The 3 STEPS To Love Yourself COMPLETELY! | Marisa Peer
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- When you truly accept and love yourself you open up your world. You have the self-assurance to pursue your dreams, you move towards your REAL potential, and you become magnetic to others. Self-love is also the greatest armor you can wear - what can possibly touch you when you have an intrinsic sense of self-worth? Watch this video to learn the steps to love yourself completely.
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Marisa Peer is the author of 'I Am Enough' and creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy®️(RTT). Marisa Peer is an English best-selling author, nutritionist, relationship therapist, hypnotherapist trainer, and motivational speaker. She is using hypnosis for anxiety, weight loss, addiction, and overcoming fear.
She has spent over 30 years working with people including royalty, rock stars, actors, professional and Olympic athletes, CEOs and media personalities and has developed her own style that is frequently referred to as "life-changing."
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To the person reading this you are confident, bold, abundant and you know who you are. ❤
What a beautiful comment ❤️
Thank You!!
I know I am lovable and worthy and love myself but still what about when your husband reject you, never say love you or you are beautiful or doesn't even want to give a kiss and push away ? I learned to love myself and telling myself this things but I am in a marriage and I can't give that love to myself. A hug, love intimacy that I still want from my husband. How to deal with this in a marriage?
Some people feel hesitant to discuss feeling rejected with their partner. Others might have tried discussing their feelings but since the problem has persisted, feel reluctant to do so again. However, staying silent and tolerating or accommodating the situation will not make you feel any better. Instead, the rejections will only continue to wear away at your self-esteem and happiness. Despite how risky it might feel, bringing up the topic, as clearly and as assertively as possible is the only way to begin a dialogue about change and make your partner aware of the emotional damage his or her behavior is causing. - Marisa Peer Team
@@MarisaPeer @Marisa Peer Thank you so much for your answer.
"Think of what you most want to hear and say it to yourself." ✨
I love this tip! It has really changed my life!
That's wonderful ❤️
You’re welcome ❤️
@@MarisaPeer can you recommend a RTT therapist in New Zealand please. Thanks
This is key. So much easier.... 🤔 wait... I was going to say “easier said than done” but really it’s more like “easier longed for and projected onto others than said” 😂 ❤️👍🏻
I was broken by cruel, heartless bullies. I am going to heal myself by loving myself.
Love and light 🙏🏼
I hope life is good for you
That’s sooo amazing! It’s been just one month I’ve been listening to your wisdom Marisa. I almost died a couple months ago. I hated myself profoundly. I really feel ( I am) healthy, happy and people asking my family what’s wrong with Olga, I used to have the most negative feelings... just name it. I paid of all of my credit cards in a couple of months ( I’ve been paying those cards about 5 years. Credit score good.
Who ever is ready this, please don’t give up! It’s working. Don’t give up. God bless all of you beautiful people. You are amazing!
Thank you Marisa💕
That's wonderful ❤️
I wish i had a mother like you ❤.. I wish you would read my comment..thanks for being there for helping us ❤
It's missing an important point : people making you feel UNlovable and unworthy of love or respect. It's a common game some love to play and they can go very far in that direction ! It's not all about our mindset, it's also about the agressive and archaic ego-oriented world we live in.
my name's Shirley and u know the Bruno Mars song 'Girl you're amazing.....' instead i sing it to myself..'Shirl, you're amazing..just the way you are' ;))))
"Now go and find the right person at the right time."💡💡💡✨
Brilliant!... 57 and needed to learn this. Marissa, thank you 💞
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Don’t be worried about age. What is truly important is timeless-like wisdom. Nothing is more valuable than that. The distillation of lifetimes. This is why speech, writing, Marissa, and you are here. The tragedy is that so many people stop learning. Or indulge the wrong “distilled spirits” 😂🤷♀️ or other addictions... Like old programs that Marissa talks about. Much love. ❤️👍🏻
You are such a gift to this world Marisa. Sending you so much love and many thanks for helping us all heal the wounded parts ourselves 💕❤️. And, to anyone reading this, sending you hugs, and you are lovable exactly as you are ❤️
I am currently ecstatic with my life as single woman.I am productive working to develop my career, do what I always wanted to do without compromising other persons feeling. eg. Traveling, dining etc. It’s an awesome feeling : when you love and focus on yourself ; you get peace and clarity ❤
Perfectly beautiful.
Christ said .....love your neighbour as you love YOURSELF.
I have been on a downward spiral recently and I'm so grateful you provided this video. This is exactly what I needed. Thank you, Marisa!
That's wonderful ❤️
Accepting yourself and ending this self condemning struggle with yourself is the foundation of transformation ❤️ you can all do it! Believe in you power 💥
Beautiful comment xx
Remember Mary Poppins ! The way she looked at herself in the shop windows ! Marisa you are such a fantastic person ! I am so sad I did not know about you about 11 years ago when someone I loved a lot killed himself out of desperation because of polarity. I will enroll to become a RTT specialist to help other people
The first rule of love is to learn to love yourself, if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone🙏
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Personally, I never knew how true this was until this year. Working to love myself has really deepened my other relationships.
@@the360lifejourneywithaself5 Everyone gets preoccupied with love to themselves but forgets to love others. I thought if we learn to give love to others it will return back multiplied.
You are amazing!! So glad that you exist !! 🥰
You are lovable to the ones compatible with you. Your opposites will hate you which is ok. So choose people you hang around with...Bible says pick your friends because same feathers flock together. Plus, bible says marry the same yolk. So love happens among compatible people. First, know thy self so you'll know what kind of people who'll be compatible or have a lot in common with your core values and interest.
16 mins in was right on. My family was so mentally abusive to me and it made me feel unloved and un wanted on such a deep level that throughout my life it didn't matter what I did, all my relationships went south 2 months in. I'm 50 now and have been single and heart broken most of my life. I know I'm a great catch. I've always known that. But once I really feel in love with someone, I get scared I will lose them and then I do. no matter how much I try to pep talk myself and try to let go and have faith, it never works
Turn the tide 🎼
A girl I follow on Instagram posted a pic of a text saying, good morning beautiful, she said how amazing is it to waken up to this? I replied, even better if you say it to yourself in the mirror. Thanks Marisa for your hypnosis and meditations they're changing me where I need to make changes, so grateful that I found your channel. Much love xxx
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
Marisa Peer Team
In order to attract love you have to "FEEL" lovable. 💡
I feel so happy and content😊 Thank you dear Marisa for what are you doing to people who can’t afford counseling.
Your wisdom, your confidence and I believe you mean with all of your heart to help people. It’s been two months me listening to your videos, changes are epic! It’s working as long as I don’t give up. Once I gave up, but than realized I will have to start all over again working on myself. So I don’t give up! Learning to be companionate and forgiving towards myself. And in all honesty, it’s not hard at all. It’s actually very interested especially when you see changes in your life.
Thank you beautiful soul💕
I love Marisa's training its amazing I can't wait to be an RTT therapist because its going to help so many more people 🌸✨
It will happen in due time. Just keep believing and do all the best. 💖
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Thanks Marisa for all you do. You are brilliant! My life is extraordinary since I join your tribe. Much love Marisa. 🤗❤
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
I’m widowed&really struggling with online dating (of all things)?!🤦♀️,,,
one bad circumstance after another. Your videos have helped me understand it is time to focus on learning how to love myself. And at 62,,,never too late.
What a special gift you have, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all you do. I binge watch your videos💕
Wishing you all the best 💚
Marisa you heal our souls!! Greetings from a great fan of yours from Greece!
Thanks to your amazing videos you make such a difference on people's thoughts and life!
We feel finally enough!!
I love these long videos Thank you 💫
You’re welcome ❤️
My Gawd, Marisa... Once again you cracked the code!!!
I can’t wait to join the program and share with the team how I have experienced and seen others self-sabotage new relationships because broken people give away too much about their vulnerabilities.
We need to be healed first. My mind is blown with every video I watch because it is either applicable to me or one of my two sisters. 😳
You are a miracle worker!
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️ Looking forward to having you on board 💖 Marisa Peer Team
Thank you so much Marisa. I am so glad I found this teaching. I know now that my good and best is coming to me and children. Really loved that bit about feeling great about being a single mother and seeing my children as an asset and blessing. I decided to do that a few months ago and hearing you say the same just really cements it in. Thank you.
Marissa is so valuable that it
Makes me feel like human mortality is a sin, rather than thinking that the pattern a person is displaying in their life makes me feel like there is a reason and higher purpose to death. That’s literally the highest compliment I can possibly give someone. ❤️
Thank u so much marisa you have no idea how much of impact you had on me in the last couple of months. You changed the way i see my self, i am more confident, more fearless and most importantly i love my self in a way i never thought was possible. I can not find words to describe how grateful i am to come across your videos. I am kinder more compassionate and more understanding to me and to others. I do not wish and hope and dream any more to find some body to love me , i am waiting some body whose worthy my love because i love people royalty and i am expecting the same.
You are so amazing, thank you for sharing with us ❤️
Thank you for this valuable guidance it's much appreciated😊🙏❤
Marissa is a gift. I thank you for your life
Except that we are often controlled by our parents with their conditional love and we as children take that on as our truth. Once we become aware of "the lie" and forgive ourselves for believing it and living it, then we can work on loving ourselves.
Absolutely. Loving ourselves is one of the most important things. 💖 Marisa Peer Team
Your energy is so confident and beautiful 💖 Thank you for all the 💎’s!!!
Absolutely wonderful. Thank you. 🌹
Thank you Marisa!!
Why I feel so loved watching these videos of Marisa ❤️
Thank you to inspire me that i just composed a song about what you re talking about. I hope i can move it into the reality. You are so inspiring, thanks for being you ❤️🍀
Thank u so much Marissa 4 having ur You tube to watched I'm always inspired with all ur wisdom.God Bless u n ur family.
Thanks a ton Marisa!
Marisa, you are wonderful. Your videos help me so much.
Thank you for your lovely comment. So happy to hear that. Keep the good things in your life coming! ❤️
Marisa Peer Team
I thought I loved myself. But after a toxic relationship I realised I actually didn't. I was looking for someone to save me from I don't know what. But I gave him my power. He almost destroyed me. I have never hated or disliked my self. I was always I am who I am. But for that relationship I self hated. Self harmed. Never again...Now a year Down they track I'm finally learning to love me and save myself.
Thank you for teaching me how. It's easy to say love yourself. But we can't if we don't know how. Forever grateful 💜🙏
So glad to know that you have learned something from your experience and that you have already recovered. Why punish yourself for the toxic relationship when it's not your fault? You don't need the affirmation of others to feel love, you can give that to yourself. No one could love you more sincerely than yourself 💖
Marisa Peer Team
Lovely Ms. M! I’ve taken 2 of your classes w Mindvalley and it was so sweet that you popped up in utube….
… my friend from Hungary who took the class also called when I was listening…kismet! 🙏🏽
Thank you so much....I just love you...Sending you love from Canada.
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Thank you. Neede to hear this and it came with just the right timing.
That's wonderful ❤️
You are helping me so much! 😉🥰❤️
Thank you 💕
Thanks so much for this great video ,helps me alot .
That's wonderful ❤️
I love your work it has helped me so much!!
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
I love your videos and thoughts Marisa, lately I felt so bad, confused, unlovable, depressed, useless, indeterminate... As always... but I found one of ur trainings here on youtube and since then I knew that I have to change my thoughts to feel better.and I Really want to feel better. .. (Please excuse my english if there are mistakes,Im not native speaker)..And it is hard to keep thinking positively... But watching you helps me a lot... Thank you... You came to my life just in the right time... 🙏❤️
Hello,
Thanks for your heart warming feedback. I am glad to hear you found value in Marisa' work. Marisa shares an abundance of free resources and tools to help people grow and heal as part of her philanthropic goals.
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You’re more than welcome to join our I Am Enough community Facebook group. It's a hugely supportive group who are sharing their stories and support each otherfacebook.com/groups/iamenoughbymarisapeer/
Hope this helps.
Marisa Peer Team
@@MarisaPeer I ´m in :) can ´t wait ...thank you
That's wonderful ❤️
Thankyou so much Marisa. I feel a lot better just from listening to you. I am listening to myself more.
That is great to hear ❤️
Love all of these and recommended to all my friends in australia,london,israel and US
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
Thank you
This is everything 🙏🏼
This is amazing. I've been doing this everyday for ten days or so, and I have noticed a difference. Although, I do notice a dip back into old thinking, but with repetition, this will work. Thank you.
How are you doing....still persisting?
@@godislove8649 some dips here and there, but overall, it does indeed work. Much love to you ❤️
Thank you Marisa💜
You’re welcome ❤️
I love myself because I'm so strong that I can only admire at myself for that...😀
However we cannot force others to love us but we must demand respect.
So true ❤️
In the past I only was attracted to narcisstics....now that i'm single and i know why i picked them.....i don't trust myself enough to find the right person...but hopefully one day i can.
Shes the BEST
I love that you made a reference to “Seven Brides for Seven Brothers 😍.” I think that the song that you are thinking of is from the musical “South Pacific.”
Both of those are bomb musicals! Love 'em!
Think of why people want to pick up a puppy. Because it is smiling, wagging its tail, having a great time. People touch the puppy because they want to absorb that emotion that they see coming from it. Now look in the mirror. Are you exhibiting the same emotion?
Thank you so much for your videos...as a parent I made mistakes with my daughter and unknowingly I instilled fear because they were my own fears. I am correcting this and showing her the right way.
PS from Claire in Seattle..🌊Happy Summer…
I hope I'll get more details about loving myself first. I have so much to love about me to make my life better and the life's of other people, but I'm seem obsessed with wanting to get that love from the outside. It's so hard to be excited about myself more than the ones love I pursue. Even though I can do sooo much with my life and achieve so much right now. I still want to be in her life more than in my
What am. Getting here is love is a major thing we want and is given gracefully you Dont have to earn it. Since we need it though someone else could give it u do not have wait on someone cause u could still give your self and from that foundation someone can now come in
So true! You don't have to rely on others to have that affection, you can do it yourself. The more you have love on yourself and it fills up to the brim, the more you could share love to others around you. Also, love of one's self produces inner glow and radiance knowing that you are satisfied of what you are and have right now. 💖
Marisa Peer Team
Fanks 😍
Be the person you want to attract, be love, everyone needs love ❤️ filled your ❤️ #GodFirst
#bebeautifulyimperfect
I 100% agree x
Marissa your the best xxx
That is very sweet of you to say. 💖
"You might as well fall in love with yourself." 🤷💡✨
Best regards from Barcelona!
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Great Video. Keep up the #SmarterLinking
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
This information is good damn
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Marisa Peer Team
As of about a month ago I just recently was made aware of "clearing & blocks" so I'm now a little bit familiar with the subject BUT until watching this video today I was unaware that therapists are also capable of removing blocks on a professional level. I'm aware that energy healers are able to aid in clearings but I didn't know about being able to get clearings from therapists. ✨
I'm so glad it helped you gain clarity ❤️
That is ture,
The one thing I disagree with Marisa on is the anti depressant thing. Anti depressants and other prescribed medications are necessary if you are really down for at least 2 weeks, if you have anxiety which is a big problem, and your doctor has prescribed it because you really need it. Sometimes people need medication for a while to get through a terrible period in their lives, or because they have a genuine psychiatric illness. Even anxiety and depression are genuine mental health illnesses which need treatment. Anti depressants are usually part of this treatment. Yes, every pill has side effects, but that's why people need to keep trying different ones if the first one is not helping, or gives you too many side effects. Follow your gut instinct and usually a doctor who knows you really well can give you good advice.
Love her 👍💁
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Thank you Marisa,
You’re welcome ❤️
I want to meet you one day I live in Canada 🇨🇦 but I really wan to see you once in my life you are amazing person God bless 😊
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
Marisa Peer Team
I don’t have money to spend but I really want to do this course...how expensive is it? And how do I go about trying to figure that out when I don’t have control of my money...
I recently broke up from a relationship I think what you say is true. When I first met him I must have been happy go lucky and not acting needy. But then after a few weeks I felt like I was wanting to see him more than he wanted to see me. I don’t know what went wrong??? It lasted three years with me doing all the running. I tried to back off but he could see that I was putting on an act. Our relationship ended so abruptly he just stopped calling me. He didn’t even give me a reason. What did I do wrong. I would have done anything for him
I'm so sorry to hear this - it sounds like you were in a one-sided relationship that you are better off without. Focus on meeting someone who gives to you as much as you give to them - I wish you all the best xx Marisa Peer Team
Hi Marisa, love why you do. I have a question. When speaking affirmations, do you need to feel something or just keep saying it everyday until you believe it? I have been struggling with this concept. Thanks ❤️❤️
Fake it til ya make it, doll. Just keep saying it.
@@the360lifejourneywithaself5 Thank you for the advice. Love and Gratitude ❤️🙏
You just need to keep saying it, repetition of words tells your mind new information - the feeling will follow xx Marisa Peer Team
Hi Maria!) Can I start teaching and help someone to grow even if I am a bit damaged myself?) I used to feel terrible in the past but now I am almost healed by my own efforts and tactics!) I feel something like 7/8 out of 10, but used to feel 2/3 out of 10))) Should I wait until I will be my best version or I may start right now? I guess I have something to share because I have really seen my lows and now I feel pretty good!) I don't have any money problems but I think people will think that I am crazy or arrogant or something else)))
Yes, there is always a way we can share and help others - remember nobody is ever perfect :) xx Marisa Peer Team
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Marisa what is a good way to word statements of truth which revolve around other people, for example: "I am a pleasure to work with" or "people love working with me"?
The way you have worded those statements already is very powerful, and a brilliant way to frame the affirmation xx Marisa Peer Team
@@MarisaPeer Thank-you. I love that you bring ease to overthinking minds and make it straightforward. I really appreciate your energy.
Hi everyone! @marisa Peer do you give classes to people who wants to get fixed but does not necessarily want to be a therapist? If yes what are the fees ? An please send me the link
Thanks for reaching out. If you wish to seek therapeutic support/self development, I would advise booking an RTT session with one of our specialist therapists who can discuss your concerns further. You can book this using the link below:
rapidtransformationaltherapy.com/findaspecialisttherapist/bookingform/
Marisa Peer Team
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Marisa. Please what is the significance of the figures behind you?
How does this take to actually work?
One question tho - if no one in your life loves you , how can you convince yourself you are lovable because the way people interact with you will just keep reinforcing the idea ur not . Do you think it’s always 100% in our power? Like for example, I feel this advice may work gr8 for a socially confident woman whose just gone through a divorce or the avr healthy teen suffering from self esteem issues because it’s poorly supported self doubt that makes them feel like that whereas people who may have no one who loves them may take this very literally telling themselves they are lovable each day when they never experience love. This cognitive dissonance would be a lot to handle - I experienced similar in a very dark period of my life I was saying all the right things to myself, countless peptalks but I was still unbearably unhappy and stressed because those relationships with people just were not present
Where can I book a RTT session directly with Marisa? Thanks
Hi and thank you for getting in touch and asking.
Unfortunately due to Marisa’s online talks, teaching in schools and attendance at events, Marisa is unable to work with clients or take unscheduled calls. However, if you wish to have an RTT session, Marisa encourages everyone to get in touch with her Find A Specialist Therapist service where all the therapists have been trained by Marisa and come highly recommended.
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For other general inquiries, please use the website's contact form:
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Kind regards,
- Marisa Peer Team
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i have a mom ,when i was a teenager and met my first boyfriend for the first time ,she look at him and said you can get way better then her shes fat,sens i wa s3 my drunk father keep telling me im a woman im colored and one will ever love me ,i suffer sens i was 9 yrs old from anorexia bullimia and never been love by no one im chaging that
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Should you believe in tero cards
I found a healing cd by Marisa that was very powerful. I did cringe with this video when she said a man was Jewish so did not want his wife to work. I am Jewish and why did she have to say it is because he is Jewish. I never saw that growing up or with Jewish people. Perhaps it would have been better if she did not mention his religion as that has nothing to do with it. I think it was this talk. Obviously, he grew up in a family like that but nothing to do with being jewish.
Marisa, what if I don't want to hear words but just want someone to give me a big hug? I'm more physical than with words,
Tell someone. Offer a hug. First, hug yourself.
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This is a great question, I recommend you treat yourself well physically and still use words where you possibly can. Marisa Peer Team xx
I used to think I was lovable. Now, 7 years later, no dates, still single, no prospects...I feel truly unlovable.
I’ve never been able to love myself. I don’t even like myself.
I can’t look at mystery in a mirror
Keep listening to Marisa Thomas. You are lovable💕💯💕💯💕💯