What we get from over-giving and the savior complex in relationships

When you feel that your value depends on what you can give to others, you can find yourself attracted to feeling needed by others in your relationships. Do you find yourself in the role of therapist, parent, or teacher more often than not in your relationships? In this video I break down why we can find this attractive in partners, friends, and other relationships, and how we can shift out of this dynamic into healthier, more balanced relationships.
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[@gabrielguyenot3960]

Very insightful! I recognize the pattern in myself. I fill the role of teacher or counsellor in my relationships, usually attracting broken people. Never thought about it as a distraction before.

[@IntuitiveGuidancebyAlexis]

Absolutely so common and incredible that you are able to identify this in yourself! Thank you for sharing. I’m so glad this resonated with you 🤍

[@laberbla6466]

It is indeed reassuring to be with someone who is literally depending on you, if you need someone to stay.
But I can tell from experience that people still leave you.
It's a pretty common pattern I could talk about for hours. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[@IntuitiveGuidancebyAlexis]

Thank you so much for your comment! I’m so glad this resonated with you 🤍

[@Tochtlichicahuac]

Through self-inquiry, I arrived to some of the conclusions you share, and that codependency is rooted in the fear of taking responsibility, so we have preferred to yield our personal power to someone who we perceive as more trustworthy than ourselves, even if the other person is struggling and has shown signs of emotional unavailability and irresponsibility. This is the ultimate form of self abandonment; we become absent from our own lives. I also found that helping someone who needs to be rescued granted me an apparently deep sense of purpose, that I craved so desperately to mitigate the sense of deep emptiness. So, it is crucial to find our authentic, highest purpose, aligned to our soul signature, and so hopefully we will realize our innate, inalienable value, strengthen our core, to gather the courage to respond to our calling. Reclaim our power, proclaim our sovereignty, exert our authority.

[@IntuitiveGuidancebyAlexis]

Wow, this is so beautifully expressed! I am in awe of your self awareness and spiritual insights. This is so true! Codependency can give us a sense of purpose, and healing from codependency is really taking accountability for ourselves and keeping ourselves connected and fulfilled from within. Thanks for your comment ❤