these women want, a relationship. They can't get it.
I absolutely want to be in a committed relationship. I am not sure about marriage though. I have to work on a lot of things, but mainly myself.
@@AliciaDJaDavis be honest, you thought Drake or Future would have hit you up my now huh?
@@AliciaDJaDavis A committed relationship is marriage.🤦🏾♂️ Just say you'd rather rent a guy like vehicle's, because you don't want to put all your chips in one basket.
@@AliciaDJaDavis kinda of figured that much sis when you said you didn't want your own biological children. You seem like the type when you're in a relationship to constantly remind a man how much another man would want you. Can't play the field forever men want a wife not a college minded friend.
"Your non-black female counterparts are not this difficult" ... oh, yes they are!
Hell yeah they are! Lol
Atleast she’s willing to listen. Give her credit. Even though she is wildly misguided
My wife and I waited a year to be intimate just because we both agreed however we were only engaged for 5 months out of the 12 months we knew each other, these couples who get engaged for 2 or 3 years it’s just ridicules we did wait because we are Christians but honestly any more than 5 months and it wouldn’t be worth it if your going to wait till marriage no problem but maker that engagement short or break it off
She look like the kind of woman that looks for an excuse to make an issue for calling it off. Says she spontaneous but not at all. RIP Mr. Samuels. Your work was most certainly needed in these times. Meanwhile people say he hates women. This man has the patience of a saint to explain these things to these women.
Kevin is indirectly adding value to avarage men. Making this ladies to realize that even avarage men aren't easy to get
Women from around the world would be happy to grab these dudes.
She got told she is disagreeable and the first thing out her mouth was "I am very agreeable" 🤣
Lol... That was pretty funny. My bad. I just don't think I'm THAT disagreeable is all.
"Sees women as a prize" no ma'am no pedestal here you gotta be realistic here you wake up with morning breath just like everyone else you not special.
the whole engaged thing, every homie ive ever met tries to put a ring on the finger of every fling they get into
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
*10/25/22*
Logic: 999,999,999
Emotion: 0
Kevin. Sir, you are sorely missed.
Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated.
🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
38 she has no time to play.
She's already hit the wall, no chance she is getting a husband.
@F A no, just logical.
@@turdferguson5847 she can definitely find a husband just gotta go the therapy clearly and get het mind right but as far as children? That future looks nonexistent
@@PulseAlwaysEdits At 38 she is entering the time when most women complain about feeling invisible to the opposite sex.
@@turdferguson5847 she has time ... for a low value man
These women remind me of the Christmas lights in the drawer. Itd be easier to get a new set than to untangle the old one
I'd rather go surfing every day and DJ on the weekends than deal with a full time relationship anymore. Just fucks up my routine. Lmao
What a pity and waste. A beautiful decent woman but off the rail and too high expectations. Wish her luck.
2+ great men that put up with her and give her a ring, she dumps them both for the most childish reasons. I hope men steer TF clear of this ungrateful irrational lady.
She is not in touch with herself! She is immature and she thinks she's cute! She got a backup plan for everything. Good luck chick!
We're dealing a generation of spinsters gentlemen
Wow ...he broke her. She almost teared up with the truth he was smacking down on her
“Depending on the man…”
Means if he’s hot enough.
Yet they all freak out about cheating, but odds are, the men she hit right away were straying…
"Black women are the most engaged..."
Maaaan...ain't that the truth. There was a girl I dated for two years, when I was 18, and she left me for another guy. Four years later she wants to get back together after having a kid, and breaking off two engagements, going so far as to leaving one man at the altar.
I looked at her as if she was crazy and told her there's at least one guy, and his family, are probably gunning for her after leaving him at the altar.
I don't know what eventually happened to her but I definitely dodged a bullet.
All together now: "*Once you have bred, you are of no use to me*". Double points if you deliver it in a Darth Vader voice.
Lofl.....she's easy to get along with in a relationship but she's 38 and single.......38!!!! Actions speak louder than words!!!! Rofl
They don’t even hear themselves talk
She's deflecting and outright lying about wanting children. Her eyes got very shifty when responding to that question.
She’s a silent killer in a relationship. She’s not loud, not domineering, bitchy, conniving, controlling and etc. But she is the “this isn’t going the way I want so I’m going to do something to make him leave.” I’m going to cheat, whine and moan but in a non crazy woman way that is what she looks like she does. Which is so sad. Women today aren’t even worth it.
Yep
They really aren’t and it’s most of them. It’s actually sad
She's the perfect example of what hypergamy is. (Dating/marrying up in level/class) Women think isogamy (being on the same level/class) is beneath them. Hence, they view men who's socioeconomically equal to them as a downgrade.
I never heard of Isogamy
@@mentlinc It's real.
“Why do I need to see a therapistm??? I’m perfect.” Said by all women.